In school, the majority of us knew popular students. And being popular does not automatically translate to being mean. Yes, some popular kids might be mean, but they can also be quite lovely. Also, some of these kids might be well-known because of how kind and enjoyable they are, making everyone want to be in their social circle. Others may be quite wealthy, which entails always owning expensive items, throwing extravagant parties, and sharing a lot of these things with their pals. And let's face it, kids and teens sometimes think these are the most important things in the world.
But it's always fascinating to see how these popular kids' lives really worked out. Do they have their feet on the ground or do they continue to do nothing while possessing everything? Or perhaps they were blessed by life, worked hard, and are now leading happy lives? A Reddit user asked online people to discuss their experiences with these popular students from their school. Let's just say that the stories range from sad to heartwarming.
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One of my best friends was from the wrong side of the tracks, poor, had a mullet and wore Metallica shirts way before they broke into mainstream.
He was extremely popular because he was crazy smart, very talented and driven. Everyone wanted to be his friend and he was very open about being nice to everyone.
Many many parents were like “don’t hang out with that John Smith boy, he’s on [substances] and a bad influence”
(He absolutely was not, it was the Satanic scare of the late 80s and 90s and he liked Metal Music)
He worked his as off all his life and is now pretty damn wealthy with a house, wife and kids in California.
When we chat it up on the phone he is the exact same person I grew up with. Crazy funny and extremely kind.
The most popular class clown who drove teachers mad with his antics (to the greatesr enjoyment of the rest of us, seriously, this guy was legendary) went on to become a teacher.
My dad was one of the worst students. Became a teacher because he understood what it felt like to be a bratty little kid with dyslexia cooped up at school every day. His students love him.
Well I mean he knows all the tricks. When I was in HS, my school hired a former student as a teacher who had graduated from there 6 years prior. This guy was a legend for all the pranks he had pulled at his time there (many of the teachers at first did not react so well to him being a colleague of theirs after what he pulled in their classes). He right away told the kids he knew all the tricks, and nothing they could ever do would top him, or get past him, so they better behave. Most kids behaved, and he was able to catch every prank and trouble incident before they happened, because he knew what to look for.
I went to school with. Girl like that. She called teachers by their first names and was a disruptive student. She later became a school principal.
And probably a really great teacher for all his experience as a student
Either this is about my brother, or it's happened multiple times. (I see some others in the other comments too.) My brother stole a toilet and put it in the library once... granted, that was in university. But he had a hundred stories nearly as good as everyone knew him as the wild, funny kid. Now he knows exactly what to expect from his budding troublemakers and yes, still has his sense of humour. The kids adore him.
I know a lot of teachers and many of them were either class clowns or ‘bad’ students.
Most popular kid in our school was a guy named Josh. Insanely outgoing and friendly, he could befriend anyone he talked to within five seconds, and always did. Active athlete, was on the football team. Straight A student. Very devout church-goer. I didn't meet him until later in high school, where he was part of a Dungeons and Dragons game I joined. Always put on a great time role playing. While we didn't get close, we had a couple extraordinarily memorable times during our senior year of high school, very fun and meaningful times that stood out strongly to me then during a s****y part of my life and are still remembered fondly by me twenty years later. Josh was going places, and he'd make a difference somewhere.
We lost touch after high school. Three years later he fell asleep behind the wheel of his truck and hit a tree. Died on impact. Found out through another friend who'd kept up with him, and we went to his funeral. I'd never seen a church so packed full of people for something like this, hundreds and hundreds of people. From our school, from his church, from all over life, the church was legitimately full.
To this day, one of my few true lifelong regrets is letting my anxiety get the better of me when Josh's pastor asked people to come up to the mic and say something about Josh. I should've told everyone of our ludicrous all-nighter digging his truck out of the mud in a forest he'd gone mudding in after an evening school performance where we were all still in khakis and polos, finishing at three AM and somehow ending our bedraggled a**es at IHOP after getting it out. I should've told everyone how we found out our DnD GM was moving away on short notice, and we high-tailed it to his place after school and literally ran out of gas in that f*****g truck getting there, then flooded the engine refilling it from a Jerry can, stuck with our GM who didn't want anyone coming to say goodbye and ending up late in the evening laying in that truck bed talking about science and philosophy and religion, three teenage dudes waiting for that goddamn f*****g truck to get to a drivable condition so we could say goodbye to our friend properly before he disappeared from our lives. I'm nearing forty, and I still regret not saying how great of a guy he was to a short, scrawny, long-haired metalhead weirdo like I was in high school. Because he was. He was going to make a difference. I suppose, given all the people at his funeral, he still did.
A girl friend of mine that I knew since kindergarten was appointed a California State Supreme Court Judge.
He was our QB in highschool. Liked by everyone, handsome, did good in school, and was a humble person totally aware of his situation. Got married to a girl we went to school with, got a local job in a big local Industry, had a kid with her. I saw him at the gas station last time I was in town. He seems like he's doing well.
My favorite is that the star wrestler, who was a bully, had a one night stand with the star cheerleader years later. It resulted in a pregnancy and she now complains on Facebook that he is a deadbeat dad.
Small town.
**There are always exceptions**, but most kids who were 'popular' were friendly, outgoing, well dressed, and emotionally stable. That happened because they came from families with more money and better educated parents.
Those parents often provided better mentoring, ensured they went to college, and as a result the kids ended up professionals who did reasonably well for themselves.
Don't know, Don't care.
Graduated in 1998, left for the Navy and never went back
Don't know what happened to any of them
I tried for the navy. Scored an 88 on my ASVAB. Thanks to a leg injury (fell in a gasoline fire at 16) and a hormone disorder, I was rejected....even my waiver request was shot down....recruiter suggested I try the other branches and they all rejected me. Needless to say, I was pi$$ed as hell. This was back in 97, a year after HS.
Lawyer.
Doctor.
Current NBC Anchor in Lubbock.
Track and Field Coach for high school.
Physical therapist.
Engineer.
Prison for involuntary vehicular manslaughter and DUI.
The kids who were popular in my school came from rich families, most of them simply went to rich schools and got jobs that didn't really involve working.
Now the cycle continues.
Ah, this sums up the majority of the current British government ... Oh, and the US government, and the Argentinian government ....... etc etc ad infinitum ....
They all became Instagram influencers and started selling detox tea
They're doing fine. Contrary to what Reddit would have you believe, most of the popular kids in schools weren't bullies in my experience. They were kids who for the most part were nice, had a stable home life, and maybe happened to be fairly athletic
I’m old. Graduated from high school in 1970. My classmate rundown: One of the most popular ones came up with the name “windows” while a VP at Microsoft. One became a state governor and a U.S. Senator. Left politics in disgrace over racist comments. One is a hot shot on Wall Street. One of the less popular ones headed up a major record label for awhile. One was once mayor of a coastal town. Another less popular one was the victim of a serial killer. Another thoroughly unpopular one faked his death to get out of some financial fraud. Most, popular and unpopular, faded into obscurity as most of us do. Heard about a death just this week. Time marches on.
They are still as clicky as they were in high school almost 20 years later. There was a whole drama around the reunion (which I wasn’t going to), the valedictorian planned a reunion, and one of the “popular kids” in planned a separate one. People keep adding me to to the fb page and I keep denying myself entry. Not interested in any of them 😂😂
I went to my 10-year reunion and decided there was a 0% chance of me ever attending another. I was contacted a couple of times about attending the 15-year, but I didn't even acknowledge the calls/emails. I don't need those people in my lives.
I haven't been keeping tabs on anyone from my class save for myself. So I guess that makes me the most popular person in my class as far as I know.
I'm not doing great
The most popular happened to be the highest performing, most of them didn't thrive after completing college.
I think the rigid process of accomplishing assigned tasks as they're presented screws people up when they're met with the real world and all of a sudden it's finally up to them to learn how to improvise.
I was once on a train from NYC back to my hometown for Thanksgiving. By chance I ended up sitting next to a guy from my high school; I didn’t know him that well, as we were part of a semi-large graduating class, but we were familiar enough to chat with each other, to pass the time.
He was good friends with two of the most popular dudes from our high school, and he said they were both kinda flailing in early adulthood:
-One of them got broken up with by his equally popular girlfriend, right before college had started, and he just could not handle it. He would show up to her school, unannounced, and just see what she was up to & bark at any dude who talked to her. She had to threaten getting a restraining order to get him to back off. Apparently he chilled out a little bit in the ensuing years, but just really struggled to make things happen for himself outside of the high school environment.
-The other did mostly fine during our college years, but really started to struggle once we all graduated & he lost the comforting structures of school. He was a handsome dude in our town, as a teen, but now, living in NYC, he was in an ocean of handsome dudes and apparently struggled a little bit not getting preferential treatment as often & not having girls interested in him after spitting a minimal amount of game.
I don’t bring this up to wish ill will on either of them. I think they’re both interesting examples of how poorly prepared most people are to jump off the “cliff” of leaving high school: you’ve spent your *entire* life building a life & network within a very specific life structure, and then suddenly, overnight, it all goes away.
I think some kids, especially ones who got popular *early* (like, going all the way back to 4th or 5th grade) do really struggle with the fact that one day, they’re thrust amid a sea of new people who do not perceive them as popular.
Lot of em dead, some highly successful, some still have their varsity football pic as their Facebook profile picture.
In my 30s
Turned out just like the rest of us.
Some were successful af, some discovered being a d**k had repercussions, and some took it to the bank.
The real shockers are the homecoming queens. Some turned out fantastic and some ended up loony.
So yeah. Turned out just like the rest of us.
He graduated in 1961 as an all-star athlete with letters in two sports over four years. Class and school president, homecoming king - the whole package in a very small town. He was handsome, too.
Went to college on a sports scholarship and flunked out the first semester. Came home, knocked up his HS girl friend, married had two kids, and got divorced. Worked for my dad as a farmer and remarried maybe 10 years later.
Dad decided to bankroll this '*star' with an underwritten line of credit so the wunderkind could start grass seed farming on his own. This credit line swelled up to over $850K - in the late 70s, or nearly $4 million in today's money. Come to find out he was buying expensive equipment and also chartering jets to Las Vegas for golf and gambling trips for his friends. He'd often be seen in bars lighting cigars with $100 bills because... why not? (Dad then cut him off and seized all his property, sold it, and managed to pay the bank most of the money from that)
Fast forward to today: He's 80, living on his (remarried) wife's pension as a teacher and taking care of her as she developed early Alzheimer's. His mom gave him a house and place to live forty years ago, so he has that. I looked him up on FB recently. He has as his 'profile photo' a fuzzy snapshot of his HS 'Most Valuable Player' trophy.
(*he's a cousin)
That's really sad. Some people just never quite manage to completely grow up or move beyond their "glory years."
M. took a break up badly, took a bad beating from the cops, took to hard [substances], found his body in the river.
A. tried to get clever with 4 guys over a pool table, outside beating left him quadriplegic.
P. a terrible bully, tormented dozens of kids (all younger than him) throughout all 5 years of senior school, now a social work child counsellor and all round good guy for those who don’t know. C**t.
K. Professor of Science and MBE recipient.
J. Couldn’t get over the death of his brother through alcoholism, so proceeded to drink himself to death, go figure.
They’re making askreddit posts
One of if not the most popular girl in my grade had money, her parents owned the only liquor store in county (dry counties for 45 miles.)
Well that gravy train ended when the county went wet and prices got competitive, problem was they apparently never saved money the whole time. Then their regulars saw that the price was much lower at the gas station compared to what they had been paying them, like 30% over SRP. They closed very quickly, all their luxury vehicles got sold but they had the house paid. They moved after a while.
I saw her 3 years post graduation and she had doubled her weight and was having pics printed of her fiancé who I found out was a trust fund guy after the fact. (The souped up muscle car in his pics was a hint) He broke it off with her like a month later. Heresay was he figured out she was just there for money.
Most of that info I got second hand and I was only present for the pictures part. I don’t use Facebook so I never verified anything. I also do not care to investigate, I’ve stopped letting hs bs live in my head rent free.
Last I heard they were failing to organize a 10 year reunion. I think it technically happened, but the facebook group where they organized it has like 5 people in it.
Also, 2 of them are ministers now, and *wow* would I have stories to tell their congregations.
So few people in my class were interested in a reunion that they made it a reunion for classes of a three year span. It was still less than 200 people lmao
Was a popular ish kid: currently in school
Other people in my friend group:
- Dropped out of ivy league
- Got pregnant in freshman year at ivy league
- Dropped out of west coast CS school for a start up. Not going well
- on track for med school but not currently doing well on MCAT. Considering quitting medicine
- went to europe to model. Not going well
Doesn’t look too good for me atm lol
I saw some pictures from my 30th year reunion. The popular kids and jocks did not seem to fair well.
The folks who did well academically seemed to have done very well in life all around. I have bumped into a few others over the years as well, and many have done well others settled into low wage jobs. The back parking lot crowd mostly ended up blue collar but not unhappy lives. It was kind of a mixed bag. More people died than I would have thought.
Just goes to show that brains are more important than beauty and brawn. Looks fade, and muscles weaken. But good intelligence will take you far in life. Not always. You have to have drive, and organization, etc, to go with the smarts. And some people are very intelligent, but have other issues that block them along the way. But smarts still last longer, and win out more often, than a pretty face or a muscular physique. (Also, the people so concerned with keeping their faces pretty or their muscles big often prioritize that over most everything else. So when that fades away, they have nothing to fall back on. But a smart person always has a plan B.) And happiness and self-confidence are most important of all. If you have that, it doesn't matter what you do, or where you station is in life. You're content. That's the best way to live, of all.
I had popular kids in my school who were popular because they were the loud and disruptive, too-cool-for-school jocks and meangirls type. They're not up to much last time I heard.
I also had popular kids in my school who were popular because they were extremely charismatic and well put together. These folks are doing just fine
There are others, like me, who took no s**t for themselves or their friends and, being quite 'athletic' stopped a lot of bullying / intimidation before it got out of hand. There were a lot of fights, some I lost, most I won. I have more friends than those arseholes do.
One has a nice music career going for them, which they put in a f**k-ton of work for and I'm so proud of them.
Another got hooked on several [substances] and is doing their best to get sober and I hope they get themselves well because they didn't deserve the life they've managed for themselves.
Don't know about any of the other ones since I didn't really know them.
One of the more popular girls (who I had a gigantic crush on) posed for playboy right after high school, got pregnant, got married. This was 20 years ago. I hear how she’s divorced and works as a manager in a retail store. (Nothing wrong with that, just that’s where she is now)
One went trans. One went to prison. One became a pompous musician. Most of them gained weight like it was their job
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The other unpopular kid in my class was a nerd and teacher's pet. She wasn't a nice girl; caught between arrogance (she's very intelligent) and incredible shyness & insecurity (she wore weird clothes, had a weird haircut that didn't work with her thick straight hair, and ugly glasses). I remember that she also had very crooked teeth. She was a straight A student, and had an amazing voice. 15 years later, at a reunion, I met her and hardly recognized her. Super beautiful, with gorgeous straight teeth, thick shiny hair down to her waist, and without glasses. She is now a very successful opera singer. We had a great time chatting. :) I always love stories about the unpopular kids that went through a "ugly duckling becomes beautiful swan" phase (not reducing that to just looks, though). Just kids who had, for whatever reasons, a tough time in school but then go on and absolutely shine in life.
This is about the least popular guy in my class: He was incredibly smart but socially awkward as hell; always had ink on his fingers and lips, looked messy and disheveled, and wasn't interested in anything that was popular at the time. Unfortunately, he also had a name that was very easy to butcher and make fun of. He was a really nice guy, though; we were both members of the astronomy club at our school, and I enjoyed chatting with him, even though he was a frazzle-brain, and he couldn't make eye contact. I can still see him in chemistry class, brewing up disgusting esters with our teacher. Lol He ended up becoming the youngest ever professor in Germany, and works in Research and Innovation at BASF.
The most popular girl at our high school was doing incredibly well professionally - a national manager, headed straight to the C-suite, working 16 hour days. Then she had a breakdown and was diagnosed with a mental illness. These days she's semi retired and mostly a SAHM. She has less money but is a lot happier.
my old HS class the most popular kids, 1 graduated lawschool and is an attorney, one dropped out of college to start his own business and now owns several business including 3 restaurants (he was also the guy with all the side businesses in school, so it makes sense), One is a Rabbi, and one who was a athlete and jock type today is a 9-5 accountant with a family which is the complete opposite of what he was in HS
Just for fun, I looked up a couple of people that I considered to be popular. One earned a BFA in Dance, and is in his 9th season with the Charlotte Ballet. Another is a State's Attorney. One married one of our teachers right after graduation.
Right after graduation - high school or university/college?
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I was a popular kid. Smart, talented, easy to talk to, and fun to hang out with. I'm doing terrible now. But then again, I wasnt doing great at that time either. My mom ended up dropping me and my siblings out, and then we were taken and put into an orphanage and split up, then I went to foster care, and after that I became homeless. Still am.
I couldn’t tell you what anyone is doing who wasn’t my friend, I don’t spend the energy keeping up with them. I know one of the sporty kids now plays professional football, that’s about it.
I doubt most of my ( ex classmates ) remember me... Oddly enough, a guy who went to my school when I was in 7th grade ( cute as f**k!! ) went the same adult hs I did, ( 6 years later ) and still remembered me... ( I had a bf at the time and was too shy towards him but I still had a major crush on him after all those years and the fact that he remembered me was mindblowing at the time because I was a complete nerd and clueless af in 7th grade... ) Unfortunately we lost touch after exams and I 'm still wondering what he would look like now.... About 20 years later, a classmate I had - also in 7th grade - but wasn't really friends with, recognized me when I was handling my MIL's divorce.... She was a divorce lawyer..... It still surprises me.... I was always the kind of kid who blended in with the surroundings, it seemed....
I'm not on facebook, so haven't kept up with many people, but I'm in a small town so I run into people I went to school with occasionally. We always have a pleasant conversation. I graduated in 1979, and after 40+ years the c**p from back then just doesn't seem important now.
i would not have considered myself popular but did have quite of few friends from all of the so called cliques: jocks, nerds, stoners, etd. mostly hung with the stoners so when i do run into them now (usually on media) they are surprised i retired from a career in law enforcement.
I'm friends with a lot of my old classmates in Facebook, but I'm not really on there that much anymore, though. And when I am, I just don't care enough to pay that much attention. I know that when I did use to get on, I saw that many were married and had families. Some divorced, some remarried. A few girls "came out", and they now have wives and kids, which is great, and I'm happy for them. A few of the popular girls sell MLM shít, like Nerium, and loved to brag about how great their $80 bottles of lotion are, and show off their cars or whatever they "won" as bonuses, which is annoying, because we all know it's a bunch of malarkey. I don't know much more than that, and I don't really know any bad stuff, because no one posts that on Facebook. I don't know much about how their lives are going now, at all (because like I said, I don't go on Facebook much anymore). And I don't care. I just worry about my own life.
We had a reunion, outside of the school, in February 2020, just before lockdown, phew! It was absolutely lovely. Some are doing better than others but everyone was as lovely or lovelier/ better people than they were a million years ago in sixth form. I was more popular than I knew, which was nice. We're meeting up again this year. Sadly two wonderful women have died in the past two years and I'm so glad I got to see them again, living their best lives. It made their deaths hit harder but I wouldn't have missed seeing them again for the world. The few people who didn't turn up included the "mean girls", so that probably helped make the night so full of joy. We were just a bunch of middle aged, ex convent school girls who wished nothing but the best for each other.
A really popular girl in my school was super nice to others, even a nerd like me. She became a pediatric heart surgeon in our hometown (Newark, NJ). She had a daughter a little late in life who just turned 13 this summer. My daughter used to babysit her when she was little. Meanwhile my friend had developed acute glaucoma and nothing could stop it, not even surgery. When it started to affect her ability to perform surgery, Lana was distraught. She had to consider retiring early (at 49 years old). Instead, she took her life. Her daughter lives with her grandparents in Florida now, but we haven't seen her since the funeral.
One works in Hollywood and was in DC Legends of Tomorrow. (UK). But I love, Leonard’s Commencement speech in The Big Bang Theory. so very true!
Went to a small school. Most of the more popular students went to college got a job doing what they said they wanted to do and eventually settled down with families. Some still live around here. One unfortunately may have gotten on drugs and have gone a bit crazy. The girl who got pregnant in hs actually married the guy right after hs and had another kid later. She now teaches at the school we went to and taught one of my kids already. Quite a few of them I have no idea where they are or what they're up to. Also one died.
A lot people from my class ended in high end careers like directors. I had a miserable time. One guy in particular had in for me went on to become a director. I struggled afterwards academically then just fell into IT. No big success but always wonder had I been happier at school where I be. Two guys are already dead passed in early 50's. One had been a kind person to me at school the other had been involved with the another lad in go on punch the little kid (me) randomly in a physics lesson. Only funny thing was when Friends Reunited started up and one in crowd guy talked about how great his wife's breasts where. They used to talk about girlfriends like that in the day. Think wife found out as comment got removed after a short while. Oh also Social Media how most of the school choir (all boys school) who used to have to dress up in choral robes each morning came out as gay. One guy went out with a girl for a year before admitting he used to like dressing up in his Mum's clothes.
The ones I'd be interested in knowing what happened to them weren't the popular kids. There was the guy who swore he was a warlock and got in trouble playing with his tarot cards in history class (he also threatened to turn me into a newt if I touched the feather in his hair). The tall, skinny, awkward guy who always wore a long coat no matter the weather and always had a pickle in a paper bag in his pocket (my now husband was friends with him and told me he also excelled with throwing knives). The very intelligent yet very angry nerd (he carried a briefcase and always had a pocket protector) who vaguely resembled Leonard Nemoy with a high and tight haircut and old-school glasses and who never said a single word unless you pissed him off enough. The very cliché farm boy complete with a John Deere logo ballcap and overalls who sold drugs at the corner at the top of the back stairs. Alas, I left and never looked back, so I haven't the slightest idea where any of them are now.
The other unpopular kid in my class was a nerd and teacher's pet. She wasn't a nice girl; caught between arrogance (she's very intelligent) and incredible shyness & insecurity (she wore weird clothes, had a weird haircut that didn't work with her thick straight hair, and ugly glasses). I remember that she also had very crooked teeth. She was a straight A student, and had an amazing voice. 15 years later, at a reunion, I met her and hardly recognized her. Super beautiful, with gorgeous straight teeth, thick shiny hair down to her waist, and without glasses. She is now a very successful opera singer. We had a great time chatting. :) I always love stories about the unpopular kids that went through a "ugly duckling becomes beautiful swan" phase (not reducing that to just looks, though). Just kids who had, for whatever reasons, a tough time in school but then go on and absolutely shine in life.
This is about the least popular guy in my class: He was incredibly smart but socially awkward as hell; always had ink on his fingers and lips, looked messy and disheveled, and wasn't interested in anything that was popular at the time. Unfortunately, he also had a name that was very easy to butcher and make fun of. He was a really nice guy, though; we were both members of the astronomy club at our school, and I enjoyed chatting with him, even though he was a frazzle-brain, and he couldn't make eye contact. I can still see him in chemistry class, brewing up disgusting esters with our teacher. Lol He ended up becoming the youngest ever professor in Germany, and works in Research and Innovation at BASF.
The most popular girl at our high school was doing incredibly well professionally - a national manager, headed straight to the C-suite, working 16 hour days. Then she had a breakdown and was diagnosed with a mental illness. These days she's semi retired and mostly a SAHM. She has less money but is a lot happier.
my old HS class the most popular kids, 1 graduated lawschool and is an attorney, one dropped out of college to start his own business and now owns several business including 3 restaurants (he was also the guy with all the side businesses in school, so it makes sense), One is a Rabbi, and one who was a athlete and jock type today is a 9-5 accountant with a family which is the complete opposite of what he was in HS
Just for fun, I looked up a couple of people that I considered to be popular. One earned a BFA in Dance, and is in his 9th season with the Charlotte Ballet. Another is a State's Attorney. One married one of our teachers right after graduation.
Right after graduation - high school or university/college?
Load More Replies... I was a popular kid. Smart, talented, easy to talk to, and fun to hang out with. I'm doing terrible now. But then again, I wasnt doing great at that time either. My mom ended up dropping me and my siblings out, and then we were taken and put into an orphanage and split up, then I went to foster care, and after that I became homeless. Still am.
I couldn’t tell you what anyone is doing who wasn’t my friend, I don’t spend the energy keeping up with them. I know one of the sporty kids now plays professional football, that’s about it.
I doubt most of my ( ex classmates ) remember me... Oddly enough, a guy who went to my school when I was in 7th grade ( cute as f**k!! ) went the same adult hs I did, ( 6 years later ) and still remembered me... ( I had a bf at the time and was too shy towards him but I still had a major crush on him after all those years and the fact that he remembered me was mindblowing at the time because I was a complete nerd and clueless af in 7th grade... ) Unfortunately we lost touch after exams and I 'm still wondering what he would look like now.... About 20 years later, a classmate I had - also in 7th grade - but wasn't really friends with, recognized me when I was handling my MIL's divorce.... She was a divorce lawyer..... It still surprises me.... I was always the kind of kid who blended in with the surroundings, it seemed....
I'm not on facebook, so haven't kept up with many people, but I'm in a small town so I run into people I went to school with occasionally. We always have a pleasant conversation. I graduated in 1979, and after 40+ years the c**p from back then just doesn't seem important now.
i would not have considered myself popular but did have quite of few friends from all of the so called cliques: jocks, nerds, stoners, etd. mostly hung with the stoners so when i do run into them now (usually on media) they are surprised i retired from a career in law enforcement.
I'm friends with a lot of my old classmates in Facebook, but I'm not really on there that much anymore, though. And when I am, I just don't care enough to pay that much attention. I know that when I did use to get on, I saw that many were married and had families. Some divorced, some remarried. A few girls "came out", and they now have wives and kids, which is great, and I'm happy for them. A few of the popular girls sell MLM shít, like Nerium, and loved to brag about how great their $80 bottles of lotion are, and show off their cars or whatever they "won" as bonuses, which is annoying, because we all know it's a bunch of malarkey. I don't know much more than that, and I don't really know any bad stuff, because no one posts that on Facebook. I don't know much about how their lives are going now, at all (because like I said, I don't go on Facebook much anymore). And I don't care. I just worry about my own life.
We had a reunion, outside of the school, in February 2020, just before lockdown, phew! It was absolutely lovely. Some are doing better than others but everyone was as lovely or lovelier/ better people than they were a million years ago in sixth form. I was more popular than I knew, which was nice. We're meeting up again this year. Sadly two wonderful women have died in the past two years and I'm so glad I got to see them again, living their best lives. It made their deaths hit harder but I wouldn't have missed seeing them again for the world. The few people who didn't turn up included the "mean girls", so that probably helped make the night so full of joy. We were just a bunch of middle aged, ex convent school girls who wished nothing but the best for each other.
A really popular girl in my school was super nice to others, even a nerd like me. She became a pediatric heart surgeon in our hometown (Newark, NJ). She had a daughter a little late in life who just turned 13 this summer. My daughter used to babysit her when she was little. Meanwhile my friend had developed acute glaucoma and nothing could stop it, not even surgery. When it started to affect her ability to perform surgery, Lana was distraught. She had to consider retiring early (at 49 years old). Instead, she took her life. Her daughter lives with her grandparents in Florida now, but we haven't seen her since the funeral.
One works in Hollywood and was in DC Legends of Tomorrow. (UK). But I love, Leonard’s Commencement speech in The Big Bang Theory. so very true!
Went to a small school. Most of the more popular students went to college got a job doing what they said they wanted to do and eventually settled down with families. Some still live around here. One unfortunately may have gotten on drugs and have gone a bit crazy. The girl who got pregnant in hs actually married the guy right after hs and had another kid later. She now teaches at the school we went to and taught one of my kids already. Quite a few of them I have no idea where they are or what they're up to. Also one died.
A lot people from my class ended in high end careers like directors. I had a miserable time. One guy in particular had in for me went on to become a director. I struggled afterwards academically then just fell into IT. No big success but always wonder had I been happier at school where I be. Two guys are already dead passed in early 50's. One had been a kind person to me at school the other had been involved with the another lad in go on punch the little kid (me) randomly in a physics lesson. Only funny thing was when Friends Reunited started up and one in crowd guy talked about how great his wife's breasts where. They used to talk about girlfriends like that in the day. Think wife found out as comment got removed after a short while. Oh also Social Media how most of the school choir (all boys school) who used to have to dress up in choral robes each morning came out as gay. One guy went out with a girl for a year before admitting he used to like dressing up in his Mum's clothes.
The ones I'd be interested in knowing what happened to them weren't the popular kids. There was the guy who swore he was a warlock and got in trouble playing with his tarot cards in history class (he also threatened to turn me into a newt if I touched the feather in his hair). The tall, skinny, awkward guy who always wore a long coat no matter the weather and always had a pickle in a paper bag in his pocket (my now husband was friends with him and told me he also excelled with throwing knives). The very intelligent yet very angry nerd (he carried a briefcase and always had a pocket protector) who vaguely resembled Leonard Nemoy with a high and tight haircut and old-school glasses and who never said a single word unless you pissed him off enough. The very cliché farm boy complete with a John Deere logo ballcap and overalls who sold drugs at the corner at the top of the back stairs. Alas, I left and never looked back, so I haven't the slightest idea where any of them are now.
