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Some people are allergic to fools. When they see others being treated poorly, or ridiculous statements being thrown around, or insults served without shame, they feel an urge to stand up and remind everyone that this world is a place for justice.

And if you've been an avid user on social media like most of us, you know how much nonsense is spilled there every day. Luckily, a fair share of people don’t miss their chance to share a social justice take publicly, because every illuminating, educating, and clarifying post helps.

And this Facebook page known as “Feminist Info” is a great place for putting a spotlight on the issues that matter but don't get talked about enough. This also means that the page has a wonderful collection of social justice takes spotted online, and below we selected some of the best examples.

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Leo Domitrix
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want to sell t-shirts that read: "I am more than a uterus!" but I'm sure the incels would burn my house down or something.

Jessi Lovely
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ooooohhhhhh society’s been READ

Gigi
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have gotten the question "do you have children?" And "why don't you have children?" for over 20 years. I had a terrible disease that prevents me from having them. It's a stupid, painful, intrusive question. And my husband has never, ever been asked those

Leo Domitrix
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my in-laws pushed it, my hubby (who'd had liquor that day) stood up and announced, "We're not having any, I got my balls cut!" (vasectomy) Aaaaand.... that shut them up.

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Alma Muminovic
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1000%. You just have to walk backwards from the laws to who passed them, it’s mostly white conservative religious men. What else is new world?

Roxy Eastland
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oooh, and if you have them 'too young' or 'too old' there's also a stigma. Also, don't have too few and don't have too many.

Monday
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well most men I know can't actually get pregnant and the whole fathering a child out of wedlock stigma is an entirely different beast.

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Leodavinci
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes... it's called slavery. Laws that control someone else's body violate body autonomy. Anti-abortion laws grant "rights" to the unborn at the expense of the mother's right to her own body. Granting rights to someone at the expense of another... or depriving someone of their rights for the benefit of another, is the basis of slavery. All anti-abortion laws violate the 13 Amendment. Also, the State has no vested interest (social or otherwise) in preserving a "right to life" for the unborn... because it has none in preserving a "right to life" of the already living. Several SCOTUS and state SC decisions have declared that the duty of police is to protect "society", not individual citizens. That's a real legal/intellectual stretch... since every society is composed of individual citizens. Without them, you haven't got a society... you haven't got anything. And here's a real kicker about those SCOTUS decisions... they were by liberal dominated courts.

Samyan Elrod
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this ... best explanation I've ever heard.

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Teri Manley
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's about politicians messing with things they have no right to decide there r worst things going on in this country they need to take care of that business instead telling women what to do about their choices

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    Aroha
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly this. My country (🇫🇮) offers many, many benefits and ways to support struggling people that I have not needed and hopefully never will. I still support free or almost free chemotherapy, insulin, other medicine, parental leave, day care, unemployment support etc. If my neighbour gets help because of my taxes, well that's money well spent then.

    I I
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    just because you dont want or need doesn't mean others lives wouldn't be greatly improved by the things you already have , like health care , housing , FOOD , i'm sick of the "i'm alright so screw you" attitude , especially when it comes from the religious , any religious person who does not practice what they preach should stop preaching

    Zobi123
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the States, this is a position taken mostly by conservatives. They don't care about an issue until it affects them or their family. People on the left though are able to empathize with people who are not like them and have problems that they don't have. They just have more heart!

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    Who Panda 420
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My state has a lot of high taxes people complain about butI don't mind paying because when I was down and out they supported a lot of programs that helped me immensely. I'm pretty much back on my feet because of that and have no problem supporting other people now by paying my taxes to help improve other people's lives

    Diana K
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I don't know how to explain to you why you should care about other people." ~Lauren Morril

    Will Cross
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But you see people don't want others to have a better life. Even when that means they get screwed as well. That's the reality of so many peoples mindset in this world. They want their own kind starving, homeless, uneducated, unhealthy, and uncomfortable. That's their stance when they say people don't deserve to earn enough money. People like that literally do not want better for anyone including themselves and it's just sad and inhumane to be honest.

    Juan Ghote
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like Daniel Kahnemans' idea that we should focus on the reduction of misery, we can do that through the above mentioned actions. These ideas won't make you rich, more money really doesn't buy you more happiness. Being supported by the above ideas will help alleviate aspects that cause misery.

    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It seems like there is this mentality of "If I don't benefit from it directly, I don't care." I'm not sure how so many of these people grew up to be so selfish. These are the same people that earn six figure salaries and panic at having their taxes increased because they may not be able to afford to by a new car every other year or get the fashionable accessories to keep up with their friends. I've never tried to play the popularity contest with people because there is no point. You're letting other people dictate how you should live your life and you are constantly worried about what other people think of you. How is that a happy life?

    Jessi Lovely
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always feel almost guilty asking for basic needs and being treated with minimal human decency. At the end of the day we’ve all been programmed to believe that we need to work hard to simply live

    Will Cross
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like you said, we've been manipulated and convinced that us simply existing makes us not valuable. We've been fooled, brainwashed into thinking that we do not deserve even our most basic of needs to be met if we don't do something for it. It's quite evil, wrong, and inhumane when you think about how we as a species have been conditioned to think that the way it is is normal. There should be no conditions on human beings eating or having the things we all need to literally stay alive. Forcing humans to abide by certain rules and using money as a way to control the things we all desperately need to stay alive and carry on day to day. To deny humans food, water, shelter, or anything else we need if we don't have money or enough money is horrible and completely insane to do to so many people. Yet not to many people see how awful that really is. Especially when there is enough food and water and the things we all need to maintain us all. When you really sit back and think about the systems put in place. You can't possibly deny just how messed up it all really is. Once you realize it and it hits you, it's hard to process just how fooled we all are when it comes to humanity and how far away we are from being decent to our own kind and people being comfortable, stable, and enjoying our existence and just wanting the things we need to live.

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    Mistiekim
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Does it directly effect me? No. That’s because I’m a selfish person who doesn’t care about anyone and loves to b**ch about how I have to pay taxes and get nothing out of it. I will vote for any politician that can lower my taxes regardless of how he/she might act or divide the country” I will never understand why people are like this. Or how to change that line of thinking. How about we demand change at the source (big pharma, college loans, etc.)that has put us where we are to begin with???? I guess greed really is the root of all evil.

    Mary Rogers
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember seeing a woman online who had no kids and wasn't planning to, wondering why she should pay to send other people's kids to school. No amount of explanation by others made the slightest bit of difference. I never had kids either and it never occurred to me to resent paying taxes for schooling other people's kids. In fact, I consider it a privilege and a duty. Because at the end of the day, we all pay for things we don't personally use, but we are certainly grateful when those services are available when we need them. I may have not had kids needing to be schooled but I have had other needs that I have gotten help with. And even if I hadn't, at least I did something to contribute to the betterment of our society.

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    Caro Caro
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes, just sometimes ... I would like to meet up with the person who posted this nasty and vile text and beat the sh!t out of them. Victim blaming and shaming is horrible.

    Ozzie Ogawa
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would smash their head and said "wear a helmet, idiot"

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    Brendan Roberts
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I repeat, women who are wearing a short skirt or sexy lingerie are not asking for it.

    Dilly Millandry
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed! A naked person should be safe ffs. It isn't the clothes, or lack. It is the piece of scum b'stard who is responsible.

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    Jenny Michelle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So... how are the men who get raped "asking for it"? ..some people are just sick in the head.. what a vile comment.

    Janet Miller
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are people still believing rape is caused by unbridled lust? Rape is a power play intended to hurt, humiliate, degrade & terrorize the victim, full stop.

    JMC5003
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, doesn't matter what you're wearing. That's a myth created by predators who are guilty of rape to shift the blame for their own actions to their victims.

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    Phil Vaive
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never raped anyone. You know why? Because I'm not a disgusting piece of human trash. Blame the rapists, not the victims.

    Cherry Lane
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wore a t-shirt and a pair of jeans. Fully covered. Didn't ask for it.

    Scagsy
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's terrible, I'm so sorry. Be assured that even if you were wearing heels, fishnets and a micro skirt you wouldn't have been asking for it either. Women should be able to wear what they want and not be afraid of these predatory scumbags that commit these heinous crimes. There's no such thing as 'asking for it' and anyone who tells you otherwise is a scumbag too.

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    Isaac Fritz
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The person who made the first comment doesn’t deserve to have their name covered. They chose to make a public statement.

    Ooo Ooo
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To "Take some responsibility" for being raped, would have to be one of the most sickening, statements I have ever heard in my entire life!!! If the impact of that statement has left me shaken to the core due to its absolute brutality, I cant even begin to fathom the impact it would have on a rape victim!!!!

    Becca Hammond
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At one point in my life it would have shattered my ability to think logically and would have caused me to react accordingly...and for good reason. I hate to admit that but regardless if you are a victim of this heinous Act or not, this piece of shits statement is getting a reaction from us ..BUT THAT is EXACTLY what HE WANTS is it not? I do not know why....Maybe He was abused as a child? ,bullied maybe?, or not have been raised around very many woman?, NO, that isn't it, it MUST be that his uneducated useless excuse of a boy is someone who was turned down one to many times? Which would explain his lack of any sympathy, conscience, or morals towards the victims...PLEASE , do not humor him...one day he will get what he is owed. We all unfortunately have dealt with this kind of shaming, and from the many source's that were supposed to protect us. Even though you will forever change, you are a SURVIVOR, NEVER FORGET THAT!

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    Full English
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's men who have the problem and as one and having two daughters, it makes me sick and very sad

    Sarah
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not men who have the problem, it's rapists.

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    Callie Ge
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was on my way home from work, I was wearing my work uniform ( zip up knee length dress with collar) a Filthy Apron , a hair net , joggers & socks, I stank of grease & hamburgers ( I worked in a takeaway food bar) I was 15, he was a friend of a close friend . Please tell me what was slutty about what I was wearing.?

    Cold Contagious
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing. It was always about him and his sick choice to hurt you.

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    “Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere,” the iconic words from a moving letter from Birmingham jail were written by MLK Jr. in 1963. The powerful sentence followed: “We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny.” While MLK Jr. was specifically talking about racism in America and the necessity of all people to stand up for injustice wherever they see it, it showed how we are all connected in many more ways than we think. So a simple gesture of standing up against injustice, whether online or in real life is incredibly important.

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    Who Panda 420
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a scary rash of people these days who believe it's politically cool to not believe in science in general

    Zophra
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! Like they somehow how some smarter insider information.

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    Stephanie Wittenberg
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Terrifying how many choose what to believe based on politics. Climate change isn't real, COVID-19 isn't real, plastic microparticles and an island of trash in the ocean aren't real, the moon landing never happened, etc., etc. And don't forget the world is flat, not spherical. Present them with data and photos and they'll claim it's all been faked. I am old enough to remember when AIDS was caused by "a lifestyle" and there was no such thing as the HIV virus. And another catchy slogan was "The solution to pollution is dilution." Never underestimate the power of stupidity.

    JMC5003
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some folks don't like to be confused by facts.

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    LW
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! I also cringe when people refer to those who reject the scientific consensus as "skeptics". They are not skeptics. Skepticism involves logical reasoning and critical thinking. They are denialists. Call them what they really are, not what they pretend to be.

    Aga S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't upvote this enough!

    Carrie Laughs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What did the jolly man do? He's real, don't lie to me! Seriously though, totally agree.

    Mistiekim
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just watched the mini-series V (from the 80s) for kicks and at one point all the scientists were outcasts, rounded up for brainwashing, or killed for questioning the visitors. That scared me because it could very well happen.

    Cold Contagious
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I loved V when it was on. I was very young, I need to watch it again. It was a great show! You're exactly right about how brainwashing can drown out the good guys and worse. It should be a real fear in this age, there are far too many underground and above ground groups actively working against the beliefs of science and history. If what has been going on since the pandemic began hasn't been causing people concern, then I'd be worried. I've never seen and heard so many things that have made me gasp in shock, as in the last couple years.

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    Terry Rex
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The climate changes all the freaking time. It's called the SEASONS! There is nothing that you as an individual can do to change the way our planet works. The government and corporations are the ones who need to change things. Like the amount of c**p they allow to be pumped into the atmosphere and water.

    Diphylleia Grayi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a better world we would be able to sue them for being a*******es and don't do anything for the things they could help to decrease!

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    Indra Servo
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Killing your rapist actually get you less punishment

    Brendan Roberts
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But the unconscious girl was obviously asking for it.

    Andrew Dunford
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    America seems to be sliding back into the Dark Ages! And you lot moan about the Islamic States treatment of women!

    K O
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    America continues to be more and more shocking. I'm just waiting for it to go full handmaids style

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    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Republic of Gilead here we come if the red states have their way

    Valley Girl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You need to tell me who your Commander is! Blasphemy!

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    Ansi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about that the rapist should have visitation rights for the baby. That's also f****d up.

    BlackestDawn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What about child support, is there any talk about mandating that as well?

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    James016
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is Alabama one of the states where a rapist can report their victim if she has an abortion?

    Milan Chleborád
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was that swimmer, right? Not gonna lie, I was really hoping someone would unalive him before he got out.

    Rose the Cook
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are women still living there? Time for a mass exodus.

    Ciara Stone
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm from Alabama originally, from a town of 5,000 or so people-yet there were 39 churches in our town. THIRTY F*****G NINE. Yet 0 abortion clinics that I could find. Draw your own conclusions about why this is a "law". My friend was raped and became pregnant, so we looked anywhere we could feasibly drive out of state to and back in a day (no money to fly) and we couldn't find one. She didn't want anyone to know. She later told me the awful things she did to herself to try to get rid of the fetus. Submerging in scalding hot water, punching herself repeatedly in the stomach HARD-then went even further and beat herself with a metal softball bat, trying to induce a miscarriage through physical trauma. She was planning to stick a metal skewer used for food inside herself, and if that didn't work, she planned to slit her wrists. To commit suicide. I only found out about all the things she did after she finally had a miscarriage and told me, while sobbing with relief, shame, guilt, disgust, happiness, anger....her emotions ran the gamut. This is what happens in Alabama. And this happens every day, we just don't hear about it.

    Dead Rat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel so lucky I m not an American citizen. I ve never seen a country going backwards in time. It seems that they are reaching for medieval era.....

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    Roadkill The Brave
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a Christian and this, just this. More people need to understand this.

    Oerff On Tour
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't forget that these politicians swear their "Oath to uphold the constitution" on the Bible. They don't swear to "uphold the Bible" on the constitution!

    Jon Borrmann
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me of Science-Religion. Science has questions that may never be answered, Religion has answers that can never be questioned..

    Zephyr Anthem
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus it's always one religion that makes the rules, regardless of the fact that some stuff are allowed in other religions. Plus as always, you're represented by the strongest/extremist/unreasonable/loudest side of your community (religious or not actually) so even within one religion opinions are not always homogenic.

    LH25
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. Even among Christian churches there isn't agreement. Is drinking alcohol OK or not? Dancing? All kinds of other things. I don't get why those who seem to want to turn the US into a theocracy seem to think it will be their "flavor" of faith that will be in power.

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    Jason Melvil
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But that's assuming these people give a damn about freedom of religion. They clearly don't.

    Id row
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Religious people are the worst kind of judgemental hypocrites.

    SoloDadof3
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a t-shirt that says something like this. And yet still some are offended by it!

    Kristal
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am upvoting this multiple times in spirit since can only technically upvote once.

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    Even though many people realize the importance of calling out the injustice, whether it’s racism or homophobia, there has been a disturbing increase in hate speech in the U.S. in recent years. A recent report by the Special Rapporteur on minority issues, Dr Fernand de Varennes, showed that the “efforts in the fight against ‘the tsunami of hate and xenophobia in social media’ appear to be largely failing because hate is increasing, not diminishing.”

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    "In many countries, three-quarters or more of the victims of online hate speech are members of minority groups. Women belonging to these groups are disproportionately targeted,” he reported in a speech during the 13th Forum on Minority Issues at the Human Rights Council in Geneva, Switzerland.

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    Nika De Beer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only pro-life until they are born

    BlackestDawn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So that makes them pro-birth, not pro-life.

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    The Scout
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is well known that for some people human life is worth protecting only before birth. After that it is free to be shot...

    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find it horribly ironic how pro-lifers foam at the mouth at women who have to make the difficult decision to have an abortion yet we never see or hear about these pro-lifers adopting or advocating for better rights for children and improvements in the foster care and adoption systems. I also don’t see ir hear these pro-lifers standing up for better gun rights in the United States. Pro-lifers thump their bibles and keep on mentioning how Jesus loves everyone yet it’s an absolute free for all after a child has been born. Biggest bunch of angry hypocrites.

    Tamra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are 100% correct. Pro-lifers are against a woman's right to choose what happens to her own body, but always vote against the things that would support her and an infant. Then they vote against sane gun control that would keep her child safe while in school, all the while holding up a Bible saying, "We need more Jesus in this country"! Biggest bunch of idiots I've ever seen.

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    grafxgal60073
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Pro-life conservatives are obsessed with the fetus from conception to 9 months. After that, they don’t wanna know about you. They don’t wanna hear from you. No nothing! No neonatal care, no daycare, no Head Start, no school lunch, no food assistance, no welfare, no nothing. If you’re pre-born, you’re fine, if you’re preschool, you’re f**ked.” —George Carlin

    Carol Emory
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And now that abortions will be harder to come by, there will be more kids in foster care including a major increase in kids with mental and physical disabilities.

    Mistiekim
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And funding for CPS and social services keeps getting cut. I just can’t anymore.

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    Leo Domitrix
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pro-fetus. Anti-women. Kids are jsut their PR gimmick,t he sick ba*tards.

    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    preach not practice , preach and judge = todays conservative Christian

    TrD
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sums up most of them but some of them do practice what they preach.

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    Jeff‍
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate it when people ban same-sex couples from raising children! it's not fair!

    UpQuarkDownQuark
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if you let a homosexual couple adopt a child they’ll turn them gay. Just like all of those hetero couples that turned their gay children straight! 🤦‍♂️

    Samyan Elrod
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh how sad that a child might be corrupted by those evil gays .... /s

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    Michael Davison
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not pro-life... It's about control of women's bodies.

    Jenn C
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    3 years ago

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    This might be true in some cases, but there are also many people who honestly believe that a baby is a human being.

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    Jayne Kyra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet all those homophobic f***s have lesbian porn in their history as well.

    Wang Zhuang
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I support the legalization of sex work, personally. If the parties are responsible and consenting, I see nothing wrong with it. But I have a question, how many of you would judge a person who has hired a sex worker?

    Micah
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can obviously only speak for myself. I wouldn't look at them any differently. They're paying someone for a service that doesn't hurt anyone.

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    Helen Witten
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only have compassion for sex workers as it sure as heck can't be easy at times.

    Katrina Wysocki
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same should go for those that shame homophobes

    Philly Bob Squires
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are probably their biggest customers!

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And their bank account and credit card purchase history as well.

    Remi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A sex worker is just someone who's doing their best to make ends meet. Should not be a point of shame. Also looking at porn on the net is a normal avenue of entertainment, just make sure you're watching ethical porn

    Michael Normand
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am OK with this. I have no shame. Ask an honest question you deserve an honest answer

    Carol Emory
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just had a conversation with someone the other day who was criticizing Miley Cyrus for being all sexed up and slutty a few years back. I said "What did you expect with her father being the way he is?" I always wondered why she was like that too after her father flipped out at nearly naked photos of her. Then I saw a promotional picture with him in it standing next to 5-6 buxom girls who had the equivalent of two postage stamps and a band-aid for a bikini. I thought, you hypocrite. It's ok for you to exploit other peoples daughters, but your little girl has to be as pure as the driven snow. No wonder the girl is messed up. SMH.

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    Everything is fascinating.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would hope my daughter would be the a** ole. Must remember to teach her to be more a** holeish

    Aeon Flux
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    However women and girls often learn that assholes use rejection as an excuse to become angry or/and violent.

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    Brendan Roberts
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We teach our 4yo son that no means no. At his age, we are obviously not teaching him about consensual sex, but we hope that our message stays with him into adulthood.

    Who Panda 420
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly, no means no covers so many situations. If kids learn to respect the word early then when they get older and in more serious situations that lesson still applies.

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    Aroha
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Be rude, stay alive.

    Ross Warren
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At this point, pouring the unwanted drink out over the guy's head would be justified.

    Jessi Lovely
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We shouldn’t have to be sssholes. First no should be taken with respect

    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    no really does mean no , i got the same when i didnt fancy a lager , wanted coke but get lager , now i'm the a*s as i wont drink the £5 lager i didnt want , just because i'm in a pub watching sport dont mean i want booze

    GenericPanda09
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't particularly mind being thought of as an a*****e by people I wouldn't want a drink with anyway.

    Katherine Boag
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A good phrase is 'its really weird that you would do x after I said no', just 100% put all the weirdness back on them

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to mention, a roofie can be out in a soda or water just as easily as in a mixed drink.

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    "Too often, hate speech is followed by hate crimes and violence," says de Varennes. "It can too easily prepare the ground for dehumanization and scapegoating of minorities, and for normalizing hate. We need to learn from history and place all our efforts in erasing hate speech from the online space."

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    Monday
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Prior to reading this post I never had the urge to put mayo on a slip n slide....now I might just have to buy a slip n slide.

    Greymom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And some mayo. Don’t forget the mayo😭

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    Jessi Lovely
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But also girls might like doing this. Maybe boys will be boys should be done away with altogether

    Leila Orozco Francis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My version of boys will be boys is them trying to skateboard off the roof, swinging from the ceiling fans, and annoying their sisters with farts.

    AngelWingsYT
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey i said skateboarding off the roof (or one of the many other things you see on fail/funny videos)

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    Brendan Roberts
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whip n slide, you say? I'm taking the day off with my two boys!

    GirlFriday
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother used to say, when my brothers were behaving badly, "boys will be boys, but they should not be monsters."

    Hobby Hopper
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And, to be fair, show of hands if you're a girl (or woman) and also think that sounds awesome.

    Fred L.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But it is used that way, and not just since yesteryear. The saying has to go and the mentality has to go.

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    Aran Lindvail
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dudes like that are part of the problem.

    PCW10101
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not part of the problem - they are THE problem. If you can't even rely on the average bloke to understand, its no wonder we are all so anxious alone at night.

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    Kristen Shriner
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The person your facetiming may not help you in the moment. But they are a witness who can give details about the attacker to police and also call police in that moment to get help faster

    Dilly Millandry
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Might reduce your awareness to what is happening around you. Have someone there but don't focus on them.

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    Jeff‍
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It breaks my heart to see women in fear of being abused on the streets while walking their dog. They shouldn't have to carry a weapon with them. They should feel safe in their own neighborhood.

    GlamourGhoul
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's basically saying that FaceTime calls won't deter him from attacking you.

    Elsie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's like security cameras the crime is most likely going to happen but at least someone will see it

    Helen Witten
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think any woman goes walking at night to put themselves on display for sexual propositioning unless they're an unfortunate pro. They are just trying to get a cab or get home after work etc. Shish!

    Valley Girl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like he takes this as a personal challenge.... What a creep.

    Gozer LeGozerian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone needs to report this creep to the police, it's probably not the first time he's has problems with consent and boundaries

    AngelWingsYT
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It will help apprehended the attacker faster

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    Donkey boi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wanting to do ballet, doesn't make your son gay. Wanting to be a cheerleader, doesn't make your son gay. Wanting to do performing arts, doesn't make your son gay. The only thing that makes your son gay is their attraction to men, something that neither they or anyone else can control.

    Turt_Le
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always found the notion that dancing is "gay", "girly" or "soft" ridiculous and that those terms are often used interchangeably is absurd. Why is it "manly" to shift your weight from foot to foot while looking bored and insecure? Is it such a "hard" and "hetro" thing to accomplish?

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    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The common stereotype that dancing and cheering are only reserved for women is absolutely mind boggling. The amount of athleticism, coordination, and sheer dedication needed is astounding. Denying anyone their full expression of self is flat out cruelty.

    Will Cross
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so sad. I'll never understand how or why people behave this way and do this stuff.

    Who Panda 420
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a teen my friend got kicked out of his house when he came out to his dad. (His dad said he loved him but wouldn't have any of that gayness going on in his house.) He moved in with me until he could find a place. My mom allowed me to share my room and bedroom with him. The hurt he felt was awful and to my knowledge he hasn't seen his family since.

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    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how any parent could deny their child the things that'll make them happy baffles me , especially if it's at no cost to them , it's being cruel to your child for no other reason than they are some thing you'd rather they where not , you didnt throw him out or cut him off but you really didnt support your own child in things that made them happy , like WTF??? who does that?

    Stephanie Wittenberg
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh so many do, and for so many reasons. My own father refused to pay for his daughters to go to college as there is no point in educating girls (they're just gonna get married anyhow). Had a friend whose parents withdrew their college funding because he wanted to study engineering instead of becoming "a lawyer, just like Dad." What they're wanting is marionettes, not children.

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    Jessi Lovely
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, these things don’t make you gay

    B181
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents allowed me dancing lessons. My parents allowed me to play with barbie dolls. My parents allowed me to study a "soft" science. I'm still a big burly straight guy. Some people are so caught up in their own fixed view of "masculinity" as having to hide any and all emotion, being as robotlike as possible, that they can't see that none of that is in any way related to femininity or homosexuality. My uncle was big and strong, played soccer, worked in construction. Got a sex change when he was...I dunno, somewhere in his forties. It's like cultural preferences and sexuality are separate things. Amazing.

    Jeff‍
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Every Child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child."- A wise woman.

    Stephanie Wittenberg
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stories like this just make me want to cry. I hope you have found the freedom and peace to live a life of your own choosing now. You have my best wishes.

    Tamra
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This boggles my mind. When I became a parent, I did so knowing that it would be hard at times, that there would be sacrifices to my lifestyle along the way, and that my child would likely have interests and ideas that differed from mine, and that, ideally, they'd be their own person. Never once did it occur to me to love them less because of this. This is YOUR CHILD. You love and support them no matter what - that's literally your most important job!

    Elsie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did they force you into football or wrestling to make you a man's man?

    Mistiekim
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes two sports with man on man action is definitely better than dance or theater to make sure you show how manly you are! It’s so silly - give your child joy!

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    Hate speech and bigotry aside, it’s impossible not to notice how judgemental social media can be. Too many people online and especially minorities have experienced poor treatment and harsh criticism. What makes it particularly hard is the fact that we as a society have a lot to improve when it comes to calling out injustice and standing up for those who are vulnerable. 

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    H M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Problem is...you can't tell by looking which are the nice ones and which are the monsters. No labels.

    Who Panda 420
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even when you get to know them sometimes there's a mask you have to get be hind cuz you never know who the real person is.

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    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i always try to give them as much space as i can , cross a road if able , usually out with the dog so i'll keep my distance anyways

    The Queen Of Upper Butt Crack
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's perfect. I appreciate when someone does that for me, it's like they are reassuring me they are no physical threat.

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    Fitz_N_Fartz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At night, if I come across a lone female, I walk away even if it means adding more distance onto my journey.

    Leo Domitrix
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone can be the predator stalking you. ANYone.

    GirlFriday
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are taught to treat every gun as thought it is loaded, and it is acceptable to treat every man like he is dangerous until he proves otherwise.

    Fiona Parky
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is actually completely thank you. Instead of being offended that we could be afraid of you, you need to deal with those men who are the reason we’re afraid of all men. We know it’s not “all men” but while it’s still “some men” you’re going to make us afraid. Get rid of the few and you’re not going to be looked at with suspicion. Blame them, not the victim.

    Lori Beauchamp
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brilliant step-kiddo showed me this and I concur. https://youtu.be/aEWk4T1GGyg

    Elsie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It all depends on how dark it is and how close your walking. I get nervous when it's real late and anyone is too close

    Troux
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That difficult decision...do you risk being rude to a stranger and making them feel bad, or risk getting murdered?

    Mao Nyghtstorm
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not a hard decision for me. I have a family to get home to, a son to raise. I will gladly be the a**hole if it means my son has me another day and my wife has me to come home (or wake up) to.

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    PCW10101
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your self awareness is of great comfort.

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    Fiona Parky
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I poured a beer over the head of a guy who put his hand up my skirt. At least everyone around me seemed to be on my side. He was the one oxtered out the club.

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His was a kind of concealed crime, while yours was more noticeable—-though yours was justified and his was not. Next time, just tell the guy, really loudly, if he grabs your breast, or any other part of you, again he’ll get slapped even harder. Expose his crime, shame him, let him suffer the censure of others and be a total failure with the rest of the women in the club. We don’t shame people like this enough, in my opinion. Don’t be embarrassed, make a big noise and tell everyone what he did. Turn HIM into the pariah. He deserves it.

    Michelle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t know if any nightclub that u would be able to shout that at the top of ur lungs and anyone further then 3 feet away would hear…F***k most u have to be like 6” away form to hear people shouting at the top of their lungs… This would be ok for a restaurant or maybe some pubs…but not nightclubs

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    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    should of broke his fck nose , make him think twice about doing it again

    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I slapped a creepy drunk guy on the street who grabbed me by the arm and wouldn’t stop telling me that I was pretty. This guy was a drunkard and would always catcall and say really creepy things to woman yet no one ever told him off. I was scared, yet the people who were watching looked disgusted when I slapped this creepy guy when I was defending myself.

    Rider
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First time I went to a club (19) had a guy put my hand on his crotch. I shoved him across the floor and would have given him a right hook if my friends hadn't grabbed me. Found out later he did it to my friend too.

    Alan Green
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fair play for slapping him but I can't imagine many people saw the assault, i mean, why would everyone in the club be looking at you/him? BUT more people would definitely have heard the slap. So i think people were just having a normal reaction. They stopped what they were doing and gasped/stared as they tried to work out what the commotion is about. I would like to think if everyone saw the assault they would have stepped in.

    Amy S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A man grabbed my breast in front of a bartender in a bar, bartender sniggered. I pushed thr man away and told him to F-off. The bartender told me off for swearing and making a scene even though I KNOW he saw the grab because he sniggered at it.

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    Agent 8433599
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would like to say, good on you for slapping him!

    Melanie Burlock
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have high fived you for slapping him. In high school, a guy grabbed my a*s (like a serious grope/squeeze while we were doing a stunt for drama class. As soon as I had my hands free, I retaliated with a kidney shot.

    Deborah
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "if you touch me in a way I don't like, I'm going to touch YOU in a way you don't like"

    Michelle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had a guy do that to me at the bar. I spun around and elbowed him hard in the solar plexus winding him I stood there screaming at him about not touching women like that and such. Once he was able to breath again he screamed WTF B!TCH!!?!? I told him he doesn’t get to sexually assault someone and no pay any consequences. You don’t touch a woman u don’t know inappropriately. He told me he thought it was OK because he saw two close personal friends of mine grab my @ss that night (my friends and I had a consensual game going on to see who could grab each other’s @ss the most that night) so that meant he could. I asked him on what f@cking planet is it OK to grab a chicks @ss ok because u saw other people u don’t know do it?!?! That’s rapist logic. He ran away fast after that. Then I was almost kicked out of the bar by the owner because he didn’t see buddy grab my @ss only saw me hit and scream at him and “it didn’t matter what he did to initiate, it was all my fault for responding.

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    Everything is fascinating.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our healthcare is a mess, still better than the US but needs to be more socialised now that the government can afford it

    Barbara Vandewalle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The government cannot afford anything. The government has no money of its own. All of the money the government spends is money taxed from those who work for their money.

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    Wilko Lunenburg
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What makes them think they are welcome?

    Mokayokok
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No no, you still have to take the Trumpers, don’t be on here rolling out how you have an actual society where women aren’t constantly being shitted on from someone’s dumbass beliefs - AND - Don’t you dare come on here and act like someone shouldn’t have to be living on the streets due to hospital bills. You’re taking the damn Trumpers, I’ll be happy to shoot each one out of the cannon, IF they survived, then they’re all yours - brace yourself for the dumbest, most ignorant simpletons to ever live.

    Al Connor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We don't want any of you in Ireland! and f**k off with Catholic Ireland as well

    Jerry Mathers
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was gonna say this list forgot to mention they don't Trump-supporters in Ireland (a huge plus) but you, Mr. Connor, stated it much better.

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    ADHD
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    5, we dont want you here

    just me
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can I come even if I'm not a Catholic Trumper? Is it difficult to bring a dog and cat?

    Terry Rex
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Number 2 was Obama not trump.

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    At the same time, it’s important to dig deeper into the reasons behind a judgemental attitude. We reached out to Dr. Lise Deguire, clinical psychologist and author of a multiple award-winning book “Flashback Girl: Lessons on Resilience From a Burn Survivor” who shared some eye-opening insights.

    In most cases, Dr. Deguire argues, those who judge others tend to be just as harshly judgemental about themselves. “In my clinical experience, the people who are most judgmental towards others are secretly the most harshly judgemental towards themselves. Inside, these people are highly self-critical. It is no wonder then that they treat others the same way they treat themselves, critically and harshly. Frequently, when these people learn to be more loving and accepting towards themselves, they also become more tolerant and sympathetic towards others,” Dr. Deguire explained.

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    Beth S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    @Miven's post... I think this is a valid question and didn't deserve all the downvotes. People on here need to realize that sometimes sarcasm does not come through in writing - especially if English is not their primary language. Maybe just nicely explain instead of getting their account suspended with downvotes.

    ᶜʰᵃᵒᵗⁱᶜ ˡᵉᵍᵃˡ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS! I had that happen to me! And even if I just post a comment that's rude, please let me know, cause Im sure I didnt mean it/know it :)

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    Roxy Eastland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure how often women actually did 'sleep their way to the top' but I bet it's a tiny percentage compared to the number of women men described as having done so as the only explanation for how she got where she was while being a woman.

    Alicia M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was offered a job promotion in exchange for sex when I was 19. My boss was my dad's age and told me (before his proposition) that I reminded him of his daughter. 🤮

    Brady Kimball
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have to unlearn soooo many thingssss

    Barbara Vandewalle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have worked with some of these people. It puts tense over the entire office. AND everyone knows what is going on. Office joke was if you cannot fine E- - - - look under his secretaries desk.

    Henry Shane
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    I see a few bringing up that some women have slept their way to the top. While this is true, why is it bad? Like if they are independent and confident enough and have that healthy of a view on sex and use the men trying to use them..how is that bad or wrong. It's like prostitution, it's only bad if she is forced to do it...if she is doing it of her own free will and people are willing to pay who cares...just like sleeping to the top, if you can do it and want to do it, it's not wrong.

    IDK_Something
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The blame and shame is thrown at the woman rather than making the men accountable for their part in it. This post is highlighting that part we tend to overlook.

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    Mary Lou Gemmer
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    3 years ago

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    Short skirt and all……y’know……

    IDK_Something
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sarcasm? In case it is, to prevent downvotes, you might find a way to mark your comment as such. Using '/s' is common shorthand for sarcastic designations. Text doesn't always come across as such, no matter the intention. If it's not sarcasm.... Why?

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    Eb
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    3 years ago

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    The unspoken underlying assumption of course is that leaders and having power are male characteristics.

    The Cute Cat
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    3 years ago

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    Both is the douche bag..

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    Jeff‍
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women. Don't. owe. You. Anything.

    Mykidsartrocks
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I gave birth to a miracle baby, I had PCOS and endometriosis. As soon as she was born my mother told me to go ahead and start trying for another. Literally within two hours of birthing my child. She was 14 when I finally had to have a hysterectomy and up to the day of my surgery my mother kept telling me to have another child. Seriously people, stay in your own lane. If you want six kids then have them. Of you don't want kids don't have them. If you only want one then only have one. Don't judge people for their life choices. I tell my kids that the only thing they owe society is not to be a criminal.

    Wilf
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife and I don't have children. Whenever someone asks us why we don't have children (and it happens frequently) her answer is always "for reasons".

    Robyn Bowns
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All of these statements are moot because the one that matters is the last one. No explanation necessary!!!!

    Stefan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And married (or in couple) men why they still don't have kids.

    Jessica Dwyer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You forgot one thing… My parents did not know how to raise me properly. They had other things on their mind so I have no idea how to raise a child

    Remi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because of environment. Because of calculated decision based on health finances and plans for the future. Because of the body horror involved.

    Sarah Gershaw
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone asked me that, I'd say "I hope I never get pregnant or have kids. Ever."

    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my daughter wants kids , she teaches , she cant afford to have a child

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    Ivana Brtan Šimić
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi. I also never had an abortion, but I support it. We need to have a choice

    Terry Rex
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can choose to keep your legs crossed then.

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    Charlotte Grace
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi! Never had an abortion. Have three kids. Totally support abortion and my sisters x

    Lady Goldberry
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nearly had one. Didn't go through with it. Glad I didn't. Still support it.

    Mama Penguin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hello. I was baptized and raised Catholic. I've never been pregnant and I fully support abortion. Eat my shorts, Paul Joseph Watson!

    Neil Dowling
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately he's from my country, nobody I've ever met doesn't want to punch him

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    Tobias Reaper
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it is only women who should have a say in this as its their bodies they should get to decide as a guy i wouldnt like someone telling me what i can with my body

    Juan Ghote
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I fully support women having dominion over their body - they have the inalienable right make the decision themselves and need to be fully supported throughout.

    Brenda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never had an abortion. Do have 2 kids. Still support a woman's choice

    Hex Gurls
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi. I want kids someday and i support abortion. F**k pro-lifers, they just want control and will throw pissy fits if they feel their hold on womens autonomy they’ve held on to since extremely sexist times is slipping

    Hex Gurls
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    also you aren’t prolife if you don’t support bills that help mothers/ reduce healthcare costs/ childcare

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    Sinead Kenny
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As below I'm with Bellala. Hi I never had an abortion but I support it and I have a child!

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    At the same time, judgment hurts people from the inside out. Dr. Deguire explained that people's judgment and criticism of us feel absolutely terrible, sometimes even devastating. “When this happens, the first thing to do is to notice your own pain and distress and to treat yourself kindly. It hurts, plain and simple. Having compassion for your pain will help you bear it.”

    “Once you have recovered from the hurt of being judged, it is good to remember that anyone judging you that harshly is probably in a lot of pain themselves,” Lise said and added that awareness may help you to move beyond the hurt of the moment.

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Accurate observation, and assessment, I’d say.

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    MellonCollie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read this term for the first time yesterday in an article, and I thought it was very powerful. It makes the message come across much better that these people in no way choose to be in that situation, but were forced into it. 'Slaves' is a much more passive term, 'Enslaved people' actively portrays the circumstances.

    Fitz_N_Fartz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very interesting. 'They are slaves', or 'They are (en)slaved people'. Both are equally descriptive, yet one is a name/noun but the other describes the situation they are in, very powerful.

    Aqsa Azam
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my psychology teachers does this too. e.g. instead of autistics, autistic people, instead of schizophrenics, schizophrenic people

    Norah Reilly
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Referring to people as "slaves" rather than "enslaved people" robs them of their humanity and makes them objects to be bartered.

    Victor Botha
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well in all honesty, that is exactly what happened to them and has been the situation from the very first time people became enslaved and were therefore slaves. A commodity to be bought and sold much like livestock.

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    Brendan Roberts
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like that. That slight rephrasing makes a huge difference.

    Mohsie Supposie
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... won't let us refer to SLAVES as "slaves" ...... Looks like you have not learnt anything!

    Roxy Eastland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, putting the word 'people' into the description is so powerful.

    Csaba Hegedűs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would it be identity in the first place?

    Troux
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because "slaves" are property. The intent here is to stop talking about them as property and instead talk about them as people who were treated as property. It's like the difference between being "Joe's wife" vs "Amy, who married Joe."

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    Nika De Beer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No matter how much everyone recycles, corporations will always produce the most pollution

    Eb
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, but let's also be honest that they're doing it making stuff (mostly fuels) that we consume. In a capitalist society, choosing where you spend money is yourost powerful political act.

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    SoloDadof3
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, hear me out here. Consumers properly dispose of waste, so how does that waste end up in the oceans? Most of the consumers did not put it there. Stop blaming the consumer and start looking at the companies dumping it all instead of processing it correctly!

    Mary Rogers
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Part of the problem may be that we decided to ship our plastic recycling to other countries like China. Turns out most plastic isn't recyclable, even with that little symbol saying it is. So what do these countries do with the excess plastic? It's doubtful they have the same regulations like we do that requires them to securely go in landfills.

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    Rob
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But cooeporations produce because we consume so one leads to the other

    Josh Cutts
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Part of this though is that climate change is not the only environmental issue. Even if those companies were to substantially reduce their emissions, human beings would still need to dramatically reevaluate our fundamental orientation to the nonhuman world.

    Everything is fascinating.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those corporations only exist because you buy their stuff. Complaining about BP producing the emissions while driving a huge gas guzzler is to miss the entire point.

    Chris Jones
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only have a small gas guzzler and can't afford to replace it with an electric one (which actually isn't the answer it's being promoted as). Until very recently there was no viable alternative to heat my house (still unaffordable to most) . Gas guzzlers are for sure a bad idea but stop blaming the end user when there has been far too little choice and corporations have been getting away with shi-t because it has been in their best interest to leave things as they were for decades whilst making them extremely wealthy.

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    MarioRossi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The emissions of most of those 100 corporations are due to power plants. The energy produced by these plants is used by common citizens. So if we recycle, compost, go vegan and use less energy overall we'll pollute less. https://peri.umass.edu/greenhouse-100-polluters-index-current

    AverageWeeb 🇬🇧
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That isn’t an excuse for inaction. What you choose to do to reduce your carbon footprint does make a difference.

    Gozer LeGozerian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't remove the individual's responsibility to act with sense. With no consumers there would be no corporations.

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    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My home country of Scotland was the first country to end period poverty by making tampons and pads free in all public places like schools, restaurants, museums, youth centres and even pharmacies. Now I live and work in the US and freaking have to pay for them—it’s pitiful.

    Tamra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally aside from the post, but I've always dreamed of visiting, and maybe living in, Scotland. To me, it seems like one of the most beautiful places. You must miss it very much.

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    Lori
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women's sanitary products cost SHOULD be deductible through medical insurance, and not taxed.

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Post Office tried. For free. Certain COVID denier assholes during a certain f****d up administration put the kibosh on it. At least they’re now allowed to send out free home COVID tests.

    凜린Kat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LoL!! We need to upvote this more

    B181
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We got (a set number of) masks for free in Belgium. And I'm not exactly a great fan of our inept and inefficient government, but at least it's slightly more functional than whatever passes for a government in the USA these days.

    Jenn C
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    B181 they did give out govt funded n95s at grocery stores, but it took almost a year. But places like the library gave masks away, and a neighbor sewed masks and set up a free mask box in front of her house

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    Terry Rex
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tampons are only necessary for women and they also sell pads for that.

    Al Padilla
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure we can really rely on the "government" for reliable advice, information or even provision of medical necessities. It's sad, but Biden has actually been more successful at silencing Fauci (or actually getting him out of the media) than Trump was. "Only" 1 million plus dead in the US alone, which is several-fold higher per million population than any other "developed" country. Distancing, masking, and all other demonstrably effective harm reduction modalities are being reduced, minimized or discontinued, not because that's the wisest course, but rather because polls show the populace in the US has "COVID-fatigue" which might influence the next cycle of elections. Members of either party will vote to do whatever they believe will keep them in office, not what should in reality be done.

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    Mama Penguin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The song Daughters by John Mayer describes this well.

    kaycee14
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always thought this song was horrible! "Girls become lovers who turn into mothers.." implies girls are only worthy of kindness because they'll grow up to be useful to men. Women are more than a vag!na and uteru$.

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    Carol Emory
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or in my husbands case, his mother was the one that saved them from an abusive a**hole.

    SoloDadof3
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try being a solo father of 3 children. I get very little praise for doing the best I can. A solo woman of 3 children has a HUGE support system, shelters, grants, government assistance programs. I even often get nasty comments because I do outings with my children and often get asked why the mother is not there, or hear accusations that I might be doing something to them because I am a man. I believe in equality, but it will never be until we, as a people no longer teach racism or sexism. (Yes, it is a learned behavior and not a genetic trait!)

    niniiking
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a real and serious problem in our society! BUT wrong place, wrong time!

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    Squirrel Girl
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    single parents are amazing and strong. it's as simple as that. (edited for spelling.)

    Pezor Zass
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i mean, yes, but this isn't a strict gender issue. Mama's boy is an insult to boys in the same way. Not saying it's not shitty; saying it's shitty all around.

    Angel Runyan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't relate my mom is the one who left lol

    Henry Shane
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Daddy issue don't mean you had a bad dad, it's something else and it's gross af.

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    H M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or a medical system that doesn't charge...doctors here do that. Free.

    Mama Penguin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because those ignorant assholes seem to think Planned Parenthood is just about abortion. And even if it was, they should still leave people alone.

    stacyh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve never had an abortion yet have utilized Planned Parenthood’s service numerous times. When I was a teenager scared to tell my dad I needed birth control, they provided it. When I needed multiple cancer screenings in my early twenties, they provided them. When I did have insurance and needed an affordable pap, they provided it. PP is an amazing organization.

    LH25
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many of the women I went to school with relied on PP for birth control. You know, so we were less likely to face an unplanned pregnancy.

    Lizz Lor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And PP isn't just for women...men can go there, too, for sexual and reproductive health needs...STI testing & treatment, prostate exams, etc.

    Callie Ge
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They want to defund it simply because they offer abortion as one of the options in dealing with unwanted pregnancy. What is completely ignored is all the other services they offer in regard to womens reproductive health.

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Planned Parenthood merely informs and helps give support to women with no support system. It doesn’t force or influence, but only assists if someone who has made their decision needs it/asks for it. Look up Margaret Sanger, who helped start PP, and you’ll see she had good reason to be concerned about the woeful lack of assistance with, or even understanding of—-especially by male doctors—-gynecological and other women's life and health issues, including baby care and parenting instruction. Hell, some of it is STILL a problem today, specifically make doctors ignoring female patients complaints and writing them off as things like hypochondria or hysteria.

    Adrienne Mcginley
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Planned Parenthood helped my parents find out why they were infertile. Back in the late 1950s!

    abby smink
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to mention access to birth control and good sex education is exactly how you avoid the abortions they hate so much.

    Blackheart
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had a friend who found out they had cancer and were pregnant on the same day. Luckily, everything worked out, but I am sure she could not have kids if she were dead.

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    Jason Melvil
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The issue is more that somehow a lot of the people who say that "happens to men too" - don't seem to actually do anything about it except mentioning that to a woman when the issue is raised. They are usually the first to ridicule other men who try to talk about the issue. In other words - if the only reason you mention that it happens to men is just to try and silence women - you're still a !@$#!@

    Something
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    International Women's Day has been referred to as International When Is International Men's Day Day. (International Men's day is on November 19.)

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    René Studer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get what she’s saying but honestly the phrases „you will NEVER find a girl that says this“ and „WE understand basic empathy“ implying that men don’t, immediately made me not want to listen to her.

    Everything is fascinating.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NEVER? If a guy is pretending only men feel suicidal then he should be educated. Let's try to feel empthy to ALL people and stop the gender wars,

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    Justme
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *at a breast cancer walk* “it happens to balls too!”

    Diana K
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Empathy is lacking as a virtue in so many people these days, and that causes/exacerbates so many problems in this world. I Wish the world would wake up, and learn how important it is to foster empathy in those people who don't have it naturally. I believe it should be taught as its own subject in school, for starters.

    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    empathy is lacking these days , it seems like peoples own problems prevent them from seeing things from another's perspective , sure you find it shitty paying £100 to fill your car , others a living on £100 a week , perspective should = empathy , it doesn't these days it = not my problem

    Shelp
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a so-called friend that firmly denied the fact that sexual assaults happened to men too. I see the point but sometimes it is justified to remind these basic facts

    Carrie Laughs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find this so weird... it's like they don't read, watch the news, see any of real life. Blinkered to the extreme. This isn't new, men have been victims as well for as long as humans have existed. Speaking up about it is definitely newer but it beggars belief that people would think that half of society could remain unmolested. Haven't they seen any of the news about Catholic priests molesting choir boys and so on? Effing hell this first came to light decades ago!

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    Lizz Lor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men are more successful at killing themselves but women attempt to do so more. Men tend to use more lethal forms - like a gun...whereas women are more likely to consider the person who will find them and/or have to clean up the mess so they choose cleaner methods - like overdosing, which is a less successful method.

    Tigerpacingthecage
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep because women are more or less forced since birth to learn to always be caring about other people. Even if you are suicidal and expect to be dead and gone when they find you - so nothing to gain for yourself.

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    Jenn C
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because it "happens to men too" doesn't make it any less terrible for either gender

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    MAL
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This man could have been our president. Every time I think about that it pissed me off. LOOK WHAT WE COULD HAVE HAD, AMERICA! I'm proud to say I voted for Bernie every single time I could.

    Phyllis Turbin
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Repubs would have blocked everything he would have tried to achieve.

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    Jo Johannsen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now, if he a) means it and b) does it.

    Diana K
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He is a single senator, and he is the one with the constantly unpopular opinions (amongst other politicians, not amongst the general public). Does he mean what he says? Abso-frickin-lutely; might be the only American politician that ever does. Can he do such big things all by himself and without the support of ANY OTHER SENATOR? No. But, that's hardly his fault, now is it??

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    Tofu
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why. Is. This. So. Difficult?

    AngelWingsYT
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If only he was in charge. He takes 0 bs

    Leodavinci
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop pork barrel projects, unnecessary military spending, and end "low bid wins" government contracting as they always have cost overruns.

    Leodavinci
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, put an end to "black budgets" . Those are budgets for an agency/government projects where the amount is secret for "security reasons."

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    Mayrene Chester
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get the stinginess of billionaires. What are they worried about? That they cannot afford food if they get taxed?

    Al Padilla
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If only I could believe Bernie Sanders. What he says is great, until it isn't. When he was running in the presidential primaries, he made big news by suggesting "Medicare for all!" Sounds great, but he made sure to carve out the all-inclusive, comprehensive, zero-deductible, lifelong free health insurance given to senators, members of congress president, VP and their families. That insurance continues even if they're thrown out of office after one term (or maybe even if impeached prior, though I'm not sure about that one).

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    Something
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know it's been shown that a (not advised by a man) smile can lift someone's mood in the short term, but in the long term, won't it condition you to feel sad when you smile?

    Cherreka Wirth
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No because happiness is really just a series of chemicals being released into our bodies. That's why depression is a thing. It's an imbalance of those chemicals. Things like exercising, petting a dog, or simply smiling releases endorphins, which make us happy. It's not our mind trying to tell us we are happy when we aren't, we genuinely become happy. Because of the hormones. At least that is how I understand from the very very basic information I got in psychology 101. I could be wrong.

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    Ovata Acronicta
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked retail management for a spell. One of those days involved taking in an order of plants pre-spring, from a guy who rolled up to the back door to drop them off. It was -14F, and ideally we would finish the paperwork and take in the pallets of plants as soon as possible so we weren't all standing at the open door in the freezing temperatures. Instead, the guy doing the delivery told me I needed to smile, and the older male employee with me agreed. Mfrs it's -14. Give me the fing paperwork and go shove your opinions up your bum.

    FABULOUS1
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have to say off topic that I love these to ladies!

    riot_grrrl_knits
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    MEN! ATTENTION! I SMILE FOR MYSELF! NOT FOR YOU! STOP SAYING "lemme see that gorgeous smile" ON THE STREET TO ME BECAUSE IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE CRAAAP! I'M THIRTEEN YEARS OLD DUDE!

    Broski
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For anyone interested it's called facial feedback and is indeed a thing for most people :3

    Tim Crowhurst
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want to see someone smile, don't tell them to; give them a reason to. Tell a joke, do something kind, or compliment/encourage them on something they have control over, like dress sense or a job well done. Yes, it takes a little more thought - but that's kinda the point. You're showing that you value them enough to make that effort.

    Awiesha Razab Sekh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly but men who say that to women dont value women. They only want to control women and intimidate women and let women know we only exist for mens entertainment and whether or not we have a bad day and have the right as human beings to feel sad about it, we must smile because a man told us to.

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    Stannous Flouride
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Smiling, even if not genuine, does so by altering the temperature in the brain. When you smile you contract the blood vessels leading to the dura mater which lowers it slightly, enough to spur production of the dopamine, serotonin, and endorphine chemicals. Inversely, when your face is relaxed or frowning, the temperature rises and inhibits their production.

    Robyn Bowns
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lily Tomlin. Still the best 👍

    Helen Witten
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    3 years ago

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    But why would a woman not want to smile? There are scenarios and situations where smiles are nice and uplifting. What about waking up to breakfast with your male partner wouldn't it be better with a smile? What about making breakfast for the kids and having a smile rather than a frown? What about arriving at work and saying good morning to your co-workers with a smile? Just because a female smiles at or with a man doesn't mean anything more than that, just that I think.

    Sofie Carmine
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They meant like if a guy tells you oh you should smile more you'll look better, etc. Please don't downvote me if I'm wrong, this is just what I thought they meant, please just tell me in the replies if I'm wrong

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    Rylee Evergreen🦋
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously. I'm straight/bi-curious but in honor of the first day of pride month (woo hoo!) I wore a rainbow heart pin out in public. the AMOUNT of slurs and swearing hurled at me was disgusting. Why is it so hard for people to respect others? Like, why is it even a question that lgbtq+ people deserve rights? Why's that even a debate?

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    Lem
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember we had this discussion in my class once. It was rough to listen to as everyone kept saying ‘they should just choose not to be gay’. Me and my teacher were the only ones who disagreed.

    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These hyper conservatives are such hypocrites. They say that Jesus loves everyone yet spew hatred against LGBTQIA + people, immigrants, people of different religions, people of colour, etc.

    Tamra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The conservatives I've talked to simply use Jesus as a hammer to beat down anyone who doesn't share their beliefs. Actually, every "Christian" I've talked to does the same thing.

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    Milan Chleborád
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People are people ffs. Same rights for everyone, end of discussion.

    Two_rolling_black_eyes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is an unpopular opinion but we need to have more discussions. Emphasize is discussions, not arguments. People can't find out their opinions and their supposed facts are wrong if they are never presented with an alternative. I went to a very conservative HS (county voted Republican in every election since Lincoln). Our health teacher had multiple day discussions about women's health and everyone learned lies we were told(she got fired over it). Pigheaded males had to listen to her and their female classmates. There was more than one 16 year old boy (I'm included) who heard the truth for the 1st time about abortion, endometriosis, and institutional sexism. We discovered going to the OB/GYN doesn't make you a s**t and sex isn't owed.2 years later we were the first to graduate with no child pregnancies since they started tracking it.Not 1 woman dropped out to hide one.We also ended the town's trend of male teachers marrying female students. None of that happens w/o those talks.

    PCW10101
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sunshine is the best disinfectant - the more we talk about these issues, the less people, especially young people will be scared of being their true selves.

    Mary Rogers
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. But I can see how that discussion could be brutal in a classroom setting if not handled right. Imagine being a gay kid listening to his homophobic classmates saying he shouldn't have rights.

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    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    should have the same rights as we all do , whats so hard about it?

    hi myself, bi weirdo🇺🇦️‍‍
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has never happened to me, but if it did, every kid would say we deserve rights cuz more than half of my class is gay, and everyone else is friends with someone gay.

    MimSorensson
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does this happen? Debate? There’s no debate. What the kids need to know is that it’s absolutely unacceptable to deny certain groups of people human rights, there’s nothing to “debate”. Bloody nonsense. I hope it doesn’t occur often that it’s presented as something to “debate”.

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    Jo Johannsen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Billionaires who abuse the power their wealth gives them deserve to go to Hades, the sooner the better.

    Madeleine Flowers
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Getting sent to Tartarus would be a better fit for them.

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    Diana K
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eat The Rich. No for real, I'm not just co-opting the saying. I SERIOUSLY think we should eat them, because frankly groceries are getting a little too expensive.

    madbakes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a vegetarian... Do you think they will make me sick? I hope not.

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    DocV
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least there is acknowledgement that teachers' wages are a joke. So sad.

    The Cute Cat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do believe AOC will someday become President of USA.. She is brilliant

    agirlandherrobot
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We shouldn't be proud as a society for people to have 3 or 4 jobs. That shouldn't be held up as some sort of great thing like "look how hard they're working!". No one should need 3 or 4 jobs *just to live*.

    Drea Benoit
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most rich folks don’t want equality because then all their material wealth means nothing. If they can’t make others envious, or look down on the poor, they don’t feel good about themselves. This is one reason why countless systems are designed to keep the poor in poverty forever. Not all, but many, wealthy people would feel worthless if they couldn’t shove their privilege in your face. These peoples’ self worth as human beings depends entirely on how much MORE they have than others, which is a losing battle because someone always has more. And that makes me feel sorry for those types

    P R
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Great response, AOC. Harry, dumb question, trying to bait, with a vague rhetorical "question".

    Al Padilla
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, if only she actually meant even half of what she says. A simple "bioassay" would be to ask if she favors "Medicare for all." She'd almost certainly answer "yes." Then ask if she would include Medicare for Senators and Members of Congress, who would have to forego their free, zero-deductible, all meds free, all-inclusive continued-for-life even after retirement (or non-reelection). You could protect the Capitol building with a hedge the size she'd construct. The Soviets had their "Nomenclatura." We have our members of Congress. And re: Anders Magrioteli, I'd really love to be able to vote for an honest politician who means what he/she says.

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    Anders Magrioteli
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do not EVER mouth off against AOC. She's beyond brilliant.

    Wayne Gossman
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want everyone who is willing to follow basic rules and seek work to have everything they need, and for everyone else to get the treatment and help they need to join society. Clearly the rich can and should help with this! But I have no interest in taking huge amounts of money away from someone who is doing a very good job of managing things(the rich) and give it to people who have repeatedly proven their incompetence (politicians).

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    Gin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *Puts on glasses* Ah, Russell hasn't been shot, phew! Hear, hear, Russ!

    Diana K
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if he did get shot and then continued his standup routine, that's pretty hardcore!

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    Kristal
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn it, I want Ferrero Rocher now

    TheReader19
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've just eaten a huge bar of chocolate and the guilt is real 😭

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    Donkey boi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was from 2015, following an attempt to abolish the tax by some politicians. In Jan 2021 it was finally achieved.

    AngelWingsYT
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Luxury?? LUXURY!?!?!? There is NOTHING "luxurious" about (quite literally) beelding out while feeling like your being stabbed from the inside. Imma gut punch whoever thinks tampons are a luxury

    Mary Rogers
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have you seen the BP posts titled "That's Not How Women Work"? Apparently a fair number of men think we can somehow "hold it" until we can make it to the restroom, like pee!

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    mulk
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Honey, did you buy my tampons?" "No, but I got you some Ferrero Rocher!" (best answer: "Yes! AND I bought you some Ferrero Rocher, a pizza, icecream, ...")

    Wilko Lunenburg
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    9% in the Netherlands. While that looks like a lot, normal tarif is 21%

    Ciara Stone
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love Russell Howard-he speaks about serious issues and still make me crack up while hearing his take on the world

    Glasia van Duivels
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    some put tampons into books to bypass taxes

    Awiesha Razab Sekh
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    3 years ago

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    Donkey boi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you need this explained to you: Less than 1% of all known types of bacteria will make you ill, yet we still use bacteria as a "dirty" word. That is because the 1% can seriously mess you up so it's better to be careful and try to protect yourself against them.

    Nikki Sevven
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Human beings are basically millions of bacteria in a trench coat.

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    Jenn C
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not all snakes are venous, but we still tell kids not to mess with them.

    Sue
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gonna wash that man right outta my hair!

    KC
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    maybe this one man didn’t assault an innocent woman but that doesn’t mean the next one won’t

    Tigerpacingthecage
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is these type of posts always ruined by "what about"-ism. We already know this is not exclusive to women. It's always sad and terrible that it happens, to women AND men - we get that. Highlighting one issue doesn't exclude the other. That being said - it IS happening more often to women, and THAT needs to be our primary focus on a structural level (again, not about individuals - it's not about you.). AND yes, we need to add that historically it has happened in larger scale (compared to men) for so long we have normalized it. That is very important to raise awareness to and question the normalization.

    Pandaroo
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have 100 candies and one of them's been filled with cyanide and you don't know which it is, how many will you eat?

    Justin Sue
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And 0 percent of bacteria have human rights or soul

    Maciej Zajaczkowski
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    3 years ago

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    There is a point and it is be aware and alert but don't instantly through all men into one bag because of the wrongdoers

    Geralt of Rivia
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    3 years ago

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    I guess dehumanizing people using broad generalizations is suddenly cool. Let's see where it takes us.

    Tamra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This post is not dehumanizing men. It is saying that women, in order to protect themselves, tend to be mistrustful of men they don't know. This is, sadly, a necessary preventative safety precaution. If I had a daughter, I would teach her to not trust men she doesn't know. Do you think that's unreasonable or sexist?

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    Dawn Marie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My marriage, he felt it was his right to r*p* me when ever he wanted.

    Sareaesque
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my first relationship while I was asleep, went on for two years because I thought I deserved it until I realised being scared of sleeping next to my boyfriend shouldn't be normal

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    Brendan Roberts
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My first gf was raped (before I met her), and the poor girl was utterly traumatized. Any time I would try to initiate sex, she would get flash backs and burst into tears. The assault happened over 20 years ago, but I'm sure she has a vivid memory of the experience. I hope, with time, it has become easier.

    GoGoPDX
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for being so patient with her!!

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    similarly
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't wait for everybody to be "ready" to have that conversation. Let's have that conversation, and let's keep having it.

    Drea Benoit
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem is that many men just don’t care if a woman wants to or not. They think it’s their birth right

    Schnee Wittchen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh God if I could upvote a thousand times, I would....

    Helen Witten
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes I think there's not a lot of married women out there who haven't been raped. How many times have they been woken up to their partner having their penis inside them and humping away? They weren't even awake, gave consent and all because a lot of young men are "horny" in the morning? Messy and annoying at times for women.

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t forget emotional gaslighting, coercion, and guilt tripping by someone who is supposed to love you and protect you from people who would hurt you—-not be the one doing the hurting.

    Janet C
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know a single woman who wouldn't answer YES to that question.

    Tracy Wallick
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men, ask the women in your lives when she first started receiving sexual attention from adult men. You will not like the answers you get. (For me, it was 12.)

    Tony James
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe we're not ready. Hell, we weren't ready to leave the womb, transition to solids, learn to tell the time or tie our shoelaces, go to school, or get full-time jobs - but we still managed it. Battered, scarred, and damaged, perhaps, but we still managed it. Whether or not we're ready for it doesn't mean that it isn't a conversation we need to be having. And it needs to start early, right around the time that little boys recognise that little girls aren't built the same way as them. If we hammer it home from an early age, if we reinforce it at home, in schools and colleges, in workplaces, if we reflect it in our media, then maybe, just maybe, men will finally get the message.

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    Sara
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is terrible!

    Nathaniel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    America, land of the free.....

    PCW10101
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is utterly despicable treatment by your own Government & Country that you were fully prepared to fight and possibly even die for. I am so sorry.

    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wow , serve and get screwed over , come on USA this aint you , is it ?

    Isolde Leeuwen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow...Start up a crowdfund and I will add to that...So unfair

    Katrina Wysocki
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Serve your country! Oh you’re gay……we’re good. Army’s closed

    Ian Taggart
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Take them to court. This is segregation.

    Bad Alchemy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh. Homophobia weaponized by our government is a disservice to us all. Why don't they dishonorably discharge all those military personnel who sexually assault their peers, or cover up sexual assault, and make them pay back every penny? How about that?

    Ciara Stone
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Find it strange that no one has mentioned the f**k up otherwise known as the VA. I appreciate that we have an entire medical system for vets, but having to wait almost a year for a desperately needed doctor appointment, just to have an entirely overwhelmed and overworked doctor, speak to you for about 5ish minutes, then you're sent on your way, sometimes without ANY due diligence about any injury or respiratory problems, cancer etc.... it's just so f****d up. And don't even get me started on the shitty state of "treating" mental health issues caused by their service. They give up their lives, limbs, are burned, experience pain we'll never comprehend to protect our country and in return we give them s**t medical care, PTSD, and homelessness. It's despicable.

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    Catie Marie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's be honest, consent is the low bar. Enthusiastic consent is what should be taught.

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Okay”, “Alright”, “Fine”, and “If I let you, will you promise to just stop goddamn hassling me about it afterward?” aren’t really “Yes”.

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    Carefully Planned Spontaneity
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. My girlfriend said she wants to kiss me once, I told her eventually but I’m not ready yet, and she hasn’t brought it up again. I f*cking love her.

    Bubs623
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw a video the other day where a mom explained that she isn't teaching her sons about 'consent', at least not alone. She is teaching them, 'is the person I'm with enthusiastic about this situation? Is she smiling at me and leaning in to me? Is he excited? Are they enthusiastic about this situation or are they just saying 'yes' with only their words?' I keep thinking about that and all the times as a teen and college student how I was not excited or enthused but I was backed into a corner and pushed to "consent ". Wouldn't it be amazing if we all looked for the other person to be enthusiastic with their words and their body language??

    凜린Kat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Enthusiastic consent; mmmmmmmmmm :) One day men will understand the difference; XD Maybe

    Brendan Roberts
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if the girl presses charges, he'll just argue that she said "yes".

    Leo Domitrix
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes alone means yes. Spain's going that route, legally, IIRC.

    Barbara Vandewalle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Henry Weinstein did this to how many women?

    Courtney Christelle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've taught my son that anything less than an enthusiastic yes is a freaking no!

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    Kristen Shriner
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother at 19 in a way was convinced to keep me and my childhood was horrible. Don't force people who aren't ready for kids to have them.

    I I
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    tHeN yOuD bE tAlKiNg To YoUrSeLf

    H M
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then I wouldn't be here reading rubbish like this. And?

    similarly
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If my mother had chosen to have an abortion rather than have me, I know her life would have been better, and a lot of other people would probably have had better lives, and honestly, it would have saved me a lot of pain and trouble. I honestly wish she had. Only the woman should be allowed to make that choice, but I support it 100%. If someone is struggling with the choice, just know: sometimes it really, really, really IS the right thing to do.

    Bored Retsuko
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're absolutely right that it's the right thing to do sometimes, and I'm very sorry you have been suffering. Virtual hug for you.

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    Isabella
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly? I would be glad. She was not a material for the mother. Neither had she genetics to have a baby. And yet she did. I ended up being chronically ill and miserable. Yay. And when I turned 18 no law will force her to give me money or pay for my meds and bills even tho I did not asked to be here.

    Bored Retsuko
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very sorry to read this. Can relate. All the best to you.

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    Melanie Burlock
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the lamest comeback the forced birthers have. If you never existed, you’d not care because you never would have existed.

    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If my mother had gone through an abortion, I would have been ok with that. My mother was not mentally stable enough to be a mother. She had lots of issues that were compounded by the fact she had 4 kids. I remember my mother once tried to berate my aunt by saying she was pathetic for giving her babies up for adoption. I knew she did it out of jealousy because my aunt was free to go where she pleased and do as she pleased without having to consider motherhood. It was her choice, not a written in stone obligation.

    Hex Gurls
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If i was aborted i’d just be born somewhere else, right? like my consciousness would go somewhere else? like i wouldn’t never exist id still need a consciousness at some point dhjkkajsndbd

    Libstak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeh well, I can't see how I would have an opinion on that if it was the case.

    JinjoBread
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It wouldn't have mattered to me, because I would have been an unaware clump of cells.

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    BoredBirb
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww I've seen this before but still awwww

    Whysoserious
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's true love. I recently had a brother pass away. He and I were not at all close. Over the years he said some pretty nasty things about me and my sister, also deceased. When discussing his passing with my stepson, I got emotional explaining some of the things my brother said to me. My stepson hugged me and said "just know that we love you". He's 42 and I am 67. True love !

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is pure hell to live in a household where no one ever says I love you. I grew up with parents like that, and promised myself that would never happen in my home. My older brothers did the same. So I tell everyone I love; my husband, my family, my friends, and my pets (we married too late and couldn’t have children, unfortunately) that I love them. Every day, several times a day. I want to reinforce to them that I love them. I want them to be confident about my love for them. I want them to wake up, go to work or school, come home, go to sleep knowing I love them without having to guess. Don’t be stingy with affection—-don’t go overboard but damn it, just show people you love them. You’re not making them stronger by withholding affection, you’re just turning them into emotional hot messes.

    Sue
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was surprised my 17 year old grandson still says "love you" when leaving with his friends. No one said anything.

    Nicole McDowall
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope my son grows up to be like this 😍

    Bi-Polar Express
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My kids were never embarrassed to say they love me. I once tried to jokingly call out to my son at school and his 6' 5" self yelled, "Mommy!" And ran at me and picked me up.

    Carol Lewis
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my son was in high school when ever we talked on the phone whether he was with his buddies or not at the end of the call he always said I love you. As time went by I could hear hid friends in the background yell love you mom! Asked my son if they were making fun of him for it. He said no, and he never stopped saying it. He's 27 now and still says I love you at the end of every call. He is a hugger too and I love seeing him grab his dad in a big bear hug.

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    H M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or like my partners first failed marriage...you had to "prove" infidelity which involved actual infidelity and paying grotty PIs....sometimes you can''t do either but the marriage still sucked.

    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My MIL divorced her husband because he'd had an affair and was physically abusive to her. Courts didn't care about the abuse, but when he got up and admitted to the court about the affair, the court granted the divorce. I was like WTF?

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    Carol Emory
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mentioned that to my therapist on why my mother didn't just leave my Dad if she was that unhappy. My therapist said the 70's and 80's were much more different for women. They may automatically get custody of the kids, but getting divorced was like having an incurable disease that made everyone feel uncomfortable to be around. She also said, it would have been near impossible for her to get work with four kids and she may not have gotten the financial support she needed from your Dad if the courts were typical as they were back then. She may not have thought she had a choice but to stay married.

    Salvador Ciappara
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The "Married Women's Act of 1848". Also, Credit cards came into existence around 1958. Due to discrimination/patriarchal society, it was apparent women didn't exist on a level playing field when it came to applying for and being granted credit cards. Illegal for a woman to posses a credit card? NO. Darn difficult, Yes.

    Amy S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents divorced in 1979. My mother - though she had an income - couldn't get a credit card. When she remarried in 1982, she got a credit card immediately by virtue of her marriage. Ironically, that same year, I was just out of college and opened up a JC Penney credit card, even though my salary was very low. Go figure.

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    Blackheart
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or receive birth control pills with out a husband's consent.

    Lizz Lor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My great grandmother's first husband was a drunkard who would spend all their money on alcohol and leave her and the children at home to starve and during the depression no less - man actually had a job and his family still suffered. So she divorced his a*s, got a job and became the breadwinner...she eventually got remarried to a much nicer man. My Grandma T was a badass and I didn't even know until after she passed.

    Adrienne Mcginley
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women WERE property. Of our fathers, our brothers, or our husbands.

    Ashley Schriber
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, and those people who assert feminism is destroying the world because, "Look, far more women are leaving their marriages!" Of freaking course, since they can now do so without financial and social ruin.

    Helen Witten
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nor get a loan nor get a mortgage and weren't ever expected or wanted to be able to work after having a child. We seriously were the whipping posts of society.

    Ian Taggart
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women are leaving their husbands because the door's not locked from the outside anymore.

    Mary Rogers
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister had a shock when it came to selling our father's house we inherited. It turns out there is still a law on the books in California requiring a husband's consent to sell property, even though HE didn't inherit it! He signed, no problem, but we were both a little surprised by that!

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    The Scout
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is a bit like going to the ER with a broken arm, and the Doctor saiy "Hey, but ALL bones matter...". Of course they do, but first let's just focus on the one that hurts.

    Jenny Michelle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It also doesn't say "black lives matter more" or "only black lives matter" ..

    Fiona Parky
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m from the Uk so this is perhaps a bit less emotive but to me. Black lives matter and I understand completely why that has to be stated. Asian lives matter, that needs to be stated too. Women’s lives matter, another statement that shouldn’t need stating but does. Poor peoples lives matter, again shouldn’t need stating but does. I’m so ashamed and frustrated that any of this needs to be pointed out.

    AngelWingsYT
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But once you do you get yelled at for favoritism or some s**t like that. It sucks

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    Troux
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "We should value all of the crew equally! Why is one person getting all of the attention?," they whined, watching the sailors rush to rescue the man who had fallen overboard.

    Kevin Hickey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The people who say "All Lives Matter" don't really even believe that all lives matter.

    Andy Frobig
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Make it a yes or no question: do Black lives matter?

    Cat Palmer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never understood why "all lives matter" is thought to be any kind of response to Black Lives Matter - umm... that's kinda the point?

    Pandaroo
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If all lives mattered, they'd be pro gun control.

    Elizabeth Sundby
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    all lives cant matter until black lives matter

    I I
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they get triggered cause they're black lives

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    Something
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's not an Oompa Loompa. Oompa Loompas work hard.

    Candy_Sneke!
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooof. That's an insult right there. Good job

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    basil
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You need to be more respectful. This is an insult to oompa loompas.

    SoloDadof3
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Glad to see your parents supported your right to freedom of speech!

    Rose Golden
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't insult Oompa Loompas, that's just mean.

    S N
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, my gosh. Years literally laugh out loud funny. I'm still laughing. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Terry Rex
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah one person is stupid and should not be allowed to vote.

    KC
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you shouldn’t say that. it’s incredibly rude. oompa loompas are actually very nice people.

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    Monday
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Police have urged citizens to stay inside and avoid stabbing each other where possible" would be a fun tweet.

    Aeon Flux
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would be nice if that worked.

    Tonk Terrier
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Police are well aware of the problem. Just urging caution

    Liam Walsh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, but this is about getting the potential victims to change their behaviour. It's wrong. Sadly necessary but still wrong.

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    Alan Green
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one doesn't have to be about sex. There are too many stabbings full stop (in UK anyway). So can people just stop stabbing people please. Thank you.

    Geralt of Rivia
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why don't you tell criminals not to commit crimes?

    Lazy Panda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All men must be escorted by at least one mother or grandmother to monitor their behavior and keep them in line. And it's not cheap to hire a mom since they're in such high demand.

    KC
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    obvi it’s the women’s fault for being outside alone /s

    Niall Mac Iomera
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They do. That's what laws are. But these people aren't listening to the police. That's why they're asking the group who does.

    AngelWingsYT
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    By that article it sounds like "being in a group" doesn't help xD

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    Something
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who've paid their student debt in blood have every right to be angry, but the anger should be directed at the people behind the predatory loans.

    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It should also be directed at the outrageous cost of University in the United States. If getting an education wasn’t so damned expensive in the US, so many young people and their families wouldn’t have to tragically fall prey to these horrible loan companies.

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    Ross Warren
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's like saying that we shouldn't cure disease because it would be unfair to everyone who has already been infected.

    Nikki Kriaraki
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't have to be debt cancellation. It could simply be a reversal of the accrued and capitalised interest from a certain date onwards. The loan principle could and should still be paid and most likely would be paid very quickly. It's the exorbitant and extortionate interest which is the problem, I believe, since the result of capitalised interest at those rates is a rapidly increasing debt which has little chance of being paid off. Students should be given interest free loans. Why are things always so "black and white" in the world?

    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The cost of an university education in the United States is an absolute abomination. So many young people have to take out massive loans thinking that they will work their a*s off in school, get a wonderful job, and pay that loan off. Sadly, people who worked their hardest in University are still riddled with ridiculous amounts of student loan debt. It is tragic as it leads to extreme mental health problems (don’t get me started on the cost of medical care in the US) and many people struggle to buy a home and have a family.

    Katrina Wysocki
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because your degree actually worked for you doesn’t mean it has for all of us. I wanted a degree to improve my life and be able to support myself and my family. Reality is the complete opposite and now I have this crushing debt that I can’t whittle down hanging over my head for the last 15 years

    Lena Flising
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "There were no mobile phones when I was young, so young people shouldn't have phones now." Makes just as little sense as that.

    Randy Klefbeck
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Just because you learned it that way the first time, doesn't make it right."

    AngelWingsYT
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ppl that say that think 100-1000 debt = 100000+ debt

    Cookie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The single mum janitor would like to pay for the banker's child from the money that she didn't have to send her child to college with.

    Aeon Flux
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...And the generations immediately preceding the Boomers and the Silents were forced to engage in two World Wars, plus a Great Depression. I’m not sure the people complaining have REALLY paid their dues. 😆

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    Schnee Wittchen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. And I do so too, to correct the mistakes of my parents' generation.

    AndThenICommented
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s surprisingly easy to still discipline without hitting or humiliating.

    Carol Emory
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had my mother who would slap, hit and knock us around if we stepped a toe out of line. My father only spanked me once in my entire life. While my reaction to my mother was "Oh Sh!t, here we go again!" and I just saw her as a mean tyrant, in my father's case, I knew I'd really messed up and pissed him off because, in order for him to spank me, I had to have really pushed it over the line. There are times when a swat on the rear lets your kids know that enough is enough...but if you use it constantly...it has the opposite effect. We respected my dad. We hated my mother.

    Bi-Polar Express
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sat in a doctors office and watched a kid hit his sister. Mom immediately back hands him and yells, "We don't hit." And I am the only one who saw the problem.

    Blackheart
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Children need structure, accountability, and they need discipline. Discipline comes in many forms, and NONE are one size fits all. Children also need attention, and that is something I see sorely lacking in my experience.

    DrGirlfriend
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have twin boys And it's the same message right, how can I spank hit and utterly control them and expect them to treat others good, fair and don't fkn hit or touch anyone that don't want you to is what I instill on them instead of fear and pain. You would not believe how many times I was told to spank or beat my kids.. they both have Autism... I've never hit my kids and family and others consider me a s**t parent. My kids are sweet, caring aware 12 year olds. I can only hope they stay this way

    KC
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it’s not even that. you’re not preparing the child for having a partner as if that’s the main point of their life. you’re not abusing your child because no child deserves that no matter what.

    Michaela Riedrich
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry, but I disagree. You should never hit or yell at your children, not just because it might affect a relationship later on or in the future. I think that should never be the case, no matter what. Respect can be earned without doing this.

    Sarah Brown
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not only that but also raising a child that way will show them it's ok to hit and yell at their future partners or children because that's how they grew up

    BonnyDK
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last school district where I taught banned corporal punishment. We even gave classes to parents of problem children of how to discipline with love and logic. It is study guides. We used them in our classrooms too. Very easy to change over too--- not that I ever hit a child before that in class. I know the principals did on extreme cases. Consequences that has meaning to the child and Consistency is much more affective.

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    Cadena Norton
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just made an rbg baby blanket for upcoming daughter. Husband thinks I'm nuts but I mean just look at like half this list

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing wrong with giving your daughter one of the most admirable people who ever lived as a role model. Hell, RBG is an excellent role model for both girls/women AND boys/men!

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    madbakes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love RBG, amazing woman. But does it bother anyone else that she wouldn't retire, despite several serious health incidents? She should have retired when Obama was in office. Certainly Justices in the past considered who would be responsible for replacing their seat and continuing their legacy.

    Powerful Katrinka
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What makes you think that Mitch McConnell would have allowed Obama to replace her?

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    Powerful Katrinka
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I heard that RBG died, I knew that whatever followed was going to be bad. But even in my worst fit of pessimism, I had no idea just how bad it was going to be. I would argue that with her death, the Supreme Court as we knew it ceased to exist.

    Diana K
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yup yup. They were in such a damned big hurry to fill her spot with a hateful right-winger and then move on, we didn't have a chance to really take it all in, the full greatness of RBG.

    Nikki Sevven
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had she retired in full knowledge of her own age and her battle with cancer, we wouldn't have the current clusterfuck of a SCOTUS. While I admire her legacy, it has been overshadowed by her ego's inability to accept reality and behave appropriately. Thankfully, Justice Breyer isn't making the same mistake.

    Donkey boi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, not from the US, could someone explain how Trump was the reason they couldn't mourn?

    Sue User
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    RBG was a a liberal judge. When Supreme Court judges die, the current President nominates a person to take their place. So Trump picked a conservative, which changed the conservative/ liberal balance. Judges are appointed for life, so now this will impact rulings for decades.

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    basil
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After she passed away, I watched a documentary on RBG and at the beginning it played clips of all the horrible things the Orange One and other conservative politicians said about her while showing all the great things she did and it was really powerful

    Philly Bob Squires
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And McCommunist couldn't even wait until her body was cold until he joyfully forced in a Mango cheetah nom.

    Courtney Christelle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I instantly became afraid for women's rights when I heard she passed. I knew something like what's happening with Row vs Wade was going to happen.

    Terry Rex
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He didn't kill her she died Of natural causes.

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    ThePanInPanda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bet he thinks it'd be a privilege if we got free pads and tampons too.

    Monday
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That would be "being rewarded for laziness", obviously we're supposed to just hold it in until we get home.

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    SoloDadof3
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My oldest daughter (in High School) keeps a supply of pads and tampons in her locker for the girls that may have just started their cycle. (This is the first time I told this in public, because I am a MAN saying it.) When the school found out about it, at first they were okay with it, until they found out her father (me) bought them and it was his idea, then they asked her not to provide them anymore. Biased society much?) Yes I said keeps, because she still does it, but asks the girls not to let the staff know!

    Chris Jones
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wtf? That's so ridiculous I'm gobsmacked. I can't believe how stupid the staff at that school are being. Kudos for the idea and for your daughter ignoring some really daft rules.

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    Melanie Burlock
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wonder if he’s also in favour of the “privilege” of being forced to remain pregnant against your will…

    Kel_how
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have vomited all over him as a thank you

    I I
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    see , you got and he didnt , he paid too , thats the way they think now and get offended when they dont get , its amazing as they'd be the same ones screaming fck socialism

    Blackheart
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a teacher. At 8 months pregnant, my principal (a man) decided I needed to go outside to participate in field day in 95 degree F heat. "If you are pregnant, you are more likely to get heat exhaustion or heat stroke sooner than a nonpregnant worker. This is because your body must work harder to cool down both your body and your unborn baby. " -CDC Pregnant people deserve privilege!

    Blackheart
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    PS I went out, knowing what would happen...within minutes my fellow teachers realized what he did, banded together and told him how it was. I was back in the air conditioning within 7 minutes.

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yet he accepts institutionalized male privilege all the damn time, and tries to ridicule women and minorities who complain about it.

    Helen Witten
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember being in a crowded women's restroom (I should point out I am a woman) and this heavily pregnant came rushing in needing a toilet asap so I let her go first. The looks I got from the other women was truly surprising. I remember being preggars and the little blighter liked pressing on my bladder. I know pregnancy is not an illness but it can be an uncomfortable condition at times so compassion and understanding from others can go a long way.

    Moezzzz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omfg, what a douche. You know, I was on a flight with a dude who was literally sweating bullets out of pain. He'd had a "rectal" surgery a week prior and thought he'd be okay to fly, but I guess he sat wrong and something tore? In any case I had a really soft neck pillow (the kind with the foam beads) and gave it to him to sit on. He kept saying no, he couldn't do that, it looked expensive (it wasn't; it was from $5 and below!), but he finally took it and the effect was immediate. It sort of worked as a 'donut' for him. I didn't want it back (obviously) but damn, why is it so bad to help someone out? If we're able to, just freakin do it! You might make someone's whole week!

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    Diana K
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and I grew up with no social interaction other than merciless bullying, and no social skills training whatsoever, and now people wonder why I'm so bad at talking and socializing?? hmm.... that's a real head-scratcher.

    Monday
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's almost like you need to talk to people to learn social skills.....how about that

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    Tenacious Squirrel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are plenty of people isolated by their disabilities and/or chronic illnesses who are essentially always in lockdown. They get totally ignored and forgotten about. It was said COVID lockdowns might help people realise a tiny amount of the restrictions these people face and can never escape, but it seems to have made no difference.

    Carol Emory
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually saw a LivePD where they were arresting a guy for drug possession. He was bawling saying he didn't want to do drugs anymore, but that they kept sending him back to the people that caused him to do drugs in the first place. There needs to be a better way to re-direct people that have served their time and want to make a change. Not all felons deserve a second chance, but if you arrest a gang-banger for assault and drug possession, but them send him back to the neighborhood where his gang is, how do you not expect him to feel pressured into going back to the gang? Remove them to a place where they can make a fresh start. Many will take a path out of that life if you open the door.

    Hobby Hopper
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this goes for people who have been super wealthy for a long time too. If you haven't had to drive yourself or do laundry or cook and you've been able to travel without having to think about the cost for the last 10 years, is it any wonder you're out of touch with the concerns of the middle class?

    Blackheart
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see your point, but the US prison system is meant to punish, not rehabilitate.

    Cookie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww... let's let them loose back in society to murder, rape and shoot people cos God forbid they should lose their social skills.

    Rucha Vanarase
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This makes it sound like you're against ALL incarceration. So do we let criminals roam free, or do we kill them?

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You forgot to add “ and always willing to please you”. We’re not, for those of you who don’t get it—-just like you are not always willing to please us (and I mean please by our definition, not yours).

    Dawnieangel76
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My Trumptard co-worker can't decide if he hates me for my Progressive ideals, or adores me for my sharp wit & sharper tongue.

    Eb
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Has anyone ever told a man - at work or in the street - 'you should smile more'?

    Stefan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where does this belief come from ?

    Mayrene Chester
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, they've been conditioned to think they are the gift of God and anyone should be so pleased to be near them.

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    ThePanInPanda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why it's called pro CHOICE. Because it's up to the woman what she does with her body!

    Katherine Boag
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And trans men and non-binary people with uteruses

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    Ren
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It honestly sickens me to know that complete strangers think they deserve to have control over my own body.

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you’re against eating strawberries, don’t eat strawberries. But don’t you dare tell someone else who wants to eat strawberries not to eat strawberries just because you’re against it. Eating strawberries is not illegal, so that’s where your right (not to eat strawberries) end, and their right (to legally eat strawberries) begin.

    KC
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OH WAIT YOU CANT EVEN BIOLOGICALLY GET PREGNANT BECAUSE YOURE A MAN WHO TRIES TO REGULATE WOMEN FOR NO REASON

    Philly Bob Squires
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a man, I'll never know the feeling. So How in the glorious f**k can I make a decision on a woman's body?

    Squirrel Girl
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    viv
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    imagine a world where people stop worrying about what other people look like and just focus on themselves.

    Seabeast
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was sexually abused by a relative for several years in childhood and credit exercise with giving me my body back. When I was running or cross-country skiing or lifting weights, it was MY body, nobody else's. Pushing heavy weights away from oneself has definite psychological benefits.

    Something
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many women with healthy BMIs want to lose weight. It's sad.

    Philly Bob Squires
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd rather have a healthy "curvy girl" than a sickly skinny one. I may get some downvotes on this but hey...

    Veren Young
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone's tiktok taught me that my (still growing, maybe not healthy but natural) body needs to be stick thin and I should be a size 4 (UK) to be considered attractive to men. I'M SEVENTEEN I DONT THINK I WANT TO-

    Schnee Wittchen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And to achieve this it would be necessary that POLITICS RUN ECONOMY rather than the other way round...

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    Something
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as it's what they want. Forcing a woman to cover up and forcing a woman to cover less are just different forms of objectification.

    Tim Crowhurst
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If a man chooses to wear modesty clothes no-one questions it. If a woman does the same thing you can guarantee people will lose their minds. Double standard, much?

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    AndThenICommented
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So let’s put this to another religion and maybe it’ll click - traditional Judaism also calls for a certain way of dressing, which includes longer sleeves, skirts or dresses past knees, nothing low cut, and covering one’s hair after marriage. Yes, there are sects that use this as oppression but many Jewish women choose this dress as expression of their religion. No one seems to bat an eye, no one’s calling for it to be made illegal, no one is pulling off their wigs or scarves…

    CozyPanda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes....but somehow Muslims get put in the spotlight more...🤷🏻‍♀️

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    Fiona Parky
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What I’m wearing is none of your business. If I was a man wearing budgie smugglers, no one sees a problem other that a fashion crime (and marks and Spencer will be a bit off with you shopping there) If a woman is seen completely covered up its considered she’s committed for crime? Everyone who thinks they’re so progressive by saying that religious clothes for women are repressive; how about nuns? The one thing everyone has completely forgotten is that it’s the woman’s opinion that counts. If she wants to cover up, fine. If she wants to wear a bikini fine. The only opinion that matters is her own opinion.

    Liam Walsh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh NO!! Surely we should draw the line at budgie smugglers!!! 🤣🤣🤣

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    Laura
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to sign up just to comment to whatever this discussion is. Yes it's all about the freedom to have a choice ect. BUT it is common knowledge now how eg Iran was in the 70s until women were suppressed and forced to cover up. Everytime I listen to a Muslim woman explaining hijabs/burkas, they always try to find justifications in freedom and whatever their dad or husband 'recommends'. It sounds like those women are brainwashed to believe that they are making their own choice to cover up. Just like our western fashion brainwashes some of us to trends on what is deemed acceptable at the time.

    CozyPanda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly yes this is the case...however saying women are brainwashed into it...is a bit of a stretch...from my observation some women are forced but others feel safer or more spiritual when they wear the hijab...again it depends on each individual and their circumstances..

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    Goth Nurse
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But, isn't it also that there are lots and lots of women who would rather not to wear some religion based covering outfits invented my men..? But they have to, or else they face severe punishment. It's like the guys are afraid of not being able to keep their pants on somehow and therefore women should be covered.

    Jeffery
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    actually, muslims believe it was mandated by God, not men, lol. hijab is for womens benefit, not mens

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    lunar eclipse
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of the boys in my class are so creepy. And stare at you so shamelessly. No matter how hot it is I keep my lab coat on because that makes me feel covered and protected

    Alex Bailey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Report anyone being creepy - if you get back a pathetic response from a teacher then take it higher to the head or something. Tell your parents. The problem is with them and you shouldn't have to dress to feel safer. Talk to other girls, get a petition started to get teachers to address this with boys. The reason these things happen is because our ingrained reaction is to cover up, rather than to tackle it - because teachers DO ignore it. The downside to that is they'll go on doing it and it may even escalate. Others will feel the same, maybe there are even more vulnerable girls. It needs stomping on! If you don't feel able, don't worry, this isn't a go. Just if you do feel empowered to do something, you'll be doing the right thing.

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    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women’s clothing should never be fetishized. Period.

    H M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So long as it is their choice to wear them

    Anna M. G. Novák Vanclová
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. I just wonder if you would have felt the need to stress this if we were talking about *non-muslim* women being pressured into wearing more or less than they wish? The stereotype of "hijabi women are being forced unless proven otherwise" is so annoying.

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    Mohsie Supposie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, Freedom goes both ways!

    Anna M. G. Novák Vanclová
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously. I wonder if you would have felt the need to stress this if we were talking about *non-muslim* women being pressured into wearing more or less than they wish? The stereotype of "hijabi women are being forced unless proven otherwise" is so annoying.

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    BoredBirb
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh my 😔 To this day, I still do that, and feel ashamed. Once, this girl didn't seem to care at all and just opened the wrapper loudly and I was sitting in the cubical next to her thinking oml girl...you are awesome.

    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember one post in which a girl called out the tampon/pad companies on calling their product discreet when the wrappers were so noisy, everyone in the bathroom knew what you were doing. One guy responded with "Then do it in the men's room...we won't know. We'll be like "WTF? Who's eating chips in here?!?""

    Marguerite Janiszyn-Lisai
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has changed, thank god. Girls in my school will now whip out a pad and carry it openly when they ask to use the bathroom. I can't, but I'm glad they can.

    H M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I object to all the people that told me I was unnatural and ruining my health in some way by refusing to undergo monthly periods...I chose 3 monthly Depo Provera instead to avoid it all. Best invention since fire IMO and I stayed on it for 38 years. Still no health issues BTW.

    Nikki Sevven
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm thankful my daughter didn't buy into this nonsense. In high school, a male teacher refused her initial request to go to the women's room. He quickly changed his mind when she whipped out a tampon and waved it at him.

    Isaac Fritz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m teaching in Taiwan and I have teenage girls come to be at the beginning of class and just tell me they’re on their period and might need to go to the bathroom during class. I tell them to do what they need to do, no need to ask later and disrupt the class. No whisper, no shyness, just a simple biological function. Nothing to be ashamed of and part of that is not calling a “special gift” or any other euphemism.

    Lily Zdzinski
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I open them as loudly as possible as a warning to those around me. I have drastic mood swings while on my period, don't mess with me.

    Jenn C
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    TBH I was was embarrassed because it was something new and awkward, like growing armpit hair. Once I got older and realized that nobody else in the girls bathroom cared because they all had periods too, I don't care anymore.

    I I
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    is this a USA thing ? never seen a girl get teased when i was at school or anywhere

    PaintHat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember a guy going through my bag and making a big deal about finding pads in middle school. I felt so ashamed at the time -US

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    Blackheart
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that depends on your personality too. Once a boy was rummaging through my purse and asked "Hey! You got any tampons in here?" To which I replied "No! Why? Do YOU need one?" Never happened again.

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    Elizabeth Elliot
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The 'fight or flight' response is well known, but psychologists say it should be "fight, flight or freeze".

    Liam Walsh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Full phrase is fight, flight, freeze or appease. (There are other versions.) People stop at the first two for some reason but freeze, as a response, is very common. Particularly in assault.

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    J. Maxx
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a man. I was drugged and raped by a "friend" when I was 24. It wasn't until I was damn near 50 that I finally put it together that him drugging me and penetrating me while I was unconscious was rape. The mind plays weird tricks on us to help us cope.

    Tamra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm very sorry. I don't know why people do the terrible things they do sometimes. I hope you were able to talk to someone about it, and I applaud your courage for speaking about it here.

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    Tobias Reaper
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    plus you process it your head like did that really happen or did i get it wrong was it my fault will people believe me im a guy and it happened to me when i was younger and i have never told anyone because i never thought people will believe me

    Something
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many victims of sexual assault are still in physical danger from the person who did it after it happens.

    Janet C
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And how many times have women been humiliated, shamed, or accused of lying when they did finally try to speak up.

    Deborah
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    10 years to realise I'd been raped, and only realised when it happened to a friend.

    Carol Emory
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my sister was robbed at knifepoint while working a gas station, the cops asked her afterwards what the guy looked like. That's when she realized she never looked at his face because all of her attention was on the knife.

    Darren Butler
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know that Tom & Jerry cartoon? when the duck is in the pot and Tom is sharpening the knife and throwing veg into the water? To make duck soup? That's is exactly what it is like living in a TOXIC relationship.

    Randy Klefbeck
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to mention victim blaming. How but what happened to Anita Hill? How about what happened to Christine Blasey Ford? There were others besides those two women after the fact, and both of those 'judges' are now on the Supreme Court, and have removed women's choices. At least one of them now want want to remove gay women's choices as well.

    manalonedies
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trauma lurks until we die. Over 50 years so far. And it can come back hard, fast and strong.

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    Mama Penguin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's also called lies, not alternative facts.

    Csaba Hegedűs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At the same time I have a feeling everything is about race nowadays.

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    Nikki Sevven
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The 40-hour work week was established **as the maximum**, not the minimum.

    H M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In fact back when people worked longer hours, for less pay, and multiple jobs because they had to, women and men, they STILL had to do all the household tasks too, and the kids worked as well. Unions caused 40 hr weeks,

    mulk
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Unions caused 40 hr weeks,": sorry, i don't understand this... union: marriage? or union: worker unions?

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    Will Cross
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because we've been brainwashed to think our existence is not of value if we aren't killing ourselves working the entire time. Convinced by politicians and corporations that it's supposed to be like this. All the while they live it up wanting for nothing and doing whatever they want. Constantly telling us that it's not possible for us to live even a decent comfortable life.

    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    work to live not live to work , minimum wage increase would help solve this

    Ele V
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's American culture for you. Unfortunately they're so brainwashed they can even realize the meaning of that...

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    Tonk Terrier
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's more that the rich didn't own the government in the way they do now

    H M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The US went to the moon because Russia went to space first and they had a problem with that. Not because they cared or it had some benefit.

    Vorknkx
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think his point is that it was possible and it was accomplished... and since then, decades of not going to the moon.

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    AngelWingsYT
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huh almoat as if when we tax ppl with more/most money shot gets done

    Dylan Cameron
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow... America. The moon landing. That was a while back.

    Schnee Wittchen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, you told them. And now YOU GONNA SHOW THEM

    I I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    now billionaires are going to space because they dont know how else to spend their billions before they die , billions , 1000 millions , and they have 100's of them , Elon Musk has , $218,100,000,000

    MarioRossi
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    3 years ago

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    Good boy. Now go for socialized healthcare and rational gun control laws like all the other developed countries. Oh, and please stop bragging about something you did in 1969 - it was half a century ago, you sound like somebody who peaked in high school and has been reminiscing about the good times since then.

    Andi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    no .. he's just saying there are alternatives that have actually existed in this lifetime that are being denied to the younger generations who are being given a different narrative by those in charge and those who own everything

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    Nikki Sevven
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm willing to deny you government subsidies, establish confiscatory taxes on every dollar you profit above a reasonable return, and require you to invest in renewable energy.

    H M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Over population of humans is the cause of not the planet, which doesn't care and recovers every time there is an extinction like the last 5, but our existence.

    Cookie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't call it climate change, call it manmade global warming.

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    lunar eclipse
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously seems apocalyptic. Oh, wait, it is

    Cookie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Earth has reached its tipping point.

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    AngelWingsYT
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tbf. The 2020 remarks are mostly jokes. Ppl know it has 0 to do with the year ita just the fact a lotta shitty stuff happening during a pandemic to boot lead to the jokes. Sometimes humor is the only escape you have when things get to be too much

    Injun Joe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The earth is a living thing. She froze and also got hot many times during her life. It's ongoing. Climate change? Yes, it's called earth evolution. Earth getting hotter? Uh, could it be the sun?! The sun is a star. Stars get hotter, some grow dimmer. Some expand into a supergiant. Come on folks, you forgotten science studies? Or is it a gimmick to make people believe another end of the world scenario? Nothing controls others like fear does.

    Ren Karlej
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, we know the planet gets hotter and colder. However, we also can see the pattern that has emerged in the much faster heating of the planet within the last few decades alone and we do know we are doing a great deal of harm via all the pollution we create. It's not a tough one.

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    Ann Pattinson
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    3 years ago (edited)

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    I'm glad to see more people on here saying this but I'll still say it again. We, the consumer, buy from these corporations so we are all responsible in some measure for the damage to our planet. Taking responsibility for that and making as many positive changes in our buying as we can is absolutely imperative if any headway is to be made against the destruction of Earth. Hurt the bank balances of the destructive corporations, take your money elsewhere, force them to change. The changes we as individuals make in this scenario may hurt on different levels , some are not in a position to make as many changes as others, change is often difficult - more so with greater changes -but in this case the alternative is annihilation. Do we have a choice?

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    Ivana Bašić
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too many parents keep having kids counting on the older ones to help. Yet if that 16yo decided to have a kid of their own, those same parents would flip. If they aren't ready for their own kid, they shouldn't be parenting yours.

    whodunnitfan2013
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A disturbingly large amount of parents don't want to be responsible for their own children, too.

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    Brandi Delph
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The pandemic related "distance learning" put parents in a tough spot with childcare. Often the only realistic choice was to have the older kids take care of the younger. I had one class of 18 8th graders (12&13 year olds), where 4 were taking care of infant/toddlers and 5 were responsible for younger school age kids. I don't think any of their parents like the arrangement, but that was the best they could work out.

    Tenacious Squirrel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s sad that some parents allow (or rather, force) this to happen. A teen shouldn’t be put in this position. If you don’t have childcare or can’t look after a baby, don’t have another child.

    Elladine DesIsles
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This would be a fair point under normal circumstances, but this refers to a student in a Zoom class, mid-pandemic. Schools on remote learning, daycares closed or full because of distancing, and while some parents had the ability to work from home (with its own set of complications while trying to simultaneously manage childcare), essential workers and many others still had to physically go to work. Many, many families had absolutely no choice, especially lower income ones. And of course, many families also lost a parent, sometimes two, or had them sick/hospitalized for extended periods, again, especially in lower income and racialized communities. The social supports families needed were not available and parents made the only choices they had available.

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    Diana K
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    must be nice to have an older child who is both physically and mentally capable of caring not only for another kid but themselves too. Far too many parents who have kids without disabilities take these kinds of things for granted.

    Monday
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would imagine it's a big help. I'm 17 years older than my youngest sibling, so I'd often help out when he was baby. And I had the added benefit that I wasn't forced into the role either, I could refuse without consequence if I didn't want to.

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    Stefan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop having kids with this type of men.

    Sandeep Patel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a husband, i cook everyday, i clean the entire house, i wash all the dishes and iron all clothes, do bath time and bedtime with my son, take him to school and pick him up, i do this not because i want my wife to put her feet up although that would be nice sometimes but because i know my wife will be thinking about the things that slip my mind, like booking parents evening meetings, purchasing clothes for our 5 year old as well as replacing school uniform, booking school trips, planning lunches for days out and sleepovers etc. Household chores should never be gendered, my dad taught me that and i fully believe in living this and hopefully will instill this idea in my son as he grows up. Living in and raising a family is a shared job, too many times i hear friends say she doesnt do this or he never does that, we need to stop focusing on whats not been done and just do it ourselves.

    I I
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    exactly , the bloke next door use to say i was doing " women's work " why i hung out the washing , i say " use to " as they're now separated

    Ash
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband and I split the household responsibilities its sad to me this is considered not the norm

    Carol Emory
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a job that requires massive overtime 3 1/2 months out of the year. At that time, my husband takes the full brunt of chores, family appointments and responsibilities so I can work and rest. When he came to me with a massive deadline for his work, he apologized for not being able to get housework done. I was like....excuse me? What makes you think I won't step up to the plate like you did for me? For some reason, he felt guilty about not taking care of me all the time. I had to tell him, it's my turn to take care of you...that's what a marriage is. You carry me when I need it, I carry you when you need it. And the rest of the time, we share the load.

    Tenacious Squirrel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t get with a guy like this, certainly don’t have a family with one.

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    Ivana Bašić
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! *I* like to have a nice body that can do things, like run, dance, hike. For me.

    Pezor Zass
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "so i can sit in my room and look at it" i honestly don't know if i find that creepy or empowered. I can't imagine actively wanting to look at my own body. Yes, i am simultaneously envious and squicked out. How does it strike others?

    Random Anon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get a lot of ribbing for taking care of myself being a dude and being single. Being single also means, if I get sick or injured, I have to deal with it. So staying healthy and fit also means being independent. Society seem to have this warped view that a grown fella need to have a robust waistline, crumbling skin and unkempt facial hair otherwise you're not really an "adult".

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    Diana K
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you wanna hear something truly heartbreaking? I am a heavy woman, and honest to God, the only time I've EVER been loudly, verbally assaulted in public by someone else for my weight, it was another woman. Absolutely ridiculous. Soon as women start turning on each other this way, then that means all the chauvinistic, Patriarchy-loving a-holes have won. That, plus what's going on right now with Roe v. Wade overturning, it's a rough time to be a woman....

    Csaba Hegedűs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is black women separately mentioned from women of color? I seriously wanna know.

    Pezor Zass
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i think this is a genuine question, not trolling. no need to downvote this!

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    Gin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They definitely aren't my dad's! Maggie Thatcher fan 😖

    Carol Emory
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love it to when you see messages about teens that are excited to get their first vaccines because mom and dad are anti-vaxxers.

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    Dylan Cameron
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry but It's about the company you keeping not "men"

    Pumpkin Spice
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    sex is cool, but only if all parties like it and want to have it.