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We’ve all been warned about the dangers of becoming addicted to nicotine, drugs and alcohol. But just because something doesn’t come with a warning on the label doesn’t mean it can’t be just as addictive. 

Reddit users have recently been discussing some of the most common behaviors that can turn into sneaky addictions people don’t even realize they have, so we’ve gathered their most insightful responses below. Keep reading to also find a conversation with Dr. Kimberly S. Benson LMHC, CAP, of Sarasota Addiction Specialists, and be sure to upvote the responses that some people really need to hear.

#1

These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Sugar addiction.

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Yeet_girl360
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

After I cut the super sugary foods and started working out I lost 15 pounds. Never looking back! Also now that I've mostly gotten rid of it whenever I do eat it it tastes fake, kinda like plastic..... Only in homemade baking is it good now(in my opinion).

Tamra
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That little hit of dopamine when you eat sugar is hard to shake, especially when it's so abundant and available.

Michael Largey
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My doctor told me that my blood sugar level was at the pre-diabetic level. Embarking on a diet (with the help of my saintly wife) of low carb and low sugar meals, in eight months I was back in the normal range and thirty pounds lighter. Almost all the food is as good as it was before. (I miss real pasta.)

Mad Cat Lady
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You should try the yellow pea pasta, honestly, it's really good 😊

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Spellflinger
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I gave up sugared drinks in June and started drinking water. I have gone from a size 16 to a 12 in jeans and will soon need a size 10. The detox was rough but worth it. Sleeping better. IBS is much better and my skin is amazing. Colleague asked this week if I had gotten Botox because I looked less wrinkly in my face. All from replacing sugared drinks with water.

WonderWoman
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was calculated by the sugar industry. They blamed obesity on fat, when the culprit is sugar and its addicting qualities. Very few processed foods have no sugar or its chemical equivalent. Almost every processed food that claims to be low/no fat, is chuck full of sugar.

On a whim
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m often of a night walking around like Pooh Bear ‘Just a little sumthin sumthin’

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    #2

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Food. People often eat far more often than necessary. They eat out of habit and not out of necessity.

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    R Dennis
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I eat when I'm hungry and drink when I'm dry...

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    James S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The hardest addiction, being the only known one where you can't quit it entirely

    The Problem With Censorship Is *******
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, that's exactly it. I'm fighting binge eating disorder, and there's just no getting away from food. You need to eat, so there's a constant confrontation.

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    Alexia
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's an issue with self-regulating your own emotions. Your brain doesn't know how to process (usually) negative emotions, so it looks for alternatives. You eat to calm down, to feel better, to get dopamine (which is almost instant reward for the brain). All the info re. diets and healthy eating is true, but not helpful in such case. Therapy worked for me, as I was helped to identify and address the causes of such coping mechanism.

    Ash
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our entire relationship to food is disordered. Including the idea in this post that you can be addicted to food.

    Marie Dahme
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or they (we) eat as an unhealthy coping mechanism due to severe emotional trauma. It's called an eating disorder...not eating "out of habit". Sadly, not all of us can afford nor have medical insurance to cover therapy to undue trauma related eating disorders. Just sayin...

    Glen Ellyn
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's called "mindless eating." A few folks here mentioned they eat when they're bored, sad, angry, or whatever - that's mindless eating. They're not hungry, they don't really need food at the moment, but they eat anyway.

    Bruce Horton
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or because it tastes good and your stomach hasn't told your brain yet that your full

    Id row
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be surprising to no one.

    Alger G. Nava
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn right. When my wife does not make breakfast, I am to lazy and usually skip the meal. By lunchtime I realize I feel so good and did not need breakfast at all! I eat out of habit!

    Brazen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been trying to tell my husband this. That I don't always want to eat because it's "time" and I'm "supposed to". It's hard to unlearn this habit, it's one I was forced to adhere to when I was a child.

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    To gain more insight on addictions and how they can sneak up on us, we got in touch with Dr. Kimberly S. Benson LMHC, CAP, from Sarasota Addiction Specialists. Dr. Benson says that "there are many kinds of behaviors that could qualify as an addiction, however, behaviors do not always indicate addiction because addiction manifests itself differently in everyone."

    "Some of the most common behaviors are: the inability to stop and stay stopped; they continue to use with negative internal and or external consequences; they are psychologically preoccupied with substance use; changes in behavior, doing things that are out of character; increasing the use of a substance; [and] experiencing withdrawal symptoms which can manifest physically and or psychologically," the expert explained.

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    #3

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Misery. Drama. The spikes become normal to the brain so those in toxic relationships for example, crave those dysfunctional patterns .they crave the rush of the fights and the drama . They pull it from around them without even noticing it . Misery loves company is not just a saying. It’s science

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    Sunshine Lady
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's so true! I was so much like my mom, because I was raised in almost constant drama, so I couldn't live without it. And in perfect chill day with my boyfriend I would start a drama out of nowhere and start crying. It was awful. Thank God I've changed! My mom is still addicted to the drama.

    Tamra
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My entire family was like this: father, mother and brother. After I grew up, moved out and married I found that I was acutely uncomfortable with peace and quiet. I kept waiting for something bad to happen, and thought our lives were somehow "boring". Lots of therapy later, I learned about that addiction to drama and how to embrace peace and have healthy relationships. That also meant that I had to limit contact with my family to preserve my newfound health, because they always bring the strife, trouble and drama with them.

    Lauren Wilder
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Less of an addiction and more of a symptom of adverse childhood experiences or ACEs.

    Terri Owens
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a counselor, YES, YES, YES!!!

    Solidhog
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think social media has a lot to answer for in the rise of attention seeking drama.

    John Murphy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortuantely this is true and there are half a dozen mental illnesses of which this is a symptom

    Maureen Matthew
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people love drama in their lives, they will seek it out or cause it.

    Haywood Jablome
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I like that kick in the face and the things you did to me. I love the way that it hurts. I don't miss you, I miss the misery!"

    Oskar vanZandt
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was raised in a dysfunctional family... I do all I can to avoid drama and constant bickering.

    cerinamroth
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Amen! I am very happy when my life is boring, thank you very much. (Although it actually isn't boring at all. For a start, I moved abroad to put some distance between me and my parents.) I strive for a general level of contentment, not the peaks of immense happiness because extremes are dangerous to me.

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    #4

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Phone addiction.

    StarryMind322:

    This. I didn’t want to admit it until I would be agitated when I didn’t have it, until my daily average of screen use exceeded 12 HOURS every single day, and even worse, I would toss and turn at night because I constantly checked my phone.

    It sucks because we need phones to keep up with this world now, yet it’s slowly killing us in subtle ways.

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    just a lil zucchini potato
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok that's it, bye guys I've gone to do something productive!

    shankShaw deReemer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's also a detriment to today's student. Students can't pay attention in their classes because all they want to do is Snapchat and TikTok all day long. Learn something new? Nahhhh...but let me show you this cool video of a guy having a breakdown in public.

    LizzieBoredom
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have the guy breaking down in public recite trigonometry identities.

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    Auntriarch
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huh, what do they know*keeps on scrolling*

    Mike Fitzpatrick
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personally, I scroll this site on a tablet. 😂

    Mycroft1967
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Used to work in electronics in superstore at night. Can tell you this is real. People would come in freaking out because their phone died. Then make up some excuse like their grandma died. I had to hook them up. Sorry, you can buy a prepaid phone and set it up yourself or wait until the day shift comes in to set it up for you. They arrive about 7am.

    Rob Chapman
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seems like 99% of the population has a phone addiction these days. Everywhere you go, everyone is staring at their screen.

    J loves cats
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do agree that a lot of people use their phones way too much, myself included. However it's more than just a phone. I listen to music, listen to stories, read books, read articles, socialize, look things up in an instant, check the date, use the calculator and the many many other things offered. I think part of it is that our phones have come to replace a number of other things thus the longer screen times.

    Alyssa
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But that’s the whole point, it’s because of these things it can do that we have become addicted.

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    Thomas Ewing
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I haven't had a phone in my name in 40 years. Freedom!

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The mentality "We need phones to keep up with the world" is the issue. My mom calls electronics "tools of convenience". They're nice to have but not a necessity. Of course, these days, having devices are essential to jobs. Even in that sense, technology isn't always better for some jobs and aspects of jobs. Yes, they're good to have for safety, but I also feel like technology is a safety blanket that actually feeds into our anxieties thinking about what could happen. We're so distracted by them that some of the bad things that could happen, could have been avoided if people were more attentive and not staring at their phones.

    Id row
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I make it well known I'm not married to my phone. I may or may not reply to a text within 2 days.

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    "The baffling thing about addiction is the only person who truly knows they have a problem is the person with the problem," Dr. Benson continued. "Looks can be deceiving, and behavior doesn't always equal addiction but it is certainly a red flag so to speak."

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    "Addiction is happening internally within an individual, and that cannot be seen by the naked eye," she explained. "The definition I like most when defining addition is 'an outward reach for inner security.' This is the internal process that only can be known by the individual locked into the process. This process is encapsulated by psychological isolation and further wrapped up with denial."

    #5

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Alcohol. Many people are alcoholics and won't realize. Just because you don't get drunk every day doesn't mean you're not an alcoholic.

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    Flokati
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am at rehab right now. 26 days sober.

    Ellie Hope
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    3 years sober! Alcohol ruined my life and now I've got it back and some.

    Powerful Katrinka
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Congratulations! That's a huge milestone. I have been sober for 8 years, and even with an unrelated chronic illness, life just keeps getting better and better.

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    Averysleepypanda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I commented this on another post recently. A lot of people have this idea that you have to be drunk every day to be an alcoholic and that's just not the case. I rarely drank, but every time I did drink I'd drink to the point of blackout (or near blackout). This went on for a long time because people would inadvertently enable this behavior by saying things like, "nah, you don't have a problem. you hardly drink. It's okay to let loose every once in awhile!" Also, you don't need to even be getting drunk to have a drinking problem. if you need that glass of wine everyday to "unwind" from work or whatever, that is still alcohol dependence. There is this new culture of "wine moms" that is getting glorified and i find it as just another way to normalize/mask a drinking problem. You'd be surprised how many "functional alcoholics" you don't even know you know.

    Rahul Pawa
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The phrase that sticks with me as an alcoholic is "I can't control and enjoy drinking. I can either control it, or enjoy it; never both at the same time."

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    A B C the Third
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is this an "uncommon addiction"? BP nailing their titles once again.

    Ace
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But equally. just because you drink some alcohol every day doesn't make you an alcoholic either.

    𝐆𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐦-𝐏𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐚
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Defining alcoholism: no matter how much your daily intake is, whether it be one glass or many - if the idea of having a completely "dry" day stresses and upsets you, and you feel like you have to have at least one drink - you are an alcoholic.

    Diana Johnson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a former binge to blackout drinker, (26 years sober this month) this widely-promoted and narrow definition is what kept me from realizing I was an alcoholic for so long.I would go through the working week without a drink,but in the weekends,mayhem....

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    DB
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's funny because most potheads won't apply the same logic to weed.

    Averysleepypanda
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! Weed culture is so bizzare to me. So many people glorify it. I can't even count how many times I've heard, "weed isn't addictive". Like what??? The most bizzare (and this applies to things outside of drugs and alcohol too) is when people say, "it's natural so it's okay". Poison Oak is natural too, yet we know not to eat it or rub it all over our bodies.

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    Paul Brown
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    12 years sober now. I didn't get arrested every time I drank but I was drunk every time I did get arrested.

    Cold Eagle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Congratulations I know it's not easy but wanted to support.

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    Caitriona Maher
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    4 years sober this month. For those early in the process: Keep going. Get support. Good luck.

    Cold Eagle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Congratulations. I know it's not easy. But have my support.

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    #6

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Shopping is a big one.

    benim972:

    I work with delivering packages to consumers and you have no idea how much some people order. I can have H&M deliveries every day to the same person, which is a pretty obvious shopping addiction. You learn so much about consumerism working in this field.

    It makes me understand why people live minimally and subscribe to the anti-consumerism lifestyle.

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    E.V.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It could be a sign of stress and anxiety too. I used to shop a lot when anxious. Now that I'm on anti anxiety meds, I don't do retail therapy anymore. I just buy what I need.

    Mike Fitzpatrick
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Add in the fact that many of us order the items we need rather than drive 40 minutes to pick them up.

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    Carrie Rattle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work with self diagnosed shopping addicts/Compulsive Shopping clients every day. It is a Behavioral addiction very similar to some eating disorders. It is often a coping mechanism for emotions clients cant bear such as boredom, stress, but also a need for a reward, building self- esteem, trying to find identity, etc. The dopamine hit can be addictive and the actual behavior becomes a subconscious habit over time. Sometimes aligned with OCD, ICD, ADHD and definitely depression and/ or anxiety. There is help.

    DB
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another part of this is returning things they bought. I swear some people buy things just to return them. They get a rush from it.

    Dr Robert Neville
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No no, no, you mean daily deliveries from Next & Amazon surely? Or are you not talking specifically about my wife?

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a serious Amazon problem. I keep saying I'm going to order once a week, have a budget, and get rid of all the stuff I really don't need or that is over budget. Have yet to do it. I buy stuff then I forget I've even bought it. It sits here in boxes for weeks.

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    JessieJ&LilyLovebug
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It could also be a person who is Bipolar going through a manic episode...

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    EmiTheEpic
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m an ex-shopping addict, and was hoping to see it on the list. I remember there was a time when I felt like I couldn’t leave any stop without buying at least one small thing. Thankfully I’m doing much better now

    Kat
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know someone whose grandma spent all her money and almost bankrupt their company too buying stuff from QVC and such. It's a serious problem.

    keyboardtek
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most people learn at a young age that the endorphin rush one gets from the shopping experience and the acquisition experience quickly vanishes a few days after ownership of things. It cannot be sustained. Try daily exercise instead for that endorphin hit.

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really? Most people? Most people have at least one bad habit for their endorphin rush. Most people, in the US at least, are not exercising for their endorphins. But I like the assumptions and judgment. Very healthy.

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    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What are people doing with all their stuff? I can understand hobbies, but the knickknacks, decor, clothes for weeks, an entire pantry of rations to feed you through a cold, nuclear war how are people coping having to clean, store and care for all that stuff?

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no idea. I think maybe I need a yard sale. Once I hired Got Junk. But that was for a lot of big furniture that was absolutely falling apart. I threw lots of little stuff in there while I was paying for my portion of the truck. I could probably use a junk haul again. I know, terrible for the environment.

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    Dr. Benson shared that she likes to refer to the "4 Musketeers" of addiction: rationalize, justify, minimize and manipulate. "An individual suffering from the psychological addictive process has developed a part inside their mind that is operating under those 4 psychological characteristics, keeping them trapped in the addictive cycle," she told Bored Panda. 

    "These character traits are often, not always, the result of emotional developmental disruptions that occurred in the formative years of life. These character traits developed as a way to cope and deal with the pain experienced in one's reality," Dr. Benson explained. "The only thing that has proven to break the denial of the addicted person is a 'certain' level of pain that is unique to every individual suffering from and addictive process."

    #7

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Validation.

    kexcellent:

    As someone who grew up with parents who constantly gaslit, dismissed and invalidated them, I am always looking for validation and I hate it. I have an insatiable need to know I’m not crazy for having the thoughts and ideas that I do, because I was always told things like “other people have it worse” and “quit feeling sorry for yourself.”

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    KombatBunni
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. Since I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, I’m learning to recognise the signs of seeking validation for myself or asking how people are doing so that I can avoid potential conflict..it’s taking a while but at least now I can stop myself from doing it. Knowing now how messed up my childhood really was has made me pretty bitter towards my mother..

    Alyssa Phillips
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Diagnosed BPD in 2007. Not to feed into your validation addiction, but I am SO PROUD OF YOU. I know no matter how hard you try you're still worried. But you are aware and that makes all the difference. *Hugs*

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    Deb M.F.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    mine is the opposite as I have an adult child who gaslights me. She learned it from a person I was in a relationship with for 8 years. Got him out of my life and as she got into her teenage years she started it with me. She knew the same buttons to push with me and then gaslight me when I got upset As of now, we don't have a relationship due to this. Breaks my heart but after that and lying to me about numerous things, I can't be around her like I was before. I miss not having my child in my life.

    Sky Render
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every intersex person who finds out the truth later in life gets this one. Being lied to daily and having our problems ignored and swept under the rug is just standard practice.

    -
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If there's no *medical* issue, it's counter to human rights to operate on infants to force them into one gender or another.

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    cartoon ghosts
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha yeah I have this problem. I'm really insecure and dealing with anxiety and depression, and I often end up seeking validation qnd trying to get people to tell me that I'm good at things or that they like me. My closer friends are okay with it cause they understand it but sometimes it does make people uncomfortable and I hate that. I just couldn't survive without people telling me that not everyone hates me, its what I naturally think and without frequent validation I usually end up having mental breakdowns and doing sh, which I've been trying to stop

    Dr Robert Neville
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm married to someone who was brought up (essentially ignored) by alcohol parents who didn't really know what to do with her because she didn't really fit in with their life. Constantly worries about others perception of her, can never say no because she doesn't want people to disappoint people. The only thing I can say is have good friends who will have your back and step in and say no, don't do it, that's unreasonable it will get easier over time, especially with people backing you up, they'll reinforce your decisions and make you feel more valid.

    emma malcolm
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yes. born into a family with three high functioning autistic brothers (i'm a girl), a mum with horrific anxiety and PTSD from the oldest brother being extremely violent that means i couldn't talk to her about literally anything, and a dad that was abused as a child and when he gets angry, he gets violent. sometimes we all need some validation and love and the thought that we aren't alone😊 if you need some lovin', ask for it

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this. It's hard but it's important to learn how to trust yourself and look forward.

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    #8

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Stress. I'm convinced some people create stress in their life bc they are addicted to it.

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    Auntriarch
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know at least two people who create stress so that they don't have to face things

    Stardust she/her
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do like some stress to break the routine but I don’t want it to last more than a day

    Sergio Bicerra
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think you like challengues more than stress, but ai don't know you. I work at a TV station and time is vital, and 1 day before the 2014 Football World Cup final they task me with doing a 2min recap of ALL the matches, a music videoclip, that was hundreds of footage to review in 12 hours tops, but I did it and felt very satisfied, I made it and was congratulated for the quality and the time sensitive matter.

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    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a weird concept, because there are people who are thrown in to stressful situation after stressful situation. However, I do know at least one person who just can't seem to take a day to relax, do nothing but veg on the couch without feeling guilty about it, or without finding something to fret about. She's always got to be productive and worrying about things that are out of her control or isn't anything to worry about.

    Steve Hall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people thrive on stress and are completely lost without it.

    Mark Fuller
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some are definitely addicted. For me, it's toxic. So I go out of my way to avoid it.

    Skywitness
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I had this with my last job. I was becoming a monster at home so I retired early. I can get another job. I can't get another amazing family.

    Audrey Rasmussen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I... i do this. I dont know how to function without it

    Charlotte Sandoval
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Both of my parents do this, but it's because they grew up in abusive households and they don't know how to cope when there isn't stress

    John Murphy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    there are some people who function much better under stress I dont know if one could be addicted to it but there are those select individuals who thrive within it I am not one

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    Dr. Benson also noted that any behavior can turn into an addictive process. "As I like to say, if Oreo cookies are addicting then so is pot and so is anything else."

    She says some of the sneakier addictions that are becoming more common today are social media, online shopping, gaming, pornography.

    #9

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Social media.

    ThatKehdRiley:

    I scrolled way too far down to see this. Too many people are in active denial, and try to say things like "_________ is way worse than ______ because _____________________".....without realizing the same complaints can be made about them all. Tik Tok is the biggest example to me right now, getting all the attention when Facebook is the bigger problem platform. But of course it isn't.....because that's what the people complaining about tik tok use 🤦‍♀️

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    Rob Chapman
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Facebook, Youtube, Twitter/X, Instagram, everyone is obsessed with how many like, shares and followers they have.

    The Blue Spirit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tend to think of myself as a social-media free person, but I do feel a spike of dopamine every time I open BP and it says someone upvoted one of my comments... it's a problem i think

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    Haywood Jablome
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Russians use Facebook to manipulate us, and the Chinese invented Tik Tok to spy on us. But keep posting pictures of your family. Let your 12 year olds be all up in that s**t

    Pandasizing World Peace
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Watch the documentary, "The Social Dilemma". It's scary to listen to the very people who developed social media talk about how what started out as a good thing but has evolved into manipulation causing depression, suicide, political unrest and division and shaped our entire culture in a very negative way.

    Satirecatsaysno
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IMO this should be higher than phone. I uninstall all the usual suspects from my phone and its really reduced my screen time and when I deleted a lot of my profiles on the usual suspects I found it had a positive impact on my mental health as well.

    Ezigma
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So glad I don't use social media. This and sometimes reddit are the closest I get.

    GrillMeASalmon
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More liking and sharing in the real world and less so in the virtual one may be the way to go...just saying.

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    #10

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Anger. I think addiction to anger is the primary force being weaponized against our entire culture right now.

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    October
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep anger and trauma. Just look at the topics of the majority of movies and series and a good chunk of songlyrics and books. We keep consuming that stuff like candy. What good does it do us?

    David A Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Movies, pshaw, the real horror movie is the TV news. It's deliberately designed to make people angry.

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    Veronica Jean
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's because anger incites more interaction. Think about it: Media company's need to justify to their advertising buyers that their content gets engagement. For a long time happy content seemed to get the most engagement (You may remember a period on the internet where it was almost all feel-good stories). Then we discovered anger actually got WAY more engagement. People will fight in the comments. they will share. They will come back and show their friends. The BEST thing you can do to stop it? Not engage. At all. Don't like. Don't visit. Don't comment. Don't get angry, because it is almost always exaggerated information specifically created to do just that. Hence why political news has gotten absolutely insane. The political divide used to be just differs of opinion, now we completely demonize one side or the other. Don't buy into it. They don't care about you or the country or solving the problem, they care about their stakeholders.

    Marilyn Holt
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes--it's sad and alarming. I have one friend who is angry all the time. Just angry ALL the time.

    Rick
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. I got caught up in this during early Covid. I have worked past it now and am accutely aware when my anger starts to build and quickly find ways to mitigate it. I am a much calmer person as a result.

    Dread Pirate Roberts
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES. I see this EVERYWHERE. Some people aren't satisfied unless they have something to be angry about and/or someone to hate.

    Auntriarch
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A form of adrenaline addiction.

    keyboardtek
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anger is often related to righteousness. Thinking one's race, religion, politics, sports team, etc. is the only correct one to have makes one lose one's temper at anyone who has a different opinion.

    Bruce Horton
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Addiction to anger and victimhood

    Toothless Feline
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not just anger, but outrage. It's a performative addiction to demonstrating just how angry you are to everyone around you. Anger addiction is unsatisfied nobody knows you're angry.

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    But the good news is that Dr. Benson believes any addiction can be broken. "Addiction is a disorder of the mind, body and spirit. Treatment requires addressing both," she told Bored Panda. "Addiction is not a choice or a moral dilemma, and history has shown that treating it as though it is a choice or moral dilemma does not work."

    #11

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Attention. I know far too many people who have "main character" syndrome. I was at a restaurant and this group came in and sat in the booth behind me, it was 50/50 male to female ratio, but the conversation was basically a huge pissing contest. It was barely a conversation, it was someone starting a conversation about themselves and someone ending the conversation by starting a new conversation about themselves and I wasn't eaves dropping but they got progressively louder and when all the attention in the restaurant was about Chloe who just got 150 likes on Instagram in 2 hours it was like jeez Louise. People don't understand that the craving to be in the spot light constantly is a deep rooted problem.

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    BatPhace
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alternately, no one's learning how to actually carry on a conversation anymore, thanks to social media? The pissing contest thing is real too, for sure, but so is nobody learning the art of conversation

    Thomas Ewing
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Constant validation is a sign of low self-esteem.

    Dr Robert Neville
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, last night we hired a small bar for my wife's 50th, nice place, nice staff. A fun time was had by all. At the end of the night the bar staff made an announcement and thanked everyone for being the nicest customers they'd ever had. We were polite, that was it, nothing special my point is was sort of @rseholes do they normally deal with? It's not like it was a dive bar, it was a gin bar and they have a distillery on site so maybe they draw entitled people who think because they have money they can treat people like dirt.

    WindySwede
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First I thought this had to do with not being able to maintain attention.. "ooh look a squirrel!" edit: after reading the first word. :D

    Kat Lyle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a #metoobutworse friend. It became a joke and a pissing contest between our group to see who could say the most outlandish b******t and still be outdone. I related a PTSD incident publicly one day that hospitalised me for a night on a psych ward. Did a memo re dealing with s**t before it breaks you. Ended it with "not looking for validation or a me too or your experience, thanks". First out of the blocks and she got several "did you just "metoo" despite being told to not"...

    burncreek
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Silence is underrated. Really good friends don't have the need for an ongoing conversation at all times.

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean I adore attention cause I like feeling loved but like this is just rude

    Veronica Jean
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is like the cosmic reverse of when it's your birthday and your mom makes everyone around the room take a turn telling you their favorite thing about you.

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    #12

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think From working in disability care the most common addiction i have seen that people don’t realise exists is the addiction to trauma, people believe talking about their traumatic experiences will help it’s true… but when it becomes all you talk about it doesn’t help it makes it worse because your constantly thinking about it and that makes you limit what you can do as a result. I’ve also noticed when you change the subject of conversation they forget and as a result do things they believe they can’t do when they are talking about their trauma all day every day.

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    María Hermida
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've noticed the same pattern of behaviour in people who work or volunteer in "relief" stuff, such as NGOs, animals shelters, etc. You can easily be caught in the trap of thinking that, as you see horrible things on daily basis, you must be angry and sad all the time, so you only speak about the cases, all the time. There's nothing else in the world, in your life or in the universe. Been there, done that. Until I realised I'm not a good help if I'm clinically depressed and exhausted. Lesson #1: No, you are not a bad person if you enjoy yourself or get some time for yourself. Lesson #2: You are not responsible for all the evil in the world. You cannot solve everything. You are only a limited human being who's doing as much as possible.

    Veronica Jean
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey You, random reminder that you're an awesome human. You help people and animals. The world is better with you in it. It's ok to acknowledge the dark things but there's so much good that happens that we don't see: People like you helping. You can't solve all the evil in the world, and that's ok. Thank you for doing what you can <3

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    Jill Rhodry
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only discuss trauma to process it and for it to lose its power - don't allow it to become your identity.

    October
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The storys that makeup our identity can trap us. Then it is time for a new narrative. Or even better: no narrative at all, but just living in the moment.

    BenyA.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's also tedious for your loved ones to listen to if you make no effort to improve situations

    Rick
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It does really suck that people have to deal with this and it for sure does limit them. Constantly talking about it has got to make it even worse.

    Diolla
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't call this an addiction. It's more like some ppl make their trauma their identity.

    Goose of the Ahonkalypse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The trauma dumping can be an addiction though. Gives a bit of a high to dump it out on someone else but doesn't actually resolve anything so the person keeps subjecting those around them to their oversharing.

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    Mark Fuller
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've also worked with people who (when tested with unescorted leave from a psychiatric hospital) ... abscond hundreds of miles back to the abusers. Addicts to trauma. I simply don't get it.

    Notuolos
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. Talking about it just makes another example of the traumatic experience in our consciousness. It needs to be processed out. EFT (emotional freedom techniques) or other trauma release processes can bring lasting relief for the long term. Unfortunately, mainstream methods are stuck on talk therapy or such like and prolong the suffering. Not much research needed but stay away from wikipedia, too many entrenched motivations there. Good luck.

    Powerful Katrinka
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is also amazingly effective in the treatment of trauma. I'm a clinical mental health counselor (CMHC) and I intend to pursue the training required to provide this. My personal experience with this therapy was impressive. In some respects, I suspect it saved my life.

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    cartoon ghosts
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, both extremes with this one are difficult. You 100% need to talk about and work through trauma, but you also need to really work through it and heal. If you're talking about your trauma 24/7, I don't think you've healed very well

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It can make you relive the trauma, and then it becomes worse and you can develop PSTD from it, where if you're in an area or situation, or even just reading about something that reminds of that trauma, you can find yourself imagining the traumatic experience as if you're right there again and lose yourself in the present. It can interfere with relationships, work and perhaps your safety because you lose your awareness of your surroundings.

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    "What we do not know is why some people experience certain levels of pain and are able to break the denial and get help, while others suffer their entire lives and sometimes die as a result of their addiction," Dr. Benson added. "So can any addiction be broken? Yes, however it is dependent upon the individual suffering from the addiction and the depths of denial and psychological issues they may suffer from that could impact their ability to recover."

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    #13

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Procrastination. It's so much easier to say "f**k it, I'll do it tomorrow". And then tomorrow comes and you still don't do it. Such a terrible habit.

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    ynyrhydref56
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't class this as an addiction, but a bad habit.

    iseefractals
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only legitimate addiction i've seen on here so far was alcohol, the rest are bad habits and character flaws.

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    Alexia
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This also seems to be a coping mechanism in many cases.

    Erik Ivan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am The Procrastination Man - The most powerfull super h... nah, I write the rest later...

    Pink Taco Eater
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm guilty of this. It has gotten worse the past couple of years.

    Nikki Sevven
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not an addiction, but a symptom of both depression and anxiety.

    PlatinumThe8-BitCat
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate my laziness and procrastination so much, I’ve had so much schoolwork to do and I’ve missed a lot of it because I’m too lazy to do it, I hate it so much

    JJ
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every time I read a post like this, I throw in the app "New Day". It's free and helps to beat procrastination mindfully and by also looking at the emotions a put-off task causes. Maybe you want to give it a try. It helped me through some really hard study times.

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    keyboardtek
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once asked a psychologist where motivation comes from. He said external motivation is a myth. He recommends simply starting anything you do not want to do because more often than not, momentum builds up and suddenly the task is complete. If the momentum fails to materialize, simply stop and try on another day.

    Mel The Axolotl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me but I just have ADHD and need intense, close deadlines to get anything done

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    #14

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Soda.

    digydongopongo:

    It's wild how many people drink soda like it is water. I work at a restaraunt and ppl be drinking soda every day throughout their shift. It tastes nice but the amount of sugar in soda is absolutely absurd, just not worth it imo so I rarely drink it. If I'm gonna consume that much sugar I'll get some sweets instead.

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    Sunshine Lady
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get easily addicted to soda/sweet carbonated drinks. If I let myself to drink a glass of it 2 days in a row, that's all I crave on the third day and water is not good enough. I'm controlling it by not buying it.

    Oskar vanZandt
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I enjoy carbonated water and sugar-free soft drinks... but I drink more coffee and tap water. A friend of mine who suffered from "restless legs syndrome" said that her symptoms have disappeared after cutting artificial sweeteners from her diet.

    Bgray450
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had a roommate who only drank Dr Pepper. She felt like c**p all the time. I'd say "Have a glass of water!" and she'd make a face. I'm so thankful that I just love water.

    WalterWhiteSavannah
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I moved out at 17 and I used to drink at least 6 cans of coke daily till I was 20 or so... it cut through the dry mouth from the weed so nicely tho. Hahaha. Nowadays I almost never drink pop and only smoke weed occasionally.

    Mel The Axolotl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so true. My parents will buy like 75 6-packs of soda when they're on sale and keep them piled up under our mudroom table, and one of my sister and I's daily chores is making sure there's always cold soda in the fridge. I've noticed that it's excessive and a bit concerning, but it's hard doing anything different when that's how you live and are being raised... They are very good about not letting my 6-yo brother have it though. He always has tea, water, or milk.

    Bobijntje
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is not only soda pop but all the sugared drinks like Ice Ice tea or Yoghurt based drinks . A lot of people think these types of drinks are healthy because of the world tea/yoghurt in it but they are full of sugar. I have a friend who's drinking 2 liters Ice Tea a day because she does not like water.

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you really concentrated on tasting all the ingredients of pop you'll quickly notice how much sugar you're tasting. It's very sickening to taste.

    Courtney Christelle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get flavored drink powder. No sugar, only a couple calories and it makes getting enough hydration easy.

    Carla Campbell
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please drink water! I only drank soda for one day and got dehydrated. Almost died. Ambulance ride and 6 days in the hospital.

    Graham Berry
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But water tastes so bad allot of the time.

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    #15

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Workout addiction.

    RudeAcanthaceae8021:

    This sh** is so real and a whole generation of kids is getting body dysmorphia cause they see guys who are on gear talking about being natty and then these kids are like shitting on themselves cause they can never keep up its the same type of things that happen to girls when people have bbls and stuff its a sad thing people have to go thru and social media makes it way worse.

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    Glenn Schroeder
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it just me, or is that reply really hard to read?

    Multa Nocte
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When someone writes like this I find I don't really want to know what they are discussing. By the way, what are bbls? Wait! I don't really want to know. ;-)

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    sofacushionfort
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any hope for an addiction to concise sentence structure?

    L Mullen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had become addicted to running after my father died when I was fifteen. At one point I was running twice a day seven days a week and taking in maybe 1200 calories per day. My sister caught on to what was happening and put a stop to it. You don't mess with big sis. After intervention I was able to get on a healthy running schedule and and increased my food intake. It wasn't the last time she saved me from myself.

    EvilNob
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother is into it, but not because of whatever the op wrote but because of the testosterone and adrenaline rush what it gives them. It's just like the extreme sports and has nothing to do with "body dysmorphia".

    𝕶𝙖𝙩𝙚
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    lifting weights helps release a lot of my emotions (primarily anger) so that's why i do it

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    TheGirlWhoWoreGlasses
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And one of the causes of my divorce, he couldn't/wouldn't take time off, even on vacation. Unless vacation was exercise, like climbing mountains.

    Khall Khall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't understand half of this...

    More!
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I had a workout addiction

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work at a rehab. We get guys in all the time who are addicted to steroids and working out. Body dysmorphia is definitely involved. They have no idea what a realistic goal is. They think a "healthy" looking male should bulge out everywhere and that that is what others find attractive. Very hard to treat.

    keyboardtek
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But as addictions go, better to have a healthy one!

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    #16

    Skin picking; squeezing, popping, gouging around for ingrowns - it’s a legitimate addiction and mental health issue.

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    Yeet_girl360
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My whole family (including me) have ADHD, but one of my younger sisters pick at her skin until it is raw. She is on medication now, but sometimes she still picks.. I do sometimes pick too, but only at my upper arms. It is why I try not to wear tank tops. (If I don't see, I don't pick)

    Marie Dahme
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The medical term for it is called Dermotilomania. It's classified as an OCD behavior.

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    Dasha
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this, I often do it until my skin bleeds, trying to stop doing it, but it’s almost like I have to do it.

    not your average weirdo
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have this pretty bad. My face, neck, shoulders, hands, and chest are all covered in scars and I mean COVERED

    Nina
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never knew it had a name, thank you! Have adhd and have trouble not feeling up my face neck, arms etc. Trying to transfer that to fidget rings, but it takes some conscious effort since I've been doing it quite long.

    Scotira
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dermatillomania or Skin-Picking-Disorder

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    freakingbee (any pronouns)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeahhhh i should probably talk to my therapist about this

    Isa's left eye
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this. I try so hard to stop but I can't even control it most of the time. I always have scabs on my face, plus a ton of scars.

    JessieJ&LilyLovebug
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is a diagnosable form of OCD, as is cheek chewing, pulling out hair, chewing fingernails and fingers...

    𝕶𝙖𝙩𝙚
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh.. i probably need to get diagnosed for ocd now as i'm realizing that a lot of my behaviors are unhealthy and are very much like ocd symptoms

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    KariAdoresHerKats
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have OCD and i pull my hair and pick. Its so hard to stop

    Stardrop
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i have a horrid black scar from this and my lips are always raw and bleeding :/

    Melissa Weiss
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ditto. It's a problem. Eats away parts of the day sometimes.

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    #17

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Gaming...

    ThrowsSoyMilkshakes:

    Yup. It's scary how many people will pour 8+ hours into a game each day. They cut their sleep down to 2-6 hours just to do it, too. It's generally why I play solo on Rust, as many of my teammates want people that are on for huge amounts of hours, even if the server is more PvE oriented.

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    CG
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know there are definitely hardcore gamers who spend full days gaming, but it's something to do in moderation. For me, while I still game a lot, I've cut back thanks to doing Karate and going to the gym, and this hasn't affected my sleep schedule whatsoever.

    Roan The Demon Kitty
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love gaming, but except for the days I get new games and get addicted, I'm not one to cut down on my sleep. I admit I used to, but I realise that for the better of my physical and mental health, not staying up until 4am gaming is a good idea. I confess i stayed up till 1am last night with baldurs gate though. I'm addicted to that. But I'm still sleeping enough xD

    Oskar vanZandt
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I came to gaming late in life with the PS3 and The Last of Us... I have spent a few 8 hour days playing a couple of open world games in Assassin's Creed Odyssey and Valhalla. For me it's about the story and learning some skills along the way. But I play in bursts... I haven't spent much time gaming since July.

    Northlander72
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Open world games is one thing, but I think the main problem nowadays is that games are getting so GRINDY. Especially if they give your some kind of reward for doing some daily thing the game has baked into itself.

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    Mr.Li
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once declared a friend for dead cause he just didnt wanna leave a game to hang out with us. Or he traveled every weekend to meet them in real life and hang out with them. Caused him a big mountain of debts.

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's weird is when people brag about it like it's something to be impressed. It's not. When I hear someone saying they played a game for 12+ hours, until they had to go to work, I think that person sat and festered in a smelly chair all night, didn't shower and perhaps didn't bother brushing their teeth while eating and drinking sugary foods and snacks.

    Pandasizing World Peace
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    South Korea has Gaming Detox centers because gaming addiction is such a big problem there. Brain scans of gamers is eye opening.

    Graham Berry
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is one of the reasons I hate multiplayer.

    Alyssa Phillips
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband gets 4-5 hours of game time daily. 2100-0200 while everyone else is asleep. If he doesn't get that dedicated time he is unbearable. It's a problem, but the devil you know....

    Camber Hollywood
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is gaming addiction. There are also games which are designed to take hours to accomplish things, which feeds into a more general addiction to accomplishment, even if the accomplishment makes no difference in the "real" world.

    Mark Fuller
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love gaming, even in my forties. But I can't do more than a couple of hours max. And go for days or weeks at a time with none. Can't compute the addiction for 24/7 gaming. Get out... see the sky... make some friends.

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    #18

    Being "right". People get a huge rush from shouting down someone for being wrong. They never seem to realize that even if you really are right, seeking out that feeling of "self-righteousness" is not a good thing. It took me years to stop seeking that out and I still do it sometimes. I'm often reminded of the old XKCD comic, "I can't sleep - someone on the internet is wrong."

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    iseefractals
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When too many knowledgeable people treat ignorance with apathy, and the ignorant act with ambition well, that's how we ended up with the world we have now. It's a problem thats only getting worse, and i don't know about you, but i'm not really a fan. The only way to make things better, is by confronting unchecked idiocy where ever you encounter it.

    burncreek
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That would be nothing short of a revolution. A much needed one.

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    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because you're louder doesn't mean you're right.

    DB
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Expect most of the time they're the ones who are wrong, just like our many BP "experts".

    Thomas Ewing
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's good to think and live rightly; not to hatefully judge others.

    StretcherBearer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish everyone was as humble as me. Self righteous people are the worst.

    Cosmologist interntobe (he/him
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me of a quote: when having to choose between being right and being kind, choose kind.

    burncreek
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mature people are able to change their minds if being over proved. Also, mature people don't force others to change their minds although they're wrong.

    Audrey Rasmussen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im not guilty of this... but its similar to me because for me its how this one guy is saying stuff about me, to me, that isnt true, and i am NOT okay with that so i just wont stop until i am done proving myself correct about MY OWN LIFE (he f*****g denied i was aroace because of how i had 'dated' him, i didnt want to date him, i just couldn't figure out how to stop him from suic*de over winter break and he asked me out a second time, I shouldn't have done it because it was misleading, but i really thought he would kill himself , he wouldn't've)

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    #19

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Daydreaming! I do it constantly and can’t stop. It literally takes up hours out of my day.

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    Tuesday
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Immersive daydreaming is one thing, maladaptive daydreaming is another. The former is fine, it's normal. It might happen a lot, even daily, and it might be super detailed and complicated, but you have control over it, and it's just a way of coping with stress for you. The latter takes over your life and spirals out of control until you can't stop yourself from it. You pace up and down in your room for hours straight every single day. It’s the first thing you do when you wake up, and the last thing you do when you sleep, and it sneaks into all moments in between. You stop going outside, you detach yourself from everyone, you stop caring about anything except the people in your head who don't exist. It’s extremely compulsive so it’s definitely a type of behavioural addiction. I hate how it's made to seem quirky and fun. It's a disorder and it's absolutely terrible. (Edit: saying this as a sufferer of MD)

    Yeet_girl360
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maladaptive daydreaming is something I struggle with. I do it as a way to cope, and even if I'm talking with someone, or scrolling the internet I'm still in my head in a world of my own. I have ADHD, and the two overlap together. The best way I can explain it is that daydreaming is free dopamine. People with ADHD struggle because the dopamine in the brain works differently. In the real world it hurts, but my world in my head it is a happy safe place that I can control. I can come up with friends who will never leave me, and places that I can visit without a care in the world. At one point it got so bad that I would confuse the real world with my daydreams. I'm not sure how to talk about it, but I go to see a psychiatrist soon. Hopefully I'll be able to get help for it. Thank you for spreading awareness. ❤️

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    The Blue Spirit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's 100% me. I love books and audiobooks so much (my other addiction) but I daydream so much that I fairly regularly will tune of the book and accidentally make up like 2 chapters of content before being like "wait, why is there a character named The Blue Spirit in this book?" and realizing a got lost again

    sofacushionfort
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The one thing I’m good at, and you’re tarring it with the addiction brush.

    Lou Cam
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guilty as charged. Real life is just a job you hate, chores you loathe and bills you dread. At least a little dip in your own fantasy world is free and available anytime.

    JessieJ&LilyLovebug
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Researchers have reported that daydreamers tend to have higher IQ's.

    Carrot_1331
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this an addiction really or just a high lack of focus. I have adhd, anxiety, depression,

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    #20

    Destination addiction is used to describe the belief that happiness is in the destination or can be found somewhere else rather than in the present. In fact, our destination addiction often begins earlier in life than we realize.

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    Veronica Jean
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oooo this one hits hard. So very true.

    Babynurse in Colorado
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen children do this. No matter what they are doing, watching a movie, playing a game, or even at an amusement park, they will ask every few minutes, "What are we doing after this?" It's like they have to be constantly amused and also have to have the promise of future constant amusement.

    María Hermida
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, this is what society expects if us. We are trained from a very early age. We spend most of our adult life doing jobs we hate, and "obligations" in general, and thinking "when I retire I'm going to take up this or that hobby, or I'm going to learn whatever". Life is not in the future. Life is NOW. Who told you will be alive tomorrow?

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was thinking more like society expects people to move around and move on time to time. Like, if you stay in the same place, doing the same thing for a long time it's considered boring, unambitious, ignorant and stagnant. I say ignorant in the sense there's a belief travelling around to different places makes you smarter or more aware of different people and places. But it doesn't necessarily have to be so.

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    cartoon ghosts
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay but I have depression and can't get meds until I'm 18, if I don't live in the future I have no reason to live

    Lou Cam
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one went side by side with my eating disorders. I'm not doing X until I weigh Y.....turns out I spent a lot of my teens and twenties doing nothing but starve and exercise for some mythological event in the future.

    Thomas Ewing
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who like to travel are looking for something. Guilty!

    KatZen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Interesting. I am obsessed with travel but my favorite part is the planning and research. Existential crisis commencing.

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    whiterabbit
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex has this. I tried for years to help him see his life was not as terrible as he constantly whined about. To this day, years later, he still is constantly moving around and changing jobs, living out of his vehicle and complaining that he's not doing enough with his life even though he makes well into the 6 figures as a commercial engineer and has hundreds of thousands of dollars laying around and could literally live off interest and travel the world.

    More!
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Possibly because mum would always say ‘When we get there you can have this or that’ We would be promised rewards when we arrived at our destination. Could that be a contributor to this attitude?

    Groaver Andout
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happiness is the Road. https://youtu.be/rZWhMGayOoE?si=1DDcAbOf0_7z2cDe

    Glen Ellyn
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "It's the journey, not the destination."

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    #21

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Content! - movies, tv shows, books, social media

    InevitableMap7 , freestocks Report

    Kristal
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yup, guilty of this. It's my way of escaping the anxiety and depression

    Satirecatsaysno
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. It helps drown out the carnage in my head. I also have sever tinnitus so silence is truly deafening for me. If I don't have background noise the constant ringing drives me yo distraction.

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    Nay Wilson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t understand? What’s wrong with books? Or is this person talking about influencers?

    FantastiKitty
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is about not allowing yourself to simply do nothing, you have to be consuming something all the time. (Guilty 🙋🏾‍♀️)

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    Veronica Jean
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can take my books out of my cold dead hands.

    Helena
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guilty. Throw in tutorials and how-to''s.

    Courtney Christelle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wasn’t expecting books to be looped in.

    vennyp0o
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sick of even the 'word' content (in this context).

    Kye
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Steaming, sure. Books, movies and tv shows of merit, no.

    Anouk T
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this one either needs more details or is just bullpoop. Nothing wrong with people needing to keep their brains busy with stuff both low and high quality. Most ppl can’t sit still and do nothing - I would not call it an addition but just being human

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    #22

    Religion. When they start justifying their actions because of religion.

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    The Blue Spirit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Religion should encourage a person to change their actions to be closer to an ideal, not justify their actions by picking and choosing ideals that fit their actions

    WindySwede
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like the reporter who talks to a guy in an anti-abortion demonstration. The reporter responds with "but didn't god kill everybode except Noa and family" paraphrasing, but the guy stopped talking and had a brain crach..

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your real religion is not what you believe or say. Your real religion is what you do.

    Leigh
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like my mom use her religion as an excuse to be bigoted against queers. I think it's hilarious half her kids turned out queer.

    Rick
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A support system that provides a lot of false hope and promises

    Carman Davis
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People love to justify their sin against God to other and especially the Bible!!

    BeeInACup
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is awfully low on this list.

    Jan Bowyer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Religion (not the same as spirituality) throughout recorded history has been used countless times to justify war, mass murder, and hatred. It lets weak minded people justify violence and hatred. People need use their personal strengths rather than church invented guilt to guide their behavior. Give me a kind-hearted atheist over a self-important, judgmental religious person any day.

    Jumping Jellyfishes
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen so many people bounce between extremes- they're destroying themselves, then they flip and become overzealous about religion, trying to push it on everybody. I've known people who've flipped back and forth several times.

    KombatBunni
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looking at you, Christianity…

    Pizzaking, village burner.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe you mean “Christianity” and not actual Christianity?

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    Thomas Ewing
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Making excuses rather than facing up. Religion offers community and growth, not something to hide behind.

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    #23

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Addiction to other people's lives. We’re constantly flooded with media on people we don’t even know/never met. Yet, we invest so much time interacting with them and having a false sense of reality, seeing only what they show. Humans are so much more complex than the image that's presented to us online. We should look around our own reality before trying to make sense of a stranger.

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    Sunshine Lady
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I left Facebook last year in August. Best decision ever! But prior to that I had "mom influencer page" and the amount of people , who thought we're friends just because they were watching my videos was astounding. I'm really happy I came to mind and left that stupid life behind me. It was also related to phone addiction.

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    #24

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Caffeine and sugar are two big ones. Mostly caffeine though. Millions of people in the US depend on coffee throughout their day.

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    Alexia
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, leave coffee alone! One cup per day is more than okay (there, I make rhymes :))

    Marie Dahme
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Coffee : Because murder is wrong.

    Jan Bowyer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of us like coffee because it's delicious. Recent studies show that 2 cups a day is helpful to our bodies in numerous ways. Although, I imagine the addiction part refers to all-day drinking.

    whiterabbit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. I went on vacation and the coffee was nasty where I was at so I decided to skip it. By day two I had a constant headache and I couldn't figure out why. Thankfully my boyfriend realized it was caffeine withdrawal, which was quickly resolved by choking down a cup of burnt, bitter coffee every morning.

    Irishwoman abroad
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why's nobody mentioning that wonderful source of caffeine and comfort to millions - TEA! Nothing better than a nice strong cuppa in the morning, and it's better for you than coffee,as it's slower to release the caffeine.

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Coffee is warmth and comfort, especially with some flavoured cream. It's not the caffeine I'm craving, though. If I'm feeling sluggish, popping a few mints and or eating/drinking anything will resuscitate me.

    Pheebs
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would love to cut the coffee, but it’s about the only thing keeping my sinus migraines from wrecking my life. If you can invent an antihistamine that doesn’t make me act like I’m on every upper ever created - simultaneously - then I’ll gladly reduce my coffee intake.

    Martinna Jaap
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have severe sinus migraines as well but I've never tried drinking coffee to help. I may have to try that. I've never liked the taste of coffee but have always loved the smell.

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    Roan The Demon Kitty
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    honestly, coffee doesn't even make me less tired, I just feel like I rely on it almost for placebo effect and because I just like coffee that much. (but also tea)

    Oskar vanZandt
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually drink 2 or 3 cups of black coffee a day... unless I'm unwell, then I avoid it.

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    #25

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Instant gratification.

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    OhnoI’vebeencensored
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Much better than that rubbish old delayed gratification.

    keyboardtek
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So I guess I wasted my life learning how to play jazz piano, compose music, use tools to build things, took the time to read all of those slow books.

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    #26

    Green, you can say you smoke medicinally, but if anyone can’t remember the last time they’ve seen you sober, either you’ve got a bigger problem than you think you’re treating, or you’re hiding from something you desperately need to face.

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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Back to ‘self medicating’

    Karl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After 40 years or so, it’s in its place last thing at night once the responsibility of the day is over. Wonderful plant 🙂

    Der Kommissar
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    when I am not using cannabis for medicinal purposes, then iI am using it for recreational purposes.

    Bgray450
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've tried many times for the past year to stop using green. Been smoking since 1969, and part of the problem is "But it's LEGAL now!"

    Scotira
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uhm, smoking cannabis is used in "end of life cancer care" also in medical controll of epilepsy (and many more). In both cases the friends might not have seen their friend sober for a long time. And might think he has a different problem bc they don't know better 😐 Edit: so if someone says they smoke cannabis medically I'd be careful to just asume they "only" have a cannabis addiction or don't know what they are using it for like OP here... 🤷‍♀️

    Vermonta
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    since the dawn of time people have found ways to escape reality through fermentation or plants.

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    #27

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Self medicating. For me it was alcohol. Then when I had to stop it was tobacco. Then when I stopped that it was eating. I don't think I was addicted to one of those in particular but with declining mental health I needed something/anything to make me numb. I abused alcohol but I never necessarily needed alcohol, but I always needed something. That something is what I would say I needed. Abusing alcohol, tobacco and Little Debbie's was always the symptom of the underlying illness. Either way I slice the comfort cake they all still, and equally, would lead to a downward spiral that can snowball anybody's life out of control. Long story short: self medicating.

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    María Hermida
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Part of the problem here is, in my opinion, doctors. People are going to try to numb the pain, be it physical or mental. If doctors really listened and tried to help, and to make the patient feel understood, very few people would self medicate. But they many times gaslight patients, and underestimate their pain, so people have to find away to cope with daily life. The number of suicides is raising enormously in my country, and doctors still ignore the signs. Any idiot with good marks and cero empathy can go to university and become s doctor, and that's a huge mistake.

    WindySwede
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is sucide any tabu or in any way not handled in healthcare? Or plain lack of empathy?

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    Tamra
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think most people self-medicate to varying degrees at some point in their lives, whether they realize it or not. As a species, we want to avoid pain and discomfort and enjoy pleasure. This seems like a part of the human condition.

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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Using a term containing the word ‘medicating’ gave my ex a real victim/hero mentality. He was a repulsive man, he ‘self medicated’ (hero) his depression (victim) with alcohol. He felt so clever when he uttered the term, almost like he was an honorary doctor because he was officially ‘medicating’ himself and therefore (in his pea brain) he was doing the best he could under the circumstances. It isn’t ‘self medicating’ it is self indulgent and that term should never have been approved.

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to get so pissed when people would say "self-medicating." "It's not medicine!" I would shout back. Now I try to get the gist. They don't feel right. This makes them feel better. But I agree. I hate this term. It gives the false impression the drug is some type of medicine. We should come up with a new term. Maybe "numbing out."

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    Lama
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was the reason I divorced my ex. When he was very young, it was hard drugs. But that was so long behind him when I met him, I didn't think it would ever be a problem. But then it became alcohol. Then after getting sober, it was weed. And it will always be something. I feel for him, but I'm not seeing him making any progress of yet. It's a damn hard struggle, so please be kind to people.

    Carrot_1331
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You addiction to self medication sound like a good thing tho. Treat yo self bestie

    Thomas Ewing
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An 'I need/want something' mentality is common. Steering it away from destructive 'me first even if it hurts' is tough.

    WalterWhiteSavannah
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I so get this. For me I just work hard to mix up all the things so I don't get too dependent on one. Could be food, alcohol, weed, exercise, gaming, binging TV... a combination of those. Its just always gotta be something, no single one is really an addiction. Though I definitely smoked way too much weed back in the day and have had spells where I drank for too much as well. Just not in a way where it noticeably impact my life.

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    #28

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Addiction to a person or a toxic relationship.

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    #29

    Being addicted to hospitalization It gives you attention by friends and family - you are suddenly the center of the world Then you get better — and people return to normal and expect you to carry on as you were prior, and you realize how lonely you are. So you do the extreme thing to get that thrill of attention, you harm yourself, you overdose, you make empty threat. You don’t care about the bill or the resources spent on you. You have the attention of those willing to give it. It only gets worse when you start to feel like you’re not being treated like royalty and you start looking at “better” hospitals that don’t ask questions and give you whatever you want I work at a hospital and have seen over 87 repeat patients…I’ve only worked here for 2 years

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    María Hermida
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Munchausen syndrome. Terrible if they do it themselves, even more terrible if they harm their children to get the attention and compassion they crave.

    cartoon ghosts
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandmother had this and as a result my mom doesn't let me get medication for anything, including depression and anxiety. It messes up more than one generation

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    Veronica Jean
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know some EMT's who have stories. People faking heart attacks, seizures, etc...All for the attention or manipulation it causes their family.

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just like making false 911 calls, they should be fined for wasting hospital resources.

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    featherytoad
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't do this in the U.S. You would be bankrupt.

    whiterabbit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are millions on government healthcare in the US. If you can't afford insurance you can get state insurance, they pay nothing out of pocket.

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    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a difference between addiction and mental disorders.

    Bgray450
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw this as a nurse's aide years ago. There was a lonely woman who would come in once a month for an enema.

    EvilNob
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this the same thing when old ladies on the bus try to convince the other old lady that they have more health issues?

    ROSESARERED
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a family member who is a hypochondriac...thinks I have this looks up the symptoms and believes so strongly they have that condition their body creates the symptoms. ...but scans and surgery to find _____ comes out all clear. Very hard work to want to be with them. If they are not getting attention, says I'm sick, and gets 'sicker' until the attention gets given, usually they call an ambulance...so sad. Hope that the day they really are sick and need urgent help doesn't get brushed aside due to all of this c**p.

    ROSESARERED
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And it's multiple times A WEEK thst the ambulance is called. Lots of underlying mental illness, but no one can see past this behaviour to help

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    #30

    Gossiping.

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    Phoenix
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not what I heard...

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My life was made a million times better once I told that one "friend" to stop telling me all the gossip about me. Suddenly it didn't matter what anyone was saying about me bc I didn't know. Wish I would've learned that trick sooner. I plan to teach it to my kids.

    Dread Pirate Roberts
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We all know people with this addiction :/ probably multiple people.

    Cosmologist interntobe (he/him
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gossip is evil. My school once had a rumor that a friend of mine fücked a table. He did not. Anyway did you guys hear about that one person who did that one thing tat that one place with that other person.

    ROSESARERED
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No business telling someone else's story...that's my motto. Gossip did a huge amount of damage to me when i was at school. You cannot pick up all the peices once the lies have been told, it's like tearing up a peice of paper and throwing it out the window...if you gossip about others, there's a special place for you .. .

    Jan Bowyer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gossip allows a gossiper to feel important. I guess it matters not that someone else can be deeply hurt by it.

    #31

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Doomscrolling.

    WeddingCharacter3713:

    The guy who created infinite scroll where you never reach the bottom of your tl really regrets making it. It works very similar to playing a slot machine or roulette, your brain releases dopamine and over time it really gets in the way of your natural reward pathways. Ever wonder why you feel both overstimulated and exhausted on days when your screen time is higher? That’s why.

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    María Hermida
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FOMO: fear of missing out. There are so many people who are always thinking the next life-changing post is "a little below the page". I think most of these addictions are symptoms of how unsatisfactory our lives are. People who have a "real life" do not need to spend hours looking at other people's fictitious lives. We are living in a mad society.

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel tired when I've been on the pc for a long time. The scrolling is relatively new to me. Eventually I start getting the same types of videos I'm not that interested in and tap out. Often it's baby and parenting videos that aren't really relevant in my life. Or baby monkey videos that I know I shouldn't be watching. Baby Bebe was one that was alright. But the recent Baby Chaly ones are more apparent of how disturbing they are. Then I found myself going down a rabbit hole watching longer videos of behind the scenes of baby monkey videos and how they are captured.

    Pheebs
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I noticed this when I enter apps like Apple News and LinkedIn - worse with LI. It’s terrible, because I’m almost always miserable scrolling either, or at least disinterested, but it’s like you can’t stop. I’ve stopped opening either. News apps that have long scrolls are particularly miserable, and definitely feels like doom.

    More!
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is Infinite Scrolling and TL?

    Pheebs
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Infinite scrolling is when you never reach the bottom of the page - more content just keeps getting added. TL I believe is timeline. Basically means whatever feed/list you’re scrolling.

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    Thomas Ewing
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YOU set the standard. Don't look to others. If you aren't content being alone, ask God why? Be unique, but not solitary. Like and forgive yourself. Be honest about everything. Follow the Golden Rule. Remember, being good takes positive effort; being evil takes no effort at all. Be good.

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    #32

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Hitting the snooze button too many times.

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    Lee Banks
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I literally ended an otherwise healthy, five year relationship over this. Do not do this to yourself or your partner.

    Carrot_1331
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this is an addiction then stop doing it. Just hit stop obvi

    Carrot_1331
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is an addiction. Bro it’s the weekend let me sleep in ß!+€h

    Suzanne McHenry
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I set multiple alarms just in case I over snoozed.

    LemmeProcrastinateThis
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is less of an addiction, and more of a bad habit.

    WalterWhiteSavannah
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dodged this bullet. The snooze button always just felt like a dirty lie to me. I knew what was coming in 5 mins so I couldn't enjoy the little time it gave me.

    #33

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Complaining. Guilty your honor. Lock me up. I dabbled in it once or twice and before I knew what happened, I found myself as an adult, with a career, responsibilities, and all sorts of adulting happening around me. Ever since I’ve been roiled in addiction. I can’t stop. A life sentence seems warranted. I’m not even sorry.

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    ILoveMySon
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this deeply as I had to separate myself from someone I knew for many years as it became too taxing on me. My health is failing and I simply couldn't do it anymore.

    Glen Ellyn
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Negativity. I once worked with a woman who spouted negativity constantly. Every time she opened her mouth she was complaining and saying how bad this or that is. Sheesh! I was so relieved when I no longer had to work right next to her.

    roddy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother-in-law exactly. Always finding fault with something or other.

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    cartoon ghosts
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me 100%. I'm very dramatic and I make sure everyone I complain to knows I'm not actually serious and I'm just complaining as a way to vent a negative emotion, and I try to let them know that if they want me to stop I can. I still complain about being cold literally constantly (I am but I complain about it to the point of it being tiring)

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Complaining makes me feel better but I try not to drain others with it and to let them know I just kvetching. I'm actually very happy.

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    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Complaining here and there isn't the issue. It's when it's the same person and any time they open their mouth it's about them not happy with anything. "I hate this job. You know what the manager said to me? I have to do this stupid project and he told me I'm not doing this and that right. I told him it's a stupid project and I don't want to do it. So, he told me to go home." We've all encountered that one co-worker. But even more sinister are the ones who complain about us to our faces, but we take it as "constructive criticism". "Why aren't you in college yet? You don't want to rely on your parents forever. Your cousins have gone and graduated. Why can't you be more like them? When are you going to find someone, get married and give us grandkids?" This is complaining, too.

    #34

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Fast food.

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    vennyp0o
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Corporations know *exactly* how to get their chemical claws into your brain stem and keep them there nowadays.

    Karl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can cook anything better than any take away. Workmate gave me a piece of Dominoes pizza the other day and the crust and sauce was so full of sugar it was like eating dessert. Put it in the bin.

    Mini grizzly
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so guilty of this. Especially KFC. 😋

    EvilNob
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe there was a SouthPark episode about it...

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    Susan Reid Smith
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was one blessing of the Pandemic for us, breaking our frequent consumption of fast food.

    Stardrop
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    being a vegetarian has helped a lot with this.

    Goose of the Ahonkalypse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being extremely wheat sensitive helps too. Pretty much elimates most fast food where I live.

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    #35

    Sadness. The very feeling of having that strange throbbing of depression move through your body can, in a way, feel like a massage. And you can really indulge that. Paired with all the thoughts that can get framed in a sort of artistically tragic way, you can really just fall into this habit of living in your own imagined tragedy, which while tragic is also beautiful in an almost cinematic way. Indulged this way throughout most of my 20s, part of my 30s. Takes a while to realize how harmful yet addictive it is. Especially if you're otherwise isolated or prone to being on your own. Instead of having healthy relationships in real life, you can morph the ones in your mind into these hugely dramatic, doomed and unhealthy ones. And because it can feel so poetic and grand, it can feel more affecting than real life, and so you spend more time there than in the real world. Well, for some of us anyway.

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    Thomas Ewing
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If a person is wholesome, happy, and alert like, say, Mr. Rodgers (remember?) we may wonder what's wrong with this person? Actually, a sound, well-adjusted life is similar to a Mr. Rodger's persona, but it seems a bit much to stretch that into adulthood given the ups and downs of daily living. A gloomy Gus or hostile Hal is not a good response, either. A church setting provides a reasonable 'let's help each other' community that can do wonders on many levels. Be open to positive growth, no excuses. Don't be your own worst enemy!

    Dread Pirate Roberts
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS. I've known such people, a few of them close to me.

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can relate. Still go through bouts but not really on purpose. The depression has gotten to a point where it feels like I'm physically sick and tired. The best I can describe it is when you've eaten too much sweets and the nausea is hitting you. Then I try to climb out of it.

    cartoon ghosts
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't imagine that. I have depression and I would do anything to not feel like this, when I'm actually happy and calm/safe it'd the best feeling in the world

    keyboardtek
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does music in a minor key resonate with you?

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    2 years ago

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    jakub hála
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, well, not everything is about you and your depression. Other people have different problems. And the real shocker: those problems may not relate to you in any way. For me, for example, this post is pretty relatable.

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    #36

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Noise.

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    Julie S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like peace and quiet. Sitting read a book quietly or just sitting with my thoughts. I find it relaxing.

    CrazyKnitter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't sit with my thoughts, I just get into a spiral of "what could I have done better?" Usually for a situation that happened years or decades ago with someone I haven't seen in years. Books are amazing, but if I'm not reading, usually I need noise.

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    LionPaws_and_RadarEars
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This might be an addiction in some people, but for others it may be a necessity. For some people with sensory disorders silence can be really difficult to cope with.

    featherytoad
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I sleep with my TV on and when I wake up, the living room TV goes on. I can't stand the silence in the house. I don't even really watch the TV during the day. I just set it to a news station for the noise.

    EvilNob
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would go mad at you probably. I have a TV an I haven't used it since years. I like if it's quite and I can read in peace.

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    Stardust she/her
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t think this is addiction as I think it’s something evolution gave us to help us survive. If you’re out hunting in the forest and everything goes silent then a predator could be around so maybe the need for noise is what allowed us to survive. It’s just a theory of mine however, correct me if I’m wrong

    David A Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Correcting you. You're wrong. In order for humans to survive in the forest they have to be exceedingly quiet, so as not to startle the prey.

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    Nick Journey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I suffer from paranoid schizophrenia and generalised anxiety. I always have an earbud going with someone talking because it helps keep the symptoms at bay. Tv going all night so noises from the neighbours/street/my own head doesnt make me spiral into panic. I have been told by strangers its rude, but I prefer functioning semi normally to being a paranoid mess

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you know that with schizophrenia there is something called "gating?" It's actually a small chemical gate in your brain. It only allows one sound in at a time. So if a sound is coming in from the outside it doesn't let the sounds from the inside come through. It quiets the voices. We actually recommend listening to music all the time for our patients with auditory hallucinations. So just ignore people who think it's rude.

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    Isa's left eye
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not for a lot of people, I have ADHD and the second I'm in silence I'm an fidgety mess and get anxious about absolutely nothing.

    Thomas Ewing
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's shocking how much unnecessary noise and light are pervading human society. Even small towns are awash. There is nothing scary about peace and quiet. You won't go crazy visiting a library or church! Shh!

    Jumping Jellyfishes
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh! Hubby can't stand quiet and turns on the TV LOUD for background noise until he goes to bed. Noise stressed me out

    cartoon ghosts
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very guilty. I use music at a level that isn't at all healthy for my ears as a form of sh when I'm panicking or having an anxiety attack in a public area

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    #37

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Comfort. So many of us are addicted to be in a comfortable place rather than growing and getting out of our comfort zone.

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    María Hermida
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really don't get this one. Different people need different things. Some people need to change frequently, because they get easily bored. But, what's wrong in finding your place and staying there? Obviously, I don't mean staying in a bad situation because you are afraid of changing, or in a bad relationship because you are terrified of being alone. I'm speaking about "nestling" and being contented with your life. Learning to appreciate what you have is part of growing up. I know many "adventurous" people who are terribly immature, jumping from one thing to another because they can't focus. In most cases, too much need for "adventure" is just an inability to commit.

    WalterWhiteSavannah
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the issue is that some people never get out of their comfort zone then years later they look back and regret it. For some people its perfectly fine, others end up regretting getting to comfortable and stuck in a routine because they realized they missed opportunities and it cost them a lot of years of what could have been personal growth.

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's nothing wrong with staying in your comfort zone if it's large enough.

    PixxelDust
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of us need to be in our comfort zone to function properly.

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well now at this point anything can be considered an addiction.

    More!
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn’t that anxiety?

    #38

    These 40 Uncommon Addictions Shared On This Serious Thread May Really Make You Think Giving unsolicited advice.

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone goes around giving unsolicited advice, how do you tell them that's a bad thing without giving them unsolicited advice?

    Jan Bowyer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Challenge them to walk a mile in someone else's shoes. Or is that also unsolicited advice?

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    WindySwede
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know what, that gray t-shirt doesn't go so well with your trousers.. /s!

    #39

    Benzodiazepines It’s so easy to tell yourself that they are fine and safe because a doctor prescribed them. But no, no they are not.

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    meepmeep
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand this. I'm prescribed .5mg of xanax for social anxiety, and when I take it, I don't get intrusive thoughts that everyone hates me. It's been a life-changer. Otherwise, I only take it when needed - I can go days without it. My psychiatrist is trying to stop prescribing it, but I can't imagine going back to overwhelming intrusive thoughts

    Lee Banks
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Outside of h***** and mescaline, I've tried every drug you can think of. Xanax was prescribed, and it was the highest I've ever been. I get why people can abuse it, if it's not the right fit. Also get why it can help some folk. Glad you don't need it every day, and I'm sure no one hates you. Hope you're well! (That was self editing... don't hate on bp.)

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    iseefractals
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The protocol for prescribing benzo's has been explicitly telling patients not to take them every night, or for periods longer than 7 days without having a buffer WEEK in-between. My dad was paralyzed, he was prescribed valium to prevent muscle spasms in his legs. 5mg every 6 hours, for 45 years, until they decided "derp, we're not sposed to give this out no more, you gotta stop" it took them TWO YEARS to wean him off, because going into withdrawal from benzo's has a high chance of causing a massive stroke, and that's on top of the aggression, depression, and chance of suicide.

    Karl
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My neighbour has been on benzos since the 1970s. The doc said “We ought to get you off these” but she told him “F**k off, I’m 93 and I need them to sleep”. Good on you girl!

    dbildbo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't understand the oxycondone addiction. I've had to take them for a recent surgery, but I don't get any kind of pleasant buzz from using them. In fact, it seems like I end up with a headache. I purposely haven't taken them more than a couple of time because of this.

    Andrei Iepure
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    gotta be careful when coming off of them too. For me, it took a few weeks to feel the withdrawal. Maybe it's uncommon, but something to keep in mind (no research done on the topic, just personal experience)

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same thing with oxycodone. Super addictive but Docs will still prescribe it with the trust their patients won't get addicted if they give stern instructions.

    wowbagger
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's important to be aware of the risks and follow the doctor's instructions, just as with addictive painkillers, but that doesn't mean you should be afraid to take them if you need them.

    Leigh
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand why doctors prescribed them. I was having an anxiety attack and my friend offered me a Xanax. Like an idiot I took it because he convinced me it would help. I woke up with a bloody face lying on the sidewalk. I had blacked out an entire day!

    María Hermida
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is your friend a doctor? If the answer is no, what I don't understand is why people think medicines can be shared and accepted as if they were sweets. Doctors prescribe them when and if they are necessary, taking into account a lot of factors, like your general health and any other medication you may be taking, even OTC. The facts that some idiots abuse them doesn't mean they aren't useful for many patients.

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    Benadryl- I’ve always had really bad insomnia where I can go without sleep for 2-3 days. I realized a few years ago Benadryl knocks me out so I started taking it every single night and sometimes during the day when I’m bored. I know I am taking too much too often, I kept increasing the dose since I started and I used to take so much that I couldn’t even finish a thought or I’d zone out mid conversation. Once I accidentally took over 20 in one night because I kept forgetting I had already taken it. Every time I try to stop I won’t be able to sleep for days and I genuinely get withdrawal symptoms. I looked into it and turns out it’s not that uncommon to get addicted to and sometimes people actually go to rehab for it.

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    JessieJ&LilyLovebug
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thus could've killed them. Seriously. There was a study recently where opioid overdoses were more likely to be fatal if diphenhydramine (the active ingredient in Benadryl, ZZZquil, and MANY other OTC meds) was also in the person's system. Look back Ober the tox screens of many celebrity deaths and you will find it, and possibly doxylamine, another antihistamine frequently found in OTC sleep aids. People don't realize all the places antihistamines can be, like Tagamet, marketed for heartburn, is an antihistamine. Dimenhydramine and Meclizine, both marketed for motion sickness, are antihistamines. It's no wonder people overdose.

    Lee Banks
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for the insightful comment. These chemicals have also been linked to dementia, which is why I finally broke down and sought treatment.

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    Lee Banks
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have access to a doctor, ask them about treatment. I had (have) insomnia since I was a kid. Finally got prescribed a certain drug that is effective, non habit forming, and doesn't leave you groggy. Whole new person. Cannot stress that enough: My quality of life improved immeasurably and immediately. Anyone can ask what it is in private, but I don't feel okay just advocating a drug.

    Randi (she/they/he)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of the TikTok Benadryl challenge and the cough syrup challenge which encouraged kids to consume large amounts of the product for a high.

    MrsFettesVette
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean...I can remember in the 90s when chugging a certain cough syrup was de rigeur in the punk scene, it was almost like a rite of passage for my friends and I. Whoops. Weird to me that now it's some sort of tiktok challenge

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    Em
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha, I've been using benadryl to sleep, and sometimes trip, for years. I really enjoy the high and have absolutely taken 20 intentionally before, though not for awhile. Some nights I'll forget to take it and it takes me a little longer to fall asleep; no other real issues. Probably not the greatest thing, but hey, I never claimed to be a healthy individual.

    Rachknits
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the UK it is marketed as Nytol. Its really dangerous and long term use increases your risk of dementia

    wowbagger
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I don't know how they can get away with labeling it "non habit-forming". My mom's been addicted to it for years, and her doctor is constantly telling her she needs to get off of it. My mom has finally agreed to try a prescription sleep medicine instead.

    Karl
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a teen in the 70s, we knew exactly which OTC medicines we needed to get buzzed. Everything from speed, hallucinogens and opiates were easily available from our neighbourhood chemist. Things have tightened up now but, for a while, there was a golden age going on 😎

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