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Body positivity is a term many people are embracing with open arms nowadays. After all, the social movement promotes feelings of acceptance and love, regardless of anyone’s size, shape, or appearance.

In fact, this new mindset is so widely used and known that there are content creators who blow up by simply sharing their journeys of what it’s like to be a plus-size person in a vastly different and constantly changing world.

They aren’t afraid to call others out for ‘fatphobic’ behavior, rooting for inclusivity for everyone. But as many know, sometimes audience members aren’t the big fans of what influencers create. Here are 11 times plus-size customers spoke their mind and shared it on social media — whether it seems reasonable or logical remains up to you!

#1

Discrimination Within Bollywood

Plus-size person in a blue outfit, expressing confidence against societal norms in outdoor urban setting.

Actress Anjali Anand believes it to be unfair that Bollywood has given her the “plus-size” tag when actors such as Govinda and Rishi Kapoor were never labeled as such.

She told Fever FM, “Nobody would call [Govinda] a plus-size actor. Nobody would call Rishi Kapoor a plus size actor. He is an actor. But for a woman, I’m always called Anjali Anand — a plus size actor. I hate talking about it.

“We need to normalize it. People ask me why I don’t promote plus-size representation on the internet, and it’s because I don’t want to.”

She later went on to describe how society treats women in a harsher light than men.

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K
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8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The 7% who said no.. probably men.

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    #2

    Denied Entry From A Party Bus

    Plus-size person in a stylish black top poses confidently, challenging conventional beauty norms.

    Miami Beach in Florida is known for its vibrant nightlife and creative parties, and that’s exactly what 27-year-old body positivity advocate Fallon Melillo wanted to take advantage of.

    Unfortunately, when she and her friends decided to take a party bus to get to a pool party, things took a turn.

    Although the pool party itself said on Eventbrite, “Sorry No Big Girls for this party!” the promoter themselves did not disclose this information to the girl who bought the tickets for the party bus.

    Thinking things would be okay, Fallon decided to go, only to be turned away

    “There’s no law, but it’s just downright awful and rude and humiliating,” the advocate told Bored Panda.

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    Emilu
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Granting or denying someone access to a party based on their size is gross. Be grateful you weren’t allowed to go to that s**t show!

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    #3

    Inclusivity In Target

    TikTok content creator Samyra has always been loud and proud when it comes to showcasing different kinds of bodies. 

    She recorded a video where she attempted to shame Target for only marketing their clothes towards thin people.

    Samyra picked up a women’s jacket with the tip: “Go up a size or two on your purchase for an easy, effortlessly cool vibe.”

    “This is a clear example of how brands center on thinness. How can someone who is 3X of 4X go up a size or two?” she argued.

    But the comments were anything but understanding and forgiving.

    “Very few people are built like you. Market moves corporations, not your feelings,” one person stated.

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    Hippopotamuses
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As one of the commentator pointed out. 'Market moves corporations...'. That's the reality. To achieve economies of scale, they cater for the majority, and the majority has been conditioned to expect smaller sizes.

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    #4

    Handrails In Swimming Pools

    @jaebaeofficial No handrails at pools? That’s not inclusive. Demand accessibility for all. ⁣ •⁣ •⁣ •⁣ #EqualAccess #PlusSize #PlusSizeTravel #PlusSizeTravelBlogger #Fyp ♬ Not my fault sped up - Abby :)

    And Jaelynn Chaney stirs the pot of controversy once more.

    She claims that public swimming pools that don’t feature handrails are “not inclusive” in a video from July 2024, repeatedly stating that “obesity is not a disability.” 

    For the 27-year-old, handrails are a crucial part of helping her stabilize as she gets out of the water. 

    “Accessibility isn’t optional,” she shared. “Make handrails mandatory at all pools for swimmers of every size and ability.”

    Chaney continued, “Without handrails, we’re excluding so many from enjoying pools safely. It’s time to ensure everyone can swim with confidence. Demand mandatory handrails now!”

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has nothing to do with weight exclusively, IMO. Handrails should be a safety feature in most pools?

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    #5

    Quitting A Job After Being Told To “Cover Her Stomach”

    Plus-size woman in a casual outfit expressing frustration in a home setting, addressing uncomfortable spaces.

    Abigayle Canterbury was just doing what she needed to do when she was dress-coded at her job… that did not have a dress code.

    She was indirectly told by her manager that she needed to “dress something nicer and cover the stomach,” to which she responded with “So no crop tops, got it.”

    But after talking to her other co-workers, some who had been there significantly longer than she had, she realized they had never been dress-coded — even though a few were wearing something “inappropriate,” by the manager’s standards.

    After all, what drew Abigayle to this job was the “laid-back environment,” and how the employees could wear whatever they wanted. 

    “That sh–t really not only caught me off guard but kind of hurt my feelings,” she said. 

    Her response? Quitting.

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    Beth Wheeler
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A crop top is not acceptable for work even if it's part of some slutty uniform like at Hooters. I refuse to go there because of the uniform. They can call it a family restaurant all the want to but I call BS on that! If there is a dress code it should apply to everybody!

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    #6

    A Look Of Disgust In An Airplane

    Plus-size customer in two contrasting moments: looking upset indoors and joyful at a theme park wearing Mickey Mouse ears.

    A Brazilian plus-size influencer known as Sidney recorded an emotional video for his social media followers, recounting a particularly unpleasant experience he had while traveling.

    As he was heading to Rio de Janeiro on a plane, he recounted having a difficult time passing through the aircraft aisle and accidentally bumping into a woman.

    “When I passed by her and unintentionally, because of my size, my belly touched her, she looked at her arm, wiped it off, and gave me a disgusted look,” he said. “I felt like the worst human being alive.” 

    The small incident also triggered his anxiety. 

    “I had never gone through something like this, never in my life. I don’t give room for anyone to disrespect me, but this time it was completely different,” he concluded.

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    Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find planes extremely narrow regardless of someone's size, I get anxious every time

    K
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, OP this! Regardless of size the aisle is way too narrow

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    Deborah B
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't matter what size someone is - a stranger rubbing against you is unwelcome. Chances are he would have gotten a dirty look if he'd been average sized. Yeah, maybe she's a b***h. Maybe she just doesn't want people touching her, and this guy pushed past her instead of saying "Excuse me."

    lenka
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tend to agree. Planes are hideous cramped spaces and they seem to encourage/invite poor behavior. I once had a man, while putting baggage in the overhead, rub his d**k in my face. When I pulled back, in shock and horror, he just shrugged and smirked at me as if to say, I dare you to make a big deal out of this. Men who stand right behind you, like up against your back while trying to board, and men who spread their legs so their thighs are touching you. And they KNOW that they do it. This is not inadvertent behavior. This is intentional encroaching on personal space because they are in an environment where they can plead innocence. (and yes, yes, not all men. But strangely enough... only ever men. Women don't try and touch me like this). I glare at any man who unnecessarily touches me - no matter how skinny or fat they are.

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    Riley Quinn
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure, let's redesign everything - planes, trains, restaurants, hospitals, grocery stores... all to accommodate excessively large people who simply can't accept their limitations in public.

    Gozer LeGozerian
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where does the person ask for everything to be accommodating to their size?

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    Barbara Wilcock
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Down vote if you want. But I had a middle seat between very large ladies. It was impossible to use the toilet as one said she couldn't get up . Not nice

    cerinamroth
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then they are not fit to fly in that seat - what if there was an emergency and you had to get past? If they can't get up unaided, they shouldn't be in that seat.

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    KnightOwl
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah i would probably react the same way if some stranger rubbed against me, even if we were in a very tight, narrow space and it was an accident. I dont want random person's (probably sweaty) body touching me, i don't care what size they are.

    B
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The more people airlines can cram in (especially budget airlines), the more money they make. Don't expect changes any time soon.

    Christina A Davis
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have a section for those enormous people. When it's full--they wait till the next flight. Same as when first class is full--and you want to fly first class. It is VERY uncomfortable for them AND the person forced to sit next to them. NEITHER can relax, eat, read, perform the slightest movement without disturbing the other. SOO-yeah, they need a special section.

    cerinamroth
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they are this enormous, they pose a safety risk in the event of an emergency, as with any disabled person. If you are unable to get up unassisted, or might block the gangways, they should have a special section for those people to get the help they need without stopping anyone else from exiting the plane.

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    Cynthia Cross
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You've 'never' gone through something like this? Find that hard to believe.

    Royal Stray
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On one hand planes are way to cramped. On the other hand, I would probably have done the same if someone bumped into me like that.

    StumblingThroughLife
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The whole idea of an airline is to fit as many people in the plane (sardines) to make more money. They are getting smaller as Capitalism grows larger. Guaranteed, if they began to make them plus-size-friendly, the ticket prices would bleed us dry, due to them not wanting to make a loss. The difference between now & the 60s in one photo: the-60s-67...642868.jpg the-60s-67e9050642868.jpg

    Jon Steensen
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The issue with planes is that making something fly is rather costly, and hence you need to strike a reasonable compromise. Making the aisle wide enough for the plus plus sized, would e.g. require that you take out a seat from each row, which could be as much as 1/6th of all the seats, which would reduce the number of paying passengers by the same amount. So in order to make a plane that is fit for a few very large people, it would increase the price everyone would have to pay by 1/5th. That will be a very hard one to sell to the rest of the passengers, who is fine with the aisle being that narrow. So to make as many people as happy as possible, it is better for business to simply reject the few who aren't fit for a plane designed for those who are only slightly above average. You may be insulted if you want, but you can't get around the fact that an airline is a business that needs to make money.

    Beth Wheeler
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've only flown 1 time about 20 years ago from RDU to Tampa and back with southwest to visit friends. I was heavier than I am now and thought the seats could have been a little bit wider. I don't remember anything about the aisle width. For this guy the way that woman acted was ridiculous and disgusting. He is morbidly obese and needs 2 or 3 seats and the seatbelt extenders. My younger son weighed almost 500 lbs and I had to search for a seatbelt extender for the drivers seat because he could barely buckle it. For some reason the passenger side seatbelt is longer than the drivers side. He had bariatric surgery almost 3 years ago and is much smaller now.

    kathoco
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Given the percentage of people who are overweight, I’m surprised that airlines don’t replace a couple of 3-seat economy seats with two wider seats that could be offered to people at a higher price but cheaper than business.

    KieLeaHar
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How are they supposed to give accommodations for people who are plus size? They’re not going to make planes bigger! They’re not going to make aisles wider! They definitely not going to make seats bigger either.

    KatSaidWhat
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm going to just put it out there that if you make bigger seats, they will be more expensive and in USA it is likely that someone bigger and entitled will pay for the smaller seat then demand you give up the big seat for them. And I would - for a massive premium.

    Gozer LeGozerian
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    8 months ago

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    As per usual the childish and immature bottom feeding dimwits with extreme cases of fatphobia show their ugliness here. May obese people "accidentally" touch you daily for the rest of your sad, pathetic lives. You deserve it.

    Lee451 Henderson
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    8 months ago

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    It would be more appropriate for the lardasses to lise some weight as well as healthier.

    Emy Loves
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would be more appropriate for you to learn how to spell and speak. Silly Lee. Go lose some ego as well as nerdy.

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    Beth Wheeler
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    That woman is a disgusting pig and should be ashamed of herself!

    Donna Peluda
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yea like you would like someone dragging their sweaty sloby fat on you arm.

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    #7

    Lyft Driver Refuses To Let A Plus-Size Woman In His Car

    Plus-size individual standing confidently between two men in suits, emphasizing inclusive spaces.

    When Dajua Blanding, known as ‘Dank Demoss’ ordered a Lyft ride to the Lions playoff game, she was met with rejection over her weight

    In a video posted on January 19, Dajua captured the whole conversation between her and the driver.

    When he showed up, he allegedly took one look at her and immediately locked the car’s doors, denying her entry into his Mercedes-Benz sedan.

    “I can fit in this car,” Dajua said in the clip. 

    “Believe me, you can’t,” replied the driver. “I’m sorry. I’m going to cancel. You’re not going to be charged,” and added, “I’ve been in this situation before.”

    Shocked, Dajua asked, “So every big person, you turn down because they can’t fit in your car?”

    The driver apologized and then suggested she order herself a bigger vehicle, such as an Uber XL, for easier access. 

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    Upstaged75
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's hardly just plus size. I'm overweight and wear plus sizes, but I still fit in to normal airplane seats and cars. She's super morbid obese.

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    #8

    Bigger Car Seat Size

    Plus-size customer in colorful dress standing by a car, highlighting discomfort with inadequate space.

    “Supercars should be for everyone,” stated Panamanian plus-size influencer Gracie Bon as she posted a video demanding that the luxury sports car McLaren should increase the size of their seats to accommodate her 55-inch hips.

    Unsurprisingly, users online slammed her and suggested she go for bigger cars that have bigger spaces.

    But Gracie has labeled herself a “body positivity advocate,” despite the fact that many people have claimed her body is the result of numerous surgical procedures.

    “It’s not my fault to have an a– this big,” said the 27-year-old in a viral video from last year. 

    One person countered, “There’s no way that’s natural. It’s absolutely your fault.”

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    Lady Eowyn
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    B***h modified her body, that's not natural. She should admit she's a publicity hound.

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    #9

    “Why Do You Need Two Chairs?”

    Once again, Gracie Bon has sparked a viral debate. After posting a video where she demanded two chairs for her body — where most of her weight remains in her lower half — to sit comfortably at a restaurant. 

    In the clip, a person who appeared to be the restaurant owner laughed with her as they helped her arrange the seats.

    Since then, it’s received over 5 million views and 80K comments, with some saying there was no natural way for Gracie to achieve her specific physique. 

    “She isn’t plus-sized; she is surgically altered,” stated one person.

    But Gracie has made it clear that her body is not a product of any cosmetic procedure, writing, “Life changes when you love yourself. I’m happy to have you all witness my evolution, and to those who criticize me: no, I have never done any procedure to my face.”

    She added, “This body is literally what God gave me. And I have to embrace every single part.”

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    Maisey Myles
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poll Question: Should people lie about their a$$es being god given?

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    #10

    Paying Extra To Fly

    @jaebaeofficial 🤬 Want to fight fatphobia with me?⁣ Donate to my GoFundMe and sign the petition to support the Fat Equality Bill of Rights and the Fat Accessibility Act! 💥 Link in bio to donate and sign the petition! ✊⁣ ⁣ Let’s break down these fatphobic “solutions” once and for all: ⁣ ❌ Lose weight⁣ ❌ Upgrade to first class⁣ ❌ Don’t fly⁣ ❌ Flying isn’t a right, it’s a privilege⁣ ❌ I pay extra for luggage, so fat people should too⁣ ⁣ These aren’t solutions, they’re excuses to keep fat people from having equal access and rights. 🚫 It’s time to stop treating fat people like we don’t deserve the same dignity and respect. ✊⁣ ⁣ I’m fighting for fat justice, body equality, and accessibility for all! Let’s make the world more inclusive and stop letting corporations and society get away with fatphobia. 🛑⁣ ⁣ Donate and sign to help push for the change we need to see! 🔥⁣ •⁣ •⁣ •⁣ #FatEquality #FatAccessibilityAct #BodyJustice #FightFatphobia #Donate #EqualityForAll #FearlessFatAdvocacy #FatEqualityBillOfRights #PlusSizeTravel #BodyEqualityInTravel #FlyingWhileFat #FlyingWhilePlusSize #GoFundMe #SignThePetition #PlusSizeTravelBlogger #FatActivist #Fyp ♬ Drake style/HIPHOP beat(1491552) - Burning Man

    Airplanes are known to have uncomfortable, small spaces in order to use the most of the room available. But this wasn’t working for 28-year-old Jaelynn Chaney

    As a plus-size woman, she often took up more space than one seat could hold, and so she demanded airlines give free tickets to customers like her.

    This solution was met with a wave of hate comments saying it wasn’t an airplane’s job to accommodate her size. A few netizens came up with the “suggestion” that she should be “charged by weight” in the way someone pays “extra for luggage.”

    “So my body is being compared to luggage?” she asked. “Charging by weight is fatphobic and dehumanizing,” adding that she wasn’t a suitcase. 

    The influencer closed the debate with, “It’s time to stop treating fat people like we don’t deserve the same dignity and respect.”

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    Marnie
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure what the solution is to this, but one thing that is NOT as solution is to bump someone else off the plane in order to give someone two seats. People have plans. It's NEVER okay to bump someone from the seat they paid for (except for obviously some poor behavior by the person themselves).

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    #11

    Flying Private Is The Solution

    Plus-size woman in black outfit at an airport, highlighting discomfort in 'fatphobic' airline spaces.

    For the third time, Gracie Bon is standing up for what she believes is right.

    After campaigning for bigger seats on aircrafts, the plus-size model said she was now banned from a few select airlines. But to her, this wasn’t a problem as she’s now decided to fly with her own private jet.

    “Some airlines banned me so this is how I have to travel,” Gracie said in a video showcasing her experience flying privately. 

    “Everytime I travel, I used to buy two or three seats. So I started a campaign requesting bigger seats and they didn’t like it. Now flying private is my only solution,” later saying that being banned was the “best thing” to ever happen to her. 

    “Is flying private the solution for big girls like me?” she asked.

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