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We aren't trees. We're allowed to move. And many people do... Some much further than others.

A travel blogger thought she had it all figured out when she decided to move across the world to Germany. For some reason, the American thought it would be a piece of kuchen. But boy, was she wrong!

In a series of entertaining and eye-opening videos, Helene Sula has spoken of the massive culture shocks she's faced since arriving in Europe. The "Helene in Between" blog founder touched down in Heidelberg, Germany with just two suitcases, her husband and their two dogs. But she had to jump through rigid hoops to get there. Here's what she wants us all to know about the German way of life and thinking...

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American reacting to kids riding bikes and using public transportation independently in Germany, showing cultural differences.

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Multa Nocte
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2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very much the same in France. It's delightful, and their independence soars, which is why I guess some helicopter parents don't like it. When I am at cafés and marchés and such I notice that everyone keeps an eye out for any children in the area to make sure they don't wander off too far, etc. "It takes a village" - and you don't see French parents screaming at strangers who correct their children if they need it.

Greenkitty
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2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Use to be like that in the US not all that long ago.

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Zig Zag Wanderer
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2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How come they don't get shot? Oh.....

Anne Roberts
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What kind of response is that?

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Rick Murray
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2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's a Japanese show that follows *toddlers* running errands, including crossing roads and sometimes taking public transport. It's amazing what kids can do when you don't treat them like babies...

JuJu
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2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is an S-Bahn and not a Tram

Hugo
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2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

S-Bahn (Schnellbahn) is rapid transit system.

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Grace Knowlton
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1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some kids are too disrespectful to go anywhere unsupervised

Crystalwitch60
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Used to be exactly same in uk decades ago , not safe anymore 💔

Fat Harry (Oi / You)
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2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Rubbish. It's no less safe now then it has ever been, the difference is rolling 24 hour news. Decades ago you didn't know about every little incident that might have happened; now it's all over the internet and social media. The moors murders were in the 1960s, don't forget.

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Helene Sula started her travel blog, Helene in Between, in 2011. At the time, she wasn't sure if it would bring in any money. But after experimenting, and a few hits and misses, Sula finally found a way to monetize the blog. This allowed her the freedom to live out her dream of moving abroad.

The Dallas-born American had previously spent time traveling Europe with her husband, and she wanted to see more of the continent. The couple felt the best way to do this was to relocate to Europe. In 2016, just five years after she started her blog, Sula and her husband moved to Heidelberg, Germany - a city and country they'd never set foot in before.

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    #2

    American woman learning about quiet hours law in Germany, surprised by restrictions on vacuuming noise on Sundays.

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    Alison M.
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm an expat living in Germany. You can in fact vacuum on Sundays! However, it's basic common courtesy to keep noise to a minimum: no one plays loud music, does landscaping and renovations etc. More than likely neighbours will come knocking at your door to complain.

    Pferdchen
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While most things being closed on Sunday was odd for this tourist, I think it's very civilized. I'm not religious, but everyone taking a specific day off and detaching from the grind is great for the psyche and personal perspective. Ezra Klein's podcast episode "Sabbath and the Art of Rest" had a great discussion on the topic. The cynic in me thinks there are those in our society (American) that really don't want people to gain this perspective.

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    Jan Rosier
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same sunday law applies in Belgium, but noone cares about vacuuming or whatever you do inside of your home. It's all about what can be heard outside, like lawnmowing, clipping hedges, powerwashing your car...

    sturmwesen
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can... you just should keep the noice down (windows closed for example)...and it depends a lot on your neighbourhood. I always do it on sundays

    Rick Murray
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similar in France, can't take out the mower on Sundays or public holidays.

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    #3

    American woman surprised by all grocery stores closed on Sundays in Germany in a REWE supermarket setting.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, yes. Much of Europe too, although some are open.

    Julie S
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish they would bring this back in the UK. Having worked in retail I hated having to work Sundays.

    Rick Murray
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Arrived when? If it's anything like France quite a few are upon until about noon.

    Billo66
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was young, America was the same.

    Rinso The Red
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Used to be like this where I lived in US as a kid. "Blue laws" based off religious assumptions. It's all BS, no good reason for stuff to be arbitrarily closed one day of the week. I also have an issue with "banker's" hours. If you service the general public, but open when they are generally available. That's all.

    Na Schi
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That quite a rough assumption (IMO). What is wrong for most people having a day off every week? I know, we have all the essentials workers, like hospital staff, firemen, police, energy and chemical plant workers and restaurant staff who obviously have to work on a Sunday... but what's wrong to take a one-day break every week. Nobody needs to shop on a Sunday once you've adjusted to the principle. Even more, not treating every day of the week the same (while many people still hold the concept of the weekend/Sunday as time to relax from work) undermine, IMO, workers' rights!

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    Joke Vermote
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More and more stores open on sundays in Belgium. in a 10 min. car ride radius I know at least 7 that are open at least till noon on sunday

    Trashy Panda
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We used to do this in Ontario. I don't miss it.

    Sally Moen
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    1 week ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's been about 50 years since the Blue Laws changed in my state in the US. Much of the laws had to do with closing on Sundays, closing before a certain hour, etc. Now it's 7 days a week of businesses being open. The remnant of those laws is that alcohol cannot be purchased from 2am to 6am, even in bars. And there are no closed signs on major holidays for a lot of things, including restaurants and movie theaters. Used to be kind of boring on days everything is closed, but you learn to amuse yourself.

    Mark Karol-Chik
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here in the crony capitalist society of the USA, this would hamper profits-

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    Sula says many people had told her things about Germany before she moved there but not all of it was true. For one, the travel blogger was led to believe that German food was bad. “It's just potatoes and Sauerkraut,” is how they described it. Sula says while Germany does have that on the traditional menu, it's definitely not the only dish on offer.

    "Germany food is divine. Some of the best meals I've ever had," she once wrote. "When we go out to eat we try to eat at the traditional German restaurants. Every single time I've had phenomenal food."

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    American experiences unexpected language switch at German bakery with locals fluent in English and bread varieties on display.

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    T.M.P Janssen
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mostly stopped doing that, but sometimes I have to because a customers accent is so thick that I do not understand them. I always explain the problem (I have problems understanding accents and dialects for some reason) and most often than not, they understand. We each want something from the other and communication is key. I understand its frustrating though if you wanna learn and speak the language.

    Pferdchen
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OTOH... We were browsing a little boutique in Universitat (Munich) and I asked a question in my atrocious pidgen German. The owner answered in English and confessed that if I hadn't made some attempt to speak in German that he would have pretended not to speak English 🤣 We ended up chatting for 20 minutes and he gave us a lot of great tips for our visit.

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    Multa Nocte
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happens in France as well and forces me to improve my French.

    WindySwede
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Un Chat marsupial à queue tachetée"

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    Grumpy old man
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    English comes from German, and Viking Norse, and French, but is mostly Germaniv

    April Pickett
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You walk into a German bakery and you want one roll? Honey, those bakeries are solid gold for pastries. I never had time or even knew they sold rolls. The pastries, the pastries, never looked at anything else.

    Judes
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're missing out if you never tried the rolls in a German bakery! When I lived there it become a Saturday ritual to head to the bakery and ask for '20 bröchen, bitte' (who buys just one??) , and then we'd (me and husband) eat *all* of them with cheese.

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    Ace
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not my experience. Not at all. Maybe if you're in major cities, but don't expect this at a rural village bakery

    Rick Murray
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Quite a few Frenchies understand English, but they don't speak it either because they're too shy or too militant. My mother and I used to talk to each other like a comedy double act and you could often see the checkout girl trying to keep a straight face - so you know she was following the conversation. It's a shame about the shy ones, as English with a French accent is *CUTE*!

    Grumpy old man
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Youre young enough that you dont know that in the late 90s the French passed a law to preserve French, and reject Anglo-American verbal hegemony

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    #5

    American driving on autobahn with German speed limit sign showing Lärmschutz noise control rules.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only a few motorways are still unlimited. We had one in Australia until a few years back, too. Not a freeway, though!

    Crystalwitch60
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could do either the noise restrictions on cars etc in our uk villages ,pfft ,PLEASE 👍

    Lady Eowyn
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Without explanation, this makes no sense.

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    Sally Moen
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a stretch of interstate freeway in Montana I think, the regular speed limit during daylight hours and weather is clear, is 80 mph. But this is on a long, flat road. And you still gotta drive watching out for others.

    Noltha
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's only 130km/h, like limits in many European countries (some have even 140 km/h).

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    American woman experiences cultural differences in Germany, learning Germans smile less often, an unexpected thing in Germany.

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    WindySwede
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Cause the sale tax is included in the price on the item?" 🤷‍♂️

    RM
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Much easier to see one price on an item and not have to work out how much extra you'll have to add on for tax.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
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    2 weeks ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing about this is correct. In Austria (very similar) people obviously smile. They aren't pointlessly effusive, though.

    LuckyL
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and we're not confused if someone else is smiling or ask them about it. It's just not a forced smile all the time even if I'm not feeling like smiling. (German here)

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    amy lee
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a theory. The American smile, has evolved so people don't read any sort of aggression and start with their right to arms. The lovely manners in Texas is an extension of that.

    JuJu
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are not overly happy/bubbly all the time. I am polite, but i don't grin at people like a killer clown and tell them all about my life. That's for friends and enemies. ;)

    Alison M.
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cashiers will not engage in conversation with you, unlike when you're going through checkouts in Canada and the U.S.

    Pferdchen
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Loud and smiling all the time? Must be drunk, deranged or American. I recall reading an account of Americans sitting in a train compartment with a local (was either German or Dutch, don't recall). Another American couple comes in and all the Americans started doing what Americans do - talking about where they're from, "do you know so and so?," family, what they do for fun and work, sports, exchanging contact info, etc.) After one group disembarked, the local admitted to being kind of envious of the dynamics and quick bonding.

    G A
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    2 weeks ago

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    Miserable barstewards....

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    Sula adds that the best potatoes she's ever had in her life have been in Germany. This includes fries, potato salad, mashed potatoes, and any dish containing a potato.

    "Some typical German dishes are Bratkartoffeln which is fried potato slices, usually with dried bacon," explains Sula. "Currywurst is sliced sausage, heavily seasoned, with fries. They serve a lot of hearty meals with meat and potatoes and a salad SWIMMING in dressing. That is one thing that I find hilarious, the salads have half a bottle of dressing."

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    American experiencing unexpected speed at checkout in a German grocery store illustrating challenges in Germany.

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    Multa Nocte
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lidl's comes to mind. I just shove it all into the cart and bag it at the car.

    Roxy222uk
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You’re supposed to shove it back in the trolley or basket, get out the way, and then bag up at the shelf under the window at the front of the shop.

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    Trillian
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should've seen Aldi cashiers before the scanner checkouts. They knew all prices by heart and they were typing them in in top speed.

    Hugo
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember that. They could touch-type, too, so they didn't need to look at the keyboard while moving the articles past with the other hand. I never caught any of them making a mistake, and it was so quick.

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    T.M.P Janssen
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lidl cashiers win this imo! As if the sound barrier isnt an obstacle but a goal xD

    Rick Murray
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, yes, and yes. If you can't keep up, throw everything in the basket and sort it out later else everybody will glare. The exact same everybody that does *nothing* when a granny chats with the checkout person for several *minutes*. 🤷

    Aveline Roisseau
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    @GA If you don't know what you're talking about, you should probably refrain from making such comments. In most German supermarkets, you don't have a minute to bag your groceries at the checkout, otherwise you'll disrupt the flow of the checkout.

    Crystalwitch60
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    2 weeks ago

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    Come to uk n go shopping at our aldis then 😂nightmare ,dam glad I order online lmao

    G A
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    2 weeks ago

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    Makes it even more complicated having to unpack, repack then bag it. Only takes a minute to unpack then bag it. Bl00dy stupid adding extra step and more faffing about on a bl00dy shelf. Nobody is in THAT much of a rush. Use self service otherwise.

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    #8

    American woman surprised at box office showing cash is still required as unexpected thing in Germany many are not prepared for.

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    Rick Murray
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ? In France it's often the other way around. You have *money*? What's that for? Several supermarkets, including Lidl, now have card-only checkouts. So if you want to faff with coins or, god help us all, cheques then go over there. This is the pay-by-bonk aisle.

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    2 weeks ago

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    How very backwards

    Becky Samuel
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it's backwards to have a solid, reliable way of paying that can't be tracked by banks, corporations or governments and that can't be hacked then long live backwards.

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    Crystalwitch60
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    2 weeks ago

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    Guess ur watching the film at home on tv n saving money then 🤷‍♀️how did they cope in Covid one has to wonder hmm

    Kim Karlotta
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of places actually started accepting cards for the first time during Covid or stopped placing a limit on what you can pay for by card (for instance, anything below 10€ used to be cash only at many shops).

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    #9

    Woman in Germany explains how Germans always follow the rules and wait for the Ampelmännchen to turn green while walking.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Germans follow orders. It's not a false stereotype!

    Na Schi
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tough it's funny how the rest if the world sometimes don't get it how everyone following orders aka traffic rules brings the improvement! Everyone sticks to the rules so you can, most of the time, anticipate how other traffic participants will react. There's a reason why there is, partially, no speed limit on the German Autobahn (aka highway) without having a larger traffic death-toll than other European countries, let alone other countries all over the world. (Unfortunately the capability to follow such rules is in decline since around 2015... Nowadays rarely 50% of the participants pass their diriver license test, cheating reached a bew high and pedestrians, e-scooter drivers, bikers and motorcycles have adopted to more leisure standards.)

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    Trillian
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well you guys follow your speed limits on roads where there is a barely any traffic, so. Pedestrian lights are there for a reason, because the street is usually busy or because there are cars turning this way.

    T.M.P Janssen
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I walked over red three times in the city I moved to. Three times, police saw me and fined me. So, nope. It wasnt much money but I could still use it so I wait. Doesnt take that long anyway normally.

    For All Pedernity
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ampelmännchen is a Berlin thing (although it has popped up elsewhere, too).

    Roxy222uk
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, as a Brit, this is annoying. It’s obviously clear in both directions, let’s go.

    Apatheist Account2
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was told off for doing that in Switzerland. There was no traffic for at least half a mile in either direction.

    azubi
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not in my town, we don't

    Rick Murray
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't do that in France. At numerous crossroads with four way crossing, the pedestrian lights are red when that road is going, but green when the other roads are going. The cars are supposed to stop for you, but if your light is actually red it's a bit dicey. [by comparison in the UK a similar arrangement would completely stop all traffic for the pedestrians]

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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just weird

    Sally Moen
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was a strict no jaywalking, no walking until the light changed to green. It is a characteristic of Seattle folks, in general, to do this, and if driving late at night, to wait for the light to turn green on a deserted road at 3am

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    Sula also says she was told that Germans are cold and unfriendly. "Even when we moved to Heidelberg, many people asked us if we were getting accustomed the rudeness," she reveals. "I have to say, I disagree emphatically with this. Germans are kind, genuine, and helpful."

    However, the blogger says the service industry in Germany leaves much to be desired... "They do not really care about helping you, getting a tip (if service at a restaurant is truly exception you can leave a couple euros), or making sure you are satisfied. Not a thing here," she reveals.

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    American woman’s visa journey at German immigration office showing unexpected challenges and eventual approval in Germany.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rename 'influencer' as a real job name..... First response is valid!

    G A
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I'm with the German on this one....

    Crystalwitch60
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    Ok Germany this one I like , makes notes to send to our bloody immigration,to stop other sodding bloggers coming over lmao , it’s NOT a real job it’s a lazy job ! 🙄

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    #11

    American in Germany surprised by waiter's reaction when asking for more water at restaurant, showing unexpected cultural differences.

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    Roman Arendt
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This really gets old. There is no beverage consumed more than water in Germany. You get in everywhere, but you usually have to pay for it (some restaurants may offer free tap water, though, which is safe to drink everywhere because of the extreme high regulation).

    Roxy222uk
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the UK it is a requirement to provide tap water free of charge when it’s asked for. More and more establishments putting jugs of water and stacked glasses on the side so customers can just help themselves.

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    Alison M.
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you order a soft drink you will get a small glass too. No free refills!

    LuckyL
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you get what you order, mostly it's 0,2 or 0,4 for softdrinks and if it's empty you need to reorder if you want more. The difference is, that you're very welcome to stay a long time, enjoy your meal, have a few drinks and just stay there and keep talking. In the US you're expected to leave when you're done eating - because you're blocking the table for the next customer.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No idea why. Perhaps you were rude?

    Space Invader
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she spent hours ostentatiously perusing the wine menu only to keep ordering water...

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    Woman reacting to the Germanic stare down, one of the unexpected things in Germany this American was not prepared for.

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    Roman Arendt
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've lived in Germany for 41 yrs. Never once have I heard this term. And I would say it's the opposite: we don't stare at people. It's considered impolite, even rude. And that is something we teach our kids.

    Ace
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've heard people here in Switzerland suggest that as foreigners they're often stared at, particularly by older people. But like you I've never encountered it myself. Maybe it's just people that look obviously foreign?

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    JuJu
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, we don't have that word for it. And we don't stare at you for ages. If one does it's either flirting or chosing the next victim...maybe both.

    Sven Horlemann
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a German, I have no clue what OP is talking about.

    Zig Zag Wanderer
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People just have differences in facial expression. She might be extremely happy!

    Bored Retsuko
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Staring is a thing in smaller towns but I've never heard of this term.

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    Sula also praises the Germans for their fitness. "In general, Europeans are much thinner than Americans," she explains. "But Germans seems to really love the outdoors and being active. On Sundays, the stores all close (all of them), and they are seen riding, skating, and running the various paths."

    Another difference she noticed after moving to Heidelberg was the culture of recycling. "They are NUTS about it here," she wrote on her blog. "We have 5 different trash cans for our apartment. It's insane. I do not agree with it because it's so confusing and ends up being such a hassle. I love the environment, but come on… 5 different trash cans?"

    Elaborating on the 5 different trash cans, Sula explains that one is restmüll (trash), the others are for plastic and metal, paper, glass, bioabfall. "Oh, and you take in your plastic bottles (my Coca Cola Light bottles) in to the grocery store for a pfand (a refund)," she adds.

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    American woman experiences unexpected language barrier at a grocery store in Germany, highlighting cultural surprises and challenges.

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    WindySwede
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A German baker on yt uses this as an greeting 👍

    JuJu
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll use that on my friend tomorrow, he has celiac (a very good friend)

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    RM
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always remember that to you, that's the first time you've used that joke so you think it's funny... To the cashier, it's probably the hundredth, and just annoying by now.

    Zig Zag Wanderer
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's happy. Look closer. She's not grimacing, so she's actually being very friendly!

    Hugo
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not true that Germans don't have a sense of humour. Perhaps they just don't appreciate puns, the lowest form of wit.

    Hugo
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perhaps Germans don't appreciate puns. the lowest form of wit.

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    American woman surprised by unexpected things while shopping in a German grocery store experience

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    Dorothea Lehmann
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never seen a German supermarket have roach poison in the same aisle as any type of food, let alone right next to it.

    Mari
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Impossible! That is 100% a lie

    Rick Murray
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Photo or it didn't happen. They aren't even the same category!

    Claudia Stieble
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    1 week ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    first of all supermarkets don't sell roach poison, you need to go to a garden center (nursery) or a hardware store and then you need to ask someone to get it for you. 2nd if supermarkets would offer poison it would be separated from groceries and under lock and key as in the garden centers.