“The Whole Place Smelled Like Hot Garbage”: 50 People Reveal The Biggest Culture Shock They’ve Ever Encountered
Getting out of your comfort zone is always a part of traveling. That’s why, despite the joys new countries and exotic places bring us, many people prefer to stay in the comfort of their home and don’t step foot into the unknown.
In order to see what kind of exact differences are waiting for travelers, Bored Panda looked at the various Reddit threads where people shared their biggest culture shocks.
Like a cold shower, it taught them a lesson that the societal norms they took for granted change depending on the culture and location you disembarked from the plane. Scroll down through the most interesting stories below!
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We had this akward conversation with a family in Venezuela who we had invited over for dinner. They just wouldn't leave! My dad was doing the polite Canadian thing and mentioning that "we were tired", that "usually we would be in bed by now", that "it's been a long night and they probably want to get home", walking them toward the front door. And then we were stuck just standing there staring at each other. My dad finally just blurts out "Why won't you leave?! We're tired and want to go to bed!" And in frusteration they reply "Why won't you just let us go?!"
Turns out that in Venezuelan culture it's rude to leave on your own as an invited guest. The polite thing to do is to wait for your host to open the door and guide you out, but in Canadian culture it's rude to ask your invited company to leave and you wait for them to open the door and go on their own.
I cannot stress how hard I laughed at this whole absurd situation
Load More Replies...As a Canadian, your comment made me laugh harder than I probably should have. :)
Load More Replies...Oh God lol, i would have Venezuelan gests in my house for years then lol
Actual Venezuelan here, THIS IS NOT TRUE XD they probably came up with that out of embarassment, probably they overstayed because the Canadians were all polite and warm and kept doing hospitalary things and they thought it was rude to leave early xD
This is hard to admit, but as someone who grew up in the USA I was taught in a thousand ways that this country sets every standard and deserves deference from everyplace else on earth. It was so ingrained that I didn't even know it was an assumption ... until I was outside the states and it was obvious that the USA is not the center of the universe. People are doing just fine all over the place without, you know, being us. What's more, the myth we tell ourselves is that everyone in the world would live here if they only could. No, they wouldn't. A whole lot of people see us as a collection of fools, greedheads, and bumblers who happen to have been born in a place with a lot of natural resources. Since Trump, of course, the idea that our system of government is magically self-correcting is also under serious question.
Our rampant gun violence, corrupt police, dystopian healthcare, and widespread rejection of climate science probably don't seem very appealing to outsiders.
I am genuinely bewildered as to why the idea of socialised medicine is so vigorously opposed. And the gun violence is equally impossible to understand-the thought that you'd rather teach your children shooter drills from age 5, have armed guards in schools, even think about arming teachers than bring in proper legislation against guns that no normal person needs to have access to is beyond me. The fact your politicians are happy to accept the mass slaughter of innocents is frightening.
Load More Replies...I’ve often said that Americans are brainwashed as soon as they enter school that America is best country in the world. It’s not
Not by a longshot lol, i would bet that right now its Norway
Load More Replies...I’m from the u.s. and I’ve never thought that way- In fact, kind of the opposite. Travel helps.
Same!! My grandparents are all from Europe, my parents first generation Americans and I noticed from a very early age that we were being brought up very differently than our friends were.
Load More Replies...The gun situation really puts me off the US. The UK had one school shooting back in 1996 and immediately implemented very strict gun controls laws. No school shootings since. Simple. The US just doesn't seem to get that notion and will insist on their 'right' to bear arms. I'm not saying that there are no guns on the streets in the UK, but they're certainly a lot harder to find than in the US. I find it mind blowing that people can just walk down the street with a gun in their pocket or that you can buy them in shops. Or that schools have to make children go through metal detectors before they're allowed in. As the mother of a teenager it would terrify me.
Yeah It is just insane when you think about it. In germany you can be sure that 99% of all people on the streets dont carry a gun. Only police or security guards for money transports do. You dont have to be afraid, to get shot when going for a walk. I could not even imagine to live in the US..
Load More Replies...As someone currently in the American School System, yeah 100%. I'll admit, even now I think like that a lot of the time, but I try to correct myself on it, reread before commenting on stuff, etc. but we are very much taught that the US is the center of the world and also better than everywhere else.
It's good that even at a young age you recognise that this is happening but also scary that it's happening and many many other young people won't realise that isn't the case.
Load More Replies...Love living in USA. But have never been taught, nor do I think I am superior to anyone else
This reminds of the time my MIL accused me of coming to the US for the better social services and healthcare. Mind you, I'm originally from the Netherlands lol.
For the "better social services and healthcare"?? 😂. Were you able to keep a straight face? Lmao
Load More Replies...The thing I have always loved about the US was the diversity of cultures and different ethnic groups. I was proud of the US being known as “ the melting pot”. Even though it seems that Americans are racist and closed minded, I don’t believe that is true for most, especially due to multi-generational families and younger people with a global acceptance mentality. The loudest aren’t always the strongest.
I never used to give the flags flying everywhere a second thought. Now I look at them and get angry. People are so brainwashed by the idea of “freedom” and how helping your fellow man is *gasp* socialism. Plus, our government can’t seem to decipher the constitution. They bend it to their will and don’t consider it’s true intention based on the time period it was written.
Croatia: it's a standard expectation that you clean the street outside your house as part of cleaning your house (at least in the small towns i was in -not sure about the cities). The cleanest streets I've ever seen and a real sense of communal civic pride.
Picture is not Croatia just for the record. This is one of the Cycladic islands in Greece.
Yes! Glad someone pointed that out! I’ve been to a few of the Greek islands and it looks exactly like this, so I was confused when I saw this picture.
Load More Replies...I love Croatia, my dad went there on vacation since the 70s and I went to krk almost every summer in the end 90s and 00s. Highly recommended.
That is where my mom is from and I lived during my childhood!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Load More Replies...I totally agree with you on this one. I regularly remove the weeds and moss from in front of my wall next to the pavement, but my neighbours don't and it looks so unsightly, only a few houses on my street keep theirs cleared too. Same goes for any rubbish that lies in front of my house, usually dropped by the refuse collectors, I'll pick it up and put it in my bin.
Load More Replies...Why are images mixed though? This is clearly Greece and not Croatia.
I moved to Australia when I was 20 and I thought people were going to be speaking English. I was wrong. Me, "I'm going to McDonald's, you want me to get you a breakfast burrito?" Shane, "Oi Maccas Fair Dinkum mate! Had to ruck up early for the physio and me ute was out of petrol so stopped at the servo and asked the Sheila if they had brekky but noooouaahho just lollies so ive been getting aggro" None of the sounds that just fell out of your head were words. Do you want a burrito or not?
I am Australian, here is a translation: He had to get up earlier so he could go to the Physio and his car ran out of petrol, so he went to the petrol station (gas station in America) and asked the lady at the counter if they did breakfast but they only did lollies (sweets in UK, candy in America) so he is getting angry
OOC is "the physio" a place (a gym) or is it a general word for exercise?
Load More Replies...I… I think??? I think he got up early to exercise, but his car didn’t have gas so he went to a gas station, and the attractive woman said they didn’t sell breakfast but they did have lollipops. So, he’s hungry? Yes, yes, just get him the burrito.
Aggro is angry or annoyed. A sheila is any woman, not necessarily an attractive one (although it's not in common usage anymore).
Load More Replies...They do in Australia. But not in Mexico. Strange, that.
Load More Replies...American here. I understood it, but what was weird was that as I read it it was in an Aussie accent in my head. Not sure if I should be worried about that.
Load More Replies...Not everyone in Australia speaks like this, mostly just in rural areas, people in cities speak fairly normally. Funny though
While some of the sentence is over the top, much of it is quite normal in Australia. Maccas, physio, brekky, ute, petrol, servo, lollies and aggro are all common words which everyone understands and most people will use, but they will stump many Americans (and 'stump' might be another one).
Load More Replies...Thanks :) (I'm Dutch/Australian - before you get confused) :D
Load More Replies...Brilliant !! Many years ago, I ran a kitchen in a large hotel with a very multi cultural staff among them were a couple of Aussie Chefs ; at the time I was going out with a French girl who spoke very good English. Whenever a bunch of us met up after work for a beer or two, she would always look very bemused when speaking with one or both of the Aussie guys, so I asked her why and her reply was that ' to me it sounds like a duck quacking at me - I can make out some words so usually just smile and nod my head' . From that moment I can't listen to an Aussie talk with visualising a talking duck !!
Yeah nah. When I lived in Canada as an aussie no one understood all of our aussie abreviations.
I'm always using the nz "ta" as in "thank you" when speaking english, we used it when I was a kid. No one ever understands it... Also mozzies, only Austrians and Kiwis know what I mean
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In Spain, no chit chat from the waiter. None of that "I'll be serving you" stuff that we hear in the US. Just "tell me." My introvert self loved it. I tell you, food arrives, I eat.
yes less pressure to start a the dreaded thing known as a conversation
Load More Replies...Omg so none of that, "How's everyone's food? Everything good? Need a refill in your clearly tenth empty drink?" right at the moment I began chewing. And the silent wait as they absolutely seem unable to speak the language of emphatic head-nods. "So y'all are sure; everything's right good? Sure you don't want me to top that drink off? We have microscopic fluid administrators back there, THE TECHNOLOGY EXISTS" while I'm headbanging like Beavis and Butt-Head merged into the portmanteau nobody asked for. (Gotta get you some Beave-Head) Edit: To be clear I f*****g hate this practice when it HAS to be obvious I've got half a head of lettuce and cheese in my mouth. I might choke. It's attempted murder.
Dizavid, I am trying so hard not to wake up my husband from laughing. Terrific comment!
Load More Replies...It's bc in the US they depend on tips and in other countries they don't. The menial chit chat is in hopes of getting a bigger tip so they can actually pay a bill or two.
Ahhh, how I wish American servers would adopt this. I hate the "my name is Britney and I'll be serving you, can I get you started with some broiled onion wedges and one of our drink specials, may I suggest the cran-apple caramel-tini? It's my absolute fave!! It's made with our own well vodka which is locally sourced from the Walmart down the street. I see you have a little one, so do I, he's probably a year or so younger than yours. He starts preschool in the fall and I'm freaking out, the time goes by so fast. So, you want to try the drink special? It's happy hour so it's $1.50 off and the onion wedges are buy one get one. The dip for them is amazing, it's like this bacon ranch that our chef makes from a mix that corporate sends us. I literally dip everything in it." Girl. Get out of my face. Stop telling me what to order or trying to find common ground with me.
to clear up misunderstandings: different to the usa and canada, waiters in europe are not required to „chit chat“ and do the „how are you etc.“ routine. so if they are talkative, it‘s because they actually want to or think it‘s common sense to be social :). It depends on their individual character.
I didn't have the same experience in Madrid... in Barcelona, Zaragoza, Seville, yes... in Madrid, all the waiters were chitchatting to us...
I've only been to Spain once, in a popular tourist place. Our waiter (guy about 55 years old) was incredibly - pleasantly, not annoyingly - friendly. He kept coming back to the table even when he had no duty. He told us about the town, asked about our homes. Kept bringing us shots on the house. Was incredibly invested in us having a good time, even sat with us after his shift was over. The next night when we ate there again, he even pulled out a huge collection of family photos to show us. He was adorable, even though I usually hate that sort of thing. But he was so genuine, so nice.
I was shocked by how friendly most people in the US are. When we're buying groceries, the cashier would make small talk with us about what we're buying. I bought KFC and was having trouble with american coins (they're all the same color ok!) and the nice cashier helped me (there was no one else at the store so he had time). My uncle was raised in the US and knew all his neighbors, he loves riding bikes so he knows everyone around the neighborhood who also rides. I'd walk his dog while I was there and people would just randomly stop and talk to me about the dog.
The friendliness makes my trips to the US very wholesome and nice.
It’s nice to hear someone say good things about the US on here for a change. Yes we have our problems like any other country but don’t judge us all by only what you see in the news. Normal everyday people are for the most part nice. I’m one of those who will talk to anyone with a dog.
Load More Replies...As a Filipina, I find Americans loud but very friendly I had so much fun when I went there with my family you guys are very talkative and you guys have a large portion of everything i have to admit that's the only problem i had in there because it's so hard for us to finish the food.
Load More Replies...That’s so nice to hear- finally. We ain’t all bad eggs! Thank you.
You definitely aren't. <3 I've lived in the US for 15 years, and even though it was very unusual at first, I absolutely started to love how friendly and polite everyone was. People would actually make eye contact, smile at you and say Hi, even though you never met them. It made me feel really good, and it felt equally good doing that as well. You'd get compliments for a nice outfit or hairstyle; at the supermarket people don't ram their shopping carts into your ankles or push you out of their way. If you'd drop something, everyone around you would bend down to pick it up for you. People paid attention to each other and were always happy to help, or to have a quick chat. It was so easy to get to know people because they made it easy for you. Back in Germany (major city), I really, really miss that. I was terribly homesick for the US for the longest time. Posts and comments that just absolutely bash the US make me really upset.
Load More Replies...Got to agree the cliche about Americans being loud and obnoxious is so wrong.
Right? We were downright scolded as kids for not using indoor voices, lol
Load More Replies...Yes! Please stop and ask about my dogs, pet my dogs. They love it. Just don't ask about me.
Load More Replies...Okay so I knew several other forms of paper currency were multicolored, but I'm even more pissed now to hear we apparently missed out on multicolored coins now!? At LEAST I could call my "keys n' pocket s**t" drawer a decorative art project and actually be able to pull the lie off. I'd also never be able to turn in the change jar. This is just my vase that doesn't accept flowers just small offerings of my finances.
Yeah, I wanna know if they're different shades of standard metal colors or do they some how make them have color like blue or green or whatever.l
Load More Replies...Most Americans are just friendly people who want a good life. First time to NYC I thought everyone was going to be incredibly rude but I struck up conversations all the time with people.
Thanks! We’re happy to welcome you here! Most of us are welcoming unlike what the media shows we are. Unfortunately, the people who choose to be negative Nellies tend to make the news most.
When I was 21 I bought a van and drove across the USA from West to East and back. Everyone was so nice to us along the way and so helpful. Amazing trip, such a beautiful country.
The sheer awesomeness of Japanese convenience stores. My local 7-11 has sticky floors and doubtful looking packaged sandwiches. The 7-11s in Japan are clean, well-lit, have a great selection of lunch/dinner prepackaged meals, and not only do they have a cold drink section, they have a special heated unit for hot drinks. When I saw all the technological innovations in Japan, I felt like I came from a third world country.
The 7-11 also has shirts, socks, handkerchiefs and other clothing items. I couldn’t believe it when I saw it there.
And a complete make-up section with quality undergarments too. They sell them as many office workers might find themselves needing these things in case they get stuck and miss their last train home. And customer service is unbelievable. There's a special babble that Japanese 7-11 workers use that even ocals can't decipher most of it, lol. It's like fast, polite dialogue to make sure you are satisfied and thanked properly before leaving.
Load More Replies...you can actually trust Japanese convenient stores to eat sushi, where in other places you would second guess food poisoning
Yup. Japan makes a lot of the USA look like we are so far behind....by decades. Many decades.
The 7-11s in my state are run down, but we have gas station/convenience stores that have anything you could ever want. They are like regular stores, just smaller. I don't know if 7-11s are struggling to stay in business here, but there are definitely fewer around than when I was a kid, and they're all outdated.
Japan is a great place to go. I lived there for five years. Don't forget get to bow.
the 7-11s in other asian countries like china are also like this its great
Barefoot people EVERYWHERE in New Zealand. In Starbucks, in the mall, on public transit, walking down the street. No shoes, no socks, no f**ks to give.
I live in NZ and a dear friend was telling me the story of when they were kids and visited relatives in the UK they went everywhere barefoot. One shopkeeper offered their father money so he could buy so shoes for his poor children! He was MORTIFIED!!
It’s a lovely idea, unfortunately the UK has a few things that make barefoot impractical. There’s brambles, thistles, unexpected cowpats hiding in long grass, stones with sharp edges, surprise badgers and finally, sheep cack.
Load More Replies...Why wear shoes if its safe not to. Do you not shower and wash your feet ? Do you not wash your floors ? I'm an Aussie and in hot weather it's thongs or nothing. Is this offensive in other cultures? How can you not appreciate walking bare footed ? It feels amazing
In the US the stores have signs that say "No Shoes, No Shirt, No Service". We are required to wear shoes. Everyone wears shoes, flip flops (thongs) are the bare minimum.
Load More Replies...How do you not burn the soles of your feet on hot days? Or am I just so used to cold that I can’t handle the heat others can? 🇨🇦
Stay on the grass or concrete the dark roads are what burns.
Load More Replies...Wow. In other places your feet would get cut and infected with parasites and bacteria
In 33 years of walking around barefoot I've never had a cut on my feet (unless you want to count stepping in a thorn in my own garden) or had my feet infected with any parasites or bacteria.
Load More Replies...It's not common for people to spit on the footpaths in NZ, although we do see it in visitors from other countries where that is a cultural norm (still considered pretty gross by NZ standards!)
Load More Replies...Sounds likey kind of place. I use to stay barefoot when I was a kid. My feet actually got very use to it. You have to watch where you step more. But I love be abel to feel grass under my feet.
The same in South Africa in the seventies. Kids didn't have to wear shoes to school.
I was in school in South Africa in the 90s and 00s and we didn't have to wear shoes to school in summer 🙂
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Chile. "Tomorrow" means next week. "Next week" means never. "I'm already there" means "i'm thinking about starting to prepare to go out".
For a ten-minutes-early person that was jarring.
Adapting to a slower pace of life is tough. All you need to do is recalibrate expectations. Americans seem like neurotic overworked fools for a reason - we are!
Load More Replies...This is South America in general. Time is a fluid concept, both the past and the future. My American wife thinks I'm crazy because i will say something like "oh, just the other day somebody told me..." She will say, that was two years ago. Well, two years ago is another day, it's not today is it? Two years, the days, what does it matter?
same in nigeria 😆 now means maybe today and now now means now 😁
"Mañana". It carries much the same meaning with builders in Spain as well.
As someone who used to live and work in Spain I did indeed learn that mañana could mean anything from a day up to a month.
Load More Replies...I would love this. Unless absolutely necessary, I hate being pinned down to doing things at a specific time or at a specific place. I like to keep things loose.
Unless others depend on you that's fine. But to ,say, the owner of a blocked toilet waiting for a plumber the happy go lucky approach quickly loses its appeal.
Load More Replies...Our family is 100% Irish-American, but now I know we're also 75% part Chilean.
Indonesia. People just sit next to you in the train/bus. Ask personal questions immediately. Want to know why you don't have kids, or a husband. And why you're fat or that you should get a haircut because your hair is ugly. It felt like Christmas at home, but then for months, from multiple people instead of my mum.
Sounds about right. You either get the “Are you eating?” or the “Oof. What have you been eating?”
Fun fact: "Have you eaten yet?" is actually a normal Asian greeting. It's an equivalent of the Western "how are you?"
Load More Replies...Back in the 80's I worked on cruise ships and we docked for a 2 day layover in Macau (very hot and humid), I got off the ship with a Chef friend of mine who was on the large side (6 foot, 240 lbs) and we decided to get a taxi into town ; so we get in, me in the back, him in the front, 5 minutes in he says to the driver ' wow, it's very hot here ' (or something like that), to which the taxi guy replies ' No, it's not very hot, you are very fat' .... I nearly wet myself laughing !!! Happy days.
This is just not true!!!! INDONESIA IS ONE OF THE MOST CONSERVATIVE COUNTRIES. My wife is Indonesian, she is indicating the same things. If you are white this happened not because its normal but because you are white and they want to be seen talking to you. They believe white people bring prosperity and money and to associate with them brings it to them. Having a white friend also increases their social status.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I couldn't help it. "It felt like Christmas everyday." Lol that would kinda suck......
I guess it depends where you go? I spent a few months in Bali in the Ubud area and everyone was beyond friendly but not at all invasive. I actually made some good local friends there. I did notice that they will invite you to their home for dinner right after meeting you and you feel completely safe going.
Bali's culture is totally different from that of the rest of Indonesia.
Load More Replies...my friend visits her home town in Thailand sometimes. She’s super fit and a totally normal weight, and had gained a lot of muscle since her last visit. But she said the only comments that she got were that she looks fat. She was crushed. If someone asked me why I’m fat, I’d have to come back with “why does your face look like that? Maybe god messed up?” Sorry not sorry haha.
Go to some countries, like Germany or Britain, and tell the locals that you're going for a short 2-4 hour drive. Many will look at you like you grew a second head. Here in Canada, people will do 2 hour drive for groceries. It takes 10 damn hours just get to the next province.
The difference between North America and Europe, is time and distance: Europeans believe 100 miles is a long way, and North Americans think 100 years is a long time.
In the Netherlands if I drive that far, I will have likely entered another country!
💯 The UK is so small you can drive from the top to bottom in about 14 hours so anything above 2 hours is considered a long journey here. Even our villages are usually not that far away from a city. I watched an episode of Criminal Minds recently where one of the characters commented that New York was 'only' 3 hours away by train. Made me chuckle at the different attitudes towards travelling.
Singapore is so small that you can take 30 mins to drive from one side to another. 1 hour tops :3 it’s very peculiar for me to see “so small that it’ll only take 14 hours” haha
Load More Replies...Driving through Texas can take a day and you're still in Texas when your done (depending on your starting point of course)
I live on the gulf of Mexico side. If we take a road trip to California, we use one day to get out of Texas, and the other day to get to California. Texas isn't even a pretty state to drive through. Meanwhile, people in the New England area drive through 3 states just to get to work
Load More Replies...And Europeans are constantly getting berated for using cars too much and causing climate change, when Americans are driving bigger cars further
This is comparing apples and oranges. Germany is among the 10 largest countries in Europe, but it would fit into the US about 28 times. Just saying... Also, good public transportation in the US exists only in major cities.
Load More Replies...So my FIL was visiting from France. We were living west of Boise, Idaho. We were discussing day trips and he suggested Yellowstone. Us: thats on the other side of the state Him: so ? Us : thats 450 miles ( 720 km ) . Same distance as Paris to Montpeillier. Him: oh. The thought that it takes as long to drive across one state as it does from almost top to bottom of a country is hard to grasp.
One of the differences between geographically large countries vs smaller ones. If you're from Canada, the US, or Australia, you're accustomed to the idea that large sections of your country are just storage space and everything is faaaaaarrrrrr...
Even east coast people in the US don't seem to understand how big the distances are in the west.
Load More Replies...When I lived in Darwin we took a 4 hr day trip. We came back that night. 8 hours driving total for a day trip
Same. 6hr round trip to try a new restaurant 😋
Load More Replies...In the US... my dude wants to live in the country again... where it took 1-2 hours just to get to a Walmart or Dollar General. I have said no. I like being close to police or fire dept if anything happens.
We are near a fairly remote (for California) mountain hamlet. Minimal services here. Fire crew, dentist, pizza, and minimart are not far. Dollar General is nearby but we're not that desperate. Groceries, a hospital, and a very few major vendors are a half-hour-plus drive downhill. Or we could walk a quarter mile to the county-bus stop. ** We have lived in tiny western USA cities that somehow hosted public bus systems. Do any cities but San Francisco and New York support rail transit?
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Not necessarily shocked, but dudes holding hands in India. Thought they were gay, turns out it's a normal custom.
Cool always holding hands /linking arns with my girl friends always thought it was sad that the boys didn't
Load More Replies...Indian here- grew up seeing this all around but ashamed to admit that because of western notions associating this with and shaming homosexuality have made me find this ‘odd’ now. Unlearning this everyday though.
Load More Replies...Sri Lanka, Thailand, Malaysia, Philippines, Maldives .. totally normal
Malaysian here. Nope, not normal here. Maybe if you've been here and saw straight guys holding hands, they are most probably Bangladeshis that work here. Local, not so much.
Load More Replies...America just needs to chill. We’re humans, most of us appreciate comforting contact like holding hands. I live here, and it’s just so strange to me that my culture directly goes against everything that’s healthy and makes sense for actual living.
Look at the media fuss over the photograph of Joe Biden kissing his son Hunter. There were all sorts of horrible insinuations that it was unnatural, they were perverts, it was disgusting etc. What's more natural than a father and son kissing? USA is plain wierd-a country where politicians seem to be perfectly at peace with children getting their heads blown off in school, but God forbid you show some love to a family member or friend.
Load More Replies...Well, with all the people, they might lose each other otherwise. :)
I was in Germany a couple years ago with a friend of a friend who was born in the Soviet Union (and who still lives in a former Soviet satellite). Someone tried to get us to sign a petition. After the guy left, I had to explain the concept of a petition and he said, "Oh. In my country if you want to change the government you just disappear."
For a second, I pictured him living on the MIR spacestation. "Former Soviet satellite"?? Oh!
well, he wanted to change the government, so they made him disappear FAR away
Load More Replies...Yeah, let me tell you petitions don't change anything in reality. Enough people need to sign it so it will be brought to politicians to notice so they can continue to not give a fck.
in many states, enough signatures creates a ballot initive that people can vote on. But also politicans do listen if enough people sign, in an election year. Its not an election year, they know you will forget come election time. You do the petition 3 months before the election, and that way, they pay attention
Load More Replies...And with how the situation is in Russia now, not only will people disappear if they would dare to do something like that, if in a high position and not compliant enough, you die a mysterious death... up till now already 14 prominent Russians were killed and I'm thinking it will not stop there...
Heard a story a while back from a private pilot here in US. When the Olympics were in Atlanta in 1996, he had the opportunity to spend some time with an athlete from Russia. He offered to take said athlete up for a fly in his private plane. The athlete simply refused to believe that he could do this without government approval which would take months to get (if ever).
In Thailand a little kid had never seen a white person as pale as i was and he put his little hand on my knee to see if it was real. Culture shock for both of us i guess.
This reminds me of a story my dad used to tell: back in the 90's he worked in Minneapolis. The Twin Cities are home to one of the largest Hmong communities in the U.S. Anyway, my dad was outside doing his thing when this little Hmong child walked up to him and touched my dad's hairy legs. Apparently Hmong people don't have as much hair, so the kid was really fascinated with my dad. My dad was pretty confused, and even thought he was getting pranked.
I would be confused as well if a stranger touched me with a confused face
Load More Replies...Hubby is strawberry blonde, blue eyed, pale white. He grew up in Peru in the mountains. Most people there had never seen hair or skin his color. He remembers being touched by the kids a lot. They would pinch him or rub his skin to see if the color would come off.
My parents and us 4 kids visited Ceylon in 1964. My 18 month old sister had long platinum-blonde hair. The local's would run their fingers through her hair as they passed in the street. Really freaked her out. Mum cursed because she'd have to wash it several times a day.
Load More Replies...This reminds me a story a friend who is an Ebony Jamaican woman told me waaay back in the day when she worked for the UN as a linguist... she went to Bosnia and whenever the children saw her they would wipe their hands on her skin just to see if her complexion would rub off in their little hands. The parents told her that it's the first time they're seeing an ebony person other than on TV and my friend was amazed by that.
I was on a really small island in Indonesia and I have red hair. I was doing a surf charter and walked with our captain into town. I asked him if I needed to cover my hair to be respectful of their culture and he said no, it was fine. He was a local. Kids were running up to me touching my hair and hugging me... I've never experienced anything like that. It was so lovely. Same thing... culture shock for both of us!
Wow, I've been all over Thailand. It's a country with a lot of European tourism. This surprises me
I've been to small villages where the locals have never seen a white, blonde woman! They would touch my arm and check out their finger to see if I was actually that colour. I was ok with it.
Load More Replies...My cousin and her husband went to China for their honeymoon with their one year old. The locals think on hundred of photos of the kid because it was their first occidental baby.
Kids don't know racism. As I have traveled it is somethjng I have learnt. The parents could be the most racist people on the planet but the children will always be a blank slate. Unfortunately later in life they may have issues but as a child they are just trying to understand the world.
In parts of Ireland in my grandparents time it was considered rude to accept food or beverages from a host the first time it was offered.
The exchange was supposed to go something like:
"will you have a cup of tea?"
"no thank you, I won't, I won't trouble you"
"ahh you will sure, go on"
"ahh I will so, if you're making one for yourself"
When my parents first went to America, they were shocked to find that people didn't do this, so instead it went:
"would you like a cup of coffee?"
"no thank you, I won't trouble you"
"okay!"
"wait! I did actually want coffee!"
"then why did you say no??"
One of my grandmothers was like this until she died, would get really snippy with you if you accepted a drink or a biscuit the first time she offered it.
In Ireland its either Mrs Doyle and the tea or if its later in the evening u might get Fr Jacks glass of Whiskey 🍀
Or if Fr Jack has run out of whiskey, then toilet duck.
Load More Replies...Oh God, this. This is so common in some places, but you never know *where*! My mom's fam did the "courtesy dance". Say no three times before saying yes, or it's rude. Then I run into people who think my first no is a no-not-ever-forever. It's the small things!
Finnish people always decline help or coffee, and compliments 😄 I take things literally and hate it when I have to think twice and question their reply. I might go around this by skipping the small talk and just bringing them a cup without asking.
My maternal grandmother was half Welsh and half English. She did this all the time! Drove my sister and I up the wall!
My culture (Puerto Rico) also plays this game, but you have to give the question or request at least three goes before you accept. I'm from this culture and find it super annoying.
I’ve heard it’s the same in the Philippines. Three offers exactly. You must accept or decline on the third offer. And you don’t get to the offers immediately. There’s a lot of general conversation between the offers. Takes forever.
Load More Replies...(American from the northeast here)...I always ask a second time to indicate that I'm really offering and it's not a bother, but very casually so that there's no pressure. Like "you sure?" Or just "Sure?"
It used to be the same in Sweden. This is why my great aunt almost forces cake down one's throat.
Japanese discipline. I was visiting the Hakone Outdoor Museum (a huge sculpture garden). At the end of the tour is a onsen foot bath where visitors can dip their feet in the nice hot water. Tourists of every stripe gathered around the foot bath and the attendant instructed us on the rules. The rules were to be followed to the letter: Remove shoes. Remove socks. Place socks inside shoes. Place shoes in designated area behind you, in basket provided. Pants cuffs are to be rolled up in this fashion: roll back hem to the outside, then fold each additional roll in approximately 1 inch folds. Continue folding up trouser cuffs until the roll extends past your calf muscle. Last fold should be a tight fold to keep your trouser cuff up. Place feet in onsen foot bath and enjoy. When finished with enjoyment, take shoes and socks from basket and retire to bench to let feet dry. When feet are dry, unroll trouser cuffs and re-install socks and shoes. You may now leave. This attendant went up and down the line, repeating the instructions, correcting people whose cuff rolling was sub-optimal. He wasn't mean about it. He was just...exacting. The Japanese guests complied with bows and "HAI!". The foreigners bumbled along, trying their best, and getting a bit irritated. It was a hoot.
Made me smile too Mrs S. I think it is the picture it projects in your mind 😁
Load More Replies...During our trip to Japan, my husband was actually anxious about visiting an onsen (bath) because of all the rules. He thought somebody would yell at him, or we'd be kicked out. But we learned them quickly and absolutely fell in love with them.
As a Brit I semi envy this. I like our somewhat anarchic culture, but sometimes we fail to enforce rules that would make life better. Notably on littering and fraud.
In Japan, people are usually EXTREMELY passionate about their jobs, because they are all real jobs, not systematically minimum salary bad conditions like in America and Europe that you don’t like, there jobs are seen well.
The big corporations in Japan are like the Daimyos of the past. If someone will read the book "Shogun" will understand the loyalty of the Japanese blue or white collar worker to his company.
Load More Replies...These extremely meticulous traditions seem great at first, but having to do everything like this gets irritating fast
I think that if that took longer then the attendant thought appropriate, you'd be moving to the next step.
Load More Replies...Why would that be so hard? If you have time to sit and soak your feet, you have time to let them dry. ???
Balinese funerals and how they celebrate death. I was sitting on the beach on my first day there and heard a crowd coming, carying food and playing festive music. I thought it was some kind of party or wedding until I realized they were carying a corpse.
A lot of cultures have "festive" funerals. Saw a few over the years.
I think it's a mentally healthier way to do it.
Load More Replies...I attended one of these. It was the most beautiful celebration, not at all sad like our American funerals. My local friend told me that they are celebrating because they believe strongly in reincarnation and the person will return in another form. It was a bit jarring doing the visitation, as they don't embalm them, but I got over that. Hundreds of us walked to a field and they did the cremation. I came home and told my mom all about it, and how it was such a beautiful celebration, and she said "that's what I want... no tears...singing and joy" and that's exactly what I did for her when she died a few years later, completely ignoring her Catholic family that demanded she be buried. She didn't want that at all, but I did give them 1/2 of her ashes to bury in the family plot and they could have her service at the Polish church.
My grandpa wanted this. A celebration, that is. He absolutely hated his family being sad and wanted us to celebrate his return home. We are a Catholic family, so obviously Heaven is big for us.
I think celebrating the person's life in this way would generally be a lot healthier for everyone than the bleak and somber funerals I've been to here in the US.
As someone who has lived in the Philippines for most of his life, I am considered quite chubby or overweight here. When I travelled to the USA a few years ago to study, I was shocked when people over there looked at me and said I was quite fit. Huge culture shock in terms of body image, and an even bigger culture shock at the portions of food in the USA.
When we can’t afford decent housing and don’t think we’ll ever be able to retire, we might as well eat ourselves to an early grave. 🇺🇸🍔🍕
Load More Replies...I live in the US and I have never seen fried eggs served with a cheeseburger.
Oooohhhh it's sooo good...Only I tell them to hold the veggies just egg meat and cheese. Perfect hangover meal.
Load More Replies...It's not the portion sizes. I've known tiny Thai chaps who'll eat a massive curry a soup and a huge bowl of rice with an egg on it as though he hadn't seen food for a month but for him it was just lunch. The difference is the amount of c**p in American foods, look in an a Americans fridge and the only things without high fructose corn syrup is the vegetables.
This can vary greatly by part of the country, of course. But it is a bit fascinating. People don’t seem to want to make the connection (willful ignorance) between our abundance of food (especially low quality) and our dependence on medicine. It’s the greatest racket on this planet.
Sounds familiar. I was also considered big and/or fat in my homeland (another South East Asian country) but after I met and married my Dutch husband, he assured me that I looked normal. And after I moved to The Netherlands, I found out that indeed, I was!!
We hardly ever go out to eat, but when we do, I order a child's meal. Portions are WAY too big in the US. Three pieces of fried chicken AND potatoes AND a biscuit or muffin AND a sugary drink as big as your head. It's too much.
I've travel to the States a couple times. First time was 41 years ago and everything was fine and dandy. The next time I travelled there was 23 years ago and I couldn't get over the size of the seats at their airports. They were wide and huge. Anyway just an observation.
That's to make up for the size of the seats on the plane.
Load More Replies...Went to San Francisco. Was shocked to see the amount of homeless people there. Not to mention the amount of human s**t on the ground. It's literally disgusting, like third world disgusting. You amercians need to fix that.
Oh now I'm scared... I'm flying there on Christmas Day (from Australia)
Seriously, I was just there last November. Homeless, yes. But nothing more than a normal city. And no sh*t. Just my personal experience. I still found it lovely, and full of history.
Load More Replies...‘You Americans’ need not worry, homelessness is a global problem, only the ignorant would suggest this is localised just to the states, here in the UK it’s a massive concern
Thanks for the kind words! I know the US has major homeless problems, but to make it seem like only a US problem is neither fair nor true.
Load More Replies...You need to read some actual history books, not just the whitewashed ones for 5th graders. The US has NEVER been anything close to a utopia for anyone besides rich, white, English-descended men.
Load More Replies...I think the whole world has to address homelessness. All those poor miserable people just trying to survive with some sort of dignity I'm sure.
San Francisco’s homeless crisis is staggering. They rule the city. Aggressively approaching you constantly. I was born there and honestly stopped visiting years ago for this very reason. Can’t even imagine what it’s like post-pandemic. It’s really scary.
I think Portland, Oregon is worse. Homeless mentally ill people lined the street and aggressively yelled at you and walked toward you. Tents everywhere and smell was terrible. One guy was naked and sprawled in a window sleeping. I was startled! Drug addiction rampant downtown...
Load More Replies...I'm more concerned about the OP's "third world disgusting" comment. And seeing homelessness is not "culture shock"; it's not in the same realm as dining etiquette faux pas or linguistic misunderstandings.
Ditto this. I'm from the UK and have travelled a lot but the homelessness in San Fran was the worst I have seen anywhere. Truly shocking.
You should see how bad LA is! Hollywood is starting to look like a landfill! I steer anyone visiting away from there.
Load More Replies...You think we’re the only country with homelessness problems? San Fran. Is especially bad, I’ve heard.
There are entries on this list about homelessness in other countries. I love San Fran but haven't been there in years.
Load More Replies...I went to The Netherlands as an LDS (Mormon) missionary. The first person I tried to talk to stopped me and said, "uh, I don't speak Dutch, and I'm gay, so Jesus won't work for me". And he walked away. My companion just laughed and said, "welcome to the Netherlands".
Netherlands being a very secular country in general, I doubt trying to "sell" mormonism was a success.
Easier than Mitt Romney's mission during the Vietnam War, where he was sent to France to try to convince them to give up wine (LDS church bans alcohol for members).
Load More Replies...You must have noticed that Mormons are seen as silly polygamists everywhere except where they live...
(I'm a member of the LDS church btw) For those who are confused, polygamy in this context is the concept of one man having multiple wives. It was practiced by the LDS church back in the day, but hasn't been in over a hundred years now (since 1890). It's still a pretty common stereotype connected to us though because of a number of breakoff groups who still practice it.
Load More Replies...How do you even get the IDEA to go to the Netherlands as a Mormon missionary :D
They don't get to choose where they go on their mission, it's decided for them. So they could end up anywhere in the world and have to go. Watched the documentary Stacey Dooley did where she lived with a Mormon family and the oldest was finding out where he would be going and when I heard he had no choice and could be sent anywhere in the world at 18/19 years old I was shocked! He didn't get a country that he wanted to go to and whilst he put on a brave face you could tell he was upset.
Load More Replies...Ha. IMAGINE coming from an LDS mindset and actually thinking your practices are anything but stupid, offensive and backwards to the Dutch. Riding in like their savior only to get read to filth. A nation of people built on common sense instead of Religion. God that story gives me a smile.
The elders pick these situations specifically due to the uphill battle. This way when the missionaries get rejected ( and usually quite harshly ) , when they are " just trying to do good", the church can say " see, we understand you". It is a control tactic used to keep members.
Load More Replies...I doubt the land of legal drugs & prostitution has any interest in the ultra-abstinence version of Christianity.
that's exactly the reason they went there tho xD to convert.
Load More Replies...i wish religions would STOP shoving their insane and illogical c**p down peoples throats....
Please stop doing that. We don't need you spreading your testimony everywhere. Poor countries don't have 10% of their income to give for tithings. Stay in Utah. Thank you.
Yep, go to some 3rd world country, convert a small proportion of the population, and guarantee their persecution for the next 100 years.
Load More Replies...At a great distance you see: 2 young men, in businessman suits with correct haircut, fumbling on their bicycle. You know: they're The Mormon missionaries.
Yep, used to happen where I live. 100+ farenheight, unbelievable humidity and still got their suits on no hats and no bicycles 'cos the prickles are everywhere. They just looked silly.
Load More Replies...Religious missionaries need to grow the f**k up. Stay in your lane. No one wants what you are 'selling' (trying to force down their throats).
The problem is that they're brainwashed from birth to go on a mission, so it's not exactly a choice for them.
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Visiting China and seeing how aggressive/pushy people are. Makes sense, there are 1+ billion people, if you are polite and wait your turn you'll be left behind. So everybody is pushy, cuts in line, shoving you out of the way, etc. Of course I just had come from Japan where it's the total opposite....
This aspect of their culture has led to an extremely poor reputation for Chinese tourists.
Came here to say the same. Thais for example are disgusted by chinese folks. I call them the asian frenchs.
Load More Replies...I remembering going through a stage where I went homeless and had to rely on charity. Anywho I use to go to a place called "Fishes of loaves" in Ashfield Sydney Australia to get a nice hot meal and pick up a weekly food parcel. There were Chinese immigrants and when it came time to dishing out the food packages the Chinese would just storm the person doling out the packages. It got to the point where she had to yell at them and tell them to stand back. It must be really tough for some Chinese citizens I think. I can happily say I'm no longer in that situation.
I used to go to a Chinese butcher in Sydney, tag along behind a Chinese woman who haggled the person down and then ask for the price she got.
Load More Replies...Yup, had the same experience. Got pushed around by people half my size in China. Japan is super organized and I found it fascinating how full the railway/ metro stations are but people don't bump into you.
We adopted our daughter from China. If I would pause for fifteen seconds in a line to look at some souvenir item, ten people would cut in line in front of me. Also the country runs on bribes. We were instructed by our adoption agency guide to have fresh twenty dollar bills to put into red envelopes. These were given to the government workers who were responsible for processing our adoption papers so that we could have them completed in a few days. If we did not bribe them, it would have taken weeks to get the paperwork processed.
Exactly why the Chinese are disliked as tourists in every Anglo country
Ah yes. Very true. What drove me the most nuts about this aspect was the elevators. It would be packed and when it opens on the first floor people are instantly trying to flood in before letting everyone else out. I snapped more than once.
Unfortunately many Chinese tourists are unpleasant because of this. I travel a lot and can't tell you how many times they have pushed me out of line, or jumped the queue. It gives their culture a bad reputation.
" Makes sense, there are 1+ billion people, if you are polite and wait your turn you'll be left behind." There just one person behind you and he push you to rush into the elevator before the door even open. NO It not makes sens.
They have no concept of personal space. My last trip to Las Vegas, was waiting for the Mirage volcano show to start, I had a Chinese woman set her computer tablet on the top of my head to get a better picture. She was not expecting the head butt....P.S. no one was hurt
My parents are Chinese but I grew up in Europe, therefore I'm considered a banana.
Some years ago, i was visiting my family in China. We were in a very rural area with lots of small cottages. We saw a family eating dinner and my grandma asked them if we could join so we paid a few bucks and ate a meal with a random family. Not really a shock but It felt really weird.
Keeping in mind that I am *just* the messenger... A banana is yellow outside, white inside.
Load More Replies...More people should do this. Why are people so afraid to talk to others?
Back when me and my family flew to America (my first time), we landed in Houston to switch planes and went to a fast-food diner in the airport. I ordered a milkshake and not only was it served in a cup that was like twice my size, they also gave me the shaker in which it was made so no ice-cream is left behind. At that moment I was assured I was gonna love America.
In Houston we love our food. It’s actually one of the top “foodie” cities in the US mostly because it’s the most international city in the US. Easy to get pretty much any food from any country in the world. However, I think we also have the most fast-food restaurants per capita. Not the best for the waistline.
Yeah, the large portions in America are nice, until you get diabetes from it and find out that the insulin you need to live costs $100 per vial.
Been drinking the occasional, maybe monthly, milkshake for over 60 years along with those large American portions and still haven't developed diabetes even though my favorite food group is chocolate. Not overweight either.
Load More Replies...We love our food in America. Nothing like eating until your stomach is about to rip and then having a nice nap!
Nap-time is everything in Spain. Visited Barcelona a few months ago, and it was my first time in Spain. Couldn't believe when my friend told me that all the shops and businesses are closed because it's "siesta time".
Love my naps and all, but that just drove me crazy.
Edit: every siesta is a fiesta tbh
It’s proven scientifically that humans that nap mid-day for a “siesta” are better for it. I’m always tired AF Around 3-4 pm. Spain has the right idea.
And over there its usually the hottest period of the day: working in a sauna isn't healthy
Load More Replies...they don't all actually sleep during the siesta anymore, but it is part of their business shop hours. 9am-2pm (break) 5pm-10pm. It was originally like this so farmers could work in the mornings and take a break from the hot sun. But for people living in the city, it can be inconvenient because it's difficult to travel back home just for lunch, so they just wait 2 hours in an extended lunch break to have a long work day. The irony is Spanish people work super hard, not sleep because of siesta
So very true! I've got the utmost respect for the working people here, they work really hard and get paid not accordingly :(
Load More Replies...Here in America, we just sabotage our health by drinking irresponsible quantities of caffeine to squeeze out a few extra drops of productivity.
Well sorry, but you don't drink caffeine. You drink diluted caffeine. Here in Portuguese, Spain and Italy we drink the real stuff: expresso. But i understand you point.
Load More Replies...Naptime can be a serious problem for clueless visitors: for instance, if you don't eat lunch before 3 pm, YOU'RE NOT EATING LUNCH.
Before I first learned this, I took the Metro (from a surrounding town) into Madrid for car parts. I arrived during siesta and was forced to repeat the process the NEXT day!
Load More Replies...Dinner is usually between 9 and 11 with the clubs open from 12 to 6 - different world!
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Not me but my dad went to India for business and said there were children missing body parts, eyes missing, across their face begging for money. Driver told him their parents did that to them to make them look more pathetic so people will give them money
Indian here. It is very hard to comprehend the hardness of life some people go through in India. In fact. it is impossible to empathize because it is so different from life in the west for most. When people are super desperate, and they have no hope, no way to get out of the cycle of poverty, probably because of their caste and everyone treats them way worse than anyone would treat their pet animal, they lose sense of “normal” standard of compassion. Not to say that some people can just be EVIL. That’s also possible. But i don’t think it’s possible to judge someone like whom i mentioned from the lenses of a developed nation. We all have our lenses and ways of looking at life. We can’t expect to impose that on a completely different culture that has totally different circumstances
Thank you. It is beyond me to think of ever doing this to another person, let alone a child or even an animal. But, desperation and loss of all hope, is far from my privilaged life. This is why the internet is important, because we can all learn from eachother.
Load More Replies...People shocked by this must have a very rosy idea of what India is like. Honor killings, bride burnings, acid attacks, etc. It's not a happy place.
I traveled solo in the late 90s and went to Nepal but would not set foot in India; I was warned by lots of other travelers that solo women will not be treated well. Idk if that’s changed at all. I’d imagine it depends on the city or region you go to. Nepal was wonderful and I had no problems there.
Load More Replies...My husband and I put that film on when it came out, as everyone was saying how great it was. When the scene can on with the little boy and the spoon we both screamed, jumped up and tuned the telly off. We didn't see the scene all the way through, just the man approaching the boy with the spoon. That was enough for us. I still feel sick if I think about it
Load More Replies...I can't begin to imagine how desperate you'd have to feel to resort to that. So so sad.
My parents used to warn me not to talk to strangers in case they kidnapped me and mutilated my body
Same warning and advise from my parents. Not only that, around 3rd or 4th standard school took us to watch a movie that was all about Beggar Mafia. Rightfully scared the s**t out of all of us.
Load More Replies...That is just messed up! I would hurt myself before I ever let anything happen to my kids!!
There was a Romanian woman who used to sit on one of the most famous bridges in Dublin, on the coldest days she would remove the blanket from her baby to make it cry louder so she'd get more money from begging.
Load More Replies...These mutilations aren't done by parents, they'll send kids out to beg but they are less likely to mutilate their child. That said there might be some monster parents who do it, however, mutilations are mostly done by beggar mafia that kidnaps kids, mutilate them and force them to beg. Biggest concern when poor child goes missing chances are there won't be a ransom call and child will end up with one of this gangs or prostitution rings. As long as cops keep getting "baccho aur bhabhi ke liye mithai" everything is fine and dandy. For source: Google Begging Mafia, Begging racket
There is a scene like this in the movie Slumdog Millionaire. Really shocking.
I'm speechless. How terrible to be abused by the very people who brought you to life. And at the same time, how inhumane is it that people are so starved for food, shelter & clothing that this is even necessary?
When I went to Bangladesh with my girlfriend last year we went to the city her father grew up in before he came to the States. I remember at one point we walked past a station and seeing people climbing on the roof of a train due to the crowding, some in business suits, was quite an eye opener. After seeing that I have never complained about riding the subway again
You see this a lot in parts of Asia, also the Middle East and parts of Africa. First time I saw this was in Egypt, people boarding the train through the windows, climbing up on top. I thought, how am I getting on this train, lol.
My mental head question would've been, "AM I getting on this train?"
Load More Replies...I read an article somewhere about how they have "ticket insurance" salesmen whose entire business model is: there's gonna be so many of you packed on there, and they can't get near all of em, so odds are you'll never need us. But if you DO, we cover so much/all of your ticket. Something to that effect anyway. Then ended with a photo of a train car so over loaded on either side my mind "felt" it trying to lean and wobble. Just really sucked the breath outta my mind to realize what that's gotta be like, taking life in hand like Indiana Jones if you dare wanna go to work or have food/social life.
Indonesian used to be like this as well, but fortunately after national train company reforms few years ago things are getting much better. No more people sitting on the roof, no more people going on a train without a ticket.
It is a complete b******t. OP must mix it up with Asia. Guys be reasonable- in Europe you can't see this- due to safety and insurance reasons
What's funny is that the photo they used is the 7 Train Stop in Grand Central (NYC)
I live in northern Canada in a less than 800 people town in the middle of nowhere. So the first time I went to California was a massive culture shock. Big cities, 8 lanes of freeway traffic, having to lock your doors, skyscrapers (anything above 3 floors), subways, well... everything really. I think what got to me most was the lack of trees.
The thing with California terrain is we literally have a little bit of everything, it just depends on where you go. We have beaches (both fresh and salt water), deserts, hills, mountains, valleys, and, yes, forests. Again, it just really depends on where you go. If you want a California forest, go anywhere in the Sierra Nevada mountain range, but careful during winter due to snow (if you're Canadian, it shouldn't be a problem). You can drive two hours in almost any direction and end up in a different terrain/climate here.
Load More Replies...It totally depends on where you are. There are a zillion trees where I live.
I live in Los Angeles. There are sequoias everywhere. Forested hills everywhere. From my backyard they’re as far as the eye can see. Why do you think we love hiking so much? Why do we have such a massive wildfire issue? What do you think is burning?
Sure of course! But compared to a northern pine forest, it’s very sparse. Different kinds of forest altogether.
Load More Replies...I came from Louisiana, so going to California I fit in immediately (very liberal here). Coming home has been the culture shock, but I ADORE being around lots of trees, and far fewer people and traffic! Twenty-two years in LA. Got out in 2020 due to Covid, retired three years early. Back around family, friends, community.
The lack of pine forest, you mean. California has millions of trees of thousands of kinds. They're just not pine forest.
They likely were in the LA and other urbanized areas. The lack of trees means not as many as they're used to. And Canada has more trees than just pines, firs and spruces.
Load More Replies...I lived in northern Saskatchewan for7 years. Beautiful skies, the stars at night were incredible because there was no light pollution. Even the -40 winters were gorgeous.
There are plenty of green spaces in and around the LA area though: Griffith park is massive and Angeles Crest Mountains are very close.
Yes! I live near there and it's a popular filming destination.
Load More Replies...There are relatively plenty of trees there. But it's a city in essentially desert, not a forest, so what were expecting?
Went to Egypt last summer. We had hired a personal tour guide because there was no way we would be walking around by ourselves in Egypt. The service came with an Egyptian government security guard to protect us, and at one point my mother asked our tour guide (not the guard) what life what he thought of the government right then, and he said it was great. Later when the guard was getting us into a site, the tour guide told my mom not to ask questions like that in front of the guard because he (the tour guide) could be punished for talking negatively about the government. Really scared me.
What in God’s name would possess someone to have such a huge lapse of judgement? You’re literally hiring a guide with government security to simply *visit* this nation. WHY would you ask something so tone deaf???? Is she planning a stop in North Korea next to get a feel for it over there???
I hate to stereotype but I often find this with US tourists. It's not deliberate but they have a way of asking culturally insensitive questions or expressing a poorly informed opinion without thinking it through. Like talking about the mafia in Sicily...
Load More Replies...Why on eath even ask strangers that? Terrible conversation starter and inconsiderate
Load More Replies...I went to China with my parents in 1990 and it was like this. All the tourist guides were employed by the state and were only allowed to say positive things about the country. We were advised by our uk tour guide to not, under any circumstances, ask about Tiananmen Square because this could put them into a potentially dangerous situation.
Why hire a guide and a guard? We traveled all off Egypt by ourselves, use common sense and it is fine. Only threat was from a american tourist, I found a passport in the trash, returned it and she yelled at me accusing me of theft. She had actually seen a man open her bag, but she accused a female tourist for somehow be involved in a elaborate scam where I give the passport to a police. They had assumed she wanted to thank me when she asked for me and was chocked at her behaviour.
Well, maybe it was her first trip abroad and she doesn’t know how to travel internationally. Lots of people hire guides for a variety of reasons. Guides need work too!
Load More Replies...I was in Egypt during Ramadan, our taxi driver asked us to look out for the police, because he was having a drink of water.... If they'd catch him he would be beaten... Mind you, it was summer and +50C Just how can you not let anyone in that heat while working, have a drink of water??
Yep, we were doing a walking tour in Doha. Really, really hot so we popped into a hotel for a glass of water. Management were sympathetic, but hid us in a curtained-off alcove while we drank a glass.
Load More Replies...There are 4 things you do not discuss in any society: politics, religion, money, or sex. Even in the family home these are sure fire ways to start a fight. In public and especially in other countries people get killed over them.
What utter rubbish. I backpacked Egypt for 4 weeks solo as a female and never had any issues. Egyptian people are super friendly and in a guesthouse in Aswan, I had the owner looking after me when he realised I was travelling alone. He even left me veggie food in the kitchen with a note on my door after I came back really late from a Nile trip. Egypt is wild, yes, but it's totally fine to travel there!
Went to the Philippines.
On the trip from the airport a group of homeless children took control of a bridge and demanded payment for people crossing it. People actually paid too.
No. You are going to deny them to growing future criminals.
Load More Replies...Sadly in the Phillipenes, the dog meat trade there is insane and horribly, horribly cruel. I lived in the Philippines for years as a child and lived it but would never go back now and tell everyone to boycott it because of the dog meat trade. Please look up Soi dog rescue for more info. 😪
Like any impoverished country you may find this practice, or similar, but a person shouldn't be discouraged to visit, just be accutely aware of it and be firm that you don't condone such cruelty. It's so preachy to make it out like the dog meat industry is everywhere in the PH, which it isn't. Sure, dogs and cats are domesticated in western countries and their adjacents, but in others could be deemed as food. Don't agree, don't go but don't tell others what they can and can't do. You might as well tell people to boycott Spain for bullfighting, Japan for whale and horsemeat, and Iceland for serving whale and puffin.
Load More Replies...If you don't pay no toll, we don't get no roll (Little John ~ Robin Hood Men In Tights).
Candy would probably also work; just have spare “change” for the “toll”
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The air pollution in major Chinese cities is so bad that your eyes water the second you step out of the airport. You also undergo a sort of acclimation sickness within the first couple weeks. The other thing about China, is that it's such an old country, that you have ancient temples and monuments, some 1000s of years old, right next to hyper modern 8 story shopping centers.
The only reason we even have data on the levels of pollution in Chinese cities is because of foreign embassies taking/publishing measurements. The local governments refuse to acknowledge there's a problem.
Friendly reminder: China is manufacturing all the items you use and other countries are giving pollution t o China
Load More Replies...When I went to Beijing, first day was heavy rain. All wall turned yellow from pollutions being washed away. We actaully saw the blue skye for a while. Then the smog rose up again and everything got blurred again.
Yes, and many unfinished skyscrapers are now getting torn down. What a waste of money and human labor. When we were there to adopt our daughter, everyone in our adaption group had sore throats at the end of the trip and the babies had bronchitis. The constantly air conditioned hotels smelled like mold.
I used to work with a guy who had been working in a big Chinese city (can't remember which one) for a few years before that. He was laughing every time there was a "high pollution alert" day here (Paris, France), saying that our "alert level" was equivalent to a very low pollution day there.
It’s not any more, thanks to wild fires. We do match or surpass Chinese cities sometimes nowadays.
Load More Replies...When i went to London, all the faucets in all the public bathrooms had handles so you could turn the water on and off like a f**king adult, and all the stall doors went all the way to the floor.
But definitely a culture shock to someone from the US, just as I was shocked to go into a public toilet in the states and sit there with a literal 10cm gap in the door. I measured.
Load More Replies...Sorry. I am firmly on the side of the automatic water faucets at least. Water savers. This will be an even more critical issue in the very near future. Empathy on the too-large gaps in toilet stall doors, though.
Not to mention, much more hygienic. I'd rather have an automatic faucet than have to touch the handles of a faucet that has who knows what all over it.
Load More Replies...All our public amenities in Australia are like that. At one point we even had needle disposal bins installed in them for drug users. That was a bit of a shock for a while.
Better than them going on the floor or clogging up the pipes.
Load More Replies...The handles are unhygienic though right? I never liked touching them. It was nice when the faucets went to sensors. Although some are just too stingy.
Most modern ones are non-touch nowadays, as are the flushes. Just wave your hand in front of it.
I can't stand places that you have to touch a handle in a public restroom. Here is what I want in a restroom: dividers that actually work (full height, no gaps, etc), a way to lift the lid with your foot, automatic flushing and faucets, and one of those things on the bottom of the door so you can open and close it with your foot!
Public loos in London are mainly motion-activated now. Only those in older buildings still have taps you have to manually turn. If anyone ever visits Bristol, the Bristol Museum has gorgeous antique sinks in the loos.
When I went to Manchester I blurted out how happy I was there were such private stalls. No having to stuff gaps with toilet paper and try to meticulously cover the gap with my sweater and purse. Everyone in the washroom had a good idea I wasn't from there LOL. But some washrooms in Canada are pretty private, too. Just not as much as UK and not as less as the US.
In many parts of the US those gaps between door and floor are legally required. The explanation they give is that if a person passed out behind a locked stall door, the paramedic could still pull you out through the gap. When I was in high school, the principal told us the gap was so he could see if any "hanky-panky" was going on in the stalls. A few years later, they were still worried that "bad things" might still be going on in the stalls, so they removed the stall doors altogether.
Load More Replies...I landed in Juba, South Sudan. There were anti-aircraft guns on the roof of the airport, child soldiers in the tiny arrivals hall. The airport gift shop was selling loose raw eggs and salt. There were no roads, no electricity, no bank system, no running water and no garbage collection - so the entire city smelled of burning garbage.
Those were boiled eggs - not raw. That's common in that part of Africa to buy a single raw egg and sprinkle some salt on it.
I'm intrigued as to why they went to South Sudan in the first place. Maybe aid work?
So, I read the original reddit comment, and the person was a journalist covering the independence celebrations in 2011.
Load More Replies...Not fair. South Sudan is the newest ( recognised ) country in the world. Formed from Sudan after *50* years of civil war.
This is an outdated comment as it is no longer like this in Juba at all and I'm also questioning the definition of child soldier: 8 yo? or 16 yo?
I remember going to France all of 41 years ago and I was so shocked to see the Gendarmes carrying machine guns. Truly frightened me.
My coworker went on vacation in Morroco. He told me his tourist bus was escorted by military vehicles front and back to the hotel. Military personnel with guns on every corner. Hotel staff tried to discourage him from leaving to explore town because of danger. I was like: " Who would wan´t to visit a country like that?"
At least with an entourage of armed guards, you'd feel safer than without!
Load More Replies...I call this BS. I, too, was there at the time and yes the presence of armed soldiers everywhere was quite overwhelming. But there were paved streets and very very seldom a young soldier but no children. I lived there from 2010-2012 so, no. This "journalist" as he calls himself, is not telling the truth.
This is not as good a story as a lot of these here, just saying upfront. I live in the Netherlands. Water is all around me. From the sea, to the canals, to waterways dividing the fields between different farms. The first time I visited Iowa and drove around there it took me a couple of days to realise there wasn't any water between the fields and acres. Sure, there's a river and what not, but essentially it's just endless actual ground. It made me feel uneasy for a couple of minutes.
As someone who has always live on the coast I find it discomforting to be too far inland for any length of time..
It's been 61 years away from the coast for me, and I still feel that way.
Load More Replies...I had a similar experience when my job moved me from Philadelphia to Phoenix 30 years ago. Philly is an old city (old by American standards, not European) and neighborhoods were made up of 2, 3 story houses, trees, etc. where there was a relatively slender ribbon of sky overhead. Even in the country, the skyline would be punctuated by very tall trees, barns and things. So, once in Arizona, I felt like Chicken Little. There was SO much sky, everywhere and unrelenting, that I was overwhelmed. You could literally see a rain cloud dumping rain to your left while driving down a highway with sunny streets to your right!
That's Iowa. Just farmland except the Mississippi River. A lot of Wisconsin is like that but we have thousands of lakes and lots of rivers, including two great lakes and the Mississippi River. Close to Iowa but different geology
Iowa has some nice lakes to the north side. Nice tourist/weekend destinations...at least for fellow Iowans.
Growing up in the mountains, I felt a serious issue when I moved to Indiana, which is flat as heck. Migraines. That bad.
Migraines bc anxiety or from land being flat/weather climate?
Load More Replies...I live in costsl part of my country where there are a lots of islands. Island, sea, Island, sea, peninsula, sea..... You get the oicture. This summer I went to far most Island, open sea all around. Next stop: Italy. The open sea made me fell very nervous. Can't even imagine looking onto acutal ocean, like pacific.
I live in the SF Bay Area and I feel weird about the Midwest too. I just can't be far from water.
Not being able to flush toilet paper in most of Latin America. Trash bins full of sh**ty toilet paper in +35 weather.
For me, it was weird to see people outside Latin America flushing toilet paper 😅 my mom always said I would clog the toilet, so I was like: you guys are ok with having to unclog that later? Like, wet paper with poop?
In America, the pipes are designed to accommodate it.
Load More Replies...OMG, first time my hubby encountered this... He had an existential meltdown. I fear I was less than ideally kind (OK, I laughed a bit) but as a ffarm kid, I stepped in way worse than you find in the trash bins!
I went to Greece and was shocked that a country that is relatively wealthy would still be doing this..
It's not a matter of "wealth". It's a matter of construction and plumbing systems. Many of the houses/buildings are old to a day where smaller pipes were used for plumbing and where there was no central plumbing system. Those pipes clog up easily because toilet paper actually takes much longer to dissolve in water than people think. It's not easy to replace the pipes, since you'd have to open up walls and floors... Source: I'm Greek.
Load More Replies...Well, on one side, toilet paper is generally formulated to disintegrate quickly in water. But it still represents another factor in the process of handling sewage. I visited Mazatlan years ago on a vacation and experienced this. They required ALL paper to be binned. That took some getting used to, but I have to say l took that idea home with me and I bin all paper except #2. Have for years to no deleterious effects.
YES. I went to Costa Rica last spring and this was quite the shock
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Load More Replies...Ok, so I've traveled enough to be used to this, but this part still confuses me: if the pipes can handle a giant poop, how will a small wad of tp stop them up?
The poop disintegrates quickly in water but the paper doesnt. Try not flushing at home and see how it looks in 30 min.
Load More Replies...Believe it or not, it really doesn’t smell as bad as you might think.
On my first day in Tokyo: Spending an entire train journey with two small girls (probably 4 or 5 years old) staring at me inches from my face like they had never seen a white guy before. The mother looked terribly embarrassed but didn't try to stop them. Queuing up in a shop and being asked to stand in a different line where there was a white guy that spoke English at the counter for that line. Discovering that Japanese pavements get dangerously slippery when it's been raining because of how clean the pavements are - There's no friction at all. Going into a trendy cafe in Shibuya that was blasting out incredibly vulgar gangster rap music during the middle of the day. The lyrics were in English, so I guess that the owners of the cafe didn't know how inappropriate it was.
i had a young japanese girl who kept "wobbling" my breasts, which are larger than the average asian woman's...it was amusing to both of us...
The pavement is made of coral which is why it is slippery. ALL of Japan is very clean though
I think I'm tired of the word "inappropriate." I think "nasty" was meant.
The last paragraph caught me off guard. Like, damn, it may sound horrible in my opinion, but the f***k--
I'm from one of the most unequal countries in the world, but going to India still blew my mind. Delhi is a heaving, throbbing city, people sleeping in literal dirt next to mansions. Perhaps the pilgrimage to the Taj Mahal was the most eye-opening. By far the most beautiful, perhaps most opulent, man-made structure I've seen on earth, but its mired in the most saddening poverty imaginable.
Yep, it’s the land of extremes alright. I spent time travelling there after my parents died, some of the poorest folks I met had the biggest hearts and the happiest have met. I left a part of my heart there and I can’t wait to go back. I’m saying that, the scenes of poverty and deformity outside the Taj Mahal will haunt me forever.
Indian here, One of the sad things is that cities like delhi have become extremely polluted in the air to the point that it is inhabitable. Many people have started moving out because the air quality is causing many issues
Load More Replies...Reminds me of our time in Bangkok, Thailand, back in the early '70s. We stayed in one of THE swankiest hotels I've ever experienced (The Dusit Thani, apparently reopening in 2024). I was barely 10, practically living in the pool, charging our room for fruit salad lunches at 9 bucks a pop, catching a free movie at the theatre, buying candies at one of the glitzy shops, or even watching my parents' band perform (the only reason we were there, we could never afford this place ourselves), all within the hotel. One day, Mum and I decided to see the town and grabbed the only available transport, rickshaws drawn by what looked like 100-year-old withered and scrawny old men. The streets were filthy and little dirty, hungry-looking urchins would pounce on the rickshaws every time they stopped (even sometimes when they wouldn't!) to beg for money or food. I was so relieved when we made it back to the hotel, it just terrified me. Such a chasm between rich and poor, it's humbling.
I've read that it's similar to the pyramids in Egypt. All the photos are deceptive because although they look magnificent and alone in the desert, behind the cameras is a teeming city right on the edge of the area. I know nothing other than that never having been there. Perhaps the comparison is invalid.
yeah and the thing i found most frustrating is that noone ther will do anything about it as they think its Karma and the caste System...
I had two girls from India tell me it is the rape capital of the world. No woman goes out alone. EVER.
I`m an American living in the poorest province in China and I have been thanked repeatedly for dropping the atomic bombs on "those Japanese monkeys." I have also spoken to someone who believes that all black people have Aids and they are responsible for spreading it to the rest of the world.
I am not at all excusing their attitudes toward Japanese people, but perhaps it can be explained by how Japan treated China during WWII. It was absolutely brutal.
I live in China, and this is absolutely the reason. The Japanese perpetrated horrendous atrocities on the Chinese (just check out Iris Chang's book "The Rape of Nanking" for examples), but adding fuel to the considerable hatred is the fact that the Japanese government has refused to acknowledge the well-documented atrocities.
Load More Replies...Doesn't make the prejudice any better. In fact, it just makes it more sad that even more people believe in such nonsense.
Load More Replies...As my lovely grandmother once said: I'm not racist, I like Chinese people and I have several black friends it's just gypsies I can't stand.
Load More Replies...Japan did occupy China for 20+ years. Japan had possession of roughly 25% of China's territory and more than 1/3 of its population. Beyond its areas of direct control, Japan carried out bombing campaigns, looting, massacres and raids deep into the mainland. Early 20's to late 40's.
I think the point is how living in a communist country one is not privy to independent news sources. The State New Media controls everything the population is told. How would they know that AIDS knows no particular race and it can affect everyone, we are are susceptible to AIDS if we are exposed to it. As for the brutality of war, it is part of history and has happened time and time again. The Christians with the Crusades, Hitler and Germany with the Jews, gypsys and gay men. Vietnam was equally horrific. The statement is about much more than the brutality of the Japanese against the Chinese people.It is about the brutality of living under a dictator in a communists country. No freedom of self or thought.
Not just communists, or war- it's more the brutality of occupying armies.
Load More Replies...Travel brings us together. Get out of your bubble. Educate yourselves. You will replace the fear with connection. The bigots are always the uneducated ones who will never, and have never left.
Yes, but you are assuming people have the means to travel and access to education. Bigotry is when people have access to knowledge but choose to ignore it. The rest are simply uneducated - often through no fault of their own.
Load More Replies...The People's Republic of China has a clearly evident policy of Han Supremacy. It is 90%+ Han. 2m religious and ethnic minorities are being held in Concentration Camps in Xinjiang Province - the Uighur Muslims. Then there is the long history of repression and violence against Tibetans of all varieties.
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Went to Japan. First night at 1 AM in the metro and it was loaded with people in suits and other formal clothing looking completely exhausted almost falling asleep on each others laps, just an ordinary day for Tokyo people.
It's not as bad as it used to be. After the March 11, 2011 tsunami, we had to save energy, so lots of businesses would close by 19:00 and send the workers home. More recently, the government passed a rule that workers MUST use a minimum of half of their vacation time or the company could face fines.
Load More Replies...What blew my mind when i was working in Tokyo, was the amount of public drunkenness. And like extreme drunk. Like guys in business suits so drunk they fall asleep in a gutter level of drunkenness.
After a day at the office the staff go out drinking like a sort of bonding thing. You can't decline to go. And you stay until the managers have had enough
Load More Replies...I'm really just feeling nothing but empathy for those people. Why are people made to work such exhausting hours?
That really needs to change. I don't know how productive you can be if you're that tired.
This is horrible. Is this why self inflicted terminations are a big problem there?
Tragically, Japan has a word for death from overwork called "karoshi."
Load More Replies...Karoshi is indeed a scary and dangerous thing but on the upside, I think Japan and Spain are the places to be because only in Japan is it okay to snooze on the job while there is siesta time in Spain. Literally saving the lives of some overworked and sleep-deprived individuals.
Can't say it's the same everywhere, but naps are totally fine if it's lunch break (mine is 70 minutes long, so you do have enough time to eat and then nap), or after official hours during your overtime. You can't really nap during official work hours.
Load More Replies...Absolutely blitzed Japanese businessmen throwing up on themselves and the train platform getting on late night trains in Tokyo - everyday occurrence. Great place but it's actually de rigueur for salarymen to get regularly wasted, and I mean baked, with work colleagues or clients
I went to France and Belgium from the US and was shocked at the lack of the highway advertising. No billboards or anything
First time out of the country? Most countries would prefer you to keep your focus on the road without too many distractions.
But then how will you know about some random product or Jesus?
Load More Replies...We are planning a trip to visit Austria, Belgium and Germany for next summer. I am so excited, I can hardly wait. European chocolate! Beautiful architecture! I feel like a little kid on the night before Christmas. 😊
Happy to see you so excited about it. I hope you'll have a great time! ☺ (I'm from Germany btw)
Load More Replies...It’s funny because Vermont does not allow billboards or even large hotel signs so the first time I went to another state I was shocked to see so many billboards and signs
Bliss. Ever notice how when children draw pictures of streets and landscapes they don't add in billboards?
Not from my travels, but I had a client that went to Bhutan. Real conservative lady, I ask how it went. She goes "It was great.......they really like.....male....genitals......over there" I asked her to elaborate. She said there were d**ks everywhere. Physical representations of d**ks on hats, on the sidewalk, everywhere. There was a parade where some important guy had a penis staff and "knighted" dignitaries with it. that made me happy.
The Japanese have a fertility festival, Kanamara Matsuri, with a similar theme. Very strange to see young girls licking ‘themed’ ice blocks
What about the vaginas in the world? Haha always under appreciated 😂
Sounds like Sunny Beach Bulgaria too. It was like stepping back into 1970's Blackpool with a dash of communism thrown into the mix.
In Jordan, and I'm sure most Arab countries, if you compliment something, it's considered impolite for the person not to offer it to you. I thought the warnings were an exaggeration until my friend complimented a waiter's watch and the waiter had it literally unlatched, trying to push it into my friend's hands. Four is the appropriate amount of times to say no, and if you actually do want it, it's rude to say yes after fewer than three.
Ooof, this would make me hide under a table shrieking. My social anxiety is not ready for that. I'd be in tears wailing like a banshee at people, "Stop offering me free gifts I have trust issues!"
My social anxiety is so bad I rarely leave my home and you could give me millions of dollars and I still wouldn't be able to eat at a restaurant with others there
Load More Replies...How far does this go? If someone compliments your car of home, what did you do? I'm assuming there are limits.
"Your mother-in-law is great cook!" -"Here, have her!" 🤣 🤣
Load More Replies...Goes to bank teller."I like all the money ey in your vault it's very lovely" Hands teller my huge bag
Seems to me I also remember reading that a gift of equal value is expected in return, eventually.
I heard about nurse, who worked in Saudi Arabia. She told one Saudi lady that her little son was cute and lady looked at her weirdly and asked if she want to marry him. I don't know if it's some custom or maybe she misinterpret something because of language barrier.
I was in India earlier this year and their taxi drivers take you wherever they feel like before taking you to your requested destination. And would be deeply offended if you were like 'WTF, where are we going?'
So, that's how I ended up on a boat in the middle of the Arabian Sea when all I wanted to do was exchange money, and at a random zoo when I just wanted to go shopping. I eventually exchanged money and went shopping but had to go on field trips first to see the sites. Good times.
This sounds like they were scamming the OP, making the trip longer and more expensive.
In Tunisia, we've been told to negotiate the cost of the trip before we even enter the car. That was the only way to get to our destination directly and pay the pre-agreed price.
Load More Replies...they were scamming you. you have to be strict with them then they understand.
I’m sorry back up. A boat in the middle of the Arabian Sea? From getting in a taxi? Was the taxi loaded onto a deep ocean vessel? That sea has more surface area than the country. And you just went along with this?
So you were just like sure this place in the middle of the Arabian Sea looks like the right place to exchange money?
Don’t forget the absolutely savage rapes that happen over there. Yes, rape happens everywhere (thanks guys) but the ones I’ve heard about in India were particularly brutal. The one I can never forget was the one where a group of Hindu men kidnapped and gang raped an 8 year old tribal girl. They kept her for days, and just before they killed her, one guy called the the others and told them not to kill her yet because he wanted to rape her one more time. Monsters.
"I will take you to my cousin's shop, he has some stuff you can look at"
So I went to Vietnam a couple years back with my friend Marcus. Marcus is black, I am not. We’re eating at this small place tucked deep in the mountains when our server comes up to us, his friend in tow. The server, without saying a word, saddles next to Marcus, strikes a buddy Jesus pose, and walks off to get our food. I looked at Marcus and said “You’re on some dudes twitter right now with the caption ‘Not Obama, but met my first black guy’ or something similar.”
Hubby and I lived on a tropical island for a few years. Almost every time we were at a certain beach people from India wanted us in their videos or pictures with us. We were invited to weddings of Indian people we didn’t know. Apparently, it’s ‘good luck’ to have ‘white’ people at their ceremonies.
It's not "good luck". It is just our culture to be gracious to guests, and foreigners are seen as guest to our country so people will go out of the way to make them feel welcome.
Load More Replies...When President Obama went to Saigon, Anthony Bourdain was there filming an episode at the same time. President Obama sat down in small cafe and ate with him. The table where they sat is now incased in plexiglas. Anthony featured it on one of his shows. They loved president Obama in Vietnam.
That was Hanoi, not Saigon, for bun cha and yes, they do absolutely adore Obama there.
Load More Replies...Buddy Christ is a parody religious icon created by filmmaker Kevin Smith, which first appeared in Smith’s 1999 film Dogma. In the film, Buddy is part of a campaign ("Catholicism Wow”!) to renew the image of (and interest in) the Catholic Church. https://www.bing.com/ck/a?!&&p=83dcd3b9ad425d0bJmltdHM9MTY3NTU1NTIwMCZpZ3VpZD0wODQ4YmRlNS1hNjZiLTY5M2EtMTc5OS1iMjBiYTdmNDY4MGUmaW5zaWQ9NTQ5Mg&ptn=3&hsh=3&fclid=0848bde5-a66b-693a-1799-b20ba7f4680e&psq=buddy+jesus+pose&u=a1aHR0cHM6Ly9lbi53aWtpcGVkaWEub3JnL3dpa2kvQnVkZHlfQ2hyaXN0&ntb=1
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The Chinese toilets that are just holes in the ground. It is even worse in the countryside, where there are no walls and you just don't look at each other when squatting, and everything falls in this smelly ditch underneath where you can actually see all the poop
Right?! Not selling me on China either but Japan sounds awesome!
Load More Replies...Try having food poisoning on a moving train, in Thailand, and there is only a hole .. bumpity bump!!
i am so sorry that happened to you, but your merry little "bumpity bump" sent me. i laughed so hard. sending you hugs!
Load More Replies...I've used the disabled toilets in some places for the same reason (plus bad balance). In Kyoto they had a walking stick stand next to the toilet in the disabled stall, which I thought was excellent design
Load More Replies...Chinese toilets are the worst and I've travelled a lot. The one in the picture isn't actually bad at all. Squat toilets are common in Asia and they still exist in southern Europe too. That's not a problem per se. But a lot of Chinese toilets were next level gross
Are they worse than Indian toilets? I've had the most unpleasant experiences there...
Load More Replies...Japan has similar toilets, but with walls and doors. Also, in Japan, the walls and doors are floor-to-ceiling with no awkward gaps.
I love the "privacy" music/water sounds in Japanese toilets. So no one can hear you "going" haha
Load More Replies...This is common in East Asian countries. Singapore, being a wealthy, very advanced country. But the public bathrooms were like this. Not dirty, like in the pic tho
So, legit question: What do people who have mobility issues, such as inability to squat without handrails, are in wheelchairs, do in these situations?
How do you keep your clothes clean? With a dress, hoist it up, but your panties need to be at ankles to wipe your vulva, but the chances of it touching the floor increase. When keepin panties/pants/at knee height you cannot wipe the front, and you need to balance yourself and keep a possible skirt/dress out of the way too. It's a jugglers act. I have no idea how to do that. Are there instructions posted somewhere about how to hold clothes / yourself when using toilets like that?
Paying to use the bathroom -most of Europe.
Ever since I can remember, and we're talking the early 60's, my mom made sure we always had the price of a potty in our pocket, ten pfennig!
And you tip the toilet attendant in Germany if there is one. Always have a few spare cents in cash
Load More Replies...We don't have to pay for every public bathroom, just the ones that are only bathrooms (like the one in the picture), or bathrooms in touristy places if you don't spend money at the establishment. We can use any public bathroom for free if we buy something - coffee at a cafe, candy/gum at a gas station etc. We can always find free bathrooms at a shopping center. You could even use a bathroom for free at any busy cafe, but that's considered impolite. The idea is that it costs to run a bathroom so it's considered polite (and necessary) to pay for it.
I would pay per restroom trip here in the US if it meant clean floors and good, solid toilet doors that went to the floor.
Load More Replies...Sadly not in Czech Republic. Many of the pay ones are absolutely disgusting, and in some places the attendant hands you a few pieces of toilet roll before you go into the stall, rather than having rolls of toilet paper in them.
Load More Replies...UK. Hence the phrase "to spend a penny." It's been many years since that price applied.
And, with that comment, the penny just dropped for me! Makes perfect "cents" now, lol.
Load More Replies...It's not that common in the UK. I only recall ever having to pay at Glasgow and Birmingham coach stations. Service stations, supermarkets, shopping centres and things like that don't charge. Some places like restaurants and coffee shops will only allow customers to use the toilet, which is understandable.
No more spend a penny euphemism? When I was young about 70 years ago we had some public lavatories with attendants, all decked out in neat white uniforms and clean towels to hand out. Every toilet stall had a locking gadget requiring a penny to open the door. And they were clean and always stocked with t rolls. Some things are worth a minimal fee. 😉
Load More Replies...That's ridiculous. I live in Europe. We don't actually have to pay 90% of the time. Railway stations seem to be the exception. Or sometimes you leave a few pennies for the attendant.
In Finland some bathrooms are free and some are not. Railway stations and other public buildings usually mean you need to pay, but for example shopping centers have free toilets the free ones seem to be in better condition too. Just a tip if you're ever here and need to go.
Shopping centre toilets have to be clean because they want more of your money than a train station so they don't want to scare you away. Same for airports, for example, you pay more for everything else.
Load More Replies...My sister took my mum on a day trip to Bridlington. She hadn’t been there for years and was amazed at how much it had changed. However, she was enraged at having to pay forty pence to use the toilet. Probably why they were very clean.
Far too expensive. There’s one in Whitby that charges 40p, but as I was searching my pockets for coins a woman showed me how to lean over and press the exit button in order to get in for free. I passed the tip on as I left.
Load More Replies...I would gladly pay for a toilet in any major city in North America. Poor Starbucks is the public washroom of a America. City officials wake up !!!
I really hate it. It pssed me off most when I was pregnant. When you need to pee every hour it gets really expensive
Germany: How f*****g clean are bathrooms. I've frequent to Germany for business reasons along with rest of Europe but Germany takes the cake in terms if cleanliness of the bathrooms. Every stay I had I found my bathroom to be absolutely spotless. I found their bathrooms to be cleaner than the rooms.
Yes, the ones that are not in a Raststätte but just on a parking area. There's one on the A96 and going from Zurich to Munich it's actually always where we need the toilet but it's really gross!
Load More Replies...Little surprised about this as a german, because public restrooms are usually not very nice in my opinion. And there is a lack of them and you have to pay for them most oft the time. The worst are at train stations
Right??? I think OP is referring to hotel bathrooms actually... As they said "my bathroom", "cleaner than the room".
Load More Replies...It's been a while since I was there but I was impressed by even the public toilets. Even those on the Autobahn. Maybe things have gone downhill since then but all were much cleaner than the public toilets in the US.
Despite my parents being Argentinean, we eat dinner at around 7 or 8 Pm. You should have seen my face when I went to visit family and found out it's the norm to eat dinner there around 10 or 11 Pm.
Many people in Canada consider 7:00 or 8:00 late to eat dinner! I don’t understand how they manage to get home and dinner cooked by 5:30, but I know many families that do.
Eating before bed isn't healthy if you have digestive issues like gastritis or GERD.
I agree in general, but in some countries people go to bed and get up much later than in other countries! It depends on the climate, besides culture, it seems.
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I eat between 5-6pm. In bed by 11. I could never eat that late. I'm diabetic so regular times are essential.
In Beijing old fat men do this thing called the Beijing bikini where they tuck the bottom of their t-shirt into the neck to expose their gut. It wasn't exactly a shock but it was hilarious.
They also let their kids s**t on the floor.
People in the Philippines do this! I think exposing your tummy cools you down,
As someone with big belly living in tropical country i couldn't aggree more. And pressing your belly against cold floor during a hot day is such a blessing.
Load More Replies...That last line about kids toilet practices confuses me. Super unrelated to the first part. And why would that me permitted/encouraged for kids to go on the floor? I need more information.
People in China don't use diapers on their infants/toddlers. Instead, they have their little ones wear split pants (essentially crotchless pants), and when they need to do their business they just squat in the middle of the street.
Load More Replies...It’s not just Beijing, it’s the whole country. And the kids s******g on the floor… yeah very true and definitely one of the biggest culture shock moments for me when I moved there
Beijing bikini 🤣🤣🤣 I've seen people do that but didn't know there was an expression for it
At Angkor Wat we watched an Indian woman pull down her kids pants so they could s**t. In a temple!
Omg I just found out I've been doing a Beijing bikini my entire life 🤣🤣🤣
When I first came to the country and found out "grounding" is a form if punishment when kids get in trouble or acts up here in America. Back in China I use to get beat with a stick.
My dad would hit me and yell at me. I just wish I was grounded instead
Yep - it depends on the culture - I'm adopted into a Hispanic family and I never got "grounded", I got hit, beaten, thrown across the room, smacked with whatever my mom had in her hand, etc. The other adults in the family also had carte blanche to beat any child in the family if they thought the child misbehaved. My ex, who is the child of Chinese immigrant parents, had a similar upbringing in terms of punishment.
Load More Replies...If you made a Venn Diagram of people who were beaten as a child, and people who perpetrate/suffer domestic violence as adults, you'd have almost a perfect circle.
Yep - as an adult who was a beaten and abused child (physically, verbally, mentally, and emotionally - thanks, mom!), I basically stayed in an abusive relationship for two decades from age 18 til I was almost 40, constantly telling myself things like "well, he never HITS me..." He was abusive in every way except physical. Also, my mother is almost 79 years old now and is STILL abusive and toxic, though she doesn't try physical abuse with me any more. Sadly my sister, who was NOT abused, grew up and is just like my mother. (She was my parents' biological child, so she was the "perfect golden child", whereas I'm adopted)
Load More Replies...In Sweden it’s illegal to hit your kid. You could not only loose your child to the social services, but also end up with jail. It’s equality bad to hit a child as a random adult. You do not hit anyone. It’s barbaric to use violence. Neighbours would absolutely gossip and treat you like a paria
HEY GUYS, I'M MOVING TO SWEDEN!! WANNA COME??
Load More Replies...You can't ever beat/hit respect in to a kid, just fear and/or contempt...
Americans are at a crossroads with corporal punishment. It used to be very common but child abuse finally got a spotlight out on it and now most parents are understandably concerned that punishment will be mistaken as abuse and so don’t use it anymore.
On a different perspective, people have just found it not as effective, especially if it's the only go-to punishment. There's no real law you cannot spank a child in the US as of 2022, and that includes all 50 States. You cannot use an apparatus and cannot leave a bruise, or hit them anywhere else except the rear end. There's some fuzzy lines between spanking and down-right abuse. The reason it became outlawed before was because so many parents were taking it too far.
Load More Replies...My mother would speak sternly and then paddle us. If we we're in big trouble we'd have to remove our pants first.
Not just in China lol, that also happens i most Latin countries lol, both in América and Europe lol
Yep - it depends on the culture - I'm adopted into a Hispanic family and I never got "grounded", I got hit, beaten, thrown across the room, smacked with whatever my mom had in her hand, etc. The other adults in the family also had carte blanche to beat any child in the family if they thought the child misbehaved. My ex, who is the child of Chinese immigrant parents, had a similar upbringing in terms of punishment.
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Malaysia as a woman from the USA. I got harassed for wearing shorts. I got rocks thrown at me. A gun pulled. Men wouldn’t address me. The hotel we were at assumed I was a second wife to my married couple friends. In fact, I always had to convince them that I wanted my own room. I was never Ms. Mongooseoflove. I was always Mrs. AnyMaleFriendIWasWith.
When you go to other countries, respect their cultures and dressing habits. Don't play victim. You are a guest in their house. It is very simple. If you don't like wearing skirts, caps shirts, etc then vacation elsewhere.
That's no excuse for rock throwing or pulling a gun. Those are unjustified assaults, plain and simple. Using culture as an excuse for violence is disgusting.
Load More Replies...I'm Malaysian, we don't throw rocks at people especially to foreigners.That's rude .
Malaysian here too. I wonder where the OP went. There are plenty of local ladies wearing very short pants, and nobody bat an eyelash, especially in cities and towns. People will stare if you wore them in rural villages, yes. But throw stones? I hope she didn't wear it inside places of worship. A gun? Wow. Where did she went to?
Load More Replies...I solo travelled through Malaysia and I didn't have any of these experiences. Actually I really liked the country.
Is.it just me or should traveling to another country include learning their customs beforehand and avoid offense and danger? Edit : added word
The fact the rocks were being thrown in. It expresses a whole lot, they want modesty to be frank.
No they don’t want modesty; they want a nonsense excuse to attack. In Islam, it is forbidden to attack others who didn’t attack you first. They attacked her with rocks??? That’s forbidden. In Islam, what a woman wears isn’t a big sin (so regardless of what she chooses to wear, it isn’t a big sin, so it isn’t a big deal)— of course there could be general guidelines for both genders, equally (and in Islam, people are supposed to respect that other people aren’t Muslim. She isn’t even Muslim, so she doesn’t have to follow Muslim dress code, per se, but anything above the knee, well, she could simply be warned then fined financially if the warning wasn’t respected. That’s it) but nothing in the religion allows people to harass, attack or throw rocks at a woman for what she wears.
Load More Replies...What part of Malaysia? I’ve been there 4 or 5 times and really? A gun pulled as well?
Gun's are so rare in Malaysia. Which part did you travel to? Kinda doubt what you are telling.
I (female from Texas) went with my best (female from Texas) friend 12 years ago in our mid 20s. We had a lovely time. We went knowing it was a Muslim country and respected the culture. We did not dress overly modestly, but did not wear short shorts or crop tops, either. We were kindly asked to cover our heads and put on full body robes when touring a mosque, but that was about it.
Truck playing music while driving down streets of Taipei. I commented that it might be an ice cream truck. My host looked at me funny and replied "that's the garbage truck. If we want ice cream, we go to the 7 Eleven store".
In Germany, the trucks that collect old metall play music in order for you to hear them coming and bring the stuff out you want them to pick up.
I was visiting my aunt in China when I was a kid, and apparently there was a boy across the street who constantly got bad grades. The beatings would start, the dad shouting and the boy crying. When it started, all the neighbors' windows would start shutting because no one wanted to hear that, but in China child abuse was acceptable as long as you didn't kill your kid. My aunt shut her windows too, complaining that the man beat the son every day. Just that whole lack of concern for the boy.
I was an online English teacher for a while during the pandemic but I stopped after an episode with the child’s father off screen slapping the back of his head anytime he got something wrong. I flagged it and complained to the company but all they did was move the child to a different teacher. Really saddened me
As if they can beat him up and make him smarter. Disgusting this still continues.
Yeah here in the west if you were caught beating your child you could probably say goodbye to the child and to your freedom
I literally just watched a video about how bad China's Bystander Effect is! - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPBnhBB8l-c
And the child will in turn, grow up being a father beating his child.
What a terrible, horrific life for a child. I guess they don't look into learning disabilities, either.
Smart dude. It didn't work, so he kept doing it, like the boy will suddenly start getting good grades.
In Norway people actually stop for you at crosswalks, even without lights.
As a Norwegian I can confirm that we do stop, it's illegal not to and if you get caught not stopping for pedestrians at crosswalks you get fined for it. Also as a driver you do not want to kill anyone, and in the cities pedestrians are so used to people stopping many will just walk straight out intro a crosswalk expecting cars to stop. How do people cross streets if traffic doesn't stop?
They press a button and wait for the lights. cars stop for lights, not people.
Load More Replies...Drivers are required to stop at black-and-white striped crossings across most of Europe. In practice compliance varies a lot, so a Swiss person who will happily walk out into the road without even looking may find themselves in trouble in some other places where you need to be more aggressive, or to take a single step first before checking if the car will actually stop for you.
I'm shocked every day when I try to cross a road in Alberton (south and a bit east of Johannesburg) and people stop at the zebra crossing to let you cross. They're Afrikaans, that must be it. They'll shove you aside with their trolley in the supermarket, but they'll stop for you at the zebra crossing.
I just wish more pedestrians would use it, rather than crossing 100m away and barely even looking! How hard is it to go that little bit further? Then we have to make shopping strips 40k/h because of accidents.
Load More Replies...This was a shock to me in UK, too. At least where I was. I've been nearly hit many times at crosswalks in Canada with lights because people don't pay attention or are too impatient to wait for someone to cross, and I've seen people actually get hit. There's no real law enforcing people to have to stop for pedestrians, and most don't wait for you to finish crossing. They just have to stop at Stop signs and red traffic lights. There are controlled pedestrian crosswalks where a person presses a button that instantly flashes lights for drivers. But it's merely a suggestion to stop and some drivers don't want to stop. I've never seen anyone get a ticket driving through those while flashing. Most drivers will stop out of courtesy, but you can't expect them to, so you have to wait for people to stop. Well... for them to slow down. They won't fully stop until they see you crossing. If you don't, they'll continue on driving by.
There is indeed a law in Canada that cars must stop at crosswalks for pedestrians. Where in Canada do you live?
Load More Replies...We have very high pedestrian mortality my Florida county. I hope tourists are extremely careful in this land where cars are king.
We call them zebra walks. Because of the white and asphalt stripes. Every driver will stop. Sometimes there is a brainless learner not stopping, but a fine fine will make them learn. Spain here.
China has very few crossing lights - cars are expected to watch out for and yield to pedestrians
USA to South Korea for school. Eating lunch in the cafeteria for the first time on my second day, trying to eat ramen with chopsticks and realizing too late that I should've spent more time working with chopsticks before coming to a country with very few forks. Thankfully another girl nearby took pity on me and taught me through miming how to make it work. USA to Korea, this time to teach English. You don't quite realize the tiger mom stereotype is real until you're surrounded by a pack of moms at a kindergarten parent-teacher conference, demanding to know why their five-year-old likes gym better than learning English.
They try to send little kids to English-speaking kindergartens and it's super competitive. I feel bad for the kids. More often than not, they have poor grasp of the Korean language while still having mediocre English proficiency. Source: born in Korea, raised in NA, worked in KR later for a while
Went to NYC in the summer. The whole place smelled like hot garbage. Probably because of the sun beating down on all the garbage laying in the streets all day.
The city has rules about when garbage is allowed to be put out—late afternoon-midnight the night before pickup. Granted, that area can get rough in that time period. Granted there have been certain events that have disrupted the routine. But most of the time, garbage is not piled up endlessly. I'm sorry your timing lined up with that area's trash day.
Wouldn't be so bad if they used bins like a civilized society.
Load More Replies...Born and raised there. It doesn’t even smell that bad? At least where i live.
I lived there for years. Winter is great because all the street c**p freezes, but in summer when it thaws out, WHEW!
NYC was literally built on landfill/garbage. I can say for sure many big cities like that all have a garbage smell. It’s very hard to control. Even with the smell it’s a great place to visit. So many interesting, fun, crazy and cool things to see!
Intolerance to public drunkeness in America. I am British so you get used to public merryment and drunkeness but I was surprised that it was not tolerated in the US. After a while, I thought it was a great idea. I once went to the Ole Cracker barrel and during the order I asked what kind of beers they had: "This" the waitress stated quite forcefully "is a family restaurant."
Cracker barrel is extremely conservative, to a level that shirt of creeps me out. The majority of restaurateurs, at least where I live, also at least serve beer and wine. But then I'm in Wisconsin. We're known not just for beer brewing, but consuming alcohol at a higher level than most places in the US. For example, when the university of Wisconsin sports teams, especially football, have a big game in a less drunk state, our fans that travel for the game have drank several bars and pubs out of beer. It's apparently happened in a couple different states and cities. But there are also states that have "dry counties" where prohibition is still the law.
Can confirm, Wisconsin has its own alcohol culture and it's considered ok to spend the day at the bar drinking while your kids run around the bar. This is not the case in most US states. I was wondering if parts of the UK have a similar pub culture?
Load More Replies...As a Brit in the US I’ve definitely gotten a sense that alcohol is seen as somewhat “naughty”. I’ve also had that same experience in a restaurant in upstate New York. After speaking to me the proprietor went into the kitchen and audibly went “that girl just asked for alcohol!” to her staff.
Views on alcohol must have had to be pretty severe for prohibition to be started in the first place though?
Load More Replies...Uh also cracker barrel sells beer. So not sure what they mean lol.
Many do but some don’t depending on where they are. If it’s in a dry county they won’t sell alcohol.
Load More Replies...Good! People in the UK have a massive drinking problem and they don't see it because most of them do it. Going out on a weekend night in London is awful, people throwing up in the street, drunk idiots vandalising bins, benches etc, urinating on buildings and drunken fights, loud obnoxious people screaming down the street because they're trying to be funny... There's nothing normal about the majority of a nation being alcoholics.
That's a generalization. I know you have witnessed some obnoxious people, but those scenes are not unheard of anywhere else. What you described sounds like the usual at any given time in downtown Winnipeg. Except you might get stabbed or bear sprayed out of the blue. Doesn't mean an entire nation is filled with alcoholics. Brits do recognize alcoholism as a problem. I have British friends and one of them just dumped a guy because she noticed he drank too much. I went to the pub with them one night and there was no fights, no heated arguments, no one was that inebriated to be puking and falling about. We had 2 beers each and we went home. If anything to complain about the music was too loud to hold a conversation with people with thick accents. So the only think to do was listen to music, drink beer and people watch.
Load More Replies...You'd find drunks that are a$$holes looking for a fight in any and every country.
Load More Replies...The mistreatment of dogs in Central America. It's heartbreaking to see these emaciated dogs wandering the streets and wondering if they're going to get blasted by some s***ty driver.
My parents went to Ecuador and when they were on a hike this random dog came up to them and basically gave them a tour. In return, they gave him ham
Incredibly sad. The dog meat trade is also rampant there as well as Bali, Vietnam, China, Philipenes, Madagascar etc. man’s best friends are food in SO many places.😪,
There are virtually no driving laws in Lebanon - and if there are, nobody follows them and they aren't enforced. Everybody drives like a f*****g maniac. Traffic is awful, everybody speeds. When going up into the villages in the mountains, people zoom around the narrow roads like they're on the damn interstate. Like these are two-way streets; they literally have zero regard for any potential drivers going the opposite direction. It's like they drive as if they have a death wish.
We were vacationing there once, and I got hit by a car when I was crossing the street from Burger King to get back to my hotel in Beirut. I was about 11 years old. The guy who hit me got out of the car and started bitching *me* out in Arabic. I'm like "M**********R YOU JUST STRUCK ME WITH YOUR VEHICLE."
Thinking about it now is hilarious.
The fascination with westerners in rural China and India.
Within an hour of landing in a second tier Chinese city, I was invited to a random couple’s wedding who were honored to have us show up. They even shuffled family members around in order place my friend and I at a front and center dinner table and a shout out from the DJ.
In China and India many people treat westerners like a celebrities and want to take photos with you. While sitting on a bench in front of the Gate of India in Mumbai we agreed to take a photo with a few Indian guys and when other Indian passersby saw this, they would hurriedly change places with them and we would take another. This went on (and amused us) for close to 10 minutes with no end in sight before we had to walk away.
Gives you a bit of an ego at first but got really annoying for my blonde friend and most backpacker females we met.
Omg. I can just hear it in my head. "Look, the white people came! The white people are here everybody!" It's like a bad SNL sketch.
After awhile, when people ask for photos you just start looking around for a good background to stand in front of. It really is like a celebrity duty to take this photos. Talk a little English to their small children for bonus points too
Gives you some idea of what a Disney character cast member goes through.
Can confirm. When I first got to my apartment in China (in a third tier city) my roommate and soon to be coworker (also Canadian) wanted to show me the club and I told him I really didn’t have much money at the moment and he just laughed and said don’t worry about it, you’ll see… he was right. Neither of us paid for a single drink. This went on the entire time I lived there. Also just one example of many.
Tall white guy from Chicago. Went to Mexico City to practice my spanish and visit the pyramids of Teoticuan. EVERYWHERE I go children and teenagers would run up and ask if they could take a picture with me. By the third day it was explained to me what was going on - the kids who are in English language classes get extra credit for engaging in a conversation with "a native english speaker", and they have to have photos or video on their cell to prove it. In Mexico they encourage their young children to approach strangers in public, apparently. They don't seem to have an equivalent Nancy Grace.
Nancy Grace, the guilty-until-proven-innocent shock jock? I guess to warn kids not to talk to strangers?
It would be great to be somewhere where they don’t have media harpies who hound parents of murdered children until they commit suicide, as Nancy Grace has done.
I have an English speaking cousin who lived in Mexico and has never mentioned this.
Guess if you rape children in mexico you better be part of a cartel or the cartel takes care of you. One of the very very few good things they bring.
Being in Ethiopia and hearing about a shooting, perpetrated by Ethiopian military troops, attacking at a mosque in Addis. And then hearing that no one outside of Ethiopia would ever know of it because when the government controls the telecommunications they can just turn the internet off for a few days and there is no way to get news out.
It's amazing what governments can 'mute' People are always unaware of it in their own country. I was too until I found that our state broadcaster, on their website too, was not covering large important stories that could change public opinion and those stories they did cover were skewed. I was very disappointed..
I have to agree, that moment when you realise this it leaves you dumbfounded. You're never quite the same again. At least I wasn't
Load More Replies...I once saw a mob crush a man's head with a motorcycle battery because he had been caught trying to steal said battery. The cops just watched him getting beaten, run-over, and finally bludgeoned. East Africa is a scary place sometimes...
Greece. Seeing a whole family (mum and dad and two toddlers) on a motorbike.
It’s the same in Nicaragua but with a bag of clothes and maybe a chicken.
Nor Italy. I've seen small fridges, microwaves even propane gas bottles transported on scooters over there. 5 year old standing on the scooter, holding onto the handlebars whilst an elder child was sitting behind the rider.
Load More Replies...I’ve seen this a lot in Pakistan. Usually from back to front sits mom, older kid, dad, and two younger kids.
I was shocked at being able to purchase a giant waffle the size of my head in the Netherlands. The internet tells you there are no large food portions outside the US but it's not true.
Stroopwafel. A stroopwafel is a thin, round waffle cookie made from two layers of sweet baked dough held together by caramel filling.
Those are effing delicious. There's miniature, probably less tastier, waffle cookies like that at the grocery store. Used to see them at Safeway but haven't for a while. They had maple syrup ones. They were still so good, though.
Load More Replies...Then most likely it wasn't an original Dutch baked good, as Dutch baked goods (like cookies) tend to be small in size (because we're frugal ;-)).
When I went to Vietnam 10 years ago, I thought there must have been a traffic jam on the way out of the airport. Motorbike and car horns kept beeping. Then I realized it was normal, everywhere in Vietnam. I was there for work and we had a driver who had worn a spot in his steering wheel from beeping the horn so much.
Ironically, once you have so many horns beeping you can't really tell where any of them came from, if even hear them over the sound/endless distraction of the others.
In places like this, the horn isn't used with the intent of conveying information. It's just a way of shouting in frustration without losing your voice.
Load More Replies...I would save my horn. Everyone is doing it, why would your horn make any difference?
Singapore still canes for crimes! And apparently people pass out from the pain.
Theft or robbery, but a few years ago a man was caned for spray painting cars
If you're talking about the American brat from 30 years ago, not all of us were upset about it.
Load More Replies...I’m sorry I’m gonna need a little bit more explanation than that illustration
Especially as the illustration depicts a scene of the whipping of slaves in Brazil in the 1800s.
Load More Replies...They don't want people spitting it on the ground or sticking it under tables.
Load More Replies...So in Italy, being a server at a restaurant is a respectable carreer, and they are paid pretty well. It took me way longer than I would've liked to, to figure out why all the wait staff I came across was very grateful for my 15% tips...
You can tip restaurant staff, i always do, they don't need it because they have a " normal " wage like everyone else, but i always tio them, if the food is good, or if the waiter is funny, s**t i still remember avwaiter that served me and my friend 20 years a go in Cascais, dude was hilarious, both me and my friend where cross eyed ( not even kidding Pure coincidence ) but Im tall fat and bald, my friend was a lot shorter skinny and hás amazing black curly hair, dude gets to out table with the menus, look at US both, and goes " oh brothers ? " We both laugh out asses off, dude was kind of an a*s, but an extremely funny a*s, and got a massive rio from us both.
Is it true though that in some countries it’s considered poor taste to tip wait staff?
I would not say "pretty well" but in most europe, waiters do earn living wages.
Smarties are chocolate. I'm from the US and the first time I was in the UK, on the very first day, I bought a pack of Smarties thinking it was pure sugar to perk me up from the jetlag. I "drank" the box to get a quick mouthful and was suddenly hit by the taste of chocolate and was shocked. (Also a couple minutes later I found out that I was allergic to the dye they use in the coating--which I would've known if I bothered to read the box.) Anyway, Smarties are chocolate. Beware.
In the U.S, smarties are like flavored sugar, definitely not chocolate lol
Load More Replies..."Chocolate" and "Beware" are two words that have absolutely nothing to do with each other. Nothing!
We have a neighborhood English shop that has everything imported from there, lol. I buy all of my candy there. My favorite are Refreshers :) Fizzy goodness!!
Load More Replies...I thought all smarties around the world were coloured Candy coloured chocolate buttons.
Oh, so they do have Smarties in the UK. I was thinking of sending my bf a box from Canada. But if they have them there then nah. I'll pick something else. He sure likes OMG!s
How well dressed Europeans are. I went to Europe looking ragged as f**k and saw perfect 10's constantly walking around, because their standard of dress is higher. No pajama pants, no sweats, just very polished and refined wardrobe. Needless to say I cleaned up my act very soon after lol. And in Mexico, the crazy driving. And all the trash that litters the streets, mhhmmm.
Depending on the area, going to Asda at any time of day you're likely to see some random in her dressing gown and bunny slippers buying twenty cheap ciggies
Load More Replies...US here. When I was called for jury duty I was astounded at the way some people were dressed. Yes, pajama bottoms or torn jeans in some cases. Maybe that helps avoid being selected to serve on a jury. Same when I went to the airport. I understand the desire to be comfortable but really? Come on!
I'm with you on jury duty. Show up and take it seriously. But if anyone expects me to dress up for a plane trip like they did back in the day, I expect to be treated the way customers were back in the day. Back when even coach got free meals and real leg room. Until I get that I will be very happy flying in yoga pants and an ugly, huge tee shirt.
Load More Replies...You see this only in the cities. Come to suburbs where I live in down south Netherlands and it's not altogether uncommon to see people in their sweatpants in the supermarkets early in the mornings. They don't wear pyjamas though.
Styles of dress vary as greatly as the human race. Speaking as an American visiting Europe for a few weeks I can only speak for myself - I look shabby because I only have luggage room for 3 outfits. So they will be quick drying items I can wash in a hotel sink. I’d love to wear nice things when I travel but I’d rather not travel with a lot of luggage.
Yes! I went travelling wearing boots and a toque and I looked like I was homeless compared to the average person is Kyiv!
Example of culture shock in reverse - I'm an American who has spent the past 2 years living in China. After my first trip back to the US (after a full year abroad) I was just really shocked by how much grass there was everywhere. Space is such a luxury in Beijing that it was startling to see how much is devoted to your average front/back yard. I was also shocked by enormously wide the roads in my suburban section of the city felt!
I had a similar feeling when I came home. I realized how ugly and boring Winnipeg is when you're going into the city from the airport, and how grey and culturally neutral it is. Like, there is culture but it's all over the place and tucked away in the nooks and crannies.
Then consider that the US (330M) is nearly the same area as China (1.4B).
Rio de Janeiro. The small children selling gum on busy streets all day and night, the beggars everywhere, every building had bars on the windows, armed guards at the doors of the hotel. The enormous shanty towns on the mountainsides. Traveling on business and it's the only place my boss insisted I have a driver, for safety reasons. While I was there, the beaches were robbed. A line of robbers from the water's edge to the street behind (and it was a wide beach) basically went from one end to the other (a mile?) and robbed everyone there (hundreds of people). Also the inflation rate was so high my dollars were worth noticeably more (15%?) by the end of the week, and the dollar was definitely the preferred currency, even for large commercial events like my conference. On the plus side, the people as a whole were beautiful and wore almost no clothes--small bikinis, no matter your age or sex. Bikinis were not unusual all over the city, sometimes wrapped in pareos. I don't know where people kept their money, no one carried purses, I was told that was because they'd be stolen.
It's sad to reas as a Brazilian, but true. However, I've been in Rio many many times, I was never stolen.
I asked one of my coworkers from Brazil what he liked most about living in Germany. He said it was being able to walk down the street at night with your phone without fear of getting robbed/attacked.
I love the priorities of "I got robbed but on the plus side I got to see a lot of hot naked people" 😆😆
As an American Southerner, trying to make friends traveling Europe alone was an interesting experiment. Germans and Belgians thought I was a wack job for speaking to strangers randomly, but I had some great conversations in France and the Netherlands. That said, in Germany at least, I found that once you infiltrate a friend group, they can be very inclusive and protective. Obviously anecdotal, but they agreed when I mentioned it. Most people I interacted with don't do small-talk and would go straight to topics that Americans would consider rude when talking with a stranger.
Had the same experience camping in Europe. France was by far the friendliest (which, being a Brit is always a suprise) and Spain and Germany quite reserved.
"Most people I interacted with don't do small-talk and would go straight to topics that Americans would consider rude when talking with a stranger. " Odd, because when talking to Americans they always seem to ask "how much do you make?" as one of the first questions, which is considered very rude just about everywhere!
I found the 'not looking anyone in the face' thing very off-putting in Europe.
I agree, and I still find it off-putting even after having been back in Germany for 5 years. People are so surprised/confused when I look at them and smile. But I've been getting more smiles back recently. There's hope... :)
Load More Replies...Little girl in Bangkok selling animal figures made out of palm leaves or grass for about 12 hours.
The women in the Caribbean were much more flirtatious and forward than back home. It made me super nervous. I had a girl approach me in a Wendy's of all places and ask if my friend and I would like to join her and some friends at the beach. My buddy and I keep arguing about whether they were hookers and we were going to get drugged and mugged. Nope, just some teachers who thought we were attractive. That happened multiple times over the years, and practically never happens in the US. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've been approached by a woman while on American soil. Any time I go abroad, especially to the Caribbean it happens multiple times. I still don't understand.
If you think you are going to get drugged and mugged if invited by strangers, maybe is the reason why nobody does it where you come from: everybody is scared, and nobody trusts no one.
Go to Twitter for that kind of stupid trolling. How old are you? 8?
Load More Replies...In Armenia, cigarettes are communal because they're so cheap. If there's a pack on a table, anyone is welcome to take one.
Moved to Toronto from Dublin 3 years ago, it still amazes me how open and trusting people are with their stuff in public, iPhone 7's hanging out of their back pockets, parked car windows being left open etc... at home in dublin especially around the city centre, you just couldn't do that s**t! We have situations at home where scumbags will actually ride past you on a bike and snatch your phone out of your hand while your talking on it..... On a slightly negative side, it's nuts how people drive here, very rush rush and angry, and the fact that cars can still turn when there's a pedestrian light is crazy to me.
I visited Toronto and absolutely loved it, but OMG the traffic! I've never seen anything like it. It took us 2 hours to go 25km.
You should see LA!! I'm so used to it but when my family comes to visit they're shocked by how bad the traffic is.
Load More Replies...My favourite place I have ever visited is Toronto, I’d love to go again. I was so taken back how the air was so clean it took a while for my lungs to adjust, it felt cold but really it was just much cleaner than I was used to.
I live in the capital city of Canada and we rarely ever lock our doors. It’s weird to me that people lock the door when they’re home
Widespread home invasions and gun violence are strong motivators.
Load More Replies...As I’m from Toronto I’m kind of confused by this, the phones in the back pocket I get, but not so much the windows of parked cars being down. Theft is definitely a thing here, particularly downtown Toronto (which is a wicked place but can be dangerous). Traffic though, yeah Toronto is pretty rush-rush. And we turn on a pedestrian light only when there are no pedestrians crossing, but it’s still legal.
Yeah, the turning on pedestrian walking lights is a real hazard and people do get hit. Most drivers don't want to hit people, though. The cities are very car-centric, so pedestrians are the ones expected to sort of protect themselves and watch for traffic. When you are crossing at a busy intersection, or any street, make eye contact with the driver to make sure they see you. Do a downward nod with a little assuring smile, and wave as a thank you.
I moved from the US to Moscow. The first two weeks were an absolute nightmare since Moscow is about 18x larger than my home city. My favorite culture shock experience is on my 2nd day getting lost in the train system for hours. The train system as amazing and efficient as it is, you can get lost for days if you don't know it.
How much people drink beer in the Czech Republic. You cannot get a non alcoholic drink in a bar cheaper than a beer. And then I looked it up and low and behold, the Czech's have the highest beer consumption in the whole world.
Beer is quite cheap in Austria too, but we have a law regulating the prices. Every restaurant that sells alcoholic beverages is supposed to have at least 1 non alcoholic drink on the menu that is the same size and price or cheaper than the one with alcohol. There are just very few exceptions to that. Most people don't know about it, but it is the law and you can complain if someone doesn't act accordingly.
Was in mainland China for awhile. Guangzhou. I absolutely loved all of it but firstly, as a woman, I was amazed to feel very safe walking around alone at night. I took motor taxis in the dead of night in remote areas and felt very safe with the male drivers. I never felt threatened or afraid of anyone. Everyone was nice and wanted to help the white foreigner. Also the anarchic traffic system that nobody seems to have accidents in despite all the chaos, as well as it being a general rule that others will cut you in lines and think nothing of it.
We were there several years ago and had the same experience. We used the zen way of crossing roads while walking. Just believe it will all be okay and go. You hear car horns all the time without any real sign of why they are being blown. We took a tour to some caves outside of a small city. The bus driver blew his horn continuously, even when the road was empty. He passed cars going into incoming traffic without slowing or speeding up. Never forget.
Born and raised in the US, went to live in Mexico for two years. The biggest shock for me was definitely the food and what it did to my system. We were told to take 4 peptos a day for the first three weeks to keep off the worst of the stomach pains but in the end I still got so sick I could not walk. After that though, I loved any Mexican food I could get my hands on. Except mole. That stuffs not right
Same - I make a chicken mole (with unsweetened chocolate, ground bread and ground nuts in the sauce) and my family loves it.
Load More Replies...We tried mole, and it was pretty good. Mixiote, on the other hand...
Probably the urban-rural divide in Mexico, particularly the southern states. One thing that sticks out is more-than-expected poverty of the rural areas, and the sometimes-seen methods of seeking to make a buck in somewhat aggressive manners. Like the dude standing with a shovel in the middle of the road who (apparently) spent all day filling a single hole in the road with dirt from the side of the road, and wanting a donation. I'm also reminded of a few times when driving and suddenly a rope with flags hanging off it sprang from the road, forcing the vehicle to stop. Up jumps a bunch of children attempting to sell tortillas or some other food item. The fact you're driving and then suddenly the road is obstructed is rather alarming, especially given at the time there had been news reports of people being suddenly stopped and robbed on the roads.
Pizzas served with ketchup or other sauces in various Eastern European countries. I was not prepared for this.
Dude, give it a go. I love pizza with garlic sauce. It's yum, really
Load More Replies...No free water or refills in Germany
You will be charged 0.00 Euro in some cafes in Vienna😄 I still find that hilarious when i check the receipt. (Looks a bit pretty to me -like "ugh, fine here is free tap water oida")
Load More Replies...No, it isn't. Restaurants simply want you to buy bottled water instead of serving you tap water.
Load More Replies...Moved to and started driving in Poland. Everyone drove as if the speed limit signs were in imperial rather than metric. Then I went on a trip to India (Calcutta) and I saw real driving. When I returned to Poland I realised that Polish traffic is way more insane than it ought to be but not really insane.
I was driving in Poland and found that some speed limits are on a VERY conservative side. I thought they were so in the UK but 20km/h speed signs changed my mind.
My first morning in China, I ran out of bottled drinking water. I just didn't realize how much I'd go through fresh of the boat. I was in an apartment, not a hotel, so I couldn't just snag an extra bottle from a room service care. It was pretty early and very few shops were open. And, I was completely unfamiliar with the neighborhood. So all in all, it took me about 20 minutes wandering around just to get myself some drinking water. It was a very sobering experience, and drove home that I wasn't in Kansas anymore.
So you ran out of bottled water and it took 20 minutes to go get more? Excuse me for failing to notice where the culture shock in this story was.
You do NOT drink tap water in China. One of the very first things I was taught. If you want water you drink water bottles and there are coolers everywhere. We had one in my first apartment.
Load More Replies...*gasp* OP had nothing to drink for a whole 20 minutes? However did they survive?
I was surprised by how basic JFK departures lounge was. Considering it's a huge airport I thought they'd have lots of shops, restaurants etc. It was literally a few coffee shops and nothing else. The big UK airports like Heathrow, Gatwick, Stanstead, Manchester, Birmingham airports have departures lounges that are like shopping centres with shops, restaurants and pubs. Even Glasgow airport has more going on in departures than JFK. It's an unwritten law in the UK that holiday starts at the airport and the departures lounge is one of the few places it's acceptable to drink alcohol at 6am.
I think it depends which terminal you're in. Terminal 4 at JFK, which I've come to know and loathe over my adult life, has very few real shops compared to many other airports. I don't count a 'kiosk" as a shop, even if they do, LOL.
Load More Replies...Sort of in reverse. Spent some time in Kenya and Uganda. Finally returned home and on the way from the airport had to stop by a walmart to pick up a few things. Was blown away by how much stuff was available, and how much of it seemingly useless. I had gotten used to very little in the shops and much of the food local. Clearly recall a woman with a cart piled high and a talking fish wall plaque on top. Like WTF do you need that for?
All Walmart stores are like that, full of pointless junky cr@pola. ;)
Load More Replies...I was visiting a Thai hill tribe with friends in 1998. They kept bringing out food and we kept politely eating it. Dish after dish after dish. Frog curry, fern stir fry… we honestly couldn’t eat any more, but didn’t want to seem rude. It wasn’t until I remembered from my Lonely Planet that in Thailand you should always leave some food on your plate to show the host that they were so generous that they left you stuffed and full that we finished eating and left the food. They were relieved and carried the remaining food back to themselves so they could finally start eating. We’re so used to being told to finish our plates, that we thought we were being polite, but really, we just needed to stop so they could eat the leftovers.
I must spend my life in the toilet as both my culture shocks took place in them , First one whilst travelling in France I didn't know that they have same sex toilets and waited ages for a man to come out for me to go in, to have a man push past me and just walk in before me. I was told to just go in and yes it was a shared toilet...thankfully they had cubicles . The second time was whilst on holiday in Turkey, we went to a tiny place called Altinkum, any place that served food declared they had a toilet. The toilet consisted of a shed with a hole in the floor that you just 'shat/peed' in .. no toilet roll ....
My first time abroad wasn't really a cultural shock. It was more a realization my mental image of the place had been created by Hollywood. It started during my taxi ride from de Gaulle airport. Oh, right, Paris also has poor and ugly parts, like other cities. Then, after I had checked into my hotel and had sufficiently figured out the lay of the land and the metro system, I started exploring the city. After a couple of hours I realized I was among people who were going to work, making a living, taking care of life's stuff, just like I had been at home. It's not all beautiful people at sidewalk cafes with "La Vie en rose" playing everywhere.
It speaks well of you that you had that realization and didn't blame the entire city for not being like Disneyworld, because I can't tell you how many tourists I've heard complain that Paris is an actual real city and not like it is in Ratatouille. These were adults, too. They also complained that there were too many tourists in Paris, seemingly without any self-awareness.
Load More Replies...I was surprised on the difference between rural north Sweden and the cities in the south. It felt like I dropped onto another planet when I november down here 30 years ago. For starters, people actually thought there was nothing to do in thw countryside because "there are no shopping". To this day, I feel the same; there is not much to do in cities. No fishing. No farming. No just roamning around miles and miles away from nearest human. None of the essentials in life
In my country, and maybe in lots of parts of the world, is polite to leave your plate empty when you're invited to dinner, but in some countries it means you're not satisfied, so your guest served you more until you leave a little bit of food left, meaning you can't eat anymore
I've lived in Canada my whole life, but I've seen foreigners bewildered with our culture. On the bus I was sitting across from a group of Brazilian exchange students (I'm assuming, but they were teens) and they were talking amongst themselves how weird dating customs are in Canada compared to . Apparently, from what this guy said, it's normal and acceptable in Brazil for a guy, even if he has a girlfriend, to give any other girls kisses in the air, hug them, compliment them, and the girlfriend won't get jealous, or lash out about it. He went on saying you just can't do that in Canada. Idk how accurate this is but it's something that's been living in my head rent-free. The people in Brazil I hear are also a lot more comfortable showing their skin and it's common for girls to take their tops and bras off right in the middle of an outdoor beach shop to try on bikinis. But that was told to me by a guy who knew someone who ran a swimsuit shop at a beach in Manitoba. Might've lied.
My husband is French and kissing friends and even strangers on the cheek is normal. It's also much more normal to have close platonic friends of the opposite sex from a young age, so there is less jealousy around your romantic partner being close with opposite sex friends. People there just seem to be a lot more chill about relationships.
Load More Replies...I moved from an average sized town (not small that everyone knows each other, not giant that you can find whatever you heart desire) to a really big one whitin another state in the same country and it was and still is a cultural shock. Things have different names (specially bread which is commonly called a very ugly curse word in my state), people stare at my ID as if they don't know what it is, documents work different, not to mention how f*****g far everything is. In my state, in 50 mins you get from my home to the capital of the state, here in this place you can drive for 50 minutes and not leave the city.
I was surprised by how basic JFK departures lounge was. Considering it's a huge airport I thought they'd have lots of shops, restaurants etc. It was literally a few coffee shops and nothing else. The big UK airports like Heathrow, Gatwick, Stanstead, Manchester, Birmingham airports have departures lounges that are like shopping centres with shops, restaurants and pubs. Even Glasgow airport has more going on in departures than JFK. It's an unwritten law in the UK that holiday starts at the airport and the departures lounge is one of the few places it's acceptable to drink alcohol at 6am.
I think it depends which terminal you're in. Terminal 4 at JFK, which I've come to know and loathe over my adult life, has very few real shops compared to many other airports. I don't count a 'kiosk" as a shop, even if they do, LOL.
Load More Replies...Sort of in reverse. Spent some time in Kenya and Uganda. Finally returned home and on the way from the airport had to stop by a walmart to pick up a few things. Was blown away by how much stuff was available, and how much of it seemingly useless. I had gotten used to very little in the shops and much of the food local. Clearly recall a woman with a cart piled high and a talking fish wall plaque on top. Like WTF do you need that for?
All Walmart stores are like that, full of pointless junky cr@pola. ;)
Load More Replies...I was visiting a Thai hill tribe with friends in 1998. They kept bringing out food and we kept politely eating it. Dish after dish after dish. Frog curry, fern stir fry… we honestly couldn’t eat any more, but didn’t want to seem rude. It wasn’t until I remembered from my Lonely Planet that in Thailand you should always leave some food on your plate to show the host that they were so generous that they left you stuffed and full that we finished eating and left the food. They were relieved and carried the remaining food back to themselves so they could finally start eating. We’re so used to being told to finish our plates, that we thought we were being polite, but really, we just needed to stop so they could eat the leftovers.
I must spend my life in the toilet as both my culture shocks took place in them , First one whilst travelling in France I didn't know that they have same sex toilets and waited ages for a man to come out for me to go in, to have a man push past me and just walk in before me. I was told to just go in and yes it was a shared toilet...thankfully they had cubicles . The second time was whilst on holiday in Turkey, we went to a tiny place called Altinkum, any place that served food declared they had a toilet. The toilet consisted of a shed with a hole in the floor that you just 'shat/peed' in .. no toilet roll ....
My first time abroad wasn't really a cultural shock. It was more a realization my mental image of the place had been created by Hollywood. It started during my taxi ride from de Gaulle airport. Oh, right, Paris also has poor and ugly parts, like other cities. Then, after I had checked into my hotel and had sufficiently figured out the lay of the land and the metro system, I started exploring the city. After a couple of hours I realized I was among people who were going to work, making a living, taking care of life's stuff, just like I had been at home. It's not all beautiful people at sidewalk cafes with "La Vie en rose" playing everywhere.
It speaks well of you that you had that realization and didn't blame the entire city for not being like Disneyworld, because I can't tell you how many tourists I've heard complain that Paris is an actual real city and not like it is in Ratatouille. These were adults, too. They also complained that there were too many tourists in Paris, seemingly without any self-awareness.
Load More Replies...I was surprised on the difference between rural north Sweden and the cities in the south. It felt like I dropped onto another planet when I november down here 30 years ago. For starters, people actually thought there was nothing to do in thw countryside because "there are no shopping". To this day, I feel the same; there is not much to do in cities. No fishing. No farming. No just roamning around miles and miles away from nearest human. None of the essentials in life
In my country, and maybe in lots of parts of the world, is polite to leave your plate empty when you're invited to dinner, but in some countries it means you're not satisfied, so your guest served you more until you leave a little bit of food left, meaning you can't eat anymore
I've lived in Canada my whole life, but I've seen foreigners bewildered with our culture. On the bus I was sitting across from a group of Brazilian exchange students (I'm assuming, but they were teens) and they were talking amongst themselves how weird dating customs are in Canada compared to . Apparently, from what this guy said, it's normal and acceptable in Brazil for a guy, even if he has a girlfriend, to give any other girls kisses in the air, hug them, compliment them, and the girlfriend won't get jealous, or lash out about it. He went on saying you just can't do that in Canada. Idk how accurate this is but it's something that's been living in my head rent-free. The people in Brazil I hear are also a lot more comfortable showing their skin and it's common for girls to take their tops and bras off right in the middle of an outdoor beach shop to try on bikinis. But that was told to me by a guy who knew someone who ran a swimsuit shop at a beach in Manitoba. Might've lied.
My husband is French and kissing friends and even strangers on the cheek is normal. It's also much more normal to have close platonic friends of the opposite sex from a young age, so there is less jealousy around your romantic partner being close with opposite sex friends. People there just seem to be a lot more chill about relationships.
Load More Replies...I moved from an average sized town (not small that everyone knows each other, not giant that you can find whatever you heart desire) to a really big one whitin another state in the same country and it was and still is a cultural shock. Things have different names (specially bread which is commonly called a very ugly curse word in my state), people stare at my ID as if they don't know what it is, documents work different, not to mention how f*****g far everything is. In my state, in 50 mins you get from my home to the capital of the state, here in this place you can drive for 50 minutes and not leave the city.
