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30 Peculiar Things That Seem Normal In Some Countries But Not In The Rest Of The World
If you're still unsure (or need reminding) that the concept of normal is relative, there's one online thread that should, once and for all, convince you.
It began when Reddit user SackOfPotatoSacks made a post on the platform, asking everyone to share what's considered routine where they live but would probably be seen as something crazy everywhere else.
Immediately, people started describing the peculiarities of their local area that they've grown accustomed to, proving that culture seeps deeper into us than we often realize.
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My city is EXTREMELY bilingual, everyone speaks both English and French. You’ll hear people speak both languages in conversations quite often, sometimes in the same sentence. In stores, most of the time, people greet you with both languages and you reply in one of them, which tells them which language you prefer to talk in. They go "Bonjour, Hi!" And you say Bonjour back if you want to continue in French or Hi if you rather speak English. It’s kinda crazy.
I’m from Montréal, Canada.
Do you mean to say you love Canada and it is beautiful? Thank you!! What part did you visit? What beautiful place did you visit from?? 🙃
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The francophones have been trying to push English out of Quebec for a while now.
Québec here, no. Francophones were repressed and assimilated for two centuries and we almost made Québec a country twice to find an out. Now that we are treated well, we do not want that anymore, but we try to keep our language. English is still welcome.
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Unfortunately you also have a government doing everything it can to stop this. Bill 101, then bill 96 to "rid Quebec of English" https://montrealgazette.com/news/local-news/bloc-wants-to-switch-out-bonjour-hi-for-bonjour-ho You also have "language police" who fine people for not having French in a larger font. https://montreal.ctvnews.ca/quebec-language-police-conducted-over-5-000-visits-last-year-annual-report-1.5117163 the bilingual nature is great, but how long will it last with the relentless attacks from the QC government?
My husband and I left Quebec (province) when they had a referendum to separate from Canada and the results were 49/51; they lost but it was too close. All my family are separatists except me and my late mother (she was an American). That language police is really bad, they even got "Second Cup" a Canadian brand, to change its name for a French one!!! "BAF claimed it had targeted the stores because of the company's use of its incorporated English name "Second Cup" demanding inclusion of French in the name of the business. After the media coverage of the fire bombings, many Second Cup locations in Quebec changed their signs to Les cafés Second Cup."
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Also, the order they say hi in tells you what language they prefer! Ie, Hi bonjour means they prefer English, but Bonjour hi would mean they like French more!
It does? I prefer English but if I've been speaking french all day i might default to french without realizing
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These two places are very closely tied. The colony of Louisiana, was actually created by French Canadians at the end of the 17th century. British repression of the French in Canada led to continuing waves of migration in the 18th century. The most famous of these was the Acadian deportations to Maryland and Pennsylvania (but who later migrated to Louisiana). The city of New Orleans was founded by a Canadian commandant general in the French army (Jean-Baptiste Le Moyne de Bienville). Unfortunately, because the colony of Louisiana was never profitable, the French crown had very little interest, so most of the colonists were Canadians, not actually French.
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Almost the same in some parts of India. A lot of people speak a mix of either Eng and Hindi or Eng and Marathi where I'm from. Eng-Hindi is so well recognised that we now call it Hinglish. We have movies and web series where the language spoken is Hinglish. It's a perfect mix of both languages.
True, but there's also that undercurrent of English (the use thereof) being frowned upon. There's always been a rather difficult cohabitation of English and French in the province of Quebec, where Montreal is situated.
It is true! Even in Montreal anglophones or people like me (french Québécoise) who has lived in 3 English provinces so I have and English accent, can be subjected to slurs (being polite) .
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Not even close to being true. Ask any English speaker who has visited Montreal and they will tell you how difficult it is to order in restaurants, shop or just get directions. Furthermore those who are bilingual tend to be very arrogant towards those aren't. It's far easier for us to get around in France and without the arrogance.
I spent two weeks in Montreal, and while English isn't my primary language, it was my language while I was there. My French is very poor, and more so, I have a very difficult time with French Canadian on top of that. Everybody I met spoke perfect English. Perhaps in other places in Quebec this is true, but Montreal is a such a cosmopolitan city.
Load More Replies... Felt very familiar. Then i saw it's Montreal and it all made sense. Remember when the politicians decided to Bann "bonjour, hi" and nobody gave a f**k?
My experience in Montreal was very much not bilingual but rather that many MANY people spoke French and only French (except maybe a few words). There's certainly nothing wrong with that but I wouldn't go back or suggest it for anyone who isn't at least good enough at French to expect to get around in France proper.
Not so much bonjour-hi anymore, the French language police are cracking down. Businesses must promote the use of French only when dealing with customers
My home town was 30% hispanic so I grew up speaking spanish and english.
i've visited there and half the people barely speak a word of English, some none at all. The other half I can talk to. And many of the Anglophones there barely speak French. Its more of a myth of the Bilingual there, and my friends from Montreal all tell me, maybe 2/3 of people are conversational bilingual
I like it! In Brussels I’ll also start with: “goedendag, bonjour” and so the person I’m talking to can choose to continue in Dutch or in French. Sometimes I’ll even add: “Nederlands, français, English?”
I’m from France. When I moved to Montreal in 1998, I was amazed how two people could carry a conversation together in both languages!!! Move forward 25 years and I do the same with my kids!! (With the addition of a bit of Spanish 🙈)! Love it!!
I loved visiting Montréal too. Beautiful, clean, safe city and everyone dressed nicely (Fall 1980s). From Texas.
Well, times have changed. 40 plus years has done a number on the cleanliness and safety.
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We have that too in Romania. It's called "Romgleza" - romanian for Romglish.
And yet one of the busses I was on only had it's stop announcements in French
In Singapore you'll commonly find three languages in one sentence in a conversation - English, Malay and a Chinese dialect.
Not always. I've had arrogant people from Montreal pushing French in their city. I would ask in English, and they would reply in French. Luckily I understand French, but can't speak it well. But that is not a nice situation for those who don't. I heard from a friend that there is a movement to encourage only French among citizens, but come on! I was a tourist!
My husband was spoken to in Spanish by the greeter at Walmart (CA). My husband said, "Huh?" All I caught was Auga, which means water. It was raining.
Love this. In Paris they will always talk in French even if they know you speak English, just because they want to f**k with you. The rest of France is friendly.
I've been to Montreal. I've friends from France. When they visited Montreal with me they were taken aback, said that they speak pidgin French. I tend to agree.
There is a section of Montreal, that's like 90% English speakers. But the Francophones pretend it doesn't exist.
I talked to a friend in Canada many years ago who expressed his strong feelings about speaking French in Canada .The French speaking population increased so much that French became mandatory in schools after the Government Administration was French majority. This was not very popular with the rest of the Canadian population.
If only it was as bilingual as you say. I too am from Montreal and finding bilingual salespeople is now few and far between. In fact you can speak in English to them and they answer you in French.
First thing I say in a store is 'Parlez vous Anglais?' Most will say yes, and the few that can't I just try to speak with the few words I do know. Same thing I do in a non english speaking country in Europe
If you really want to mess with immigration officials, reply to their bilingual 'Hello, Bonjour' with another 'Hello, Bonjour'. They don't know which language to continue in.
I'm from Montreal - did you know we have LANGUAGE POLICE? The OQLF (Office Quebecoise de la langue francaise) is a government office that can go into any business to ensure that French is being used, whether it's in your store, office or on your website - they have the authority to go into your files and computer records to make sure the business is not breaking any language laws, and that French always appears in a larger font than any other language on signs and that regular, ordinary people can report each other if they see any "infractions" of the Law, including the whole Bonjour/Hi thing? Fines are huge...this province is a mess when it comes to language...it's not as lovely as you might think...
In malaysia... We speak about 4 different languahe within one semtence... English, malay, chinssr and some tamil (indian) words. And the best part.. We all understand one another...
When I was station in West Berlin years ago I had two French speaking American friends. One was born & raised in Quebec. The other was from Louisiana. I used to drive them up to the French sector in Berlin to shop at their military exchange. The French took their type of French as an insult to the language. One must only speak perfect French. So we liked going there just to make people cringe.
There are many countries like this. Especially in Europe. In Amsterdam you are as likely to hear English as Dutch. In Luxembourg, French and German are spoken frequently, maybe even more so than Luxembourgish (although I'd admit that I don't speak either German or Luxembourgish, so perhaps I just cannot distinguish). And I think around the world, English has become the language of commerce in general. When I was growing up in my country, everybody was taught French. It was the language of diplomacy, and so all "educated people" were taught it. Today, nobody learns French, it's all English. My nephews don't speak a word of French. But they all speak English. And to go to a good college, you have to take an English exam, and score a certain proficiency. A few places in Latin America are doing this now I think. But certainly, no stores in Rio de Janeiro will great you with "Hello, bom dia".
Info that all the time and I'm from America. Maybe I was from Ireland in a past life lol
I had a landlord, Mr. Delahoussey who I would go to visit often since I loved his stories about his life, and he would start the conversation in English, only to revert to Creole French during the conversation, which woukd drive his nurse crazy but, I loved since I learned the language and strengthened the bond between us. I learned so much about Life in Lousiana from this gentleman and miss him dearly! God Bless, Rest in Peace, and Thank you for being my Friend and my Family and the greatest person I have ever known Mr Ike!
I've heard even more people say that if they speak in English, most people they encounter in Montreal refuse to answer.
Montréal is one of the few big cities I've visited where I thought "mmmh I could definiteley live here". That means a lot, since I'm rather a country guy.
I live in Montreal and know only a little French. I have had cashiers that are down right hostile to me when I say that I'm sorry, I do not understand. Some refuse to speak english, some say that because I live in QC that I need to speak french. What bothers me the most is that they don't know if I live here or if I'm a tourist. It's a s****y way to show people that they aren't welcome because the aren't french. The number of strangers who have literally screamed at me for not knowing the language is mind blowing.
It's like the difference between American English and British English.
Load More Replies... Absolutely incorrect! The few people in Quebec that speak (or at least admit to it) English are low. They want English out of their province. They quite frankly want to seperate their province from Canada. If you travel there, prepare to learn french to get by. Street signs aren't even multilingual!!!
It took me a while to figure this out when I first moved there. I'd respond, "bonjour, hi" back and they'd look at me weird.
Go to the Philippines. We are also bilingual. Although with your skin color we know how to talk with you.
Ben Ya, also from Montreal, people amazed when someone speaks another language (live in TO now)... um where I was born and raised every one does... most of my friends spoke 3 languages
Started reading this and immediately thought, must be Montreal
I know ew it wS Montreal before OP said it! I'd love yo go there some time
That's a really good tip to know for when I actually get to Canada lol I can also say that a lot of South Texas towns are like this with Spanish/English... good thing I speak Spanish.
French and English are Canada's official languages but many more languages than that are spoken in Montreal! It's the country's most diverse city!
Toronto is far more diverse than Montreal and has been recognized as such many times
Load More Replies... Went to Montréal (I'm French), talked French or English or both, and ordered a meal at restaurant in Italian, because, Italian waiter. Loved that city so much.
I love that! I truly enjoyed Montréal when I visited many years ago. I would love to visit ahain.
I live here, there is a lot to say about it. French is the nation’s imposed work language and the government is fighting for it. Everywhere around speaks English so we have to try preserving our language, it has been hard since we have been assimilated for a long time. That’s mostly Montreal, the rest is mostly French. Also, switching between English and French in the same sentence is actually a thing and is kinda funny. We call it « franglais » (frenglish).
I live in Dublin and when we tell people who live in America that we put crisps in sandwiches they laugh at us. Just try it mate. It’s so good
Free Sundays (germany)
Everything, literally everything is closed on Sundays which is amazing cuz everyone (except from the most essential like doctors, firefighters and the police) have a free day which is awesome!!
In Austria around Christmas/St Nicholas time we have events called "Krampusläufe" where people, mostly young (drunk) men dress up as demonic devil-like creatures called Krampus with fur suits, creepy masks and cow bells and pull of shows that include lots of fire, smoke, witch burns etc while mainly Ramstein plays in the back. They also like to whip people in the audience with cow tails. And hell yea we enjoy the show while getting drunk on hot punch. We even bring our kids along.
In Australian rural towns we all had our back doors unlocked; and friends are allowed to go through the back door and make themselves a cup of tea/coffee while they wait for you to get back from whatever you were doing.
It's not just rural towns. I grew up in Melbourne and this was true for everyone we knew in melbourne suburbs. We would come home and my mates would be in the living room or garage watching tv waiting for me to get home. Doors would never be locked...still rarely are to this day.
Experiencing 4 seasons every day. Jacket on, jacket off, it's sunny but it's raining, freezing and windy, then it's hot again... I like to wear shorts and puffer jacket combos for both extremes. Tasmania.
In the Eifel, germany, on the night to 1st of may, people paint a long line from one house to another. The line means that someone in these households is having an affair. Every year several relationships break up because of this. I love it.
Alligators. Just...everywhere. I live in a swampy area of Florida, and it's pretty normal to come across alligators in small ponds, ditches, around pools, or just chilling in a parking lot. I've nearly tripped on alligators more times than i'd like to admit. Thankfully they're pretty chill and won't really bother you unless you mess with them or go near a nest. The police are even trained to deal with rogue alligator calls.
I live next to a game reserve in South Africa. It's not that surprising to hear baboons in your back yard, or spot a rhino 10 meters from your fence.
One time a whole troop of baboons ran over our roof. It's only corrugated iron and we all shat our pants.
Madagascar. Every now and then we dig up corpses of our loved ones, bring 'em through the village where they lived for a visit, change the tissues they where covered in (several layers) with new ones and put them back in the grave and all that while partying.
I live in NJ and it’s illegal here for you to pump your own gas/fuel. All stations are full service by law. I believe Oregon is the only other state in the USA that has this law.
In Norway it's normal to release two million sheep (read: ***two*** ***million*** ***sheep***) into the *wild*, mostly unsupervised, where an estimated *100.000* of them die to either injuries, illness or predators, with the farmers crying and complaining (usually only to that last one), and then repeat the same process again the next year, and every year after that.
Does Norway kind of have a f****d up and moronic sheep farming practice? Yes, yes we do.
Where I used to live in Manitoba, nobody had fences, mainly because when the properties were divided up, the town planners left space that belonged to the town behind all of them, that was just a strip of forest and Canadian shield. So almost nobody put up fences because it cut off their view & access to what was essentially a super cool nature trail network throughout the town. Everyone knew once you hit mowed grass, that belonged to someone. Us kids barely ever went anywhere on foot via roads or sidewalks, we always took the trails (we rode bikes on the roads though, there were too many rocks on the trails for a regular kid's bike)
Of course, living in a forest had some unintended consequences. We frequently had bears, so I remember when I wasn't even 5 yet being taught what to do if I saw a bear. And two separate years we had a mountain lion, which was a lot worse. The town would hire someone to trap and relocate these animals but it always took a while. I remember watching a bear lying down under the crabapple tree in our front yard just eating all the windfall apples for ages, not a care in the world.
Important distinction: was the bear a black bear or a grizzly bear? One is significantly more dangerous than the other.
Driving 3 hours at 100km/h and still being in the middle of nowhere (Australia). In parts of Europe you’d have crossed 3 borders in that time
Starting college, meeting your class on week 1 and then having introductory sauna the next week, boys and girls all drunk & nekkid. Finland :3
Sounds like a good way to instill a healthier attitude towards the human body.
People who are 12-14 driving tractors on the roads in rural Ireland. The legal minimum age is 16, but most farmers don't really care.
EDIT: I didn't realise that this is a rural thing. Still comes as a shock to urban people though.
Driving over the mountains and shouting "mint sauce" out the window to the sheep....
Wales
( And fellow welshys... Don't lie..you know you've done it)
Free public transport in the whole country: buses, trains, trams.
If this were universal it would make such a difference to so many people, as well as to the planet's carbon budget.
Having your birthday party look like this:
Your livingroom is transformed so that there's a great circle of chairs with a coffeetable in the center.
If it's an afternoon party, guests will visit between 14:00 and 17:00 or 18:00 - 21:00, but not both! there's 1 timeslot for friends and 1 for family).
As a guest, you arrive, you congratulate the birthday boy or girl, hand over your present. Then you introduce yourself to the group if you don't know them yet. Then, you go over the circle and shake everyone's hand and ALSO congratulate them with so-and-so's birthday.
After making your way through the circle, you take your empty chair and that is now your seat for the rest of the party.
After everyone arrived, the birthday person will bring you a piece of cake and a beverage (usually coffee or tea). Everyone eats their cake and talks to the person sitting next to him/her.
After everyone is done, there'll be a tour of the house and any new things will be pointed out to you. Now is your moment to ask some questions like "oh, was it expensive?" and also compliment the host on how great it is.
After the tour there'll be another round of food and drinks, snacks will be laid out on the coffeetable, but you shouldn't eat much of it. This is the only food that will be brought out and everyone has to share it.
After guests were there for about 3 hours they'll leave again. Everyone knows they're expected to leave but you need to come off as really wanting to stick around longer but you just couldn't because the dog needs to go for a walk or something, make up any excuse that sounds probable.
Then, repeat the cycle again in the evening with the other group. The weekend after that, invite your close friends to come over and have the real party.
Brazil: Apparently being in a restaurant for hours and hours and only eating in 1% of the time. We talk for hours before and after eating here, so we don't leave right after eating. Everyone I knew from other country found it strange
Drinking alcohol for the first time when you're around 14 y/o. In Germany, it is legal to buy beer and wine when you're 16. So the majority of parents don't see it as a problem when the first drunk experience happens a few years earlier. Actually it is hard to find a teenager here that never tried alcohol before.
Calling an uber instead of an ambulance or going to work while sick during a pandemic.
Gotta love freedom
Romania. Being a witch/medium is an official job, meaning you need a permit, your profit is monitored and you pay taxes.
When killing a pig, raw skin covered in salt is the first food consumed, as it is considered a delicacy.
We also fill the pig's small intestine with a mixture of meat, rice and garlic and put it in the oven for about an hour. Yum!
Many people believe that if you look at a baby for too long, you can unknowingly put a curse on it, which will make it cry until you pour holy water on the child and pray to make the curse go away. Parents are an exception, they can not curse their own child.
Ah yes, that well known method of quieting a crying baby, tipping water on them
Many (but not all) Germans restricting themselves to exactly one hot meal per day. I've heard sentences such as:
"No I can't, I already ate warm at lunch"
"I tried so hard to find a breakfast place that sells cold food"
"Let's just eat bread, I've had hot lunch"
"You can't eat two hot meals, that's too much"
I still don't get why it has to be no more and less than one hot meal? And why do breakfast pancakes not count as hot food?
This is one thing I struggle with. I am Asian, born and raised in Germany. While being little i hated having rice every day. Sometimes up to three times. Then I moved in with my ex, with whom I still live with. He has bread for breakfast and bread for dinner, almost every day. If you add two pickled cornichons and two cherry tomatoes and maybe even a soft boiled egg for dinner, it's considered a feast. I couldn't function without proper hot meals and learned to appreciate my rice now 😅
Today (in Japan)over a hundred people lined up (staggered for social distancing) at 9:00 am on a Saturday. First one hundred get a ticket. At 10:30 we all line up again. One at a time we draw a number; 1 to 5. Then we go over to a big basin of the best quality of rice and take as many scoops as the number we drew. You are encourage to make each scoop heaping. This is not a food bank thing (I hope) just the promise of “good rice” draws a crowd.
It was at a roadside tourist shop/complex.
Israel. Where I live, it is normal.for about 15% of the population not to work and get paid by the government since they are praying to God and that's important too. Off course, the rest of the ppl pay for them. f**k them and their god
15% unproductive adults is a hell of a lot for a society to carry. Although, I read, it's just the men that do this. The women are raised to be the workhorses in those cults (sorry, but if you raisechildren into this, it's a cult not a cloister/temple/monestary) and do ALL the work.
Welp, in Lithuania we have hill of crosses with over 200 k. crosses, we have a hotel where you live in a jail cell and ex KGB agents shout at you and dogs bark at you all the time.
Sweden: The government has monopoly on any alcohol above 3.5% and can only be bought at one store dedicated to it.
In Cincinnati we eat spaghetti noodles topped with a soup-like chili and a 1/4 pound of shredded cheddar cheese.
And it’s delicious.
Putting a block of cheese in your hot chocolate. Colombia.
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I'm Malaysian. We have the culture of 'open house' during festivities. During this time, anyone, even strangers can come to your house to celebrate. They'll be treated with foods, drinks and a token sum of money (only for kids) . Back when I was little, my friends and I made rounds to neighbors' houses to collect these token money. And kids from neighboring villages did come to my house and my parent gave them money too. Nowadays though, only relatives and close friends come for a visit. No strangers come anymore. I suppose if strangers do come, we are still culturally obliged to offer them food and drink. In the last 20-30years, our Government has adapted this culture by having open house for major Malaysian festivals. During Eid celebration for example, our prime minister will set 1 day for an open house for anyone to come; regardless whether they are Malaysians or not. This year, the attendance was in excess of 100K people.
I was wondering if the Easter whip tradition we held in Czech Republic will be on the list because I know that people from different countries find it quite crazy. On the morning of Easter Monday, men gently spank women with a special handmade whip. The whip called pomlázka consists of withies (willow rods or other twigs), is usually from half a meter to two meters long and decorated with coloured ribbons at the end. Women wear multiple long dresses to avoid the minor pain that would be caused by the whipping. If men arrive at women's houses after 12 o'clock, women throw a bucket of cold water on them. In some regions the men also douse girls with water or spray perfume on them. When going house to house, the male first sings a verse relating to eggs and spring themes like bountifulness and fertility. If the young woman doesn't have any decorated eggs she turns around and the man takes a few whacks at her legs with the whip.
Ah yes, so many of my friends are still traumatized by this idiotic, degrading tradition. Someone tries to whip me now I'll whip them right back. What does a stranger or WORSE a creepy uncle or a family member have to do with my fertility. F**k it so much.
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Here in Brazil, the host at a birthday part is expected to lay all gifts over their bed and show the guests how many gifts they got before leading them to the actual party. Also, you *HAVE* to cut the first piece of the cake yourself if it is your birthday and can only give that one to the friend you love the MOST! While you are cutting, it is common that those around you will start shouting the reasons why you should give THEM the first piece (things like "remember that time we did X together?", "remember when we went to that place?" etc), which is a cool way of being reminded of good moments with your friends in a humorous tone. If you are too shy, confront adverse, a huge spoilsport or simply a coward, you can take the safest, most diplomatic (and by far the most boring) road and give that precious first slice to one of your parents, a significant other or your own kid. People will usually boo that a bit as being super artificial and a coward's choice, but it's all in good fun.
I remember seeing a video online of a kid giving the first slice to his little brother. It was adorable, little brother burst into happy tears.
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This an interesting look at other cultures. I am fascinated by all the different things that each area does . Sometime soon I hope to travel to each place . Thank you to all whom contributed.
Growing up in country Australia, we wandered at will into all our neighbours houses, called everyone’s parents Aunty and Uncle.
The State of Texas has a rich history. Being that it was literally once considered (and in some parts, still is) the "Wild West" there are a lot of things that happened. So when you drive through the state, even in the middle of nowhere, be on the look out for Black Iron Plaques called Historical Markers, that tell the story of what happened there. Growing up there was one near our home that told the story of a Comanche raising party that slaughtered (and I do mean, in detail how they died) a small family of settlers and stole the children. Sure enough, you go back into the woods in the middle of nowhere and there is still a tiny family plot of graves with nothing but prairie grass and oak trees to watch over it
It's really not, the water throwing happens on a very small scale compared to the whipping. It would also happen quite often that the men get progressively drunker during the day and end up basically whipping the s**t out of women and calling it "a bit of fun".
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Well, here's another BP post with nothing but negativity for the US. Look, I know there's a lotta things that suck here. We're aware of that. But there's also a lotta GOOD things, and good PEOPLE. Please stop putting us all in one ugly basket. Thanks.
We all say this all the time - that all countries have their negatives and positives, just like all people have their negatives and positives. But the people at BP that make these continuous divisive, stereotypical and biased posts do not care. But we keep saying it anyway. Maybe just for our fellow Pandas to know that we object and that it's unbalanced and unfair. Oh well.
Load More Replies... I'm Malaysian. We have the culture of 'open house' during festivities. During this time, anyone, even strangers can come to your house to celebrate. They'll be treated with foods, drinks and a token sum of money (only for kids) . Back when I was little, my friends and I made rounds to neighbors' houses to collect these token money. And kids from neighboring villages did come to my house and my parent gave them money too. Nowadays though, only relatives and close friends come for a visit. No strangers come anymore. I suppose if strangers do come, we are still culturally obliged to offer them food and drink. In the last 20-30years, our Government has adapted this culture by having open house for major Malaysian festivals. During Eid celebration for example, our prime minister will set 1 day for an open house for anyone to come; regardless whether they are Malaysians or not. This year, the attendance was in excess of 100K people.
I was wondering if the Easter whip tradition we held in Czech Republic will be on the list because I know that people from different countries find it quite crazy. On the morning of Easter Monday, men gently spank women with a special handmade whip. The whip called pomlázka consists of withies (willow rods or other twigs), is usually from half a meter to two meters long and decorated with coloured ribbons at the end. Women wear multiple long dresses to avoid the minor pain that would be caused by the whipping. If men arrive at women's houses after 12 o'clock, women throw a bucket of cold water on them. In some regions the men also douse girls with water or spray perfume on them. When going house to house, the male first sings a verse relating to eggs and spring themes like bountifulness and fertility. If the young woman doesn't have any decorated eggs she turns around and the man takes a few whacks at her legs with the whip.
Ah yes, so many of my friends are still traumatized by this idiotic, degrading tradition. Someone tries to whip me now I'll whip them right back. What does a stranger or WORSE a creepy uncle or a family member have to do with my fertility. F**k it so much.
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Here in Brazil, the host at a birthday part is expected to lay all gifts over their bed and show the guests how many gifts they got before leading them to the actual party. Also, you *HAVE* to cut the first piece of the cake yourself if it is your birthday and can only give that one to the friend you love the MOST! While you are cutting, it is common that those around you will start shouting the reasons why you should give THEM the first piece (things like "remember that time we did X together?", "remember when we went to that place?" etc), which is a cool way of being reminded of good moments with your friends in a humorous tone. If you are too shy, confront adverse, a huge spoilsport or simply a coward, you can take the safest, most diplomatic (and by far the most boring) road and give that precious first slice to one of your parents, a significant other or your own kid. People will usually boo that a bit as being super artificial and a coward's choice, but it's all in good fun.
I remember seeing a video online of a kid giving the first slice to his little brother. It was adorable, little brother burst into happy tears.
Load More Replies... This an interesting look at other cultures. I am fascinated by all the different things that each area does . Sometime soon I hope to travel to each place . Thank you to all whom contributed.
Growing up in country Australia, we wandered at will into all our neighbours houses, called everyone’s parents Aunty and Uncle.
The State of Texas has a rich history. Being that it was literally once considered (and in some parts, still is) the "Wild West" there are a lot of things that happened. So when you drive through the state, even in the middle of nowhere, be on the look out for Black Iron Plaques called Historical Markers, that tell the story of what happened there. Growing up there was one near our home that told the story of a Comanche raising party that slaughtered (and I do mean, in detail how they died) a small family of settlers and stole the children. Sure enough, you go back into the woods in the middle of nowhere and there is still a tiny family plot of graves with nothing but prairie grass and oak trees to watch over it
It's really not, the water throwing happens on a very small scale compared to the whipping. It would also happen quite often that the men get progressively drunker during the day and end up basically whipping the s**t out of women and calling it "a bit of fun".
Load More Replies... Well, here's another BP post with nothing but negativity for the US. Look, I know there's a lotta things that suck here. We're aware of that. But there's also a lotta GOOD things, and good PEOPLE. Please stop putting us all in one ugly basket. Thanks.
We all say this all the time - that all countries have their negatives and positives, just like all people have their negatives and positives. But the people at BP that make these continuous divisive, stereotypical and biased posts do not care. But we keep saying it anyway. Maybe just for our fellow Pandas to know that we object and that it's unbalanced and unfair. Oh well.
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