Body positivity is a term many people are embracing with open arms nowadays. After all, the social movement promotes feelings of acceptance and love, regardless of anyone’s size, shape, or appearance.
In fact, this new mindset is so widely used and known that there are content creators who blow up by simply sharing their journeys of what it’s like to be a plus-size person in a vastly different and constantly changing world.
They aren’t afraid to call others out for ‘fatphobic’ behavior, rooting for inclusivity for everyone. But as many know, sometimes audience members aren’t the big fans of what influencers create. Here are 11 times plus-size customers spoke their mind and shared it on social media — whether it seems reasonable or logical remains up to you!
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Discrimination Within Bollywood
Actress Anjali Anand believes it to be unfair that Bollywood has given her the “plus-size” tag when actors such as Govinda and Rishi Kapoor were never labeled as such.
She told Fever FM, “Nobody would call [Govinda] a plus-size actor. Nobody would call Rishi Kapoor a plus size actor. He is an actor. But for a woman, I’m always called Anjali Anand — a plus size actor. I hate talking about it.
“We need to normalize it. People ask me why I don’t promote plus-size representation on the internet, and it’s because I don’t want to.”
She later went on to describe how society treats women in a harsher light than men.
Denied Entry From A Party Bus
Miami Beach in Florida is known for its vibrant nightlife and creative parties, and that’s exactly what 27-year-old body positivity advocate Fallon Melillo wanted to take advantage of.
Unfortunately, when she and her friends decided to take a party bus to get to a pool party, things took a turn.
Although the pool party itself said on Eventbrite, “Sorry No Big Girls for this party!” the promoter themselves did not disclose this information to the girl who bought the tickets for the party bus.
Thinking things would be okay, Fallon decided to go, only to be turned away.
“There’s no law, but it’s just downright awful and rude and humiliating,” the advocate told Bored Panda.
Inclusivity In Target
TikTok content creator Samyra has always been loud and proud when it comes to showcasing different kinds of bodies.
She recorded a video where she attempted to shame Target for only marketing their clothes towards thin people.
Samyra picked up a women’s jacket with the tip: “Go up a size or two on your purchase for an easy, effortlessly cool vibe.”
“This is a clear example of how brands center on thinness. How can someone who is 3X of 4X go up a size or two?” she argued.
But the comments were anything but understanding and forgiving.
“Very few people are built like you. Market moves corporations, not your feelings,” one person stated.
As one of the commentator pointed out. 'Market moves corporations...'. That's the reality. To achieve economies of scale, they cater for the majority, and the majority has been conditioned to expect smaller sizes.
Handrails In Swimming Pools
And Jaelynn Chaney stirs the pot of controversy once more.
She claims that public swimming pools that don’t feature handrails are “not inclusive” in a video from July 2024, repeatedly stating that “obesity is not a disability.”
For the 27-year-old, handrails are a crucial part of helping her stabilize as she gets out of the water.
“Accessibility isn’t optional,” she shared. “Make handrails mandatory at all pools for swimmers of every size and ability.”
Chaney continued, “Without handrails, we’re excluding so many from enjoying pools safely. It’s time to ensure everyone can swim with confidence. Demand mandatory handrails now!”
This has nothing to do with weight exclusively, IMO. Handrails should be a safety feature in most pools?
Quitting A Job After Being Told To “Cover Her Stomach”
Abigayle Canterbury was just doing what she needed to do when she was dress-coded at her job… that did not have a dress code.
She was indirectly told by her manager that she needed to “dress something nicer and cover the stomach,” to which she responded with “So no crop tops, got it.”
But after talking to her other co-workers, some who had been there significantly longer than she had, she realized they had never been dress-coded — even though a few were wearing something “inappropriate,” by the manager’s standards.
After all, what drew Abigayle to this job was the “laid-back environment,” and how the employees could wear whatever they wanted.
“That sh–t really not only caught me off guard but kind of hurt my feelings,” she said.
Her response? Quitting.
A crop top is not acceptable for work even if it's part of some slutty uniform like at Hooters. I refuse to go there because of the uniform. They can call it a family restaurant all the want to but I call BS on that! If there is a dress code it should apply to everybody!
A Look Of Disgust In An Airplane
A Brazilian plus-size influencer known as Sidney recorded an emotional video for his social media followers, recounting a particularly unpleasant experience he had while traveling.
As he was heading to Rio de Janeiro on a plane, he recounted having a difficult time passing through the aircraft aisle and accidentally bumping into a woman.
“When I passed by her and unintentionally, because of my size, my belly touched her, she looked at her arm, wiped it off, and gave me a disgusted look,” he said. “I felt like the worst human being alive.”
The small incident also triggered his anxiety.
“I had never gone through something like this, never in my life. I don’t give room for anyone to disrespect me, but this time it was completely different,” he concluded.
I find planes extremely narrow regardless of someone's size, I get anxious every time
Yes, OP this! Regardless of size the aisle is way too narrow
Load More Replies...It doesn't matter what size someone is - a stranger rubbing against you is unwelcome. Chances are he would have gotten a dirty look if he'd been average sized. Yeah, maybe she's a b***h. Maybe she just doesn't want people touching her, and this guy pushed past her instead of saying "Excuse me."
I tend to agree. Planes are hideous cramped spaces and they seem to encourage/invite poor behavior. I once had a man, while putting baggage in the overhead, rub his d**k in my face. When I pulled back, in shock and horror, he just shrugged and smirked at me as if to say, I dare you to make a big deal out of this. Men who stand right behind you, like up against your back while trying to board, and men who spread their legs so their thighs are touching you. And they KNOW that they do it. This is not inadvertent behavior. This is intentional encroaching on personal space because they are in an environment where they can plead innocence. (and yes, yes, not all men. But strangely enough... only ever men. Women don't try and touch me like this). I glare at any man who unnecessarily touches me - no matter how skinny or fat they are.
Load More Replies...Sure, let's redesign everything - planes, trains, restaurants, hospitals, grocery stores... all to accommodate excessively large people who simply can't accept their limitations in public.
Where does the person ask for everything to be accommodating to their size?
Load More Replies...Down vote if you want. But I had a middle seat between very large ladies. It was impossible to use the toilet as one said she couldn't get up . Not nice
Then they are not fit to fly in that seat - what if there was an emergency and you had to get past? If they can't get up unaided, they shouldn't be in that seat.
Load More Replies...Have a section for those enormous people. When it's full--they wait till the next flight. Same as when first class is full--and you want to fly first class. It is VERY uncomfortable for them AND the person forced to sit next to them. NEITHER can relax, eat, read, perform the slightest movement without disturbing the other. SOO-yeah, they need a special section.
If they are this enormous, they pose a safety risk in the event of an emergency, as with any disabled person. If you are unable to get up unassisted, or might block the gangways, they should have a special section for those people to get the help they need without stopping anyone else from exiting the plane.
Load More Replies...You've 'never' gone through something like this? Find that hard to believe.
On one hand planes are way to cramped. On the other hand, I would probably have done the same if someone bumped into me like that.
The whole idea of an airline is to fit as many people in the plane (sardines) to make more money. They are getting smaller as Capitalism grows larger. Guaranteed, if they began to make them plus-size-friendly, the ticket prices would bleed us dry, due to them not wanting to make a loss. The difference between now & the 60s in one photo: the-60s-67...642868.jpg
The issue with planes is that making something fly is rather costly, and hence you need to strike a reasonable compromise. Making the aisle wide enough for the plus plus sized, would e.g. require that you take out a seat from each row, which could be as much as 1/6th of all the seats, which would reduce the number of paying passengers by the same amount. So in order to make a plane that is fit for a few very large people, it would increase the price everyone would have to pay by 1/5th. That will be a very hard one to sell to the rest of the passengers, who is fine with the aisle being that narrow. So to make as many people as happy as possible, it is better for business to simply reject the few who aren't fit for a plane designed for those who are only slightly above average. You may be insulted if you want, but you can't get around the fact that an airline is a business that needs to make money.
I've only flown 1 time about 20 years ago from RDU to Tampa and back with southwest to visit friends. I was heavier than I am now and thought the seats could have been a little bit wider. I don't remember anything about the aisle width. For this guy the way that woman acted was ridiculous and disgusting. He is morbidly obese and needs 2 or 3 seats and the seatbelt extenders. My younger son weighed almost 500 lbs and I had to search for a seatbelt extender for the drivers seat because he could barely buckle it. For some reason the passenger side seatbelt is longer than the drivers side. He had bariatric surgery almost 3 years ago and is much smaller now.
I'm going to just put it out there that if you make bigger seats, they will be more expensive and in USA it is likely that someone bigger and entitled will pay for the smaller seat then demand you give up the big seat for them. And I would - for a massive premium.
It would be more appropriate for you to learn how to spell and speak. Silly Lee. Go lose some ego as well as nerdy.
Load More Replies...Yea like you would like someone dragging their sweaty sloby fat on you arm.
Load More Replies...Lyft Driver Refuses To Let A Plus-Size Woman In His Car
When Dajua Blanding, known as ‘Dank Demoss’ ordered a Lyft ride to the Lions playoff game, she was met with rejection over her weight.
In a video posted on January 19, Dajua captured the whole conversation between her and the driver.
When he showed up, he allegedly took one look at her and immediately locked the car’s doors, denying her entry into his Mercedes-Benz sedan.
“I can fit in this car,” Dajua said in the clip.
“Believe me, you can’t,” replied the driver. “I’m sorry. I’m going to cancel. You’re not going to be charged,” and added, “I’ve been in this situation before.”
Shocked, Dajua asked, “So every big person, you turn down because they can’t fit in your car?”
The driver apologized and then suggested she order herself a bigger vehicle, such as an Uber XL, for easier access.
She's hardly just plus size. I'm overweight and wear plus sizes, but I still fit in to normal airplane seats and cars. She's super morbid obese.
Bigger Car Seat Size
“Supercars should be for everyone,” stated Panamanian plus-size influencer Gracie Bon as she posted a video demanding that the luxury sports car McLaren should increase the size of their seats to accommodate her 55-inch hips.
Unsurprisingly, users online slammed her and suggested she go for bigger cars that have bigger spaces.
But Gracie has labeled herself a “body positivity advocate,” despite the fact that many people have claimed her body is the result of numerous surgical procedures.
“It’s not my fault to have an a– this big,” said the 27-year-old in a viral video from last year.
One person countered, “There’s no way that’s natural. It’s absolutely your fault.”
B***h modified her body, that's not natural. She should admit she's a publicity hound.
“Why Do You Need Two Chairs?”
Once again, Gracie Bon has sparked a viral debate. After posting a video where she demanded two chairs for her body — where most of her weight remains in her lower half — to sit comfortably at a restaurant.
In the clip, a person who appeared to be the restaurant owner laughed with her as they helped her arrange the seats.
Since then, it’s received over 5 million views and 80K comments, with some saying there was no natural way for Gracie to achieve her specific physique.
“She isn’t plus-sized; she is surgically altered,” stated one person.
But Gracie has made it clear that her body is not a product of any cosmetic procedure, writing, “Life changes when you love yourself. I’m happy to have you all witness my evolution, and to those who criticize me: no, I have never done any procedure to my face.”
She added, “This body is literally what God gave me. And I have to embrace every single part.”
Paying Extra To Fly
Airplanes are known to have uncomfortable, small spaces in order to use the most of the room available. But this wasn’t working for 28-year-old Jaelynn Chaney.
As a plus-size woman, she often took up more space than one seat could hold, and so she demanded airlines give free tickets to customers like her.
This solution was met with a wave of hate comments saying it wasn’t an airplane’s job to accommodate her size. A few netizens came up with the “suggestion” that she should be “charged by weight” in the way someone pays “extra for luggage.”
“So my body is being compared to luggage?” she asked. “Charging by weight is fatphobic and dehumanizing,” adding that she wasn’t a suitcase.
The influencer closed the debate with, “It’s time to stop treating fat people like we don’t deserve the same dignity and respect.”
I'm not sure what the solution is to this, but one thing that is NOT as solution is to bump someone else off the plane in order to give someone two seats. People have plans. It's NEVER okay to bump someone from the seat they paid for (except for obviously some poor behavior by the person themselves).
Flying Private Is The Solution
For the third time, Gracie Bon is standing up for what she believes is right.
After campaigning for bigger seats on aircrafts, the plus-size model said she was now banned from a few select airlines. But to her, this wasn’t a problem as she’s now decided to fly with her own private jet.
“Some airlines banned me so this is how I have to travel,” Gracie said in a video showcasing her experience flying privately.
“Everytime I travel, I used to buy two or three seats. So I started a campaign requesting bigger seats and they didn’t like it. Now flying private is my only solution,” later saying that being banned was the “best thing” to ever happen to her.
“Is flying private the solution for big girls like me?” she asked.
Why would anyone think these bodies are healthy and to be promoted as role models?
Some of these people are dangerously large!!!! How do you walk around with a body that big without putting stress on your joints, heart etc. Most of them are really young too. They will not want to be 50 and that big and I bet they will absolutely realise that in time.
Load More Replies...I'm quite lost, but if I could buy a McLaren and fly in a private plane I'd give exactly 0 fs about it, and just laugh.
But, would you still demand 2 chairs in a restaurant because you choose to have a comically wide rear?
Load More Replies...I'm going to start this out by saying that I myself am overweight (and not by a little). Body positivity is NOT saying that we need to accept all bodies no matter what. Obesity leads to all kinds of health problems and people should, for their own health and longevity, try to lose the excess weight. Body positivity is great. Not everyone has a models body. But these people are using body positivity as a crutch. People need to be accountable and making everything bigger isn't the way to fix the problem. Lose some weight, get healthier and these problems won't be a problem anymore. - Signed: A fat guy.
I get what you're saying but you're also blaming people for conditions they may have zero control over. This whole obesity obsession by people who aren't obese or overweight and/or whose life it ISN'T is insane
Load More Replies...Most of these people looking for publicity purely to have something (supposedly) worth posting on social media. If we stop giving them publicity, they'll go away. God knows whether they have any actual skills, but at least they'll stop making their lives seem like something to aspire to.
I'm a very large woman. Morbidly obese according to the doctors. But I don't go around demanding special treatment because of it. Entitled people are pure evil, regardless of their "justification".
How can people claim to be "body positiv" while doing THIS to their bodies?
I am amazed at the number of self rationalizing delusional behaviors of no significance that are foisted on society as reasonable. Get some help
I'm over the whole body positive movement because it's gone too far. People who self-inflict their bodies to the point of morbid obesity or starve themselves to the point of emaciation have serious mental health issues and need to be treated medically. There's absolutely nothing positive about any of this.
BP need to get its s**t together and stop posting the same photo on every single portion of the article. Shows how the people who are running the site now are absolutely clueless and unable to get things right. Maybe they should rename the site Bored Clickbait
This freak did this to herself for likes from other freaks. I can give a flying f... about her self mutilation and the fact freak show is whining
I used to think Michelle Tian was cool, at least as a BP staff member. Now I realize she's just as stupid as half the people on this website. I wish BP would stop letting controversial trash on here. I come here to relax, not to watch idiots yell silently at each other.
there is a bias in the medical field against those who have different body types. i am not referring to people whose weight is due to an eating disorder or medical condition. remember those little charts that showed if a person was a certain height then they should be within a certain weight class? that was used for decades until healthcare professionals finally admitted that using it as a guide did not take into consideration a person's frame or even a genetic disposition. by the latter i mean how a certain race of people tend to be built different from other races. while i don't consider myself to be 'fatphobic' i do believe that every person needs to put their general health ahead of some cause promoting acceptance. if a person is comfortable in their skin regardless of shape and size - great! but that doesn't mean choosing that personal acceptance should be used to attack others just as under the c0lour of personal rights.
BMI is still very much in use in UK. Even in infant schools
Load More Replies...These "body positivity" promoters/influencer/advocates are no better than the anti-vaxx crowd. They are just attempting to get pity to promote unhealthy lifestyle.
I do not know where they obtained the steatopygia but I, for one, does not want her thighs blocking out the stereo.
I lost weight to ride an attraction in LAs Vegas that had a weight limit. I didn’t complain about it.
I lost weight because I wanted to ride an attraction in Las Vegas that had a weight limit. I did not complain about it.
This 'body positivity' movement has gone TOO FAR. People are literally dying at young ages but we're not allowed to say anything as we just get called 'haters.'
After suffering a heart attack and double by-pass surgery I lost 85lbs. I changed my eating habits for good. It can be done, don't give up.
Being Fat/obese is unhealthy, it is a drain on social resources and should not be accommodated any more than smokers are
I am full of sympathy for people who are disabled, elderly etc, and accommodations should be made, but if someone decides to eat so much they are the size of 3 people or decide get surgery to have a ridiculous backside, then no, I have little sympathy for them. People say "I can't help eating 6000 calories a day".. Yes you can! Having been stuck next to a massive woman on a plane where her arm and side fat draped over me for 2 hours alongside her BO I have no sympathy, they decided to eat like a starving elephant. As Thor's mum said... Eat a salad dear.
The world is also not designed for very tall people or very short people, difference is that tall or short people can’t help it they are stuck with it, overly heavy people CAN make changes to better fit in the world and make life easier for themselves. My brothers are 6 foot 9 and 6 foot 6 tall with size 17 and 15 feet they can’t find anything to fit in most uk high street clothes stores no one campaigns for shops to include clothes for tall people and where’s the little people section? Seems like they are expected to buy childrens clothes. As a 6 foot 1 female I can get around it by shopping in the mens sections occasionally
Why would anyone think these bodies are healthy and to be promoted as role models?
Some of these people are dangerously large!!!! How do you walk around with a body that big without putting stress on your joints, heart etc. Most of them are really young too. They will not want to be 50 and that big and I bet they will absolutely realise that in time.
Load More Replies...I'm quite lost, but if I could buy a McLaren and fly in a private plane I'd give exactly 0 fs about it, and just laugh.
But, would you still demand 2 chairs in a restaurant because you choose to have a comically wide rear?
Load More Replies...I'm going to start this out by saying that I myself am overweight (and not by a little). Body positivity is NOT saying that we need to accept all bodies no matter what. Obesity leads to all kinds of health problems and people should, for their own health and longevity, try to lose the excess weight. Body positivity is great. Not everyone has a models body. But these people are using body positivity as a crutch. People need to be accountable and making everything bigger isn't the way to fix the problem. Lose some weight, get healthier and these problems won't be a problem anymore. - Signed: A fat guy.
I get what you're saying but you're also blaming people for conditions they may have zero control over. This whole obesity obsession by people who aren't obese or overweight and/or whose life it ISN'T is insane
Load More Replies...Most of these people looking for publicity purely to have something (supposedly) worth posting on social media. If we stop giving them publicity, they'll go away. God knows whether they have any actual skills, but at least they'll stop making their lives seem like something to aspire to.
I'm a very large woman. Morbidly obese according to the doctors. But I don't go around demanding special treatment because of it. Entitled people are pure evil, regardless of their "justification".
How can people claim to be "body positiv" while doing THIS to their bodies?
I am amazed at the number of self rationalizing delusional behaviors of no significance that are foisted on society as reasonable. Get some help
I'm over the whole body positive movement because it's gone too far. People who self-inflict their bodies to the point of morbid obesity or starve themselves to the point of emaciation have serious mental health issues and need to be treated medically. There's absolutely nothing positive about any of this.
BP need to get its s**t together and stop posting the same photo on every single portion of the article. Shows how the people who are running the site now are absolutely clueless and unable to get things right. Maybe they should rename the site Bored Clickbait
This freak did this to herself for likes from other freaks. I can give a flying f... about her self mutilation and the fact freak show is whining
I used to think Michelle Tian was cool, at least as a BP staff member. Now I realize she's just as stupid as half the people on this website. I wish BP would stop letting controversial trash on here. I come here to relax, not to watch idiots yell silently at each other.
there is a bias in the medical field against those who have different body types. i am not referring to people whose weight is due to an eating disorder or medical condition. remember those little charts that showed if a person was a certain height then they should be within a certain weight class? that was used for decades until healthcare professionals finally admitted that using it as a guide did not take into consideration a person's frame or even a genetic disposition. by the latter i mean how a certain race of people tend to be built different from other races. while i don't consider myself to be 'fatphobic' i do believe that every person needs to put their general health ahead of some cause promoting acceptance. if a person is comfortable in their skin regardless of shape and size - great! but that doesn't mean choosing that personal acceptance should be used to attack others just as under the c0lour of personal rights.
BMI is still very much in use in UK. Even in infant schools
Load More Replies...These "body positivity" promoters/influencer/advocates are no better than the anti-vaxx crowd. They are just attempting to get pity to promote unhealthy lifestyle.
I do not know where they obtained the steatopygia but I, for one, does not want her thighs blocking out the stereo.
I lost weight to ride an attraction in LAs Vegas that had a weight limit. I didn’t complain about it.
I lost weight because I wanted to ride an attraction in Las Vegas that had a weight limit. I did not complain about it.
This 'body positivity' movement has gone TOO FAR. People are literally dying at young ages but we're not allowed to say anything as we just get called 'haters.'
After suffering a heart attack and double by-pass surgery I lost 85lbs. I changed my eating habits for good. It can be done, don't give up.
Being Fat/obese is unhealthy, it is a drain on social resources and should not be accommodated any more than smokers are
I am full of sympathy for people who are disabled, elderly etc, and accommodations should be made, but if someone decides to eat so much they are the size of 3 people or decide get surgery to have a ridiculous backside, then no, I have little sympathy for them. People say "I can't help eating 6000 calories a day".. Yes you can! Having been stuck next to a massive woman on a plane where her arm and side fat draped over me for 2 hours alongside her BO I have no sympathy, they decided to eat like a starving elephant. As Thor's mum said... Eat a salad dear.
The world is also not designed for very tall people or very short people, difference is that tall or short people can’t help it they are stuck with it, overly heavy people CAN make changes to better fit in the world and make life easier for themselves. My brothers are 6 foot 9 and 6 foot 6 tall with size 17 and 15 feet they can’t find anything to fit in most uk high street clothes stores no one campaigns for shops to include clothes for tall people and where’s the little people section? Seems like they are expected to buy childrens clothes. As a 6 foot 1 female I can get around it by shopping in the mens sections occasionally
