Article created by: Justinas Keturka

Sadness mixed with humor in a perplexing, chaotic, and confusing way—that’s what the r/FunnyandSad online group over on Reddit is all about. An old-hand on the net, having been founded in November 2013, it has since then grown into a community of nearly 700k members.

The subreddit does exactly what it says on the tin and documents posts from all over the net that are funny and sad at the same time. It’s a melange of laughing through tears (or is that crying while you laugh?) that will show you that life is far more varied and nuanced than the black-and-white we’re used to seeing on the news and on social media.

Sadness is a very natural part of life and we ought to embrace it, instead of running away from it. After all, we can’t be happy-go-lucky all the time (I would know, I tried). And while being sad can even have certain benefits, like improving our memory and judgment, getting stuck in negative thinking patterns and endless loops of sadness isn’t healthy for our mental wellbeing.

I had a quick chat with an expert in the field of psychology about how to identify what these negative thinking patterns look like and how focusing just on our failures, having black or white thinking, and holding ourselves accountable for everything that goes wrong all harm our mental health.

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Aw Man

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    I'm Fine.. Really

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    10 Year Challenge

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    He’s Not Wrong...

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    Budgeting

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    In Dystopia We Were Told To Trust

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    He's Right

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    Mysterious Ways

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    I Feel We Are There Already

    Tweet by Lon Harris questioning how long until GoFundMe becomes the main health care provider, reflecting confusing posts that are funny and sad.

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    Well, It's True Isn't?

    Scene from A Christmas Carol with a humorous and sad caption about rich people, fitting confusing posts that are funny and sad.

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    You’re Not From Around Here Are You

    Tweet about the confusing and funny mistake of telling Americans masks protect others, reflecting sad social awareness.

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    Oof

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    "Cries In Millenial"

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    We’re Screwed

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    Sad Truth

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    Useless Job

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    So Close Yet So Far

    Funny and sad confusing post about a cashier not recognizing an Instagram baddie whose card declined for $1.35.

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    That's Where It Began

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    London

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    Is Being Short Really That Bad

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    Sad Truth

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    And Don’t Forget Student Loans

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    Life Can Be So Rewarding

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    "Millenials Are All Lazy And Entitled!"

    Tweet showing a large diamond and a reply about spending $485 on a campus parking pass, confusing posts funny and sad view.

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    Welcome To The Show

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    Cause Your In New York

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    Spent $11.75 Growing Tomatoes This Year. Here's My Whole Harvest!

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    Hmm

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    I Know It Hurts Sometimes But You'll Get Over It

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