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Woman Asks Why A Guy She Turned Down Didn’t Try Harder, Gets The Perfect Response
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Woman Asks Why A Guy She Turned Down Didn’t Try Harder, Gets The Perfect Response

A guy invites a girl on a date, tries all of his best moves, but she says no. A guy has to move on. Otherwise, it’s harassment. Unless it isn’t? Recently, a girl surprised the internet when she posted a stupid question on Quora, asking why her date wasn’t a mind reader and didn’t pursue her after a negative answer about a first date.

She wrote, “A guy asked me out today, and I told him “no,” but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn’t he try again?” Naturally, a question like this deserves something more than a simple answer, but a comeback that’s written in the same language. Luckily, Ron Rule typed a response the inquirer should’ve understood. Scroll down to check out what he wrote!

After this word exchange the relationship advice and dumbest questions to ask poured like rain, demasking the silly games girls try to play with unsuspecting guys sometimes.

Someone surprised Quora with a strange question

Luckily, this guy responded with an example the inquirer had to understand

Amused by the exchange, people started sharing their own experiences

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Suzi Gauthier
Community Member
4 years ago

I think any guy who goes out with a girl who plays these kinds of games is in for a rough time. No one is worth that kind of crazy.

Juana
Community Member
4 years ago

Guys play games too. It's called being passive aggressive. I wish everyone would just say what they mean.

Lotta Roos
Community Member
4 years ago

And mean what they say!

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Laury M.
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4 years ago

The terrible, dangerous idea that a guy should try harder when a woman says no is the very worst thing that has come out of the vast majority of romantic movies. Kudos to the guy for not insisting. I can't imagine trying to start any sort of relationship with someone who can't seem to communicate appropriately.

Magpie
Community Member
4 years ago

Thank you Laury for saying this so clearly. It has bugged me for a long time, but I had trouble putting it into words.

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Suzi Gauthier
Community Member
4 years ago

I think any guy who goes out with a girl who plays these kinds of games is in for a rough time. No one is worth that kind of crazy.

Juana
Community Member
4 years ago

Guys play games too. It's called being passive aggressive. I wish everyone would just say what they mean.

Lotta Roos
Community Member
4 years ago

And mean what they say!

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Laury M.
Community Member
4 years ago

The terrible, dangerous idea that a guy should try harder when a woman says no is the very worst thing that has come out of the vast majority of romantic movies. Kudos to the guy for not insisting. I can't imagine trying to start any sort of relationship with someone who can't seem to communicate appropriately.

Magpie
Community Member
4 years ago

Thank you Laury for saying this so clearly. It has bugged me for a long time, but I had trouble putting it into words.

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