“Taking Cheerful Selfies In Inappropriate Places”: 30 Major Travel Mistakes Tourists Still Make
When traveling in a new country, it’s important to have a good time and learn or experience something new; but it’s even more important to be respectful of the place and the people you’re visiting.
Failing to do so can, in the best case scenario, make you look foolish, and in the worst one, cause serious injuries or even death – there have been one too many stories in places like Iceland of people underestimating the power of Mother Nature or ignoring the safety signs provided.
Members of Reddit’s ‘Travel’ community recently discussed the biggest “no nos” tourists have ever encountered—or even engaged in themselves—in a thread started by the user ‘danielgmal’. Their question encouraged quite a few netizens to share their stories, so if you’re interested in reading them, wait no longer and scroll down to find them on the list below, where you will also find Bored Panda’s interview with the OP themselves, who agreed to discuss the whats and whys behind the question.

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TW: Holocaust / Concentration Camp
Years ago, I was in Auschwitz KZ.
It's hard to describe how particular this place is. It's not a nice place. Entering the gas chambers where so many people were murdered feels solemn. Seeing clear clawing marks at walls is disturbing.
When you enter, a somewhat simple yet clear information sign is translated in over 25 languages. It's direct: you're about to enter a small space where a ton of people were murdered for who they were. We ask you to respect this place. Do not run around, do not laugh, do not play games and avoid talking.
I took a deep breath and entered. My brain quickly making all sorts of connections with my family history as the hair on my neck perked up from how eerie the place is. How instantly terrible I felt on this desecrated ground. I was immediately physically unwell.
About two hot seconds later a gentleman struts in wielding a selfie stick cell phone on some Skype call with some family members was speaking very loudly, his high pitched voice resonating loudly on the walls as he obnoxiously yapped on in mandarin even throwing in a few laughs about who knows what. He was touching the walls and his partner, also with a selfie stick, was taking selfies with him.
Murder suddenly made a tiny bit of sense in my mind.
I never hated anyone so much in such a short amount of time.
If you visit a KZ. Be respectful.
This needs to be way higher up the list. Some people just absolutely have no respect.
Having been in prison, which I fully deserved, makes this worse. Prison was very difficult for me, but for the most part, our physical and human needs were met. We were provided enough food. It wasn't necessarily good food, but it kept us alive. Those of us who were healthy were expected to have a job, which paid peanuts, but it was nothing to the labor demanded by these innocent victims, and shifts ended at eight hours. We were mostly allowed free movement throughout the day, and were able to hang with friends, recreate. Rather than murdering our relatives, the powers that be allowed them to call, visit, and write. Most of us were given most basic health care, and not some evil man injecting us with whatever he wanted. Many of us were given operations or other essential medical care to keep us alive. There were many staff members who treated us unfairly, but they were allowed to shoot us. We were allowed books, basic education, d**g rehab.... There were many mistakes, and some of the things that I saw there was evil, but most of us had the opportunity to build at least some kind of positive life there. Most of us who didn't receive life went home again. Many times when I was having difficulty, I would think of the Holocaust victims, and what they suffered for no reason whatsoever. It always made my situation so much more bearable. If I were to see someone disrespecting the victims' suffering as these idiots do, well, I might just end up in prison again.
Staff was NOT allowed to shoot us!
Load More Replies...People should have some self-awareness. You don't need to visit in places like this if you are not able to show respect for the place, history or fellow people.
Having visited Auschwitz-Birkenau myself it's quite a sobering experience. The guide who led the tour was excellent. Walking through that infamous gate at the start of the tour and walking through the remaining gas chamber is.... yeah. At Birkenau (aka Aucshwitz II) when you see the rails that brought over a million people to the place where they were murdered then walk through some of the barracks where they stacked the prisoners like cord wood.... Having Polish ancestry on one side of the family I always said my great grandparents were lucky and emigrated to the US right before WW I sparing my family from the horrors of the Holocaust. However while in Krakow something hit me like a ton of bricks. Did my great grandparents have siblings who remained in Poland and met their end in one of the camps? While my family isn't Jewish we know the the Germans hated the Poles only slightly less than the Jews. If i saw someone taking a selfie like that it wouldn't have ended well.
this reminds me of when I was stationed in Hawaii at the Pearl Harbor memorial. People thinking it was a joke. Not as big as auschwitz but similar idea.
If you’re in Hawaii (or really anywhere with coral reefs for that matter) for the love of god, don’t touch the coral! (Also seek out reef safe sunscreen if possible).
Also:PICK UP UR TRASH PEOPLE it ruins the beach and makes you look like an a*s :(
Yes coral is a live creature and can feel when you touch it, respect the coral
Me too! I love going to aquariums all the time unless I have to go through walkways under a large tank . I love to watch underwater documentaries about colorful fish and reefs but any step farther and my anxiety kicks in just watching it on TV.
Load More Replies...Not "if possible" GET. REEF SAFE. SUNSCREEN. there is no excuse to not do so
Look but don’t touch is something a three year old can understand. Sadly, it seems lost on a lot of adults
People who get to a scenic viewpoint or landmark with a narrow/small angle for the photo everyone wants, then proceeds to do a full on model shoot with dozens of poses and retakes for the Instagram. Most of the time I don't even want a selfie, just the viewpoint without a teenage girl in it.
Because they're selfish, self-centered, entitled, and should be stuffed in a bottle and thrown into the Gulf Stream.
Load More Replies...I've seen so many people at tourist sights and at concerts, who spend their whole time taking photos and videos. Enjoy the damn experience for what it is - you can always watch a recording of the concert on the web later, or look up a thousand photos better than the crappy ones on your phone.
One of my favorite tour guides was in Montenegro. She said, "This is not America. There are no fences to keep you safe. The edges of the cliff are crumbling. If you get too close, you will fall and die. We will be sad, but we will not be responsible. Be careful."
In a recent interview with Bored Panda, the OP, ‘danielgmal’, revealed that it was their personal experience while traveling that inspired them to ask this particular question. “A couple of years ago—pre-pandemic and pre-Brexit—I was messing around on Skyscanner looking at flights. I loved travel, and thought about it a lot, but I very rarely actually did it,” they recalled.
“So when I saw a flight to Faro, Portugal that was cheaper than a coach within my own city, I impulsively booked it. That was the first trip in what ended up being an unbroken three year chain of monthly trips to different countries.”
1. Behaving in a way that would be unacceptable in your home country/culture. For instance, I've seen way too many woman going to temples in Bali, Cambodia & India in bikinis or very scantily clad. You would never go to a church in your hometown dressed that way. And way too many guys behaving obnoxiously with local women when they well know they won't be able to get away with even a fraction of that bad behavior back home.
2. Being more interested in taking selfies or instagram videos than actually seeing and experiencing the place you're in.
3. Disrespecting the local culture.
Only bogans go to Bali/Indonesia, and they behave exactly the same there as they do here at home.
Load More Replies...I wonder if part of the problem is that Western people presume that if it looks "pagan," (i.e., not Abrahamic or not modern) then it's an extinct religion (like Aztec, or ancient Egyptian or ancient Greek), and also if people aren't currently practicing the religion (like presuming that because Japanese don't believe the emperor is a god, that they don't really care about Shinto), then they don't care about the solemnity of a place.
Don't get why you got downvoted, it's a fact that people don't respect pagan religions (or any other religion than Christian, Muslim, and Jew). Look at how pagan people on the internet get mocked at or straight up bullied. I'm Hellenistic myself and I basically never tell that because of instant jokes of mockeries of people.
Load More Replies...It's like how local police in Spring Break tourist beaches have to keep nagging college kids to not flash their boobies or moon passersby. If that's not acceptable where you live, why would you think it's acceptable elsewhere just because you happen to be on a school break. (No, this isn't about "seeing a nipple", it's the way they do it).
This may sound controversial but Some local cultures deserve no respect. Some cultures are good some are evil. If I just as step in a middle eastern country or one that ends with stan... I literally might get jailed deported or outright killed... Just for the way I think. Yeh...that Is also why the lgbt+ don't go to certain places.
Well I agree. I feel like the very act of going and giving them your money is enough of an endorsement that you should respect the local customs well you're there.
Load More Replies...Yeah, everyone talking about temples and religion, because it certainly happens, but let's not forget the way some tourists (always from the same 3 or 4 countries) treat some holiday destinations as their particular Bullingdon club.
I have really been into taking less and less pictures and being more in the moment. It feels amazing!
Have some respect for religion. And it doesn’t matter whether it’s yours or someone else’s. If you wouldn’t do it at home, don’t do it abroad
Why? All of them are unhinged and based on some irrational b******t. if you show me a singular rational religion maybe then i will follow that advice.
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When I was 16 my family went on our first and only Intl holiday, to Hawaii from Australia.
I distinctly remember a Japanese family being kicked out of the Pearl Harbor Memorial because they would NOT stop taking photo's, laughing and joking around loudly.
I still can't f*****g believe that. It's been over two decades and it still is upsetting. Disrespecting a literal war grave, and coming from the nation that literally caused it... It's like a Saudi doing that at Ground Zero, or an American doing the same at the Peace Museum in Hiroshima. It is absolutely beyond f****d up.
i mention this in the topic above about auschwitz. I was in the Navy stationed in Hawaii. I lived on Ford Island (where the Arizona was docked). Saw it every day.
Sad to say, I'm pretty sure there are Americans behave like this in Hiroshima and Nagasaki. For this I am truly sorry.
There definitely are, I used to work at the memorial museum I know.
Load More Replies...I experienced exactly this when I went about 15 years ago. The docents--who were veterans of the Pearl Harbor attack--were gritting their teeth.
I'm absolutely dumbfounded that a Japanese family would do that anywhere. It may be a stereotype but Japanese aren't generally known for loud, boisterous, rude behavior in public.
As someone who loves Japan and really respects the culture wth man, that's is so disgusting and disrespectful, I know Japan as one of thr most respectful countries in thr world so this is sad to read with my own eyes, I want to go to Japan one day and just nerd out going to cafes and anime merch stores and I never thought in my life the people there would act this way
Well, there are a$$holes everywhere unfortunately, but you can't judge an entire country based on a few jerks.
Load More Replies...If they were talking in Japanese, there is no way of knowing what they were joking about - unless you speak the language. Perhaps they were just having too much fun taking family pictures. But yes, generally speaking, tourists tend to behave irreverently in places that commemorate a tragedy that is not theirs, be it out of ignorance, indifference or immaturity. I do wonder why they visit those sights in the first place, though.
And NOW can you understand why a scantily clad white girl offends some temple officials?
The redditor shared that what started as one trip to Portugal turned into an accidental odyssey across Europe, which they continued once the pandemic ended.
“As a result, I've really gotten to know the continent of Europe and I've noticed that you can travel through several countries in a matter of hours and find traditions, cultures, and even laws totally change just in a matter of a few miles across a border.”
Dudes going to poor countries acting like they're god's gift towards local women. Super cringe :/.
That is cringe anywhere in the world even their own country
No, women do not do this. Sorry bud but your "both sides are bad" b******t won't work here. There is an entire network of males who specifically go to poor countries just to try to poach/buy women to bring back to their rich country and trap them into a life of servitude and sex slavery. Look up "Passport Bros."
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“WHY DON’T YOU ACCEPT DOLLARS?!” I’ve heard this in Italy, England, and Japan.
*Laughs in Scottish pounds* Legal all over UK, accepted nowhere outside of Scotland. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scottish_pound
One of the fun parts of travelling for me (before the ye old days of Covid and the economy) was always getting to look at different coins from different countries. There was something novel about it for me.
I still get change from other countries occasionally. I love to look at them and imagine the travels
Load More Replies...We don't want your colourful printed paper. We print colourful paper ourselves. 😁👍
Last time I was in London, I made sure to exchange for plenty of pounds, and lo and behold, half the shops in the Tourist areas take US Dollars and have signs saying as much and dual prices. Even with their slight markup for dollars, it was a better rate than the official exchange places after their fees.
That's fine, as long as it's not expected that all shops will accept them.
Load More Replies...This ranks right up there with Americans who get upset with people in foreign countries not speaking English. Like you travelled to another country, for the purpose of not being in America and you're upset that they don't speak English?!! I literally heard a person in Mexico get upset and say "why don't they learn English?" Lady, *YOU'RE* in Mexico why don't you speak Spanish?!
I was in Japan once, and this 20 something looking white lady in a crop top and booty shorts tried to pay with American money at a restaurant, she yelled as loud as she could at the cashier, “WHY WON’T YOU TAKE NORMAL MONEY?!” And then proceeded to call this poor guy a slur that I will not say
Try Okinawa, Japan. It is so common for businesses there to accept American money that ones that don't accept it put a sign in their window to notify customers.
Taking cheerful selfies in inappropriate places (saw this happening in Hiroshima Peace Memorial Park for instance)
Generally bad camera etiquette (shoving your camera in local people's faces, posing tastelessly in some bad imitation of "local" fashion based more on stereotypes than reality, taking up too much time on a photoshoot and blocking other people's way, etc).
I'm Japanese, and you will be surprised the amount of people that take selfies in Hiroshima peace memorial park
If they're from Nanking, China, or related to Korean "comfort girls," maybe they're making a point.
Load More Replies...Selfies shoukd be forbidden in these kind of places, and selfie sticks even more.
If nat a cheerful selfie, how about a selfie fraught with self-loathing?
“So that’s why I asked the question,” the OP continued, “I wanted to know about the times people had come across these differences—big and small—because I think it's interesting to put a spotlight on how different customs and expectations are throughout the world.
“I also know there's a lot of anti-tourist sentiment across Europe and elsewhere and I wanted to provoke a conversation about being a responsible and conscientious tourist, mindful of ‘rules’. Often there really are clear social rules, both spoken and unspoken, and this was a chance to emphasize them.”
Being a loud English speaker in a non-English speaking country assuming/forgetting others can understand you perfectly.
Edit: or just being a loud tourist in general. 🤫.
Not being loud in public is a tricky one, because different cultures have very different ideas of what "loud" is. I'm German and people here are rather quiet in public transport. Often, tourists or immigrants from different cultures don't realize that they're a lot louder than what people are used to. And then I visited Japan and when I was takling to my husband in a metro, I realized that we were drawing attention, because we were a lot louder than what is normal there, while I was sure that I used my "inside voice". Lesson learned!
In most European countries Americans have a bad rep for being really loud. Where I'm from (Scotland) it's always funny to see people's reactions when Americans enter a cafe or restaurant because almost everyone will groan or roll their eyes expecting them to be loud and obnoxious/entitled and will be genuinely shocked if they aren't!
Load More Replies...If... I... speak... slowly... and... loudly... you... will... automatically... understand... me.
Or saying rude things assuming people around you don't know a lick of your language. It's always interesting to hear what people say when they don't realize I know Spanish.
Loud and slow makes any language comprehensible
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Europeans: please stop wandering into our deserts and dying from severe lack of preparation and research.
It’s a massive bummer, because we love that you’re fascinated by the American Southwest and we want you to have a safe time. The information is readily available, so please educate yourselves before coming here.
Thank you :).
To add: Germans, stop going swimming in lakes and creeks in north qld, australia. they are full of crocs and you will be eaten. Yes this is a thing that happens regularly enough that signs in german to not go swimming have been erected near most bodies of water.
If you go wandering into death valley with half a tank of gas and a 16oz bottle of water, i think everyone should let natural selection take its course.
The French police once stopped à family from attempting to climb Mont-Blanc (4807 m, Europe's tallest mountain). They were wearing sandals, had a 4 year old in flip-flops, and à baby in a back carrier.
Same goes for visitors to Australia. The country is huge and the population is mostly confined to the coastal fringes. We have deserts that are bigger than the entire UK, and you will be pretty much the only person in them for hundreds of kilometres. Don't expect it to be like a walk in the Black Forest
This happens so much in Australia as well - though not as much lately. We do not pay taxes & emergency services levies for taxpayers to fund the rescue of reckless tourists. And most of our emergency services are volunteers who certainly should not be putting their lives on the line for arrogant tourists who don't bother researching where they are going and preparing for it.
I could be wrong, but I think people expect Australia to be a bit more "rugged" and harsh. Nobody expects to go on a little hike in California and die from heat exhaustion.
Load More Replies...us citizen here...i don't think that much...if ever....the germans are prepared when they come to the national parks out west...very prepared...and many other europeans, like the italians, stay off the trails and prefer their luxury tour buses...the people getting lost in the dessert or snowy mountains that i see on the news all the time are americans...regular american folk...
But also applies to visitors to central Europe at the moment too. It's not a "heat wave" as it's been going on for weeks now. Lot's of people getting their brain overheated and either falling off cliff paths or making poor judgements leading to dying. https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/mad_dogs_and_Englishmen
Don't drink alcoholic beverages at the beach until you're acclimated to the local temperature. I used to have students from the UK & France attending a course I taught in FL. No matter the warnings given we'd end up with people in hospital due to dehydration or heat exhaustion. Severe sunburn too.
People in National Parks treating animals like they're theme park attractions. It's wild seeing how many people get out of their cars to take pictures of bears.
Also people who (for some weird reason) think places like Yosemite and Yellowstone are warm weather places. Those places have snow storms in the middle of may. It's kind of humorous seeing tourists show up in summer clothes to find it non stop snowing. Neither of these places (especially Yellowstone) ever get "warm.".
Same here in Australia. In a lot of places, like where I am, it gets really cold in winter (and a lot of places aren't well heated)! A friend from the US came to visit in winter and only brought summer clothes. People are often shocked when they find out that there are ski resorts in Australia!
too many people think the climate of far-north qld is carried across the entire country.
Load More Replies...Dear tourists, go ahead and pet the fluffy curly cows or the big pussycats with the funny hairstyles. 🤫
Not true regarding Yosemite that it's cold year-round. I hiked the Panorama trail in shorts and a t-shirt and was just fine. Again, do your research. What you do have to do is be clear of ANY ANIMALS you may come across. We ran into a baby bear trying to get to the water. I turned to a friend and told her we needed to get out of the area before Mama bear comes looking for her cub. A guy turned around and was shocked; thinking it was a full-grown bear. I'm a city dweller and knew that was not a full-grown bear. Same with a family of deer. If the buck is with them, stay clear.
i swear i saw a list once of of "dumbest questions/requests tourists have made" and one of the m was a woman asking when the park would "parade the animals through" as seeing them was their sole reason for coming. like, lady, they wild animals. im not going near them. this is not the circus
There was a guy awhile back (though I'm pretty sure he was actually american) that kicked a bison. Drunk apparently. I have seen bison, and I have been drunk. There is not enough alcohol in this world to make want to kick one of those. They are HUGE and have horns. I just don't understand how could anyone actually think that's a good idea???
I lived and worked in Yellowstone for several years. It seems that tourist IQ's drop by about 50 points when they drive through the gates. I could post 6 pages about the things I saw and heard, without breaking a sweat. SMH. I have a picture of a sedan pulled up about 3 feet from a grizzly that was by the road, with the back windows down so the kids could lean out and see the bear better. Tip of the iceberg.
‘Danielgmal’ admitted being quite taken aback by the number of responses their post received and how many differences there are, despite people often saying that there’s generally more that unites us than divides us.
“It’s interesting, for example, to see the American confusion towards how seriously Italians take their food, as they will literally physically stop you from seasoning your food until you've tasted it, whereas Americans will often douse it in sauce and cheese as a reflex. For the Americans the personal liberty seems more important, and for the Italians respecting the work the chef put in takes precedence. Very different takes, but no one is ‘wrong’.”
Don’t take photos of locals without permission ESPECIALLY children. I see it a lot in African countries and it bothers me a lot.
It doesn't matter where you are - travelling or in your home town - You just don't take photos of people without their permission and absolutely not children.
If you're in a public place, you have no expectation of privacy, which is why most public places are absolutely littered with surveillance cameras. You can dislike it all you like, but it's like going out in public and complaining that someone is looking at you.
Load More Replies...The most famous photograph in the world is a photograph of a local child taken without permission.
Im a Caucasian mom with three gorgeous (adopted) children: 2 girls and 1 boy! If I had a dollar for any time someone wanted a photo of my children!!!!! Sometimes they would ask but many times they just very obviously took a photo and I would have to object and request the photo be deleted!!!!! So incredibly Rude and insensitive!!!! Don't even GET me started on the litany of inappropriate questions or comments!!! How much??? I thought they kept the boys! Etc.
Nepal: tourists filming a funeral procession. It wasn't even a "known" person's funeral, just some regular funeral and tourists were filming the grievers like they were a zoo exhibit. Why would you even want to do that? Go back through your vacation photos to look at a funeral? It's as bizarre as it is utterly tactless.
They might not have understood what it was. Once, in London, I saw a group of Japanese tourists filming a public toilet. I doubt they knew that's what it was.
They might have wanted to show their family how different it was. I've taken pictures of public restrooms in many places
Load More Replies...I wonder if they understood what was happening. "Oh, look! Some sort of religious ceremony!" I mean, it'd be kinda tacky-feeling if tourists were videotaping stations of the cross or a Palm-Sunday procession, but not nearly as rude or callous as filming a funeral procession.
Expecting waiters in France to check in on you every five minutes during your meal. Restaurants are not like in America. The waiter will come when they see that your plate is empty or if you've stopped touching your food for a while. And waiters let you take your time to order food, so they give you the menu with all the dishes and come back a while after. To signal that you've made your choice, you close the menu and put it on the side of your table.
It's much more relaxing and allows you to enjoy your food without the constant pressure of a waiter who only want to get the table free and usher in the next tip-paying doofus.
Meh. My restaurant WANTS me to just cycle through guests, but because I need my tips I don't do that. Sometimes when it's absolutely slammed you kinda have to with some guests, but it's all played by ear. I'd much rather have people enjoy their time with us than feel rushed.
Load More Replies...I once visited Los Angeles and we had dinner in a restaurant there. The waiter drove me crazy with his, to me, incessant asking how we were doing. Just let me eat in peace, will you? My dinner-companion noticed and explained that waiters rely on tips and that his asking so often probably had to do with that.
American here and I enjoyed my meals when traveling in Europe than I have in the U.S. And yes, I have felt rushed in the U.S. when a restaurant is busy.
I think it's all about what you expect a nice restaurant experience to feel like. I (German) prefer the "European way" of service, because constant inquiries ("is everything okay/do you need something/more water/ refill/...") come across as intrusive, they interrupt my meal and conversation, and would make me feel harried. Plus the servers come across as needy, pushy , and grovelling. If I was used to it, though, the "Euro style" service might make me feel neglected, disrespected, and make the waiters seem arrogant.
Load More Replies...In the Netherlands it's customary for wait staff to leave you alone until you close your menu and put it down, thus signalling you're ready to order
I love French supermarkets for this reason. Only time that I had someone talk to me was exchanging greetings and goodbyes with the cashier.
I hate shops where the salesman jumps on you as soon as you enter and bombards you with questions! Let me look and choose in peace! If I need information, I'll come and find you....
Load More Replies...Yes. But I also had a waitress not come to my table for 45 minutes, asked her for another drink, and still didn't see her after another 45 minutes. The same waitress that I specifically asked for tap water and tried to give me expensive bottled water. When I decided I wanted to leave, the manager noted a couple upcharges on my bill that I didn't request... sneaking in upcharges is also not like in America - waitstaff here will try to upsell, but not just add it to the bill.
The OP admitted being no stranger to tourist “no nos” themselves, as they have made themselves or others rather uncomfortable with certain poor choices.
“In Southern Africa, it was very clear that I misjudged the mood by appearing in my shorts in front of my employers while walking to the bathroom early in the morning. They thought I was in my underwear and they had to explain that it wasn't, in their view, modest or proper and our relationship never recovered,” the redditor shared, adding that to some extent, they posed the question on the subreddit looking for an alternative way to discover these sort of things instead of having to learn it the hard way.
Posing and imitating Buddha in temples in Thailand- so offensive and tacky.
Meh. If you're being obnoxious or obviously disrespectful in general, definitely. If not, Buddha would just laugh and welcome you.
This, 100% accurate. The Buddha is a very humble being and the fact that you are even imitating him/or the Laughing Buddha if you're thinking of the big belly one would be indearing.
Load More Replies...Everyone should imitate Buddha, but that takes much more than just posing.
Mocking anyone's religion just because you don't believe it is rude and offensive.
Maybe Buddhists should stand around on posts with their arms out? No! There's someone going to pull out a box of nails. Better not risk trying to make the point.
I saw it happen in Rome. Don't know if they were Buddhist, they were far eastern, but there they were taking pictures of eachother, in that pose, in front of the statue. I wasn't impressed, never mind whose religion, mimicking someone being tortured/executed did not sit well with me
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This isn’t cultural but leave your f*****g drone at home.
Oh god, yes! When I went to Iceland a few years ago there were drones flying over every effing waterfall. It was almost impossible to take a picture of a waterfall without a drone in it.
I just went to Iceland recently and it seems they have banned drones near waterfalls and such.
Load More Replies...I hate drones! Their annoying buzz just makes me want to reach for the biggest fly swat and bat them out of the sky.
Lake Como is a beautiful place. It's also very close to a major airport, and part of the lake itself is reserved as landing spot for hydroplanes and emergency aircraft. Lake Como attracts a lot of tourists; many of them fly drones; most of them don't know insurance and a license is required; some of them are also complete idiots and fly their drones in forbidden areas. Then they act shocked when they find out the fine for flying an unlicensed drone in a forbidden area amounts to over €33000, or roughly $36k, impounding of the drone and severe legal consequences.
Flying a drone in America's capital region following 9-11 can land you hard prison time.
Load More Replies...Visited Iceland a couple of months ago. Most big sights have signs forbidding drones. A great thing. A wonderful peaceful place without drone noise. But at almost every major site there was this one person who thought rules don't apply to him (it was mostly a he). In moments like that I'd really love to shoot that drone out of the sky.
I'm from Québec. Mistake #1 from tourists is thinking we don't speak/understand English. lol Number of times I heard idiotic comments about the French accent here is mind-blowing. We do understand talkshitting us. And yes, we speak differently but yes, it is still French.
Another good one. I went to Costa Rica and a bunch of European girls were mad at the beach because everyone stared at them! They decided it was totally okay to go topless on the public beach. Jeeezz READ THE ROOM. If you see no local women topless, don't! And no, they don't stare because they are "all perverts". They stare because they don't understand why you are topless in an area where it is illegal to do so!
Don't assume the social values are the same as in your home country just because foreigners make up the majority of the people around you. This applies to Bali, Dubai and anywhere touristy!
There is a weird snobbery amongst French people about the Quebecois accent, and odd ly in reverse as well. I recall speaking my Anglo--accented French to a French waiter in a French restaurant in Montreal, whose demeanour totally changed once he'd realised I was not local but actually lived in France (it came up because of the wine list, some of the areas mentioned being not far from my home). Like, OK, I'm going to drop the Snooty French Waiter persona now, that I only put on because Americans expect it as part of the experience.
Frenchman to Quebecquois: You can't speak French. Quebecquois: Neither can you.
Load More Replies...After moving to Montreal it's amazing how much people talk s**t about themselves here. Absolutely without mercy. And yes, if you're in a city in Quebec, assume everyone UNDERSTANDS English, but they may choose not to speak it to you. And the different sounding French is not a unique issue. An American may have trouble understanding a person from Northern Ireland or Scotland or London depending on the severity of the accent. Same as a person from Paris may have a hard time understanding a Hatian, Quebecer, or Cajun.
My mom lived in Tunisia for 10 years. One year, her aunt (75yo) came and we went to the beach. That's when I saw the lady just putting her top aside... 5m from the road... on a public beach... on a muslim country ! We asked her to put it back. Bikinis and all were of course accepted but not just the lower piece ! She talked back "if it bothers them, they just have to look elsewhere" so we told her she was in *their* country and they didn't have to look elsewhere in *their* home. She finally obeyed.
It's shittalking not the other way around nit being a jerk just informing ya 😄
if you're going to correct someone's English, then try not to misspell "not".
Load More Replies...Canada is officially a bilingual country. If you assume all French speaking people don’t speak English, and vice versa, and get called out for shittalking, that’s on you
In the netizen’s eyes, part of being a responsible tourist is knowing what is expected of you as a guest in someone else's home country. But it can also be a matter of safety: “If, for example, you went to Morocco and didn't know homosexuality is illegal, you could get in a difficult position. So it's practical too,” they said.
“In Germany, you can be naked in the public parks and many beaches, but I wouldn't recommend trying that in Malta where nudism isn't legal.”
If you are visiting French gothic cathedrals, take off your damn baseball hat. Take off any hat in a house of worship. It infuriates the locals when we treat their churches like a tourist trap.
But women are supposed to have their head covered, or they were in my youth.
It depends on the location and religion I think. In the West, taking off your hat is always respectful.
Load More Replies...I'm an atheist and have been for as long as I can remember. I always take my hat off before entering a church... and have done for as long as I can remember.
Just be respectful, period. Churches, temples, synagogues, mosques, doesn’t matter
Depends. Not in a catholic church, especially for men. Don't know about headscarves, I mean nuns wear them.
Load More Replies...I had a boss who wanted me to make a video showing the diversity in our city for a conference we were hosting. He specifically wanted religious diversity and asked if we could get footage of different types of worship. I contacted several churches, synagogues, mosques, and temples around and one Hindu temple invited me. The people worshipping were very suspicious and uncomfortable (totally understandable!) and I felt a bit icky. After that, I found random footage online, used it with attributes, and never did anything like that again. My boss couldn't tell the difference anyways.
In HS my drill team went to Greece. One of our tours was supposed to be of a Cathederal. It was a year with Western and Eastern Easter fell on the same week, and we were there during Holy Week. After checking with our Greek Orthodox neighbors Mom sent me with her mantilla with instructions to take it and put it on if it was being worn by worshipers. The day we were set to go we were told to wear our shorts and short sleeve shirts. I objected bc it was Good Friday. I was told it was for tourist. I flat out told my principal that I wasn't going in a Catherdral in shorts on any day but especially Good Friday. I was told I could stay on the bus. They went up the stairs, were turned away, and back on the bus in less than 10 min. When my Mom was told about my disrespectful behavior by a chaperone that didn't like me - Mom told her off and asked the principal where their brains had been that day.
For that matter, take off your hat in ANYBODY's house out of respect. Read the room or ask the docent of attendant what is appropriate. Women, this is another time the pashmina is your friend.
Everywhere: watching videos on your phone and talking on the phone with the speaker on.
Drives me insane! Have you forgotten how phones work?! Had a woman in my store doing this recently. You could follow her progress through the store by listening to her conversation. I do NOT need to know if you thought last nights date was hot enough to sleep with. And this was a woman in at least her mid thirties!
There are so many Bluetooth options if you don't want to hold the phone to your ear. There is absolutely no excuse for subjecting everyone else to your inane conversation. Many times, the people aren't even talking about anything, just keeping each other company. Guess what? You can actually survive being by yourself for a little while!
Just get headphones guys, you can get some really nice pairs from the hecking dollar tree that are pretty nice and have great quality, if you are watching something in public with the volume turned up high enough were everyone can hear you that's disrespectful
It's called being hearing impaired. You have a problem with that? You expect us to talk on the phone in sign language?
Oh David, if only hearing impaired people did this, my bus would be heaven... Some people don't understand that this behavior could be annoying because in several cultures this is normal. And many could use headphones to hear better without letting everybody know whatever happens to them. Or wait to get down the packed bus before taking sh*t on Susanne's divorce.
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Taking photos in museums that strictly prohibits them.
Visited Prado Museum last year and it was so nice because there weren’t 100’s of iPhones up in the air taking pictures of a picture…people actually had the time to enjoy the art.
Except a few idiots who kept on trying to sneak photos. Thankfully the museum staff quickly caught them, but they did it like 3-4 times. It was obnoxious.
Flashes of bright light can damage the pigments in paints or age photos faster. So it's not just that other visitors can enjoy their experience without walking through an epileptic person's disco nightmare.
Even when photos allowed: Museums and similar places have areas w/ specific low lighting to protect artifacts, so NO FLASH, means NO FLASH. I was behind a group tour of teens in the National Archives who grouped at the Constitution but were just texting, when 1 says "My dad says use flash anyway". I said Nope, you won't or I'll slap you where you stand and then tattle. A chaperone happened by and one of the boys told them I said I'd hit them. Chaperone asked what they did to make me say that. Yeah, he knew the entitled brats he was with....
El Prado is very strict with taking photos, while the Thyssen-Bornemisza is quite lax about it.
I got a guy kicked out of a Rolling Stones exhibition because he just walked around just taking forbidden photos and being an a*s.
I had wanted to visit the Rijksmuseum for years but what a waste of time! Couldn’t get near the pictures for idiots taking photos. You can get a photo of these paintings anywhere, you jerks! And not just one but multiple selfies, hogging all the available space. Should ban phones.
Or, you know, buy a poster or download a pic off the internet?
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(Usually in major cities) walking very slowly while taking up the entire sidewalk, making locals who actually have to get somewhere walk into oncoming traffic just to get by. Same effect when stopping to check a map or guide or to take photos.
Walking on the road, assuming it's pedestrian only because it's cobblestone.
Walking on cycle paths.
It should be legal to boot phone zombies out of the way. Some of the most obnoxious behaviour and no respect - or even acknowledgement - of others around them. I detest them so much.
I have been guilty of walking on cycle paths in Amsterdam and some cities in Poland, the first time i visited. Only because cycle paths are completely alien where i come from and i had no concept of there being a lane dedicated to people on bicycles. Needless to say, i learned my lesson after almost being knocked over by (justifiably) angry cyclists a couple of times :)
@BewilderedBanana In all fairness, *everything* is a cycle path in Amsterdam...or at least the locals think it is. I've been run over more than a couple of times standing on the lawn next to a business.
Load More Replies...Driving 60 km/h on the one-lane motorway, that was especially built to get business traffic fast from the coast to the business/factory areas inland. Every 200m there is a sign with 100km/h. Goods and people. Alongside, on both sides, are roads for slow traffic, from agricultural to tourists enjoying the scenery. Choose the road according to the speed you want to travel at, please.
Doesn't this just apply everywhere? It doesn't matter if it's been your hometown for 30 years, do not block the sidewalk. If you're couple, if you're group of friends, just be perceptive, there may be people who may want to be walking faster than you.
Every single day in Antwerp Central station. While trying to get to my train to get home, trying to avoid tourists who stop dead in their tracks while your walking behind them.
In Montreal it's a problem. Especially since we started cutting into sidewalks to plant more trees. If you're a tourist here, DON'T F*****G STOP AND TALK ON THE SIDEWALK! Move your entire tourist group/family out of the f*****g way and have your conversation there! The frequency that this happens here makes me crazy. Oh! And if you walk up the mountain, don't spread your entire goddamn group across the trail. The entire rest of the city wants to use that trail and you are f*****g with traffic flow.
Walking around supermarkets with no shirt on or in your swimming stuff. I hate it. So disrespectful.
If it's a tourist town, it wouldn't bother me much. I lived in a town where we had lots of tourists and they just want ice-cream after swimming...and they'll probably go straight back to swimming.
Or without shoes. Bonus points for completely wet clothes and hanging towel. (athough some shops near beaches allow that, but it's always clever to check what other people there are wearing)
For the fellow Australians out there... remember that ice cream ad that used to be on TV? "Bathers, bathers, bathers, UNDIES!!!"
I at least wear a t-shirt when in my swim clothes when I go places bc I wear shorts as part of my swimsuit, I never just wear the shorts and swimsuit I always wear a t-shirt over because it's respectful and honestly looks better since you could never tell I'm in swim clothes
A lot of places here in the US have signs that say.... NO SHIRT NO SHOES NO SERVICE
If you're a tourist, don't trash-talk about other people (tourists and locals alike) thinking that no one can understand your language (unless it's Ayapaneco).
I, a non-Hispanic American, was once in Costa Rica. At the cash register of a grocery store, the cashier asked me for my ID. I had been hiking in the rain and had put my U.S. passport inside a ziplock bag. When I took it out, the Spanish tourist behind me made fun of my ziplock trick to her partner. My Spanish is basic but I have a good ear for Spaniard accent (have friends in Valencia).
I didn't say anything back but made sure to chat with the friendly cashier loudly enough for the Spanish woman to hear me. Yeah, Spanish is such an unknown language...
Spanish is the third biggest language by native speakers. It is not "secret". If you want to trash talk other people, learn something little bit more obscure, I would suggest Czech (because if you want to learn another language just for trash talking, you can learn something with damn hard pronunciation). Or Finnish, it is amazing language (and pretty useless outside of Finland).
Beware though, speakers of other Slavic languages might understand you. Especially western Slavic languages such as Slovak and Polish, but also to some degree Russian speakers.
Load More Replies...Putting stuff that you don't want wet in ziplocks is a great idea. I keep one in my purse for my phone, only really needed when it really pours down.
I spent a week-end in London with friends for a concert, and we were singing in the street on our way to the subway (middle of the day, not singing very loud but certainly very off key !). A guy passed us by and mumbled 3 or 4 not very sympathetic words in French. We were, indeed, French. We let him know by using much more bad words than him. I never saw a man run so fast in my life !
1) for those wondering, Ayapaneco is spoken by "approximately 9" people, per Google. 2) I'd do either something like pig latin or, if my Hebrew was better, Hebrew. Sadly, it isn't good enough.
I taught English in South Korea back in the 90s. The first day me and some of the other teachers(we were working for the government in public schools) were on a bus from the airport. One of the other teachers was a Brit who'd taught in lots of countries. He started complaining and comparing South Korea to Japan. Even I knew that there's still a lot of hard feelings between these two countries. I also could see that the translator with us was really not enjoying the guys tirade.
The amount of people who assume that nobody can understand them because they speak Spanish is actually insane. I have overheard so many conversations in Spanish in public. I don't always point it out either. Sometimes I just eavesdrop 🤷
Being loud, drunk and violent are among the worst things tourists can do.
Just look at the English doing that in Spain. I'd be bitterly angry as well. It's disgusting and disrespectful, especially when fights break out.
Tbh German people at Ballermann aren't much better. Some people just go off the rails on holiday when there's too much alcohol around. I don't go to those places because they feel threatening.
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Saw a group of Italien men try to pick up women while visiting Auschwitz. That was beyond cringe.
Would locking them in overnight be a step too far?
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I don't know about you but visiting the site of thousands of horrendous murders definitely gets me in the mood for love. (Sarcasm, obviously).
Do not touch delicate artwork or ancient artifacts.
I see this happen everywhere. Drives me nuts.
Also, don't climb on statues to take a selfie. On don't scratch your name into the wall of the Colosseum.
Someone's carving their name on the Colosseum, release the lions!
Load More Replies...Or gouge "Billy was here!" into an ancient monument wall with your car keys
I touched the very bottom edge of the Code of Hammurabi with one fingertip in 1991. I absolutely could not stop myself, but have felt terrible about it ever since. Would never do it again
Wearing immodest clothing in typically modest countries. Look what the locals of your gender are dressed like, and try to cover the same body parts. I cringe when I see “influencers” posing in front of the pyramids wearing a tiny crop top and shorts. Have a bit of respect for the local customs and culture. What would you think of someone walking naked down your city street? Would it be okay, just because they walk around naked in their own country?
Don't wear your bathing suit in a town or city without some sort of reasonable cover-up. Men wear a shirt and shorts if your bathing suit is less than shorts.
Some countries are not oppressive at all...just traditionally more modest. Respect that. Also respect yourself in oppressive countries and don't bring shame on the people around you or make it unsafe for yourself! Be wise and educated about culture.
Agreed it is a thin line, but you will actually be more comfortable in loose and covering clothes.
Load More Replies...Disrespect them at home all you want - have a ball - but "when in Rome, do as the Romans do" If you disrespect the people and customs in a country that YOU deem to be "oppresive", don't object or be surprised if they do the same when they come to YOUR country - after all, YOU taught them that it's perfectly fine to disrespect the people and customs of another country, didn't you!
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In Athens, Greece and many other big tourism cities, if someone randomly tries to “give” you something - a blessing, a bracelet, etc. just don’t accept. You’ll end up being surrounded by them and their homies demanding money.
Don't let anyone approach you too close in Barcelona. You're in for a pickpocket or being mugged.
Jaywalking is a shockable offense in Germany. Pedestrians will wait at an empty crosswalk with no cars in sight and wait until the little man tells them they can walk and if you walk across the (empty street) they will stare at you like you just mugged an old lady in front of them.
I live in Germany and can confirm. I usually say to my daughter "Let's be British" and cross on the red man if there are no cars in sight. I have certainly taught her to look before crossing regardless of whether the green man is there or not. Lots of German pedestrians just obey the lights!
I (American) got made fun of by a Brit for waiting at a crosswalk with no cars. It was a busy area and I figured I'd be cautious.
Load More Replies...I'm German and it's really different in different areas. In some places, no person will cross, in others, people don't really care. Yes, jaywalking is an offence and you will have to pay a fine if caught by the police. Also don't cross on red when there are children close by. Set a good example!
We do this in Germany to be an example for our children. Saves a lot of lives.
I live in NYC, what is the Jaywalking you speak of? If the path is clear, go go go
I live in a small town in the Midwest and if you don't jaywalk, you just aren't going to cross because we don't have hardly any crosswalks here. The closest one could be miles away. We run to the median, wait, then finish crossing.
Load More Replies...Dunno about other US states but jaywalking is illegal in California. One city went so far as to give "failure to stop" tickeys, which run about $300.
I live in CA. We don't really care that it's illegal bc it's rarely enforced. If it's safe to go we go.
Load More Replies...I'd be in trouble there. I don't jaywalk if there are children around, but I definitely do it on an empty road.
Those are not garbage cans outside shops in Japan those are for umbrellas. Don't be me A.K.A a dummy.
Yes I'm pretty sure Japan banned public trash cans so the streets can stay clean and nice for tourists, wait till you get home or in a public building where you can ask for the trash can before throwing something away, the laws are different there then other countries because that's how a country works man
In fact, in Japan, you can rarely find a garbage can. All Japanese take their waste with them and dispose of it at home. I suppose that is what insanely criminal Sarin gas attacks does to a people.
I've learned my lesson by now, but when I first started traveling, the big one was not paying attention to the days you are going in relation to the country. Like finding out you planned your day around seeing the museums of a city on the day of the week they are all closed. Or trying to visit a local natural attraction not realizing it's a domestic holiday when everyone in the country is also going there.
The picture above is from Babylon, in Iraq. Was there once... in 2003.....
Driving slowly looking at the scenery, holding up local traffic; we've got places to be, people to see.
If you want to admire the view pull off somewhere & enjoy it properly.
Driving 60 km/h on the one-lane motorway, that was especially built to get business traffic fast from the coast to the business/factory areas inland. Every 200m there is a sign with 100km/h. Goods and people. Alongside, on both sides, are roads for slow traffic, from agricultural to tourists enjoying the scenery. Choose the road according to the speed you want to travel at, please.
This time of the year its dangerous driving where I live. Tourists who can't drive manual, tourists stopping in the middle of the road go look at the scenery, walking across the road without looking for traffic etc. Guess it's the price you pay for a beautiful part of the world. Oh, and we don't accept dollars.....Ireland is not the US.
We were following a group of British tourists up the Big Daddy dune in Namibia and they were playing bad American pop on a portable Bluetooth speaker. Ok, I heard Justin Bieber so maybe it was bad Canadian pop. We were with a local guide, he yelled at them, adding it was a local holiday, so they were being especially disrespectful, and they sheepishly turned it off. I (American) said a silent prayer of gratitude to the universe that it wasn't Americans being obnoxious this time.
Playing YOUR music loudly in public places is always rude. Not everyone wants to hear whatever you fancy at that moment.
When touring a foreign country, taking in the local scene is as much for your ears as it is for you eyes. Turn off the music - you're missing stuff.
Don't worry, the English are the biggest idiots as tourists. Americans are harmless in comparison.
Don’t turn right on a red in Europe. Oops.
I don't get this. Red means stop, why would you turn right? Do american traffic lights have different colors?
In the U.S., upon coming to a complete stop at a red light, and after looking for pedestrians, bicyclists, dogs, etc., THEN unless indicated otherwise, you may turn right on red. It was developed as an energy-conscious effort. Instead of wasting gas and creating pollution by idling when nobody is around, you could safely turn right on red
Load More Replies...You can turn right, with precaution, if there' s à small blinking orange arrow indicating it, but they're rather rare. Otherwise, just stop and wait.
Just general rudeness to locals. Treating them disrespectfully. I remember being in a restaurant in Bangkok and the table next to us would snap their fingers at the staff to get their attention. Just disgusting.
Try this in Russia, Kazakhstan, Mongolia and other Central Asian countries. The locals will show you what they think. Actually, a British or Irish pub will do. 😂👍
Outside of the US, when someone asks where you are from, the answer is not your state. It is your country aka simply the US. 🤣.
I am Australian. The last time an American asked me what part of England I was from, I asked them what part of Canada they were from. I think they got the message.
The historically correct response would have been to ask them which part of England they are from as well. hahha
Load More Replies...Some Londoners used to really annoy when I lived in the UK, but nowhere near London. Where are you from? would nearly always elicit an explanation relying on local knowledge, sometimes eventually getting a "Oh, you mean London? Why didn't you just say London in the first place" in return.
Lol, yes. Learned this as a Canadian in the US. Nobody knows what Ontario is. They just wanted to know if I was Canadian.
When I was young, our next door neighbor came from Wales. When her family visited, they did not appreciate being call English. As one said a bit testily to someone who refused to get it, "I speak English. I am British."
Especially since the state I'm from is also the name of a country, helps with confusion to clarify you know
Pretty sure this can only be Georgia.
Load More Replies...Stop loudly talking about how cheap everything is. Locals in many places don't have near the purchasing power you might as a tourist from a wealthy country. It can be infuriating and disrespectful to the locals who may be struggling with cost of living.
Imagine when in the US a salary of $200k a year is not enough to pay for a house, pay off your student debts or finish paying for a new car (read in Bored Panda). Anything in the rest of the world must be dirt cheap.
You just don't have to loudly talk about it.
Load More Replies...Please just leave the wildlife alone. I was in the Philippines and saw a couple pick up a couple of star fish from the ocean floor to take a picture with out of water, then toss them back in after the photo.
I'm am still horrified & disgusted by the 2 French tourists in Australia who singed a quokka on Rottnest Island. One of the men ignited an aerosol spray with a lighter while the other recorded it on his mobile phone. Edited to say this happened in 2015. https://www.watoday.com.au/national/western-australia/french-tourists-who-torched-rottnest-island-quokka-fined-4000-each-20150417-1mnjus.html
Don't accidentally get on the women's only carriage (as a man) in the Delhi Metro (yes, it was me 🤦🏻♂️).
Not brushing up on local etiquette before traveling somewhere new. For example, when I visited family in Tokyo, I brought a gift (not strange where I'm from to bring a gift for your host/hostess). But the gift etiquette in Japan is complicated, and the hostess was embarrassed because she wasn't expecting it and had nothing ready to reciprocate. Much befuddlement and so on for me.
On my last trip to Japan, I found that stating "for giving me the gift of your company and hospitality, I am giving you this gift as thanks" helped avoid any embarrassment.
Thinking every culture is like Americann culture. Our 5 star different, complaining because something “isn’t right” but in that country that reaction is considered wrong. Also comparing how we do it in America and inferring our way is the right way. The other thing I learned was I always say on the “other”, “left” or “opposite side”of the road not the wrong side in the Britain and Ireland. It’s an assumption it would be wrong to say it in Japan too, but I’m not sure. I always find attempting even a few words in the country’s language is appreciated. ( except in France, they got angry with me).
I have the opposite experience in France (at least in Paris). The locals who saw i was trying to make an effort to say something in French, based on the little i remembered from school, suddenly develop near-perfect english to help me out :)
The same happens in Germany. Once it becomes clear that my German is very very bad, they take pity on me and address me in near perfect English. But at least I tried!
Load More Replies...I did Europe in my youth (France, Italy, Germany, Spain & Portugal) and, apart from schoolboy French, I goy by on just 3 phrases! "I'm sorry but I don't speak your language skills ", "I'll have one of those please." (Accompanied by a pointing finger) and "Can I please put my tent up in your field?" (Not a euphemism, I was camping!) The locals gave me credit for trying.
Parisians are often angry towards tourists and non-Parisians ("les provinciaux"). Very few of them will interact in a friendly manner.
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Watching a man with two very young kids walk to within 100 feet of a grizzly bear in Yellowstone.
I’m currently in Zagreb and today saw three loud American girls kicking furniture over and then kicking swings in a play area of a park today. They were probably late teens early twenties and were everything people hate about Americans abroad. Loud and weirdly disrespectful.
In a Muslim country, don't eat in public during Ramadan. Even if you guide gives you food from the market to try, even if he insists that its okay.
That's BS. In cities or in places that experience significant tourism, during Ramadan restaurants are open and no one would bat an eye if you have lunch. Locals won't, out of their *voluntary* fasting, but you are not meant to practice if you are not Muslim. Also, not all Muslims practice fasting: there are several exemptions from fasting, some of them practice in a limited way (allowing drinking), some of them just don't.
This is stupid. As someone with diabetes, I always have to have candies in hand to eat to balance my sugar level. I can't risk my life for your religion. Sorry!
If it's any consolation, medical issues like those could exempt you (the hypothetical religious you, of course) from the fasting requirement. Pregnant people too, I think. I am by no means an expert - I just remember reading a bit about it at work.
Load More Replies...Nope. We muslims are used to seeing people eating during the day in Ramadhan. At least in countries where we live together with people of other religions
If there is a market, it's acceptable. Anyway, isn't overcoming of envy that others don't need to fast a part of the fasting? Otherwise the fasting is useless. If you are complaining about those tourists, you are doing Ramadan wrong.
So I visited Dubai during Ramadan and I did some research and was respectful of the culture and traditions. Even though it was hot af and I lived in Houston TX at the time, but I made sure to dress appropriately. I wore capris with a t-shirt or wide strap tank top, to ensure I wasn't wearing anything too revealing. It was difficult to find places to get food during the day, there were a couple restaurants that were open but they were blocked off, so tables and others eating weren't in view of those who choose to follow the fasting traditions of Ramadan. We learned quickly to go to the market when we could and we cooked at the condo we rented.
Dont assume that a place accepts Apple Pay or honestly any sort of debit or credit card. First time visiting the Netherlands, I was in Amsterdam for pride and was behind a large group of Americans at a hot dog stand. They all ordered their food (about 20+ euros worth) and STARTED EATING IT BEFORE PAYING, and when the leader of the group whipped out her phone for Apple Pay, the very confused Dutch man told her he doesn’t accept anything other than cash. Took them 5 minutes to figure out which one of them had enough cash to cover it! When I came up and ordered in English he kept repeating before handing me my order “ ONLY CASH MEVROUW! “ god bless him lol.
Though at the same time you can't expect every place to accept cash. Sweden is generelly quite bad at accepting cash.
Other countries are slowly following Sweden's route, so it't getting more common. But essentially before buying anything, ask about the payment options. Or most of bigger stores have the option written or printed on the doors or in the cash register.
Load More Replies...Also be aware of different types of cards. In Europe it is common to take Visa and Mastercard, but not AmEx or Diners Club (if that is still a thing). It is also common that debit cards are not accepted unless they carry a Visa or Mastercard logo. It is also quite possible for card machines to have problems, so having a small amount of local currency can get you out of a scrape.
You're an American spending big bucks to tour a European county, learn its culture, and absorb the local life style. And you eat at a hot dog stand?
A bit rich coming from the only country still using cheques for things like rent or salaries while the rest of the world has switched to real-time bank transfers decades ago... All the payment structures exist, but most European countries have a strong emotional bond concerning cash, and smaller businesses often will not accept any other payment. This is in part caused by the pricing of American payment companies, who often charge a hefty surplus (to the vendor, not the customer) when used in Europe. For that reason, a large portion of shops who do accept credit cards in Germany will not accept American Express, as their transaction charge is nearly tenfold that of VISA or Mastercard. Apple Pay is also not that widespread as Apple's market share is smaller. Only around 30% of smartphones in Germany belong to the Apple sphere, while it is nearly 60% in the U.S. (Samsung being the unambiguous lead on that front here).
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Not reading the fine print before booking a flight on a budget airline. Cheap flights are cheap for a reason. Their policies towards carry-ons and checked-bag sizes vary, and you might have to unexpectedly fork up some more money. Also, don't expect budget airlines to make it on time if you have a tight connection or will have to go through immigration on your layover.
And make sure you know where the airport actually is. Flying Easyjet into London Gatwick or London Luton won't take you close to London city.
American military in Europe so I’m already not the Germans’ biggest fan. I literally cannot go anywhere on a train with my friends here. So obnoxiously loud and they don’t care or get embarrassed at all. Just play into the loud american stereotype perfectly. Also they don’t even attempt German. I think the least you can do as a foreigner would be to say dankeschön or tschüss instead of just thanks.
And is pronounced something like "chews, choose". Or, if you're from Basel, "Choosly" in a lilting voice.
Load More Replies...Agreed. Germany is a great At place, but show respect to their culture. Watch how the locals act and do the same. Learn a little of the language, especially how to say you are (whatever country), and only speak and understand a little German. 95 times out of 100 the person will smile at you and speak English. Talk loudly and slowly in English, not so receptive. Worked in Spain also, a little in France.
At a minimum in every country you visit learn to say “I don’t speak——. Do you speak English?”
I learnt 'ich spreche kein dutch' (~I don't speak any German) and some greeting/thanks you sentences, and while waiting for a train, a local asked me something. I answered 'oh, ich spreche kein dutch', she paused, and thanked me then went to ask somebody else.
Showing up at a popular city attraction without a pre-purchased ticket. Some examples that come to mind are the Vatican in Rome and the Uffizi Gallery in Florence. Don't waste your time in line. Do the research ahead of time to save time and see more things. For instance, we took a tour of Palatine Hill that included a tour of the Colosseum. When we got to the Colosseum, we bypassed hundreds of people waiting in line. Tripadvisor is a great resource for this type of information.
To visit the Alhambra in Granada, we booked our tickets two months before our trip.
Going to Paris in August when all the Parisians take their holidays, which means all the restaurants and bakeries you'll probably want to go to are actually closed for two weeks.
Normally, avoid Paris in August like the plague! Most people are out of town, and the ones who aren't are even more grumpy than usual.
I went to Italy in August when a lot of things were closed, but it was because my uncle had traded his house in Chicago for a house in Italy for the summer and that's when the free housing was available. We also didn't realize that at least at the time, lots of places close down for a long lunch in the afternoon.
Perfumes and colognes. Please stop. Bathe properly and wear deodorant. No need to assault people with nasty smells.
Kathmandu was second hand embarrassment to the point of humiliation.
We went to see thee living goddess. People come from all over Nepal to see her and receive her blessings.
While we were there with many religious devotees and tourists alike, waiting for her we were advised not to take pics. It was a very black and white rule reiterated several times.
She comes to the window, several people take pics, all tourists, including a group from Australia, she gets pulled straight back into the building and no blessings given.
I have never heard of the living goddess . What an interesting tradition. I went through quite the rabbit hole !
same, that was a very weird corner of the internet indeed.
Load More Replies...No public displays of affection in Vietnam please. Maybe don’t even hold hands to be respectful. In most Asian countries, please receive shop receipts with both hands. Same for business cards and do not put it away if seated, place it on the table until end of interaction.
I forgot about the PDA. In the US we have people making out on the street...some countries frown on hand holding. Be respectful.
Don't put your feet up on the train seats in Germany. I guess I should have known better but the train was nearly empty and the seats were hard plastic. Being yelled at in German by a tiny German woman is one of the scarier things I've experienced. I'm not actually sure if that's what I was doing wrong but it's my best guess. In my city of Washington, DC, please don't block the sidewalks in crowded areas, or get in the way on the Metro.
Is there any country where is it acceptable to put your shoes on places where people sit?
This seems to be a thing on airlines... someones disgusting feet poking through the space next to my armrest makes me want to amputate them at the ankles.
Give the monkeys fruit.
If you visit the rock of Gibraltar, there are signs everywhere telling you to not give the monkeys food. The reason is cuz in monkey society, giving food is an expression of submissiveness so you will encourage the monkeys to swarm you as you have demonstrated that you accept them as your overlords.
Expect locals to understand your own language, Ive been embarrassed so many times by other Argentines going to someone in the Netherlands speaking straight Spanish. I see it as a mix of entitlement and lack of empathy.
I don’t know if this is a No No. I was in the Montemartre part of Paris at lunch in a small restaurant. Four women from .I’m guessing Texas, “Do y’all have Dr. Pepper?”, “No? I can’t believe y’all don’t have Dr. Pepper!”.
Do you have, is okay. How else would you find out. I can't believe you don't have, is where it goes wrong
Dr Pepper is almost unknown in France. The first time "we all" heard about it was in Forrest Gump. Since then, I've sometimes seen it in supermarkets, but only rarely. It's certainly not on offer in restaurants and cafés .
Assuming your personal preference foods / drinks are readily available everywhere, unless super-generic (Coca Cola etc.) , is always a very entitled attitude.
I've never been outside the US but one thing I want to do in any outside country is atleast spend one day trying some of the local food since sometimes it's way better then the food here in America, there is a Japanese restaurant near my house and I once went there, it was really good and now I really want fresh raman again, you never know man
Edit: and I'm a picky eater to so yeah that's something
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Loudly pondering why something is done in a particular way merely because it is done differently where the tourist is from.
Absolutely, there's a difference between noticing something and complaining or sneering about it
Load More Replies...Taking photos of the locals minding their business but especially in countries in the global south. In the global south, I also find it uncomfortable when wealthier tourists still haggle in markets. As someone else here has said, taking selfies in inappropriate places particularly the Holocaust memorials and sites like concentration camps in Europe. Being rude to locals and disrespecting/not following local customs or openly challenging them too.
Or rage-baiting the Police officers in holiday destinations - videoing it at the time, to put on YT/TikTok. Happens a fair bit in the UK, since only a small % of them carry bullet-loading weapons. Usually done by citizens living in places that can own/openly carry them, and assume that our bobbies are pushovers just because they're being polite to tourists.
We may not have guns, but our police carry tasers and batons, so be nice!
Load More Replies...Haggling is part of the culture in many places though, regardless of how wealthy you are. In many Arab countries, for example, it is a vital part of the interaction between customer and seller and they really enjoy the experience! Don't worry, most Westerners will still end up paying much more than it's worth because they can be spotted a mile off! ;-)
Reading signs for Historical places out loud while you block everyone else from reading it. Wearing athlesure in cities where it’s not accepted. Talking too loudly. Comp,aiming about prices.
I'm not sure what they mean with "no athleisure in cities where it is not accepted". Yes, athleisure isn't typically worn in most places in Europe and if you wear it, we will know that you're an American tourist. However, I don't think that it is culturally inappropriate (except maybe when it's too revealing and you're in a muslim country?).
This is annoying, I'll be trying to take a picture of something and people don't care and block the way all the time,
Oh dear yes I hate this. Often they read slower than I do and it's annoying noise. Also I've worked in a museum and the number of guys who read to their girlfriends acting like she's supposed to be impressed is astonishing. (Obviously, some people including men read the text to their close ones as a sweet gesture, in which case if they're the only visitors it's just adorable)
I see a fair number of people from certain other countries that try to haggle for the price of products in the US and seem upset when it's made clear that prices are firm.
I worked for a Hallmark store in college, early 90s. A customer tried to haggle over the price of some Christmas figurines. I said I was pretty sure we don't do that. But I went and asked the owner since she was there that day. She went out and talked to the customer and the customer was able to get her to come down on the price. I lived in Europe during high school so I was no stranger to haggling--did it with street vendors in both Paris and Amsterdam--but I had no idea it was something you could do in a retail store in the US.
Actually I think in one country you are supposed to haggle but don't just assume you can do that everywhere
Not caring about being ripped off because "it's cheap for me anyway".
I disagree with this one. There is nothing worse than someone who goes to these countries with the attitude that they are going to get a "good deal" on everything, and start countering with embarrassingly low amounts. If a vendor tries to get an extra 50p out of me, it's not going to make any real difference to me, but will make a difference to them. Plus, a small amount extra to avoid the hassle of haggling is a fee I'm willing to pay
I hate having to haggle, but it's a standard part of the transaction in some places, so you have to do it.
Load More Replies...By doing that, what you get is that they focus on the tourist market because they earn a lot more than they do from local customers by driving up prices, screwing the local customers who don't earn as much. In other words, you create an interference in the functioning of local markets, and you can cause tourists to become unwelcome.
Even London does that (insane 'tourist' pricing). Compared to other Cities/Towns over here - excluding major tourist attractions in them - London is the reason we have the phrase, 'Rip Off Britain'. I lived there throughout the 80s, and even then it was expensive. The only positive in those days was that we had salaries (with added London Weighting) that you could actually live on.
Load More Replies...Leave the quokkas alone people! Yes they are cute and yes take a picture but please don't touch or feed them.
Most of these posts boil down to bad planning/preparation. If you go to a foreign country that's very unlike your own, always look up the currency, how to get around, when shops are open, what the National Holidays are and what the policies are when visiting museums. I also look up what to avoid at any costs. And, of course, I have the number of my embassy/consulate in my phone and on paper.
As parents, try to instruct your young kids. I visited the Vietnam Memorial with my parents when I was eight. All I saw was a big black wall surrounding a park that would be great for running around and playing. My dad was in Vietnam, and he and my mom made sure I understood why I had to walk carefully and speak softly.
Maybe don't get overly offended if someone from another country doesn't follow your traditions or culture. Remind them politely rather than aggressively (Eg "Oi mate! We queue in this country!" etc).
In the UK (and possibly Australia) that would be considered a polite reminder.
Load More Replies...I recently took my wife to France for her 50th birthday. Unfortunately, due to caring for my terminally ill father, my plan to learn French prior to the trip never materialized. I was able to learn one phrase, however, "I apologize, but I'm an ugly American and I don't speak French," (which I've already forgotten!) Fortunately, my wife speaks fluent French, and in spite of my self-deprecating joke, we always try to be respectful of the culture and customs of where we're visiting, and as such we found most of the French people we encountered to be friendly and welcoming (and had a lot of questions about life in the US). It was only when some of the hotel staff offered condolences on the death of my father that I discovered my wife had been telling people behind my back that I hadn't had time to learn French due to my caregiver status.
Does someone here perhaps know since when the French insult tourists as rosbif? I've never heard anyone say that before and I can't find the origin of that either on Google.
If I’m in Thailand and my money blows away and I need to catch it by stepping on it, so be it. The royal family will live. It’s more disrespectful to myself to lose my money
Don't ask random people in England if they know your English friend. Don't ask random English people in London for directions, ask a taxi driver.
I live in the US, but I have a childhood friend from Austria, whose family runs a famous international hotel in Vienna. She never really grasped how big the United States is, so whenever American guests stayed at the hotel, she would always ask if they knew me.
Load More Replies...Leave the quokkas alone people! Yes they are cute and yes take a picture but please don't touch or feed them.
Most of these posts boil down to bad planning/preparation. If you go to a foreign country that's very unlike your own, always look up the currency, how to get around, when shops are open, what the National Holidays are and what the policies are when visiting museums. I also look up what to avoid at any costs. And, of course, I have the number of my embassy/consulate in my phone and on paper.
As parents, try to instruct your young kids. I visited the Vietnam Memorial with my parents when I was eight. All I saw was a big black wall surrounding a park that would be great for running around and playing. My dad was in Vietnam, and he and my mom made sure I understood why I had to walk carefully and speak softly.
Maybe don't get overly offended if someone from another country doesn't follow your traditions or culture. Remind them politely rather than aggressively (Eg "Oi mate! We queue in this country!" etc).
In the UK (and possibly Australia) that would be considered a polite reminder.
Load More Replies...I recently took my wife to France for her 50th birthday. Unfortunately, due to caring for my terminally ill father, my plan to learn French prior to the trip never materialized. I was able to learn one phrase, however, "I apologize, but I'm an ugly American and I don't speak French," (which I've already forgotten!) Fortunately, my wife speaks fluent French, and in spite of my self-deprecating joke, we always try to be respectful of the culture and customs of where we're visiting, and as such we found most of the French people we encountered to be friendly and welcoming (and had a lot of questions about life in the US). It was only when some of the hotel staff offered condolences on the death of my father that I discovered my wife had been telling people behind my back that I hadn't had time to learn French due to my caregiver status.
Does someone here perhaps know since when the French insult tourists as rosbif? I've never heard anyone say that before and I can't find the origin of that either on Google.
If I’m in Thailand and my money blows away and I need to catch it by stepping on it, so be it. The royal family will live. It’s more disrespectful to myself to lose my money
Don't ask random people in England if they know your English friend. Don't ask random English people in London for directions, ask a taxi driver.
I live in the US, but I have a childhood friend from Austria, whose family runs a famous international hotel in Vienna. She never really grasped how big the United States is, so whenever American guests stayed at the hotel, she would always ask if they knew me.
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