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In an ideal world, the romantic relationships we create with our partners would be happy, healthy, and full of light. But as we all know, that’s not always the case.
Only a few things in life shatter this illusion as quickly as being cheated on by someone you trust. As these cheating wife stories show, the affair can make you lose faith in love, your future partners, and sometimes even yourself.
It’s difficult for a person to move on from the whirlwind of emotions they carry after a wife’s affair, But one thing that helps to embark on a healing journey is giving a voice to your experiences. So, in a bid to provide a safe space for the heart-aching souls out there, someone reached out to the Ask Reddit community: “What is your ‘accidentally caught your spouse’ cheating horror story?” they asked, and thousands of people opened up in the thread about their gut-wrenching tales of partners cheating on them.
From accidentally reading unfortunate texts to catching your SO red-handed, we’ve gathered some of the most upsetting, infuriating, and wild responses where the wife was caught cheating.
So, continue scrolling and prepare yourselves for some relationship-changing Reddit cheating stories. If you’re up for it, share your own experiences with us in the comments; we’re here to listen.
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#1
It's so classic and pathetic it will sound sitcomy, but I found long blond hair in our bed. It's a short haired brunette. He had a buzzcut. When confronted he shrugged and said " Well, what are you gonna do about it, anyway, dump me ? you can't, we have a shared lease, so suck it up" Guess who got dumped the very same day with the help of a very nice, understanding and outraged landlord that rescinded the lease ?
Šimon Špaček 3 years ago
All landlords should be like that, no matter if it happens to woman or man.
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Brian Stanton 3 years ago
I got accused of this when my landlord and his blonde wife did work on my place! But sounds like op was guilty and was belligerent about it too
Sue User 3 years ago
I think " in the bed" sealed it. Lets hope your landlords wife didnt leave hers on your bed, or the landlord has some ecplaining to fo.
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Holly Stevens 3 years ago
I want this to be a hallmark movie and she ends up with the landlord
Tassenküchlein168 3 years ago (edited)
We had a long-distance relationship and I (red curls) found a long blonde hair in his bed. He told me he had some visitors few days ago and put their coats on his bed. I believed him. A year later I (then 7 months pregnant) was informed his "visitors" just had given birth to his son.
Janet Graham 3 years ago
I bet the landlady/landlord has come across this before. They either had empathy for you or they didn't want the place totally trashed when you two finally duked it out.
Nightshade1972 3 years ago
One hopes the landlord only "rescinded" the lease for the cheatee, not the cheater. Let him move his new gf into the apartment!
Kathleen Pearlman 3 years ago
My ex had a long blond hair on his jacket from work. He and I were both brunettes. He came up with some story, but I knew...
John Wesley 1 year ago
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#2
My husband changed his cell phone from our joint plan to hers. Verizon sent me an email confirming the change and the account his line was added to, which included her name. I asked him, and he lied. I looked her up on Facebook, and it turns out they had just celebrated their 2 year dating anniversary. We had just celebrated 8 years of marriage.
Stannous Flouride 3 years ago
And that is an insult to both tw@ts and baskets.
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Mozzarella 3 years ago
Son of a b***h. I hope the gal he was dating also broke up with him. If he cheats once he will do it again. Or she
Gabriela Chico-Farias 3 years ago
I should be “thankful” my ex didn’t lie when I found him out. He simply told me that “she’s a girl I’m seeing”. After 8 years of marriage. I wish I could burry him in my past but our daughter needs him in her life, so he must be part of my future. The tiniest possible part.
Gabriela Chico-Farias 3 years ago
That sinking feeling when you find out s**t like this is one of the worst things. It’s like you feel inside a twilight zone. Your essence starts watching your body live those horrible moments. Sorry to OP.
Keerthi Vardhan 3 years ago
Not sure how it turned out. Lack of loyalty doesn't deserve a second chance. It's just that you can't buy true loyalty with their own guilt.
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#3
Saw his mum post a picture of her new grandchild on facebook, sure as hell didn't come from my vagina.
Chris Liu 3 years ago
The boyfriend had the audacity to screw another women then wait 9 months for the kid to come out, then tell his mom about it and somehow he didn't think of saying something to you?? He doesn't deserve you anyways
Anna Banana 3 years ago
I know that real people have been hurt (if it's true) but I can't stop laughing at the absurdity of it!
Celtic Pirate Queen 3 years ago
WOW - so his MOM was complicit in him having an affair. That's f*cked up.
Can I Trust My Spouse After She Cheated?
As Gary W. Lewandowski Jr., Ph.D., a psychology professor and a relationship expert, points out, being cheated on is easily one of the top fears people have in relationships. “[Infidelity] represents such a clear violation of trust, it’s often worse than a partner just wanting to break up,” he told Bored Panda.
Lewandowski explains that cheating occurs for a variety of reasons, “but one of the most prominent is not feeling like your current relationship meets your needs. Those needs could be sexual, intellectual, emotional, or a need for personal growth.”
Rebuilding trust after a wife’s affair can be complex and challenging. It’s possible but requires dedication from both partners. Have open and honest communication and seek therapy or counseling to address underlying issues.
Trust can be reestablished over time, but it may never return to the same level as before the cheating occurred. As these Reddit cheating stories show, healing and moving forward can be difficult after a wife’s affair.
#4
Found my wife's notebook. Written on the first page was a 10-step plan detailing how she was going to leave me for another guy.
I turned it into one step.
Inclusion2020 3 years ago
Lmao I just can’t get over why this lady needed to WRITE DOWN a 10-step plan 😂😂She had to have left the notebook out on purpose, right??
IcyPenguinToes 3 years ago
And the mind boggles about why it involved ten things?
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Henry Wyatt 1 year ago
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#5
Not me but a medical resident who I met on rotation recently. One of the nicest guy I ever met, super intelligent and hardworking, and training to be a trauma surgeon by humble as they come. He had been married for 2 years to his wife. One night he gets off a 30 hour call early and heads home to surprise his wife with some flowers and her favorite dessert (it was the anniversary of the day they first met). Only to find her in bed with a random dude. He was so exhausted and confused, he didn’t know what to do and just left and went back to the hospital. I saw him at 5AM, sitting in the parking lot, hunched over crying. He didn’t even have his phone with him, he was just sitting there. Man, nothing breaks your heart more than seeing a grown man cry, it’s not something you see often. We called his dad up and he came and picked him up, the guy ended up taking a leave from his residency. Turns out, it wasn’t the wife’s first time sleeping around. Hope he gets back on his feet, he will make an amazing physician.
DDsbread 3 years ago
I think cheating is shitty if its done to a doctor or a janitor...
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Rannveig Ess 3 years ago
She did him a favor. I hope he goes on to have the brilliant career he's working so hard for, becuase he sounds like an incredible, compassionate guy. Ms. Thang doesn't get to say, "I married a doctor!" the whole time she's in bed Randoming guys. What a POS!
katie trondsen 3 years ago
That poor guy, she didn't deserve him. I hope he finds someone who treats him like the king he is
Chris D'Asta 3 years ago
Holy c**p! That was devastating. Hope that guy found a real human to love.
Valley Girl 3 years ago
There's no proof the dud was random tho! He may have been carefully chosen...
#6
I didn't "accidentally" catch him, someone purposefully mailed me a letter.
One day, I recieved an anonymous letter that stated my boyfriend of 7 years was seeing another woman. This letter was said to be from a friend of a different woman he was seeing. I confronted him and he denied (of course).
I checked his emails and found google messages from a third woman. I found out he was cheating with three different women for five years. Like why even bother to be in a relationship at that point.
F**k you Alex.
Seabeast 3 years ago
There's nothing wrong with being non-monogamous, but don't lie about it! If you're incapable of being faithful to one person, admit it from the start.
Cara G 3 years ago
Good point! Ethical non-monagomy is perfectly fine but it has to be consensual.
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ButFirstCoffee 3 years ago
I know a major cheater, and have been debating as to wheter I should let his spouse of over 30 years know. She seems like a good person. I wouldn't mind ruining his life, but not hers.
How Do Cheaters Act When Caught?
“Cheating is also a crime of opportunity, in which it’s more likely when people believe they won’t get caught,” Lewandowski adds.
Well, the times of catching partners betraying our trust in the act is a thing of the past. Nowadays, we have the digital world at our fingertips that expands opportunities for cheating. But at the same time, it makes it easier to catch the wife’s affair.
Reactions to being caught cheating can differ widely. A spouse may initially deny involvement, while some might admit guilt immediately. You can expect them to act defensive or angry, as they may feel cornered or embarrassed.
Some cheating wives may express remorse and a willingness to repair the relationship, while others may continue to deny any wrongdoing. Each person’s response depends on their personality, the circumstances, and the nature of the relationship.
Relationship expert Lewandowski added that when we think of catching our partner cheating, we often envision sexual and physical affairs, but as these cheating wife sex stories show, that’s not always the case. “We should also be aware of the potential for emotional infidelity where our partner becomes close and emotionally intimate with another person,” he explained. “Sometimes that may be ‘hiding in plain sight’ because we aren’t considering it a potential form of cheating.
How Many Married Women Cheat?
In 2021, Health Testing Centers polled 441 people to get to the bottom of how frequent cheating in relationships actually is. The responses revealed that a little over 46% of participants in monogamous relationships said they had affairs. One in four also explained they cheated and admitted it to their partner.
#7
Mt St Augustine erupted in Alaska in 1986. They had to evacuate all planes out of Elmendorf AFB due to ash in the air. This sent my unit home from Korea 3 days early. I got home at 2 AM and there was a guy sleeping next to my wife in our bed.
Janet Graham 3 years ago
That makes me so angry. It is 10x worse than just cheating! You can find a much better person than that!
C.Douglas 3 years ago (edited)
Ain't no use in going back Jody's got your Cadillac, Ain't no use in calling home Jody's got your girl and gone, Ain't no use in feeling blue Jody's got your sister too
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#8
My mom's best friend went to have lunch with one of her other friends from church choir, to meet that woman's new boyfriend.
Surprise. It was my boyfriend.
spirit wolf 3 years ago
My mom's client wanted to bring along her boyfriend to one of their meetings, it was her bestfriend's husband and next door neighbour of decades.
That nerd Zoe ️🇺🇦️ 3 years ago
Her mom's friend was friends with someone on a church choir, and wanted to meet her new BF. The church choir friends new BF was OP's BF.
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#9
My husband had been really nasty to me recently, and we got into a huge fight the night before he went on a business trip. By morning we had sort of made up, but I was still salty. He always texts me to tell me when his plane lands and normally I respond, but I was still so mad, I decided to ignore him. I had never done that before, so he called me to ask what was wrong. I said, 'Right now, I’m as mad at you as I’ve ever been.' He mistakenly assumed I had found out about the multiple online affairs he was having and accidentally blurted everything out.
Luna Kate Oscar 2 years ago
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How Do You Tell If a Spouse is Lying About Cheating?
Spotting lies can be complex, as individuals vary in their lying behaviors. However, you can look for some common signs:
- Your spouse’s account of events keeps changing or seems contradictory.
- A cheating wife might act defensive, angry, or avoidant when confronted. They may deflect blame onto you or accuse you of being paranoid.
- Avoiding eye contact or appearing uncomfortable when discussing specific topics can signify deceit.
- Look for nonverbal cues like nervousness or fidgeting.
- They may suddenly become more secretive about their phone, computer, or social media accounts.
It’s important to remember that these signs are not foolproof, and there may be innocent explanations for some behaviors. Consider having an open and honest communication with your spouse.
#10
One of my former co-workers loaded in a SD card with a scanned project file on it. he put it into the conference room PC we were treated to naked pics of his wife f*****g another guy. we were just stunned. this was in a senior budgetary meeting with the outside accountants and auditors. and he was sitting right there and we were looking at his wife and another guy going at it. i reached over and shut the projector off. nobody said anything. he got up and walked out and drove off in his car. left his phone and laptop sitting on the table. he wound up driving to his parents house 3 states away. he was gone for a week.
Celeste Grant 3 years ago
Poor guy. Bad enough to find his wife cheating without not only finding out at work but in such a graphic and humiliating way.
Random Anon 3 years ago
Ouch. I feel for this fella. That level of betrayal can really break a person.
Blaze Fitzwater 3 years ago (edited)
This is the worst I've read on the list!!!! I'm devastated for him. 😭😭😭
#11
Walked in on my girlfriend while she was having sex with another guy. “What are you doing here?!” she says. “You gave me a key, remember? I ended up not working today and wanted to surprise you.”
15 years later she reaches out, leaves me a message that she’d like to talk. I figure she’s doing some 12-step thing or something and wants to make amends.
Nope. She wanted to try and sell me on Amway.
BetterBitterButter 3 years ago
First you cheat on your boyfriend and then try to make him a part of a pyramid scheme that too fifteen years later?
Uber Mensch 3 years ago
Time to seem all enthusiastic and let her go through the whole spiel. Drag it out. Finally tell her "Not interested, really. Sorry for dragging it out and wasting your time - LIKE YOU DID WITH OUR RELATIONSHIP.
Gabriela Chico-Farias 3 years ago
I wished you made a big order but said I’ll owe you. And never paid. Ahh my little revenge fantasy for you.
#12
I caught my ex thanks to f*****g Pokemon Go of all things.
She mentioned Pokemon Go was using lots of her data. I explained that in her settings she could see how much data an app was using. I proceeded to show her and proved to her it wasn't by pointing out Tinder was using much more data...
It was sad but also funny the way it went down
I've posted this before but it's still funny to remember.
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Being cheated on is extremely heartbreaking, whether emotional or physical adultery. These wife-caught cheating stories show that infidelity can take a huge toll on emotional well-being.
It makes us question every decision and even blame ourselves for our loved one’s actions. It’s especially awful when it catches us completely blindfolded, having no suspicions about the hurtful activities happening behind our backs.
“Experiencing infidelity certainly has a negative impact on our well-being,” Lewandowski noted. “Having a partner cheat on you represents one of the most profound violations of trust in relationships. It’s an experience that can alter how a person navigates their future relationships by making them more jealous, more concerned about being hurt and about their partner abandoning them,” he said, adding that the effects of a partner’s infidelity tend to stick with us for a long time.
Cheating and its consequences can turn our whole world upside down, so people usually find it hard to navigate their feelings and get a grip on their emotions. “When dealing with this experience, keep in mind that it’s ultimately more about the partner and who they are than you,” Lewandowski advised.
“Going forward, it’s important to continue to trust future partners and be willing to make yourself vulnerable because those are key elements to healthy relationships. Granted, you may need to keep reminding yourself that the vast majority of partners are trustworthy and are unlikely to cheat, but you don’t want to allow one bad experience to undermine your future happiness as well,” the relationship expert concluded.
#13
Went to log into email and a suggested one that I didn't recognize popped up. I answered all his security questions, and reset his password to find emails between him and the neighbor. We were in therapy to recover from him cheating with her and there they were waxing poetic about their love and when I'd be out of the house so they could be together. The actual horror sorry is that our 7 year old daughter is the one who accidently caught them originally by walking into our bedroom while I was at work.
Who Panda 420 3 years ago
I was 12 when I caught my dad sleeping with the neighbor woman. Broke up two families very messy but better off in the end.
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Kelli 3 years ago
Well, that is exactly how my friend found out about her husbands affair, and I am hear to tell you, his daughter, who was probably about 8 at the time, never had a good relationship with him since. She is a grown woman now. To be clear, my friend never badmouthed her ex to her children.
Cara G 3 years ago
She said they are in therapy together. I guess she wants to work on it but he doesn't. And now they both don't.
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2 weeks ago I sent a message to a mutual friend asking to borrow a router. He didn't answer, but no worries he lives near by. I'll just stop by and grab it.
I pull up to his house and start heading down the driveway. He has a long country driveway so it's a few seconds before I see my car( I drive a company vehicle during the day) already there.
My heart began to sink, but they are friends, and business partners, maybe it's nothing. I got out of my van and look up to see the other guy shirtless in his bedroom.
At this point my heart is down on my stomach and I am visiblly shaking. I go in and immediately head upstairs. He is alone, now clothed.
I say " I came to borrow the router, also have you seen my wife? The car is here" He then proceeds to give the worst improve I've ever heard. "Huh? no, she was here at some point though". Whatever I knew she was there I just wanted him to admit it.
I go down, take the router, and head back to the van where I finally encounter my wife topless trying to sneak around the side of his house.
And now here I am
Edit: to all those wondering, I kept the router.
Edit 2: it's a plunge router for woodworking.
Mozzarella 3 years ago
Oof the friend was such a d**k for doing that. And also so rude if he knew the other woman was also already in a relationship. Especially to his FRIEND. I have so many trust issues cuz my friends have done this to me so many times before.
Janet Graham 3 years ago
Dumb cheaters are just like dumb criminals. They're gonna get caught, it is just a matter of when.
Chris D'Asta 3 years ago
Sometimes building a guitar or a chair is much more rewarding than wasting time and love on s**t people. Wood will always love you unconditionally.
Cory Tollman 3 years ago
He was "woodworking" (is plunge routing too much?) your wife so keeping a woodworking tool in exchange seems fair.
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#15
My brother discovered a condom inside his fiancé. It wasn’t the brand he uses.
Gabriela Chico-Farias 3 years ago
Imagine if it was short term, like earlier that day, ewwww!. Now imagine it was longer term, a few days prior, EWWWWWW!!
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Your Neighborhood Alien 3 years ago
OP also wrote, for anyone interested: "It gets better, the sexual encounter had occurred almost 48 hours prior to the discovery of the condom. I don’t have a vagina but I can imagine it shouldn’t go unnoticed that long."
Linnea 3 years ago (edited)
She wouldn't be able to feel it up there. Same thing happens when you accidentally have sex with a tampon in. If you've forgotten or don't realize it's there, it'll stay there unnoticed until it either comes out on its own, or the inevitable infection sends you running to your gynecologist.
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Natalia 3 years ago
I hope he got tested asap, clearly the other guy doesn't know how to put a condom on correctly.
Julie 3 years ago
My mind went to a way worse place of stealthing. Dude started to take the condom off during sex so it would come off and the d**k pushes it in further to hide the evidence. It is super f****d thing to do
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#16
One day my husband was getting ready for work and I saw him packing his GoPro case so he could take it to work. I thought, “hmmm that’s weird, why would he be taking it to work?”
So, when he jumped into the shower, I replaced his GoPro with mine and thought I’d look through the files when he leaves for work. My suspicions were on alert because he had just taken a trip to the PI with some friends. A guys only weekend kind of thing.
Fire up the camera and found 3 videos....
Lo and behold... there he is in all his glory barebacking a Filipino prostitute.
Looking and posing for the camera like he’s some f*****g porn star.
I was enraged but also looking at this fool acting like he’s a f*****g adult film star was hilarious.
Wonderful 3 years ago
Can't do the video editing at home I guess? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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StormyWaffle 3 years ago
why do they censor the word die and not the word “porn” in the articles?
#17
Me and my girlfriend were long distance and she had a habit of going quiet sometimes. She’d been texting me for the last few weeks but had made excuses not to come visit.
I went to a party that my friend had organised. I met a friend of his who told me he had a new girlfriend. I was surprised he hadn’t mentioned her, so I asked who she was. This lady introduced me to my girlfriend. She’d told everyone that we broke up, and had been dating my friend for about a month. She didn’t bother to tell me.
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#18
Get in his car. The seat was pushed all the way back and there’s a bracelet on the floor. First thing I asked was if he had cleaned off the seat when he had finished. He said yes. Then he realized he was talking to his girlfriend, not one of the many friends who knew about his affair. The best part is we were all packed up for a weekend out of town for his cousin’s wedding. His parents were in the car behind us. I went. We didn’t speak the entire weekend.
IzzieM 3 years ago
Oh, he would have gone to that wedding without me. Maybe take the other woman with.
Gabriela Chico-Farias 3 years ago
I agree! I would not have been able to control the rage inside me. That weekend must have been the worst.
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Stannous Flouride 3 years ago
Should have told his "proud" parents exactly why you weren't going.
Janet Graham 3 years ago
Nope, I would have unpacked my bags and spent the weekend thinking about what I wanted!
Mandy Delaforce (PC Girl) 3 years ago
Why the hell would you continue on the trip? Nah. I'd be out of there in a flash.
#19
Came back from a trip four hours early. Wife was supposed to be at work still. Opened the front door to see her sitting topless on the couch making out with a coworker.
He ran out the door; she ran into a bathroom and locked the door.
Sat on that couch for about an hour because I couldn’t think what else to do. Finally just up and left, so she could come out of the bathroom and put a shirt on.
Mozzarella 3 years ago
Wow. I dont know what to say. Just wow. I dont know what i would do if i found my husband like that. Scream probably
Mandy Delaforce (PC Girl) 3 years ago
To be honest? I'd calmly ask him when he can move out so that I can start to dismantle our joint lives together.
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HarriMissesScotland 3 years ago
Who cares about a shirt? I would have grabbed all her clothes and thrown them out the window, called a locksmith, and escorted her out, permanently.
Kelli 3 years ago
I’d have let her sit in that bathroom forever. Might have invited her parents over.
Janet Graham 3 years ago
Wow! I think you should have let her freeze and starve in that bathroom for a few days.
Me Gravy 2 years ago
Wow! You're right! Didn't even think of that! Poor thing 😞
Load More Replies... Stannous Flouride 3 years ago
Anyone else wondering whether the co-worker was hers or the OP's?
#20
Obligatory not me, but a friend. And I've posted this story twice before: Early 2000s, my friend's husband was deployed to Iraq. Together, they had a 10 year old son and a happy marriage. One day, while he was deployed, I am at home when another one of our friends calls and screams "Holy S**t, turn on the news right now!" I turn it on to watch a human interest story about a fundraiser at a high school 30 miles away. They're doing Relay for Life or something, and as a "surprise" to one of the participants, they had her "husband" and father of her two grade school children do a video call from Iraq, and displayed it on the football jumbotron. There on our local news is my friend's husband, telling another woman and two kids how he loves them and can't wait to get back home to them. The news eats it up, about what a great guy he is. That night, our group of friends convened and decided how we would tell her. I was nominated, so the next day I had to sit her down and tell her what we saw. She called the news station, and they were happy to let her come in and watch the story. They were also incredibly apologetic. Story has a somewhat crappy ending, I'm afraid. She called him out on his bs, they started divorce proceedings, and he went on to legally marry the mother of his other kids, and mostly ignored his son from the first marriage.
Scotira 3 years ago (edited)
OMG 😳 I have no words! Edit: Scratch that. How dumb can one be to make a PUBLIC video call as a surprise to his "not wife" and think it doesn't come to light?? Do these people somehow have a partial dissociation? WTF 🤦♀️
Seabeast 3 years ago
I honestly think that some of these idiots secretly want to get caught, deep down.
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Genny McD 3 years ago
Sadly typical military move. I was active duty and I hated being told "What goes TDY (temporary duty) stays TDY" I was friends with so many co workers wives and want allowed to say anything. Commanders and first Sargeants included. I was threatened with an Article 15 for wanting to tell a wife that her husband was hanging another chick every time he left home. So depressing 😞
DDsbread 3 years ago
Disgusting, the fact that men just view women as another object to f**k
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Bobby 3 years ago
My military break up story. Guy and his wife finally get pregnant. She's due to deliver in the middle of deployment and he can't get special leave so he's bummed about not being there for the birth of his child. Next to last port call before we go home is Norway. He checks his personal email (we could only get text emails to our *.mil emails on subs) to find she sent him 2 attachments with no text. The first was "2 out of 3 ain't bad" by meatloaf. The second was a picture of her, the baby, and a man whose skin tone was a much closer match to the baby. Poor guy was immediately shipped home and was checked into an inpatient suicide prevention program
AK to LV 3 years ago
That's so sad. I hope the poor guy was able to use the help given and get his life back.
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Sean Sean 3 years ago
Why are people always so surprised to learn that people in the military can also be pieces of s**t? They are just people after all.
BobTDG 3 years ago
It's easier too, you travel a lot and tend to leave your spouse/kids.
Load More Replies... Janet Graham 3 years ago
Incredibly sad. I am glad the friends told her and held her up through this. It seems like the AH wanted his wife to see it so he would be free to marry the other woman. I hate to say this, but he is a chicken S**t.
Janice Bontrager 3 years ago
Wouldn't you think that 30 miles isn't far enough away. Around here 100 miles away would still be close enough to get their news.
Bored Batgirl 3 years ago
So did the not wife think they were married? And did she know about the actual wife? And how was he pulling off two families within 30 miles? I have so many questions.
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#21
I woke up on Christmas day to my partner's alarm going off. He was the type to have 17 alarms set five minutes apart to make sure he got out of bed. I went into his phone to turn them all off and saw a message preview from his baby mama that was a bit too flirty. I checked and he'd been sleeping with her for a month, including the day before (Christmas eve), while I was at home with his parents and their child, preparing Christmas dinner and he was 'working.'
Janet Graham 3 years ago
Nope, do not need that drama in your life. She wants him, she's got him.
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#22
Not my relationship, but my boyfriend’s Mom took me out to lunch to get to know me better. We really kicked it off and had a great lunch. She had to run home because she forgot to grab a gift for a shower we had to attend after and we found her husband ducking the neighbor on the couch... She was mortified and never the same around me again. Her son and I split because of that (he didn’t think his Dad was wrong because his mom gained weight- as in she was now 140 5’6” and not 120), so I never found out what happened.
BetterBitterButter 3 years ago
A guy who could think like that about any woman is an AH but thinking like this about your own mother requires a whole new level of AHness.
Christina Rosetti 3 years ago
Not that it matters AT ALL, but 140 is a perfectly reasonable weight at 5'6", even on the thinner side for a middle aged woman.
Gabriela Chico-Farias 3 years ago
It is an absolutely ideal weight for 5’6” woman. At 120lbs, she would look emaciated.
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Curry on... 3 years ago
What a loser boyfriend. He found fault with his mom for a few pounds, but found nothing wrong with his lying cheating father.
Seabeast 3 years ago
Wow, the road apple didn't fall far from the horse in that family. This woman dodged a bullet when she broke up with her boyfriend.
Cory Tollman 3 years ago
I don't think I've seen the apple/tree thing adjusted so appropriately. It kind of makes me feel sorry for horses having to be associated with such inherited douchebaggery.
Load More Replies... Sinkvenice 3 years ago
That poor woman. Not only is her husband utterly vile but her son is a monster.
Robyn Bowns 3 years ago
I'm 5'6. 140lbs on my frame is just barely over "perfect" according to those dr. office BMI charts. 120 is almost to the underweight category.... 20lbs in 20ish years. Wtaf 🐖
Elaine Morinelli 3 years ago
Gained weight? She gained 20 lbs and that meant it was ok to f**k someone in her couch? Oh no nope nope.
#23
I had a long-distance boyfriend. We saw each other when we could and we were waiting for things to align so we could move in together. This last Valentine's Day, he made a big list announcement on Facebook, and part of it mentioned that he had gotten engaged the previous March. I cut off all communication then and there.
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#24
Not me, but a friend was watching an NBA game on TV and saw her (now) ex in the stands since he had seats that were close to the court and visible from the broadcast camera. He was supposedly attending with a male colleague but had his arm wrapped around a woman.
Mozzarella 3 years ago
Wow that was stupid. I’m not saying that its acceptable that the dude was cheating, but why the hellwould they go somewhere public? The girlfriends was bound to find out, and it was best for her that she did
Janet Graham 3 years ago
It is always better to find out when you are not in the cheater's presence. It lets you calm down a little and decide on your future plans. And it keeps you from killing the guy.
Gabriela Chico-Farias 3 years ago
Reminds me of the guy who got caught cheating on his wife while attending a soccer game with his ex-girlfriend and the camera caught them cuddling and kissing. It was on the news.
Juliette Dauterive 3 years ago
When I was a teen, a bunch of us girls went to a music festival. We all got pretty drunk and one friend decided to love the one she was with, was kissing up on some dude. The local news panned the crowd and showed it on the evening news report and her parents saw her laid out on the grass with her new friend. She had lied and said she was sleeping over at another girls house. She was grounded, like, forever.
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#25
Well, he wasn't my spouse, but he had proposed to me that morning. He said he had to go into work to cover a shift, but when he didn't call me for his dinner break, as he usually did when he worked that shift, I got worried (He was an LEO) and called him. Someone else picked up his phone, explained that the "guy whose phone this is, yeah, I think he went up to a room with his girlfriend, we have it down here waiting for him". They were at a hotel. Turns out he used it as an excuse to sleep with another woman he knew from when they were in the academy together and had been seeing each other for awhile, she was married. The next morning, when he came to pick me up so we could get our parents to take them to brunch and announce the news, I refused to go with him. In hindsight, I should've waited until we were all at brunch and he had paid the bill to confront him for the free food, but I was young and dumb.
Pheolei 3 years ago
My dumb a$$ was like damn Leos!!!! then I realized she wasn't talking about Zodiac signs...its was Law Enforcement Officer
Janice Bontrager 3 years ago
Oh! I thought what did his sign have to do with it all.
Load More Replies... Bored Birgit 3 years ago
Wow - you propose to your girlfriend and an hour later you meet another woman in a hotel. Shītty as can be.
Who Panda 420 3 years ago (edited)
The story is horrible but since when did people at the hotel answer your cell phone for you? If it was a lost phone yes but if they're just holding it for you they wouldn't be answering it I wouldn't think. (I realize that's not the point of the story it's just a detail that bugged me)
Milena B. G. Rosa 3 years ago
I'd ask to invite friends too (including the co-worker and her husband) and would expose them in front of everyone there
Janet Graham 3 years ago
No, not worth it to go for public humiliation and a free meal. You dodged a bullet and learned a painful lesson. Pity his future wives.
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#26
Had been on the road for work. Was supposed to be 10 days, got to go home a day early. Had a friend pick me up at the airport to surprise my wife and 2 children (2years and 8 months). Walked in to my ex and her 'coffee friend' snuggling on the couch. With. My. Kids. In. The. Same. Room. I was livid. Of course she denied everything. We split up weeks later. *edit* added years after 2 to avoid all the age questions
Max L. 3 years ago
At least the were young enough not to fully understand what was going on
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#27
Came home early from work, on Christmas eve mind you. As I pulled into the parking lot, I had a weird thought of wanting to see if there were any cars I didnt recognize. Thought it was a silly thought, so I parked my car and went inside. As I walked to the top of the stairs towards our bedroom, my husband immediately walks out and closes the door behind him. I had to ask him twice if there was a girl in there and he finally said yes. He also made me stand in the kitchen so I couldn't see who she was as she walked out.
Took me three years before I could enjoy Christmas again.
Tenacious Squirrel 3 years ago
He ‘made you stand in the kitchen’ so you couldn’t see who the girl was, after getting caught cheating? I don’t think he had any grounds to make you do ANYTHING at that point.
Leona 3 years ago
she was probably in shock and just did what she was told
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madbakes 3 years ago
No, I'm not waiting in the kitchen, nor should you want me to with all the knives present and all
Gabriela Chico-Farias 3 years ago
That was my first thought!! The knives! Yes! The knives!
Load More Replies... Anna Banana 3 years ago
Okay, but how did she not expire from curiosity? Clearly she knew the woman, otherwise he wouldn't have done all the theatrics. And she still doesn't know who it was?!
Grudge-holding Treefrog 3 years ago
Or maybe he didn’t want the other woman to know that he was cheating with her
Load More Replies... ButFirstCoffee 3 years ago
I would have barged into the bedroom and kicked thegirl out naked in December. And him too.
Christine Jemison 3 years ago
1) he'd move the f**k out of the way. 2) oh I'd know who the person was. 3) he would be living somewhere else after he was released from the hospital six months later!!
Gabriela Chico-Farias 3 years ago
I can understand her not having more curiosity to find out who the other girl was. First, was shock. Then, it really didn’t matter who she was. He cheated. In their home. In their bedroom. Total blame is on him. ”She” was nothing when it all boiled down.
Tigerpacingthecage 3 years ago
I sort of agree as in he is the bad guy here - no need to put blame on the other woman. But, if he cared enough to not show who she was it was likely someone op knew. I would definitely want to know if it was my best friend or similar, someone I expect to trust because that would be violation of trust from that person as well.
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Anne McKinney 3 years ago
I wouldn't have budged until that cheating b*tch came out. I'm positive it was someone she knew or else why wouldn't he want her to know.
#28
Long story short, I suspected something for a few months. Like an idiot, I opened her phone while she was asleep and found exactly what I was looking for, like you always do when searching through someone else’s phone. Even with all of the texts right there to see she still lied about it multiple times. She eventually admitted to it but downplayed it heavily.
She told me about two nights ago that he asked her out on a date and she said “I had to say no” and was visibly sad about it.
In the process of getting a divorce now. Hurts like hell.
Mozzarella 3 years ago
Had to say no. Wow that sounds like she was trying to guilt the person into letting her cheat on them.
Steven Meyer 3 years ago
I had a live-in girlfriend once. I worked at the VA during the day and I taught school at night to college kids. One night I come home ( normally close to midnight) and a laptop is sitting open at the bar, my girlfriend and I both had the exact same laptop so I wasn’t sure if it was my laptop or hers. There was a text box window open where she was talking to her previous boyfriend setting up a trip to go somewhere with him. I had found out when I confronted her the next morning, that she had been have an ongoing affair with him ever since we got together. The best thing I did was give her the boot. Then she fell on hard times and called me and wanted to get back together… I told her fat f*****g chance.
AK to LV 3 years ago
I'm so sorry that happened to you. People can be so shitty.
Load More Replies... Janet Graham 3 years ago
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Darren Fusellier 3 years ago
Sounds almost identical to my situation a couple of years back, turns out she did me a massive favour!
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#29
I found out my ex boyfriend (dated from 15-18) had been cheating on me when, upon walking into the apartment he shared with his mother and two elementary-aged sisters, the youngest sister asked me “when did you leave?” I asked her “when was I here?” She responded, “You were here all night. I could hear you talking to [ex’s name].” I had not been there for two days at that point. I asked him what she was talking about and he blew bubbles for a few minutes before confessing. Good riddance. Edit: not sure if everyone knows “blew bubbles” means having nothing to say yet still talking. It may be local slang. Yes, though, I do think the joke is funny!
Powerful Katrinka 3 years ago
I just added a new phrase to my repertoire. "Blowing bubbles" is the perfect description!
Kusotare 3 years ago
Thanks for the edited explanation. At first, I thought of Michael Jackson's pet chimp. I was horrified.
MelFunction 3 years ago
Never heard the term 'blowing bubbles' with regard to this before, but it completely makes sense. I love it.
Karen Lyon 3 years ago
Ah, yes, blowing bubbles. I know just what she meant, although I think of it as the gasping fish look.
#30
Caught my now ex husband. Something was way off, I was 6 months pregnant with our second child and my best friend at the time was also off. Picked up his phone at 2AM when it went off and found a secret password locked messenger (GO messenger?) Password was his birthday, real winner. I found over 7k messages along with photos, some insinuating I was present with either one of them while they were messaging. I was upset and woke him up- he locked himself in the bathroom and pulled the attempted suicide card. There’s another year of trying to work it out shenanigans after this incident but I’m so glad that chapter in my life it over. Edit: added attempted
censor 3 years ago
bad word alert @BP, you need to change that scary trigger word to "tried to unalive himself'
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Maybe it is one of those four days a year when pandas, euh, get busy so the BP censors are otherwise occupied?
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#31
Had a weird, sinking feeling that something wasn’t right with the new friend from college. Opened his phone after he randomly changed the lock screen (he gave me the password drunk) and saw all the notes. They were kind of odd so I confronted him, only to be told I’m crazy and it’s nothing. Went to work and messaged her on Facebook since I now knew her name. Turns out he said I was away in the hospital and was pretending to date me for my mental health and that they could date for real. We both confronted him, she decides to date him again and slanders me. Just found out he cheated on her though which is some sweet justice.
Momma Stu the Clownfish 3 years ago
Red Flag people! Anytime anyone plays the “you’re crazy!” card, their game is done. Liars and narcs deflect and shovel blame at you, without ever taking a direct hit of an answer. It’s also the beginning steps to gaslighting someone - anyone calls you crazy, just walk. Trust me.
Francine Govan 3 years ago
Cheating is like gossip - If they do it WITH you, they will do it TO you.
#32
After a week visiting friends in London, England, I flew back to Canada. I was supposed to do something with another group of friends when I got back, but plans fell through so I drove the 4 hours home to the apartment we shared. She expected me home at 6pm...I'd been up for 30 straight hours and got home at 6am, wanting nothing more than to fall into bed. There was an extra set of feet, attached to some a*****e, when I walked in.
#33
Came home early. They were fast enough to get dressed but not in a natural state of being, if that makes sense. It was obvious something was just going down. Very cliched “got walked in on and tried to play it cool” like you see in tv. I asked him to leave and he did. We argued, she tried to lie but soon confessed. It wasn’t the first time she cheated but it was the first time that I caught her in the act. Everything in the past was just texts and stuff. She said that she never slept with the other people and it was just pics and flirting. In retrospect, that may not be BS. We divorced, both remarried. Not friends by any stretch, but civil.
#34
My cousin was visiting us for a long weekend. She and I were super close, like sisters. I went upstairs to put the baby to bed, came back down to them going at it on the couch. So that was fun.
I' Gomez & Morticia's kid 3 years ago
And she's still with him to this day, good thing that she cut contact with that cousin.
#35
My ex wife was Face Timing her BF topless and took a screen shot to send to him for a keep sake. Problem was she sent it to me on accident.
#36
I returned from work on xmas eve. we had tickets to a festival which started the day before nye and i couldnt find the tickets anywhere after seeing them the month before. i decided to double check the trash before we put it out for collection. i found a used condom... we lived on our own.
#37
Guess I wasn't supposed to be home...FedEx delivered two tickets to Vegas right to the house. Tickets have her name and some other dude. That's when I knew. Confronted her, and, well, left with which what I could in the back of my trunk. Was too mad to think straight, left important things. Sold the house as fast as I could. That's to say, 9 months later. Selling a home during a split is horrendous
#38
Using an alt account because duh. ​ Wife had been texting A LOT and was very evasive when I inquired about it, though she smirked when she thought it was making me jealous (yeah, she's that kind of person). ​ Turns out she'd left her email logged into my cell phone. So I noticed that she had a weekend Airbnb trip to a place that was a state away (we were living in different states at the time), that seemed to be of the "quiet romantic getaway" type. Total occupancy: 2. Hmmm....well, I thought that was fairly suspicious. ​ So, I monitored her Airbnb page, which was easy since we were friends on Airbnb, figuring that the owner might leave a comment about how great she was as a guest. Which it turned out, she did. Except the review went something like, "(wife's name) and (guy not named me) were wonderful guests" and so on. Yeah, so, anyone want to guess what the conditional probability is of that weekend trip involving infidelity? Pretty sure it's high. ​ Wife apparently panicked, asked Airbnb to remove the review, altered her name on the site (?), and then finally, having failed to get the review taken down, deleted her account. ​ I eventually asked her about it during a counseling session and she had a ready-made defense about how she'd meant to take the trip with another coworker, but that person's car broke down so (guy's name) ended up tagging along since (guy's name) was that coworker's boyfriend, and they all stayed there together, but (guy's name) signed the guestbook, hence a totally honest mistake. ​ In hindsight, I am pretty sure she was not telling the truth. ​ We are not still married.
Taibhse Sealgair 3 years ago (edited)
https://www.wtvideo.com/video/31716/her-husband-sends-her-a-selfie:-she-discovers-that-he-is-cheating-on-her-thanks-to-a-reflection-in-the-mirror
Mozzarella 3 years ago
STILL? Still not married? I a so confused, did you not break up with her after that?
Vera1 3 years ago
Not still married, aka, they got a divorced. I had a to a double take too
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#39
I got a new job with a cell phone company. Free phone for me 15 a month for her. First bill comes in with call detail. She was on the phone an hour a day with this number while supposedly at work. I call, dude answers. I hang up. I ask her, she lies and said it was a gal pal of hers. I told her I know she is lying and call it again. Dude answers. F**k you Brooke.
#40
I just got off work after working the graveyard shift, I walk into my apartment with my fiance riding some guy she met at a party on my futon which they broke. I walked out with so much rage and broken feelings, I went to my car and cried.
#41
He left his email open. A ton of Craigslist emails. He used a fake name to try be sneaky. Anyway, I decided to open one to the emails. Boom chick with a d**k. Asked wtf and he said it’s my fault. On going trend with him. The day after I left him I get a call from the cops saying he was trying to entice a minor. Like To catch a predator c**p. Well that’s my story.
Gabriela Chico-Farias 3 years ago
Ha! Good riddance. Hope he got a long jail time AND sex predator labeled for life.
#42
A professor at my college accidentally posted handwritten letters from (or to?) his mistress on his class’s website today. His wife is also a professor at my college. Wonder how that ones playing out this evening. Yikes. Edit: I will update if possible! One of my friends actually read the letters today, since clearly some students saved them and they started circulating. I’ll have to ask her about more details. No clue how the mix up happened, but I really feel for his wife. Not a fun way to find out, and not fun to have it broadcasted on campus either. Edit 2: texted my friend who read the letters, this is what she said “Yeah it was crazy it was about men and women and their relationship with sex... and it was pretty stereotypical and like psychological idk how to explain it and there was a flow chart in it basically explaining how to handle him regarding sex“ Apparently the letter was cringe-City. **Edit 3: While a lot of you want to see the letters, I do not have them and wouldn’t share the screenshots anyways. Something about that is against my moral compass, but glad you were all entertained as much as I was! I found it funny this question was asked right after I heard about this so I just had to post! Probably one of the more shocking twists was that this professor is actually QUITE young (early 30s it looks like). I totally envisioned this being an old dude.** Edit 4: So, apparently this actually happened May of this year, but the letter had resurfaced yesterday. The professor is no longer at my college and allegedly had a bit of a mental breakdown. I did get to see the flow chart... it was... weird.
#43
On family vacation, I picked up his phone because I was bored and the kids were playing on mine. Saw a message to some girl describing the sex he and I had the night before. Spent the rest of the vacation fighting via text while trying (and failing) to act normal.
#44
5 months ago I caught my soon-to-be ex-wife messaging with a mutual friend of ours on Facebook. She had started to get close to him and had a drunken night with him when I found out that she had kissed him and started to have feelings for him. She then stormed out the door when I confronted her, with an overnight bag, slept with him, and has not come home since. 4 years and 1 1/2 married down the drain.
#45
Woke up to her on her phone with hearts scrolling in Facebook Messenger. We were married 7 years at that point. 2 kids. It was my birthday. Edit: I won’t feign total innocence: marriage is hard. I was working and in school full time so she could be a stay at home mom, which was our goal. She realized she wanted something else and moved on. S**t happens. Roll with the punches.
Tenacious Squirrel 3 years ago
“Marriage” is just being with someone. It’s not inherently hard. Long term relationships can go through good and bad periods. Some people find being with their partners easy, other people have a lot of ups and downs. Life’s other circumstances can make things, including your relationship with your partner, easier and harder.
#46
Not a horror story as much as just what I expect on this thread. I was dating this guy and because we are young, I noticed he wasn't following me back on Instagram. I was like "wow, so rude" but quickly thought nothing else of it. Until I looked through his tagged photos. Less that 24 hours prior, his girlfriend had just posted how much she loved him and how great he was. Such a sinking feeling.
#47
My ex met someone in one of his classes who told him about how poly relationships worked so he started “dating” her and another girl. He never talked to or told me about it to see if I was interested and I found out when I dropped by his house one day after visiting my dad and he was in bed with the two of them. They recently broke up because the two women decided that because he’s a straight cis male, they can’t date someone “like that” Edit: I need to make better sense
Jeweled Dragon (She/They) 2 years ago
Cis - Cisgender. He's born as a male and identifies as male
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We had a linked apple account, we both had the find my iPhone app. Figured out what all the late nights at work really were.
Tenacious Squirrel 3 years ago
Sounds like the person cheating was pretty stupid. Or maybe they just didn’t care. Horrible anyway.
#49
Didn’t happen to me, but my closest friend growing up. He was making out with his girlfriend in the back of her car (which at the time she had only had for a week) and he put his hand on the back of the car somewhere between the back of the head rests and the rear windshield. I guess the opposite of a dash board? Anyways he put his hand in a semi-fresh load of jizz. And her answer was that her gum must have flew from her mouth and land back their and the sun melted it into a jizz like substance!
#50
Christmas Eve I went into the computer to find a photo for a last minute gift, an ornament with a family photo I did for her as a tradition every year. Instead found a love letter from some guy at the gym to her. Then kept looking and founds tons more. Over the next year , it just got worse and worse to a point you'd never believe. ​ Gosh, that was a fun Christmas for me and our young children.
#51
I had a boyfriend in high school who was a couple years older than me so no longer in school. I was 16 he was 18. We had been dating off and on for a year or two by this point. His younger sister is in my lit class. She comes into class and is a wreck, crying her eyes out. I ask what's wrong. He informs me her brother, who I am dating, and his girlfriend just suffered a miscarriage... I'm like, "his girlfriend?" Yep. Dating me and someone else. I'd love to say I learned my lesson with him but no. We continued to date like this until I was 18 and pregnant with my oldest son. Our son is 11 and has never met him. He married the other girl but it ended in divorce with 2 kids. His new wife has 2 kids of her own and 2 with him now.
MelonCloud 3 years ago
Don’t know why you were downvoted. It says she is happily married in a comment from OP herself. Happily married for 9 years. Her son now has a brother (don’t know step or half?) and an amazing (step)dad! It was indeed a shitshow as mentioned by “eff the haters” above, but luckily they are happy now!
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Was going to post a cute little note on his facebook for our 6month wedding anniversary. Accidentally caught him messaging his ex about how awful of a wife I am and how he missed her. Decided to dig further (stupid me) and saw that he had a tinder for a week while I was taking care of my mother as well as visiting backpage multiple times. And then I found a condom under our bed. My stupid a*s forgave him.
Guðrún Sveinsdóttir 3 years ago
Veru simular to my story. Sometimes I want to brake his neck for what he did to me. Not texting an ex but like 40 + women instead 😡
#53
Her phone got a text from her friend who was in the kitchen with her. So I assumed one of them sent it to me, opened her phone to see a penis. Her friend doesn't have a penis. Now I'm divorced and don't trust texts from friends.
Tenacious Squirrel 3 years ago
The first paragraph doesn’t make sense. Her phone got a text, this person assumed that meant it was for them? The second paragraph: whilst I can totally understand this person’s trust has been annihilated, they are going to have to change “not trusting texts from friends” because that’s not healthy.
Shawnna D 3 years ago
Her phone got a text under the name of the friend she was in the other room with so OP thought wife & friend were telling him something. Apparently wife had saved her side piece’s number under the name of her friend so OP didn’t know the texts were from another man.
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Dav Carro-Ripalda 3 years ago
Maybe was an unwanted penis pic. Did you ask her about it, or directly assumed it was a requested pic?
Queen fhk 3 years ago
Just because your wife got unsolicited d**k pic doesn't totally conclude she's cheating
Tara Moov 3 years ago
But deliberately hiding the photo sender's true identity under the name of a female friend shows the wife had something to hide, so "unsolicited" is pretty doubtful in this case.
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She fell asleep drunk with the hidden phone he gave her in her hand. Went to bed saw her holding some strange phone as it was not even close to what she had at the time, grabbed it saw all the messages and let the madness ensue!!!
What do you think ?
Nathaniel 3 years ago
Cheating makes no sense to me. I mean if you do not love your partner and want someone else, do the decent thing an break up with them!
wowbagger 3 years ago
Sometimes the cheater is a sadistic a**hole. They kind of want you to find out, eventually, after making you feel like you're going crazy for a while.
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birdhouse 3 years ago
I honestly had to stop reading these. I was getting physically nauseous. It is just so disgusting how some people can be.
AK to LV 3 years ago
Usually I click on the 'this post originally had XX images' but the posts were making me sadder and sadder. I cut my losses and checked these response postings instead.
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Lisa H 3 years ago
Somewhere around 10+ years ago, I was seeing this guy. We were just casual, taking it slow. Then one night, I meet up with him at a restaurant, but he texted me right before I left to find him in the parking lot. Okay, so I did. I get in his truck and he drives to the other side of the restaurant and points put his father and sister inside. He says he's not ready to introduce me to them, yet (we were dating for only a month). I say that's fine, let's just go somewhere else. He then says that the reason he's not ready to introduce me to them, yet, is because he was still with his girlfriend, he just "hasn't gotten around to breaking up" with her, yet. I just sat there, silently. I was the other woman. And he waited a month to tell me. Granted, a month isn't long enough to get to know someone well, but it is long enough to develop some real feelings toward someone. That's where I was at. After that night, though, I ghosted him. I wanted to tell her, but had no clue who she was.
FABULOUS1 3 years ago
My ex wife who I was with for 16 years cheated on me more times than I can even remember at this point. Yes, I kept allowing her to come back. She had rented an apartment with another women who was also married. I remember this ladies friends messaging me and telling me that I am being selfish because they were meant to be together. I also remember there being an earthquake one time when I was on the phone with her and just saying that she had to go and never calling me to check on me. I knew at that point it was over. But I did let her comeback one last time mostly because she needed a place to go and begged me to give it one more try. This time I gave her the apartment and left never looking back. She ended up marrying her nieces 19 year old step sister and they both stalked me together for a very long time. Her new wife cheated on her a lot mostly with men and they both gotten in to heavy drugs together. Next week is my 8 year anniversary with my new wife and couldnt be happier.
AK to LV 3 years ago
I'm glad you found someone to be happy with. Here's to wishing you many more years together🎉🎉
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GenericPanda09 3 years ago
I have two ex wives. 1st one cheated on me with a doc colleague of hers who was also involved in my cancer treatment at the time...2nd one worked for me at first but then changed direction in her career so was working somewhere else when I found out that a mutual colleague of ours had been cheating with her for some time...because a team I'd tasked with upgrading our filtering software and doing a sweep for things like nudes, erotica, etc. on company equipment found that for months this guy and my missus had been messaging each other on company email system in italian to avoid it getting flagged by the system - the new software scanned for multiple languages so picked it up. She got divorced, he got sacked, I moved on...but that one really hurt for a long time because it ended up being so public and embarrassing because within 5 minutes of office gossip all my staff and colleagues knew exactly what they'd been writing and doing to each other behind my back.
AK to LV 3 years ago
I'm so sorry that happened to you. People can really suck sometimes!
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Nona Bear 3 years ago
I found out my partner (m36) of 6 yrs was cheating as he forgot that his phone was in my name & I got a notification that he had gone over his text limit, 1500 texts/calls to his new colleague who I knew he had had a crush on at school. I download the itemised bill to a spreadsheet, highlighted her number, emailed it to him & told him I would speak to him when I got home from work. First thing I said to him when I got home was "when you moving out". 6m later she was pregnant, they named the child my family nickname.
Isa 3 years ago
One thing that I'm sure about it is that I will never ever going to be cheated...I got so fed up about how many lies people find to have side dishes affairs that I have decided to not get in a relationship no more. 13 years single, sleeping like a baby knowing that no one is lying or cheating on me. No more sleepless nights, no more heartbreaking, no more feeling like s**t...I'm single and definitely not ready to mingle.
Paul Rabit 3 years ago
So many Christmas Eve cheaters! I mean it’s horrible enough to cheat, but talk about an extra brand of stupid to boot!
RandomFrog 3 years ago
Ok so idk if this really counts as cheating but: my gf was in a poly relationship with a few other girls, which i hadn’t known prior to dating. She asked me if I wanted to date the other girls too and we can be all dating and (you know I’m not super sure how poly works so sorry if this is wrong at all) I said no I’m fine just dating you, and ur good to be poly I jsut want to know who the other girls your dating are. So she told me she was dating three people and during our relationship she broke up with one. Well towards the end of the relationship she let it slip about a fourth “gf”. She realized what she had said and was like oh no sorry I forgot to tell you about her. Idk I jsut felt like she wasn’t a REAL gf so I shouldn’t tell you about her. So I was kinda Sussed out abt that and I’m pretty sure that she was cheating in some way and playing it off as another gf…
Tigerpacingthecage 3 years ago
If you lack something in your current relationship (sex, communication, intimacy - whatever) I think you owe it to your partner to tell them about your needs so you have a chance to work on it, compromise or maybe make some type of agreement like an open relationship etc - TOGETHER. If you can't come to an agreement you have a chance to do a mutual break up and just agree that you have different needs. Its totally ok to not want the same things in life and come to terms with that. It's the whole going behind your partners back that bothers me. At least have the decency to discuss it with your partner.
AK to LV 3 years ago
In an ideal world, that's what would happen. Unfortunately, in the real world, people can be idiots. Some cheat just for the thrill of getting away something.
Load More Replies... Nathaniel 3 years ago
Cheating makes no sense to me. I mean if you do not love your partner and want someone else, do the decent thing an break up with them!
wowbagger 3 years ago
Sometimes the cheater is a sadistic a**hole. They kind of want you to find out, eventually, after making you feel like you're going crazy for a while.
Load More Replies... birdhouse 3 years ago
I honestly had to stop reading these. I was getting physically nauseous. It is just so disgusting how some people can be.
AK to LV 3 years ago
Usually I click on the 'this post originally had XX images' but the posts were making me sadder and sadder. I cut my losses and checked these response postings instead.
Load More Replies... Lisa H 3 years ago
Somewhere around 10+ years ago, I was seeing this guy. We were just casual, taking it slow. Then one night, I meet up with him at a restaurant, but he texted me right before I left to find him in the parking lot. Okay, so I did. I get in his truck and he drives to the other side of the restaurant and points put his father and sister inside. He says he's not ready to introduce me to them, yet (we were dating for only a month). I say that's fine, let's just go somewhere else. He then says that the reason he's not ready to introduce me to them, yet, is because he was still with his girlfriend, he just "hasn't gotten around to breaking up" with her, yet. I just sat there, silently. I was the other woman. And he waited a month to tell me. Granted, a month isn't long enough to get to know someone well, but it is long enough to develop some real feelings toward someone. That's where I was at. After that night, though, I ghosted him. I wanted to tell her, but had no clue who she was.
FABULOUS1 3 years ago
My ex wife who I was with for 16 years cheated on me more times than I can even remember at this point. Yes, I kept allowing her to come back. She had rented an apartment with another women who was also married. I remember this ladies friends messaging me and telling me that I am being selfish because they were meant to be together. I also remember there being an earthquake one time when I was on the phone with her and just saying that she had to go and never calling me to check on me. I knew at that point it was over. But I did let her comeback one last time mostly because she needed a place to go and begged me to give it one more try. This time I gave her the apartment and left never looking back. She ended up marrying her nieces 19 year old step sister and they both stalked me together for a very long time. Her new wife cheated on her a lot mostly with men and they both gotten in to heavy drugs together. Next week is my 8 year anniversary with my new wife and couldnt be happier.
AK to LV 3 years ago
I'm glad you found someone to be happy with. Here's to wishing you many more years together🎉🎉
Load More Replies... GenericPanda09 3 years ago
I have two ex wives. 1st one cheated on me with a doc colleague of hers who was also involved in my cancer treatment at the time...2nd one worked for me at first but then changed direction in her career so was working somewhere else when I found out that a mutual colleague of ours had been cheating with her for some time...because a team I'd tasked with upgrading our filtering software and doing a sweep for things like nudes, erotica, etc. on company equipment found that for months this guy and my missus had been messaging each other on company email system in italian to avoid it getting flagged by the system - the new software scanned for multiple languages so picked it up. She got divorced, he got sacked, I moved on...but that one really hurt for a long time because it ended up being so public and embarrassing because within 5 minutes of office gossip all my staff and colleagues knew exactly what they'd been writing and doing to each other behind my back.
AK to LV 3 years ago
I'm so sorry that happened to you. People can really suck sometimes!
Load More Replies... Nona Bear 3 years ago
I found out my partner (m36) of 6 yrs was cheating as he forgot that his phone was in my name & I got a notification that he had gone over his text limit, 1500 texts/calls to his new colleague who I knew he had had a crush on at school. I download the itemised bill to a spreadsheet, highlighted her number, emailed it to him & told him I would speak to him when I got home from work. First thing I said to him when I got home was "when you moving out". 6m later she was pregnant, they named the child my family nickname.
Isa 3 years ago
One thing that I'm sure about it is that I will never ever going to be cheated...I got so fed up about how many lies people find to have side dishes affairs that I have decided to not get in a relationship no more. 13 years single, sleeping like a baby knowing that no one is lying or cheating on me. No more sleepless nights, no more heartbreaking, no more feeling like s**t...I'm single and definitely not ready to mingle.
Paul Rabit 3 years ago
So many Christmas Eve cheaters! I mean it’s horrible enough to cheat, but talk about an extra brand of stupid to boot!
RandomFrog 3 years ago
Ok so idk if this really counts as cheating but: my gf was in a poly relationship with a few other girls, which i hadn’t known prior to dating. She asked me if I wanted to date the other girls too and we can be all dating and (you know I’m not super sure how poly works so sorry if this is wrong at all) I said no I’m fine just dating you, and ur good to be poly I jsut want to know who the other girls your dating are. So she told me she was dating three people and during our relationship she broke up with one. Well towards the end of the relationship she let it slip about a fourth “gf”. She realized what she had said and was like oh no sorry I forgot to tell you about her. Idk I jsut felt like she wasn’t a REAL gf so I shouldn’t tell you about her. So I was kinda Sussed out abt that and I’m pretty sure that she was cheating in some way and playing it off as another gf…
Tigerpacingthecage 3 years ago
If you lack something in your current relationship (sex, communication, intimacy - whatever) I think you owe it to your partner to tell them about your needs so you have a chance to work on it, compromise or maybe make some type of agreement like an open relationship etc - TOGETHER. If you can't come to an agreement you have a chance to do a mutual break up and just agree that you have different needs. Its totally ok to not want the same things in life and come to terms with that. It's the whole going behind your partners back that bothers me. At least have the decency to discuss it with your partner.
AK to LV 3 years ago
In an ideal world, that's what would happen. Unfortunately, in the real world, people can be idiots. Some cheat just for the thrill of getting away something.
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