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Traveler Who Reserved A Seat In The Quiet Area Of A Train Finds A Brilliant Way To Get Rid Of A Passenger Who Was Blasting “Friends” Out Loud
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Traveler Who Reserved A Seat In The Quiet Area Of A Train Finds A Brilliant Way To Get Rid Of A Passenger Who Was Blasting “Friends” Out Loud

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It’s no big secret that privacy is a crucial facet of our existence, especially given how extroverted our world is. The noise is never-ending, and once in a while, all we wish for is to stay in our little bubble. 

This Redditor called u/NandosIsNotCheeky paid extra to stay in that said bubble; she booked a seat in a quiet section of the train so she could catch up on work and unwind – however, she was soon interrupted by a man who decided to watch “Friends” out loud. 

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Man sits in a quiet section of the train and starts watching “Friends” out loud on his iPad

Image credits: Tomas Anton Escobar (not the actual image)

As he refused to lower the volume, his seatmate came up with a plan and began making comments about the show to boot him out

Image credits: friends imdb (not the actual image)

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Image credits: Wavebreakmedia (not the actual image)

Image source: u/NandosIsNotCheeky

AITA for invading someone’s personal space?” – this web user took to one of Reddit’s most philosophical and thought-provoking communities to ask its members if she’s indeed a jerk for annoying a fellow passenger out of the train’s quiet section after he refused to turn down the volume on his iPad. The post managed to garner over 14K upvotes as well as 1.4K comments discussing the situation.

We encounter all kinds of people throughout our lives, and unfortunately, a fair share of them are not as pleasant as we would perhaps like them to be.

The star of today’s article was recently forced to deal with quite a character – however, she was quick to come up with a plan.

The thing is, the woman, who was traveling from Scotland to England, had reserved a specific seat in the quiet section of the train so she could work. Shortly after she and her friend were seated, a man in his 40s or 50s sat next to her and, about 15 minutes into the journey, decided to blast “Friends” out loud on his iPad. The author of the post attempted to dodge an argument by donning headphones, but it was pretty ineffective. Other passengers were staring, but the culprit didn’t seem to notice and continued to devour his sandwich.

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Naturally, her patience had worn thin, and the OP decided to approach the man. She politely asked him to turn the volume down but received a blatant “no” for an answer. The woman then mentioned the fact that this was a quiet section of the train, hoping to knock some sense back into the “Friends” fanatic, but this time, the man laughed and asked if she was going to tell on him.

The author was getting heated up when she saw her pal gesturing to her to stay calm and leave it, but that wasn’t going to work – not on the OP’s watch. So, the next thing she did was close her laptop and start watching the show with him, while also throwing in enough commentary to essentially shoo him away.

It worked, and the culprit left – however, the woman’s buddy thinks that she might’ve been a jerk

Image credits: licsiren (not the actual image)

The man didn’t budge, only threw a couple of furious glances. He then moved the iPad from the table to his lap, but the woman carried on peeking over his shoulder and commenting.

Finally, the time had come, and the rowdy traveler couldn’t take it anymore; he slammed the iPad case shut, grabbed his belongings, and walked off, presumably to find another passenger to bother. The Redditor breathed a sigh of relief, opened her laptop, and carried on working.

After she and her friend got off, “Lea” remarked that she should’ve just left it and not reacted to him. But, in all fairness, it was a 4-hour journey, plus the OP paid extra to have some peace!

Lea also said that the woman could’ve offered him her earphones, but as we can all probably agree, sharing such a thing with others, let alone strangers, isn’t the smartest thing. Lastly, the friend added that she thought that she’d actually kind of invaded the man’s personal space, which is what initially prompted the woman to take it online and learn whether she was, in fact, a little bit of a jerk.

What do you think about this situation? Would you have done things differently?

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Ael
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, I'm glad to be a German living in the UK, because I don't mind making a 'scene' when an arsehole bothers the people around. This being said, I wish the people of the UK would at least stand up when they get plundered and the ill / old / weak being culled by the Tories. At least for that you guys could wake up from your stupor. Because I'm not going to fight that battle for you. Grow up.

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XenoMurph
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes I'm from Ireland, living in England, and I'm fairly tolerant, but sometimes you just have to speak up. One young guy in a fairly decent pub was eating chicken, and started throwing the bones over his shoulder, his friends were just laughing and the people around were tutting and shaking their heads. I stood up and approached the table, his friends realised and gestured to me that they'd look after him, then stopped him and dragged him out. No-one else was going to say anything. Pathetic that a room full of people wouldn't stop that sort of terrible behaviour. I just can't understand it. You're right about the politics, they keep voting for posh people because they think a posh accent means they are better leaders. Unbelievable.

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Kay Phillips
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Polite people use headphones. If you're using your speaker in a public space,you're an a*****e. It's that simple.

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whatever
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The worst are parents that let their kids watch their iPads on full-volume, especially in restaurants. F**k those people .

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Jude Laskowski
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No reason for a kid to have an ipad in a restaurant. Shame on parents who entertain their kids constantly. There's nothing wrong with learning to sit still and be quiet, or else, join the conversation in a low voice. It's called manners.

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Ael
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, I'm glad to be a German living in the UK, because I don't mind making a 'scene' when an arsehole bothers the people around. This being said, I wish the people of the UK would at least stand up when they get plundered and the ill / old / weak being culled by the Tories. At least for that you guys could wake up from your stupor. Because I'm not going to fight that battle for you. Grow up.

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XenoMurph
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes I'm from Ireland, living in England, and I'm fairly tolerant, but sometimes you just have to speak up. One young guy in a fairly decent pub was eating chicken, and started throwing the bones over his shoulder, his friends were just laughing and the people around were tutting and shaking their heads. I stood up and approached the table, his friends realised and gestured to me that they'd look after him, then stopped him and dragged him out. No-one else was going to say anything. Pathetic that a room full of people wouldn't stop that sort of terrible behaviour. I just can't understand it. You're right about the politics, they keep voting for posh people because they think a posh accent means they are better leaders. Unbelievable.

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jaszczolt-anna avatar
Kay Phillips
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Polite people use headphones. If you're using your speaker in a public space,you're an a*****e. It's that simple.

scottiebass2112 avatar
whatever
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The worst are parents that let their kids watch their iPads on full-volume, especially in restaurants. F**k those people .

judlaskowski avatar
Jude Laskowski
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No reason for a kid to have an ipad in a restaurant. Shame on parents who entertain their kids constantly. There's nothing wrong with learning to sit still and be quiet, or else, join the conversation in a low voice. It's called manners.

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