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Mom groups can be wonderful. Their members share in-the-field experiences and valuable insights, and don't mind having entire conversations with newbies on how to get a fussy baby back to sleep or how to potty train a toddler.
But the good stuff is often surrounded by the bad. Every now and then, there's a post judging vaccines or a comment suggesting Ethanol as a boy's name. In fact, such content is so frequent, it even gave rise to a subreddit making fun of it.
It's called '[Stuff] Mom Groups Say' and vigilant Bored Panda readers may remember it from our earlier article but here's part 2 for those who can't get enough of it. That includes us!
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#1
Unintelligent, Uneducated...
Talya Stone, a former editor-in-chief turned parenting blogger and the woman behind Motherhood: The Real Deal and 40 Now What told Bored Panda that online mom groups are definitely hit or miss. "A lot of them can be a hotbed for toxicity and riling each other up," she said.
"I think with all social media platforms and forums it's about taking everything with a pinch of salt and not getting sucked in too deep. Some, however, can be great for advice when you have a specific query."
Stone suggests treating mom groups like buying a house: "Go and visit the neighbourhood (group) and get a sense of if you like it. Evaluate if you honestly like the energy and vibe, see what kind of conversations are happening there and if you like it — great! If not, move on to the next neighbourhood and find one you feel more comfortable with."
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#2
Imagine Condoning R@pe And Actually Thinking It Funny...
#3
So How's Your Morning Going? .... I Thought Mine Was Bad Until I Read Hers, Damn
At the end of the day, Stone believes that nothing can replace a face-to-face connection and that goes for moms too. "The pandemic has made this really difficult but now is the time to start rebuilding," she said.
"Strike up a conversation at the school gate, park, or coffee shop. We have become so scared of real-life interactions but we need to move on and start forming those connections again — online things can quickly become very distorted."
#4
Yuppie Baby Needs His ‘Bux
#5
Couldn't Have Seen This Coming?
Vicki Broadbent, a writer, director, broadcaster, and founder of the parenting blog Honest Mum, told Bored Panda that "mom groups, be it Whatsapp groups with the nursery/schools moms or via social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram can provide critical support for parents."
"I remember the support, friendship, and camaraderie I garnered from Twitter when I had my first child, Oliver, and how that allowed me to connect with like-minded parents easily and usually during unsociable hours when I was nursing in the night too. It was amazing."
#6
Apparently There Is A Home Remedy For Everything, Otherwise You Are Banned
#7
Complete Trash Trying To Take Advantage Of Refugees
She also reminded that sometimes we simply aren't able to get together in person. "The pandemic has highlighted how important online support can be for parents where face-to-face access has been limited. You can find all sorts of parenting groups on Facebook for all kinds of needs (from breastfeeding groups to fitness, those with specific medical conditions, and more) so I'd recommend searching there, and joining some, feeling your way through different ones in a bid to find your tribe!" Broadbent said, adding that you can also check out some apps whose job is to connect you to nearby parents in your area for online and real-life meet-ups that can be of huge help as well.
"There's no need to feel alone," the mom said.
#8
Mommy Group-Where It’s Occasionally Still 1950
#9
Gatekeeping
Jo Johannsen 4 years ago
No point, there ain't no brain back there. By her reasoning if a woman with children gets married to a man with children, she loses her mother status...?
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Yoinks! 4 years ago
Those screws aren't just loose, they're completely out of the holes and rattling around inside the otherwise-empty bin she calls her skull.
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Samantha Lomb 4 years ago
Wanna bet the state took her kids? Sounds like my brother's kids' bio mom. She threatened the case worker with a weapon so my brother, the rest of the fam and social services now has a protective order against her and the court stripped her of parental rights.
Daphne Williams 4 years ago
I think you've hit the nail on the head there.
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Shadow_TheArtistDemon 4 years ago
Should I upvote for how horrible it is, or should I downvote for how horrible it is?
J&B FitzTubeKidz 4 years ago
This woman should be banned from all social media. And America. And just society in general.
Robert Thomas 4 years ago
BBBBIIIITTTTCCCCHHHH YOU GET OUT BEFORE i track YOU down YOU F****ing Bbbbbbiiiitttccchhhh im sorry if the first part of me yelling is a little mean. but seriously they are mothers they are mothers because they care and raise that child even though the child wasnt born out of there womb.
Vicky Zar 4 years ago
Sounds like she has some issues. Lost her children to foster care maybe. And/ or was in foster care herself...
Daphne Williams 4 years ago
Definitely. It's weird how everyone has a kneejerk reaction to this garbage without bothering to consider the how this woman got this way. She's obviously mentally ill and probably had her children removed from her care.
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WalmartKermit 4 years ago
Um my stepmum is amazing and really supportive, the only imposter here is you dude
Stephanie Ventura-Montalvo 4 years ago (edited)
I would have loved it if my parents got divorced and I ended up with a stepmom. My mother is a narcissistic piece of s**t who did things like used alternating screaming with silent treatments as the main method of communication, and thought having mostly shellfish at almost every family event was more important than the fact that it could have killed me. There's more, lots more. Giving birth does not qualify you to be a "real mom", behaving like one does.
Louloubelle 4 years ago
Let's stop with the Karen crap. It's old and so unimaginative.
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Enby.Minecraft.Bee. 4 years ago
Friendly reminder to all the idiots out there. No gives two f**ks about your, Homophobic, Racist, Sexist, Psychopathic opinions. Yall should not have legal rights. Yall are just fascist a**holes who care about no one but themselves. Keep yalls trash opinions to yourselves. Get out. Before i hunt you down. :)
Call Me Mars 4 years ago
EXCUSE ME! My birth mother gave me up for adoption. SHE IS A MOTHER! My adoptive mother is a mother. SHE IS A MOTHER. I am DISGUSTED that you would SAY something like that. ANYBODY who has any kids, biological or not, ARE MOTHERS! Thank you. Sorry for my rant.
Danielle Renee 4 years ago
woah...someone did not have a happy childhood and still hasn't gone to therapy for it
deanna woods 4 years ago
My aunt miscarried my cousin, but I still see her as a mother. If she had not miscarried, I would a five year old cousin right now. My mom and dad raised my aunt after her mother had a stroke and ended up in a nursing home. So in a way, my mom is my aunt's mother.
Ian Reynolds 4 years ago
People like this are a waste of oxygen, the only time this person will be useful is when they die and become plant food.
Gabrielle B. Marcelo 4 years ago (edited)
who is this b***h i need her name so i can send a letter to satan specially requesting him to hold this ugly narcissistic pathetic excuse of a beast a spot in his smelly sweaty disgusting armpit
Christine Zanfino 4 years ago
This sounds like a comment from someone who can't have children and is jealous. Makes you wonder what kind of mother she had.
Melissa McGuire 4 years ago
My step mom was an excellent mom. That poster can kiss our collective ass
cheryl strickland 4 years ago (edited)
Oh she's a cold hearted jealous ex wife whose children prefer their step mother.
Michelle Rutherford 4 years ago
Good lord! What about kids where their birth mum has died. A step mum could be a positive figure. Not all step mums are evil troll witches!!
AngelWingsYT 4 years ago
Not my mom but my (step)dad is as much a dad as my bio dad is! He raised me. Taught me what he knew took care of me ect! Step parents can be as much a parent as the bio one!
Bisexual Backflipping 4 years ago
Sorry if this is cringe,but my OC (who happens to be a murderer) and her five adopted kids would stab the s**t out of this bitch
Valley Girl 4 years ago
This bit@h will soon have no legal rights, as a prisoner. Somebody got butt hurt cuz the kid (and dad) like stepmom better?
Luka Verheijen 4 years ago
An important piece of thinkimg about what makes a mother and what not. Clearly, this woman studied. Chapeau!
Potter Jackson fan 4 years ago (edited)
What the heck!!! I am adopted, and I have a lot to say about this. My mom (the one who adopted me) loves me. And anyone who is willing to adopt or foster children are true parents. If a child is in foster care it is because their birth parents passed away, or they couldn't take care of their children for some reason. I'm honestly flabbergasted that some dummy could even think of something like this to say. This woman is uneducated and needs to go back school; someone needs to teach her the true meaning of family and mothers. Just because someone gives birth does not mean that they're a true parent. This woman is stupid.
Melanie Burlock 4 years ago
This is what it looks like when you’re so awful, you’re a parody of an awful person.
Jenifer Riggs 4 years ago (edited)
So she's saying that even if your biological mother is an abusive alcoholic they're the only ones fit to be called Mom? I'm calling bull.
BlackPearltheSeaWing/NightWing 4 years ago (edited)
What a bitch! I hope her life is as terrible as she is from here on out.
Louloubelle 4 years ago
So, my kids were IVF babies, and born via C-section. I guess I'm not a mother either. 😁 If so, I want the last 21 years of my life back.
NOLAHusker 4 years ago
Tell that to our youngest son about his mama. This person should be put down.
Lady of the Mountains 4 years ago
attention mothers who are not mothers but are just abusive gatekeeping jerks
RandomBeing 4 years ago
GO DIE IN A HOLE :D I plan on adopting or doing foster care someday because there are kids already existing who need love and I don't need a kid to be biological to love it.
Lara Verne 4 years ago
I don't care how many times this woman gave birth, she's not mother either.
#10
Sunscreen Causes Cancer Y’all
#11
A Little Tylenol Should Do The Trick
#12
What Kind Of Logic Is This
Ryan-James O'Driscoll 4 years ago
I homeschooled myself. I awarded myself a PhD in 20 minutes.
#13
Imagine Being Upset That Your Niece/Nephew Might Share A Birthday With Your Kid
#14
Your Obsession Doesn’t Also Have To Be Your Child’s, Deborah
#15
On The Governor Saying Masks Aren’t Required For Students. No Masks = Higher Grades!
#16
Now What
AzKhaleesi 4 years ago
Why not? I put cereal in my kids' bottles kept them fuller for longer. They slept through the night. Let me be clear, by saying baby cereal not like fruit loops.
#17
Mom Is Concerned Her Daughter Might Not Be Getting Brainwashed
#18
All You Fake Moms With Your Pretend Kids Just Need To Stop Now
AzKhaleesi 4 years ago
Coming from someone who had all her babies C-Sections kindly go f**k yourself! Had I went through this ages ago we would've died. I can't stand people that say that.
#19
Wow
#20
I Find It Hard To Believe People Are Like This. Gross
#21
At Least She Rinsed It Out Before Returning It!
#22
Found In Mom Group As An Entry For A “Bow Contest”
#23
Friend Of Mine Sent Me This...
Libby Tailor 4 years ago
I hope the baby will inherit its look from its father and not intelligence from you.
#24
On A Post About Not Washing Bagged Coleslaw
#25
Mmmmmm... Placenta
#26
Listen, I Don’t Want To Spoil My Child With Basic Care, So I’m Just Going To Neglect Them And Then Complain About It… No Hate Please!
#27
Cool Stoner Mom Smokes 3 Blunts A Day While Pregnant... Too Much?
Ryan-James O'Driscoll 4 years ago
They should be high key shamey. Smoke anything or do recreational drugs during pregnancy, you deserve all the pain that can bring. The baby doesn't though, so sort your life out. So sick of stoners.
#28
It Can Happen
#29
This Is My All-Time Favourite
#30
Nothing Says Educated Like A Diaper Flipping You Off
#31
Wearing A Mask Gave My Daughter A 1 Inch Crack In Her Septum
Manndy Fisher 4 years ago
One INCH Crack caused by Facemask? was she wearing iron helmet and did facepalm?
#32
Please Don’t Do This
#33
Cribs Are Jail Cells For Babies
#35
ADHD And Depression Combo
#36
Some Great Baby Name Ideas!
#37
You Have A Baby... In A Bar...
#38
I Will Never Understand Parents Who Are Afraid To Tell Their Kids No
#39
This Is Something
#40
Emotional Incest From Mommy Is Always Cute
#41
Help! I’m Worried My Family Won’t Get Side Effects From The Covid Vaccine!
#42
I Don’t Even Know What An Unschooler Is
#43
A Little Trauma Never Hurt Anyone And A Mom Who Is Into Her Kid’s Trust Issues
Bisexual Tiger 4 years ago
‘ A little trauma never hurt anyone ‘ *Claps* well done ma’am, you have made it to the top 3 dumbest people.
#44
65lb 2 Year Old Is Healthy
#45
Kid Slept Wrong On A Toy Or Sheet Crease, Poster And Way Too Many Commenters Attribute The Mark And Poor Sleep To Demons Or Something Supernatural. What?!
Auntriarch 4 years ago
Certainly. Put the poor wee mite up for adoption and then shoot yourself.
#46
I’m Sure There Won’t Be Permanent Hearing Loss
#47
What Has This Poor Woman’s Husband Been Telling Her
#48
In Response To The Question “Is Hand Sanitizer Safe During Pregnancy?”
Laura Mende (Human) 4 years ago
Reminds me of the olden times when people thought we get sick if you wash your hands, because the water will damage your skin and bacteria can get in. But this was like 150yrs ago! Stupidity never dies!
#49
People Are Totally Shedding The Vaccine Through Their Skin And Into The Air Altering A Females Cycle.. Makes Complete Sense
#50
It's Almost As If Someone With Training Should Be Helping These Women Give Birth...
Kari Panda 4 years ago
What? I had the cord wrapped around my neck three times and doctors thought I‘d be a stillbirth. What exactly would it protect?
#51
A Gem From A 100 Degree Heat Wave
Valisbourne Spiritforge 4 years ago
Wow. Going the 'God' route, he gave (supposedly) humans the brains to think of solutions, yet they want him to magically do all the work. That's not even faith, that's just laziness (or Sloth for those keeping count of the deadly sins).
#52
It Hurts When She Tugs On It
#53
Covid Poison Dna Experimental Injecting... Right...
Laura Mende (Human) 4 years ago (edited)
Go back to your cave, useless moron! As if it wasn't a good idea for mankind to get rid of spices, chants and praying for healing and start to make REAL medicines! 🤦♂️
#54
Imagine Being Excited About Your Child’s School Not Enforcing Masks, In A County Where There Is A Mask Mandate
#55
HIV? Cellulitis? Oregano Oil!
Diana Lucas 4 years ago
Use the antibiotics, FFS! How can people be this dumb when the health of own children is as stake?
#56
A Mom Was Mad That An Ice Cream Truck Was Trying To Make Money? No One In The Comments Were Supporting Her
#57
Treat The Pain, Not The Source!
Shalini Pabreja 4 years ago
More than one Pediatrician recommended using a few drops of breast milk to treat my newborns eye infection. It worked well too. The science behind it is that the probiotics in the milk help clear up bacterial infection - the same probiotics that create his stomach flora and help build his immunity. Not everything unconventional or non-Allopathic is hocus-pocus you know.
#58
I Truly Wish She Was Joking
Susie Elle 4 years ago
Without a doubt someone who had the covid vaccine touched him and now he's in the process of growing an extra eye there. (joking, obviously)
#59
A Massage Therapist Asks A Client If She Can Stick A Magnet On Their Vaccine Site
#60
On A Post From A Local Mom (Pro-Masks At Playgrounds) Trying To Figure Out Where Her Kids Could Safely Play
Laura Mende (Human) 4 years ago
And THAT'S WHY we can't get rid of this f*cking virus! TTHANKS A LOT! THANKS FOR NOTHING!!!
#61
Bet She Put Nuggets In The Oven After Posting This....
#62
Posted By Someone From The Church I Went To
Auntriarch 4 years ago
I was home schooled until I was 8 (no school where we lived). Didn't even have a library. But I had a mother with a brain. Which is probably why I had a reading age of 16. And not behind in anything else. My mother is a legend.
#63
My Kid Can Put Yoghurt In His Bellybutton
#64
Vegans Don't Get Sunburns
#65
My Child Might Have Severely Injured His Leg So I’m Taking Him To The Chiropractor Instead Of A Doctor
#66
Here’s A Fun One From My Instagram Stories
#67
We Make Our Own "Soda"
#68
Someone Asked For Some Girl Name Suggestions. This Was My Favorite Comment.
Laura Mende (Human) 4 years ago
And not ONE which will prevent it's owner from being bullied in school and in later life...
#70
The Brainwashing Is Intense...
#72
Is My Child Becoming Lactose And Tolerated?
#73
Who Knew, We Had The Cure For Cancer This Whole Time
#74
Give Me Your Milk For Freeeee
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Valisbourne Spiritforge 4 years ago
Brain & soul both ache after reading this nonsense. A better argument for reversible sterilization until after passing a mental competency test I've rarely found. Just... wow.
KombatBunni 4 years ago
I couldn’t make it all the way through. To think that people like this exist is enough for me to wish that natural selection would hurry the f*ck up..
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Vicky Z 4 years ago
You have this cute baby animal post that melts your heart and then you get this post that melts your brain! Thanks BP for the mixed feelings!
littlesaresare 4 years ago
I read the baby animal post before this one. I really should have read it after. I need something to wash my brain out.
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Jerry Mathers 4 years ago
I can't fathom how some of this is even legal. Where does the line for child abuse begin? Intent can't be it. I know it's a slippery slope, but these moms are starting their kids off at a severe disadvantage.
Dhukath 4 years ago
Many of the threads on this list fall into the: "I'll bullshit /lie or make something up / Go against the norm" in order to post it to social media, to gain responses, both positive and negative in order to feel relevant, validated or special! Or some people are unbelievably stupid!
Random Anon 4 years ago
Dayum I'm facepalming so hard through this I think my neighbors called the cops. How, in the name of everything holy, are these people still alive, nevermind procreating?
Louloubelle 4 years ago
Am I the only one that had to stop reading these at a point? I honestly have never encountered anyone this stupid in my life. Although, that's probably a good thing, but certainly cut down on some entertainment.
memyselfandI 4 years ago (edited)
Just want to put this out there, (good) chiropractors are actually real doctors. They’re just not hospital doctors. If they have the education, then they are actually doctors. Chiropractors are kind of like physical therapists, only instead of recovering form an injury they help with everyday muscle and joint pain. Like if you have a sore back from sitting wrong, going to a good chiropractor is actually very helpful. What they can’t help with is things like broken bones, infections, any major injuries. Turned your hip wrong from a fall and now it’s sore, yes. Broke your hip from a fall, no. Good chiropractors are NOT pseudoscience. I don’t know about the ones mentioned in this thread, but chiropractics is a real, valid medical field. Well, maybe subfield, but still.
Arenite 4 years ago
Kid gets contraception at puberty. Stays on it until they a)find a committed partner who b) wants a baby with them. Only after they c) both take and pass a course on pregnancy and parenting do they d)get a license that allows removal of contraception and they can have a kid. In a better world than this one.
Valisbourne Spiritforge 4 years ago
Brain & soul both ache after reading this nonsense. A better argument for reversible sterilization until after passing a mental competency test I've rarely found. Just... wow.
KombatBunni 4 years ago
I couldn’t make it all the way through. To think that people like this exist is enough for me to wish that natural selection would hurry the f*ck up..
Load More Replies... Vicky Z 4 years ago
You have this cute baby animal post that melts your heart and then you get this post that melts your brain! Thanks BP for the mixed feelings!
littlesaresare 4 years ago
I read the baby animal post before this one. I really should have read it after. I need something to wash my brain out.
Load More Replies... Jerry Mathers 4 years ago
I can't fathom how some of this is even legal. Where does the line for child abuse begin? Intent can't be it. I know it's a slippery slope, but these moms are starting their kids off at a severe disadvantage.
Dhukath 4 years ago
Many of the threads on this list fall into the: "I'll bullshit /lie or make something up / Go against the norm" in order to post it to social media, to gain responses, both positive and negative in order to feel relevant, validated or special! Or some people are unbelievably stupid!
Random Anon 4 years ago
Dayum I'm facepalming so hard through this I think my neighbors called the cops. How, in the name of everything holy, are these people still alive, nevermind procreating?
Louloubelle 4 years ago
Am I the only one that had to stop reading these at a point? I honestly have never encountered anyone this stupid in my life. Although, that's probably a good thing, but certainly cut down on some entertainment.
memyselfandI 4 years ago (edited)
Just want to put this out there, (good) chiropractors are actually real doctors. They’re just not hospital doctors. If they have the education, then they are actually doctors. Chiropractors are kind of like physical therapists, only instead of recovering form an injury they help with everyday muscle and joint pain. Like if you have a sore back from sitting wrong, going to a good chiropractor is actually very helpful. What they can’t help with is things like broken bones, infections, any major injuries. Turned your hip wrong from a fall and now it’s sore, yes. Broke your hip from a fall, no. Good chiropractors are NOT pseudoscience. I don’t know about the ones mentioned in this thread, but chiropractics is a real, valid medical field. Well, maybe subfield, but still.
Arenite 4 years ago
Kid gets contraception at puberty. Stays on it until they a)find a committed partner who b) wants a baby with them. Only after they c) both take and pass a course on pregnancy and parenting do they d)get a license that allows removal of contraception and they can have a kid. In a better world than this one.
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