Feminism has helped women gain things that once seemed impossible, or were treated like a luxury. The right to vote, access to education, the ability to open a bank account without a husband’s permission, the freedom to build a career and be your own boss. The list goes on.
But even after all that progress, there’s still a long way to go. Seriously, why are people still fighting over women’s bodily autonomy in 2026? And that’s just one piece of the daily sexism women still run into. It’s exhausting. It’s infuriating.
That’s why sometimes the best response is to vent online and say the quiet part out loud. The Facebook group Heroic Girls does exactly that, calling out the patriarchy with zero mercy. Scroll down for some of their best posts, and feel free to add your own thoughts in the comments.
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Mmm. When my grandfathers were born, they had no expectation of ever being able to vote. Equal rights? The rich keep the rest of us at each other's throats, distracting us from the real enemy - them. It's not a matter of men vs women or black vs white, but the wealthy vs everyone else.
Today, we’re lucky to have countless platforms where women can speak up and share their experiences. Whether it’s an online group or a protest that makes headlines, women have more ways than ever to make their voices heard. That kind of visibility makes it harder to brush real issues off as “no big deal.” And that matters more than you might think.
American memoirist, essayist, poet, and civil rights activist Maya Angelou once said, “Each time a woman stands up for herself, without knowing it possibly, without claiming it, she stands up for all women.”
Every post calling out workplace inequality or story about unfair treatment chips away at the idea that these issues are normal or acceptable. It reminds other women they’re not alone.
Not in the slightest. Harley Quinn (original/standard version of the character) is in a very, very dependent relationship with the Joker. She basically worships him and would do anything he asked of her. She's not really independent of him at all.
Load More Replies...But this ability to speak freely and publicly is shockingly recent. For most of history, women didn’t have these platforms. They didn’t have the vote or the education to make their voices count. Speaking up often meant risking everything, from social ostracism to actual violence.
Before feminism became an organized movement, women’s roles were largely confined to what men decided they should be. In many Western societies, women were considered the property of their fathers and then their husbands. They couldn’t own property or sign contracts in most places.
Education was reserved almost exclusively for men, and women who dared to speak publicly about politics or rights were often ridiculed or worse.
It's long past time that people, not just men, learn that "No" is a complete sentence. Whether asking a girl/woman on a date, attempting to force drinks or food on someone who isn't interested or any other reason, if the response is No, then stop harassing the person.
partially blaming the entertainment media on this one. Practically every movie and TV show that has a romantic subplot rams home the "lesson" to not take no for an answer and the way to "get the girl" is to relentlessly hound her until she gives in.
Hmmmm. I was brought up primarily by my mother. Nobody had to teach me this. Strange, isn't it?
Yet even in these restrictive conditions, individual women pushed back. Writers like Mary Wollstonecraft published ground-breaking works such as “A Vindication of the Rights of Woman” in 1792, arguing that women weren’t naturally inferior to men but appeared so because they lacked education and opportunities.
Wollstonecraft’s work laid important groundwork for what would eventually become the feminist movement, even though the term “feminism” itself wouldn’t appear for another century.
I never liked Barbies or any kind of human doll/baby doll XD I remember for a few years, some relatives would still give me Barbies as bday/Xmas gifts, and I would always perform "surgery" on them XD I preferred my dinosaur toys, my Transformers, and my GI Joes. I had a bunch of cheap shoddy horse toys too, and I used to play with them in the backyard - they were a tribe of meat-eating horses who had a hierarchical rule system XD They would go to war with rival tribes of horses (aka the horse toys I liked the least) and have grand battles with a lot of casualties. I was a strange child. XD
Maybe too much personal info shared on here, Lakota? Need someone to talk to?
Load More Replies...As great as the clapback here is, I'd have trouble not smacking anyone that said that to me in the jaw, if I'm being truly honest.
How would they say it to you in the jaw? I'm trying to picture it.
Load More Replies...The word “feminism” has French origins. French philosopher Charles Fourier is credited with coining the term “féminisme” in 1837. While it originally referred to “feminine qualities or character,” that meaning has long since faded.
The term didn’t gain widespread use in English until the 1890s. By then, women on both sides of the Atlantic were organizing in earnest, demanding the right to vote and own property. This became known as first-wave feminism, focused primarily on legal inequalities and suffrage.
Oh my word. So my comment got all those downvotes? Look, if you're doing physics at university, the majority of those in your lectures are male. Most such are heterosexual. That's just how it is. So, those who happen to be female are - well, rare and welcome (with a tendency to weirdness coupled with razor sharp minds - umm, along with everyone else in the cohort... 😬🤣). And trust me, I'm definitely right about the dress sense of the typical physics student. You're going to university to understand how the universe works - you think that sort of person is worrying about how to dress to impress in lectures? On special occasions, maybe - but otherwise? Pfft. 🙄
I don't think your comment actually got downvoted. Other random comments are getting this too, so it's probably a glitch.
Load More Replies...Why not both?! XD A dress with pockets and a pan of mac and cheese!
Load More Replies...The suffragette movement brought women together in unprecedented numbers. In the United States, the Seneca Falls Convention in July 1848 marked the official beginning of organized efforts for women’s suffrage.
Around 300 women and men came together to discuss the status of women and wrote the Declaration of Sentiments, which boldly stated: “We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men and women are created equal.”
From there, the campaign grew. Activists marched and protested, and some were imprisoned or lost their lives for their activism. Women gained the right to vote in 1920 with the 19th Amendment, while in the UK, all women over 21 could finally vote by 1928. These victories came after decades of relentless campaigning.
I'm trying to do my part, but it's been really cold out!
Load More Replies...Wait... Women can read assembly and set up instructions? Whatever next!
My sister (who has never been in a relationship/dated anyone of any gender, so it's not like she's relied on a "partner" for stuff) is constantly surprised and weirdly píssed-off at me that I constantly refuse to ask my ex for help with things like carrying heavy objects (like 40-lb bags of cat litter; I have 6 cats!) or assembling furniture, or putting large awkward things (like my Halloween and Xmas dog decorations) into the attic. I do all of that stuff by myself. I don't ask for help, I don't need help. What she doesn't really get is that, even during the 24 years when I was actually IN a relationship with my ex, when he was my boyfriend, I ALREADY was doing all those things by myself and never got any help with them XD But it started even earlier than that, because my dad taught me how to do things for myself and not rely on "a man" to open jars or check the oil in my car or change a car tire. Apparently my sister didn't want to learn those things XD Whenever she has a problem, she just relies on mechanics/handymen/etc.
Load More Replies...Second-wave feminism emerged in the 1960s and 70s, broadening the conversation beyond legal rights to cultural inequalities. This wave tackled workplace inequality and reproductive rights alongside questions of sexuality and family dynamics.
Betty Friedan’s “The Feminine Mystique” and Gloria Steinem’s activism helped galvanize a generation of women to question the limited roles society expected them to fill. The movement achieved significant legal victories, including the Equal Pay Act of 1963 and Title IX in 1972.
That's true. Back before those ladies, you would have to have your husband/father sign off on you having a checking account, a car, a house. It wasn't that long ago that was the norm.
THATS WHY IT HAS TO BE A MASQUERADE <- person who is totally chill about how Disney adapted Cinderella
Third-wave feminism began in the early 1990s, responding to what some saw as the failures and limitations of second-wave feminism. This wave embraced individualism and diversity, challenging the idea that there was a single way to be a feminist.
It focused heavily on intersectionality, a term coined by scholar Kimberlé Crenshaw, recognizing that women’s experiences differ based on factors like race and class. Third-wave feminists also reclaimed terms and symbols that had previously been used to demean women, turning them into sources of power.
As an alpha male I have to tell you that I find it very cringe when men have to tell people that they are alpha males themselves. I can assure you, as an alpha male, no true alpha male would do this.
As a wolf, I can confirm all of Nathan's statements.
Load More Replies...Why would us guys need experience if we’ll end up with someone who doesn’t know the difference?
Fourth-wave feminism, emerging around 2012, is largely defined by technology and social media activism. The #MeToo movement showed how quickly women could organize online to expose systemic problems in workplaces and institutions. This wave continues to emphasize intersectionality while using digital platforms to call out inequality in real time.
Yet progress remains frustratingly uneven. Women still earn less than men for the same work and face ongoing battles over reproductive rights. The fight continues, just with different tools than previous generations had.
"Read the full article" says the guy who failed to read the byline
Do not care try to take my masculinity away from me! I will throw a hissy fit it you try!
Oh heavens no! Not the exposed brastrap! GASP! I'm not looking forward to this nonsense when I eventually go on HRT... the fact that people think it's inappropriate to show a brastrap is wild.
Wait until it gets a little chilly and the níppareenos show, even through one's bra/shirt layers XD You'll get disdain and dirty looks from other women and unwanted attention/laser-focus stares from men. Wishing you luck on your future HRT journey and I hope it goes smoothly! <3
Load More Replies...Nope. Try domestic víolence, séxual hárássment, rápe, ábuse, discrimination in the workplace, and stálking/unwanted attention/verbal hárrásment. DV and rápe and all the other things DO happen to men (my father was physically, verbally, and mentally ábused by my mother) but percentagewise, those things happen to women far more often.
Load More Replies...Ahem. What's this nonsense about "men's inability to show and properly communicate blah blah blah"? 🤨 Take a leaf out of Professor Germaine Greer's book and stop talking about things you don't understand - that is, men.
Wow, wouldn't it be nice if men also did the same thing about women and female-centric problems and issues such as menstruation, abortion, etc.?
Load More Replies...As they say: Men are nervous their date is gonna reject them, women are nervous their date is gonna k**l them.
When I moved back home for a bit after college, I would text my bestie and also tell my younger brother. I'd tell them the guy's name, where I'm going, his phone number... Thankfully nothing ever happened, but better safe than sorry.
Load More Replies...I got my wife, among other things, a cobweb duster. Far and away her favorite gift this year.
I have an ostrich feather duster, and I love walking around idly dusting random things while being attacked by the cats trying to catch the strange bird. I wouldn't have been angry at getting it as a gift, as long as I could give you an automatic window washer.
Load More Replies...What "certain tasks"? Peeing while standing up? Getting teabagged?
So it's not that they think women aren't as good. They just think men are better. Got it.
Truth is that all people, men and women and all other sexes, prefer to hang out with people that they feel comfortable with, which most often. Is people like themselves. This is why affirmative action is important. We need all kinds of people in all positions so that everyone gets an equal chance.
No, men are the ones worried that their spouse/GF is making more money than they are. I knew a couple that were going to Mexico. She was in IT and he was a bartender. Guess who had problems with that trip. (She didn't & he did because it was her money being spent)
I mean, kinda both? XD But for me, it was caused/perpetuated/first inflicted upon me by my mother all throughout my childhood and teen years. Then I managed to date a guy for 24 years who was basically my mother in dude form! Good times!
I was always to not be a distraction, give way to other people, be polite and considerate, and never to confront people.
Load More Replies...Ha ha! Levels of misunderstanding that end up in perfect understanding....!
Nooe. That is the woman I definitely want. And that is the woman who currently loves me, and I'm absolutely fine with it!
My brother is a good egg as well, along with the majority of guys I've been friends with. But this shít *does* exist.
Load More Replies...That's Philomena Cunk as played by Diane Morgan. Watch anything entitled "Cunk on..." Charlie Brooker apparently has the writing credits, but Diane Morgan is a force of nature.
D**n it I am gay. Excuse me whilst I break the news to my parents.
It's... it's a slang term, Ace. Not a grammatical error. It's a meme/slang term purposefully used in the proper manner here.
Load More Replies...We say/do this all the time as a family when getting in the car. I'm not a girl, but I'm more than happy to join in!
Thinks "she's too smart for him"? Doesn't that mean "He's too dumb for her"?
The dripping candle is actually the most attainable part of this fantasy.
Load More Replies...And they were not wearing floor length skirts! Or aprons! And was there even one flowery bonnet? Nope!
Look at that! They're wearing socks, but one can still see the outline of their ANKLES!!! It's INDECENT! /s
Load More Replies...Some people really can't wrap their minds around the idea that a woman or girl can have short hair on purpose. Even hairstylists hesitate to do the cutting. (If you're a woman and you keep leaving the hair salon with your hair much longer than you wanted it, consider cutting it yourself first to a length a little longer than what you want and then going in to get it touched up professionally. They can't cut it longer.)
That's a shame, I have a treat for you and was about to take you walkies...
Is the treat enchiladas with mole sauce...? Asking for a friend.
Load More Replies...I prefer to be likable and charming. And after I demonstrate the alternative to people who irritate me, they too prefer me being likable and charming and understand that whether I continue to be likable and charming is entirely dependent on them not being irritating.
They've been that way their entire lives. You expect them to change now?
Load More Replies...We had a 'male first' succession law for our royal family. This generation changed it to 'first is first'. Good call!
Still a bit sad it took until "this generation" to get that changed :/
Load More Replies...I don't know of any woman (that I respect, anyway) who has chosen their partner by looks. They don't want eye-candy. They want a real companion. It's always given me hope for myself 😁
I'd like that, can I live in the hut next door? I'll make mushroom soup for everyone?
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het: I can probably manage the home made liquor. Can I join you? 😁
Load More Replies...Mine wouldn't have even made it into the pan before I go savage on them.
My male betta, The Stig, was a lovely pink-peach-cream color on his body. He was also the Crowntail variety, which means his tail/fins were gorgeously frilly. He had no issues with his non-manly coloration and fin appearance XD
