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Plenty of famous quotes are known for having Eleanor Roosevelt’s trademark on them, and they have made their way into our collective consciousness. But Eleanor Roosevelt was so much more than a great speaker. Sure, she was trusted with giving speeches and appearing at campaign events in her husband’s place after he was diagnosed with a paralytic illness. Still, it’s her work as an activist for civil and human rights that contributed to her reshaping the role of a First Lady. 

It’s no secret that Eleanor Roosevelt was a woman ahead of her time. Born into a wealthy family and married to one of the most prominent politicians in the United States, she was undoubtedly set up for success. But she chose to devote her privileged position to public service, becoming an activist and advocate for women’s emancipation, racial equality, and civil rights.

She already had tremendous influence during FDR’s presidency, but that influence didn’t stop when she left the White House. In fact, it was only heightened by her willingness to speak out about widespread intolerance — and she did so with passion and conviction. She was the first to recognize that the New Deal programs discriminated against African Americans, who got a disproportionate share of relief money. 

Clearly, she wasn’t immune to hate. Eleanor Roosevelt often disagreed with her husband’s decisions when she thought they could harm minorities and was vocal in publicly defending Japanese Americans after the widespread anti-Asian hysteria following the attack on Pearl Harbor.

She was a force to be reckoned with, and her legacy lives on today in the hearts of many. The least we can do to celebrate such a prominent figure is to spread the inspiring words from her speeches, public appearances, and books. We put together our favorite Eleanor Roosevelt quotes that inspired the world with her wit, intelligence, and compassion.

#1

Eleanor Roosevelt quote on war “No one won the last war, and no one will win the next war.”

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    “Learn from the mistakes of others. You can't live long enough to make them all yourself.”

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    #3

    “Do one thing every day that scares you.”

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    #4

    “Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.”

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    #5

    “If someone betrays you once, it's their fault; if they betray you twice, it's your fault.”

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    #6

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on learning and thinking “He who learns but does not think is lost. He who thinks but does not learn is in great danger.”

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    #7

    “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”

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    Kathryn Clark
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love this one. Kept it written on a note on my desk for years.

    #8

    “Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That is why it is called the present.”

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    #9

    “Never allow a person to tell you 'no' who doesn’t have the power to say yes.”

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    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on asking others to do something “It is not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself.”

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    Sharon Gallant
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why I don't want to know anyone

    #11

    “Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.”

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    #12

    “Today is the oldest you've ever been, and the youngest you'll ever be again.”

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    #13

    “We have to face the fact that either all of us are going to die together or we are going to learn to live together, and if we are to live together we have to talk.”

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    #14

    “There is nothing to fear except fear itself.”

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    #15

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on criticisms “Do what you feel in your heart to be right – for you’ll be criticized anyway.”

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    #16

    “Nothing has ever been achieved by the person who says, ‘It can’t be done.’”

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    #17

    “Friendship with one’s self is all-important because, without it, one can not be friends with anyone else in the world.”

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    #18

    “There is no human being from whom we cannot learn something if we are interested enough to dig deep.”

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    #19

    “You always admire what you really don't understand.”

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    #20

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on destruction “What you don't do can be a destructive force.”

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    #21

    “If you lose the money you lose much. If you lose friends you lose more. If you lose faith you lose all.”

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    #22

    “I am who I am today because of the choices I made yesterday.”

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    #23

    “You have to accept whatever comes, and the only important thing is that you meet it with the best you have to give.”

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    #24

    “Since everybody is an individual, nobody can be you. You are unique. No one can tell you how to use your time. It is yours. Your life is your own. You mold it. You make it.”

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    #25

    “Life is like a parachute jump, you’ve got to get it right the first time.”

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    #26

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on interests “One thing life has taught me: if you are interested, you never have to look for new interests. They come to you. When you are genuinely interested in one thing, it will always lead to something else.”

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    #27

    “All of life is a constant education.”

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    #28

    “You can often change your circumstances by changing your attitude.”

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    #29

    “You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.”

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    #30

    “What could we accomplish if we knew we could not fail?”

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    #31

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on doing things that you like “Do the things that interest you and do them with all your heart. Don’t be concerned about whether people are watching you or criticizing you. The chances are, are that they aren’t paying attention to you.”

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    #32

    “Woman is like a tea bag; you never know how strong it is until it's in hot water.”

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    #33

    “Never mistake knowledge for wisdom. One helps you make a living; the other helps you make a life.”

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    #34

    “When will our consciences grow so tender that we will act to prevent human misery rather than avenge it?”

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    #35

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on positivity “Light a candle instead of cursing the darkness.”

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    #36

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on owning black dress “You should always own a black dress because no one ever remembers a black dress.”

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    #37

    “Each of us has... all the time there is. Those years, weeks, and hours, are the sands in the glass running swiftly away. To let them drift through our fingers is a tragic waste. To use them to the hilt, making them count for something, is the beginning of wisdom.”

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    #38

    “Justice cannot be for one side alone, but must be for both.”

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    #39

    “Life was meant to be lived, and curiosity must be kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life.”

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    #40

    “It isn't enough to talk about peace. One must believe in it. And it isn't enough to believe in it. One must work at it.”

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    #41

    “The giving of love is an education in itself.”

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    #42

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on doing what you cannot do “You must do the thing you think you cannot do.”

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    #43

    “Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art.”

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    #44

    “Life is what you make it. Always has been, always will be.”

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    #45

    “It's your life — but only if you make it so.”

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    #46

    “Understanding is a two-way street.”

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    #47

    “The greatest give you can give a child is an imagination.”

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    #48

    “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”

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    #49

    “With the new day comes new strength.”

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    #50

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on experience “The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for a newer and richer experience.”

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    #51

    “To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart.”

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    #52

    “You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.”

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    #53

    “Think as little as possible about yourself. Think as much as possible about other people.”

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    #54

    “It is a brave thing to have the courage to be an individual; it is also, perhaps, a lonely thing. But it is better than not being an individual, which is to be nobody at all.”

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    #55

    “I never waste time looking back.”

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    #56

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on making a choice “We all create the person we become by our choices as we go through life. In a real sense, by the time we are adults, we are the sum total of the choices we have made.”

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    #57

    “It takes courage to love, but pain through love is the purifying fire which those who love generously know. We all know people who are so much afraid of pain that they shut themselves up like clams in a shell and, giving out nothing, receive nothing and therefore shrink until life is a mere living death.”

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    #58

    “The reason that fiction is more interesting than any other form of literature, to those who really like to study people, is that in fiction the author can really tell the truth without humiliating himself.”

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    #59

    “Happiness is not a goal... It's a by product of a life well lived.”

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    #60

    “I think, at a child's birth, if a mother could ask a fairy godmother to endow it with the most useful gift, that gift would be curiosity.”

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    #61

    “People grow through experience if they meet life honestly and courageously. This is how character is built.”

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    #62

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on finding yourself “I think that somehow, we learn who we really are and then live with that decision.”

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    #63

    “Freedom makes a huge requirement of every human being. With freedom comes responsibility. For the person who is unwilling to grow up, the person who does not want to carry his own weight, this is a frightening prospect.”

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    #64

    “The only advantage of not being too good a housekeeper is that your guests are so pleased to feel how very much better they are.”

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    #65

    “I have never felt that anything really mattered but knowing that you stood for the things in which you believed and had done the very best you could.”

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    #66

    “Will people ever be wise enough to refuse to follow bad leaders or to take away the freedom of other people?”

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    Kathryn Clark
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hold out hope that one day they will be.

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    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on being needed “In all our contacts it is probably the sense of being really needed and wanted which gives us the greatest satisfaction and creates the most lasting bond.”

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    #68

    “I could not, at any age, be content to take my place by the fireside and simply look on. Life was meant to be lived.”

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    #69

    “It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan.”

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    #70

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on being confident “Be confident, not certain.”

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    #71

    “Have convictions. Be friendly. Stick to your beliefs as they stick to theirs. Work as hard as they do.”

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    #72

    “The battle for the individual rights of women is one of long-standing and none of us should countenance anything which undermines it.”

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    #73

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on hate “Hate and force cannot be in just a part of the world without having an effect on the rest of it.”

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    #74

    “It is not more vacation we need — it is more vocation.”

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    #75

    “No matter how plain a woman may be, if truth and honesty are written across her face, she will be beautiful.”

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    #76

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on being afraid “We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.”

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    #77

    “Do not stop thinking of life as an adventure. You have no security unless you can live bravely, excitingly, imaginatively; unless you can choose a challenge instead of competence.”

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    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on being mature “To be mature you have to realize what you value most… Not to arrive at a clear understanding of one’s own values is a tragic waste. You have missed the whole point of what life is for.”

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    #79

    “Your ambition should be to get as much life out of living as you possibly can, as much enjoyment, as much interest, as much experience, as much understanding. Not simply be what is generally called a ‘success.”

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    #80

    “Friendship with oneself is all important, because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world.”

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    #81

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on depression and work “Work is always an antidote to depression.”

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    #82

    “One's philosophy is not best expressed in words; it is expressed in the choices one makes. In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility.”

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    #83

    “A stumbling block to the pessimist is a stepping — stone to the optimist.”

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    #84

    “When you cease to make a contribution, you begin to die.”

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    #85

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on accomplishments “As for accomplishments, I just did what I had to do as things came along.”

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    #86

    “What counts, in the long run, is not what you read; it is what you sift through your own mind; it is the ideas and impressions that are aroused in you by your reading. It is the ideas stirred in your own mind, the ideas which are a reflection of your own thinking, which make you an interesting person”

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    #87

    “Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual you have an obligation to be one.”

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    #88

    “Never be bored, and you will never be boring.”

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    #89

    “If you can develop this ability to see what you look at, to understand its meaning, to readjust your knowledge to this new information, you can continue to learn and to grow as long as you live and you’ll have a wonderful time doing it.”

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    “Do whatever comes your way to do as well as you can. Think as little as possible about yourself. Think as much as possible about other people. Dwell on things that are interesting. Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.”

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    #91

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on doing something useful “If anyone were to ask me what I want out of life I would say- the opportunity for doing something useful, for, in no other way, I am convinced, can true happiness be attained.”

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    #92

    “Anyone who knows history, particularly the history of Europe, will, I think, recognize that the domination of education or of government by any one particular religious faith is never a happy arrangement for the people.”

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    #93

    “If life were predictable it would cease to be life, and be without flavor.”

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    #94

    “If you want a world ruled by law and not by force you must build up, from the very grassroots, a respect for the law.”

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    #95

    “Do what you feel in your heart to be right — for you'll be criticized anyway.”

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    #96

    “A mature person is one who does not think only in absolutes, who is able to be objective even when deeply stirred emotionally, who has learned that there is both good and bad in all people and in all things, and who walks humbly and deals charitably with the circumstances of life, knowing that in this world no one is all-knowing and therefore all of us need both love and charity.”

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    #97

    “I believe anyone can conquer fear by doing the things he fears to do, provided he keeps doing them until he gets a record of successful experience behind him.”

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    #98

    “The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for a newer and richer experiences.”

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    #99

    “Every time you meet a situation you think at the time it is an impossibility and you go through the tortures of the damned, once you have met it and lived through it, you find that forever after you are freer than you were before.”

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    #100

    “Courage is exhilarating.”

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    #101

    “The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for a newer and richer experience.”

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    #102

    “Do the things that interest you and do them with all your heart. Don't be concerned about whether people are watching you or criticizing you. The chances are that they aren't paying any attention to you. It's your attention to yourself that is so stultifying. But you have to disregard yourself as completely as possible. If you fail the first time then you'll just have to try harder the second time. After all, there's no real reason why you should fail. Just stop thinking about yourself.”

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    #103

    “Lest I keep my complacent way I must remember somewhere out there a person died for me today. As long as there must be war, I ask and I must answer was I worth dying for?”

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    #104

    “You can never really live anyone else's life, not even your child's. The influence you exert is through your own life, and what you've become yourself.”

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    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on being peaceful “I could not at any age be content to take my place in a corner by the fireside and simply look on.”

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    #106

    “To me who dreamed so much as a child, who made a dreamworld in which I was the heroine of an unending story, the lives of people around me continued to have a certain storybook quality. I learned something which has stood me in good stead many times — The most important thing in any relationship is not what you get but what you give.”

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    #107

    “I am convinced that every effort must be made in childhood to teach the young to use their own minds. For one thing, is sure: If they don't make up their minds, someone will do it for them.”

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    #108

    “Anyone who thinks must think of the next war as they would of suicide.”

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    #109

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on being absent “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”

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    #110

    “Courage is more exhilarating than fear and in the long run, it is easier. We do not have to become heroes overnight. Just a step at a time, meeting each thing that comes up, seeing it is not as dreadful as it appeared, discovering we have the strength to stare it down.”

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    #111

    “Mozart, who was buried in a pauper’s grave, was one of the greatest successes we know of, a man who in his early thirties had poured out his inexhaustible gift of music, leaving the world richer because he had passed that way. To leave the world richer — that is the ultimate success.”

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    #112

    “If a man is to be liberated to enjoy more leisure, he must also be prepared to enjoy this leisure fully and creatively.”

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    #113

    “When you adopt the standards and the values of someone else … you surrender your own integrity. You become, to the extent of your surrender, less of a human being.”

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    #114

    “I know that we will be the sufferers if we let great wrongs occur without exerting ourselves to correct them.”

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    #115

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on personality “Only a man's character is the real criterion of worth.”

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    #116

    “To be a citizen in a democracy, a human being must be given a healthy start.”

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    #117

    “Each time you learn something new you must readjust the whole framework of your knowledge.”

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    #118

    “Probably the happiest period in life most frequently is in middle age, when the eager passions of youth are cooled, and the infirmities of age not yet begun.”

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    #119

    “Character building begins in our infancy and continues until death.”

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    #120

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on success “Success must include two things: the development of an individual to his utmost potentiality and a contribution of some kind to one’s world.”

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    #121

    “Do not stop thinking of life as an adventure. You have no security unless you can live bravely, excitingly, imaginatively; unless you can choose a challenge instead of competence.”

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    #122

    “Pit race against race, religion against religion, prejudice against prejudice. Divide and conquer! We must not let that happen here.”

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    #123

    “Where, after all, do universal human rights begin? In small places, close to home - so close and so small that they cannot be seen on any maps of the world. Yet they are the world of the individual person; the neighborhood he lives in; the school or college he attends; the factory, farm, or office where he works. Such are the places where every man, woman, and child seeks equal justice, equal opportunity, and equal dignity without discrimination. Unless these rights have meaning there, they have little meaning anywhere. Without concerted citizen action to uphold them close to home, we shall look in vain for progress in the larger world.”

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    #124

    “The only things one can admire at length are those one admires without knowing why.”

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    #125

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on choice “There are no have-to's, just choices”

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    #126

    “The most unhappy people in the world are those who face the days without knowing what to do with their time. But if you have more projects than you have time for, you are not going to be an unhappy person. This is as much a question of having imagination and curiosity as it is of actually making plans.”

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    #127

    “Every woman wants to be first to someone sometime in her life and that desire is the explanation for many strange things women do.”

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    #128

    “It seems to me of great importance to teach children respect for life. Towards this end, experiments on living animals in classrooms should be stopped. To encourage cruelty in the name of science can only destroy the finer emotions of affection and sympathy, and breed an unfeeling callousness in the young towards suffering in all living creatures.”

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    #129

    “Up to a certain point, it is good for us to know that there are people in the world who will give us love and unquestioned loyalty to the limit of their ability. I doubt, however, if it is good for us to feel assured of this without the accompanying obligation of having to justify this devotion by our behavior.”

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    #130

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on changes “We have reached a point today where labor-saving devices are good only when they do not throw the worker out of his job.”

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    #131

    “When you know to laugh and when to look upon things as too absurd to take seriously, the other person is ashamed to carry through even if he was serious about it.”

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    #132

    “No man is defeated without until he has first been defeated within.”

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    #133

    “Your life is your own. You mold it. You make it. All anyone can do is to point out ways and means which have been helpful to others. Perhaps they will serve as suggestions to stimulate your own thinking until you know what it is that will fulfill you, will help you to find out what you want to do with your life.”

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    #134

    “Obedience may have its uses, but it is no substitute for willing, uncoerced co-operation.”

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    #135

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on being responsible “You not only have a right to be an individual. You have a responsibility.”

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    #136

    “Once I had a rose named after me and I was very flattered. But I was not pleased to read the description in the catalogue: "No good in a bed, but fine up against a wall.”

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    #137

    “It takes courage to love, but pain through love is the purifying fire which those who love generously know. We all know people who are so much afraid of pain that they shut themselves up like clams in a shell and, giving out nothing, receive nothing and therefore shrink until life is a mere living death.”

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    #138

    “Love can often be misguided and do as much harm as good, but respect can do only good. It assumes that the other person's stature is as large as one's own, his rights as reasonable, his needs as important.”

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    #139

    “When it's better for everyone, it's better for everyone.”

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    #140

    Eleanor Roosevelt quote on enjoying free time “If a man is to be liberated to enjoy more leisure, he must also be prepared to enjoy this leisure fully and creatively.”

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