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Probably all of us have felt bad when comparing ourselves to others — whether it's because they can afford things we wish we could, achieve goals we aspire to, or simply hold a higher social status than we do. So, it's normal to try to do something to keep up with them and feel better about yourself.

At the same time, some people believe that chasing higher social status, or, as the idiom goes, “keeping up with the Joneses” is not only a waste of time, but of money and sanity too. This list is the compilation of things they admit not doing, even if that makes them seem a bit uncool, so let’s see what they are, shall we?

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#1

Person holding a smartphone displaying TikTok, reflecting current trends in a casual setting. I still refuse to download TikTok.

TannerThanUsual , cottonbro studio Report

Libstak
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same, or insta or facebook

Huddo's sister
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have facebook, mostly to keep in touch with family or share photos I have taken at family reunions etc. I mostly go on it when I run out of things to read on Bored Panda though.

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Scott Rackley
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm 0 for social media so far, unless you count this place

Foxglove🇮🇪
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I only downloaded it because I couldn't see the vids my daughter sent me without an account: fell down the rabbit hole this morning and when I eventually hauled myself out I couldn't remember what I had planned to do

Kipper
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never been on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or any of them.

Michelle C
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A few of my friends told me But I should get one and they think I might like it. No, thank you! I have enough a presence on social media to keep me connected to others.

hungryghost
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same, and still going strong

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    #2

    A black iPhone placed on its box, resting on grass. A new phone every two years. I keep mine until I can’t update it anymore or stuff on it stops working properly.

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    Libstak
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same and i replaced it last time with an older version cos i saw no point in the newest model.

    Breadcrumb.
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I buy used like a car. It's smarter.

    Snowkit
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only got the new iPhone 16 after my iPhone 11 battery stopped working, not to say I don’t think my iPhone 16 is t awesome

    Antihaarbalsnoepje
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My iPhone 11 is still going strong (even though the battery is starting to age, but apparently that one can be replaced)

    T'Mar of Vulcan
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just want one that will let me put my credit cards on it so I don't have to carry a wallet around.

    Dream Pilot
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    changing phone is a hassle, relogin everything, restoring backup, reinstalling apss, etc, usually take full 2 days to get everything normal again... i change phone, max after 4-5 years

    Array Index Out of Bounds
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I could revert back to Windows 10, but noooo.

    Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My cheap Xiaomi already outlived my much more expensive Sony by 4 years I really recommend it

    Curry on...
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tend to buy one of the least expensive and keep it as long as I can. I average about 4-5 years.

    Uncommon Sense
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. Just gone to SIM only. £10 a month, unlimited texts and calls (inc. roaming) and loads of data. Why would I replace a perfectly good phone for a £40-£50 monthly tariff?

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    #3

    Person using smartphone to control a robot cleaner on a carpet, highlighting trend resistance. Smart home products. I can flip my own lightswitches and select my own music without talking to an a.i. assistant.

    Slawth_x , freepik Report

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't need my refrigerator making snarky comments when I get my third popsicle

    Philly Bob
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't imagine what my oven and dishwasher are telling the coffee pot about me. If the toaster finds out... I'm... well... toast!

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    Uncommon Sense
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally agree. I’ve never felt the need for such nonsense. But I was given an Alexa for Christmas and now I request that she burps the alphabet. My life is complete.

    pug nose curly tail
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents spend half their days and nights screaming at their "smart" devices over turning on a lamp or something equally ridiculous.

    veirdbuttrue
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes I totally hate this idea! I do not want an AI assistant!

    Papa
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The closest thing to a "smart" device in my house is a programmable thermostat, so I can set it for different temperatures at different times of the day.

    Boo
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I refuse to set my home up as a "smart" house. I mean, honestly, are you that lazy to turn things on and off?

    Petra Peitsch
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would really hate, if my fridge would order groceries ....

    Sven Horlemann
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want my home to be MY home. Not completely accessible via the internet, home appliances, and what not.

    Rasil Bathbone
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll never get why people are willing to plant bugs all over their own houses, or drive a car that is one huge surveillance device. If you're comfortable with random strangers randomly eavesdropping on your house, or Elon Musk having access to the recording of that time you went out to the garage naked because you couldn't find your robe, you're nuts.

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    No matter if you like it or not, social status is an important thing in our lives. In a nutshell, sociology describes it as the relative rank that a person holds in the social hierarchy. It comes with certain rights, duties, and lifestyles. 

    So, it’s normal for people to feel like they have to achieve a certain status, whether to feel good about themselves or look better in others’ eyes. One of the common ways to do that is by trying to do similar things as people in your desired social status do. 

    There’s even an interesting idiom partially tied to this phenomenon – “keep up with the Joneses.” Basically, it means to try to keep up the same (or match) lifestyle that your peers have, so you look just as good as they do. 

    #4

    Person wearing a blue jacket driving an Audi car, focusing on personal style over trends. I personally do not feel the need to have a new car on a consistent basis.

    beach_peach3 , Daniel Andraski Report

    Libstak
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im 58, i am on my 3rd car. My 1st was an old beat up chrysler sigma i inherited from mum. I have since bought exactly 2 cars in my entire adult life. A hyundai excel i had for nearly 15 years and my trusty toyota corolla, 24 years old and still kicking.

    Rasil Bathbone
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You got an Excel to live for 15 years? Impressive. How?

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    Lyoness
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me neither. My 2013 cost less than 15k and the biggest expense since was replacing the brakes this year.

    James016
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have 2012 VW Polo. Still runs nicely.

    K. LNU
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As my parents get older, they do update the car about every 5-7 years for the updated safety features. But now that they are both in the early 80s (and still pretty spry) my dad said that they think they are done with upgrading cars.

    Petra Peitsch
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't feel the need to have a car at all.

    Papa
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not an option for some of us.

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    Nikki Gross
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Before I was able to save up for a down payment on a car, I had to walk, bum or pay for rides to and from work until 1998. I got my first car 3 months before I turned 21 years old. It was a 92 Chevy Cavalier RS from a dealership and I later discovered that it had been wrecked. They did a patch job in order to fix it enough to sell it.. Yes, I raised Holy Hell on that one. I drove it until the motor was coming apart AGAIN and traded it to a dealership in 2006. I bought a new 2006 Chevy Aveo 5 door hatchback, that only had 16 test drive miles on it. Since, it was only the 2nd car that I had bought financing was a nightmare. It's 2025 and guess what is parked in my driveway? Baby ONLY has 72,000 original miles on her, so she's not going anywhere in the near future. My Brother bought the 2007, 4 door version and it has more miles then mine, but it still drives really good, so like me it's also not going anywhere.

    Tropical Tarot
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just got a car payment last year for the first time in 20 years. And in that time I've owned four Buick Centuries. Solid reliable cars and I got compliments on them and even a couple of offers to buy them. Last one was so pretty and had killer AC but finally gave up the ghost.

    Sven Horlemann
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am 58, my current one is 16 years old. Still happy with it.

    Breadcrumb.
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just bought a car for 2,000 dollars.

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    #5

    Designer sneakers on a person standing outdoors, representing trends people choose to avoid. Branded stuff.
    I'll splurge on high quality, pricey stuff but paying a huge premium to essentially advertise some brand is a no go for me.

    Panstalot , Erik Mclean Report

    Quarkbeast
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shortly after I came to this country and first saw a Luis Vuitton purse, my initial thought was "What an ugly purse, floppy with a terrible print, yuck, who would buy that monstrosity?" Then I found out how much they cost and realized people pay that much just to pay that much. Still think they're butt ugly.

    Petra Peitsch
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If their logo is bigger, than 2 cm is a NOPE for me.

    Dorothy Reiser
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once got complimented by a hoity toity woman on my K-mart skirt. Should have seen her face when I told her where I bought it.

    Big Chungus
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only splurge on good running shoes since I have such bad feet

    Curry on...
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I won't pay for branded items either. They should pay me to advertise for them. Imagine paying all that money for the 'privilege' of advertising for the designer.

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. We b***h about having ads forced on us (like commercials) but then advertise a brand for free by wearing their c**p? Ridiculous.

    Libstak
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find brand talk very tacky, it just reeks of putting on a false face to the world.

    K. LNU
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've learned to invest in a good jacket (pants, shoes, etc.) that will last, vs the latest and trendiest (overpriced) name brand.

    El Cucuy
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it is ridiculous to base your consumer choices purely on brand name products for clout. Why in the world would I pay a company to advertise their products for them for free??

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the brand I guess. I have had my Carhartt jacket and overalls for 15 years and they are holding up just fine.

    Child of the Stars
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's more about why you buy a brand, not the brand itself.

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    #6

    A toddler enjoying a decorated cake at a party, illustrating the choice to avoid trends. Not spending thousands on a 1 year olds birthday party who doesn't even know what's going on.

    Mash_man710 , Christopher Luther Report

    Janelle Collard
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right??? It must be for the clicks + likes cuz the kid has no clue what's going on.

    Nichole Harris
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IDK about clicks or likes 😂 it was a thing forever..... Long before the Internet.....I think it's more for mum

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    Snowkit
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My family does a small party with homemade food (usually tamales or cardne, we’re mexican) cake and a lil banner with balloons. Really fun for the whole family (7 of us) and the baby enjoys the cake.

    Alexandra
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just put all that money into a college fund.

    Dorothy Reiser
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My one year old slept through his first birthday party. Woke him for the cake.

    JSD
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thousands? You can spend far less and have just as good a time celebrating

    Bored Trash Panda
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I made my son a small smash cake and it was just me, him, and his dad. no need for me, he was happy.

    Joanne Earle
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And of course 2 cakes. The regular one and the 'smash cake'.

    Ravenkbh
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I have a birthday party I never know what's going on either

    Huddo's sister
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm just hoping, if I do have kids, that my mum still has the fondant shapes my grandma made for my 1st birthday cake. If not, I know she has the cutter so I can make my own.

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    The phrase was coined in a comic strip by Pop Momand, which went by the same name. It was published from 1913 until 1938. The comics depicted the McGinis family, who struggled to keep up with their neighbors—the Joneses.

    Since Jones is among the most common surnames in the United States, the comic’s name quickly became a commonly used and relatable phrase for all, despite the strip itself not achieving the lasting recognizable fame that others did. 

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    Since status-seeking remains prevalent in society even decades after the phrase's conception, it hasn't faded away either. For instance, quite recently someone on Reddit asked netizens this question: “What is your ‘keeping up with the Joneses’ that you absolutely refuse to do?” 

    #7

    Person in a hoodie resting on a table, surrounded by open books and stationery, embodying trends resistance. As a mother I refused to get on the overscheduled ‘achiever’ child treadmill. My kids each had a sport or activity they enjoyed and then plenty of time with friends and down time at home.

    puppiesbooksandmocha , Kaboompics.com Report

    Janelle Collard
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Finally! Someone with common sense!

    Dorothy Reiser
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's important for children to figure out how to spend their free time.

    Array Index Out of Bounds
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Don’t tell a child what they are supposed to “like”.

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    James016
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The one thing my son does is learn piano. He used to do junior kick boxing but the school didn’t survive Covid and he didn’t like the other martial arts schools we tried. Plus it is more important for him to have his time to chill out at home and play.

    Jorie
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're on the perfect path to raising a great kid. Parents need to interfere less and guide more.

    Richard Iachetta
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am so happy you are a parent not someone who hopes their child will have exceptional talent that will get them a full scholarship t o a college. They could plan and start saving early, but NO. they are too stupid that the amount of time they put into trying to find a talent in their child could be a part-time/second job that would pay for the education.

    Huddo's sister
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mum was the same. She still had two kids that got pretty good scores at high school (though mine could have been better if I hadn't done the bare minimum in year 12, but it meant I actually enjoyed that year the most of my schooling and I got into a good course, even though it wasn't the uni I originally wanted it turned out to be the best thing for me) and one who went on to get an honours degree after their bachelor and a masters degree. Most importantly, we were relatively well-adjusted teens.

    lenka
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have the opposite problem. My daughter wants to do ALL THE THINGS. She loves sports and has lots of other interests and really applies herself at things she is interested in which great but free time, getting bored, having time to make friends, hang out or just do nothing are also important. I made her choose one sport and one instrument and the rest is time to free play and be a kid.

    Susie Elle
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Spent a few weeks in Canada last year with a lovely family where the kids played FOUR different sports! The entire week was just kid logistics - going from practice A to B and then prepping for tournament C. Crazy.

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    #8

    Women in colorful athletic outfits embodying trends people avoid to not compromise their personal style. Expensive gym clothes. I’m not paying $90 for leggings I’m going to run and sweat in. I’ll stick with the cheap ones and not feel bad putting them through hell.

    Middle-Cranberry-792 , FbyF Studio Report

    Zephyr343
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    $90 is a little much. Better not risk it and skip the gym.

    Agat
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed, but just not *the cheapest* ones because they are see-through. I choose the lower mid range ;)

    Curbz81
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will say, the old lululemon pants last forever, i have some that are 18 years old and worked out in regularly. But the new ones are not as good.

    KittyGaming
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude I get leggings from the Dollar Tree, not work out leggings but still

    DrBronxx
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some clothing (and shoes in particular) are expensive because they're higher quality, can withstand the exercise and sweat, and are less likely to give you a sweat rash. But you have to do it right - pay for the quality, not the brand.

    C .Hunger
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Expensive gym clothes, like shoes, that work well with you can make a huge difference, though. Like running shoes - if you are going to run a lot, it's 100% worth it to get the correct shoe no matter the price.

    Huddo's sister
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I ever had the need for sports clothes, I would buy them at the op shop like all my other clothes. I have bought leggings for about $20, but not as activewear, because they are more thermal.

    Alexandra
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I buy my gym clothes at Lidl. The set I have now was bought 5 years ago and still going strong.

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    #9

    Curly-haired dog with snow on its face, standing outdoors. Getting a doodle because they are trendy right now. I have no interest in paying thousands of dollars more for a designer dog because everyone wants one. Especially when there are so many great dogs in need of a home in shelters.

    Fantastic-Support383 , Julius Weidenauer Report

    Libstak
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rescue mutts are the best. They are also physiologically more robust. Many pure breeds have serious weaknesses and health issues due to the inherent outcome of that gene combo.

    Jessica Senia
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been a dog groomer for almost 15 years and can confidently say doodles are the worst dogs. Not only do their "no-shed" coats mat extremely easily, requiring extensive brushing, washing and dematting, but their behavior is atrocious. They're overly hyper, highly reactive to everything (sounds, touch, etc) and honestly most of them seem mentally deficient. I'll never understand the appeal of these dogs. They're not even cute.

    Petra Peitsch
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know, I know the shelter dogs are great, and also there are pure breed ones (especially huskies, because Karen and Kevin were idiots) , but I really like basset hounds. So, don't hate, but I'll have one after my retirement.

    Isabella
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Basset hound is notoriously hard to train, fierce, working dog. It is not for a retired old prick, sorry. They are hunting dogs, need proper training and workout for HOURS daily.

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    Philly Bob
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The best dogs (and cats!) are shelter pets. All of mine (3 cats, 1 dog) are rescues and I'm always surrounded by fur! Hell, I even feed two feral cats outside that now trust me and come to my door and "request" (loudly) their dinner! And yes, I'm allowed to give them hugs and pets. I just can't bring them inside as they have no interest. I built them a heated shelter for the winter.

    Snowkit
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love German Shepard a and Dalmatians. Many people get German Shepard a as guard dogs, but they can be real love bugs!

    veirdbuttrue
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    German shepherds are extremely loyal

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    Richard Iachetta
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    most rescue dogs are a mixed breed which are more healthy than pedigree dogs. you get a healthier dog and rescue someone from a shelter. WIN WIN

    Dorothy Reiser
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call them either "designer blend" or a "mutt".

    K. LNU
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a sucker for almost all dogs. My cousin's have doodles and they are fun dogs. I personally don't plan on spending that much on a dog. Give me a senior rescue boxer and I'm in heaven.

    Bored Trash Panda
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only expensive dogs I would buy are an Irish Wolfhound or a black Czechoslovakian wolfdog because they are beautiful, other than that I would adopt a dog from a shelter.

    Isabella
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only breed you should buy is the one you researched and will fit your lifestyle in terms of character, living conditions and time you can spend on it. Not because "it's beautiful" - this is how Cali shelters are full of huskies with cardiovascular problems due to heat strokes.

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    Paul Rabit
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Forgive my ignorance (even a quick google search seems to be up in the air), but I thought the benefit of doodles were that they were more 'hypoallergenic' because they have 'hair' instead of 'fur' and because they generally shed less? In that case, it might be worth it?

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    The catch here is that this question asks not about how people seek status, but rather how they refuse to do it, but that makes things even more interesting. Especially when you take a look at the answers the people provided, which were more than 3K. So, we combined a list of the most compelling ones for you to check out. 

    As you can understand from the list items and probably from your lived experiences, not all people want to seek higher status (or at least that’s what they say publicly). Status-seeking tends to be viewed as a rather vain thing. Yet, the matter is way more complicated than simple vanity. 

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    This “quirk” is a product of our evolution. People are wired to seek better mates, more food, and greater safety, and while such things happened more literally back in the Stone Age or so, nowadays they evolved into a search for higher social status. 

    #10

    Smartwatch with app icons, representing trends folks say they'd rather avoid. Getting an Apple Watch.

    narwahl_IQ , Daniel Korpai Report

    Janelle Collard
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Getting an Apple *anything.* Overpriced + overhyped. "Tim Apple" doesn't need my money. (thanks for that one, DJT! 😁)

    Lyoness
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I opened this list hoping this would be #1, At least it's here.

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    Uncommon Sense
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any watch that cannot tell the time for 24 hours without running out of power is perhaps the most ironic timepiece known to man.

    MegDragon
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wowwwww I can’t believe I never thought of that before. Especially because I too am a hater.

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    Sven Horlemann
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. My team lead asked me the watch I have, I said a Garmin. Because of the sports, the navigation etc. He was intrigued. Not a hype product, but a great company, and if you are outdoors a lot, the functions and battery life are most important.

    #11

    A hand holding a Stanley Quencher H2.0 tumbler, representing trends some choose not to follow. Stanley’s 😂😂😂.

    ZookeepergameBig1903 , Natilyn Hicks Photography Report

    pug nose curly tail
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had the same Stanley for several years now. It was a gift. I love it! (Not enough to buy one though. )

    John Dilligaf
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've got a Stanley thermos that must be 40 yrs old.

    SkippityBoppityBoo
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is probably because of the huge fad last year where people were going absolutely bonkers about getting them. If I had a use for it? I might buy one but I don't so that takes care of that! 😄

    Coffee_nut45?
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only have one because it was a gift.

    Ruth
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tried a Stanley that was given to me. It constantly leaked and I know others who had the same problem. I donated mine to Good Will.

    Shane S
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a cabinet full of Yetis from the last trend. I’m not jumping on a new one

    Snowkit
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My bestie westie has one.

    Lukas (he/him, it/its)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's like the hydroflasks a few years ago... it's a water bottle. Buy a 5-10 dollar one from Walmart.

    K. LNU
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I inherited my dad's 1970s Stanley green thermos. I love it! I do have many knockoffs that look and act like a Stanley. Cover them with NPS stickers and no one can tell! lol

    Child of the Stars
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, the traditional (cheaper) green ones you get at the grocery store are absolutely worth it. Damn near indestructible and come with a lifetime warranty. I've had mine for about 10 years and use it all the time. The only sign of use is needing to replace the rubber ring every so often, and Stanley replaces it for free.

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    #12

    Couple celebrating a wedding on the beach, surrounded by guests, embodying unique personal style over following trends. A wedding. We’re going to the courthouse and I couldn’t be happier.

    PeligrosaPistola , Curated Lifestyle Report

    Zephyr343
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ours was $4000 all in. Venue, food, dress, rings for 34 people. It was perfect.

    Pitbull Dad
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We spent only a few hundred on the wedding that we had in my Mom's backyard. When it was over we took all the money left and spent it on our honeymoon in Key West

    pug nose curly tail
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe how unhinged the wedding industry has become.

    Libstak
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perfect, or a home garden party

    Dorothy Reiser
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In our apartment, I only owned one dress that day, and used my simple gold ring my dad bought me several years ago. I did the cooking.

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I personally don't see the point in marriage at all, but if I did, I would do it as cheaply as possible.

    Felicia Baxter
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    our friends mom spent 500 dollars on her wedding

    Nikki Gross
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    10 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Since, it was a 2nd marriage for my Sister and BIL we had a "Country" wedding on my Uncle Mervin's farm. All different kinds of meat, veggies and fruit was covered and the cake was made from scratch. At the time, I was still working as a cake decorator, so that wasn't a problem. All the bouquets were made from wildflowers and stuff from my Uncle and Aunt's flower gardens. My cousins did all of the decorations, we smoked and grilled all of the meat and coordinated a potluck to help cover all of the side dishes, since this had to feed a total of 75. People brought chairs and tables and contributed Alcohol and different types of coke, cause we had the different kinds of tea, lemonades and coffee covered. The entire thing cost $300 and that was on supplies and new outfits for the Bride and Groom. Especially, since it wasn't fancy The Maid of Honor (ME!) and the Best Man took care of our own clothes. All of this was over 25 years ago and Pre-9/11, so EVERYTHING including gas, was still cheap as hell.

    Nikki Gross
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I looked it up, $300 in 2000 is worth $549.83 US dollars in 2025. That's for all of the nonbelievers, in case you want to question the price and dollar amount. I miss those day, especially the GAS PRICES!

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    Jorie
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A professional I work with had her wedding in October that probably cost $150K. Long gone and forgotten.

    Sven Horlemann
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. Still married after 34 years. Contrary to others in our friends & families groups.

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    #13

    Person in a cozy kitchen, opting for personal style over trendy decor choices. Have my wife rip up a 5 year old fully functional 80k kitchen because 'we need to follow the trends" like my buddy did.

    LordScotchyScotch , Noland Live Report

    Rasil Bathbone
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you resist long enough, eventually it'll be "vintage", and people will pay extra for it.

    Joanne Earle
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know someone in my town that goes full on redecoration every other year. She spends thousands of dollars on new everything and it's always boring greys or tans. I need color and comfort in my life.

    Jorie
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A couple I know has been redoing their home over time. Yes, boring greys, tans, black, beige, not an ounce of color anywhere. There were certain things that did need updating or replacing, but most of it was done simply because they could. Everything is as sterile as an operating room. I have warm woods, knick knacks, statues, pictures and pops of color all over the place!

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    Lyoness
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Paint. If things still work (appliances, cabinets, plumbing, electrical etc) why replace them?

    Robin Roper
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Based on some of the "what's out" lists I read, I need to rip out my entire kitchen, all or bathrooms, and redecorate my entire house, all of which I like. Guess I'll wait until house house is on the "what's hot" lists.

    Snowkit
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My house is oooollldddd like 1900’s old. (My concept of old is in teenage terms)

    M O'Connell
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex demanded that we replace the stove and microwave in our house because she couldn't live with the fact that they were "biscuit" and not white. 🙄

    K. LNU
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure that helped contribute to the "ex" part.

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    Zephyr343
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom did the same thing because she didn't like the appliances. Have to get a new kitchen if you get new appliances 🙄

    Janelle Collard
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you get a new wife to follow a "trend?"

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    #14

    Person receiving a cosmetic procedure in a clinic setting, showcasing a trend people may avoid for looking uncool. Injections of filler or Botox. I’m 31/F and “at that age” where the pressure is real on social media and amongst my peers. I’m also middle class and could afford it. The influencers are constantly hitting my feed making me feel bad about aging and the aging has only just began. I’m literally so young still. But I just can’t bring myself to cave. We really don’t understand the long term consequences and I’m convinced it’s a fad that will die out because these faces are starting to look, *morphed*. Just fine lines for me, thanks.

    elons_publicist , Anna Shvets Report

    The Doom Song
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah let's inject my face with my butt fat and look like a puffy mess coz I'm scared of aging. F**k that. I'm going to OWN my crows feet and semi grey hair!

    Lyoness
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Filler at 31? Insanity.

    detective miller's hat
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I don't understand why people follow those instagrammers in the first place.

    Libstak
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All those injection points will scar as you age. You may not see the blemishes for 10 to 20 years but they will show themselves eventually.

    Joanne Earle
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    31 is not 'at that age'. OMG people. I just turned 60. That's 'at that age'.

    Michelle C
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m thirty-something and I absolutely refuse to do it, either. Of course, I’m not going to impose on others as far as what they should or should not do. I just don’t want to take the risks.

    JL
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Botox...botulism...toxin...pass.

    Dorothy Reiser
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I say "this is what 69 looks like". Be proud of the years you have survived in this world.

    K. LNU
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do botox, but not for what people think I do it for. I have migraines and once every 6-8 months the stuff keeps them down to a manageable pain. I do hate when they kind of overdo it and my forehead and eyebrows no longer move (for a week or so).

    L.V
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ironically, it can have the reverse effect, where if you use those when you're young, you look older

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    #15

    Stylish living room with bohemian decor, leafy wallpaper, plants, and trendy lighting fixtures. Home trends. I do not believe that I need to make my house summer, autumn, winter or spring themed. Will I change my linen to something warmer and darker during winter and get my floral out during summer? Sure. But I sure AF am not hopping on that train of changing everything.

    GrumpyPanda29 , zwybies Report

    Janelle Collard
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like too much work to me.

    Sarah Mills
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a home health care patient like that. For her, though, it was every damn holiday. I would have been happier with just the 4 seasons

    SkippityBoppityBoo
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So long as my toilet works and I've electricity, food etc? I'm happy 🙂

    Sandra Lappan
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Changing my house and front yard are very spiritual for me. It's an acknowledgement of the wheel turning and celebrating life.

    Dorothy Reiser
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our couch is 40 years old. Get classic styles that last.

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    #16

    Two people exchanging keys in front of a "Home for Sale" sign. I’ve never understood buying a home for the max amount you were approved for just because that’s what you were approved for. We have friends that live in really nice houses, but never go anywhere or do anything. My wife and I opted to buy a really nice but smaller house that was 275k less than what we were approved for. Now we go on nice vacations a couple times a year, go out to dinner often. We see plays, concerts and do all kinds of things we couldn’t do if we had bought a bigger house.

    drewbee123 , Thirdman Report

    Alexandra
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We bought our house on a single income: we were both working full-time, so we could still travel and have fun.

    JSD
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I spent about $100,000 less than what my approval was. Didn't want to overextend!

    Heffalump
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You seem to be wholly unaware of the privilege you enjoy being able to afford somewhere liveable without maxing out your finances. For most people the situation is that they can either max out to buy a rabbit hutch, or max out to rent one.

    Philly Bob
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was approved for near $300K, got our mountain home that's creekside (spring fed) on 5 acres of pine land back in 2009 for $130K! It's now appraised at a bit over $300K. Who cares. I'll be 67 in march. I'm gonna probably die in the backyard!

    Susie Elle
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For us it was buy this house or buy a house for even more because prices are skyrocketing at alarming levels. So we maxed our mortgage. If we hadn't we'd either end up paying the same for something smaller, or opting for an even higher mortgage for the same house. There literally were no places that cost under 250k, unless we moved to a village out in Groningen (we work in Gelderland).

    Bartlet for world domination
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Literally? Because I see one now in Winterswijk.

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    MegDragon
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “House poor” is a bummer of a way to live.

    Subaru645
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Props to you both, my first ex wanted me to max out what I was approved for, knowing full well she had no plans to hang around.

    Geoffrey Scott
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus I'm sure you can drive a newer car. Not BRAND new, but 1-3 y/o.

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    #17

    Statue of Walt Disney and Mickey Mouse in front of Cinderella Castle, crowded with visitors. Trends in theme park tourism. I have friends that go to Disney twice a year and they are always trying to get us to go. I've been to Disney, I don't get it and I don't care to go ever again.

    lukehardy , juan mendez Report

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The mouse always wins.

    Ace
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please add "Spoiler Alert" if you're going to reveal the plot like this.

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    Foxglove🇮🇪
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have zero interest in going to Disney

    Uncommon Sense
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Been several times but these days the crowds, the queues, the extortionate costs and the need to plan your hourly activities by app make for a thoroughly miserable experience. Never again.

    Boo
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With a whole big world out there, why would anyone want to spend good money to go to somewhere mediocre?

    DrBronxx
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know right? They could spend that money on Disneyland instead.

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    Rasil Bathbone
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been to Disneyland once. It was so crowded that the short lines for less popular rides were an hour long. At the end of the day I divided the handful of rides I was able to take into the price of entry, and swore never again unless it was on somebody else's dime. And even then, standing for hours in the sun on asphalt in Los Angeles doesn't sound very appealing. I'll just have to become a billionaire and rent the whole place for a day.

    MegDragon
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people take the “happiest place on earth” motto super seriously and it gets creepy. If you are going to be guerrilla marketing for them so hard you’re making it awkward, you should at least be getting paid.

    Huddo's sister
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't even enjoy the theme parks when we went to Queensland when I was 15. I have told my sister (who loves that sort of thing) that if I have kids, she can take them to whatever she wants (if she can pay for it) because I won't be.

    Quarkbeast
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. I enjoyed Universal Studios much more and would go back. Disney? Yawn, never again.

    Mr.Mister
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I ever want to go, then it will be a one in a life thing

    Robin Roper
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disney is fun but has gotten super greedy and I'll never go back.

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    #18

    Person working with electronic components, avoiding trends to focus on hands-on electronics repair on a wooden table. I will try to fix/mend everything that I own before deciding to just be a consumer.

    real_picklejuice , tnfeez desgin Report

    Richard Iachetta
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A great idea but unfortunately most things are made not to be serviceable. Plastic case a heat weld so they can't be opened. rivets are used instead of screws. But please don't stop trying. There are still a few of us who hate the waste

    #19

    Hands displaying diverse nail art styles with glitter and geometric designs, showcasing current trends. Buying nail sets and lashes.

    Comprehensive_Box902 , Ke Vin Report

    K. LNU
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one isn't really a trend - nail wise, unless you are talking the 3"+ monstrosities that people seem to wear. However, if you aren't my nurse, or sandwich maker, and if you can afford them, go for it.

    Big Chungus
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've done nails for special occasions because I suck at doing my own, but lashes to me are a waste

    Nikki Gross
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This where I'm going to get into trouble: Do you know what I hate? A woman that has multiple kids with different "Baby Daddies" living in free housing, welfare, designer clothes and accessories, braids/extensions, lashes, Mani-Pedi every 1-2 weeks. Meanwhile, you have the Elderly that worked their ENTIRE lives and paid into Social Security, that are struggling to pay for medications and buy groceries. Don't even get me started on my situation! Someone, explain to me how this is fair?!!

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    #20

    Hands with red nails holding a stack of $100 bills, displaying wealth-related trends. Living paycheck to paycheck to just have "things".

    NotTheGumdrop , Ben Iwara Report

    Alexandra
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Things" can become a burden on the mind.

    K. LNU
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And a pain when one has to move houses.

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    Richard Iachetta
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When things make you live paycheck to paycheck you don't own the things, they own you.

    Papa
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Too many people buy things they don't want, with money they don't have, to impress people they don't like."

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The things you own will own you.

    Casey Payne
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Things?" You mean like rent, food, utilities - things? When I was living paycheck to paycheck, that's all I could afford. This is not a silly trend, but a fact of life for many people.

    Breadcrumb.
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's so many things in the thrift shops and garage sales, online swap shops too..you can have things and they don't need to cost to much.

    Curry on...
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Things are dead and inanimate. Why do some feel more alive with dead things?

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    #21

    Person wearing white FILA sneakers on a dry, c*****d ground, symbolizing choosing comfort over trends. Buying a pair of god awful ugly a*s shoes that don’t fit my feet, but are “designer” or whatever. I’m not an Olympic athlete, I don’t need to spend hundreds on shoes.

    PinkRanger1234 , Jamie Street Report

    Quarkbeast
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I buy pricey running shoes because I run, but try to get them on sale. Once they're no good for running, I downgrade them to general workouts. Then they go to knocking around shoes. When they fall apart, I throw them out. I currently have about 5 pairs in various states of the process. I would never buy a pair of expensive shoes that didn't fit, what the heck is the point?

    DrBronxx
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shoes meant for sports are, by-and-large, worth their high price tag. If you can get them on sale, more power to you.

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    KrazyChiMama
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I won’t spend much on clothing but I do splurge on good footwear. My knees and lower spine are too arthritic for the cheap low quality stuff anymore.

    Jeff Hunt
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t underestimate a high quality pair of shoes.

    Robin Roper
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have "bad" feet and spend a lot on my shoes because of this. For me, there is a big difference between a $160 pair of Brooks and a $40 pair of no names. I'll pay for the Brooks everyday.

    BlitheSpirit
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same - I’m on my feet all the time and am active, it’s worth it to me to invest in Sauconys - best shoe for my feet!

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    Array Index Out of Bounds
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have been buying the same pair of steel-toe Caterpillar work boots every six months for years. Works for me!

    Petra Peitsch
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    50-70 euro is the most I'm willing to spend on street shoes.

    DrBronxx
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The implication here is that OP thinks the shoes are objectively ugly. It couldn't be that other people *gasp* have different tastes.

    Joanne Earle
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looking at you No Balance. I mean New Balance.

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    #22

    Two colorful cocktails on a wooden table in a trendy restaurant setting, highlighting current dining trends. Pay 20+ at a cocktail bar for one drink.

    anon , kofookoo.de Report

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or a cover just to get in and bar....should come with a ticket for a free drink

    ghost gurl
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    lol im not even paying $10 for one

    Nichole Harris
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup....I drink at home.... Lots cheaper lots safer

    Untamed Snark
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess it depends on where you live, a beer at a lot of venues around my way (Sydney Australia) can be $10+

    Philly Bob
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. A local bar... a double Jamo is like $7 US, If I go 2 miles into the ski resorts then it's about 8 to 10. In Center City (senner siddy! LOL!) Philly... $18 bucks! The mark up is huge but then again, they have to because the overhead is so high.

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    #23

    Two women carrying shopping bags, discussing trends outside a modern building. Embracing consumer culture. To be fair, there was about a decade when I was too poor to do that. Once my financial situation improved, I realized that none of that stuff would have made me happy. And now that I can afford to "keep up," I have zero desire to. In that way, the poverty was useful (though I never want to be in that dire of a situation again).

    sirdigbykittencaesar , Borko Manigoda Report

    Snowkit
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like to splurge on things, but like thing I use. Like yarn and crochet hooks, needles, cute hair clips etc. o have gout a couple panda figurines and painting just bc I am obsessed with pandas but other than that my room is completely interactive.

    K. LNU
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I admit I am slightly addicted to retail therapy. But I have a catch and release policy. And it's more release that keep.

    Rasil Bathbone
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I learned really early on that there was vastly more to want than I could ever acquire, and things that would always be out of reach even if I wanted them. I don't pine over the inaccessible. I get things that I like that I can afford, knowing that however large that "afford" number was, there will always be a more expensive version that somebody will buy for the expense rather than the thing.

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    #24

    Man mowing the lawn with a red mower in a sunny garden, prioritizing comfort over trendy appearances. I can genuinely say i do not give one single care what a lawn looks like, and will do the barest minimum maintenance just so the city doesn't ticket me.

    kbyyru , Getty Images Report

    detective miller's hat
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have always thought lawns were the stupidest thing ever, but yet people look at me like I'm a psycho when I share that opinion.

    Huddo's sister
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. I am slowly (too slowly for my liking) replacing the grass with native groundcovers.

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    Warren Peece
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like a natural setting. My property is bordered on two sides by a huge state forest and on the third side by privately-owned forest land. Across the road is farm fields (with certified organic crops). This is what my yard looked like after I decided to stop cutting the grass. Photo taken through my kitchen window. Yard-Deer-...62fd41.jpg Yard-Deer-679bfbf62fd41.jpg

    Quarkbeast
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in South Texas: I have no front lawn because it died and I'm not replacing it. Going full xeriscape this year. Besides, planting cacti will keep the dogs from pooping in my yard :)

    LJ North
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just learned that there was a word for this type of landscaping and I like it. Thank you!

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    Breadcrumb.
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I leave patches of wildflowers but need to mow often a section for the short dog to romp around in.

    Geoffrey Scott
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I side gig grass cutting. No fertilizing, weed killing, insecticide. Rarely anything else except maybe Grub-ex to keep moles away

    Helen Rohrlach
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Front yard lawns seem really useless to me. You can lay on a back yard or play but a front lawn, what can you do with it?

    Sandra Lappan
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please be my neighbor. The one next to me looks down just because we don't have the time and refuse to put chemicals on our lawn. My neighbor worships the lawn god. His yard makes a golf course look shabby. I enjoy winter as that is the only time my neighbor isn't mowing his yard every 3 days or a few hours after my husband mows ours.

    Richard Iachetta
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lawns are wonderful because they need so little work. About the only thing you need do is mow the lawn, if you feel like it. If it doesn't rain for weeks and you don't water it, it turns brown but if it rains one afternoon after that the next day the grass is green. lawns thrive on whatever little bit of effort you put into it, even if that is absolutely nothing

    Dorothy Reiser
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We got rid of our lawn and covered the ground in mulch. Low maintenance.

    K. LNU
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in the Mojave Desert... I've seen this green stuff before. Didn't know it was a "trend." We just have rocks and sand. lol

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    #25

    Person holding a phone with music app and headphones, ignoring trends for authenticity. F**k Spotify. I use a Zune.

    captainedwinkrieger , cottonbro studio Report

    JSD
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use a nice Sony MP3 player. I like having actual copies of my music.

    detective miller's hat
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like Spotify. It's algorithm is actually pretty excellent at suggesting new music for me to listen to. Lots of little known metal bands I've never heard of.

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use Spotify, but I refuse to pay for it

    Richman “Richman” Aust
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use one of my old smartphones with a large SD card, but without a SIM, as a music player. (and a kindle reader)

    Jim R
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had 2 Zunes stolen from my car parked at the in-law's house. I still miss them.

    Sven Horlemann
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got +5000 CDs. All are digitalized as FLAC. I do not need any streaming service.

    #26

    Two people in a golf cart driving on a street, choosing comfort over trends. I live in a small town in Iowa and everyone has a golf cart that they tool around town in. I’m not getting a golf cart.

    letmebeyoursalad , Eric Brehm Report

    Zephyr343
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shake things up and get a go cart. Can you put a plow on the front of a golf cart?

    Heffalump
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've got to say that for short distances that are still too far to walk, or where you might need to carry shopping, a golf cart seems like a really practical (and greenish) solution. Much better than using a full sized car.

    Geoffrey Scott
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many in C Michigan have side by sides as state laws allow them to be driven in rural areas on county roads including city streets. Have you seen the prices of these things? Some are $20k. My used 2019 Ram cost less.

    Deeisabird
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Small town Iowa here too...we aren't caving to the gold carts either. Waste of money. Use your legs or get a bike ,🤷🏻‍♀️

    Janelle Collard
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The people who need to get up + take walks the most...

    Rasil Bathbone
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better a golf cart than a full sized car for around town errands. As long as the traffic is slow enough. You do not want to get into a serious collision in one. IMG_2767-6...f-jpeg.jpg IMG_2767-679b36960ebff-jpeg.jpg

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    #27

    Two dogs playing energetically on a grassy field, ignoring trends. Have dogs that bark all day long for no reason.

    flatstacy , Lukasz Szramuk Report

    Libstak
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dogs bark when they are alone mostly. They are pack animals, they need to be with their pack, that means their human and family. Those that leave their dogs outside alone all night end up with barking dogs. If they are with you, they will rest as you rest and go out of their way not to disturb you as a bonus.

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had neighbours and it seemed like anytime the parents (their kid was late teens/early 20s) went away, their dog would be left out at night (kid either didn't care or was out late partying) and keep everyone up with the barking.

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    K. LNU
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Usually a bored dog is a "bad" dog. But this isn't trend. Unless BP is saying that getting a pet for the sake of saying you have a pet (and don't take care of but the basics) is a trend?

    ghost gurl
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i dont think this is a trend. ...

    KrazyChiMama
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My pack always lets me know when the deer are in the yard…usually around 4am

    Anony Mouse
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, this is a very popular trend.

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