35 Everyday Things That Differ From Japan Vs. Other Countries As Portrayed By This Comic Artist
Interview With ArtistIt is no secret that culture shock is real, and it can impact one's perspective. Especially if your home country is drastically different from the one you are visiting.
Evangeline Neo shared in her previous Bored Panda post that she studied in Japan, "Tokyo from 2010 to 2014, and noticed a lot of cultural differences". To navigate through them, she decided to portray her experience in the comic series called Evacomics. All of the comics can be found spread out over her two books: "Eva, Kopi and Matcha" and "Eva, Kopi and Matcha 2.0" which are available on Amazon and other eBook platforms (Kindle, iBooks, Google Books, and Kobo).
So today, we invite you to explore the differences and let us know in the comments if you have faced something similar as well.
To learn more about Evangeline and Evacomics, Bored Panda reached out to the artist. Read the full interview below.
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Probably not the first, but the first of many this time around.
Load More Replies...The Japan cleaner looks like he's ready for some Pokémon training.... the hat reminds me of something Ash or his friends would wear lol
What do you think pokemon go is ? Cleaning the street of all the monster !
Load More Replies...People in Japan are the most respectful, anyway so cleaners don't have to clean up after inconsiderate people......
Cleanliness is believed to be linked with encouraging prosperity & good fortune in Japan, (especially clean toilets); could explain the contrasting attitudes.
Evangeline has participated in a program that gave her a once-in-a-lifetime experience to study in Japan. We were wondering about her experience, as well as the inspiration behind her comics. She wrote: “I was on a scholarship program that had a mix of scholars from ASEAN countries to Japan to study. The scholarship focused on cultural exchange between ASEAN countries and Japan, so we needed to work with the Japanese office to organize events and give talks about our countries to Japanese, as well as to go on cultural trips and events around Japan to learn more about Japanese history, culture, and language. We also needed to write several reports in Japanese that were checked by the office. These activities took place while we were studying in our respective universities.”
“While working with the scholarship office, I was shocked about the differences in our behavior and expressions. For example, I didn't know that when they said 'it was difficult', it meant 'NO'. I thought it meant that there was room for negotiation. I later learned about 'kuuki wo yomeru', which translates to 'reading the air'. I was supposed to gather from their indirect expressions that it meant 'NO'. This kind of shocked me. At that time, I missed home a lot and found nobody comparing their countries to Japan, so I decided to do that to record what I experienced.”
That’s totally not true. I love here in Japan and it’s b*llshit
Load More Replies...Not true! I’m living in japan and people use the elevator (pink for strollers and wheelchairs) even if there is people with babies and wheelchairs waiting. That makes me sooooo angry!
Kinda? Actually, no. People almost never use the lift and always use either the escalator or stairs. So far, I've only seen the elderly, those with bulky items, wheelchairs etc etc using it
It used to be that way here as well. Back in the'70s and earlier.
I'm in a wheelchair and in the UK I'm increasingly seeing signs saying "let disabled those with pushchairs enter the lift first" and people actually doing that. I'm off to Japan this year, be interesting to see if this happens a lot
I wish smoking cigarettes would be illegal worldwide by now, to be honest. Smoking doesn’t do anything good for anyone!!
Unfortunately in America the tobacco lobby still donates massive amounts of money to politicians so the changes won't come Federally. Changes are made at the state level but they also don't want to lose the tax money. Any time a state needs to raise tax revenue they go after the so called sin taxes. Tobacco, alcohol; and sugared soda.
Load More Replies...This is somewhat false. You csntveven spit on a sidewalk or publicly chew gum in many Singapore places or yiu will be caned or heavily gained. It's arguably the cleanest city and nation.
Smoke doesn’t pay attention to signs. Thinking it’s ok to ban smoking…..when you’re outside is just some asinine rule that a Karen made up. Germany just paints yellow squares on the ground. It amazes me that there are people in charge of making rules that doesn’t understand the concept of air.
My husband and I call them Sham-Sham box's! They need them in North America!
These days, when people are free to travel and live abroad fairly easily, a lot of them can relate to experiencing culture shock. Evangeline had a hard time in Japan, and her way to cope was to express her experiences in a comic. “I was frustrated at some parts of Japanese culture that I only found out when living there. Anime, manga, and drama usually paint a good picture and are different from actual experiences, like opening a bank account or trying to rent an apartment as a foreigner... I used to love Japanese culture a lot, but actually living there made me dislike the country more and more. It's strange that while drawing the comic strips, I brought out the goodness of Japan, and it sort of balanced out my perception. Talking with my readers and exchanging our views also helped me cope with my culture shock,” shared the creator of Evacomics.
It's wrong . I work in Japan 8 month and it's not like that. The boss will add more work for u. Some even sleep at work. Don't always think Japan is happy place of work . Literally 100+ people kill themselves cause overwork and stress and debt . They electricity bills is the highest paid of all Asian. 80% of citizens are in debt of electricity.
Load More Replies...United States: No rpg game, no phone, stare at wall for rest of shift because you are on "company time"
Wait, holup, can you not leave or is it just a bit shameful to do so early?
It's wrong . I work in Japan 8 month and it's not like that. The boss will add more work for u. Some even sleep at work. Don't always think Japan is happy place of work . Literally 100+ people kill themselves cause overwork and stress and debt . They electricity bills is the highest paid of all Asian. 80% of citizens are in debt of electricity.
Load More Replies...I feel this whole post should have been called "how someone visiting Japan for a very short time feels Japan is always." Because I haven't seen a true one yet.
40 Years Later the Repairman Came late the Cistomer's already dead.....
IDK what other countries that is, but everywhere I've lived, hot water issues are top priority and sometimes a maintenance person has even come out within the hour. (USA) Not all the time of course but by early morning if it's after hours.
In the UK I was without hot water for 2 weeks. "oh just heat some up in the kettle, we'll get round to it"
Load More Replies...It depend which country you are from. China and Korea has the fastest service. I live in Korea for few months and my pipe break down. Just a call and 1 hour later they arrive . Not just Japan only.
Reminds me of the cable companies in the US before streaming. "We'll be there between 3:00 p.m. and a week from Wednesday." (South Park flashback: if you saw the episode you know.)
We were wondering what motivated Evangeline to share her comics with wider audiences. She shared: “I've always posted comics online. Just that before Facebook came, it was on blogging platforms. Back then, I didn't have many followers on my FB page. Half were my friends whom I forced them to like. I was trying to find my niche and a topic that they like too, so I picked Japan. I thought it was a good idea because I was studying there, and the scholarship activities made me learn more deeply about Japanese culture instead of just on a superficial level. My first comic went viral. For the first time, there were strangers liking, commenting, and sharing my comics. So I decided to make more of such comic strips and see if I could compile them into comic books, which was my dream.”
Wasn't the privacy concern mentioned a problem with people taking pics up dresses?
Exactly, that's why you can't turn off the shutter sound.
Load More Replies...I could make bank selling America market phones to the Japanese.
Moment device is activated in Japan the regulation will apply....
Load More Replies...Memory from Japan... I was in a group that was touring historical sites. We came to a heartbreaking statue that memorialized children who had died in a natural disaster. Hearing the story and the peaceful afterlife the statue symbolized made me fight back tears. As soon as the guide stopped speaking, everyone clustered around the statue with big smiles and peace signs for photos.
Doesn’t really solve the problem if you start video recording and then just take stills from the video later :(
There will alwqys be ways to bypass. Rooting the phone or sinply removing the speaker would work also but the point is to reduce the number of pervs. You won't be able to eliminate them completely.
Load More Replies...Yup,just like USA unfortunately. Look up people! Meet people face to face. Smell and learn the names of beautiful flowers and trees that you walk by without noticing. Read a book. Put the gadget DOWN.
I get so happy when I see people reading books in public. Bonus points if they're younger than 60. Triple bonus points if they're children.
Load More Replies...Unfortunately, social media plays such a large role in so many of our lives now. We feel like we have to constantly be "on" and feel "naked" without or mobile phones.
Definitely, but you're missing some positives of social media; for instance, with it, we're able to instantly communicate with friends, warn others of dangerous incidents, advertise brands and products, and entertains people in general. It's not entirely bad.
Load More Replies...Evangeline has created over 300 comic strips about cultural differences. Therefore, we wanted to know how she managed to maintain the consistency and quality of her work.
“Initially, it was easy because I was in Japan, and I had a lot to say. It got harder and harder after I graduated and returned to Singapore, my home country. My target was to compile them into 2 books, so I had a rough quantity in mind to work towards. Talking with my readers in the comments also helped me think of new topics to draw, so that was how I managed to churn out so many comic strips on the cultural differences,” shared Evangeline.
Why only one? Sheesh. Countries everywhere simply bulldoze green areas to build malls and grey buildings, anyone who doesn't do that is fantastic.
Load More Replies...Japan has a big problem too with tearing down old architectural masterpieces like Frank Lloyd Wright designs, The Imperial Palace, and a lot of that Nakamura hotel,testaurant,etc.
I really wish people could visit our country for short times and not become internet professors about it.. we take down things of historical importance, too. Also Singapore is very small, where are they supposed to build? Some things will come down there. Most of our cultural items are rebuilt, too. Please go to Osaka Castle and enjoy the elevator that is inside >~>;;
Well Singapore doesn't have a ton of historical buildings (i may be wrong tho) right
But, why are all of the Japanese rivers forced into cement-lined channels? Why is the Japanese coastline almost entirely concrete tetrahedrons? Why is...
Honestly, eating while walking is not very comfortable either. I'd either end up spilling everything on the road or choking.
Depends on what you are eating, street food is meant for that
Load More Replies...I mean weird though. You're eating, not bothering anyone. I mean it's a detail but it takes away another freedom and I guess multiple minor details like this are what makes the suicide numbers....
Load More Replies...One should be able to enjoy their food how they see fit... HOWEVER, when you take this comic... and place it with that of the sanitation workers... you can see the correlation. By keeping the idea that eating should be done in place and not traveling, Japan has greatly reduced garbage on their streets, and increased self accountability as well as respect for public workers.
I think people eat while walking mostly because that's the only chance they'll get.
That's a weird one. How is it "rude" to eat while walking? You're not bothering anybody.
You'd have to take away the garbage can for Japan if you're trying to be accurate. It is so hard to find a public garbage can there, It's crazy. Everyone just carries their trash with them and throws it away when they get home.
As far as I know, trash cans are only in specific locations - near a combini, or a vending machine. The idea is you eat your stuff there, throw it in the bin and then go. Otherwise you'll have to carry it with you. Or be a dipstick and litter.
Load More Replies...The only time I can think of seeing people walk and eat at the same time is on a fairground. (US)
Yeah I feel like eating and walking is more of a UK thing that it is a US Thing
Load More Replies...I would rather sit down and eaf myself. Wouldn't want to spill anything on myself or the ground.
Don't eaf yourself or eat yourself. It's a bad practice and not healthy.
Load More Replies...Now Evangeline covers more topics through her comics, so if you like her style, make sure to follow more on her Instagram. As for the future, the artist shared: “I'm actually quite busy with commissioned work now, but I always find time to draw and upload new comics every Monday on my social media channels. I've drawn comics on yoga before (which was a success) and Chinese metaphysics (which didn't work out). So now I don't have a consistent theme in mind and just draw whatever comes to my mind. I had thought about conducting regular classes and YouTube videos to teach drawing, but maybe when I have time…”
And lastly, Evangeline added: “Thank you for reading my comics and my brief interview. Hope to see you all on my social media channels too. Wishing all of you good health and dreams come true!”
I've been to several Comic-Cons here in the US. There are plenty of cosplayers dis(cos)playing their hajoobaloobs there too. And plenty of fan art of characters with their chi-chi-chongas in prominent view. And plenty of "Rule 34" fanart as well XD Maybe it's worse in Japan because of the pervasive culture of anime and manga, but just sayin', the the US it can be just as exploitative/gazonga-filled at conventions.
Im using all the adjectives you said from now on.
Load More Replies...The two are kind of unfair to compare as the entire point of comiket is that it's self published/ amateur måde so of course there's going to be more risque stuff vs comicon which is for large recognized media
I thought in Japanese comiket they had a place for r34 and ecchi stuff so little kids don't find the way to all that erotic stuff. I thought they sorted everything by genre so you could find what you want like Yuri, yaoi, ecchi, doujin, shoujo ect
In Japan: Security approaches you for taking photos of the figures on display without a press badge. Also, security approaches you for standing beside your friend in a single-file line. Also, everyone gives you the evil eye on the train ride home, not because you are opening reading a Manga with naked women on the train, but because you are talking on the train.
If you don't think admiration for the human form is universal, well I have one thing to say: "The internet is for porn."
First of all, not everything is meant for kids. second of all, most conventions will ask for your ID if they have NSFW art. Thirdly, NEVER share your age online, that's how you get pedo folks staring at ya.
Load More Replies...People in the USA don't respect other people's stuff alot. It is not just the package handlers.
Maybe you need to find a new part of the US to live in? Pretty respectful people here in the PNW.
Load More Replies...I recently saw a UPS driver (in the US) reach out of the door of his truck and lob a package in a high arc onto my neighbor's porch. It was a good shot, so he clearly had a lot of practice.
In India, usually if no one's home, the parcel is given to the neighbors
Here in Germany too. And sometimes its like the SingaporePic.
Load More Replies...That first one could also count as US. I waited near the door, was easily seen. Lady just slapped one of those package notes on the door, ignored me when I was literally behind her, got on her truck and left. Sometimes though they just give you the slip without even bothering.
In Germany the package is never just left in front of the door. It's either left with the neighbour or (I think this was officially a Corona addition but I am not sure) on the terrace or some other spot on the not street facing side of the house (in both cases you get a slip of paper in the mail with the whereabouts of your package.) I don't know how common the latter is, we have a pretty good relationship with our usual postman. In fact this post reminded me that I was awaiting a package and lo and behold: It was in the corner of the terrace door.
Majority of the time only FedEx delivers messed up packages but your correct, they don't through them
Load More Replies...LOL! I live in a house and have gotten a "Nobody home" when my husband works from home! (Canada)
At least in my area in the US, we recycle every other week, and the recycle barrels are the same size as the trash barrels..... do they want us to recycle or not????
PNW of the US here, our recycling is every week, trash service only comes twice a month.
Load More Replies...Japan is complicated for sure when it comes to trash, bit they try to recycle as much as possible!!! So very little makes it to land fils. Anything that can be composted, reused, recycled or burned is seperated out.
Recycling isn't working in most places, processing the discards is not cost effective and other countries have stopped buying discards. 90% of what turns up in recycling bins isn't even recyclable.
Canada, Ontario: Where you live depends what we can recycle. My municipality, all recycling and compost is taking weekly, garbage is every other week. Toxic, hazardious wastes, electronic are to be taken to a depo for collection. We have special pick up days for yard waste, Christmas trees, or large household items for free pickup (often people may come and take these things away to re-use them). If it is a large household item and not covered, you can go to the mayor/ municipal building to pay for a special pick-up sticker. We even have bins to collect used clothing/ fabric that can't be re-worn, and gently used items are encouraged to be donated to second hand shops. If items are metal (washers or dryers), just leave the item on the road side and scrap metal collects will take it away. As well in my area some less fortunate will so through recycling for beer cans and bottles to take to the Beer Store for the number of cents you get for each.
That’s because the huge number of people in Japan means they do trash pickups every day…can’t possibly take it all at once!
In singapore you can probly just throw recyclables in with everything else. They know its just all getting burned since they the ones burning it.
Unless they receive a ton of backlash for it and I mean like a ton
Load More Replies...Japan is more like "We will sincerely try to improve". Everything is done "sincerely" there.
If you read about Japanese corporate culture, this could be a point for US. Often, Japanese companies won't admit culpability, and will not, therefore, correct the problem. They will simply apologize and move on. Apparently, Japanese businesses get themselves into ask kinds of problems because they won't even admit that they can't do something. If a customer asks them to land on the moon, they will agree. Doesn't matter if they normally make toilets.
For who did not understood it:in us the ceo says WE, so he says the whole company did the midtake(caption days the ceo made it) the japanese one just says sorry for him and not put shame on the rest of the company, so jp++
...why does the penguin remind me of Mr Aizawa when Bakugo got kidnapped? (Anime reference)
Canada: We get forgotten so often for limited or special stuff :(.
I went to McDonald's in Japan and they had the cat from Yokai Watch as a fri holder. Adorable and useful
Every freakin' anime I've seen lately has people gushing over the food they get every single time. Suddenly everyone is a foodie having foodgasms! 😱
If everybody reflected a little before speaking, yes. +Point!
Load More Replies...I hate to break it to you, but unless it's been made a requirement for a school project or something, the silence is pretty common in the US too
I'm not Japanese and I come from a country that's usually loud and revolutionary...we complain and protest a lot. But I still find US people to be too opinionated and unfortunately mostly inconsiderate. Everyone just screaming for their own agenda, never for public benefit.
Load More Replies...I'd say it doesn't really matter what country as either situation could happen in either country. Yes, Singapore is a W in this scenario, but Japan could be one too.
Load More Replies...I was just thinking it's in direct conflict as the elevator.
Load More Replies...In Japan every train girl get molested and bring touch . My sister had this experience, I eventually found that guy , I give him a punch but instead cop arrested me . Your truth in Japan
For someone who lives and works in Japan for months you seem to hate it there. I'd move back to my country if I were you. In general I don't understand why people move to a country they dislike and stay there.....
Load More Replies...The old people/ pregnant women/ people with kids/ handicapped have their own section of priority seats in Japan. I have seen them actively try not to sit in it. Like they'll sit there if there's nothing else, but if anything else opens up, they move to the normal seat section immediately or even prefer standing. They kind of fight over not needing the special seats and there's an attitude that someone else even more handicapped will come and need them, and that they themselves are far too fit to require the priority seats, so it would be a bit insulting to offer your seat under the assumption that they need it. I also believe (but would need to confirm) that you must have a special tag that you register for and wear to sit in those seats, at least for pregnant and handicapped people, so no one can accuse you of taking the seats unneededly.
A friend of mine in the US was accused of not giving up his seat for a pregnant lady. Most of the bus was giving not-so-mild passive aggressive comments. So he reached down, removed his artificial leg, stood up and hopped to the side to hold a bar, then used his artificial leg to gesture her to the seat. She sat down, red in the face from embarrassment. He stood there, on his one remaining leg. Holding his fake one, until his stop, just to prove his point.
As someone who has lived in Japan, I can say that it's not people will not give seat but elderly will also not take it. It's a matter of pride for them in a lot of cases. They are also fitter in Japan. For elevators, it's mostly meant culturally to be used only by people who need it so people don't casually get on an elevator.
eh, never seemed to be like this when I was in Japan. Probably because many trains have women only carriages that pregnant women are more likely to go to to get a seat.
I once went to this 3 story apartment building in the US, and all the apartments on the left side of the hall faced inward, into this communal area. Like, I was watching people watch TV in their apartment. It was so weird.
I suppose that wouldn't be that different to having a view into the street, if you don't have curtains. I've seen a weird trend of people having uncurtained windows on their apartment/house. Not even net curtains, so you can always see in.
Load More Replies...Also not true... This is just their experience in their specific building. My kitchen window looks into other kitchen window, it is why we have privacy glass.
There are plenty of Japanese apartments that don't have a view. One of them I saw was a newer built apartment that had a window facing a wall of a taller building that was 2 feet away. Why did they have the window, you ask? Because the law required it, apparently. Personally I'd rather not have the window and just hang a picture or something.
Ahhh the US ship... one huge ceo bear surrounded by a few stock bears ignoring everything. Then a bunch of micromanagement bears giving a single rowing bear a bunch of different directions on a sinking ship. 😂
The panel on Singapore shows the prevalence of a culture in Singapore that discourages questioning by individuals, whether due to doubt or in objection, in the presence of authority.
Seems in most us companies all of the really hard work is left to underpaid, under appreciated employees and the big bosses don't do hardly any of the actual work. They go golfing, have parties and sit in board rooms for meetings while base level workers break their backs five plus days out of the week.
Japan really needs to work on communication from what I've heard, everything is so unclear because people can't use their words! Just say what you mean!
Hah hah, I think I would much prefer the Singaporean approach to getting to know business partners and colleagues. People always seem more jovial and relaxed over a tasty meal.
We have dinner meetings and such as well. This is just how we greet new business partners initially.
Load More Replies...Keep seeing memes referencing it recently. I've got to watch it again some time
Load More Replies...I would love the business card thing! Then maybe I could remember people's names.
This one could never be more truer - you have to go through so many stages to get a job in japan and like you could reach the final stage and then boom not hired..lol
There's no point in having a final stage if you're always going to hire whoever gets there.
Load More Replies...And when you get the job you realize the process to get the job is harder than the stupid job...
I think this could be dependent on the type of job, industry, and alot of things.
You never played shoots and ladders growing up then....
Load More Replies...There is onsen in Nagano beside the monkey onsen where monkey can come into the bath with you.
I had to use a laundry mat one time here in America and it was quite a bit of it so I took up two washing machines and when I got a phone call and had to leave real quick and ended up not being quick and came back 2 hours later and they were already out of the dryer and folded LOL
Everyone here is praising Japan, but they're one of the most misogynistic countries I've ever seen.
Okay but lingerie theft happens in US laundry places as well. It probably is more common in Japan but I have had my stuff stolen by creep old men.
Warning sign doesn't mean it happens all the time. And no warning sign doesn't mean it doesn't happen >~>;
I live in Texas and actually took others' clothes out a dryer a few times. Once, I did fold some of it.
Japanese ladies have to cut their old undies into small pieces with scissors when they throw them in the garbage bin.
In the US it's considered icky to steal someone else's clothes, (you have no idea where they have been, especially underwear.) Although we do have some weirdos who do it anyways. Often depends on where in the US you live.
I especially loved the cotton towels they used to give out. Still have a bunch from 40 years ago when my cousin sent me some.
I don’t know what those japanese tissues are good for (top 1st pic), they are the smallest thinnest tissues in existence. I need 4-5 of them stacked just to blow my nose once without them ripping. Can’t buy normal pocket tissues either, I just gave up and carried a bit of toilet paper in my bag.
the entire country is so small. i should know lol, i live in singapore
I thought you were Russian 😂. Why the hell no one says about the 7 days to cross russia in train 😒😂
Load More Replies...In Australia, a friend i hadn't seen for years moved to a town 100km from mine. I was delighted, he lives just down the road, by Australian standards.
Wait until they see the U.S.--it's a two day drive to my mother's house, and no high speed rail anywhere in the country.
I think there might be the idea that some areas are more willing to go further (the "very far" threshold is further away) might also have to do with size of country; here in the US, one day of travel gets you a state away at most usually whereas in Europe, one day of travel gets you into a whole other country, maybe more 😂
Load More Replies...Whats funny is that 2 hours is nothing in America. Like, if I drive 2 hours, I'm not even out of my state. Heck, my father in law lives nearby. Only a quick 4 hours road trip.
In America "Your insurance doesn't cover that health provider, try this hospital... THREE HOURS LATER." 🤪
This one had nothing to with that, just relative distances. Just got to slap USA, huh?
Load More Replies...I’ve been to wedding reception s like the right. Extremely inconsiderate of your guests…often due to wedding party driving around drinking in the limo at everyone else’s time expense.
ughhh yeah I've been to too many weddings where it was just an excruciating wait for the ceremony to start and then the ceremony goes on for way too long and then the reception takes forever to get started and they take like an hour between each of the events (speeches, then food, then first dance, then a different dance, then cake, whatever other miscellaneous things they throw in) like please just get on with it 😭
Tbf I was a kid for most of those. The weddings I've been to as an older teen/an adult have been a lot more bearable bc I actually knew and cared about the people getting married lol
Load More Replies...I went to one wedding where the ceremony was only for immediate family so I just went to the reception. It took about an hour and a half for couple to arrive. Still better than the one where we went to the church for the wedding (and almost all was in Greek so I didn't know what was going on lol) then the reception was at another location but wasn't due to start for 2 or 3 hours. Not really enough time to bother going home and back so had to just kill time somewhere nearby.
It's easy in Korea. Acquaintance gets $50, friends&family get $100. Super close friends or family, more but no idea. My his and once gave 2 really close friends of his $400 for each of their weddings which were on the same weekend. It was an expensive month...
Ver easy in central Europe. Give what you feel like giving and can afford. Only close family is pretty much really expected to give a more noticeable amount, many people just bring something symbolic, like flowers, or wine, maybe a nice whisky, if they know the couple is into it, stuff like that.
Load More Replies...It's funny cuz in America it's typically seen as "low class" or "trashy" to ask for money at your wedding. I think that's changing slowly cuz I definitely would have preferred money over random gifts. ( Also if you go to wedding in Japan but can't give the couple money do you just not get to go? Or can you ask them to not take your money? )
In Italy it was common to have a "wedding list" of desired presents so that guests would choose something the couple would like. But now, since most of the people who get married are already living together or living alone, they don't really need home appliances, so it is very common to give money
Load More Replies...In the US you buy them a useful gift for thier home. Dishes, towels, blankets, blender, special pictures, or other handy items are more the norm.
They do that in Japan as well, but you're still expected not to be cheap about it. A blender alone probably won't cut it unless it's a $300 blender, they'll let you know which one.
Load More Replies...People in the US can register at different stores for gifts for their wedding. They do this to for baby showers.
Same in Australia, though more common for baby showers than weddings these days. I remember 10 years ago I was annoyed because it seemed expected for you to give a gift for the wedding shower/kitchen tea (one of my friends had both) as well as the engagement party and actual wedding. Now it seems acceptable to give just for one and if you don't want to buy from gift registry you can give money/gift cards.
Load More Replies...The amount is Def. Wrong. You never ever give an even number because it's easily divided in two and therefore bad luck.
Yes, it should 3k and 5k. 4 is doubly bad because it's pronounced the same as the word for death in Japanese (shi).
Load More Replies...It can be hard in Canada, your supposed to cover the cost of the plate at the reception, which can be costly- $200-$500 per person.
I'm not super sure but I don't think we have any of these unspoken rules regarding weddings in Sweden.
In America you just give like a cute gift and you're good.
my fam is filipino excetp my sis she is the first amracan in the fam
Wait, so you're telling me people in Asia ACTUALLY let you know they'll be late?! In Mexico people lie and say they're 5 minutes away even though they're just getting out of their homes or, even better, they just don't say anything at all :)
I just wanna know why there's a bunch of penguins. Did ppl turn into them?? Are they replacing ppl?
The implications is that they don't ship broken products, but the video game industry is proof that this one isn't true.
Load More Replies...This applies most to automobiles. If you buy a car, buy Japanese...and if it is built in Japan, even better....my recommendation would be the Mazda Miata.
No government should be telling its people what times thet can and cannot consume something. It it's legal, let it be legal without politicians being everyone's mother (looking at you, Utah😒).
I think there's a difference between "buying" and "consuming".
Load More Replies...I don't have a problem with this, in fact I don't think there are stores other than service stations in Australia open at 10.30pm anyway, and they can't sell alcohol. I may be wrong and the drive through bottle shops are open late, I've just not seen them.
We do that in Singapore because late at night if you drank before you drive and its dark you can crash into someone. My teachers friend got into an accident because someone drank while driving
You forgot to mention the part where people leave the money and run out the door in the U.S....or just steal or break it in frustration.
This may be true. I've never had a problem with naked people in US museums.
I remember I went to a museum in Florida as part of Free Museum Day. Chock full of people carrying professional cameras with flash attachments despite all the signs saying No Photographing the Art Pieces. And yet the museum guards kept bugging *me* when I was taking pictures of the plaques saying the name of the artist and what the painting was called, because they thought I was trying to take pictures of the art itself.
Because he didn't get to see the bottom half of the art/exhibit (like it says in the bottom right corner of the image). I would have just gone somewhere else in the museum until the crowd was smaller and then I might have been able to see the whole painting.
Load More Replies...Except he was polite enough to say excuse me.
Load More Replies...Now THIS is something you wont catch us Americans without ANY WHERE. Air conditioning is normal and on 24/7. Too dang hot and humid for that
Not so, it depends on where in the US you are. There are many climates in the US and many places where air conditioning is unusual.
Load More Replies...An Italian friend and I caught bad colds in the US in July! They set the AC so darn low!
Aircon simply postpones the problem. More CO2, more Aircon needed, more CO2, etc.
Tell me about it!! I live in Florida, humidity is about 1000% EVERY DAY!!! This is ontop of the high temps! August average is 95°!! You just want to peel your skin off!!!😰😓🥵
We have air con in basically all public buildings, and it's really annoying because it's always set so low I have to take a cardigan with me! They are bringing in more laws about how low temps can be set in public buildings, but it depends where in the country you are. In homes there has been a big increase in people installing air cons because there have been government grants etc. I still don't use mine if I can avoid it, but I don't feel the heat so much. My dad, despite being a country kid can't stand heat, so will often put it on when I didn't think it's hot enough.
Load More Replies...i'm with singapore on this one. nothing with more than 4 legs has any business indoors...
That depends, I'm fine with most bugs, but bring an arachnid into my house and I'll probably go nuclear. I'm fine with them outside, just not near me in my house.
And you get blasted with a heatwave when the doors open. Great way to get sick
Maybe it depends whether it is a get together in public or in a person's home?
Load More Replies...What a contrast to my part of Canada (and what I would assume is true in most of North America) where you pay the taxi driver to take you where you want or need to go. I cannot imagine a taxi driver saying "No, not along the way" when I told them where I needed to go! Like I am joining them on their work day, and not a customer. Wow!
I think this is saying it’s easy (looks easy) to jump from job to job in a progressive way, but in Japan it’s a constant slog within the same organization until you die? Correct me if I’m wrong!
100% right and you can progress cause his pannel is use the wrong way. You must understand that in Japan.... There is 10persons behind you ready to do your job NOW.... Better be good at it !
Load More Replies...I understand that Japan has a very brutal work culture that values productivity and constantly being busy even if you have completed your work, I truly hope this changes with the younger generation as burn out is a very real thing.
In case it's not obvious, everything shown for Singapore is in Japanese.
Have never a Singaporean who could speak Japanese. Would mostly be Mandarin dialect or Singlish
Load More Replies...Not only does nobody speak any foreign language in Japan, not even in places where you would expect it like hotel receptionist, no, they are unwilling to interact with you altogether. I once came to hotel lobby, saw money exchange stand, took my currency out and pointed at the YEN sign on the board, throwing in the few words I know and some pantomime making it obvious I need money exchange. The lady just smiled shaking her head saying I don’t understand in japanese. I had to call our interpreter down to tell her I ned to exchange my currency to yen and she’s done it immediately no problemo.
I didn’t have that experience. I was amazed how much they accommodated me even if we couldn’t understand each other. Whenever I was confused at a train station, an attendant who spoke English would approach. I thought that was really nice since our country doesn’t provide that service for them. I did have trouble paying for things until one guy got mad and showed me you put the money in the little tray thing on the counter. There must be a taboo about handing someone cash because they would pretend not to know I was handing it to them. They would look away and not acknowledge the money in my hand while also not telling me what they wanted me to do. I would stand there confused until noticing the tray. I had the impression that I had offended them to the point it made the guy openly display anger at me, even though people usually don’t show emotion there. I was supposed to know the etiquette and failed the test. I wonder if the hotel lady was doing that.
Load More Replies...yeah -100 for japan on this one. I think every graduate should take a few months if not an entire year to travel around and get a since of freedom before getting back to work
I love fruit in Japan but at the same time it is really expensive and sometimes not worth it. I miss fruits from the states alot
There's also quite a lot of fruit waste in Japan, because too much gets thrown out for being totally fine, but not picture perfect. To me that's not only wasteful, but also pretty superficial.
Load More Replies...-10 for the wastefulness and impact it has on the environment
Load More Replies...I have heard this is because they have to import most of their fruit and veg because it doesn't grow in Japan, is this correct?
For Singapore, it's that, and also picking grapes off the vines (in the punnet) in the supermarket, to reduce the overall weight when measured at the scale, during checkout
Maybe, but then people don't get any inspiration either. The idea of group classes like this, I thought, was to share ideas and techniques.
Load More Replies...Well, it depends on the industry... but sales can be so exciting, and there are business travels, and travel allowance, trade fairs, and a lot of networking (maybe you will find a better job)... I was in "sales department" (not a real sales department, since it was a university). If options are sitting at a desktop in the middle of the room, or fresh air... I'd took the second one.
One point for Singapore. Let me explain. I'm a chef, and I would much rather take constructive criticism then be lied to. In Singapore, I'd know what to change next time I make this, but in Japan it just keeps tasting bad, and people still have to eat it. (Side note, if I ever leave a rude comment, it's not on purpose, and just reply telling me I was rude. I'll delete the comment and know what to avoid next time.)
Agreed. I'd rather someone in a kind fashion tell me that something isn't tasty rather than be silent. If nobody says anything, then there can't be any improvement.
Load More Replies...That's usually the hired help that does the shopping, while the parent carries the child. Or, the parents of older children would still re-purpose the stroller as a trolley, given the (shorter) proximity between supermarkets and the home, in Singapore
Load More Replies...In modern Japan that stroller would not contain a child unless it were a doll.
No trick or treating for Japan. Just buying candy. I think
Load More Replies...I don't know why, but I kind of hate the fact that Halloween celebration in Australia has increased in recent years.
Nobody Trick-or-Treats in the US anymore, either. Do you blame them?
I'm so happy this post shows goodness and badness of both the countries instead of showing one of them as superior :D
If anyone is wondering the score(as of May 8th 2023) is Japan: 22 Singapore: 20
Thank you, I was wondering what the score would be!
Load More Replies...This post is really good about showing the strengths and weaknesses of each place. There is no "grass is greener on the other side." We all have similar issues that we're dealing with and one place may be better in one way but worse in another.
Ok most of the Singapore ones are fake. If you live in Singapore like me you know its not like that
Hmm...no mention of how the Japanese like their sex partners' ages in the single digits...that's weeabooism for you.
I'm so happy this post shows goodness and badness of both the countries instead of showing one of them as superior :D
If anyone is wondering the score(as of May 8th 2023) is Japan: 22 Singapore: 20
Thank you, I was wondering what the score would be!
Load More Replies...This post is really good about showing the strengths and weaknesses of each place. There is no "grass is greener on the other side." We all have similar issues that we're dealing with and one place may be better in one way but worse in another.
Ok most of the Singapore ones are fake. If you live in Singapore like me you know its not like that
Hmm...no mention of how the Japanese like their sex partners' ages in the single digits...that's weeabooism for you.
