From trashy one-liners to unsolicited nude pics, it’s no secret that women receive a lot of questionable content from men they never asked for.

In fact, a study showed that 1 in 4 millennial men (27%) have sent a "d-pic" to a woman. Moreover, of millennial men who have sent a lewd photo, 24% have done so without being asked.

And while not every man pushes the chat with a woman that far, the rude texts they dare to press “send” come in all shapes. Like, being a jerk and telling a woman she’s ugly, manipulating her, or using misogyny. It's obvious that way too many women are forced to face such disrespect on a daily basis.

And thanks to women on TikTok, who decided to expose such cases by sharing the rudest texts they ever received from men, this awful problem is finally put into the spotlight and makes us rethink what’s normal and what’s not in men texting women.

#1

At Least He Had A Plan

At Least He Had A Plan

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KJ
Community Member
11 months ago

Hopefully she replied that they can pause things with him for the next 100 years minimum.

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#2

When Why Is He Asking For Them

When Why Is He Asking For Them

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KJ
Community Member
11 months ago

Should send some nice pics of booby birds, I love their blue feet.

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#3

But It's All Love So It's Fine

But It's All Love So It's Fine

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I I
Community Member
11 months ago

all love tho.....fck me these people

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If you’re a woman, you most likely know very well how it feels to protect yourself from online abuse and harassment. In many cases, it feels like women have this “unjust burden” thrown at them which is only getting worse with each new way of communication. Imagine men who would have never considered standing on a street corner in a trench coat are now bullying and harassing women they meet online. How did it happen?

#4

All I Did Was Go Out With A Dude I Met On Tinder

All I Did Was Go Out With A Dude I Met On Tinder

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

Choices have consequences, homie. You effed around and found out, didn't you?

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#5

After A Phone Conversation/ Argument. I Wish I Was Joking

After A Phone Conversation/ Argument. I Wish I Was Joking

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

So he's saying "I never really liked you, I just wanted sex so I'm trading you in for a newer model" What a shallow and pathetic dude.

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#6

I Honestly Didn’t Even Know How To Respond To This

I Honestly Didn’t Even Know How To Respond To This

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Deborah B
Community Member
11 months ago

"With your personality, I'm not surprised that buying sex is the only way you can get laid. Happily for me, I'm not for sale, so I can honestly tell you to go f*ck yourself."

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The experts now say that sexual harassment made online is no less dangerous to a victim than physical harassment done in real life. “It is inevitable that some of these people will then go on to commit contact sexual offenses, but it is not possible to say at this time what sort of proportion that is,” Clare McGlynn, Professor of Law and expert in image-based sexual abuse, from Durham Law School, told HuffPost UK.

#7

I Just Found This At The Bottom Of My Tinder Messages Im Going To Peeeeeeee

I Just Found This At The Bottom Of My Tinder Messages Im Going To Peeeeeeee

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KJ
Community Member
11 months ago

WTF!

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#8

And They Say Romance Is Dead?

And They Say Romance Is Dead?

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Eva the Egg
Community Member
11 months ago

What the f**k. BEGONE DICKHEAD

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#9

Reality Of Dating In 2020

Reality Of Dating In 2020

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

Sad, shallow & judgemental idiot - slither back under your rock.

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Meanwhile, Laura Thompson, a lead researcher at City University, believes that with the digital age and more and more platforms coming out, people always find a way to weaponize them. Moreover, according to her, “while women seem to have largely accepted this as part of the unwritten laws of internet interaction, finding the solution to this type of abuse should not fall into the laps of victims because it 'curtails women’s opportunities.'”

Laura believes that it’s “unfair to expect women to be continually self-policing and every time they want to use some function online, they need to think about how it might be misused by someone else and we can’t scare women off using the internet, or smartphone technology, because it is simply not fair.”

#10

This Man Rlly Called Me Out Like That

This Man Rlly Called Me Out Like That

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

No, she isn't an amusement park and she doesn't owe you anything except hitting that block button.

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#11

No Coming Back From This One Brother

No Coming Back From This One Brother

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

Sounds like homie is only interested in hookups - doesn't even like women, but only wants to use them. Certainly doesn't respect them. Another bullet dodged.

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#12

I Know Rodby Ain't Talking

I Know Rodby Ain't Talking

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

And Rodby is a pretentious, misogynistic d*ckhead's name. Report and block.

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#13

#chivalryisntdead

#chivalryisntdead

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Ancsuri
Community Member
11 months ago

and he wears a fedora...

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#14

Oh No

Oh No

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I I
Community Member
11 months ago

the words every girl longs to hear

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#15

Please It’s 90° And I Posted In My Bathing Suit Bye

Please It’s 90° And I Posted In My Bathing Suit Bye

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

Another mega-idiot blaming women for his impulse control problem. This is exactly why #yesallmen is a thing. Dads - do better at teaching your sons (and yourselves) to respect women and stop blaming & victimizing them.

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#16

Sorry Ladies He’s All Mine

Sorry Ladies He’s All Mine

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

Reese just saw their own face reflected in their phone screen.

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#17

Kinda Clever Tho

Kinda Clever Tho

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Debbie Barnes
Community Member
11 months ago

And never will... Blocked..

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#18

True Love

True Love

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

Don't let this shallow dude treat you like property. Be alone or find someone who respects you.

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#19

Let’s Pray Nobody From My School Sees This Especially Him

Let’s Pray Nobody From My School Sees This Especially Him

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Ancsuri
Community Member
11 months ago

the fedora guy strikes again...

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#20

That’s On Having Gorg Friends I Guess

That’s On Having Gorg Friends I Guess

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

She's lucky that having an attractive friend can help her weed out the shallow losers.

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#21

The Right Idea...?

The Right Idea...?

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

No, that would be working on the wrong part. You need to be working on that broken brain of yours.

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#22

Thought I Would Hop On The Trend

Thought I Would Hop On The Trend

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I I
Community Member
11 months ago

at least he asked....... i guess???

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#23

Men On Tinder

Men On Tinder

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Abhinc
Community Member
11 months ago (edited)

at least you'll never have a chance to see her "down there" so i guess you're good

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#24

Hellll No

Hellll No

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

Good call. You don't have to hang out with shallow people at all!

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#25

I Was Scared

I Was Scared

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

Great - a rando creepy stalker. Block this creeper before it gets any weirder.

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#26

Men

Men

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TheBlackPanda (JustABlackBear)
Community Member
11 months ago

Understandable, have a nice day

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#27

Such A Romantic

Such A Romantic

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

Derek does this in group chats too, just to increase his odds. Keep it classy, derek

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#28

For Context This Was Two Years Ago

For Context This Was Two Years Ago

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Daniel Mattock
Community Member
11 months ago

What a disarming personality he must have

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#29

Wtf

Wtf

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Olivia Lisbon
Community Member
11 months ago

$200? Where are my cleats?

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#30

Man Has Game

Man Has Game

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Chiuki
Community Member
11 months ago

Charlie the incel keeps wondering why women find him so repulsive, and resents them for it.

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