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When someone is street smart, it means they have a good situational understanding and awareness. In simple words, they know what is going on around them and how to navigate that environment. The way they go about it is practical, generally resulting from real-life experience.

But since we all have different backgrounds, many of us didn't even get a chance to learn these lessons. However, you never know what situation you can end up in, and knowing how to respond to danger, or simply getting the best bang for your buck, can make a huge difference to your day.

Recently, Uber Facts, an online project that shares "the most unimportant things you'll never need to know" and one that we covered in the past, tweeted a question, asking, "People with 'street smarts,' what's your biggest street tip?" and received plenty of useful replies. So we decided to compile the best ones and give you a chance to learn something new. Continue scrolling and upvote the entries you like the most.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This needs upvoted a bazillion times!!! Good on you and thanks for posting!

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Children usually learn about their own relative smartness in school. Overwhelmingly, it is poor and/or students of color who are unjustly left feeling not good enough.

Jean Anyon discovered in her work concerning knowledge construction in schools that, "[Working class] children already 'know' that what it takes to get ahead is being smart, and that they themselves, are not [book smart]."

Additionally, Black and Latino students have been overly-represented in special education programs and gifted programs often result in re-segregating schools, where the White students attend the gifted program while students of color are tracked into 'regular' educational programming.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely. Instinct is so important - our brains pick up on changes in nuances. It could literally save your life.

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Black children as early as pre-school begin to be over-represented in what is perceived as "low ability" classes and/or classes for the "educable mentally retarded."

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As mentioned above, assignments to these classes can be devastating to the students' self-perception and they may even begin to think of themselves as not smart.

Consequently, this can lead these students to have low achievement, a lack of motivation, and a desire to drop out of school altogether. The failures of many of these children are often attributed to their own abilities rather than their school's.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great advice, I'll have to remember this when walking home alone late at night. 🤨

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As Dr. Beth Hatt said, the youth think the symbols of smartness within schools include grades, diplomas, labels, standardized tests, and participation in college prep courses.

These things are what make smartness appear "real" rather than as something socio-culturally produced. They make smartness especially powerful because it becomes extremely difficult for students to challenge the ways it gets defined and how they are constructed as smart or not smart in school.

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Simultaneously, these symbols begin to influence students' perceptions of themselves and their own abilities over time.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And 'winning' is when both parties understand each other better as a result.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a very important tip.... especially the mind your business portion.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I see de pros, but, on the other side, some may take you for a easy victim 😕

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would add that you should reverse/back into every parking space (if possible). One quick motion forward to escape is a lot easier than reversing, changing gears, then moving forward.

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Students who struggle to acquire the before-mentioned symbols of smartness are left to either perceive themselves as not smart or to reinterpret smartness.

When Dr. Hatt asked what they thought it meant to be smart, the youth responded with definitions that included learning what is being taught at school and how not to get caught by the police when selling drugs.

"However, two key themes overwhelmingly were present in their responses," Dr. Hatt said. "First, they clearly made a distinction between being book smart and street smart. Second, they refused to define smartness in a narrow way."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because lots of cars have darkened windows, we usually use the hazard warning lights' triangle button for 2 flashes.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How come? Unless you are far from a dry place you'd better run to get there before you get soaked. Well, if there's no such place around you might as well walk and apply some shampoo on your hair.

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"At first, this appeared contradictory because the youth seemed to be simultaneously defining street smart as the ultimate form of smartness while also defining smartness in a way that allowed everyone to be defined as smart."

"Eventually, I realized that these were not necessarily contradictory definitions. Instead, they were both attempts at agency in speaking back to the narrow definition of smartness that had been imposed upon them in school and an attempt at reinterpreting their own identities," Dr. Hatt said.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If their "crazy" meshes with my crazy, then they are probably a bit odd, because I am.

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When Dr. Hatt asked the youth to define smartness they were quick to define it as book smarts vs. street smarts.

Book smarts were directly connected to the symbols mentioned previously but street smarts were often defined as a direct counter to book smarts or the dominant discourse of smartness.

The following include some of the ways the youth defined street smarts:

"Able to not go into bankruptcy I guess... and stay out of trouble. Just able to survive on the street without getting into trouble, and keeping a home for yourself and everything going," Calveda.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

♪ Don't be suspicious, don't be suspicious ♪ Wait- do be suspicious!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Commit yourself to a wheelchair for a day, you'll learn that situational awareness REAL fast. And also start to understand the plight of those of us who live full time in a wheelchair or with different disabilities

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Easy solution to this is having a second email address for occasions like that. I have 2 email addresses, one for random crap and one that's important.

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"If you can make ends meet, whether you're educated or not... like in school I was a book smart type person, but when I dropped out I had to learn the street smarts part of it. And yeah, I was 19 years old, 20 years old, and I had $30,000 and I could do anything I wanted with it, but yet it was illegal," Nickili.

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"I believe I have some street smarts. Like I've never been arrested for drugs... I know not to walk around here with all these drugs on me broadcasting it. I mean, that would be stupid... I know when trouble should occur that I need to leave, and get out of that situation, or I have to handle my business, or not handle my business," Quinn.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At annATM, you need to be aware of your surroundings BEFORE you ever get close to the machine

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or stand behind one of those pillar things, so no one can push you in the pit.

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"Street smarts were connected with being able to maneuver through the structures in their lives such as poverty, the police, street culture, and abusive 'others,'" Dr. Hatt said. "This distinction is key because street smarts stress agency in countering social structures or obstacles whereas, for many of the students, book smarts represented those structures or obstacles, particularly in their efforts of passing the GED or acquiring 'papers.'"

This begs the question, why is teaching (and, in turn, learning) so fragmented? Can't we figure out a way how to teach the young in a more inclusive manner? One that doesn't force them to choose between books and the street? But that's a topic for another time.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not just on the street or whatever - this can apply to a lot of situations

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, first it's hello back, then him "what's your name", or wevs. Then the insults fly and if you're lucky, they give up. Not all men, but enough men. So no to your post, as nice as you might be.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah no. As the other women have said, this usually doesn't end well for women.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, that's a 'no" from me, dawg. Spent most of my life from about 11-20 traveling on public transportation or walking to get places, and being polite gets you almost taken to a rando's hotel. Looking pissed off and glaring gets you left alone.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not street smart in the slightest, do not do this, a stranger is still a stranger even with a smile and nice demeanour

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Out here in farm country, we say hi or wave. The city I moved here from, no WAY would I do that. Absolutely would never ever do that. It's not safe or smart in any way, shape, or form.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah. See that's so different. I live in New Orleans but I had to temporarily move up to very VERY small town Indiana when my dad passed away to fix up his house and get all of his stuff sorted n s**t and I absolutely reciprocate pleasantries from everyone here. But that's just because everyone knows everyone else & nobody is smiling or waving or asking how you're doing with the expectation of more. It's just a simple "hey!" Or a smile or wave n you go about your day. But in a city... nope. Never. Too many creeps. Too many ppl who bad intentions. Too many ppl who feel entitled to your time. Too many ppl with Ill intentions or expecting more to come of it. So I mind my damn business n I expect ppl to mind theirs n leave me alone. Lol.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is very situational. The random creep ogling women who pass by, ignore. The neighbor you occasionally see walking their dog past you on the street, engage.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Except if it's a dog: 1. a smiling dog is never happy 2. if you hear a dog to say hello, you'd better grab them and rush to a hospital; one of you isn't okay.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NO. If a man says "Hello" on the street, it's a test to see if I'm receptive to him trying to hit on me. Every f*****g time. If you are unhappy that women ignore you, blame the MILLIONS of scummy dudes who have chased us down the street because we made the mistake of smiling back, or saying hello back to them. It sucks because I would PREFER to be friendly but pigdog males have RUINED casual courtesy for the whole f*****g world.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree, although I feel like I can generally tell whether or not it's a full attention "hello" (where dude is way too interested) or just a passing mutter of "How's it goin?" and already moving on, not looking for a real reply.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not if you're a woman and the other person is a man. Unfortunately, a polite, nice response is often seen as an invitation. Google for responses on this -- women end up getting yelled at/cussed at.... or worse.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a woman, I’ll settle for a gangsta-ish head nodd to acknowledge them and be on my merry way.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

clearly a man wrote this. As a woman... I will never acknowledge a man in public like this. Even if it's just flashing a smile back.. nope. Idk how many times men have taken my "I'm just being polite" smile as an invite to come talk to me. I can't even tell you how many times a man has smiled or complimented me in public while I'm standing in line or commuting to work just because I happened to be polite he then thinks he's entitled to my time & kindness n expects me to reciprocate the interest in speaking to him. then when i politely shut it down I get yelled @ and verbally abused. So I just ignore men altogether now. Even then I still get bitched at and get told s**t like "I was just being polite! You could have just smiled back or said hi!" So if you're a woman, men already think they're entitled to your kindness... (spoiler: they're not) & even when you do smile back or say hi... they still feel entitled to more. So no. You don't owe anyone anything. Unless.... (1/2)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're like.. going into a store and a cashier acknowledges or greets you or you're in some sort of situation where a service worker is just doing their job n being polite. Then yes, of course be polite back. But in terms of strangers in public. Nope. It's safer for women to just not acknowledge men sometimes & to pretend we don't even see you. But as a whole ... you don't owe anybody anything and Vice versa.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is definitely regional. I absolutely do this because it's seen as standard politeness around here. But when traveling, I don't.

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3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There’s a tone and a look that says “I’m just being nice and now I’m done with you” and a tone for “I’m open to interacting further”. Learn the difference and use the former. I’m male and this works for me. I see females in the chat disagree so I’m open to being wrong.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For women: if you're staying in a hotel alone put something heavy in front of the door like a heavy chair or love seat.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just because you would act decent doesn't mean another would. Are women supposed to take chances with their lives and bodies every day all day long so you can have an easy score? If someone who is pissed off, has a gun and says hi to you are you going stop, say hi back and let them shoot you?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a very white man thing to say. You sir, are clueless to the life others live.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

in Baltimore when I've been in the not so great parts being nice went a long way. I always was nice to the people others were visibly nervous walking by and it never went bad for me. I'd just give a smile and say hi or excuse me to get by or if I was looking for a certain place I'd say so sorry to bother you but could you tell me where xyz is? and never once were they anything but nice about it. it seemed to me like so many people were treated as scary and it was nice for someone to walk up unafraid and be kind. even the guys selling drugs very obviously on the corners and streets were totally nice and gave me directions plenty of times. at the end of the day it's good to treat people like human beings and it really does go along way. plus I think my being a skinny little white passing girl not being afraid of every black person I see helped differentiate me from a lot of people they deal with

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agree. It takes nothing away from a person to be kind. I live downtown in a major US city and it's sad that we have come to a point where humanity is nonexistent. I stand by my point. Sometimes I see humans but no humanity. Everybody has a story; some better than others, but we all do. Just be a decent human being. It's the right thing to do

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This took a lot of getting used to. When I moved from the east coast to the Midwest. I used to be like what do you want for away.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"You can only fool someone who thinks you are weaker than them one time" - Sabretooth

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never use my cell or ear buds when I am out or walking somewhere. I use a cane and its too enticing I think, to a criminal, if they see this! I also carry my purse cross body and am prepared to use my cane as a club or weapon.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd say keep cash in multiple pockets so you can hand them the cash from your front pocket and they think they've got it all, but you've got a reserve in the back, or the other side. If they're going to steal your money, they're probably going to steal your phone. That's my tip.

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no it's not. learn to read body language, it's the most accurate form of communication on the planet.....it will save you allot of headaches and your life

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also as a woman, be ready to bend a bit and grab balls. That hurts and will drop them to the ground fast. If their pants are super low and even if belted, if you tug and pull on the legs they will drop like a sack if potatoes and lose their grip on whatever weapon they have, then you can run or call the police! If you can, hold onto their pants. If they shimmy out of them and run, you got DNA AND A WALLET or something they carry thats personal!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lol I worked at a gas station that some guy was driving around the parking lot trying to sell some speaker system I was pretty sure it was stolen....same guy? Lmao

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've had a few really bad experiences when being charitable. I've been harrassed, kept from getting into my car, threatened... because they wanted MORE.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was delivering Christmas gifts in a bad section of Orlando and was stopped my some very nicely dressed men coming home from church who were concerned for my safety. I explained my task, and they took me there, stayed on the porch, and made sure I got out of the neighborhood safely. Very nice men in a very scary neighborhood that I had no idea existed.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This! This right here is so annoying. You've obviously never went to dinner with 8 guys who all insisted they sit in that spot. So. Fripping. Annoying. No, Kevin, Donald, Goofy, Bobby, Dylan, etc. you are not a character in some novel. Your a pretentious jerk who wants everyone to believe that you secretly live a dangerous life when the most dangerous thing you do is let Grandma drive you to church on Sunday.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you go to a bar alone and it feels "rough", don't drink alcohol there. Leave.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, go ahead and trick the little independent restaurant into giving you a four cover table when you only need two. In fact, why not go the whole hog and book the entire restaurant out so you and Briony can have a little intimate time without all the NPCs crowding you out?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Met people like this. I'm a give for free anything your willing to do without. There is a lot of stuff/time I just don't care about. Like, it's nothing for me to give you 10 mins to vent or empathy if you need to tell a stranger about the recent death in the family. Want my unopened snack food, sure here. I'm going to be ok until the next meal anyway, you might not. I don't give money though. That feels like I'm being scammed. Coworker complaining about having to work this weekend and I'm not doing anything special, I'll work it and expect a polite thanks in return. Nothing else. I don't hold it over your head or demand anything tangible in return.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is a third way between being always suspicious and trusting blindly. Have some common sense. But treating everybody at first as a scammer, it' s kinda sad.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really depends what "it" is. If it's related to your job, like innovating ways of improving your work, then yea sure, but I disagree with the suggestion that you have to monetize everything you're good at.

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My boyfriend was an Army Ranger and spent 20 years in combat, he is now a State Police Lieutenant for Illinois usually assigned to the worst areas of Chicago. We both grew up together in Cicero, IL in the 70's and 80's which is rather notorious on it's own. Trust me- go with the or 4- be in the habit of carrying multiple items to defend yourself. I have at all times a pocket knife, pepper spray on my keys and in my jacket pocket and a concealed carry license. If for whatever reason those things don't work for you- go to the boat store and get yourself an emergency flare gun- I keep one in my car. Virtually no problems with legality and no one is going to mess with you once they realize they have a good chance of being hit with a flaming bar of potassium nitrate that will melt their clothes into their skin. Gruesome I know, but there are some very bad people in the world, protect yourselves.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This sounds like an exhausting and dispiriting way to go through life. Some people do care. Learning good judgment is key but automatically distrusting EVERYONE is awful. Plus indicates that you are not trustworthy (since you think literally no one is).

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What if you want to spare someone else from having to make the sacrifice that you made?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some of these are actually laughable. "Fighting skills are a must..." Surely the ability to avoid fights is more rewarding

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wise words indeed by the guy who goes by the name of 'Find God Please'. Truly righteous is the man who throws the first punch. Is a phrase that you probably won't find in the bible.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you are old enough to drink you are no longer a girl but a woman and don’t accept drinks from strangers.

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