Barely eight years ago, most Americans believed that being gay is "just the way some choose to live." You know, like choosing your diet or hairdo. And while the tide has shifted, with society being more accepting, more folks are coming out as LGBTQ+ than ever before - some chose to and still do forget that it's as real as global warming or Christmas.
The subreddit Sappho And Her Friend, then, is a godsend which sheds light on cringeworthy instances of LGBTQ+ erasure from academia, pop culture and real life. Who knew that straight people completely ignoring the fact that LGBTQ+ is a thing can be so absurdly amusing.
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In a world that claims progress and inclusivity, it is disheartening to witness the persistent shadows of prejudice cast upon the LGBTQ+ community. From the humblest corners of society to the grand stage of global politics, there exists a myriad of reasons, however wrong, why some individuals remain staunchly ignorant when it comes to accepting and embracing diverse sexual orientations and gender fluidity.
While significant progress has been made over the years, including a growing number of individuals, particularly Gen Z, feeling more comfortable and open about their LGBTQIA+ identities, there remains much work to be done. Unfortunately, even during Pride Month, which spans the entire month of June, incidents like the recent vandalism of the LGBTQIA+ community's flags at Stonewall National Monument in New York City, the birthplace of the modern LGBTQ rights movement, serve as a reminder that challenges persist.
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"Pride Month — and the pride parades — continue to be deeply important in the continued solidarity, fight for human rights, and visibility of the LGBTQI+ community. Additionally, and equally important, is the label 'pride'," Samantha Stein, a licensed psychologist based in San Francisco, told Bored Panda in an email. In 2019, Pride celebrations in San Francisco included 289 parade contingents and held "the largest gathering of LGBTQ+ people and allies in the nation."
"Over the years, it has continued to increase in size and scope, and I haven't seen or heard of any displays of prejudice there since the 1990s," Stein said. "In some ways, it has lost some of its original power: many of the young people from the Bay Area who attend are not aware of the history and courage of the original PRIDE celebrations. That said, we can view that as a positive change since they haven't had to be!"
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“I Think Emily Dickinson Was A Lesbian”
June, for those of you who don't know, is a month of celebration that aligns with a significant event in the history of the Gay Liberation Movement known as the Stonewall Uprising. In the early hours of June 28th, 1969, a gay bar called 'The Stonewall Inn' in New York City's West Village was targeted by a police raid. Such raids were common at the time, but on this particular occasion, the patrons of the bar resisted and fought back, leading to what became known as the Stonewall Riots. These protests continued for several days.
Who's Gonna Tell Them
Oh, so it doesn't count if it's not p in v and no one gets pregnant 🤣
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Recognizing its historical significance, the city of New York designated the Stonewall Inn as a historic landmark in 2015, and it was further honored as a national monument by President Barack Obama in 2016. This June marks the 53rd anniversary of the first Pride parade, which took place in 1970, a year after the uprising at Stonewall.
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If your job is selling bride dresses, you can't be that idiot.
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Well, I would take this answer as a very polite, but clear, "no, thank you".
"Regrettably, prejudice, oppression, violence, and even loss of life persist as harsh realities for individuals within the LGBTQI+ community, both in the United States and worldwide. Alarmingly, numerous states in the US are enacting legislation that actively undermines the rights of these individuals," said Stein.
Hitting With That Self Sappho
When you're so homophobic you don't realize you're gay yourself... I hope she is now a happy queer
And They Were “Color Enthusiasts”
I like to wear rainbow colors and bright colors in general, just because they're pretty. I'm cis-hetero btw, but I don't mind being mistaken as LGBTQ+
According to The American Civil Liberties Union, there were 19 bills introduced this year so far undermining freedom of speech and expression for LGBTQ people, including ones that target drag show performances.
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Oh My God, They Were Manicurists
This is in Saqqara. And the tour-guides tell everybody that the 2 were "brothers"...and you as a tourist try not to snort and walk on.
"For a group of people who are told continuously — through laws, religions, media, bullying, and directly — that LBTQI+ people are less-than or should not exist," Stein explained, "it is deeply psychologically important that there be counter-messaging."
She argues that this continuous messaging of inferiority often takes a toll on their mental well-being and can result in profound consequences such as mental illness, addiction, isolation, and even loss of life. "People fear and hate what they are taught to fear and hate, and they often fear what's unfamiliar."
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Stop Saying You're Lesbian
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French singer Juliette, when asked about "her Romeo" answered " My Romeo is a Juliet."
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The Opposite Of Erasure, For Once!
Oh, Yeah, Definitely Cis, Just Pretending To Be A Man...for 50 Years
They Were Roommates!
All jokes aside I think this is so beautiful as a homosexual my self and a trans young woman I love all of these post but this is my favorite and I love the support of the community🥰🥰
People Acting Like Gay People Didn’t Exist Until 2020
Reminds me of the controversy surrounding The Little Mermaid. How the actual f**k is her skin colour a problem. She's a MERMAID. And before you say 'oh but original Ariel was a redhead' It's a fictional character, and if they had changed just her hair colour - there wouldn't have been an outcry. People try and pretend it's about hair colour, but it's not-so-well-hidden racism.
"Neighbours"
"Twisting Classical Characters Like Dorian Gray Into A Homosexual"
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Well, I can understand being personally confused, but at a hotel reception desk? Both women could even be married to other two women and just cheating... Hotels usually handle things with total discretion, not with "horror and confusion".
Ms. And Mrs
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It's kinda weird how random strangers just stop someone and tell them stuff like this or "I thought that you two sisters look so cute together" or something like that. So weird
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She just wants the other girl to be her roommate. Like, share the house. And the bed, of course.
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Damn. Betcha they tried turning it into “well you seem more gay than bi…”
I Believe This Man Is Really Close To Having A Realization About Himself That He Is Going To Be Uncomfortable With
As a Muslim, I am DYING of a combination of laughter and second-hand embarrassment
What Is A Gay Bar For?
I mean, aren’t gay clubs synonymous with cis-hey bridle intentional misspelling) showers anyways? I can see the mistake here, given the queers are often marginalized in their own spaces for the sake of some weird tokenism. I bet the grossed out girl has a GBF (🤮) she thinks of like an accessory.
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LOL reminds me of how when they dubbed season 3 of Sailor Moon into English and suddenly Sailor Neptune and Sailor Uranus were cousins. Like y'all actually just made it ten times worse because now it's definitely incest. xD
Ah Yes, Clearly Just A School Friend
I Am A Very Clueless Individual
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TBH, I’m heterosexual and as a child, there were many times I shared a bed when I slept over at a friend’s house. Hell, I also did it as an adult when traveling with a group, and hotel rooms were scarce. Wasn’t considered an unusual thing back in the day. Friends and siblings often slept in the same bed. Big whoop-de-do!
"When Did You Stop Being Gay"
Well, An Attempt But A Failed One Thank Goodness
I Mean... Isn't It Obvious?
Has Scantily Clad Male Dancers, Sings About Bussy, But Still Probably Straight
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Ugh! All. The. Time. Try being two married men with a 9yo son. That literally blows their minds if they’re not calling the cops assuming we’re kidnappers or pedophiles.
How Many Here Are In The "More Options" Category?
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But Boys Don't Get Periods??? Lol
Boys also sometimes do get periods. It's not like coming out as a trans dude magically summons a fairy godbro that "bibbiti bobbiti boos" away your uterus and such. Even though that would be kinda awesome now that I think about it.
Two Men Having Sex Is Unheard Of
There Was An Attempt
Where Are Their Wives
Such Friendship, Much Platonic
They Must've Been Such Good Friends
hope aunt cecilia and her "best friend" had a good life together with lots of wine, cheese, and chocolate!
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Friendship Is A Blessing
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Yup… Just Friends
Aunt Pat And Her "Roommate", 1986
How Could The Artist Have Seen This Naked Man? How?
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How History Will Remember Pride Parades
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Should We Tell Her?
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I love how despite the 'censoring' you can still clearly read that the poster's username is a lesbian joke.
Just Another Gal Pal Meme Lol
It's the safest response they could probably program in since there is no real romance option in AC.
1 Month After My Mom And Uncle Came To The Conclusion My Cousin Isn't Gay:
Literally saw my mother in law introduce her daughter’s partner-of-10-years-fiancé-and-co-parent-of-their-three-children to some visiting distant relatives as her “friend”. Funnily enough, mother in law doesn’t see her daughter much any more,
Me But It’s All Trans People
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For Those Who Don't Get It, "Alta" Is Feminine, And This Guy Is Gay Trying To Say His Type Is A Tall Male "Alto"
I used to teach Spanish at a Spanish university, and I would have never correct it. Maybe I would have given also the "alta" for other preferences in the classroom.
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Ah, Yes. I Love My Pda-Filled “Friendships”
She Literally Has A Girlfriend
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On one hand, it's true that teenagers can have (and have) moments of uncertainty. On the other hand, your role is being an adult who cares, gives support, love and guidance. Maybe she actually doesn't know what she wants, or what she is... This was your moment to say "I just want you to be happy and a good person, and you to know that I will always be on your side". And you missed that magical moment. You should run a little to take this train, since you're absolutely on time, just run!
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Why would they assume that they were dating? How should they know?
I could be wrong here but I think some of those friends were actually couples.
I am waiting for the moment, when LGBTQ+ will stop being “a thing” and everybody will be the same - human being - people…
I get what you’re saying, but I don’t view being LGBTQIA+ as “a thing.” We didn’t choose our sexual identities or gender identities— it is totally biological. I will always be queer. I think the moment we are treated like actual human beings, when there’s an end to homophobia and transphobia, and our rights aren’ being taken away—that’s when. I think people both within and out of the community need to support each other if this is to happen.
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Not a couple but I am not the most observant. I was teaching a college class and one of the students was a tall red head, wore platform heels, had a n unusual name. One day I called on her and in a deep voice she answered - and it clicked that she was trans. No biggie, nowadays I ask students to post on a discussion before class what name they want to be called, and how to [pronounce it if it is tricky, and they can tell their preferred [pronouns if they want.
As someone with a great-aunt that has been married to her wife for at least 10 years, I can confidently say that my grandma still confidently calls them "good friends." If my grandma's referring to our family member's wife, she'll say ____'s FRIEND is coming over too. We all just facepalm, and have tired of correcting her.
I see Nathaniel has a new admirer. They may get your sense of humour one day. I, like most of the people here get your wit Nathaniel, please keep it up.
Can we take a moment to appreciate the people who decided to comment so many times stating, "They could be good friends", when the entirety of the article is about LGBTQ+ couples being dismissed? Slow clap for the new historians.
i think most of those commenters were either being facetious or just trolls
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I find it amusing that I have a sort of opposite story despite my friends and I being all some form of queer. My best friend has been in my life since first grade so to say we know each other well is a bit of an understatement. She's gay/sapphic (maybe questioning?) and I'm aroace-ish/questioning/maybe sapphic. She had a girlfriend last year but is not dating now. So pretty much she and I hang out all the time and especially during the school year. We shared an art class and lunch so we'd be seen together a lot, and by ourselves we're both quiet and unassuming. We were together enough that one of her friends (but not really mine) thought we were dating. Besides that, we've been assumed to be sisters (don't look much alike) and cousins (again, don't look much alike), but really, we are just REALLY good friends.
This reminds me of the "friendship" between Alexander Hamilton and John Laurens :3
For me it was the other way round...my friend had a "roommate" she shared her bed with, sometimes asked for "friendship advice", in 10 years of friendship never once talked about a guy and -though this is not a general indicator- is kind of butch lesbian. For 10 years (!) Our Group said "She'll come out when she's ready", making it VERY clear we fully support LGBTQI+. After 10 years when the two of us talked about her "friendship" I said "Could we please make this easier by calling it the relationship advice it is??" and she was MINDBLOWN I had figured it out. I had to gently break it to her that "I" hadn't "just figured it out", Our whole group has known for years! And no, we don't care. For whatever reason still took her another year to make it official to all of them, but hey, your life your speed.
Oh look, a miserable, homophobic bigot in its natural habitat. Marvel as the loser types out hateful comments from its mom's basement as it subsists on a diet of Mountain Dew and stale Cheetos. The homophobe is the lowest life form and even cockroaches avoid it. They breed in large numbers on Reddit and in the darkest depths of the Internet. They homophobe is a cowardly creature and lashes out in anger at anything that threatens it--- which is mostly every little thing.
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I could be wrong here but I think some of those friends were actually couples.
I am waiting for the moment, when LGBTQ+ will stop being “a thing” and everybody will be the same - human being - people…
I get what you’re saying, but I don’t view being LGBTQIA+ as “a thing.” We didn’t choose our sexual identities or gender identities— it is totally biological. I will always be queer. I think the moment we are treated like actual human beings, when there’s an end to homophobia and transphobia, and our rights aren’ being taken away—that’s when. I think people both within and out of the community need to support each other if this is to happen.
Load More Replies... Not a couple but I am not the most observant. I was teaching a college class and one of the students was a tall red head, wore platform heels, had a n unusual name. One day I called on her and in a deep voice she answered - and it clicked that she was trans. No biggie, nowadays I ask students to post on a discussion before class what name they want to be called, and how to [pronounce it if it is tricky, and they can tell their preferred [pronouns if they want.
As someone with a great-aunt that has been married to her wife for at least 10 years, I can confidently say that my grandma still confidently calls them "good friends." If my grandma's referring to our family member's wife, she'll say ____'s FRIEND is coming over too. We all just facepalm, and have tired of correcting her.
I see Nathaniel has a new admirer. They may get your sense of humour one day. I, like most of the people here get your wit Nathaniel, please keep it up.
Can we take a moment to appreciate the people who decided to comment so many times stating, "They could be good friends", when the entirety of the article is about LGBTQ+ couples being dismissed? Slow clap for the new historians.
i think most of those commenters were either being facetious or just trolls
Load More Replies... I find it amusing that I have a sort of opposite story despite my friends and I being all some form of queer. My best friend has been in my life since first grade so to say we know each other well is a bit of an understatement. She's gay/sapphic (maybe questioning?) and I'm aroace-ish/questioning/maybe sapphic. She had a girlfriend last year but is not dating now. So pretty much she and I hang out all the time and especially during the school year. We shared an art class and lunch so we'd be seen together a lot, and by ourselves we're both quiet and unassuming. We were together enough that one of her friends (but not really mine) thought we were dating. Besides that, we've been assumed to be sisters (don't look much alike) and cousins (again, don't look much alike), but really, we are just REALLY good friends.
This reminds me of the "friendship" between Alexander Hamilton and John Laurens :3
For me it was the other way round...my friend had a "roommate" she shared her bed with, sometimes asked for "friendship advice", in 10 years of friendship never once talked about a guy and -though this is not a general indicator- is kind of butch lesbian. For 10 years (!) Our Group said "She'll come out when she's ready", making it VERY clear we fully support LGBTQI+. After 10 years when the two of us talked about her "friendship" I said "Could we please make this easier by calling it the relationship advice it is??" and she was MINDBLOWN I had figured it out. I had to gently break it to her that "I" hadn't "just figured it out", Our whole group has known for years! And no, we don't care. For whatever reason still took her another year to make it official to all of them, but hey, your life your speed.
Oh look, a miserable, homophobic bigot in its natural habitat. Marvel as the loser types out hateful comments from its mom's basement as it subsists on a diet of Mountain Dew and stale Cheetos. The homophobe is the lowest life form and even cockroaches avoid it. They breed in large numbers on Reddit and in the darkest depths of the Internet. They homophobe is a cowardly creature and lashes out in anger at anything that threatens it--- which is mostly every little thing.
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