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Getting out of your comfort zone is always a part of traveling. That’s why, despite the joys new countries and exotic places bring us, many people prefer to stay in the comfort of their home and don’t step foot into the unknown.

In order to see what kind of exact differences are waiting for travelers, Bored Panda looked at the various Reddit threads where people shared their biggest culture shocks.

Like a cold shower, it taught them a lesson that the societal norms they took for granted change depending on the culture and location you disembarked from the plane. Scroll down through the most interesting stories below!

#1

"The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered We had this akward conversation with a family in Venezuela who we had invited over for dinner. They just wouldn't leave! My dad was doing the polite Canadian thing and mentioning that "we were tired", that "usually we would be in bed by now", that "it's been a long night and they probably want to get home", walking them toward the front door. And then we were stuck just standing there staring at each other. My dad finally just blurts out "Why won't you leave?! We're tired and want to go to bed!" And in frusteration they reply "Why won't you just let us go?!" Turns out that in Venezuelan culture it's rude to leave on your own as an invited guest. The polite thing to do is to wait for your host to open the door and guide you out, but in Canadian culture it's rude to ask your invited company to leave and you wait for them to open the door and go on their own.

igrowpeople , Lisa Fotios Report

Chris berkley
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok this one is actually funny

alias D.
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I cannot stress how hard I laughed at this whole absurd situation

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Brazen
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a Canadian, your comment made me laugh harder than I probably should have. :)

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Dizavid
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg those poor people probably began wondering if they were kidnapped. Idk why that made me laugh; I think I'm still hung over from the giggles at, "Why won't you just let us go?!" being the way the superpolite standoff ended.

AxleMunshine001
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Legend says they are still stuck at the threshold

TheAquarius1978
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh God lol, i would have Venezuelan gests in my house for years then lol

Anton
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hillarious, two hostage situations unbeknownst to both

Cat Momma
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i hope they had a good laugh at the door after that....

Orlando Chacín
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Actual Venezuelan here, THIS IS NOT TRUE XD they probably came up with that out of embarassment, probably they overstayed because the Canadians were all polite and warm and kept doing hospitalary things and they thought it was rude to leave early xD

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    #2

    This is hard to admit, but as someone who grew up in the USA I was taught in a thousand ways that this country sets every standard and deserves deference from everyplace else on earth. It was so ingrained that I didn't even know it was an assumption ... until I was outside the states and it was obvious that the USA is not the center of the universe. People are doing just fine all over the place without, you know, being us. What's more, the myth we tell ourselves is that everyone in the world would live here if they only could. No, they wouldn't. A whole lot of people see us as a collection of fools, greedheads, and bumblers who happen to have been born in a place with a lot of natural resources. Since Trump, of course, the idea that our system of government is magically self-correcting is also under serious question.

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    Seth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our rampant gun violence, corrupt police, dystopian healthcare, and widespread rejection of climate science probably don't seem very appealing to outsiders.

    Mabelbabel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am genuinely bewildered as to why the idea of socialised medicine is so vigorously opposed. And the gun violence is equally impossible to understand-the thought that you'd rather teach your children shooter drills from age 5, have armed guards in schools, even think about arming teachers than bring in proper legislation against guns that no normal person needs to have access to is beyond me. The fact your politicians are happy to accept the mass slaughter of innocents is frightening.

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    BarBeeGirl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve often said that Americans are brainwashed as soon as they enter school that America is best country in the world. It’s not

    TheAquarius1978
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not by a longshot lol, i would bet that right now its Norway

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    Kimberly Alison
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m from the u.s. and I’ve never thought that way- In fact, kind of the opposite. Travel helps.

    Amy Taylor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same!! My grandparents are all from Europe, my parents first generation Americans and I noticed from a very early age that we were being brought up very differently than our friends were.

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    Emma S
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The gun situation really puts me off the US. The UK had one school shooting back in 1996 and immediately implemented very strict gun controls laws. No school shootings since. Simple. The US just doesn't seem to get that notion and will insist on their 'right' to bear arms. I'm not saying that there are no guns on the streets in the UK, but they're certainly a lot harder to find than in the US. I find it mind blowing that people can just walk down the street with a gun in their pocket or that you can buy them in shops. Or that schools have to make children go through metal detectors before they're allowed in. As the mother of a teenager it would terrify me.

    1ch0
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah It is just insane when you think about it. In germany you can be sure that 99% of all people on the streets dont carry a gun. Only police or security guards for money transports do. You dont have to be afraid, to get shot when going for a walk. I could not even imagine to live in the US..

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    Mel The Axolotl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone currently in the American School System, yeah 100%. I'll admit, even now I think like that a lot of the time, but I try to correct myself on it, reread before commenting on stuff, etc. but we are very much taught that the US is the center of the world and also better than everywhere else.

    Alexandra Davis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's good that even at a young age you recognise that this is happening but also scary that it's happening and many many other young people won't realise that isn't the case.

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    Sandra Keith
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love living in USA. But have never been taught, nor do I think I am superior to anyone else

    Jay Son
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds of the time my MIL accused me of coming to the US for the better social services and healthcare. Mind you, I'm originally from the Netherlands lol.

    Tamra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For the "better social services and healthcare"?? 😂. Were you able to keep a straight face? Lmao

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    Kathy Rayborn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The thing I have always loved about the US was the diversity of cultures and different ethnic groups. I was proud of the US being known as “ the melting pot”. Even though it seems that Americans are racist and closed minded, I don’t believe that is true for most, especially due to multi-generational families and younger people with a global acceptance mentality. The loudest aren’t always the strongest.

    Mistiekim
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never used to give the flags flying everywhere a second thought. Now I look at them and get angry. People are so brainwashed by the idea of “freedom” and how helping your fellow man is *gasp* socialism. Plus, our government can’t seem to decipher the constitution. They bend it to their will and don’t consider it’s true intention based on the time period it was written.

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    #3

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Croatia: it's a standard expectation that you clean the street outside your house as part of cleaning your house (at least in the small towns i was in -not sure about the cities). The cleanest streets I've ever seen and a real sense of communal civic pride.

    Ech1n0idea , Michael Report

    Bijou Lee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Picture is not Croatia just for the record. This is one of the Cycladic islands in Greece.

    And What?
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! Glad someone pointed that out! I’ve been to a few of the Greek islands and it looks exactly like this, so I was confused when I saw this picture.

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    Sebastiaan Mook
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love Croatia, my dad went there on vacation since the 70s and I went to krk almost every summer in the end 90s and 00s. Highly recommended.

    LittleWombat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is where my mom is from and I lived during my childhood!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

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    Sahshdiurrbrjdjdjf
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We could do with some of that in the UK.

    Fraxinus excelsior
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally agree with you on this one. I regularly remove the weeds and moss from in front of my wall next to the pavement, but my neighbours don't and it looks so unsightly, only a few houses on my street keep theirs cleared too. Same goes for any rubbish that lies in front of my house, usually dropped by the refuse collectors, I'll pick it up and put it in my bin.

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    kraftmacaroniandbeez
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the best country with the coolest beaches i've ever seen

    Owen Jarvis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we make this an International Law please?

    mpozi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    MYKONOS !!! MYKONOS !!! MYKONOS !!!

    Roxanne D'souza
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are images mixed though? This is clearly Greece and not Croatia.

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    #4

    I moved to Australia when I was 20 and I thought people were going to be speaking English. I was wrong. Me, "I'm going to McDonald's, you want me to get you a breakfast burrito?" Shane, "Oi Maccas Fair Dinkum mate! Had to ruck up early for the physio and me ute was out of petrol so stopped at the servo and asked the Sheila if they had brekky but noooouaahho just lollies so ive been getting aggro" None of the sounds that just fell out of your head were words. Do you want a burrito or not?

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    Eleven's eggos
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am Australian, here is a translation: He had to get up earlier so he could go to the Physio and his car ran out of petrol, so he went to the petrol station (gas station in America) and asked the lady at the counter if they did breakfast but they only did lollies (sweets in UK, candy in America) so he is getting angry

    Appalachian Panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OOC is "the physio" a place (a gym) or is it a general word for exercise?

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    Lauren S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I… I think??? I think he got up early to exercise, but his car didn’t have gas so he went to a gas station, and the attractive woman said they didn’t sell breakfast but they did have lollipops. So, he’s hungry? Yes, yes, just get him the burrito.

    Judes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aggro is angry or annoyed. A sheila is any woman, not necessarily an attractive one (although it's not in common usage anymore).

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    Sebastiaan Mook
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They sell burritos at McDonald's?

    Randolph Croft
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They do in Australia. But not in Mexico. Strange, that.

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    Elita One
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm an Aussie so it made perfect sense to me 😁

    Taibhse Sealgair
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    American here. I understood it, but what was weird was that as I read it it was in an Aussie accent in my head. Not sure if I should be worried about that.

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    The boredest panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not everyone in Australia speaks like this, mostly just in rural areas, people in cities speak fairly normally. Funny though

    Judes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While some of the sentence is over the top, much of it is quite normal in Australia. Maccas, physio, brekky, ute, petrol, servo, lollies and aggro are all common words which everyone understands and most people will use, but they will stump many Americans (and 'stump' might be another one).

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    Peeka_Mimi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understood that.

    Hugh Cookson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Brilliant !! Many years ago, I ran a kitchen in a large hotel with a very multi cultural staff among them were a couple of Aussie Chefs ; at the time I was going out with a French girl who spoke very good English. Whenever a bunch of us met up after work for a beer or two, she would always look very bemused when speaking with one or both of the Aussie guys, so I asked her why and her reply was that ' to me it sounds like a duck quacking at me - I can make out some words so usually just smile and nod my head' . From that moment I can't listen to an Aussie talk with visualising a talking duck !!

    Ivanh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah nah. When I lived in Canada as an aussie no one understood all of our aussie abreviations.

    My O My
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm always using the nz "ta" as in "thank you" when speaking english, we used it when I was a kid. No one ever understands it... Also mozzies, only Austrians and Kiwis know what I mean

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    #5

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered In Spain, no chit chat from the waiter. None of that "I'll be serving you" stuff that we hear in the US. Just "tell me." My introvert self loved it. I tell you, food arrives, I eat.

    whatawonderfulword , Kate Townsend Report

    Frank S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is how it should work. Ideal.

    XrAtCaTkiD
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yes less pressure to start a the dreaded thing known as a conversation

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    Dizavid
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg so none of that, "How's everyone's food? Everything good? Need a refill in your clearly tenth empty drink?" right at the moment I began chewing. And the silent wait as they absolutely seem unable to speak the language of emphatic head-nods. "So y'all are sure; everything's right good? Sure you don't want me to top that drink off? We have microscopic fluid administrators back there, THE TECHNOLOGY EXISTS" while I'm headbanging like Beavis and Butt-Head merged into the portmanteau nobody asked for. (Gotta get you some Beave-Head) Edit: To be clear I f*****g hate this practice when it HAS to be obvious I've got half a head of lettuce and cheese in my mouth. I might choke. It's attempted murder.

    Rebecca O’Donnell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dizavid, I am trying so hard not to wake up my husband from laughing. Terrific comment!

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    Kathrin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that's the case for most countries in Europe actually :)

    Candice Lewis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's bc in the US they depend on tips and in other countries they don't. The menial chit chat is in hopes of getting a bigger tip so they can actually pay a bill or two.

    pebs
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not only in Spain, luckily. In Europe it's normal.

    Sarah K
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahhh, how I wish American servers would adopt this. I hate the "my name is Britney and I'll be serving you, can I get you started with some broiled onion wedges and one of our drink specials, may I suggest the cran-apple caramel-tini? It's my absolute fave!! It's made with our own well vodka which is locally sourced from the Walmart down the street. I see you have a little one, so do I, he's probably a year or so younger than yours. He starts preschool in the fall and I'm freaking out, the time goes by so fast. So, you want to try the drink special? It's happy hour so it's $1.50 off and the onion wedges are buy one get one. The dip for them is amazing, it's like this bacon ranch that our chef makes from a mix that corporate sends us. I literally dip everything in it." Girl. Get out of my face. Stop telling me what to order or trying to find common ground with me.

    Happy_Pandalover
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    to clear up misunderstandings: different to the usa and canada, waiters in europe are not required to „chit chat“ and do the „how are you etc.“ routine. so if they are talkative, it‘s because they actually want to or think it‘s common sense to be social :). It depends on their individual character.

    Narwhal Blast
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't have the same experience in Madrid... in Barcelona, Zaragoza, Seville, yes... in Madrid, all the waiters were chitchatting to us...

    Lousha
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've only been to Spain once, in a popular tourist place. Our waiter (guy about 55 years old) was incredibly - pleasantly, not annoyingly - friendly. He kept coming back to the table even when he had no duty. He told us about the town, asked about our homes. Kept bringing us shots on the house. Was incredibly invested in us having a good time, even sat with us after his shift was over. The next night when we ate there again, he even pulled out a huge collection of family photos to show us. He was adorable, even though I usually hate that sort of thing. But he was so genuine, so nice.

    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Excellent.

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    #6

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered I was shocked by how friendly most people in the US are. When we're buying groceries, the cashier would make small talk with us about what we're buying. I bought KFC and was having trouble with american coins (they're all the same color ok!) and the nice cashier helped me (there was no one else at the store so he had time). My uncle was raised in the US and knew all his neighbors, he loves riding bikes so he knows everyone around the neighborhood who also rides. I'd walk his dog while I was there and people would just randomly stop and talk to me about the dog. The friendliness makes my trips to the US very wholesome and nice.

    anon , Andrea Piacquadio Report

    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a nice thing to say.

    Fuzzy bunny feet
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s nice to hear someone say good things about the US on here for a change. Yes we have our problems like any other country but don’t judge us all by only what you see in the news. Normal everyday people are for the most part nice. I’m one of those who will talk to anyone with a dog.

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    Peeka_Mimi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We get a lot of bad press, but we try to be friendly.

    shadow_magnet
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Filipina, I find Americans loud but very friendly I had so much fun when I went there with my family you guys are very talkative and you guys have a large portion of everything i have to admit that's the only problem i had in there because it's so hard for us to finish the food.

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    Kimberly Alison
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s so nice to hear- finally. We ain’t all bad eggs! Thank you.

    Luna W.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You definitely aren't. <3 I've lived in the US for 15 years, and even though it was very unusual at first, I absolutely started to love how friendly and polite everyone was. People would actually make eye contact, smile at you and say Hi, even though you never met them. It made me feel really good, and it felt equally good doing that as well. You'd get compliments for a nice outfit or hairstyle; at the supermarket people don't ram their shopping carts into your ankles or push you out of their way. If you'd drop something, everyone around you would bend down to pick it up for you. People paid attention to each other and were always happy to help, or to have a quick chat. It was so easy to get to know people because they made it easy for you. Back in Germany (major city), I really, really miss that. I was terribly homesick for the US for the longest time. Posts and comments that just absolutely bash the US make me really upset.

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    Rob Williams
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Got to agree the cliche about Americans being loud and obnoxious is so wrong.

    Amy Taylor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? We were downright scolded as kids for not using indoor voices, lol

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    Kris
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You must stop and talk about the dog!

    dof huggle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! Please stop and ask about my dogs, pet my dogs. They love it. Just don't ask about me.

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    Brazen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in Quebec now and had a friend from here travel back west to where I'm from originally. When he got back all he could talk about was how friendly everyone was and that the cashiers actually talked to him. He was pretty shocked, and said "I'm going to miss that." lol

    Dizavid
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay so I knew several other forms of paper currency were multicolored, but I'm even more pissed now to hear we apparently missed out on multicolored coins now!? At LEAST I could call my "keys n' pocket s**t" drawer a decorative art project and actually be able to pull the lie off. I'd also never be able to turn in the change jar. This is just my vase that doesn't accept flowers just small offerings of my finances.

    Chucky Cheezburger
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I wanna know if they're different shades of standard metal colors or do they some how make them have color like blue or green or whatever.l

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    Devon Archer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most Americans are just friendly people who want a good life. First time to NYC I thought everyone was going to be incredibly rude but I struck up conversations all the time with people.

    Michelle C
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks! We’re happy to welcome you here! Most of us are welcoming unlike what the media shows we are. Unfortunately, the people who choose to be negative Nellies tend to make the news most.

    Melissa Macklin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was 21 I bought a van and drove across the USA from West to East and back. Everyone was so nice to us along the way and so helpful. Amazing trip, such a beautiful country.

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    #7

    The sheer awesomeness of Japanese convenience stores. My local 7-11 has sticky floors and doubtful looking packaged sandwiches. The 7-11s in Japan are clean, well-lit, have a great selection of lunch/dinner prepackaged meals, and not only do they have a cold drink section, they have a special heated unit for hot drinks. When I saw all the technological innovations in Japan, I felt like I came from a third world country.

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    GVL
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The 7-11 also has shirts, socks, handkerchiefs and other clothing items. I couldn’t believe it when I saw it there.

    gie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And a complete make-up section with quality undergarments too. They sell them as many office workers might find themselves needing these things in case they get stuck and miss their last train home. And customer service is unbelievable. There's a special babble that Japanese 7-11 workers use that even ocals can't decipher most of it, lol. It's like fast, polite dialogue to make sure you are satisfied and thanked properly before leaving.

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    Marley Nachi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you can actually trust Japanese convenient stores to eat sushi, where in other places you would second guess food poisoning

    Molly Block
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. Japan makes a lot of the USA look like we are so far behind....by decades. Many decades.

    jjdubs W
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All the convenience stores in Japan. Great place to get a low cost meal or snack. I miss them immensely now that I've returned to the States. Don't get me started on their 100¥ (dollar) stores!

    Alicia M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The 7-11s in my state are run down, but we have gas station/convenience stores that have anything you could ever want. They are like regular stores, just smaller. I don't know if 7-11s are struggling to stay in business here, but there are definitely fewer around than when I was a kid, and they're all outdated.

    Mia C
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish all 7-11 stores were like that. I live in a large city in the US (downtown). You need to walk in wearing a hazmat suit and accompanied by a priest.

    Carole Reid
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Japan is a great place to go. I lived there for five years. Don't forget get to bow.

    Blueplanet
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the 7-11s in other asian countries like china are also like this its great

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    #8

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Barefoot people EVERYWHERE in New Zealand. In Starbucks, in the mall, on public transit, walking down the street. No shoes, no socks, no f**ks to give.

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    Snigget
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in NZ and a dear friend was telling me the story of when they were kids and visited relatives in the UK they went everywhere barefoot. One shopkeeper offered their father money so he could buy so shoes for his poor children! He was MORTIFIED!!

    Fiona Parky
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s a lovely idea, unfortunately the UK has a few things that make barefoot impractical. There’s brambles, thistles, unexpected cowpats hiding in long grass, stones with sharp edges, surprise badgers and finally, sheep cack.

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    Randolph Croft
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hence, NZ is where the Hobbits are to be found.

    Natasha
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why wear shoes if its safe not to. Do you not shower and wash your feet ? Do you not wash your floors ? I'm an Aussie and in hot weather it's thongs or nothing. Is this offensive in other cultures? How can you not appreciate walking bare footed ? It feels amazing

    Auntie Bear
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the US the stores have signs that say "No Shoes, No Shirt, No Service". We are required to wear shoes. Everyone wears shoes, flip flops (thongs) are the bare minimum.

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    Celtic Knotter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you not burn the soles of your feet on hot days? Or am I just so used to cold that I can’t handle the heat others can? 🇨🇦

    goddessgebo
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stay on the grass or concrete the dark roads are what burns.

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    Kątem Oka
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't imagine doing this in public transport

    Zobi123
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, do people do this in big cities in NZ?

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    miss miss
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. In other places your feet would get cut and infected with parasites and bacteria

    Lord Mysticlaw
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In 33 years of walking around barefoot I've never had a cut on my feet (unless you want to count stepping in a thorn in my own garden) or had my feet infected with any parasites or bacteria.

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    Marette
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd be worried about stepping in someone's spit 😣

    Jennik
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not common for people to spit on the footpaths in NZ, although we do see it in visitors from other countries where that is a cultural norm (still considered pretty gross by NZ standards!)

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    Fluffy mommy panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds likey kind of place. I use to stay barefoot when I was a kid. My feet actually got very use to it. You have to watch where you step more. But I love be abel to feel grass under my feet.

    Maggie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The same in South Africa in the seventies. Kids didn't have to wear shoes to school.

    Lord Mysticlaw
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was in school in South Africa in the 90s and 00s and we didn't have to wear shoes to school in summer 🙂

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    Kat Sotiriou
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm from New Zealand and my English husband thought I was so strange

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    #9

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Chile. "Tomorrow" means next week. "Next week" means never. "I'm already there" means "i'm thinking about starting to prepare to go out". For a ten-minutes-early person that was jarring.

    theartlav , Leonie Fahjen Report

    K. Ayyelos
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Adapting to a slower pace of life is tough. All you need to do is recalibrate expectations. Americans seem like neurotic overworked fools for a reason - we are!

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    RafCo (he/him)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is South America in general. Time is a fluid concept, both the past and the future. My American wife thinks I'm crazy because i will say something like "oh, just the other day somebody told me..." She will say, that was two years ago. Well, two years ago is another day, it's not today is it? Two years, the days, what does it matter?

    kraftmacaroniandbeez
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    same in nigeria 😆 now means maybe today and now now means now 😁

    Al Christensen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It will happen when it happens. Until then, continue on with life.

    Robert T
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Mañana". It carries much the same meaning with builders in Spain as well.

    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who used to live and work in Spain I did indeed learn that mañana could mean anything from a day up to a month.

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    Alicia M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would love this. Unless absolutely necessary, I hate being pinned down to doing things at a specific time or at a specific place. I like to keep things loose.

    Nicole Weymann
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless others depend on you that's fine. But to ,say, the owner of a blocked toilet waiting for a plumber the happy go lucky approach quickly loses its appeal.

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    Júlia Fortes
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in Chile and I didn't know

    Gabriela
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You haven't lived around here long enough :)

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our family is 100% Irish-American, but now I know we're also 75% part Chilean.

    Robert B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I may have found my people!

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    #10

    Indonesia. People just sit next to you in the train/bus. Ask personal questions immediately. Want to know why you don't have kids, or a husband. And why you're fat or that you should get a haircut because your hair is ugly. It felt like Christmas at home, but then for months, from multiple people instead of my mum.

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    Cee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds about right. You either get the “Are you eating?” or the “Oof. What have you been eating?”

    Headless Roach
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fun fact: "Have you eaten yet?" is actually a normal Asian greeting. It's an equivalent of the Western "how are you?"

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    Hugh Cookson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Back in the 80's I worked on cruise ships and we docked for a 2 day layover in Macau (very hot and humid), I got off the ship with a Chef friend of mine who was on the large side (6 foot, 240 lbs) and we decided to get a taxi into town ; so we get in, me in the back, him in the front, 5 minutes in he says to the driver ' wow, it's very hot here ' (or something like that), to which the taxi guy replies ' No, it's not very hot, you are very fat' .... I nearly wet myself laughing !!! Happy days.

    ScoMu7eD
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is just not true!!!! INDONESIA IS ONE OF THE MOST CONSERVATIVE COUNTRIES. My wife is Indonesian, she is indicating the same things. If you are white this happened not because its normal but because you are white and they want to be seen talking to you. They believe white people bring prosperity and money and to associate with them brings it to them. Having a white friend also increases their social status.

    Deborah Harris2
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh bless , that's sweet and yet so sad xx

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    Fluffy mommy panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 I couldn't help it. "It felt like Christmas everyday." Lol that would kinda suck......

    Amy Taylor
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess it depends where you go? I spent a few months in Bali in the Ubud area and everyone was beyond friendly but not at all invasive. I actually made some good local friends there. I did notice that they will invite you to their home for dinner right after meeting you and you feel completely safe going.

    Beverly
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bali's culture is totally different from that of the rest of Indonesia.

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    Inclusion2020
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my friend visits her home town in Thailand sometimes. She’s super fit and a totally normal weight, and had gained a lot of muscle since her last visit. But she said the only comments that she got were that she looks fat. She was crushed. If someone asked me why I’m fat, I’d have to come back with “why does your face look like that? Maybe god messed up?” Sorry not sorry haha.

    Mishu Dorobantu
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not a place for introverts, that's for sure.

    Almarako94
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Headphones my friend, headphones

    RadiatorAnkleSpider
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like a visit to the old persons home.

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    #11

    Go to some countries, like Germany or Britain, and tell the locals that you're going for a short 2-4 hour drive. Many will look at you like you grew a second head. Here in Canada, people will do 2 hour drive for groceries. It takes 10 damn hours just get to the next province.

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    Jenna
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The difference between North America and Europe, is time and distance: Europeans believe 100 miles is a long way, and North Americans think 100 years is a long time.

    Linda van der Pal
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the Netherlands if I drive that far, I will have likely entered another country!

    Emma S
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    💯 The UK is so small you can drive from the top to bottom in about 14 hours so anything above 2 hours is considered a long journey here. Even our villages are usually not that far away from a city. I watched an episode of Criminal Minds recently where one of the characters commented that New York was 'only' 3 hours away by train. Made me chuckle at the different attitudes towards travelling.

    ThatBiBookLover
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Singapore is so small that you can take 30 mins to drive from one side to another. 1 hour tops :3 it’s very peculiar for me to see “so small that it’ll only take 14 hours” haha

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    Beth Bohn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Driving through Texas can take a day and you're still in Texas when your done (depending on your starting point of course)

    Wolfe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live on the gulf of Mexico side. If we take a road trip to California, we use one day to get out of Texas, and the other day to get to California. Texas isn't even a pretty state to drive through. Meanwhile, people in the New England area drive through 3 states just to get to work

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    Tristan J
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And Europeans are constantly getting berated for using cars too much and causing climate change, when Americans are driving bigger cars further

    Luna W.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is comparing apples and oranges. Germany is among the 10 largest countries in Europe, but it would fit into the US about 28 times. Just saying... Also, good public transportation in the US exists only in major cities.

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    Sue User
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So my FIL was visiting from France. We were living west of Boise, Idaho. We were discussing day trips and he suggested Yellowstone. Us: thats on the other side of the state Him: so ? Us : thats 450 miles ( 720 km ) . Same distance as Paris to Montpeillier. Him: oh. The thought that it takes as long to drive across one state as it does from almost top to bottom of a country is hard to grasp.

    Reinaldo Fuentes
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the differences between geographically large countries vs smaller ones. If you're from Canada, the US, or Australia, you're accustomed to the idea that large sections of your country are just storage space and everything is faaaaaarrrrrr...

    33Possums
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even east coast people in the US don't seem to understand how big the distances are in the west.

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    Tim
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Part and parcel of why the US uses so much petrol. My commute is 120 round trip

    Matt Atfield
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I lived in Darwin we took a 4 hr day trip. We came back that night. 8 hours driving total for a day trip

    Aubrie Allen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the US... my dude wants to live in the country again... where it took 1-2 hours just to get to a Walmart or Dollar General. I have said no. I like being close to police or fire dept if anything happens.

    Hypoxia Smurf
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are near a fairly remote (for California) mountain hamlet. Minimal services here. Fire crew, dentist, pizza, and minimart are not far. Dollar General is nearby but we're not that desperate. Groceries, a hospital, and a very few major vendors are a half-hour-plus drive downhill. Or we could walk a quarter mile to the county-bus stop. ** We have lived in tiny western USA cities that somehow hosted public bus systems. Do any cities but San Francisco and New York support rail transit?

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    #12

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Not necessarily shocked, but dudes holding hands in India. Thought they were gay, turns out it's a normal custom.

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    Courtney Christelle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Over there it's a sign of friendship.

    Mam cymraeg
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cool always holding hands /linking arns with my girl friends always thought it was sad that the boys didn't

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    Ray McArdle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now, if westerners would just relax...

    Nea
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Indian here- grew up seeing this all around but ashamed to admit that because of western notions associating this with and shaming homosexuality have made me find this ‘odd’ now. Unlearning this everyday though.

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    Heather Resatz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sri Lanka, Thailand, Malaysia, Philippines, Maldives .. totally normal

    Mardie Mohamed
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Malaysian here. Nope, not normal here. Maybe if you've been here and saw straight guys holding hands, they are most probably Bangladeshis that work here. Local, not so much.

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    RafCo (he/him)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the Middle East and parts of North Africa as well.

    Paul Pierokowski
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As it should be. Why can't I hold my bro's hand?

    Inclusion2020
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    America just needs to chill. We’re humans, most of us appreciate comforting contact like holding hands. I live here, and it’s just so strange to me that my culture directly goes against everything that’s healthy and makes sense for actual living.

    Mabelbabel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look at the media fuss over the photograph of Joe Biden kissing his son Hunter. There were all sorts of horrible insinuations that it was unnatural, they were perverts, it was disgusting etc. What's more natural than a father and son kissing? USA is plain wierd-a country where politicians seem to be perfectly at peace with children getting their heads blown off in school, but God forbid you show some love to a family member or friend.

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    Kosnian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same in Benin, we went there for a 3 weeks, couldn't believe how macho they could be and how they were holding hands walking around at the same time.

    Al Christensen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, with all the people, they might lose each other otherwise. :)

    ScoMu7eD
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair not just India. Many countries men have closer relations than what a lot of westerners would be comfortable with. We can learn a lot from these people.

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    #13

    I was in Germany a couple years ago with a friend of a friend who was born in the Soviet Union (and who still lives in a former Soviet satellite). Someone tried to get us to sign a petition. After the guy left, I had to explain the concept of a petition and he said, "Oh. In my country if you want to change the government you just disappear."

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    XenoMurph
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For a second, I pictured him living on the MIR spacestation. "Former Soviet satellite"?? Oh!

    Deutschland Mädchen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    well, he wanted to change the government, so they made him disappear FAR away

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    DJR
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When four men sit at table to discuss revolution, three are KGB and one is fool.

    Merle Anna
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, let me tell you petitions don't change anything in reality. Enough people need to sign it so it will be brought to politicians to notice so they can continue to not give a fck.

    David H
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    in many states, enough signatures creates a ballot initive that people can vote on. But also politicans do listen if enough people sign, in an election year. Its not an election year, they know you will forget come election time. You do the petition 3 months before the election, and that way, they pay attention

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    Bubbles and sparks
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And with how the situation is in Russia now, not only will people disappear if they would dare to do something like that, if in a high position and not compliant enough, you die a mysterious death... up till now already 14 prominent Russians were killed and I'm thinking it will not stop there...

    Taibhse Sealgair
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Heard a story a while back from a private pilot here in US. When the Olympics were in Atlanta in 1996, he had the opportunity to spend some time with an athlete from Russia. He offered to take said athlete up for a fly in his private plane. The athlete simply refused to believe that he could do this without government approval which would take months to get (if ever).

    idrow1
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or you fall out a window.

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    #14

    In Thailand a little kid had never seen a white person as pale as i was and he put his little hand on my knee to see if it was real. Culture shock for both of us i guess.

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    JoyfulZebra
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me of a story my dad used to tell: back in the 90's he worked in Minneapolis. The Twin Cities are home to one of the largest Hmong communities in the U.S. Anyway, my dad was outside doing his thing when this little Hmong child walked up to him and touched my dad's hairy legs. Apparently Hmong people don't have as much hair, so the kid was really fascinated with my dad. My dad was pretty confused, and even thought he was getting pranked.

    Ozzie Ogawa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would be confused as well if a stranger touched me with a confused face

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    Fricsmom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hubby is strawberry blonde, blue eyed, pale white. He grew up in Peru in the mountains. Most people there had never seen hair or skin his color. He remembers being touched by the kids a lot. They would pinch him or rub his skin to see if the color would come off.

    Pieter LeGrande
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents and us 4 kids visited Ceylon in 1964. My 18 month old sister had long platinum-blonde hair. The local's would run their fingers through her hair as they passed in the street. Really freaked her out. Mum cursed because she'd have to wash it several times a day.

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    Nadya Raymond
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me a story a friend who is an Ebony Jamaican woman told me waaay back in the day when she worked for the UN as a linguist... she went to Bosnia and whenever the children saw her they would wipe their hands on her skin just to see if her complexion would rub off in their little hands. The parents told her that it's the first time they're seeing an ebony person other than on TV and my friend was amazed by that.

    Amy Taylor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was on a really small island in Indonesia and I have red hair. I was doing a surf charter and walked with our captain into town. I asked him if I needed to cover my hair to be respectful of their culture and he said no, it was fine. He was a local. Kids were running up to me touching my hair and hugging me... I've never experienced anything like that. It was so lovely. Same thing... culture shock for both of us!

    keighterz
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had this happen to me with the children I taught in Guatemala. To be fair, I am very fair skinned.

    Sue User
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband really suggested that I should see a doctor the first time he saw my stomach because I am so pale you can see the veins.

    Jill Bussey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's wholesome, childhood curiosity.

    RafCo (he/him)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, I've been all over Thailand. It's a country with a lot of European tourism. This surprises me

    Caro Caro
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been to small villages where the locals have never seen a white, blonde woman! They would touch my arm and check out their finger to see if I was actually that colour. I was ok with it.

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    Ines Olabarria-Smith
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My cousin and her husband went to China for their honeymoon with their one year old. The locals think on hundred of photos of the kid because it was their first occidental baby.

    ScoMu7eD
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kids don't know racism. As I have traveled it is somethjng I have learnt. The parents could be the most racist people on the planet but the children will always be a blank slate. Unfortunately later in life they may have issues but as a child they are just trying to understand the world.

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    #15

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered In parts of Ireland in my grandparents time it was considered rude to accept food or beverages from a host the first time it was offered. The exchange was supposed to go something like: "will you have a cup of tea?" "no thank you, I won't, I won't trouble you" "ahh you will sure, go on" "ahh I will so, if you're making one for yourself" When my parents first went to America, they were shocked to find that people didn't do this, so instead it went: "would you like a cup of coffee?" "no thank you, I won't trouble you" "okay!" "wait! I did actually want coffee!" "then why did you say no??" One of my grandmothers was like this until she died, would get really snippy with you if you accepted a drink or a biscuit the first time she offered it.

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    XenoMurph
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Ahh, Go on, have one. Go on, go on, go on."

    PVR
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Upvote for quoting from Father Ted! :D

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    Mrs Irish Mom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Ireland its either Mrs Doyle and the tea or if its later in the evening u might get Fr Jacks glass of Whiskey 🍀

    Panda Bear
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or if Fr Jack has run out of whiskey, then toilet duck.

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    Leo Domitrix
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh God, this. This is so common in some places, but you never know *where*! My mom's fam did the "courtesy dance". Say no three times before saying yes, or it's rude. Then I run into people who think my first no is a no-not-ever-forever. It's the small things!

    JinxBox
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Finnish people always decline help or coffee, and compliments 😄 I take things literally and hate it when I have to think twice and question their reply. I might go around this by skipping the small talk and just bringing them a cup without asking.

    Amanda Rose
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My maternal grandmother was half Welsh and half English. She did this all the time! Drove my sister and I up the wall!

    Reinaldo Fuentes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My culture (Puerto Rico) also plays this game, but you have to give the question or request at least three goes before you accept. I'm from this culture and find it super annoying.

    BenMaharaj
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve heard it’s the same in the Philippines. Three offers exactly. You must accept or decline on the third offer. And you don’t get to the offers immediately. There’s a lot of general conversation between the offers. Takes forever.

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    Frances M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Multiple offers, plates of biscuits magically appearing. Yup sounds about right. 🤣

    ammara
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same in pakistan. Sometimes the exchange can go on for a considerable period. Food is how we express our love and care for the guest. And it's considered an honor to be able to serve them

    boredkoala
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    (American from the northeast here)...I always ask a second time to indicate that I'm really offering and it's not a bother, but very casually so that there's no pressure. Like "you sure?" Or just "Sure?"

    TheElderNom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It used to be the same in Sweden. This is why my great aunt almost forces cake down one's throat.

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    #16

    Japanese discipline. I was visiting the Hakone Outdoor Museum (a huge sculpture garden). At the end of the tour is a onsen foot bath where visitors can dip their feet in the nice hot water. Tourists of every stripe gathered around the foot bath and the attendant instructed us on the rules. The rules were to be followed to the letter: Remove shoes. Remove socks. Place socks inside shoes. Place shoes in designated area behind you, in basket provided. Pants cuffs are to be rolled up in this fashion: roll back hem to the outside, then fold each additional roll in approximately 1 inch folds. Continue folding up trouser cuffs until the roll extends past your calf muscle. Last fold should be a tight fold to keep your trouser cuff up. Place feet in onsen foot bath and enjoy. When finished with enjoyment, take shoes and socks from basket and retire to bench to let feet dry. When feet are dry, unroll trouser cuffs and re-install socks and shoes. You may now leave. This attendant went up and down the line, repeating the instructions, correcting people whose cuff rolling was sub-optimal. He wasn't mean about it. He was just...exacting. The Japanese guests complied with bows and "HAI!". The foreigners bumbled along, trying their best, and getting a bit irritated. It was a hoot.

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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why does this make me smile?

    Lady Vader
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Made me smile too Mrs S. I think it is the picture it projects in your mind 😁

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    Roman Hans
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    During our trip to Japan, my husband was actually anxious about visiting an onsen (bath) because of all the rules. He thought somebody would yell at him, or we'd be kicked out. But we learned them quickly and absolutely fell in love with them.

    Timmy Pillinger
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Brit I semi envy this. I like our somewhat anarchic culture, but sometimes we fail to enforce rules that would make life better. Notably on littering and fraud.

    B Jones
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hope you don't wear skinny pants, no way you can get more than one roll out of those

    Astrius
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Japan, people are usually EXTREMELY passionate about their jobs, because they are all real jobs, not systematically minimum salary bad conditions like in America and Europe that you don’t like, there jobs are seen well.

    Nandros M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The big corporations in Japan are like the Daimyos of the past. If someone will read the book "Shogun" will understand the loyalty of the Japanese blue or white collar worker to his company.

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    onivdsrapowijap
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These extremely meticulous traditions seem great at first, but having to do everything like this gets irritating fast

    MrPhaiworo
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When finished with enjoyment....

    LH25
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that if that took longer then the attendant thought appropriate, you'd be moving to the next step.

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    Axel Tojo
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can recommend the Hakone outdoor museum and Hakone in general. Close to the footbaths is a wonderful tower with all stained glass windows - one of the best instagram places in Japan that is not a temple. :D

    m.w.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Still remember the ground crew bowing to the departing plane when I flew from Fukuoka to Narita.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would that be so hard? If you have time to sit and soak your feet, you have time to let them dry. ???

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    #17

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Balinese funerals and how they celebrate death. I was sitting on the beach on my first day there and heard a crowd coming, carying food and playing festive music. I thought it was some kind of party or wedding until I realized they were carying a corpse.

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    Sebastiaan Mook
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of cultures have "festive" funerals. Saw a few over the years.

    Al Christensen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's a mentally healthier way to do it.

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    Your Neighborhood Alien
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fun fact: David Bowie had his funeral in Bali like this 💔

    G86
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tbh it's either this or a viking funeral for me

    SCP 4666
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    put your corpse on a boat and set it on fire?

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    Lauren S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s beautiful to see other cultures’ grief processes.

    Amy Taylor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I attended one of these. It was the most beautiful celebration, not at all sad like our American funerals. My local friend told me that they are celebrating because they believe strongly in reincarnation and the person will return in another form. It was a bit jarring doing the visitation, as they don't embalm them, but I got over that. Hundreds of us walked to a field and they did the cremation. I came home and told my mom all about it, and how it was such a beautiful celebration, and she said "that's what I want... no tears...singing and joy" and that's exactly what I did for her when she died a few years later, completely ignoring her Catholic family that demanded she be buried. She didn't want that at all, but I did give them 1/2 of her ashes to bury in the family plot and they could have her service at the Polish church.

    Paul Pierokowski
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandpa wanted this. A celebration, that is. He absolutely hated his family being sad and wanted us to celebrate his return home. We are a Catholic family, so obviously Heaven is big for us.

    Appalachian Panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think celebrating the person's life in this way would generally be a lot healthier for everyone than the bleak and somber funerals I've been to here in the US.

    John Carr
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Irish wake/funeral is similar but way less. Lots of drink, food and having fun. Is a nice way to celebrate someones life. Not as common in cities but in the country, funerals end up being a social event.

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    #18

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered As someone who has lived in the Philippines for most of his life, I am considered quite chubby or overweight here. When I travelled to the USA a few years ago to study, I was shocked when people over there looked at me and said I was quite fit. Huge culture shock in terms of body image, and an even bigger culture shock at the portions of food in the USA.

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    Mick Craig
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Americans eat like they have free healthcare.

    UpQuarkDownQuark
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When we can’t afford decent housing and don’t think we’ll ever be able to retire, we might as well eat ourselves to an early grave. 🇺🇸🍔🍕

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    KY dog mom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in the US and I have never seen fried eggs served with a cheeseburger.

    Duesvolent90
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oooohhhh it's sooo good...Only I tell them to hold the veggies just egg meat and cheese. Perfect hangover meal.

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    Tacet
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not the portion sizes. I've known tiny Thai chaps who'll eat a massive curry a soup and a huge bowl of rice with an egg on it as though he hadn't seen food for a month but for him it was just lunch. The difference is the amount of c**p in American foods, look in an a Americans fridge and the only things without high fructose corn syrup is the vegetables.

    K. Ayyelos
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This can vary greatly by part of the country, of course. But it is a bit fascinating. People don’t seem to want to make the connection (willful ignorance) between our abundance of food (especially low quality) and our dependence on medicine. It’s the greatest racket on this planet.

    Melia Janssen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds familiar. I was also considered big and/or fat in my homeland (another South East Asian country) but after I met and married my Dutch husband, he assured me that I looked normal. And after I moved to The Netherlands, I found out that indeed, I was!!

    Deanna Crichley
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We hardly ever go out to eat, but when we do, I order a child's meal. Portions are WAY too big in the US. Three pieces of fried chicken AND potatoes AND a biscuit or muffin AND a sugary drink as big as your head. It's too much.

    Ivona
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Adding fried eggs to hamburger, fries, and onion rings isn't typical at all.

    Helen Witten
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've travel to the States a couple times. First time was 41 years ago and everything was fine and dandy. The next time I travelled there was 23 years ago and I couldn't get over the size of the seats at their airports. They were wide and huge. Anyway just an observation.

    33Possums
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's to make up for the size of the seats on the plane.

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    JP Purves
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every man, woman and child in the USA is clinically obese. Do not come here, it's catching!

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    #19

    Went to San Francisco. Was shocked to see the amount of homeless people there. Not to mention the amount of human s**t on the ground. It's literally disgusting, like third world disgusting. You amercians need to fix that.

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    Izzy Jeanette
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh now I'm scared... I'm flying there on Christmas Day (from Australia)

    Rebekah
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously, I was just there last November. Homeless, yes. But nothing more than a normal city. And no sh*t. Just my personal experience. I still found it lovely, and full of history.

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    Apachebathmat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ‘You Americans’ need not worry, homelessness is a global problem, only the ignorant would suggest this is localised just to the states, here in the UK it’s a massive concern

    Kai
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks for the kind words! I know the US has major homeless problems, but to make it seem like only a US problem is neither fair nor true.

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    MJ B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The USA needs to come back as a nation. Greed has destroyed it

    Balso Steele
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You need to read some actual history books, not just the whitewashed ones for 5th graders. The US has NEVER been anything close to a utopia for anyone besides rich, white, English-descended men.

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    Helen Witten
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the whole world has to address homelessness. All those poor miserable people just trying to survive with some sort of dignity I'm sure.

    Vanessa Panerosa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    San Francisco’s homeless crisis is staggering. They rule the city. Aggressively approaching you constantly. I was born there and honestly stopped visiting years ago for this very reason. Can’t even imagine what it’s like post-pandemic. It’s really scary.

    Sportsgal
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think Portland, Oregon is worse. Homeless mentally ill people lined the street and aggressively yelled at you and walked toward you. Tents everywhere and smell was terrible. One guy was naked and sprawled in a window sleeping. I was startled! Drug addiction rampant downtown...

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    Marcio Koiki
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Third word disgusting” is a disgusting expression..

    Bonnie Buttons
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm more concerned about the OP's "third world disgusting" comment. And seeing homelessness is not "culture shock"; it's not in the same realm as dining etiquette faux pas or linguistic misunderstandings.

    Jac Sp
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ditto this. I'm from the UK and have travelled a lot but the homelessness in San Fran was the worst I have seen anywhere. Truly shocking.

    Amy Taylor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should see how bad LA is! Hollywood is starting to look like a landfill! I steer anyone visiting away from there.

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    Kimberly Alison
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You think we’re the only country with homelessness problems? San Fran. Is especially bad, I’ve heard.

    LH25
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are entries on this list about homelessness in other countries. I love San Fran but haven't been there in years.

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    Heather Menard
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would you like to come up with a solution on how we can fix it?

    Tricia Egan
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    San Francisco actually has maps so people can track where the worst incidences of human waste are on the sidewalks. The homeless population now approaches 7000 and there is no law prohibiting sleeping on the streets, sidewalks, or other public places. Discarded syringes are everywhere. San Francisco’s property crime rate is the highest in the nation and “smash and grab” thefts involving broken car windows are so commonplace that repair shops have waiting lists. The DA’s office no longer prosecutes “victimless” crimes like prostitution or drug possession, resulting in a massive influx of drug dealers into the city. These are Democratic policies.

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    #20

    I went to The Netherlands as an LDS (Mormon) missionary. The first person I tried to talk to stopped me and said, "uh, I don't speak Dutch, and I'm gay, so Jesus won't work for me". And he walked away. My companion just laughed and said, "welcome to the Netherlands".

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    Sebastiaan Mook
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Netherlands being a very secular country in general, I doubt trying to "sell" mormonism was a success.

    Prius Owner
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Easier than Mitt Romney's mission during the Vietnam War, where he was sent to France to try to convince them to give up wine (LDS church bans alcohol for members).

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    Steven de Jong
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You must have noticed that Mormons are seen as silly polygamists everywhere except where they live...

    Carter Kearns
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    (I'm a member of the LDS church btw) For those who are confused, polygamy in this context is the concept of one man having multiple wives. It was practiced by the LDS church back in the day, but hasn't been in over a hundred years now (since 1890). It's still a pretty common stereotype connected to us though because of a number of breakoff groups who still practice it.

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    Steven de Jong
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you even get the IDEA to go to the Netherlands as a Mormon missionary :D

    Alexandra Davis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They don't get to choose where they go on their mission, it's decided for them. So they could end up anywhere in the world and have to go. Watched the documentary Stacey Dooley did where she lived with a Mormon family and the oldest was finding out where he would be going and when I heard he had no choice and could be sent anywhere in the world at 18/19 years old I was shocked! He didn't get a country that he wanted to go to and whilst he put on a brave face you could tell he was upset.

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    Vanessa Panerosa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha. IMAGINE coming from an LDS mindset and actually thinking your practices are anything but stupid, offensive and backwards to the Dutch. Riding in like their savior only to get read to filth. A nation of people built on common sense instead of Religion. God that story gives me a smile.

    Sue User
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The elders pick these situations specifically due to the uphill battle. This way when the missionaries get rejected ( and usually quite harshly ) , when they are " just trying to do good", the church can say " see, we understand you". It is a control tactic used to keep members.

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    Seth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I doubt the land of legal drugs & prostitution has any interest in the ultra-abstinence version of Christianity.

    Kątem Oka
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that's exactly the reason they went there tho xD to convert.

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    pat hayes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i wish religions would STOP shoving their insane and illogical c**p down peoples throats....

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    Erin Eubanks
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please stop doing that. We don't need you spreading your testimony everywhere. Poor countries don't have 10% of their income to give for tithings. Stay in Utah. Thank you.

    Pieter LeGrande
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, go to some 3rd world country, convert a small proportion of the population, and guarantee their persecution for the next 100 years.

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    Boudewijn van der Mik
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At a great distance you see: 2 young men, in businessman suits with correct haircut, fumbling on their bicycle. You know: they're The Mormon missionaries.

    Pieter LeGrande
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, used to happen where I live. 100+ farenheight, unbelievable humidity and still got their suits on no hats and no bicycles 'cos the prickles are everywhere. They just looked silly.

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    ThreeAngryLlamas
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Religious missionaries need to grow the f**k up. Stay in your lane. No one wants what you are 'selling' (trying to force down their throats).

    Adrienne Doyle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem is that they're brainwashed from birth to go on a mission, so it's not exactly a choice for them.

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    Mister Dave
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one just gave me a great idea for a Halloween costume.

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    #21

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Visiting China and seeing how aggressive/pushy people are. Makes sense, there are 1+ billion people, if you are polite and wait your turn you'll be left behind. So everybody is pushy, cuts in line, shoving you out of the way, etc. Of course I just had come from Japan where it's the total opposite....

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    Seth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This aspect of their culture has led to an extremely poor reputation for Chinese tourists.

    Romy Schneider
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Came here to say the same. Thais for example are disgusted by chinese folks. I call them the asian frenchs.

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    Helen Witten
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remembering going through a stage where I went homeless and had to rely on charity. Anywho I use to go to a place called "Fishes of loaves" in Ashfield Sydney Australia to get a nice hot meal and pick up a weekly food parcel. There were Chinese immigrants and when it came time to dishing out the food packages the Chinese would just storm the person doling out the packages. It got to the point where she had to yell at them and tell them to stand back. It must be really tough for some Chinese citizens I think. I can happily say I'm no longer in that situation.

    Alex S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to go to a Chinese butcher in Sydney, tag along behind a Chinese woman who haggled the person down and then ask for the price she got.

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    Claudia Schmid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, had the same experience. Got pushed around by people half my size in China. Japan is super organized and I found it fascinating how full the railway/ metro stations are but people don't bump into you.

    CHRIS DOMRES
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We adopted our daughter from China. If I would pause for fifteen seconds in a line to look at some souvenir item, ten people would cut in line in front of me. Also the country runs on bribes. We were instructed by our adoption agency guide to have fresh twenty dollar bills to put into red envelopes. These were given to the government workers who were responsible for processing our adoption papers so that we could have them completed in a few days. If we did not bribe them, it would have taken weeks to get the paperwork processed.

    Connor Victorio
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly why the Chinese are disliked as tourists in every Anglo country

    Sathe Wesker
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah yes. Very true. What drove me the most nuts about this aspect was the elevators. It would be packed and when it opens on the first floor people are instantly trying to flood in before letting everyone else out. I snapped more than once.

    Stephany Van Alstyne
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately many Chinese tourists are unpleasant because of this. I travel a lot and can't tell you how many times they have pushed me out of line, or jumped the queue. It gives their culture a bad reputation.

    Human #1,232,867
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    " Makes sense, there are 1+ billion people, if you are polite and wait your turn you'll be left behind." There just one person behind you and he push you to rush into the elevator before the door even open. NO It not makes sens.

    to old to care
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They have no concept of personal space. My last trip to Las Vegas, was waiting for the Mirage volcano show to start, I had a Chinese woman set her computer tablet on the top of my head to get a better picture. She was not expecting the head butt....P.S. no one was hurt

    urszulat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not in Beijing (in my experience) but very true of Shanghai.

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    #22

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered My parents are Chinese but I grew up in Europe, therefore I'm considered a banana. Some years ago, i was visiting my family in China. We were in a very rural area with lots of small cottages. We saw a family eating dinner and my grandma asked them if we could join so we paid a few bucks and ate a meal with a random family. Not really a shock but It felt really weird.

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    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not weird if it's how they roll.

    YetAnotherSarah
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Keeping in mind that I am *just* the messenger... A banana is yellow outside, white inside.

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    Cat Cassano
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please don't use her for scale

    Midnightoil
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More people should do this. Why are people so afraid to talk to others?

    idrow1
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't even imagine showing up at a random house on my street and saying, "Here's 5 bucks, I'd like to join you for dinner." It's a good way to get shot.

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    #23

    Back when me and my family flew to America (my first time), we landed in Houston to switch planes and went to a fast-food diner in the airport. I ordered a milkshake and not only was it served in a cup that was like twice my size, they also gave me the shaker in which it was made so no ice-cream is left behind. At that moment I was assured I was gonna love America.

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    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now I want a super creamy chocolate shake...

    Jeffrey Abel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Houston we love our food. It’s actually one of the top “foodie” cities in the US mostly because it’s the most international city in the US. Easy to get pretty much any food from any country in the world. However, I think we also have the most fast-food restaurants per capita. Not the best for the waistline.

    alias D.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lucky a******e Best I got my entire time living here is the chocolate milkshake were half of it was vanilla not blend in mind you just the bottom half of it was vanilla like how could you be any more frugal

    Trophy Husband
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    C**p, now I'm craving a milk shake...

    ⒾⓈⒶⒷⒺⓁⓁⒶ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any diner here in America will normally gone you the shaker if you get a milkshake or malt! One of my favourite things about diners!

    Walter Brameld
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, the large portions in America are nice, until you get diabetes from it and find out that the insulin you need to live costs $100 per vial.

    Me, Myself, and I
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Been drinking the occasional, maybe monthly, milkshake for over 60 years along with those large American portions and still haven't developed diabetes even though my favorite food group is chocolate. Not overweight either.

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    Duesvolent90
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We love our food in America. Nothing like eating until your stomach is about to rip and then having a nice nap!

    Gypsy Lee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But now children & women.. those we can leave behind when the next crooked politician buys his way into the presidency, a la trumpty.

    JP Purves
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't believe that someone not born in the USA actually found something they liked here. Shouldn't they have mentioned the terrible waste of food and containers?

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    #24

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Nap-time is everything in Spain. Visited Barcelona a few months ago, and it was my first time in Spain. Couldn't believe when my friend told me that all the shops and businesses are closed because it's "siesta time". Love my naps and all, but that just drove me crazy. Edit: every siesta is a fiesta tbh

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    RadiatorAnkleSpider
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s proven scientifically that humans that nap mid-day for a “siesta” are better for it. I’m always tired AF Around 3-4 pm. Spain has the right idea.

    Basil Ignatov
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And over there its usually the hottest period of the day: working in a sauna isn't healthy

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    Marley Nachi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they don't all actually sleep during the siesta anymore, but it is part of their business shop hours. 9am-2pm (break) 5pm-10pm. It was originally like this so farmers could work in the mornings and take a break from the hot sun. But for people living in the city, it can be inconvenient because it's difficult to travel back home just for lunch, so they just wait 2 hours in an extended lunch break to have a long work day. The irony is Spanish people work super hard, not sleep because of siesta

    Bubbles and sparks
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So very true! I've got the utmost respect for the working people here, they work really hard and get paid not accordingly :(

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    Seth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here in America, we just sabotage our health by drinking irresponsible quantities of caffeine to squeeze out a few extra drops of productivity.

    Nuno Carvalho
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well sorry, but you don't drink caffeine. You drink diluted caffeine. Here in Portuguese, Spain and Italy we drink the real stuff: expresso. But i understand you point.

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    Altea
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this isn't accurate. It is closed because it is lunchtime. It's just a different schedule. In return, shops close later than in other countries. Most people don't do siesta on weekdays.

    Roman Hans
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Naptime can be a serious problem for clueless visitors: for instance, if you don't eat lunch before 3 pm, YOU'RE NOT EATING LUNCH.

    Sans Serif
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Before I first learned this, I took the Metro (from a surrounding town) into Madrid for car parts. I arrived during siesta and was forced to repeat the process the NEXT day!

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    Al Christensen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But then they don't eat supper until very late at night.

    Sans Serif
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dinner is usually between 9 and 11 with the clubs open from 12 to 6 - different world!

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    G86
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guess that's why I love naps. Thank you Spanish ancestors.

    Luna W.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They also eat dinner very late. I hardly slept at night on business trips because of my full belly... Lots of yummy food at 10pm lol

    Vera Rios
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love it. We should totally adopt this

    Fluffy mommy panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like my kinda place I like to take car naps

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    #25

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Not me but my dad went to India for business and said there were children missing body parts, eyes missing, across their face begging for money. Driver told him their parents did that to them to make them look more pathetic so people will give them money

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    R J
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Indian here. It is very hard to comprehend the hardness of life some people go through in India. In fact. it is impossible to empathize because it is so different from life in the west for most. When people are super desperate, and they have no hope, no way to get out of the cycle of poverty, probably because of their caste and everyone treats them way worse than anyone would treat their pet animal, they lose sense of “normal” standard of compassion. Not to say that some people can just be EVIL. That’s also possible. But i don’t think it’s possible to judge someone like whom i mentioned from the lenses of a developed nation. We all have our lenses and ways of looking at life. We can’t expect to impose that on a completely different culture that has totally different circumstances

    Elizabeth Bock
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you. It is beyond me to think of ever doing this to another person, let alone a child or even an animal. But, desperation and loss of all hope, is far from my privilaged life. This is why the internet is important, because we can all learn from eachother.

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    Seth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People shocked by this must have a very rosy idea of what India is like. Honor killings, bride burnings, acid attacks, etc. It's not a happy place.

    Delta Dawn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I traveled solo in the late 90s and went to Nepal but would not set foot in India; I was warned by lots of other travelers that solo women will not be treated well. Idk if that’s changed at all. I’d imagine it depends on the city or region you go to. Nepal was wonderful and I had no problems there.

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    Meh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband and I put that film on when it came out, as everyone was saying how great it was. When the scene can on with the little boy and the spoon we both screamed, jumped up and tuned the telly off. We didn't see the scene all the way through, just the man approaching the boy with the spoon. That was enough for us. I still feel sick if I think about it

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    Sue Denham
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't begin to imagine how desperate you'd have to feel to resort to that. So so sad.

    Stardust she/her
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents used to warn me not to talk to strangers in case they kidnapped me and mutilated my body

    Bender Bending Rodríguez
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same warning and advise from my parents. Not only that, around 3rd or 4th standard school took us to watch a movie that was all about Beggar Mafia. Rightfully scared the s**t out of all of us.

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    David Harris
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is just messed up! I would hurt myself before I ever let anything happen to my kids!!

    XenoMurph
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was a Romanian woman who used to sit on one of the most famous bridges in Dublin, on the coldest days she would remove the blanket from her baby to make it cry louder so she'd get more money from begging.

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    Bender Bending Rodríguez
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These mutilations aren't done by parents, they'll send kids out to beg but they are less likely to mutilate their child. That said there might be some monster parents who do it, however, mutilations are mostly done by beggar mafia that kidnaps kids, mutilate them and force them to beg. Biggest concern when poor child goes missing chances are there won't be a ransom call and child will end up with one of this gangs or prostitution rings. As long as cops keep getting "baccho aur bhabhi ke liye mithai" everything is fine and dandy. For source: Google Begging Mafia, Begging racket

    Bored Retsuko
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a scene like this in the movie Slumdog Millionaire. Really shocking.

    idrow1
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That country needs massive amounts of education and birth control.

    Susan Raskin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm speechless. How terrible to be abused by the very people who brought you to life. And at the same time, how inhumane is it that people are so starved for food, shelter & clothing that this is even necessary?

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    #26

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered When I went to Bangladesh with my girlfriend last year we went to the city her father grew up in before he came to the States. I remember at one point we walked past a station and seeing people climbing on the roof of a train due to the crowding, some in business suits, was quite an eye opener. After seeing that I have never complained about riding the subway again

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    RafCo (he/him)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You see this a lot in parts of Asia, also the Middle East and parts of Africa. First time I saw this was in Egypt, people boarding the train through the windows, climbing up on top. I thought, how am I getting on this train, lol.

    Dizavid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mental head question would've been, "AM I getting on this train?"

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    Dizavid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read an article somewhere about how they have "ticket insurance" salesmen whose entire business model is: there's gonna be so many of you packed on there, and they can't get near all of em, so odds are you'll never need us. But if you DO, we cover so much/all of your ticket. Something to that effect anyway. Then ended with a photo of a train car so over loaded on either side my mind "felt" it trying to lean and wobble. Just really sucked the breath outta my mind to realize what that's gotta be like, taking life in hand like Indiana Jones if you dare wanna go to work or have food/social life.

    Ozzie Ogawa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Indonesian used to be like this as well, but fortunately after national train company reforms few years ago things are getting much better. No more people sitting on the roof, no more people going on a train without a ticket.

    Parányi Gabi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is a complete b******t. OP must mix it up with Asia. Guys be reasonable- in Europe you can't see this- due to safety and insurance reasons

    aubergine10003
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's funny is that the photo they used is the 7 Train Stop in Grand Central (NYC)

    Mary Kelly
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this happens in a LOT of the world

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    India is the only democracy whose residents would prefer to live in the USA.

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    #27

    I live in northern Canada in a less than 800 people town in the middle of nowhere. So the first time I went to California was a massive culture shock. Big cities, 8 lanes of freeway traffic, having to lock your doors, skyscrapers (anything above 3 floors), subways, well... everything really. I think what got to me most was the lack of trees.

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    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That last line

    Lisa H
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The thing with California terrain is we literally have a little bit of everything, it just depends on where you go. We have beaches (both fresh and salt water), deserts, hills, mountains, valleys, and, yes, forests. Again, it just really depends on where you go. If you want a California forest, go anywhere in the Sierra Nevada mountain range, but careful during winter due to snow (if you're Canadian, it shouldn't be a problem). You can drive two hours in almost any direction and end up in a different terrain/climate here.

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    Gabby M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are a lot of trees in California, it just depends where you are.

    Kimberly Alison
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It totally depends on where you are. There are a zillion trees where I live.

    Vanessa Panerosa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in Los Angeles. There are sequoias everywhere. Forested hills everywhere. From my backyard they’re as far as the eye can see. Why do you think we love hiking so much? Why do we have such a massive wildfire issue? What do you think is burning?

    Delta Dawn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure of course! But compared to a northern pine forest, it’s very sparse. Different kinds of forest altogether.

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    Katiekat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I came from Louisiana, so going to California I fit in immediately (very liberal here). Coming home has been the culture shock, but I ADORE being around lots of trees, and far fewer people and traffic! Twenty-two years in LA. Got out in 2020 due to Covid, retired three years early. Back around family, friends, community.

    Natalie Kelsey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The lack of pine forest, you mean. California has millions of trees of thousands of kinds. They're just not pine forest.

    StrangeOne
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They likely were in the LA and other urbanized areas. The lack of trees means not as many as they're used to. And Canada has more trees than just pines, firs and spruces.

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    Heather Lambie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lived in northern Saskatchewan for7 years. Beautiful skies, the stars at night were incredible because there was no light pollution. Even the -40 winters were gorgeous.

    Losferatu
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are plenty of green spaces in and around the LA area though: Griffith park is massive and Angeles Crest Mountains are very close.

    Amy Taylor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! I live near there and it's a popular filming destination.

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    JayWantsACat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are relatively plenty of trees there. But it's a city in essentially desert, not a forest, so what were expecting?

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    #28

    Went to Egypt last summer. We had hired a personal tour guide because there was no way we would be walking around by ourselves in Egypt. The service came with an Egyptian government security guard to protect us, and at one point my mother asked our tour guide (not the guard) what life what he thought of the government right then, and he said it was great. Later when the guard was getting us into a site, the tour guide told my mom not to ask questions like that in front of the guard because he (the tour guide) could be punished for talking negatively about the government. Really scared me.

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    Vanessa Panerosa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What in God’s name would possess someone to have such a huge lapse of judgement? You’re literally hiring a guide with government security to simply *visit* this nation. WHY would you ask something so tone deaf???? Is she planning a stop in North Korea next to get a feel for it over there???

    AndyR
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate to stereotype but I often find this with US tourists. It's not deliberate but they have a way of asking culturally insensitive questions or expressing a poorly informed opinion without thinking it through. Like talking about the mafia in Sicily...

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    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Best to keep your mouth shut

    LazyPanda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why on eath even ask strangers that? Terrible conversation starter and inconsiderate

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    Rachknits
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to China with my parents in 1990 and it was like this. All the tourist guides were employed by the state and were only allowed to say positive things about the country. We were advised by our uk tour guide to not, under any circumstances, ask about Tiananmen Square because this could put them into a potentially dangerous situation.

    Tristan J
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Walked around Egypt just fine without an armed guard. Some of these posts are bordering on fear mongering. It was understood in the Mubarak era that you don't criticise the government, but then look what happened to him.

    Panda Kicki
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why hire a guide and a guard? We traveled all off Egypt by ourselves, use common sense and it is fine. Only threat was from a american tourist, I found a passport in the trash, returned it and she yelled at me accusing me of theft. She had actually seen a man open her bag, but she accused a female tourist for somehow be involved in a elaborate scam where I give the passport to a police. They had assumed she wanted to thank me when she asked for me and was chocked at her behaviour.

    Delta Dawn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, maybe it was her first trip abroad and she doesn’t know how to travel internationally. Lots of people hire guides for a variety of reasons. Guides need work too!

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    Bubbles and sparks
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was in Egypt during Ramadan, our taxi driver asked us to look out for the police, because he was having a drink of water.... If they'd catch him he would be beaten... Mind you, it was summer and +50C Just how can you not let anyone in that heat while working, have a drink of water??

    Pieter LeGrande
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, we were doing a walking tour in Doha. Really, really hot so we popped into a hotel for a glass of water. Management were sympathetic, but hid us in a curtained-off alcove while we drank a glass.

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    Weird Any
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother with his fiance was in Egypt two years ago, on some tours with local agencies there were at least two armed guards because of the terrorists. He even made some photos with them. But no inappropriate questions, of course.

    Sgraham
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you vote for republicans you’ll have Egypt in ten years

    Pieter LeGrande
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are 4 things you do not discuss in any society: politics, religion, money, or sex. Even in the family home these are sure fire ways to start a fight. In public and especially in other countries people get killed over them.

    Peaches GreFra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What utter rubbish. I backpacked Egypt for 4 weeks solo as a female and never had any issues. Egyptian people are super friendly and in a guesthouse in Aswan, I had the owner looking after me when he realised I was travelling alone. He even left me veggie food in the kitchen with a note on my door after I came back really late from a Nile trip. Egypt is wild, yes, but it's totally fine to travel there!

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    #29

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Went to the Philippines. On the trip from the airport a group of homeless children took control of a bridge and demanded payment for people crossing it. People actually paid too.

    rmansd619 , Gerald Escamos Report

    Synsepalum
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean... are you going to deny self-starting homeless children money?

    K.M.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. You are going to deny them to growing future criminals.

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    Heather Lambie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly in the Phillipenes, the dog meat trade there is insane and horribly, horribly cruel. I lived in the Philippines for years as a child and lived it but would never go back now and tell everyone to boycott it because of the dog meat trade. Please look up Soi dog rescue for more info. 😪

    gie
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like any impoverished country you may find this practice, or similar, but a person shouldn't be discouraged to visit, just be accutely aware of it and be firm that you don't condone such cruelty. It's so preachy to make it out like the dog meat industry is everywhere in the PH, which it isn't. Sure, dogs and cats are domesticated in western countries and their adjacents, but in others could be deemed as food. Don't agree, don't go but don't tell others what they can and can't do. You might as well tell people to boycott Spain for bullfighting, Japan for whale and horsemeat, and Iceland for serving whale and puffin.

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    Helen Witten
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well they probably needed the money.

    Tam StaR
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dunno, I think I could easily take down a few kids if I had to.

    Spittnimage
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you don't pay no toll, we don't get no roll (Little John ~ Robin Hood Men In Tights).

    Vera Rios
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Philippines. Do not cross bridges. Got it.

    Delta Dawn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Candy would probably also work; just have spare “change” for the “toll”

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    Auntie Bear
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of the bubble gum gang in the movie Hostel

    Nitka Tsar
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought of the lost boys in Peter Pan (or rather the movie version „hook“)

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    Ozzie Ogawa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's pretty common in indonesia as well sadly

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    #30

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered The air pollution in major Chinese cities is so bad that your eyes water the second you step out of the airport. You also undergo a sort of acclimation sickness within the first couple weeks. The other thing about China, is that it's such an old country, that you have ancient temples and monuments, some 1000s of years old, right next to hyper modern 8 story shopping centers.

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    Seth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only reason we even have data on the levels of pollution in Chinese cities is because of foreign embassies taking/publishing measurements. The local governments refuse to acknowledge there's a problem.

    Redpanda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Friendly reminder: China is manufacturing all the items you use and other countries are giving pollution t o China

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    Panda Kicki
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I went to Beijing, first day was heavy rain. All wall turned yellow from pollutions being washed away. We actaully saw the blue skye for a while. Then the smog rose up again and everything got blurred again.

    CHRIS DOMRES
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, and many unfinished skyscrapers are now getting torn down. What a waste of money and human labor. When we were there to adopt our daughter, everyone in our adaption group had sore throats at the end of the trip and the babies had bronchitis. The constantly air conditioned hotels smelled like mold.

    Emo Sloth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Used to live in China, now live in the US. When we moved, I was shocked that the sky was blue because I had never seen a blue sky up until then, outside of picture books.

    Laetitia Astolfi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to work with a guy who had been working in a big Chinese city (can't remember which one) for a few years before that. He was laughing every time there was a "high pollution alert" day here (Paris, France), saying that our "alert level" was equivalent to a very low pollution day there.

    Delta Dawn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s not any more, thanks to wild fires. We do match or surpass Chinese cities sometimes nowadays.

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    El Dee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up with pollution like this. The acclimatisation is your body learning to cope with the pollution..

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    callmekai
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    can confirm for both, the pollution is so awful, and theres tons of older monuments but we do take care of the monuments as a way to preserve our culture

    Amanda Hunter
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    China and their culture is disgusting.

    DCB
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember that before the Olympics a few years ago they shut down a bunch of companies/factories that were big air polluters. So that China looked good to the rest of the world. Usually the air would choke you. not good for atheletes!

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    #31

    When i went to London, all the faucets in all the public bathrooms had handles so you could turn the water on and off like a f**king adult, and all the stall doors went all the way to the floor.

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    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not exclusive to London

    Little Wonder
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But definitely a culture shock to someone from the US, just as I was shocked to go into a public toilet in the states and sit there with a literal 10cm gap in the door. I measured.

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    Mary G
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry. I am firmly on the side of the automatic water faucets at least. Water savers. This will be an even more critical issue in the very near future. Empathy on the too-large gaps in toilet stall doors, though.

    Bunzilla
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to mention, much more hygienic. I'd rather have an automatic faucet than have to touch the handles of a faucet that has who knows what all over it.

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    Emma S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All of the UK has those toilet doors. If not all to the floor than most of the way. No gap between the door and the frame either.

    Helen Witten
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All our public amenities in Australia are like that. At one point we even had needle disposal bins installed in them for drug users. That was a bit of a shock for a while.

    LandAhoy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better than them going on the floor or clogging up the pipes.

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    B. S.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also in Vienna. No gendered bathrooms, not needed.

    BenMaharaj
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The handles are unhygienic though right? I never liked touching them. It was nice when the faucets went to sensors. Although some are just too stingy.

    Caroline Starr
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most modern ones are non-touch nowadays, as are the flushes. Just wave your hand in front of it.

    Trophy Husband
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't stand places that you have to touch a handle in a public restroom. Here is what I want in a restroom: dividers that actually work (full height, no gaps, etc), a way to lift the lid with your foot, automatic flushing and faucets, and one of those things on the bottom of the door so you can open and close it with your foot!

    Little but Fierce
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Public loos in London are mainly motion-activated now. Only those in older buildings still have taps you have to manually turn. If anyone ever visits Bristol, the Bristol Museum has gorgeous antique sinks in the loos.

    StrangeOne
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I went to Manchester I blurted out how happy I was there were such private stalls. No having to stuff gaps with toilet paper and try to meticulously cover the gap with my sweater and purse. Everyone in the washroom had a good idea I wasn't from there LOL. But some washrooms in Canada are pretty private, too. Just not as much as UK and not as less as the US.

    Dean Green
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In many parts of the US those gaps between door and floor are legally required. The explanation they give is that if a person passed out behind a locked stall door, the paramedic could still pull you out through the gap. When I was in high school, the principal told us the gap was so he could see if any "hanky-panky" was going on in the stalls. A few years later, they were still worried that "bad things" might still be going on in the stalls, so they removed the stall doors altogether.

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    #32

    I landed in Juba, South Sudan. There were anti-aircraft guns on the roof of the airport, child soldiers in the tiny arrivals hall. The airport gift shop was selling loose raw eggs and salt. There were no roads, no electricity, no bank system, no running water and no garbage collection - so the entire city smelled of burning garbage.

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    alias D.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for my daily dose of depression

    Forty Seven Pandas
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those were boiled eggs - not raw. That's common in that part of Africa to buy a single raw egg and sprinkle some salt on it.

    Eva
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    thank you for a dose of reality. Most of us are spoiled. I know I am.

    crazy_stupid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    South Sudan off of my "want to visit" list, thanks

    JoyfulZebra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm intrigued as to why they went to South Sudan in the first place. Maybe aid work?

    JoyfulZebra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, I read the original reddit comment, and the person was a journalist covering the independence celebrations in 2011.

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    Sue User
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not fair. South Sudan is the newest ( recognised ) country in the world. Formed from Sudan after *50* years of civil war.

    Joselito El Zapatero
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is an outdated comment as it is no longer like this in Juba at all and I'm also questioning the definition of child soldier: 8 yo? or 16 yo?

    Helen Witten
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember going to France all of 41 years ago and I was so shocked to see the Gendarmes carrying machine guns. Truly frightened me.

    René Sauer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My coworker went on vacation in Morroco. He told me his tourist bus was escorted by military vehicles front and back to the hotel. Military personnel with guns on every corner. Hotel staff tried to discourage him from leaving to explore town because of danger. I was like: " Who would wan´t to visit a country like that?"

    LandAhoy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least with an entourage of armed guards, you'd feel safer than without!

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    YayDiversity
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call this BS. I, too, was there at the time and yes the presence of armed soldiers everywhere was quite overwhelming. But there were paved streets and very very seldom a young soldier but no children. I lived there from 2010-2012 so, no. This "journalist" as he calls himself, is not telling the truth.

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    #33

    This is not as good a story as a lot of these here, just saying upfront. I live in the Netherlands. Water is all around me. From the sea, to the canals, to waterways dividing the fields between different farms. The first time I visited Iowa and drove around there it took me a couple of days to realise there wasn't any water between the fields and acres. Sure, there's a river and what not, but essentially it's just endless actual ground. It made me feel uneasy for a couple of minutes.

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    El Dee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who has always live on the coast I find it discomforting to be too far inland for any length of time..

    Michael Largey
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's been 61 years away from the coast for me, and I still feel that way.

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    Mary G
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a similar experience when my job moved me from Philadelphia to Phoenix 30 years ago. Philly is an old city (old by American standards, not European) and neighborhoods were made up of 2, 3 story houses, trees, etc. where there was a relatively slender ribbon of sky overhead. Even in the country, the skyline would be punctuated by very tall trees, barns and things. So, once in Arizona, I felt like Chicken Little. There was SO much sky, everywhere and unrelenting, that I was overwhelmed. You could literally see a rain cloud dumping rain to your left while driving down a highway with sunny streets to your right!

    Sandy D
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's Iowa. Just farmland except the Mississippi River. A lot of Wisconsin is like that but we have thousands of lakes and lots of rivers, including two great lakes and the Mississippi River. Close to Iowa but different geology

    Key Lime
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live 8n British Columbia, I am used to mountains all around unless you are looking at the ocean. The first time I saw the Prarie I was unnerved.

    MeMosabe
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up in Texas, very flat. Now I live in Utah, surrounded by mountains. It's sometimes a bit unsettling to go back to the flat lands.

    Ann Dennis
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Iowa has some nice lakes to the north side. Nice tourist/weekend destinations...at least for fellow Iowans.

    Taibhse Sealgair
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Growing up in the mountains, I felt a serious issue when I moved to Indiana, which is flat as heck. Migraines. That bad.

    j r
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Migraines bc anxiety or from land being flat/weather climate?

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    VM37
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in costsl part of my country where there are a lots of islands. Island, sea, Island, sea, peninsula, sea..... You get the oicture. This summer I went to far most Island, open sea all around. Next stop: Italy. The open sea made me fell very nervous. Can't even imagine looking onto acutal ocean, like pacific.

    Elaine Morinelli
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in the SF Bay Area and I feel weird about the Midwest too. I just can't be far from water.

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    #34

    Not being able to flush toilet paper in most of Latin America. Trash bins full of sh**ty toilet paper in +35 weather.

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    Júlia Fortes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me, it was weird to see people outside Latin America flushing toilet paper 😅 my mom always said I would clog the toilet, so I was like: you guys are ok with having to unclog that later? Like, wet paper with poop?

    similarly
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In America, the pipes are designed to accommodate it.

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    Leo Domitrix
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG, first time my hubby encountered this... He had an existential meltdown. I fear I was less than ideally kind (OK, I laughed a bit) but as a ffarm kid, I stepped in way worse than you find in the trash bins!

    El Dee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to Greece and was shocked that a country that is relatively wealthy would still be doing this..

    Mary
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not a matter of "wealth". It's a matter of construction and plumbing systems. Many of the houses/buildings are old to a day where smaller pipes were used for plumbing and where there was no central plumbing system. Those pipes clog up easily because toilet paper actually takes much longer to dissolve in water than people think. It's not easy to replace the pipes, since you'd have to open up walls and floors... Source: I'm Greek.

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    Mary G
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, on one side, toilet paper is generally formulated to disintegrate quickly in water. But it still represents another factor in the process of handling sewage. I visited Mazatlan years ago on a vacation and experienced this. They required ALL paper to be binned. That took some getting used to, but I have to say l took that idea home with me and I bin all paper except #2. Have for years to no deleterious effects.

    Lee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My aunt in Alabama had the same sort of rule. I couldn't wait to get back to Alaska.

    Scipio Africanus
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES. I went to Costa Rica last spring and this was quite the shock

    Choco
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's really weird to flush toilet paper, that's why we have a bin there!

    the Return of Bruno
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    PLEASE STOP DOWNVOTING PEOPLE YOU DISAGREE WITH!!! A down vote is a vote to cancel someone.

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    Luna Crow
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, so I've traveled enough to be used to this, but this part still confuses me: if the pipes can handle a giant poop, how will a small wad of tp stop them up?

    Rachel Ainsworth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The poop disintegrates quickly in water but the paper doesnt. Try not flushing at home and see how it looks in 30 min.

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    Jeffrey Abel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Believe it or not, it really doesn’t smell as bad as you might think.

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    #35

    On my first day in Tokyo: Spending an entire train journey with two small girls (probably 4 or 5 years old) staring at me inches from my face like they had never seen a white guy before. The mother looked terribly embarrassed but didn't try to stop them. Queuing up in a shop and being asked to stand in a different line where there was a white guy that spoke English at the counter for that line. Discovering that Japanese pavements get dangerously slippery when it's been raining because of how clean the pavements are - There's no friction at all. Going into a trendy cafe in Shibuya that was blasting out incredibly vulgar gangster rap music during the middle of the day. The lyrics were in English, so I guess that the owners of the cafe didn't know how inappropriate it was.

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    Jimichan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This must have been a while ago. I remember hearing rap lyrics like that in a department store in Tokyo. I asked a Japanese guy I was with, who spoke English pretty well, if he understood. He was kind of shocked when I explained.

    Mary Kelly
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i had a young japanese girl who kept "wobbling" my breasts, which are larger than the average asian woman's...it was amusing to both of us...

    Daniel Nilssen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The pavement is made of coral which is why it is slippery. ALL of Japan is very clean though

    ormondotvos
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, yes. Trendy vulgarity. Welcome to post-racist USA.

    Austin Starr
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I'm tired of the word "inappropriate." I think "nasty" was meant.

    Ghaniyah Verma
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last paragraph caught me off guard. Like, damn, it may sound horrible in my opinion, but the f***k--

    Lacia Lew
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a sad known fact that Japanese are a lot awful in English. Especially spoken English.

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    #36

    I'm from one of the most unequal countries in the world, but going to India still blew my mind. Delhi is a heaving, throbbing city, people sleeping in literal dirt next to mansions. Perhaps the pilgrimage to the Taj Mahal was the most eye-opening. By far the most beautiful, perhaps most opulent, man-made structure I've seen on earth, but its mired in the most saddening poverty imaginable.

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    TDizzle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, it’s the land of extremes alright. I spent time travelling there after my parents died, some of the poorest folks I met had the biggest hearts and the happiest have met. I left a part of my heart there and I can’t wait to go back. I’m saying that, the scenes of poverty and deformity outside the Taj Mahal will haunt me forever.

    RedPirahna
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Indian here, One of the sad things is that cities like delhi have become extremely polluted in the air to the point that it is inhabitable. Many people have started moving out because the air quality is causing many issues

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    Janet C
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always been appalled by the caste system. You could be born with an IQ of 160 but if you're an "untouchable" you'll never have a single opportunity to use that intelligence.

    Alaskatgal
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beautifully written description!

    Tiny Dancer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of our time in Bangkok, Thailand, back in the early '70s. We stayed in one of THE swankiest hotels I've ever experienced (The Dusit Thani, apparently reopening in 2024). I was barely 10, practically living in the pool, charging our room for fruit salad lunches at 9 bucks a pop, catching a free movie at the theatre, buying candies at one of the glitzy shops, or even watching my parents' band perform (the only reason we were there, we could never afford this place ourselves), all within the hotel. One day, Mum and I decided to see the town and grabbed the only available transport, rickshaws drawn by what looked like 100-year-old withered and scrawny old men. The streets were filthy and little dirty, hungry-looking urchins would pounce on the rickshaws every time they stopped (even sometimes when they wouldn't!) to beg for money or food. I was so relieved when we made it back to the hotel, it just terrified me. Such a chasm between rich and poor, it's humbling.

    Ruth Hempsey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've read that it's similar to the pyramids in Egypt. All the photos are deceptive because although they look magnificent and alone in the desert, behind the cameras is a teeming city right on the edge of the area. I know nothing other than that never having been there. Perhaps the comparison is invalid.

    Hugendubel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah and the thing i found most frustrating is that noone ther will do anything about it as they think its Karma and the caste System...

    Hetal Vyas
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The story behind the Taj Mahal is beautiful but really sad.

    Lisa Graham
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had two girls from India tell me it is the rape capital of the world. No woman goes out alone. EVER.

    DJ Brown
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have been to India three times and I always describe it as an attack on all the senses at once. It’s loud. It’s smelly. It’s dirty. The traffic and driving are insane. But some nice people and great food.

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    #37

    I`m an American living in the poorest province in China and I have been thanked repeatedly for dropping the atomic bombs on "those Japanese monkeys." I have also spoken to someone who believes that all black people have Aids and they are responsible for spreading it to the rest of the world.

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    JoyfulZebra
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am not at all excusing their attitudes toward Japanese people, but perhaps it can be explained by how Japan treated China during WWII. It was absolutely brutal.

    Jimifan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in China, and this is absolutely the reason. The Japanese perpetrated horrendous atrocities on the Chinese (just check out Iris Chang's book "The Rape of Nanking" for examples), but adding fuel to the considerable hatred is the fact that the Japanese government has refused to acknowledge the well-documented atrocities.

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    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See, it's not just Americans!

    Gabby M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't make the prejudice any better. In fact, it just makes it more sad that even more people believe in such nonsense.

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    Losferatu
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone can be a racist dumb a*s!

    Pieter LeGrande
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As my lovely grandmother once said: I'm not racist, I like Chinese people and I have several black friends it's just gypsies I can't stand.

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    Leslie Donsen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Japan did occupy China for 20+ years. Japan had possession of roughly 25% of China's territory and more than 1/3 of its population. Beyond its areas of direct control, Japan carried out bombing campaigns, looting, massacres and raids deep into the mainland. Early 20's to late 40's.

    Susan Raskin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the point is how living in a communist country one is not privy to independent news sources. The State New Media controls everything the population is told. How would they know that AIDS knows no particular race and it can affect everyone, we are are susceptible to AIDS if we are exposed to it. As for the brutality of war, it is part of history and has happened time and time again. The Christians with the Crusades, Hitler and Germany with the Jews, gypsys and gay men. Vietnam was equally horrific. The statement is about much more than the brutality of the Japanese against the Chinese people.It is about the brutality of living under a dictator in a communists country. No freedom of self or thought.

    Pieter LeGrande
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not just communists, or war- it's more the brutality of occupying armies.

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    Imanuella
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Indonesia is the same. Japanese occupied Indonesia during WWII for 3 and a half years. Back in school in the 80s, there was a saying that compare to the 350 years of Dutch occupation, the 3.5 years of Japanese occupation was way worst.

    Vanessa Panerosa
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Travel brings us together. Get out of your bubble. Educate yourselves. You will replace the fear with connection. The bigots are always the uneducated ones who will never, and have never left.

    Jennik
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, but you are assuming people have the means to travel and access to education. Bigotry is when people have access to knowledge but choose to ignore it. The rest are simply uneducated - often through no fault of their own.

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    H M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, asian people can be very racist, all of them, not just China.

    enohPilivE
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The People's Republic of China has a clearly evident policy of Han Supremacy. It is 90%+ Han. 2m religious and ethnic minorities are being held in Concentration Camps in Xinjiang Province - the Uighur Muslims. Then there is the long history of repression and violence against Tibetans of all varieties.

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    Tacet
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah talking to a retired Met police officer he said while there was alys a bit of white on black racist behaviour on the foce it was nothing compared to what the Asian officers were to each other or the public.

    Mouse
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A black coworker lived in China for a while wirh her kids. People on the street and subway would constantly touch their hair. Zero boundaries.

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    #38

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Went to Japan. First night at 1 AM in the metro and it was loaded with people in suits and other formal clothing looking completely exhausted almost falling asleep on each others laps, just an ordinary day for Tokyo people.

    arainbowpony , Ajay Murthy Report

    JoyfulZebra
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's sad. The work culture in Japan seems to be especially toxic.

    similarly
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not as bad as it used to be. After the March 11, 2011 tsunami, we had to save energy, so lots of businesses would close by 19:00 and send the workers home. More recently, the government passed a rule that workers MUST use a minimum of half of their vacation time or the company could face fines.

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    RafCo (he/him)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What blew my mind when i was working in Tokyo, was the amount of public drunkenness. And like extreme drunk. Like guys in business suits so drunk they fall asleep in a gutter level of drunkenness.

    Pink kitty
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After a day at the office the staff go out drinking like a sort of bonding thing. You can't decline to go. And you stay until the managers have had enough

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    Helen Witten
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm really just feeling nothing but empathy for those people. Why are people made to work such exhausting hours?

    Mister Dave
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why even go home at that point?

    Ray McArdle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That really needs to change. I don't know how productive you can be if you're that tired.

    Deth Invictus
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is horrible. Is this why self inflicted terminations are a big problem there?

    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tragically, Japan has a word for death from overwork called "karoshi."

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    SheamusFanFrom1987
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Karoshi is indeed a scary and dangerous thing but on the upside, I think Japan and Spain are the places to be because only in Japan is it okay to snooze on the job while there is siesta time in Spain. Literally saving the lives of some overworked and sleep-deprived individuals.

    Sueno Iglesias
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't say it's the same everywhere, but naps are totally fine if it's lunch break (mine is 70 minutes long, so you do have enough time to eat and then nap), or after official hours during your overtime. You can't really nap during official work hours.

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    SCamp
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely blitzed Japanese businessmen throwing up on themselves and the train platform getting on late night trains in Tokyo - everyday occurrence. Great place but it's actually de rigueur for salarymen to get regularly wasted, and I mean baked, with work colleagues or clients

    Lacia Lew
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, that's coming home after a night of drinking. It's a thing in Japan, drinking for socialisation within company. No one is allowed to leave before the boss/client/senior leave. It's called "nomikai".

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    #39

    I went to France and Belgium from the US and was shocked at the lack of the highway advertising. No billboards or anything

    anon Report

    Sue Denham
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First time out of the country? Most countries would prefer you to keep your focus on the road without too many distractions.

    Zane Meek
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But then how will you know about some random product or Jesus?

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    Tamra
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are planning a trip to visit Austria, Belgium and Germany for next summer. I am so excited, I can hardly wait. European chocolate! Beautiful architecture! I feel like a little kid on the night before Christmas. 😊

    Bored Retsuko
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happy to see you so excited about it. I hope you'll have a great time! ☺ (I'm from Germany btw)

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    Andrea Aguilar
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s good! I hate seeing too much billboards!

    Claire
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Driving in America 18 years ago I was astounded at the amount of billboards advertising weight loss surgery. And all the drug advertising on TV.

    Leo Domitrix
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd lvoe to not have billboards.

    Happy Panda Nicole
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s funny because Vermont does not allow billboards or even large hotel signs so the first time I went to another state I was shocked to see so many billboards and signs

    Jason
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No billboards here in Hawaii either.

    Jay Son
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plenty of sign waivers right now though :/

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    GVL
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was amazed by the taste of a genuine Belgian waffle.

    StrangeOne
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bliss. Ever notice how when children draw pictures of streets and landscapes they don't add in billboards?

    Lee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alaska has banned them too.

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    #40

    Not from my travels, but I had a client that went to Bhutan. Real conservative lady, I ask how it went. She goes "It was great.......they really like.....male....genitals......over there" I asked her to elaborate. She said there were d**ks everywhere. Physical representations of d**ks on hats, on the sidewalk, everywhere. There was a parade where some important guy had a penis staff and "knighted" dignitaries with it. that made me happy.

    RG3ST21 Report

    Miranda Tittles
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to look this up. It's true! Very interesting

    Natalie H
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like a never ending bachelorette party! Although I have to wonder, if they’re so obsessed with d*cks, it makes me wonder how women are treated.

    Hippopotamuses
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Japanese have a fertility festival, Kanamara Matsuri, with a similar theme. Very strange to see young girls licking ‘themed’ ice blocks

    Inclusion2020
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What about the vaginas in the world? Haha always under appreciated 😂

    Fraxinus excelsior
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like Sunny Beach Bulgaria too. It was like stepping back into 1970's Blackpool with a dash of communism thrown into the mix.

    Ruth Hempsey
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lingams and yonis, Hindu symbolism.

    Lacia Lew
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think my mom would scream in horror if she ever set foot in there

    JP Purves
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In many cultures (especially in the past), representation of male genetilia were/are considered good luck signs.

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    #41

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered In Jordan, and I'm sure most Arab countries, if you compliment something, it's considered impolite for the person not to offer it to you. I thought the warnings were an exaggeration until my friend complimented a waiter's watch and the waiter had it literally unlatched, trying to push it into my friend's hands. Four is the appropriate amount of times to say no, and if you actually do want it, it's rude to say yes after fewer than three.

    anon , Mike Jones Report

    Bored Lady On The Run
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you like what you see, shush. Dream it before you speak.

    Dizavid
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooof, this would make me hide under a table shrieking. My social anxiety is not ready for that. I'd be in tears wailing like a banshee at people, "Stop offering me free gifts I have trust issues!"

    Sammie 19
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My social anxiety is so bad I rarely leave my home and you could give me millions of dollars and I still wouldn't be able to eat at a restaurant with others there

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    Alicia M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How far does this go? If someone compliments your car of home, what did you do? I'm assuming there are limits.

    Jay Son
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Your mother-in-law is great cook!" -"Here, have her!" 🤣 🤣

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    Andrew Pugg
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Goes to bank teller."I like all the money ey in your vault it's very lovely" Hands teller my huge bag

    Midoribird Aoi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seems to me I also remember reading that a gift of equal value is expected in return, eventually.

    Dragons Exist
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do I want to go to Jordan and compliment a mansion

    Agent 8433599
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "hello, i just LOVE your car! It's so beautiful!" 😏

    Robert T
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Say, that's a nice bike". ;-)

    Mary G
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What if you complimented a man's wife...

    Lara Verne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I heard about nurse, who worked in Saudi Arabia. She told one Saudi lady that her little son was cute and lady looked at her weirdly and asked if she want to marry him. I don't know if it's some custom or maybe she misinterpret something because of language barrier.

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    #42

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered I was in India earlier this year and their taxi drivers take you wherever they feel like before taking you to your requested destination. And would be deeply offended if you were like 'WTF, where are we going?' So, that's how I ended up on a boat in the middle of the Arabian Sea when all I wanted to do was exchange money, and at a random zoo when I just wanted to go shopping. I eventually exchanged money and went shopping but had to go on field trips first to see the sites. Good times.

    elzimmy , Arindam Saha Report

    KayLo
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sounds like they were scamming the OP, making the trip longer and more expensive.

    UpupaEpops
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Tunisia, we've been told to negotiate the cost of the trip before we even enter the car. That was the only way to get to our destination directly and pay the pre-agreed price.

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    Dizavid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One person's hostage crisis is another person's impromtu city tour!

    Milda Dell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they were scamming you. you have to be strict with them then they understand.

    Dianellian
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry for giggling at this. You sweet naive tourist.

    BenMaharaj
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sorry back up. A boat in the middle of the Arabian Sea? From getting in a taxi? Was the taxi loaded onto a deep ocean vessel? That sea has more surface area than the country. And you just went along with this?

    Amanat Mehta
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you were just like sure this place in the middle of the Arabian Sea looks like the right place to exchange money?

    CatchTheWind
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I'm sure they get kickbacks from the boat and zoo operators.

    wv10014
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "deeply offended"? Well, deeply offended if you don't fall for their scam!

    Arenite
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t forget the absolutely savage rapes that happen over there. Yes, rape happens everywhere (thanks guys) but the ones I’ve heard about in India were particularly brutal. The one I can never forget was the one where a group of Hindu men kidnapped and gang raped an 8 year old tribal girl. They kept her for days, and just before they killed her, one guy called the the others and told them not to kill her yet because he wanted to rape her one more time. Monsters.

    Julie Bradley
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I will take you to my cousin's shop, he has some stuff you can look at"

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    #43

    So I went to Vietnam a couple years back with my friend Marcus. Marcus is black, I am not. We’re eating at this small place tucked deep in the mountains when our server comes up to us, his friend in tow. The server, without saying a word, saddles next to Marcus, strikes a buddy Jesus pose, and walks off to get our food. I looked at Marcus and said “You’re on some dudes twitter right now with the caption ‘Not Obama, but met my first black guy’ or something similar.”

    weightandink Report

    Fricsmom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hubby and I lived on a tropical island for a few years. Almost every time we were at a certain beach people from India wanted us in their videos or pictures with us. We were invited to weddings of Indian people we didn’t know. Apparently, it’s ‘good luck’ to have ‘white’ people at their ceremonies.

    Rocky Gupta
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not "good luck". It is just our culture to be gracious to guests, and foreigners are seen as guest to our country so people will go out of the way to make them feel welcome.

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    Tiffi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When President Obama went to Saigon, Anthony Bourdain was there filming an episode at the same time. President Obama sat down in small cafe and ate with him. The table where they sat is now incased in plexiglas. Anthony featured it on one of his shows. They loved president Obama in Vietnam.

    Alex S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was Hanoi, not Saigon, for bun cha and yes, they do absolutely adore Obama there.

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    Coleen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is a "buddy Jesus pose?" I've never heard that before.

    shermes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When to Shanghai with my sister who had silver hair. I had to take so many photos of people with her in it as they were enthralled with her hair. She was also 5’9 and a little heavy so I think she was unusual looking.

    Julia Sankaran
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Buddy jesus pose? What in the heck is that?

    Samyan Elrod
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Buddy Christ is a parody religious icon created by filmmaker Kevin Smith, which first appeared in Smith’s 1999 film Dogma. In the film, Buddy is part of a campaign ("Catholicism Wow”!) to renew the image of (and interest in) the Catholic Church. https://www.bing.com/ck/a?!&&p=83dcd3b9ad425d0bJmltdHM9MTY3NTU1NTIwMCZpZ3VpZD0wODQ4YmRlNS1hNjZiLTY5M2EtMTc5OS1iMjBiYTdmNDY4MGUmaW5zaWQ9NTQ5Mg&ptn=3&hsh=3&fclid=0848bde5-a66b-693a-1799-b20ba7f4680e&psq=buddy+jesus+pose&u=a1aHR0cHM6Ly9lbi53aWtpcGVkaWEub3JnL3dpa2kvQnVkZHlfQ2hyaXN0&ntb=1

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    Kurtis Wethington
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, that literally made me laugh out loud!

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    #44

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered The Chinese toilets that are just holes in the ground. It is even worse in the countryside, where there are no walls and you just don't look at each other when squatting, and everything falls in this smelly ditch underneath where you can actually see all the poop

    anon , PoshPopcorn Report

    Vanessa Panerosa
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This thread is NOT selling me on China, tbh

    JacPot
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right?! Not selling me on China either but Japan sounds awesome!

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    Heather Resatz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try having food poisoning on a moving train, in Thailand, and there is only a hole .. bumpity bump!!

    Jessica Bertram
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i am so sorry that happened to you, but your merry little "bumpity bump" sent me. i laughed so hard. sending you hugs!

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    Nunya Business
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But I can't squat, I've got bad knees.

    Remi (He/Him)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've used the disabled toilets in some places for the same reason (plus bad balance). In Kyoto they had a walking stick stand next to the toilet in the disabled stall, which I thought was excellent design

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    Claudia Schmid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Chinese toilets are the worst and I've travelled a lot. The one in the picture isn't actually bad at all. Squat toilets are common in Asia and they still exist in southern Europe too. That's not a problem per se. But a lot of Chinese toilets were next level gross

    Liv
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are they worse than Indian toilets? I've had the most unpleasant experiences there...

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    similarly
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Japan has similar toilets, but with walls and doors. Also, in Japan, the walls and doors are floor-to-ceiling with no awkward gaps.

    Julie Bradley
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love the "privacy" music/water sounds in Japanese toilets. So no one can hear you "going" haha

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    RafCo (he/him)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is common in East Asian countries. Singapore, being a wealthy, very advanced country. But the public bathrooms were like this. Not dirty, like in the pic tho

    My O My
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a girl. How do you pee squatting without sprinkling your shoes a little?

    Grace Noyes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, legit question: What do people who have mobility issues, such as inability to squat without handrails, are in wheelchairs, do in these situations?

    Debbie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you keep your clothes clean? With a dress, hoist it up, but your panties need to be at ankles to wipe your vulva, but the chances of it touching the floor increase. When keepin panties/pants/at knee height you cannot wipe the front, and you need to balance yourself and keep a possible skirt/dress out of the way too. It's a jugglers act. I have no idea how to do that. Are there instructions posted somewhere about how to hold clothes / yourself when using toilets like that?

    Giovanna
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have you ever peed in the woods?? It's the same.

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    #45

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Paying to use the bathroom -most of Europe.

    anon , WrS.tm.pl Report

    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ever since I can remember, and we're talking the early 60's, my mom made sure we always had the price of a potty in our pocket, ten pfennig!

    Claudia Schmid
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And you tip the toilet attendant in Germany if there is one. Always have a few spare cents in cash

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    Gin. No tonic
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We don't have to pay for every public bathroom, just the ones that are only bathrooms (like the one in the picture), or bathrooms in touristy places if you don't spend money at the establishment. We can use any public bathroom for free if we buy something - coffee at a cafe, candy/gum at a gas station etc. We can always find free bathrooms at a shopping center. You could even use a bathroom for free at any busy cafe, but that's considered impolite. The idea is that it costs to run a bathroom so it's considered polite (and necessary) to pay for it.

    Lee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would pay per restroom trip here in the US if it meant clean floors and good, solid toilet doors that went to the floor.

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    Rens
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really never really minded paying because it meant everything was clean.

    Trentin Quarantino
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly not in Czech Republic. Many of the pay ones are absolutely disgusting, and in some places the attendant hands you a few pieces of toilet roll before you go into the stall, rather than having rolls of toilet paper in them.

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    Jill Bussey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    UK. Hence the phrase "to spend a penny." It's been many years since that price applied.

    Tiny Dancer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And, with that comment, the penny just dropped for me! Makes perfect "cents" now, lol.

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    Emma S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not that common in the UK. I only recall ever having to pay at Glasgow and Birmingham coach stations. Service stations, supermarkets, shopping centres and things like that don't charge. Some places like restaurants and coffee shops will only allow customers to use the toilet, which is understandable.

    Ruth Hempsey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No more spend a penny euphemism? When I was young about 70 years ago we had some public lavatories with attendants, all decked out in neat white uniforms and clean towels to hand out. Every toilet stall had a locking gadget requiring a penny to open the door. And they were clean and always stocked with t rolls. Some things are worth a minimal fee. 😉

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    Chrissyfox
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's ridiculous. I live in Europe. We don't actually have to pay 90% of the time. Railway stations seem to be the exception. Or sometimes you leave a few pennies for the attendant.

    Remi (He/Him)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Finland some bathrooms are free and some are not. Railway stations and other public buildings usually mean you need to pay, but for example shopping centers have free toilets the free ones seem to be in better condition too. Just a tip if you're ever here and need to go.

    Ivana Bašić
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shopping centre toilets have to be clean because they want more of your money than a train station so they don't want to scare you away. Same for airports, for example, you pay more for everything else.

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    Jods
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister took my mum on a day trip to Bridlington. She hadn’t been there for years and was amazed at how much it had changed. However, she was enraged at having to pay forty pence to use the toilet. Probably why they were very clean.

    Lili Octopus
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Far too expensive. There’s one in Whitby that charges 40p, but as I was searching my pockets for coins a woman showed me how to lean over and press the exit button in order to get in for free. I passed the tip on as I left.

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    Paul Macdonell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would gladly pay for a toilet in any major city in North America. Poor Starbucks is the public washroom of a America. City officials wake up !!!

    Merle Anna
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really hate it. It pssed me off most when I was pregnant. When you need to pee every hour it gets really expensive

    Toni
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    3 years ago

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    how about peeing at home?

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    #46

    Germany: How f*****g clean are bathrooms. I've frequent to Germany for business reasons along with rest of Europe but Germany takes the cake in terms if cleanliness of the bathrooms. Every stay I had I found my bathroom to be absolutely spotless. I found their bathrooms to be cleaner than the rooms.

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    Kathrin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then I think you didn't use our Autobahn reststops lol

    Claudia Schmid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, the ones that are not in a Raststätte but just on a parking area. There's one on the A96 and going from Zurich to Munich it's actually always where we need the toilet but it's really gross!

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    Me
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Little surprised about this as a german, because public restrooms are usually not very nice in my opinion. And there is a lack of them and you have to pay for them most oft the time. The worst are at train stations

    Bored Retsuko
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right??? I think OP is referring to hotel bathrooms actually... As they said "my bathroom", "cleaner than the room".

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    gie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First time I used the ladies room at a German department store I paid, which I think is absolutely fair for the cleaning staff and upkeep, and when I let out a surprise sneeze I heard five voices say, "Gesundheit!". I like German washrooms, clean and comes with blessings!

    Mikel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. Most are clean, but not off the Autobahn!

    MJ B
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Germán people are civilized and lovely

    Pym Cat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Watch out for their "showers"

    Carole Strawn
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's been a while since I was there but I was impressed by even the public toilets. Even those on the Autobahn. Maybe things have gone downhill since then but all were much cleaner than the public toilets in the US.

    AP
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I found that in Scotland also.

    Fat Harry
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And for the opposite experience come to the Rownham services on the M27 in the UK.

    René Sauer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then you were always pretty lucky

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    #47

    Despite my parents being Argentinean, we eat dinner at around 7 or 8 Pm. You should have seen my face when I went to visit family and found out it's the norm to eat dinner there around 10 or 11 Pm.

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    M. William Bell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many people in Canada consider 7:00 or 8:00 late to eat dinner! I don’t understand how they manage to get home and dinner cooked by 5:30, but I know many families that do.

    Trex
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We ate every night at 5.30. Mid MN so close to Canada.

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    Brianna Tracy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    8pm for dinner is still late to me! Lol

    Mary Rogers
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eating before bed isn't healthy if you have digestive issues like gastritis or GERD.

    Emma S
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd have terrible indigestion if I finished dinner just before bed. Gotta let that food go down.

    CD King
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Canada you have to have dinner no later than 6pm because you have to watch your favorite shows and be in bed by 10pm.

    Jill Bussey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not ideal for your digestion to eat after 8 pm.

    Liv
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree in general, but in some countries people go to bed and get up much later than in other countries! It depends on the climate, besides culture, it seems.

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    El Dee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The further north you go the earlier the evening meal..

    Lesley Relph
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How can you sleep trying to digest a big meal?

    Edurne
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    10pm is normal dinner time here in Spain too!and to be honest, it's one of the things I love the most about my country :) I often go to the UK, where it's the opposite (they dine super early, usually 6pm but some of them as early as 5pm).. I adore the UK, but their dinner will always be my afternoon snack

    Linda Colosimo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I eat between 5-6pm. In bed by 11. I could never eat that late. I'm diabetic so regular times are essential.

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    #48

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered In Beijing old fat men do this thing called the Beijing bikini where they tuck the bottom of their t-shirt into the neck to expose their gut. It wasn't exactly a shock but it was hilarious. They also let their kids s**t on the floor.

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    Mitchell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People in the Philippines do this! I think exposing your tummy cools you down,

    Ozzie Ogawa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone with big belly living in tropical country i couldn't aggree more. And pressing your belly against cold floor during a hot day is such a blessing.

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    Lauren S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That last line about kids toilet practices confuses me. Super unrelated to the first part. And why would that me permitted/encouraged for kids to go on the floor? I need more information.

    Seth
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People in China don't use diapers on their infants/toddlers. Instead, they have their little ones wear split pants (essentially crotchless pants), and when they need to do their business they just squat in the middle of the street.

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    Sathe Wesker
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s not just Beijing, it’s the whole country. And the kids s******g on the floor… yeah very true and definitely one of the biggest culture shock moments for me when I moved there

    Helen Witten
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    S**t on the floor? I'm shocked at that.

    Sunshine Daydream
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    3 years ago

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    Claudia Schmid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beijing bikini 🤣🤣🤣 I've seen people do that but didn't know there was an expression for it

    Dianellian
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At Angkor Wat we watched an Indian woman pull down her kids pants so they could s**t. In a temple!

    Nea
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just curious- how did you know she was Indian?

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    3 years ago

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    Lord Mysticlaw
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg I just found out I've been doing a Beijing bikini my entire life 🤣🤣🤣

    My O My
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do they just leave the s**t there?

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    #49

    When I first came to the country and found out "grounding" is a form if punishment when kids get in trouble or acts up here in America. Back in China I use to get beat with a stick.

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    Stardust she/her
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dad would hit me and yell at me. I just wish I was grounded instead

    Lakota Wolf
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep - it depends on the culture - I'm adopted into a Hispanic family and I never got "grounded", I got hit, beaten, thrown across the room, smacked with whatever my mom had in her hand, etc. The other adults in the family also had carte blanche to beat any child in the family if they thought the child misbehaved. My ex, who is the child of Chinese immigrant parents, had a similar upbringing in terms of punishment.

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    Seth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you made a Venn Diagram of people who were beaten as a child, and people who perpetrate/suffer domestic violence as adults, you'd have almost a perfect circle.

    Lakota Wolf
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep - as an adult who was a beaten and abused child (physically, verbally, mentally, and emotionally - thanks, mom!), I basically stayed in an abusive relationship for two decades from age 18 til I was almost 40, constantly telling myself things like "well, he never HITS me..." He was abusive in every way except physical. Also, my mother is almost 79 years old now and is STILL abusive and toxic, though she doesn't try physical abuse with me any more. Sadly my sister, who was NOT abused, grew up and is just like my mother. (She was my parents' biological child, so she was the "perfect golden child", whereas I'm adopted)

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    R
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Sweden it’s illegal to hit your kid. You could not only loose your child to the social services, but also end up with jail. It’s equality bad to hit a child as a random adult. You do not hit anyone. It’s barbaric to use violence. Neighbours would absolutely gossip and treat you like a paria

    Bubbles and sparks
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't ever beat/hit respect in to a kid, just fear and/or contempt...

    BenMaharaj
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Americans are at a crossroads with corporal punishment. It used to be very common but child abuse finally got a spotlight out on it and now most parents are understandably concerned that punishment will be mistaken as abuse and so don’t use it anymore.

    StrangeOne
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On a different perspective, people have just found it not as effective, especially if it's the only go-to punishment. There's no real law you cannot spank a child in the US as of 2022, and that includes all 50 States. You cannot use an apparatus and cannot leave a bruise, or hit them anywhere else except the rear end. There's some fuzzy lines between spanking and down-right abuse. The reason it became outlawed before was because so many parents were taking it too far.

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    Gabby Ghoul
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother would speak sternly and then paddle us. If we we're in big trouble we'd have to remove our pants first.

    TheAquarius1978
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not just in China lol, that also happens i most Latin countries lol, both in América and Europe lol

    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep - it depends on the culture - I'm adopted into a Hispanic family and I never got "grounded", I got hit, beaten, thrown across the room, smacked with whatever my mom had in her hand, etc. The other adults in the family also had carte blanche to beat any child in the family if they thought the child misbehaved. My ex, who is the child of Chinese immigrant parents, had a similar upbringing in terms of punishment.

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    LeeAnne B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Flip flop or belt on me as a young chickie. Caning was a daily thing at school too. Or a wooden ruler to the knuckles.

    Magpie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am so sorry your parent/s hit you. That is not culture that is abusive. I hope you are ok now and getting any support you might be needing. NO child deserves to be hit with a stick EVER.

    Myriah Fields
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am african american and I just got hit and kicked AND grounded

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    #50

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Malaysia as a woman from the USA. I got harassed for wearing shorts. I got rocks thrown at me. A gun pulled. Men wouldn’t address me. The hotel we were at assumed I was a second wife to my married couple friends. In fact, I always had to convince them that I wanted my own room. I was never Ms. Mongooseoflove. I was always Mrs. AnyMaleFriendIWasWith.

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    Mora Chilis
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you go to other countries, respect their cultures and dressing habits. Don't play victim. You are a guest in their house. It is very simple. If you don't like wearing skirts, caps shirts, etc then vacation elsewhere.

    cogadh
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's no excuse for rock throwing or pulling a gun. Those are unjustified assaults, plain and simple. Using culture as an excuse for violence is disgusting.

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    Muhamad Iqbal Osman
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm Malaysian, we don't throw rocks at people especially to foreigners.That's rude .

    Mardie Mohamed
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Malaysian here too. I wonder where the OP went. There are plenty of local ladies wearing very short pants, and nobody bat an eyelash, especially in cities and towns. People will stare if you wore them in rural villages, yes. But throw stones? I hope she didn't wear it inside places of worship. A gun? Wow. Where did she went to?

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    Claudia Schmid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I solo travelled through Malaysia and I didn't have any of these experiences. Actually I really liked the country.

    Captain Kyra
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is.it just me or should traveling to another country include learning their customs beforehand and avoid offense and danger? Edit : added word

    Bored Lady On The Run
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The fact the rocks were being thrown in. It expresses a whole lot, they want modesty to be frank.

    Nora AlMeida
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No they don’t want modesty; they want a nonsense excuse to attack. In Islam, it is forbidden to attack others who didn’t attack you first. They attacked her with rocks??? That’s forbidden. In Islam, what a woman wears isn’t a big sin (so regardless of what she chooses to wear, it isn’t a big sin, so it isn’t a big deal)— of course there could be general guidelines for both genders, equally (and in Islam, people are supposed to respect that other people aren’t Muslim. She isn’t even Muslim, so she doesn’t have to follow Muslim dress code, per se, but anything above the knee, well, she could simply be warned then fined financially if the warning wasn’t respected. That’s it) but nothing in the religion allows people to harass, attack or throw rocks at a woman for what she wears.

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    Madelyn Y
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Culture isn’t an excuse for sexism and harassment

    Dianellian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What part of Malaysia? I’ve been there 4 or 5 times and really? A gun pulled as well?

    Soo Yi Xiang
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gun's are so rare in Malaysia. Which part did you travel to? Kinda doubt what you are telling.

    Lauren Moore
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I (female from Texas) went with my best (female from Texas) friend 12 years ago in our mid 20s. We had a lovely time. We went knowing it was a Muslim country and respected the culture. We did not dress overly modestly, but did not wear short shorts or crop tops, either. We were kindly asked to cover our heads and put on full body robes when touring a mosque, but that was about it.

    Mitz87
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure which parts of Malaysia she visited.

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    #51

    Truck playing music while driving down streets of Taipei. I commented that it might be an ice cream truck. My host looked at me funny and replied "that's the garbage truck. If we want ice cream, we go to the 7 Eleven store".

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    Mary Daniel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Turn the music up garbage truck

    Yoga Kitty
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Germany, the trucks that collect old metall play music in order for you to hear them coming and bring the stuff out you want them to pick up.

    No One
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do they play Metallica or perhaps Iron Maiden? :)

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    #52

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered I was visiting my aunt in China when I was a kid, and apparently there was a boy across the street who constantly got bad grades. The beatings would start, the dad shouting and the boy crying. When it started, all the neighbors' windows would start shutting because no one wanted to hear that, but in China child abuse was acceptable as long as you didn't kill your kid. My aunt shut her windows too, complaining that the man beat the son every day. Just that whole lack of concern for the boy.

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    Brooklynn Jackson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    India’s the same bro, I feel so sorry for those kids

    Crouching hippo hidden panda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was an online English teacher for a while during the pandemic but I stopped after an episode with the child’s father off screen slapping the back of his head anytime he got something wrong. I flagged it and complained to the company but all they did was move the child to a different teacher. Really saddened me

    Dianellian
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As if they can beat him up and make him smarter. Disgusting this still continues.

    alias D.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah here in the west if you were caught beating your child you could probably say goodbye to the child and to your freedom

    Susy Drizel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I literally just watched a video about how bad China's Bystander Effect is! - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPBnhBB8l-c

    Mary G
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Concern about the lack of special education evaluations and services to address learning disabilities, especially common ones like dyslexia

    Dav Carro-Ripalda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the child will in turn, grow up being a father beating his child.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a terrible, horrific life for a child. I guess they don't look into learning disabilities, either.

    Ray McArdle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Smart dude. It didn't work, so he kept doing it, like the boy will suddenly start getting good grades.

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    #53

    In Norway people actually stop for you at crosswalks, even without lights.

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    Kine Grønning Kraft
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Norwegian I can confirm that we do stop, it's illegal not to and if you get caught not stopping for pedestrians at crosswalks you get fined for it. Also as a driver you do not want to kill anyone, and in the cities pedestrians are so used to people stopping many will just walk straight out intro a crosswalk expecting cars to stop. How do people cross streets if traffic doesn't stop?

    XenoMurph
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They press a button and wait for the lights. cars stop for lights, not people.

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    Sue Denham
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't unusual in other countries either. .

    Mitchell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whereas elsewhere they mow you down?

    Ace
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Drivers are required to stop at black-and-white striped crossings across most of Europe. In practice compliance varies a lot, so a Swiss person who will happily walk out into the road without even looking may find themselves in trouble in some other places where you need to be more aggressive, or to take a single step first before checking if the car will actually stop for you.

    T'Mar of Vulcan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm shocked every day when I try to cross a road in Alberton (south and a bit east of Johannesburg) and people stop at the zebra crossing to let you cross. They're Afrikaans, that must be it. They'll shove you aside with their trolley in the supermarket, but they'll stop for you at the zebra crossing.

    Chris Hooley
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Australia, too. Pedestrian "zebra" crossing = stop for foot traffic.

    Huddo's sister
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just wish more pedestrians would use it, rather than crossing 100m away and barely even looking! How hard is it to go that little bit further? Then we have to make shopping strips 40k/h because of accidents.

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    StrangeOne
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was a shock to me in UK, too. At least where I was. I've been nearly hit many times at crosswalks in Canada with lights because people don't pay attention or are too impatient to wait for someone to cross, and I've seen people actually get hit. There's no real law enforcing people to have to stop for pedestrians, and most don't wait for you to finish crossing. They just have to stop at Stop signs and red traffic lights. There are controlled pedestrian crosswalks where a person presses a button that instantly flashes lights for drivers. But it's merely a suggestion to stop and some drivers don't want to stop. I've never seen anyone get a ticket driving through those while flashing. Most drivers will stop out of courtesy, but you can't expect them to, so you have to wait for people to stop. Well... for them to slow down. They won't fully stop until they see you crossing. If you don't, they'll continue on driving by.

    Mary Sutherland
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is indeed a law in Canada that cars must stop at crosswalks for pedestrians. Where in Canada do you live?

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    ispeak catanese
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have very high pedestrian mortality my Florida county. I hope tourists are extremely careful in this land where cars are king.

    Dav Carro-Ripalda
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We call them zebra walks. Because of the white and asphalt stripes. Every driver will stop. Sometimes there is a brainless learner not stopping, but a fine fine will make them learn. Spain here.

    Sunshine Daydream
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    China has very few crossing lights - cars are expected to watch out for and yield to pedestrians

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    #54

    USA to South Korea for school. Eating lunch in the cafeteria for the first time on my second day, trying to eat ramen with chopsticks and realizing too late that I should've spent more time working with chopsticks before coming to a country with very few forks. Thankfully another girl nearby took pity on me and taught me through miming how to make it work. USA to Korea, this time to teach English. You don't quite realize the tiger mom stereotype is real until you're surrounded by a pack of moms at a kindergarten parent-teacher conference, demanding to know why their five-year-old likes gym better than learning English.

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    Seth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably because that's the only 55 minutes in their entire day when they have any autonomy over what they do.

    Altair
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They try to send little kids to English-speaking kindergartens and it's super competitive. I feel bad for the kids. More often than not, they have poor grasp of the Korean language while still having mediocre English proficiency. Source: born in Korea, raised in NA, worked in KR later for a while

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    #55

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Went to NYC in the summer. The whole place smelled like hot garbage. Probably because of the sun beating down on all the garbage laying in the streets all day.

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    YetAnotherSarah
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The city has rules about when garbage is allowed to be put out—late afternoon-midnight the night before pickup. Granted, that area can get rough in that time period. Granted there have been certain events that have disrupted the routine. But most of the time, garbage is not piled up endlessly. I'm sorry your timing lined up with that area's trash day.

    Seth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wouldn't be so bad if they used bins like a civilized society.

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    Rayisnotokay
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Born and raised there. It doesn’t even smell that bad? At least where i live.

    Roman Hans
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lived there for years. Winter is great because all the street c**p freezes, but in summer when it thaws out, WHEW!

    Happy Panda Nicole
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NYC was literally built on landfill/garbage. I can say for sure many big cities like that all have a garbage smell. It’s very hard to control. Even with the smell it’s a great place to visit. So many interesting, fun, crazy and cool things to see!

    #56

    Intolerance to public drunkeness in America. I am British so you get used to public merryment and drunkeness but I was surprised that it was not tolerated in the US. After a while, I thought it was a great idea. I once went to the Ole Cracker barrel and during the order I asked what kind of beers they had: "This" the waitress stated quite forcefully "is a family restaurant."

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    Sandy D
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cracker barrel is extremely conservative, to a level that shirt of creeps me out. The majority of restaurateurs, at least where I live, also at least serve beer and wine. But then I'm in Wisconsin. We're known not just for beer brewing, but consuming alcohol at a higher level than most places in the US. For example, when the university of Wisconsin sports teams, especially football, have a big game in a less drunk state, our fans that travel for the game have drank several bars and pubs out of beer. It's apparently happened in a couple different states and cities. But there are also states that have "dry counties" where prohibition is still the law.

    Eris Kallisti
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can confirm, Wisconsin has its own alcohol culture and it's considered ok to spend the day at the bar drinking while your kids run around the bar. This is not the case in most US states. I was wondering if parts of the UK have a similar pub culture?

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    kath morgan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Brit in the US I’ve definitely gotten a sense that alcohol is seen as somewhat “naughty”. I’ve also had that same experience in a restaurant in upstate New York. After speaking to me the proprietor went into the kitchen and audibly went “that girl just asked for alcohol!” to her staff.

    Jill Hojnacki
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cracker Barrel now serves both beer and wine.

    alias D.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah the whole prohibition era really changed our views on alcohol

    XenoMurph
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Views on alcohol must have had to be pretty severe for prohibition to be started in the first place though?

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    Carla Phillips
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They serve alcohol now, at least the ones near me do

    Berdarien Brown
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh also cracker barrel sells beer. So not sure what they mean lol.

    Justme
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many do but some don’t depending on where they are. If it’s in a dry county they won’t sell alcohol.

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    JacPot
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good! People in the UK have a massive drinking problem and they don't see it because most of them do it. Going out on a weekend night in London is awful, people throwing up in the street, drunk idiots vandalising bins, benches etc, urinating on buildings and drunken fights, loud obnoxious people screaming down the street because they're trying to be funny... There's nothing normal about the majority of a nation being alcoholics.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a generalization. I know you have witnessed some obnoxious people, but those scenes are not unheard of anywhere else. What you described sounds like the usual at any given time in downtown Winnipeg. Except you might get stabbed or bear sprayed out of the blue. Doesn't mean an entire nation is filled with alcoholics. Brits do recognize alcoholism as a problem. I have British friends and one of them just dumped a guy because she noticed he drank too much. I went to the pub with them one night and there was no fights, no heated arguments, no one was that inebriated to be puking and falling about. We had 2 beers each and we went home. If anything to complain about the music was too loud to hold a conversation with people with thick accents. So the only think to do was listen to music, drink beer and people watch.

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    CHRIS DOMRES
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    Maybe in Britain drunk people are just merry, In America many drunks are a**h***s looking for a fight, who go out to their pickup trucks and grab a gun.

    Luna W.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You'd find drunks that are a$$holes looking for a fight in any and every country.

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    #57

    The mistreatment of dogs in Central America. It's heartbreaking to see these emaciated dogs wandering the streets and wondering if they're going to get blasted by some s***ty driver.

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    M A
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of Latin America, Caribbean etc

    LinaLovesBooks
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents went to Ecuador and when they were on a hike this random dog came up to them and basically gave them a tour. In return, they gave him ham

    Heather Lambie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Incredibly sad. The dog meat trade is also rampant there as well as Bali, Vietnam, China, Philipenes, Madagascar etc. man’s best friends are food in SO many places.😪,

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    #58

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered There are virtually no driving laws in Lebanon - and if there are, nobody follows them and they aren't enforced. Everybody drives like a f*****g maniac. Traffic is awful, everybody speeds. When going up into the villages in the mountains, people zoom around the narrow roads like they're on the damn interstate. Like these are two-way streets; they literally have zero regard for any potential drivers going the opposite direction. It's like they drive as if they have a death wish. We were vacationing there once, and I got hit by a car when I was crossing the street from Burger King to get back to my hotel in Beirut. I was about 11 years old. The guy who hit me got out of the car and started bitching *me* out in Arabic. I'm like "M**********R YOU JUST STRUCK ME WITH YOUR VEHICLE." Thinking about it now is hilarious.

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    #59

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered The fascination with westerners in rural China and India. Within an hour of landing in a second tier Chinese city, I was invited to a random couple’s wedding who were honored to have us show up. They even shuffled family members around in order place my friend and I at a front and center dinner table and a shout out from the DJ. In China and India many people treat westerners like a celebrities and want to take photos with you. While sitting on a bench in front of the Gate of India in Mumbai we agreed to take a photo with a few Indian guys and when other Indian passersby saw this, they would hurriedly change places with them and we would take another. This went on (and amused us) for close to 10 minutes with no end in sight before we had to walk away. Gives you a bit of an ego at first but got really annoying for my blonde friend and most backpacker females we met.

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    Dizavid
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg. I can just hear it in my head. "Look, the white people came! The white people are here everybody!" It's like a bad SNL sketch.

    Sunshine Daydream
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After awhile, when people ask for photos you just start looking around for a good background to stand in front of. It really is like a celebrity duty to take this photos. Talk a little English to their small children for bonus points too

    Snorkeldorf
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gives you some idea of what a Disney character cast member goes through.

    dev mehta
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    White privilege ;-))

    Sathe Wesker
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can confirm. When I first got to my apartment in China (in a third tier city) my roommate and soon to be coworker (also Canadian) wanted to show me the club and I told him I really didn’t have much money at the moment and he just laughed and said don’t worry about it, you’ll see… he was right. Neither of us paid for a single drink. This went on the entire time I lived there. Also just one example of many.

    Fricsmom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just posted above on #42 about this happening to us. I would have a running commentary in English while they would video. So many people in India saw me in my bathing suit from these experiences 😜

    Rachknits
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. I am average looking but because of having very pale skin and black hair (it was my emo phase), due to makeup and hair dye, they thought I was a movie star

    Seth
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This would make me extremely uncomfortable. Getting an "ego boost" from an experience like this just means you're a narcissist.

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    #60

    Tall white guy from Chicago. Went to Mexico City to practice my spanish and visit the pyramids of Teoticuan. EVERYWHERE I go children and teenagers would run up and ask if they could take a picture with me. By the third day it was explained to me what was going on - the kids who are in English language classes get extra credit for engaging in a conversation with "a native english speaker", and they have to have photos or video on their cell to prove it. In Mexico they encourage their young children to approach strangers in public, apparently. They don't seem to have an equivalent Nancy Grace.

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    Gabby M
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I've been to Mexico a bunch of times and I've never seen that happen. Maybe it's just in very specific cases.

    Holly Marley
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nancy Grace, the guilty-until-proven-innocent shock jock? I guess to warn kids not to talk to strangers?

    Michael Fernandez
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would be great to be somewhere where they don’t have media harpies who hound parents of murdered children until they commit suicide, as Nancy Grace has done.

    Phoebe Bean
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Teotihuacan: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Teotihuacan

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have an English speaking cousin who lived in Mexico and has never mentioned this.

    Almarako94
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guess if you rape children in mexico you better be part of a cartel or the cartel takes care of you. One of the very very few good things they bring.

    El Dee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    TIL who Nancy Grace is - I Googled..

    #61

    Being in Ethiopia and hearing about a shooting, perpetrated by Ethiopian military troops, attacking at a mosque in Addis. And then hearing that no one outside of Ethiopia would ever know of it because when the government controls the telecommunications they can just turn the internet off for a few days and there is no way to get news out.

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    El Dee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's amazing what governments can 'mute' People are always unaware of it in their own country. I was too until I found that our state broadcaster, on their website too, was not covering large important stories that could change public opinion and those stories they did cover were skewed. I was very disappointed..

    Cold Eagle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have to agree, that moment when you realise this it leaves you dumbfounded. You're never quite the same again. At least I wasn't

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    #62

    I once saw a mob crush a man's head with a motorcycle battery because he had been caught trying to steal said battery. The cops just watched him getting beaten, run-over, and finally bludgeoned. East Africa is a scary place sometimes...

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    Rachknits
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, that is something else

    T'Mar of Vulcan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay but where in East Africa? Africa is huge.

    #63

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Greece. Seeing a whole family (mum and dad and two toddlers) on a motorbike.

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    Claudia Schmid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha, you haven't been to Asia yet!

    Fraxinus excelsior
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nor Italy. I've seen small fridges, microwaves even propane gas bottles transported on scooters over there. 5 year old standing on the scooter, holding onto the handlebars whilst an elder child was sitting behind the rider.

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    Mardie Mohamed
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha, normal scene here in out of big cities area in Malaysia

    Pound Cake
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve seen this a lot in Pakistan. Usually from back to front sits mom, older kid, dad, and two younger kids.

    Jason
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Saw the same in Mexico when I was there

    Ele V
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's sth I'd seen a lot in Italy too... Looks like they love their motorbikes them Southerns

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    #64

    I was shocked at being able to purchase a giant waffle the size of my head in the Netherlands. The internet tells you there are no large food portions outside the US but it's not true.

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    Caro Caro
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stroopwafel. A stroopwafel is a thin, round waffle cookie made from two layers of sweet baked dough held together by caramel filling.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those are effing delicious. There's miniature, probably less tastier, waffle cookies like that at the grocery store. Used to see them at Safeway but haven't for a while. They had maple syrup ones. They were still so good, though.

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    B Hermans
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then most likely it wasn't an original Dutch baked good, as Dutch baked goods (like cookies) tend to be small in size (because we're frugal ;-)).

    Anikulapo
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Funny fact about stroopwafels: Steal mine and die. True story.

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    #65

    When I went to Vietnam 10 years ago, I thought there must have been a traffic jam on the way out of the airport. Motorbike and car horns kept beeping. Then I realized it was normal, everywhere in Vietnam. I was there for work and we had a driver who had worn a spot in his steering wheel from beeping the horn so much.

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    Dizavid
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ironically, once you have so many horns beeping you can't really tell where any of them came from, if even hear them over the sound/endless distraction of the others.

    Seth
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In places like this, the horn isn't used with the intent of conveying information. It's just a way of shouting in frustration without losing your voice.

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    Ray McArdle
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would save my horn. Everyone is doing it, why would your horn make any difference?

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    #66

    "The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage": 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered Singapore still canes for crimes! And apparently people pass out from the pain.

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    Chan Heng Li (Zhonghuass)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Theft or robbery, but a few years ago a man was caned for spray painting cars

    YetAnotherSarah
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're talking about the American brat from 30 years ago, not all of us were upset about it.

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    alias D.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sorry I’m gonna need a little bit more explanation than that illustration

    YetAnotherSarah
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially as the illustration depicts a scene of the whipping of slaves in Brazil in the 1800s.

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    Dianellian
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Chewing gum has also been illegal there since 1992.

    Seth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They don't want people spitting it on the ground or sticking it under tables.

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    Bored human
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's just a small matter of caning

    Altair
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember hearing that they do this for sex offenders and thinking it was a fair punishment

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    #67

    So in Italy, being a server at a restaurant is a respectable carreer, and they are paid pretty well. It took me way longer than I would've liked to, to figure out why all the wait staff I came across was very grateful for my 15% tips...

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    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always a good idea to do a little research into the place you're going to be. Locals often appreciate the effort.

    TheAquarius1978
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can tip restaurant staff, i always do, they don't need it because they have a " normal " wage like everyone else, but i always tio them, if the food is good, or if the waiter is funny, s**t i still remember avwaiter that served me and my friend 20 years a go in Cascais, dude was hilarious, both me and my friend where cross eyed ( not even kidding Pure coincidence ) but Im tall fat and bald, my friend was a lot shorter skinny and hás amazing black curly hair, dude gets to out table with the menus, look at US both, and goes " oh brothers ? " We both laugh out asses off, dude was kind of an a*s, but an extremely funny a*s, and got a massive rio from us both.

    Happy Panda Nicole
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it true though that in some countries it’s considered poor taste to tip wait staff?

    Dav Carro-Ripalda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would not say "pretty well" but in most europe, waiters do earn living wages.

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    #68

    Smarties are chocolate. I'm from the US and the first time I was in the UK, on the very first day, I bought a pack of Smarties thinking it was pure sugar to perk me up from the jetlag. I "drank" the box to get a quick mouthful and was suddenly hit by the taste of chocolate and was shocked. (Also a couple minutes later I found out that I was allergic to the dye they use in the coating--which I would've known if I bothered to read the box.) Anyway, Smarties are chocolate. Beware.

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    Izzy Jeanette
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People didn't know smarties are chocolate?

    usernameorwhatever
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the U.S, smarties are like flavored sugar, definitely not chocolate lol

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    Sue Denham
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Chocolate" and "Beware" are two words that have absolutely nothing to do with each other. Nothing!

    Claudia Schmid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mental note to myself: don't buy Smarties in the US

    Amy Taylor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have a neighborhood English shop that has everything imported from there, lol. I buy all of my candy there. My favorite are Refreshers :) Fizzy goodness!!

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    Kitten Fenerty
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the US they are chalk like candy

    BarBeeGirl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Smarties are candy coated chocolate in Canada too

    Cee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the US, their Smarties are our Rockets (what the little plastic wrapped sugar tablet candy is called in Canada). I literally just had this conversation today because.. well.. Halloween. Haha

    Lynn Morello
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought all smarties around the world were coloured Candy coloured chocolate buttons.

    StrangeOne
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, so they do have Smarties in the UK. I was thinking of sending my bf a box from Canada. But if they have them there then nah. I'll pick something else. He sure likes OMG!s

    Lee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Olay but where in the US are you that you can get a box of the US Smarties? I've only ever seen them in tiny little stacks and wrapped in plastic.

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    #69

    How well dressed Europeans are. I went to Europe looking ragged as f**k and saw perfect 10's constantly walking around, because their standard of dress is higher. No pajama pants, no sweats, just very polished and refined wardrobe. Needless to say I cleaned up my act very soon after lol. And in Mexico, the crazy driving. And all the trash that litters the streets, mhhmmm.

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    LottieH
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone has never been to Asda at 9am. (UK equivalent to walmart)

    jai putman
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depending on the area, going to Asda at any time of day you're likely to see some random in her dressing gown and bunny slippers buying twenty cheap ciggies

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    Snorkeldorf
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    US here. When I was called for jury duty I was astounded at the way some people were dressed. Yes, pajama bottoms or torn jeans in some cases. Maybe that helps avoid being selected to serve on a jury. Same when I went to the airport. I understand the desire to be comfortable but really? Come on!

    Lee
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm with you on jury duty. Show up and take it seriously. But if anyone expects me to dress up for a plane trip like they did back in the day, I expect to be treated the way customers were back in the day. Back when even coach got free meals and real leg room. Until I get that I will be very happy flying in yoga pants and an ugly, huge tee shirt.

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    Fat Harry
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This person has never met me. I have dogs and horses and work from home, so I spend a lot of time smelling like a barnyard and looking like a hobo.

    Melia Janssen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You see this only in the cities. Come to suburbs where I live in down south Netherlands and it's not altogether uncommon to see people in their sweatpants in the supermarkets early in the mornings. They don't wear pyjamas though.

    Justme
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Styles of dress vary as greatly as the human race. Speaking as an American visiting Europe for a few weeks I can only speak for myself - I look shabby because I only have luggage room for 3 outfits. So they will be quick drying items I can wash in a hotel sink. I’d love to wear nice things when I travel but I’d rather not travel with a lot of luggage.

    3 Owls In A Coat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! I went travelling wearing boots and a toque and I looked like I was homeless compared to the average person is Kyiv!

    Luna W.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember how amused I used to be about seeing people in dressing gowns, pajamas, and with a head full of rollers shuffle to the mailboxes in our neighborhood. Lol

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    #70

    Example of culture shock in reverse - I'm an American who has spent the past 2 years living in China. After my first trip back to the US (after a full year abroad) I was just really shocked by how much grass there was everywhere. Space is such a luxury in Beijing that it was startling to see how much is devoted to your average front/back yard. I was also shocked by enormously wide the roads in my suburban section of the city felt!

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    Fricsmom
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had a Chinese exchange student comment on the same thing. We live on a third of an acre. He wondered why we didn’t have a farm. He would take pictures of trees.

    StrangeOne
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a similar feeling when I came home. I realized how ugly and boring Winnipeg is when you're going into the city from the airport, and how grey and culturally neutral it is. Like, there is culture but it's all over the place and tucked away in the nooks and crannies.

    Brobro McDuderson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then consider that the US (330M) is nearly the same area as China (1.4B).

    #71

    Rio de Janeiro. The small children selling gum on busy streets all day and night, the beggars everywhere, every building had bars on the windows, armed guards at the doors of the hotel. The enormous shanty towns on the mountainsides. Traveling on business and it's the only place my boss insisted I have a driver, for safety reasons. While I was there, the beaches were robbed. A line of robbers from the water's edge to the street behind (and it was a wide beach) basically went from one end to the other (a mile?) and robbed everyone there (hundreds of people). Also the inflation rate was so high my dollars were worth noticeably more (15%?) by the end of the week, and the dollar was definitely the preferred currency, even for large commercial events like my conference. On the plus side, the people as a whole were beautiful and wore almost no clothes--small bikinis, no matter your age or sex. Bikinis were not unusual all over the city, sometimes wrapped in pareos. I don't know where people kept their money, no one carried purses, I was told that was because they'd be stolen.

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    Luanda Moura
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's sad to reas as a Brazilian, but true. However, I've been in Rio many many times, I was never stolen.

    Xenon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well I guess its good You never got stolen.

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    Luna W.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I asked one of my coworkers from Brazil what he liked most about living in Germany. He said it was being able to walk down the street at night with your phone without fear of getting robbed/attacked.

    Electra Complex
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love the priorities of "I got robbed but on the plus side I got to see a lot of hot naked people" 😆😆

    CilaPed
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sad but true. Big cities in Brazil are like that

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    #72

    As an American Southerner, trying to make friends traveling Europe alone was an interesting experiment. Germans and Belgians thought I was a wack job for speaking to strangers randomly, but I had some great conversations in France and the Netherlands. That said, in Germany at least, I found that once you infiltrate a friend group, they can be very inclusive and protective. Obviously anecdotal, but they agreed when I mentioned it. Most people I interacted with don't do small-talk and would go straight to topics that Americans would consider rude when talking with a stranger.

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    David Green
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had the same experience camping in Europe. France was by far the friendliest (which, being a Brit is always a suprise) and Spain and Germany quite reserved.

    Fat Harry
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Most people I interacted with don't do small-talk and would go straight to topics that Americans would consider rude when talking with a stranger. " Odd, because when talking to Americans they always seem to ask "how much do you make?" as one of the first questions, which is considered very rude just about everywhere!

    T'Mar of Vulcan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I found the 'not looking anyone in the face' thing very off-putting in Europe.

    Luna W.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree, and I still find it off-putting even after having been back in Germany for 5 years. People are so surprised/confused when I look at them and smile. But I've been getting more smiles back recently. There's hope... :)

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    #73

    Little girl in Bangkok selling animal figures made out of palm leaves or grass for about 12 hours.

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    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't really have to say it, do I?

    Phobrek Taz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no idea what this comment is assuming.

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    #74

    The women in the Caribbean were much more flirtatious and forward than back home. It made me super nervous. I had a girl approach me in a Wendy's of all places and ask if my friend and I would like to join her and some friends at the beach. My buddy and I keep arguing about whether they were hookers and we were going to get drugged and mugged. Nope, just some teachers who thought we were attractive. That happened multiple times over the years, and practically never happens in the US. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've been approached by a woman while on American soil. Any time I go abroad, especially to the Caribbean it happens multiple times. I still don't understand.

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    Kitten Fenerty
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looking for someone to marry to get them in the states perhaps?

    El Dee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is nice, women should always feel able to do the asking..

    Lee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think mostly it's because in the US girls are told that boys like quiet, shy girls and loud girls are pushy. Boys were always supposed to make the first move.

    Dav Carro-Ripalda
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you think you are going to get drugged and mugged if invited by strangers, maybe is the reason why nobody does it where you come from: everybody is scared, and nobody trusts no one.

    Almarako94
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I need to travel to the caribbean

    MJ B
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    3 years ago

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    Maybe because you are an ugly c**t!

    AxleMunshine001
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go to Twitter for that kind of stupid trolling. How old are you? 8?

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    #75

    In Armenia, cigarettes are communal because they're so cheap. If there's a pack on a table, anyone is welcome to take one.

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    StrangeOne
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Note to self: Armenia is very liberal on pro-smoking. Avoid.

    Theo Blackwood
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I need to book a flight to Armenia now.

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    #76

    Moved to Toronto from Dublin 3 years ago, it still amazes me how open and trusting people are with their stuff in public, iPhone 7's hanging out of their back pockets, parked car windows being left open etc... at home in dublin especially around the city centre, you just couldn't do that s**t! We have situations at home where scumbags will actually ride past you on a bike and snatch your phone out of your hand while your talking on it..... On a slightly negative side, it's nuts how people drive here, very rush rush and angry, and the fact that cars can still turn when there's a pedestrian light is crazy to me.

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    Amy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I visited Toronto and absolutely loved it, but OMG the traffic! I've never seen anything like it. It took us 2 hours to go 25km.

    Amy Taylor
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should see LA!! I'm so used to it but when my family comes to visit they're shocked by how bad the traffic is.

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    Apachebathmat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My favourite place I have ever visited is Toronto, I’d love to go again. I was so taken back how the air was so clean it took a while for my lungs to adjust, it felt cold but really it was just much cleaner than I was used to.

    BarBeeGirl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in the capital city of Canada and we rarely ever lock our doors. It’s weird to me that people lock the door when they’re home

    Seth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Widespread home invasions and gun violence are strong motivators.

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    Sathe Wesker
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As I’m from Toronto I’m kind of confused by this, the phones in the back pocket I get, but not so much the windows of parked cars being down. Theft is definitely a thing here, particularly downtown Toronto (which is a wicked place but can be dangerous). Traffic though, yeah Toronto is pretty rush-rush. And we turn on a pedestrian light only when there are no pedestrians crossing, but it’s still legal.

    StrangeOne
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, the turning on pedestrian walking lights is a real hazard and people do get hit. Most drivers don't want to hit people, though. The cities are very car-centric, so pedestrians are the ones expected to sort of protect themselves and watch for traffic. When you are crossing at a busy intersection, or any street, make eye contact with the driver to make sure they see you. Do a downward nod with a little assuring smile, and wave as a thank you.

    #77

    I moved from the US to Moscow. The first two weeks were an absolute nightmare since Moscow is about 18x larger than my home city. My favorite culture shock experience is on my 2nd day getting lost in the train system for hours. The train system as amazing and efficient as it is, you can get lost for days if you don't know it.

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    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel you

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    #78

    How much people drink beer in the Czech Republic. You cannot get a non alcoholic drink in a bar cheaper than a beer. And then I looked it up and low and behold, the Czech's have the highest beer consumption in the whole world.

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    AustrianGirl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beer is quite cheap in Austria too, but we have a law regulating the prices. Every restaurant that sells alcoholic beverages is supposed to have at least 1 non alcoholic drink on the menu that is the same size and price or cheaper than the one with alcohol. There are just very few exceptions to that. Most people don't know about it, but it is the law and you can complain if someone doesn't act accordingly.

    MJ B
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    3 years ago

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    Never trust anyone who doesn’t drink

    #79

    Was in mainland China for awhile. Guangzhou. I absolutely loved all of it but firstly, as a woman, I was amazed to feel very safe walking around alone at night. I took motor taxis in the dead of night in remote areas and felt very safe with the male drivers. I never felt threatened or afraid of anyone. Everyone was nice and wanted to help the white foreigner. Also the anarchic traffic system that nobody seems to have accidents in despite all the chaos, as well as it being a general rule that others will cut you in lines and think nothing of it.

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    Stymied Egan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We were there several years ago and had the same experience. We used the zen way of crossing roads while walking. Just believe it will all be okay and go. You hear car horns all the time without any real sign of why they are being blown. We took a tour to some caves outside of a small city. The bus driver blew his horn continuously, even when the road was empty. He passed cars going into incoming traffic without slowing or speeding up. Never forget.

    Meyrin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Excellent, you saw what the ruling party wanted you to see. Congrats.

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    #80

    Born and raised in the US, went to live in Mexico for two years. The biggest shock for me was definitely the food and what it did to my system. We were told to take 4 peptos a day for the first three weeks to keep off the worst of the stomach pains but in the end I still got so sick I could not walk. After that though, I loved any Mexican food I could get my hands on. Except mole. That stuffs not right

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    Demongrrrrl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Montezuma seeks vengeance!

    Cee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here she come now singin’ “Mole Mole”

    Xenon
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think I could take the amount off hot peppers in every dish. I've never had a mole so can't speak to that.

    heather morris
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love mole but it may just be mine

    Jennik
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same - I make a chicken mole (with unsweetened chocolate, ground bread and ground nuts in the sauce) and my family loves it.

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    Robin DJW
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree about the molé. I think you have to grow up with it - like Vegemite.

    dev mehta
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You would have similar experience in India

    Marek Čtrnáct
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We tried mole, and it was pretty good. Mixiote, on the other hand...

    #81

    Probably the urban-rural divide in Mexico, particularly the southern states. One thing that sticks out is more-than-expected poverty of the rural areas, and the sometimes-seen methods of seeking to make a buck in somewhat aggressive manners. Like the dude standing with a shovel in the middle of the road who (apparently) spent all day filling a single hole in the road with dirt from the side of the road, and wanting a donation. I'm also reminded of a few times when driving and suddenly a rope with flags hanging off it sprang from the road, forcing the vehicle to stop. Up jumps a bunch of children attempting to sell tortillas or some other food item. The fact you're driving and then suddenly the road is obstructed is rather alarming, especially given at the time there had been news reports of people being suddenly stopped and robbed on the roads.

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    Mrs S
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would love to visit the islands of Mexico City. Saw them on pbs.

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    #82

    Pizzas served with ketchup or other sauces in various Eastern European countries. I was not prepared for this.

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    alias D.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Come on how did you screw that up

    Aga Ch
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude, give it a go. I love pizza with garlic sauce. It's yum, really

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    #83

    No free water or refills in Germany

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    Meyrin
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You will be charged 0.00 Euro in some cafes in Vienna😄 I still find that hilarious when i check the receipt. (Looks a bit pretty to me -like "ugh, fine here is free tap water oida")

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    Lilith
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The same in Austria and Switzerland. But if you order tap water its for free and you will get as much as you want. Servers will maybe not be happy with you, because a lot of them are paid a percentage of what they are selling additional to their wage.

    Mrs S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a kid, we had to make our 4 oz (appx) beverage last the entire meal when dining out.

    1ch0
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dont buy water anymore, I drink it from the tap. Its that good, you can do it.

    Luna W.
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, it isn't. Restaurants simply want you to buy bottled water instead of serving you tap water.

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    #84

    Moved to and started driving in Poland. Everyone drove as if the speed limit signs were in imperial rather than metric. Then I went on a trip to India (Calcutta) and I saw real driving. When I returned to Poland I realised that Polish traffic is way more insane than it ought to be but not really insane.

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    Aga Ch
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poles love speeding, hence the recent increase in fees for various traffic violations

    Very bored
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was driving in Poland and found that some speed limits are on a VERY conservative side. I thought they were so in the UK but 20km/h speed signs changed my mind.

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    #85

    My first morning in China, I ran out of bottled drinking water. I just didn't realize how much I'd go through fresh of the boat. I was in an apartment, not a hotel, so I couldn't just snag an extra bottle from a room service care. It was pretty early and very few shops were open. And, I was completely unfamiliar with the neighborhood. So all in all, it took me about 20 minutes wandering around just to get myself some drinking water. It was a very sobering experience, and drove home that I wasn't in Kansas anymore.

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    Seth
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you ran out of bottled water and it took 20 minutes to go get more? Excuse me for failing to notice where the culture shock in this story was.

    Sathe Wesker
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You do NOT drink tap water in China. One of the very first things I was taught. If you want water you drink water bottles and there are coolers everywhere. We had one in my first apartment.

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    MJ B
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dorthy…this ain’t Kansas…is it?

    René Sauer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *gasp* OP had nothing to drink for a whole 20 minutes? However did they survive?

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