The shower is a wonderful place to get some deep thinking done. We’re not just shampooing our heads in there, after all—we’re taking a break from everything and opening up our minds to a lot of creative insights.
However, let’s get real for a moment: how many of us actually remember these thoughts the moment we step out of the shower, let alone when we’ve finished toweling our hair dry? The odds are, not too many. And it’s a pity because the things that pop into our heads are fascinating. But they have a dreamlike quality in that it’s hard to keep a firm grip on these thoughts.
Luckily for us, the Shower Feelings social media project is here to lend us a helping hand. They’ve been sharing random but interesting shower thoughts for years, and they’re full of bite-sized pieces of wisdom. Scroll down for the best ones, and when you’re done upvoting the thoughts you enjoyed the most, share your own shower thoughts and feelings in the comments.
Bored Panda reached out to digital detox coach Molly DeFrank, the author of 'Digital Detox: The Two-Week Tech Reset for Kids,' to talk about the importance of taking breaks from all the noise and technology in our lives, in order for us to be more creative.
"The shower is one of the last places of human solitude," Molly told us. "But it doesn’t have to be."
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Digital detox coach and author Molly told Bored Panda that technology and entertainment are an ever-present fact in our modern lives. "We are inundated with devices, entertainment, divided attention. Living in 2022 means living in an onslaught of loud, overstimulating data consumption," she said.
"The smartphone steals our attention, our most valuable commodity. Minute by minute, we settle for passive consumption instead of doing the work to think, ponder, imagine. Humans are born creators. But we settle for easy, if it’s available. And boy is it available."
Molly pointed out that the shower is one of the last places where people can actually be alone, with their thoughts, without a lot of the noise that makes up our lives. However, this shouldn't be the case. A digital detox, a break from technology and media consumption, can allow us to feel peaceful and at ease outside of the shower, too.
"When we give ourselves an extended tech break, it gives us space to really assess our media consumption. I did this for my kids, and subsequently myself a few years ago. We were pleasantly surprised by the results—longer attention spans, better moods," she said that the benefits of doing this are great and clear to see.
Or even better, figured the sounds out by looking at their nasal cavities.
"After a lot of research, I realized that our generation has crept into a new normal. While there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to tech consumption, the goal is to put the digital in its right place. That probably looks a little different for everyone. But here’s an easy scale: when you look at your screen time in your settings, does your actual time spent on apps match your ideal?" she urged everyone to be honest with themselves about this.
"If not, try some physical barriers. Keep your phone in its charger instead of on your person. Turn off all notifications for all apps. Calendar time for solitude, journaling, quiet. Humans need this." And that means that you'll start having creative thoughts about the world not just in the shower, but pretty much everywhere. As it should be.
The Shower Feelings project is wildly successful. It has over 2.5 million followers on its Instagram page, as well as a further 130.1k fans following its Twitter account. Altogether, that’s a huge number of people who are reached by someone’s wet musings errr I mean shower thoughts.
A while back, my colleague wrote about the r/Showerthoughts subreddit, an entirely separate project, though it shares a similar logo with Shower Feelings. She reached out to Nancy K. Napier, Ph.D., a Distinguished Professor at Boise State University and author of Unfolding Curiosity.
Professor Napier hinted that showering is almost a form of meditation. Think about it: you’re in an enclosed space with warm, comforting water running over you, and you’re letting your mind wander where it wants to.
Thank you. Thank you very much. ( to be read in Elvis Presley's voice)
"As you wash yourself for those three or five or ten minutes, you can let your mind wander and that's often when an idea will hit. Also, during these times when we're with our families in shutdowns, it might be one of the few chances to be alone with your thoughts," she told Bored Panda.
However, people find it hard for their thoughts to drift in other circumstances. There’s just too much information running wild in our environments.
"To have the experience of a wandering mind, we need to intentionally turn OFF the extra information and think about nothing,” Napier told us.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that showers are somehow entirely unique or that they’re the only place where you can let your mind be still, creative, and freer than usual.
"I read recently that taking a walk is another great place for ideas, but the key is to simply walk. Leave the radio and podcasts at home,” the professor suggested that if you go on a walk, try to enjoy your surroundings without distractions.
"Then, while walking, look in three places and ideas will come: look above eye level (at buildings, trees), look straight ahead, and look on the ground," Napier gave us some pointers for the next time we’re on a walk.
"Many of us are looking for ways to do things differently to get better, which is the ultimate goal of creativity." According to the professor, we can find inspiration in other people’s shower thoughts. That, in turn, can lead us to generate entirely new ideas of our own. So it’s useful to listen to other people’s (sometimes random) musings.
Being bored can actually be useful. Unfortunately, we live in a society where entertainment of every kind is easily reachable.
“Lots of people have noted that we no longer allow ourselves to become bored. Laying on grass and watching the clouds go by seems to be less common and yet it's another simple way to generate ideas," Napier said.
Speaking of listening to other people’s thoughts, tips, and tricks, previously, Bored Panda spoke to LA-based TV writer Amanda Deibert, who had gone viral for a Twitter thread about surprisingly good advice.
According to her, people are great at giving advice instead of listening to it. That’s because it’s far easier to clearly see the problems someone else might be struggling with. It’s far harder to take an honest look at our own issues. There’s just too much noise.
"When it is our own life, we also have to deal with our own emotions and attachments and habits. I can easily see something with detachment when it isn't my own issue. I think it is actually incredibly difficult to detach and really look at your own life," Amanda said.
I feel sorry for the history majors who'll be studying each day of 2020 as individual chapters
There are people who hate or despise whole categories of other people because of lies.
Definitely. And I know who lied, who believed them, and why I left them all in my dust.
yes , got in to fights with this lad for years and had no idea why , we met years later and i found out a so called mate was telling him i was slagging him off all the time , didnt even know who he was until he punched me the first time , still havent seen the so called mate since , going to have a nice chat when i do
Yes, this is so true, both my daughters hate me because of lies my x wife made up to get public housing.
"What other people think of me is none of my business." is one of the most important things I have learned.
Sure I do. And the best thing I can do about it is fact-checking everything people tell me about other people.
Yup. People dislike or even hate me for stuff they've been told that wasn't true. One guy always stands right in front of me at concerts because his gf misunderstood a situation with me over a decade ago and he takes her side (good for her, I suppose). It's silly. But he only stands in front of me once every concert and I just walk a step to the side and I rock on while he stands still, thinking I'm stuck behind him. 😂😂😂 I hope he'll be there at the next concert I'm going to. 🤘😎🤘
thanks. Now i have to discover who lied about me. You made my day
Yes. And I don't talk to either of those people any more.
I have known this since early childhood. They aren't worth it - if they cared about you, the lies would not have landed.
Yep. If they're not strong enough to make up their own minds, they don't deserve me.
A senior executive told another senior executive that I didn’t want her to get a promotion which I didn’t do and knew nothing about so I’d be fired and she could hire her friend in my place. I didn’t lose my job but it was an uncomfortable situation for a long time.
Like Milo's car, this one goes without saying. The correct response to hearing this is "Constipation Mr. Holmes"
Thanks mom! No really, why spend years lying about one kid to your other kids. That's some seriously F'd up s**t. So, thanks mom. Now stop acting like the victim & accept our severe dislike of you now. (I know she'll never see this)
I've heard some really crazy things about myself from plenty of people that didn't realize I was the one they were talking about back in the day.
One time as a teen I found out that kids I didn't even know at another school disliked me for something that was NOBODY'S business knowing about. Weird stuff.
And there are likely people you think poorly of because someone lied to you about them.
And some people may hate me because somebody said the truth to them about me.
"I think change is difficult and scary and most good advice revolves around change. Not making a decision is a decision... and it's the easiest one to make. I think the best way around it is to remember that. Good things are difficult and take work, but sitting back and allowing life to just happen is a choice."
They are moody, but it's developmentally appropriate; what we need is to stop shaming teenagers for being moody.
"Sorry the old Taylor can't come to the phone right now. Why? Oh! Cuz she's dead!"
I have diabetes, which means I have excess sugar in my blood. I wonder if vampires see diabetics as dessert.
Because some of us are busy cursing why cockroaches have a pair
I much prefer night showers. Maybe because there’s no time pressure (to be rushed/ready quickly or by a set time e.g. for work or whatever).
Are you trying to make me ultra overthink my embarrassing moments?
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"You will hear from my lawyer!" is adult-speak for "I am going to tell my mom!"
Am I the only one who feels like I've read this specific Bored Panda post before? I even feel like I remember some of the comments.
I didn't realize it was possible to fully and completely despise a person after never meeting them and only seeing some things they said on a random website until DELETED came at Caro Caro and DUN DUN. I AM GENUINELY GETTING ANGRY AND PROTECTIVE OF TWO PEOPLE I'VE NEVER MET BUT I KNOW I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE.
Most of these aren’t what I would consider shower thoughts, just statements. Shower thoughts are things that you read and then make the connection and can’t stop thinking about it. Statements are just things that you read and go “huh, true” and then move on with your life.
"You will hear from my lawyer!" is adult-speak for "I am going to tell my mom!"
Am I the only one who feels like I've read this specific Bored Panda post before? I even feel like I remember some of the comments.
I didn't realize it was possible to fully and completely despise a person after never meeting them and only seeing some things they said on a random website until DELETED came at Caro Caro and DUN DUN. I AM GENUINELY GETTING ANGRY AND PROTECTIVE OF TWO PEOPLE I'VE NEVER MET BUT I KNOW I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE.
Most of these aren’t what I would consider shower thoughts, just statements. Shower thoughts are things that you read and then make the connection and can’t stop thinking about it. Statements are just things that you read and go “huh, true” and then move on with your life.