45 Times Entitled People Got Shamed For Ruining Christmas With Their Attitude (New Pics)
While the winter holidays are said to be one of the happiest times of the year, gathering all family members and lifting the spirits up, not everyone is eager to share the joy with others.
In fact, some people make it hard for everyone around them by killing all the Christmas spirit. Blame it on their attitude problems or call them real-life Grinches, but the level of entitlement you see in this post is almost illegal.
Scroll down through the list of cases when people tried ruining the holidays like they did not exist and keep in mind that it’s not that easy. More petty ways entitled people tried stealing Christmas can be found in our previous post right here.
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Selling A Used Imac For 1200$, Woman Asks “How Low” I Would Sell It For, Or If I’d Take 800 And Some Jewelry She Makes. Oh And I Also Ruined Christmas
Has that line ever worked in the history of choosing beggars? Boo hoo, you ruined my kids birthday/Christmas/Hannukah. Has anyone ever gone "oh okay, in that case I'll come bring you this item personally, wrapped in gold paper, at half the price"?
People like that are often surrounded by lots of enablers and boat stablers within their family who bend backwards to 'keep the peace'. They're very surprised when they encounter strangers who disrupt their own headcannon of being the worlds main character because they're used of their families just giving in to their demands
Load More Replies...No. YOU ruined their Christmas by promising something that you couldn't deliver.
Maybe let them know that 'YOU' let them down by promising them something that you couldn't guarantee!
I actually got someone similar like this pming me about a guitar I was selling. Tried to give a sob story and plead how bad they needed it for way less the price I was putting it as. Like, dude. It's a guitar I had bought off someone on FB Marketplace for more than I was asking for. f**k off
I don't know any single mother who can afford 800 $ for christmas gifts
It’s no one’s fault but your own that you allowed yourself to be impregnated by a pos, TWICE.
S**t like this makes me so angry. You can pay it off on your phone plan
I used to (emphasis on used to) have a friend who used the "single mom" excuse for every freakin thing possible in the 90s. I got so sick of her thinking she was entitled to free things just because she was a single mom. that friend had to go. You can only tolerate ungrateful behaviour like that for so long. I told her she should've just kept her friggen legs closed.
Geez, Having A Relative Abandon You Like This On Christmas Is Hugely Damaging Emotionally, Not To Mention Dangerous
This goes beyond infuriating. I would have said sure and as soon as this person showed up she could have been introducing to my local PD (but I would have gone balls out on gifts for these deserving children - right before CPS showed up!)
My jaw dropped. How…..HOW?! And if she’s visiting “relatives” why not bring her children, since it’s their relatives too? She wasn’t planning on visiting relatives. And abandoning your children (with a STRANGER?) on CHRISTMAS? What a garbage person.
God id take those poor kiddos in a heartbeat and give them a wonderful Christmas with my kids! Poor babies
There was a young, single mom in an old apartment I was living in go door to door asking strangers to babysit her toddler so she could go to work at a massage parlor. (A freakin' actual illegal massage parlor.)
How Else Are People Going To Buy Christmas Presents?
That would have been the icing on the,, piano... to end with!
Load More Replies...you just KNOW these types of people would sell it on for more than 2k if they managed to actually get it for the 1k xP
“I know you have better offers, but why won’t you take half the price of what you’re offering for lil old me??”
*You're. What is it with asholes having no idea how to do the grammaring properly.
Strangers Wont Give My Kid AirPods Or Money?! Thanks For Ruining His Christmas!
@Charoltte I see your $20 and raise you airpods the kid was actually begging her not to do it, if he even knew.
Load More Replies...the response to this woman should be "oh, my kid wants airpods too! how about you buy them for him? no? YOU SELFISH HORRIBLE WOMAN"
Yeah, no... My $20 bucks are staying with me, you bottom-feeding, miserable excuse of a "mother"... You might wanna guess who actually doesn't deserve kids before opening your mouth either. Smh...
Tell the kid to save the $20 he was going to spend on each of his friends, and buy his AirPods instead.
So, when is that kind old enough to run for Senator as a republican? He seems to be well on his way with a mentality like that.
Free Christmas Isn’t Tall Or Full Enough
If I had gone out of my way to get her that tree, I would have dragged her through my coniferous hedge backwards by the ankles if I saw her complaining afterwards.
What a great tree. And this person asked for a FREE tree. What they should have asked for is a clear definition of gratitude.
Thank You For Your Service, Military Wife. Sorry We Ruined Christmas. -Walmart
Lmao keep her locked in the basement before she finds out about the easter bunny!
There are some military wives who wear it as a badge of honor, it becomes their identity, and they think they deserve as much recognition and accolades as their spouse.
Load More Replies...thanks WALMART. You ruined christmas because my little girl saw a product in your store. It's all your fault!
it's been a while so i could be wrong, but isn't the Elf on the Shelf supposed to be bought at the store to fit with the story? it would've been so easy to just say "they come from the North Pole, but get sent to stores to make it easier for us to get one"
Load More Replies...Why does she think that "military wife" had any effect on this? 1. She isn't in the military herself, marrying a soldier doesn't make you special, and 2. This whole thing has nothing to do with Christmas unless you consider Santa a reindeer warlord.
I just had to read this twice to make sure I didn't misread it. How in the actual hell can you possibly see that logic? I swear, the stupidity of some people is just astounding.
How dare they display their merchandise for sale at Walmart?! What is the world coming to?!
It's Always Like This Around Xmas Time
Here ya go. Send it to the person 🤣🤣 the little hat is cute right 24342ED3-4...3-jpeg.jpg
My Kids Won’t Have A Christmas Because I Don’t Have $20
Last comment is perfect: "I'm not responsible for whatever life choices you made." SO true!
Honestly, I hate parents like these because they bred.
Load More Replies...The old, "You ruined my kid's Christmas" quoted chapter and verse. I'm waiting for someone to say, "Yay!"
I’m going to say ‘Hooray! That was another one down’ if anyone goes like that
Load More Replies...Selling An $800 Drone With Accessories For $400 To Get A Little Christmas Money
It's amazing how entitled people think that internet strangers selling stuff are responsible for their s$hit parenting of over-promising things to their kids. Though I think the drone os for the adult in this case.
I think in a lot of cases, there is no kid. They've just made one up to justify trying to manipulate someone into giving them a free item.
Load More Replies...I had a pushy person on marketplace (FB) and because I wouldn’t play by their rules I was the one who ended up with a negative review. Equally they were giving me the creeps and I became seriously uncomfortable.
I‘m always wayting for someone to say „No mate, YOU ruined their Christmas all by yourself!“
Karen Ruining Christmas
What's the point of CPS if not for this exact scenario? If you can't be on time for the wonderful Volunteers, can't behave rationally, and ruin everyone else's time and using your kid as an excuse, you shouldn't have a kid. That's why Christmas Protection Squad should always be ready to leap into action! (to spirit away the parent and give the kid some candy) >:]
There's a few typos but it isn't badly written.
Load More Replies...A Christmas-Themed Tale Of One Entitled Woman's Quest For A Free Coffee Shop Journal
where i live, people that dont want stickers they'll ask the person behind them if they want it.
It's one thing for someone to offer to give the sticker, it's another thing to demand the sticker.
Load More Replies...Once or twice a year you can save up stickers for discounts on an amusement park. One time I was behind a couple Germans with huge carts full of stuff, they asked if I wanted the stickers. Sure! Had like 9 full cards instantly.
i had a "40% off regular priced item" coupon to a local store. i ended up buying something that was on sale, so i gave the coupon to the person in front of me. didn't cost me anything and she got to save some $$ on Christmas gifts. what's the big deal??
She Wants Me To Give Her An Apple Desktop For Free For Christmas
Bro $350 for an APPLE DESKTOP? That’s a STEAL! Those mfs cost over $1000
If it's an old one, maybe its because of that.
Load More Replies...JESUS AT THAT PRICE JUST SHUT UP AND HAND THEM THE MONEY
Yeah, no... I'd send you a Granny Smith though since you want a Christmas present and that's being nice enough...
Don’t Want To Buy Christmas Lights? You’re Ruining My Holidays!
Um.....maybe they're Jewish, Buddhist, Hindu, etc..
Load More Replies...Ok, but what if I don't celebrate christmas? Why would I go through all the effort of putting up lights?
Well, as they said in the note, "Putting lights up for other faiths count too!" OBviously you're supposed to celebrate Hannukkah, Kwanzaa, Bodhi Day, Zarthost Diso, etc. with Christmas lights.
Load More Replies...Or just don’t have time or in poor health or busy taking care of others.
Load More Replies...Hearing this makes me want to find the most inappropriate, giant stone gargoyle from the garden center and place it in my front yard with a Santa hat. There you go, now your kids will fear to even walk past my place
Oh I'd put my Halloween lights (spiders, skulls and bats) up alllll year round
Wow there was some effort put into this stupid letter wasn’t there
The worst thing is that this person probably thinks they're trying to make the world a better place by demanding that their neighbour put up lights. It's nuts. Irregardless of whether they celebrate Christmas at all, some people just don't like Christmas lights. My mum finds them tacky.
Load More Replies...A Local Family Has Been Doing A Christmas Village For Years! They Never Accepted Payment, Only Donations. They’ve Been Open For One Day This Year And Then This Happens
Lemme help you with that :D [individuals= Entitled pieces of s**t who are also running on single digits of brain cells, all of which are focused on making the biggest, stupidest and most inconvenience-causing and annoyance-causing twat out of themselves as possible.] there ya go. All my non-swear word stuff in one go
Load More Replies...Had a similar thing happen at a private garden path that the owners had opened to the public but after plants and decor getting trashed, they decided to close it
The pandemic has done something to a lot of people and not something good. I read SO MUCH of these stories - how so many people lost their manners, theri sense of community and decorum. I know the pandemic didn't leave us much choice - we HAD to isolate to slow down the spread of this disease - but we've really seen what many people are made of. And it's not pretty
Put Up Different Christmas Decorations!
"Hi...I've had the same neighbors next door for 20 years, and now they're complaining about my decorations; How do I kindly tell my nosy neighbors I want someone else living there?"
My across-the-street neighbors put up a HUGE lighted cross on the top of their house every year. I mean huge, could see this from space. Planes could land by it. The first year, I admit I was annoyed. The second year it became funny. Now, many years later, I'd miss that damn thing if it wasn't up. It makes them happy, so I'm happy for them. It's become our Christmas tradition too.
Beautiful attitude. Helps to find the humor in these situations too!
Load More Replies...And it's the same person's birthday being celebrated for the past 2000 years. So what's your point?
Doterra Choosy Beggar Rant
I tried to read it all, but the amount of emojis and randomly capitalized words is ridiculously awful.
i'd rewrite it but honestly it isn't worth reading. basically the person blew all their money on an MLM scheme, lost friends by badgering them to buy the products, begged us to buy the products or donate more than $20, demanded family and friends (if any remain at this point) to spend at least $20 on products, and called us all big old rats for feigning interest but never buying anything. jeez.
Load More Replies...Are these MLM people really so brainwashed, that even being in their lowest point, they don’t open their eyes and see how this scheme ruined their lives? So sad ☹️
What is MLM? (never mind, I just realised google exists. Multi Level Marketing... Ponzi-lite.)
Load More Replies...And domesticated ones make GREAT pets!!! MUCH better than those hamsters & gerbils that get sold to kids because "they're so cute!" But they're jumpy, bitey little bass turds. Rats are easier to train too🐁
Load More Replies...Sometimes I feel sorry for those sucked into MLM's but then I read posts like this and my feelings vanish and i just laugh. There is enough warnings out there now (especially in America where they're so rife and unregulated) about how much of a con they are and how the market is saturated with sellers. Plus potential buyers have wised up to the fact that the products are too expensive for the value and some are even dangerous and make your hair fall out like Monat! The fact she now has to demand people buy her products so she can scrap enough for rent should be all the information she needs that this is not a hustle but a scam and to abandon ship before she pumps anymore money into the lost venture. The fact that even charity shops/ goodwill won't even accept MLM inventories of failed "#bossbabes" should be a big sign it's all a con too! The Reddit sub antimlm is a mixture of shock that people can get that sucked in and laughter that people can be that blind to how much of a con they a
"The fact she now has to demand people buy her products so she can scrap enough for rent should be all the information she needs that this is not a hustle but a scam." Yeah, it's called the Sunk Cost Fallacy. She's lost so much at this point that in her mind, the only solution is to keep going. And yeah, public awareness about MLMs has skyrocketed, but there are still a lot of really stupid/naive people who get conned anyway, and it IS sad.
Load More Replies...What does it take for these people to realize that they've bought into a pyramid scheme?
Can anybody help me out with what that extra long censor bar is, that starts with R and ends with D? It looks about twenty or so letters, so it must be a real winner, and I don't want to be missing out ^_^
Sorry, had to look it up. DoTerra is essential oils.
Thanks for looking it up, I wanted to but I was afraid all I'd see on social media after that would be their ads
Load More Replies...Trying To Sell A Pony Isn't Trashy, Buying A Pony For Pictures On The Other Hand Is
A three year old is not guaranteed kid safe. It's still learning about the world and liable to find new ways to play up. It may not mean harm, but even a small pony is a strong animal. This ignoramous doesn't even know which part of the pony you sit on, let alone that a large adult shouldn't be sitting on a young animal that's still growing. It's only just old enough for light work and training.
The fact that the only bought the poor animal for photos and are now discarding him says they should never be allowed an animal. I'd pay 400 bucks to get the pony away from them
Load More Replies...How has the distinction between "living being" and "photo prop" become so blurred recently? If animals aren't being treated as expendable, bridezillas are treating wedding party members and families like dirt for the sake of the precious photos.
It's (supposedly) better than it used to be. Look at what Edison used to do! Westinghoused?!? Seriously!?! 🙀
Load More Replies...I am 36 and have been asking for a pony for 35 of those years!!! And yet someone just buys one for pics?! Ughhhhh
Hate ppl who get animals for Xmas then just gives them away shortly after animals ain't toys they have feelings
What cruel people. A pony shouldn't be used for a photo shoot and sold
yeah, you can rent them for photos from professional services
Load More Replies...Pets are not a f*****g item you can purchase and when you’re ‘done with it’ you can resell it!!! Animals feel emotion and feel pain and loss the same way humans do. You don’t buy a pet only for pictures what the hell is wrong with people fr?!? POS! Hope they NEVER IN THEIR LIFE can have pets again! Sorry for being rude and mad, human who treat animals like garbage or items are in the same category as animal abusers! Edit a typo. I’m sure it’s more because i was mad as f when I wrote this!
Ah Yes Let Me Just Deliver You A Free Fridge And Giant White Xmas Tree
i really don't understand choosing beggars. "we desperately need a refrigerator...but only if it's white or chrome." "we really need a tree...but it has to be 6' and white, and must come with decorations or we won't accept it."
Then there's the use of the word "need" for seasonal decorative frivolity. I like holiday decorations, don't misunderstand (I don't have any up right now due to cats), but there is no threat to life or health if you don't have them, thus not what I'd call a "need". More like a "want", and no, just because you want something doesn't mean it's a necessity.
Load More Replies...This is the first time I've ever seen anyone in a desperate crock pot crisis.
A friend of mine actually rather urgently needed one. She couldn't safely cook on a stove with her oxygen equipment. She now has a crockpot and is eating a lot better.
Load More Replies...Another one with poor grammar. NO RANDOM CAPITAL WORDS. ‘Your’ not equal ‘You’re’. ‘Their’ not equal ‘They’re’. I think I have a compulsive disorder help
And no 🤬 punctuation! It can actually make a difference. Sometimes, their two separate sentences can seem like one and totally change the meaning. And when you misunderstand bc of it, they have the nerve to get irked at you!?! (Helping by agreeing, it's not just you.) Can understand the you/your & their/ they're, esp as most people are ESL. BuT tHe RaNdOm CAPITALIZING... 😵💫😶🌫️🥴
Load More Replies...Jesus Christ. If you can’t even pay a cent and on top of everything need it transported to your place DON’T be picky…. If you were ‘desperate’ the colour would be irrelevant, same with how tall the 🌲 is! If you pay a fair price it’s totally okey to ‘have demands’z if it’s free STFU and be thankful for whatever people bring to you! Your f**** ungrateful idiot…
You all know the quote, "if it didn't have a 6 pack, make 6 digits and height 6 feet we don't want it".
It's An Okay Deal For Christmas Time But The Last Sentance Just Kills It
I am available to house sit a house in the swiss alps, you must pay for my visa, my traveling expenses and my food and new clothe, and you have to convince my cat that this is for the best for the two of us
You forgot the request for skis and a ski pass for the resort...
Load More Replies...I'm able to housie sit in Paris if you pay for gas, airplane tickets, and croissants. You must have a great view of the eiffel tower, and a good restaurant near by.
A lifetime ago I house sat for a guy who was an investment banker. He would fly me to his house to water the plants, feed the bird and bring in the mail. I got paid, had free food and a movie theater in the house at my disposal. You can definitely make a job out of that.
Load More Replies...I'd actually consider this, to be honest. (I don't have a pool) Good pet sitters are worth their weight in gold.
Yes, if she is a veterinary nurse i would be super comfortable leaving my pets with her because she knows exactly what she's doing.
Load More Replies..." I want you to pay me for staying at your place, using your car and eating your food for free."
Pay Me $100 And I’ll Let You Take Down My Christmas Tree, Lights, And Ornaments While I Sit There Watching You, Sipping My Drink
For the bargain price of $500, I will let you separate my recycling from my trash, bag them up and put them out in the bins. Pay an extra $10 and you can haul them to the curb.Payment in advance. You must supply your own garbage bags. My trash is your treasure!
Can I clean the house, too, if I pay 100,- extra?
Load More Replies..."Pay me for the privilege of doing my work putting away my decorations, while I loll on my throne probably making snide remarks."
Christmas Day Discounts For Second Hand Cars??
Seriously! My parents were well-off when I was a teen and I STILL paid for my own first car. I was 16 and I bought a Mazda 323 that was only 4 years younger than me with $1,500 of my own money I'd earned from my job XD It was the 90s so things were a little different than they are now in regards to gas prices and transportation XD
Load More Replies...GST = Goods and Services Tax, for any other Pandas that might be wondering. Happy Holidays.
It's almost jaw-dropping how many of these jerks, who are trying to take advantage, blame the seller for ruining their kids' Christmas. Okay, no. These days it's not...and that's sad.
Um no kid should be driving a 14000 dollar car. Their first car should be a five hundred dollar car
Son WANTS a car? I was brought up as well as my own kids... I WANT never gets.
These people who yell" CASH!" always get to me. Do they think non-businesspeople that sell their spare stuff have credit card readers?
I Do A Yearly Christmas Light Show On My House. This Lady *only* Wanted My 18ft 8000 Pixel Tree
My mom bought a single strand of these programmable fancy lights and even just the one strand was crazy expensive :/ but apparently any adult should be willing to give it up at any time because they’re “not a child”.
It was blurred out on Reddit (BP did not censor this time). Maybe they realised it wasn't a great idea to let the general public know the value of their decorations.
Load More Replies..."So much for the Christmas spirit of giving"?!? Seriously!?! ...of giving your very expensive, time-consuming, cheering the whole neighborhood, family tradition supplies... to a total stranger!!! Who could've done it sooner, just like OP. And can "just go to Amazon" themselves. 🤦🤦♀️🤦♂️
This Was On A Post About Giving Free Stuff For People In Need For Christmas
https://imgur.io/a/4iTfbm6?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app Apparently playing games with her kids is the only parental responsibility this mom is willing to take. She already HAS a PS4 and is asking for another one because she doesn't want to let the kid have gaming time on the console because SHE's playing games.
Wait a minute. Are you seriously suggesting she share her toys?????
Load More Replies...Reminds me of the neighbor I had as a kid who seriously tried to convince me to give her son my Gameboy because I was "older" than him. F that, luckily I was stubborn enough to refuse her nagging.
Adults Get Upset When They’re Given “Inexpensive” Gifts For Christmas Because They’re A Doctor Or Something Like That
Don't say "Thank you." Say, "That is incredibly sweet of you to think of us at Christmas time. We love all of our gifts and look forward to seeing you soon."
I completely agree. So many people are in dire need of practically everything, and all of those items would be greatly appreciated.
Load More Replies...Unfortunately, you'd be surprised. I used to run a small word processing business. The new second grade teacher was marginally better at spelling than the many years experienced teacher whose doctoral thesis was a cesspool of spelling, grammar, and word misuse errors.
Load More Replies...This ungrateful f*****t is upset over receiving alpaca socks? And all this other stuff? They need to lose everything in life and receive the gift of perspective.
Just to be clear, bp censored "f###wit" not some other word beginning with f and ending in t!
Load More Replies...You should spend the rest of the year comparing the value of what you sent them with what they sent you and fixating on that, because it's not the thought that counts, it's the value of the gifts. Hope you taught your kids that too.
😻Yeah, and it looks like they're made from alpaca wool. Those are nice! Ingrate! 🦙🐈⬛
Load More Replies...Where’s Your Christmas Spirit?!
$12 for 3 hours' work is obscenely cheap!! I would charge about £150 for that!
And for three hours of work!! And it's not the time it takes, it's the skill etc.
Load More Replies...Yes, really? Should be at least $150 - 300 i think. Now I don't know the circumstances but..
Load More Replies...Ok but 12 dollars. I would have been ready to pay 50 even for something simple. That logo would go on any merch, on the channel.
I never understood the choosing beggars that beg for something, then when they can't get it act like this with the "well your art is s**t anyway" THEN WHY ARE YOU SO DESPERATE FOR IT THEN DUMBASS.
Selling Gift Cards
All of these adults are throwing temper tantrums. It’s ridiculous and pathetic.
USPS Operation Santa Is A Goldmine
A 17 year old who writes like this is most likely suffering from some kind of mental disability. Certainly not greedy, just acting her mental age. This may even be an activity they did in a group home where they have all the residents write letters to Santa. I get that this list has a lot of choosing begger types on it, but this doesn't seem like one. More compassion from the BP community here would be good.
Being less of a "everyone must be a victim!" bleeding-heart MIGHT do you some good, too. Moreover, there's no reason a person (17yo) with some sort of learning disability can't be taught that "$500," a "PS5," or "iPhone 14 Pro" are expensive gifts that many, many people are unable to afford. Your post is ridiculously "woke" and I don’t care who down-votes me for saying it.
Load More Replies...She was just asking Santa, not anyone else, and anyway, like my dad used to tell me if I was being unreasonable: "It doesn't hurt to want.
OMG, this is a trip down memory lane. I got one of these packages!! I was 7, and didn’t know what Operation Santa even was, and now that I think about it, this was probably when my parents were struggling most financially. I got a watch, a necklace, a lollipop the size of my head, and a couple other things. The address on the package was 123 Elf Road, North Pole. Gosh, I felt like the most special kid in the world!
Well to be fair I want all of those things too.. I’m not getting them, but I wouldn’t mind if I did
For some reason I'm reading this like she's talking fast and running out of breath.
Finally Got One! Been Hustling Drum Parts For Over A Decade And I'm Surprised It Took This Long
i’m surprised she wants her kid to get a crash "symbol"! doesn't she know how loud Christmas morning is going to be?
For a crash cymbal? That’s cheap!!!! Also, I’d like to bet she doesn’t even have the rest of a drum set.
I was consused about "crash symbol", like, WTF is that and why her "beautiful baby buoy" needs it. Then I realized they probably mean "crash cymbal".
A Bronx Christmas
The lion, the witch and the audacity of this b***h
Load More Replies...I get great satisfaction from the fact that this Grinch has now been publicly shamed, and literally thousands and thousands of people have seen her image. Well done OP!
They don't "have" to; they just think they're entitled to take whatever they want.
Load More Replies...Someone Cut Down This Town's Public Christmas Tree Over Night. Didn't Even Steal It, Just Cut It And Left. Mayor Says It Must've Been "Completely Frustrated Vandals"
Na, das "große" Halle ist ja immer Halle (Saale), hier geht's um eine Stadt mit nur etwa einem Zehntel der Einwohner.
Load More Replies...Which culture is the Christmas tree ripped off from? It has been tradition in Germany for at least 500 years, houses were already decorated with fir twigs around 2000 years ago.
Load More Replies...Colorado Man Pooped On Picnic Table And Stole Scooter On Christmas Day
This is so disgusting. People pooping on things is absolutely putrid in every sense of the word.
Butt it looks a*s if he's looking right at the camera. What a little stinker. Maybe it's a targeted 💩ing?
You have way too many mentally unstable people running around over there. 😳
Merry Christmas From Hagerstown, MD
As much as I hate it when OP throw political rhetoric into unrelated posts... I'd have to agree😿
Load More Replies...I'm from Maryland, and can say that we don't take too kindly to asholes like him. This is a very left-leaning state.
Everything I Don't Like Is "Communism!": An Immature Adult's Guide To Political Discussions On The Internet Or Social Media
Mother Demands You Only Buy Specific Gifts For Birthday And Holiday. For Context, The Child Is Like 4 Years Old
Amazon wish list exists to help with this kind of thing. A friend does one for her kids and it's been very useful to make sure I'm giving the exact Lego/Pokemon whatever they want, and at a price I want to spend on them.
Yes. But those lists don‘t force you to buy at least x gifts or spend y amount of money!
Load More Replies...My sister does this for my nephew. He's a special needs kid who can't handle the unexpected. If he knows what he gets and from who, then he's fine.
I kinda do think it's awful. Maybe I'm just ornery but my hackles go right up when someone thinks they get to decide how much of my money I'm going to spend and dictate exactly what I buy as a gift. A gift is at the discretion of the purchaser. While it is ideally something that the gift receiver wants, it is incredibly rude to be so demanding not to mention the entitlement it is teaching to the child. I wouldn't be mad if I got a text saying , "Hey, this is what she wants", but I'll be damned if I'm gonna let somebody dictate what I'm gonna do. I work for the money, I get to decide what I spend it on.
Specific gifts are ok as long as you don‘t force people to buy anything or spent a specific amount of money.
Parent says they are very particular about this and their child gets that from them. Or are they teaching their child that way? (Unless there is a legit issue, such as autism, etc.)
I don't find this entitled... It's a 'mare having a kid whose birthday is just after Christmas and the obvious "regifts" you get are dreadful. I suspect it's because people don't have any money. For birthday parties we used to say gifts were welcome but not necessary. Having a list of who is buying what for which occasion is really useful - it wasn't about money, more about getting gifts they actually wanted.
It Was Just A Prank Bro!!!
Sure. Where do you want it? I shall hack into system
Load More Replies...I’m Trying To Get My Husband The 2 Gifts He Wants For Christmas But Please I Need Friends & Family To Actually Pay For It
I mean, this isn't awful in of itself, but usually people in my family coordinate it not on social media and it's from EVERYONE. This sounds like they want all of the credit.
They also did not include themselves in their calculations. All of the credit and none of the contribution
Load More Replies..."We didn't do anything for his birthday because as you can see we're really cheap so now I want YOU to pay for his presents. Because we're cheap. Did I mention that?"
So let me see if I’ve got this right; YOU want to make his Christmas “one for the books” at OUR expense? Yeah, no.
Grinch Steals Amazon Van As The Driver Is Delivering Package
the trucks have tracker GPS's in them, police can find it in a quick minute
Yeah, I'm sure it wasn't the truck they were interested in.....
Load More Replies...This 22 Year Old Man Is Upset That His Family Didn't Buy Him A Bigger LEGO Set For Christmas, Or Any Video Games
When I was about twelve, my dad didn't have work for several months. Mom and Dad explained to us there wouldn't be a whole lot of gifts that year. We understood.
You at twelve were more mature than this mewling suck-a-thumb. The only present he deserves is a generous donation to Planned. Parenthood in his honor.
Load More Replies...Apparently, a certain overgrown child has failed to notice that costs for actual NECESSITIES are climbing. Does he expect his relatives to skimp on things they actually need for life and health to buy him better toys?
My Little Pony? Fictional character crush? Oh hell, it's a Brony - not surprising, but that's where the weirdos come from, together with the body pillow neckbeards. Really, most of us videogame enthusiasts aren't like that, but the black sheep we have are really dark as the night itself.
Honestly adults cause this…you spend a kids life showering them with whatever they want once year and then they reach an age and it just stops after you have conditioned that kid from birth to expect to get what they want during that one time of year… what do you think is going to happen? 😂
He must be surrounded by enablers. His poor behavior has obviously been reinforced in the past
Some People Were Complaining About Grass And Christmas Lights
"I deserve that because I'm wealthy"...? There's something else you deserve more, you %#@*π¶®.
Yeah. That comment makes me think this is satire. It’s probably aimed at someone else living in that neighborhood who’s behaving like a twit.
Load More Replies...How about you offer to cut their grass for free? Or use your wealth to gift them lawn services? Sheesh.
That’s funny ‚cause In the Tall Grass is actually a horror movie on netflix. *sniggers*
Load More Replies...I think that this is a sarcastic/trolling reply to someone else's privileged/entitled complaint(s).
Absolutely! Just like it would be incredibly rude of you and your family to slowly starve to death in front of us. At least you could have the courtesy to do it out of sight. As an aside: Years ago I would believe this was a troll post, but I have become cynical enough to think it's probably all too real.
I think that Violet & Liz are correct. OP did the same thing as you just did.
Load More Replies...Free Offer Is Not Good Enough For Choosing Beggar
Santa's hours on Saturday are REALLY long and only one, thirty-minute break.
I worked as an assistant and didn’t get a single break. Santa only did to fix his beard.
Load More Replies...Oh yes, "They NEED TO" spend all of that time, every day for a month... getting dressed up, setting up/tearing down/ arranging, traveling, cleaning up after y'all, etc. To GIVE you the FREE opportunity to take FREE pictures with the VOLUNTEER Santa. "Cas some kids" are too busy that day. 🤦🤦♀️🤦♂️
Free Christmas Gifts For Your Children And Free Money? Why Bother
Reminds me of doing toys for tots. Some people would complain for not getting "enough" free toys and felt they deserved more. Thankfully, there we're people who really appreciated what they got. One mother had tears of joy when we went through and found many items of her son's favorite cartoon character.
I was so very grateful the year I was encouraged to get presents for my son from Toys for Tots. I was feeling ashamed to have to ask for help, but they were all so gracious and kind about it and he really enjoyed his gifts! We really were appreciative.
Load More Replies...Every year my husband and I would drop off a new, unwrapped toy to a local church that gave them out to those in need. We always tried to get something really nice. One year it was a large, remote control monster truck with working headlights and realistic sound. It took a lot of batteries so we included those also. Months later my husband was talking to a friend who was with an acquaintance of theirs. He was talking about the church and donations and the acquaintance said "oh, we go there every year and pick up some extra gifts for the kids." My husband said "extra"? She replied, "Sure. We get them the big stuff and then we get some other toys there for them to unwrap. I mean...they're free so why not?" WTF?????
When you are truly needy... you are appreciative for ANY help you get. Have been there, and was able to get out..
🤦Seriously?!?🤦♀️ Btw, puzzles and sleds are more fun when you play with them together. Books too, when you take turns, then discuss them. "Just wow. So sad..." for your kids.
This year I've taken my grandkids Christmas shopping so they could choose their own presents for Mum & Dad. My 7 year old grandson spends more time with me as his sister is in early childhood where Mum is a teacher. He asked what the Giving Tree was for, I explained and he asked to donate and how much could spend. He chose toys he and his little sister would enjoy to donate. He had zero expectation of "getting something as a reward for being kind". Instead, he asked me to help him choose or make gifts for all his cousins, aunties and uncles. We made Snowman Soup for the adults 😊
Merry Christmas
Actually this is a funny Christmas card. Well, attempting to be funny.
I’m Honored To Have My First CB This Christmas
BP left off the end! the grey person sent two more messages that make it seem more fitting in this list: "I see it as getting paid for a piece more so than a discount" and then "I want [won't?] have this $500 another day just letting you know"
Even as is, it seems more of a chancer than choosing beggar. They didn't get nasty or beg for freebies.
Load More Replies...Peloton Beggar Unhappy With Their Gift
I read the original story. The 15000 is workout minutes and peleton sent them a pair of leggings and top from their store.
Complaining that a corporate reward scheme doesn't send everyone the same items/value of items for reaching a designated number of points is perfectly valid. If Pelaton's corporate policy is "all customers get a free gift when they hit 15000 minutes" then they obviously should ensure that free gift is the same for everyone.
Google maps sent me a free pair of socks for being a big reviewer! Awesome day! 😁
Karen, plenty of people could pay their rent for a YEAR for what you apparently consider an inadequately luxurious gift. I could, and I live in California!
I apparently misunderstood and thought she meant 15,000 dollars. Never mind me.
Load More Replies...I Honestly Don’t Even Know What To Say For This One
Honestly I get this kid. Dad brings in a new wife and step kid and then money likely saved by the deceased mom and dad specifically for this kid to get an education is taken and used on the new step kid, leaving the son with nothing does suck a lot. The real problem is of course the broken American healthcare system, but Dad should have exhausted every other option before essentially stealing from his son. Not being able to go to college or being stuck with crippling debt is a handicap for life. Also a result of the broken American system. But I don't think he is wrong to be mad at his parent. HE didn't marry the woman or her kid and yet HE ends up bearing a large consequence because of his father's actions and the father refuses to acknowledge that.
I’m amazed at how much info you got from this entry that I missed. Like how the dad didn’t exhausted every option before choosing to spend his money and how the father never acknowledged that the kids had a right to be upset. If the money has been saved by the mother alone, the kid would’ve definitely mentioned that in their rant as it would bolster their argument. You’re not very good at reading between the lines.
Load More Replies...So when the mother dies the father inherited everything? I am asking because here in Germany the so'n would have inherited half of everything the mother left and if both parents saved up for the Kid, the father would Not bei able to spend it alone. But then ... He would not need to pay stepson's treatment in full. And the poster would not need to pay University. So I have difficulties to see whether tis really ist wenig to demand.
Yes. Something similar happened in my family: the father passed and left kids with a college fund, the mother used it to bankroll bad real estate deals and lost it all in 10 years before they made it to college. She had to pay tax penalties since it wasn't used for education, but that's it.
Load More Replies...NTA for breaking contacts with the family. The fund was a gift from a deceased mother to OP. Father took it and gave it to his new girlfriend whose responsibility it was to take care of her own childern, not the fathers'. That's a serious no. YTA for conditioning Christmas by paying the debt. Should have simply cut the contact.
have to agree w ginny. if this money was set aside for a particular person; then it was used on the new spouses kid. i would be resentful too, esp if the marriage failed. seems tome that the parent at least owed it to his own child to ask if it was acceptable to give up his future.
Everyone in this scenario needs individual and family therapy. This one is just sad.
We could use more information here. Why didn't the step-brother's father and maternal/paternal family help pay for his medical treatment? OP's father shouldn't have used all of his son's higher education savings for this. However, this doesn't excuse OP for demanding that he get this money in exchange for spending Christmas With his father.
Gross. On An Autism And Adhd Support Page
No Coffee On Christmas!?
Excuse Me Mam, *I* Don’t Even Have An Oculus
Hey I just met you and this crazy we started talking clothes size so give me money maybe.
I didn't think those things were considered to be a good idea if you have seizures.
“Ship Asap For Xmas”
Buyer is paying $5.50 for shipping and bought on the 22nd of December. Buyer also expects this to show up in time for Christmas, which would require a rushed delivery with a much more expensive price tag.
Load More Replies...Gift Idea…
I received notice that a package I had been waiting for was delivered, along with a photo of the package at my front door. I had to dislodge the cats before I walked across my not-very-large apartment to get it. When I opened the door there was not only no package, but the thief was just leaving. The guy laughed in my face before scampering down the stairs. To his surprise, I laughed at him right back. I have long Covid, and need supplemental oxygen. The nice, big box the thief was carrying contained... 5 flare-tipped cannulas, and 50 feet of green plastic tubing. I wish I could have been there when he opened it up! Merry Christmas, dear Pandas!
Regardless… I’m so sorry that happened to you! And too bad it wasn’t a case full of enemas or glitter poop bomb instead.
Load More Replies...There's a supermarket in the UK called Marks and Spencer. It's higher end, quite a bit more expensive, slightly better quality. On Christmas Eve, they reduce a lot of the prepacked food, to less than half price. Then the predatory behaviour begins. The middle class, middle aged women with their white BMWs and Audis (very able to afford anything they want at full price) begin to gether around the "reduced price" section. They lurk, circling the aisles, waiting to pounce. Then the underpaid supermarket worker appears, the least experienced, the newest member of staff. (the older, more experienced colleagues, bearing the scars of previous years, unwilling to suffer once again) unaware of the carnage about to be visited upon them. They take the slightly better quality products, close to the "use by" date. And start to label them with bright yellow stickers "HALF PRICE". This is the signal, this is the golden beacon of calling, for the middle class, middle aged ladies to attack.
They sharpen their elbows, revv their trolleys, prepare their sneers, and charge. The poor supermarket worker has no idea what they are about to suffer. The first ticket is appied to "pigs in blankets", a dozen grasping, pearl laden arms reach for the flimsy plastic and cellophane package. It hasn't, and never will reached the shelf. The supermarket worker, is shocked, frightened, but determined. She applies another sticker to another package. Surely if she can put a few more stickers on a few more packages of festive sausages and prawns, the mob will be sated. But alas she has underestimated the greed of the middle class, and the lure of the golden ticket of slightly reduced prices. The more she reduces, the faster she works, the greater the crowd. The call of "bargain M&S festive treats" has gone out. More White BMWs and Audis enter the car park, more elbows, more not-quite-designer coats, more determined eyebrows enter the supermarket. Politeness and decorum have been abandoned.
Load More Replies...I didn't keep an exact count, but something like half of these are reruns from last year.
I think these things have a half life of 3 years.,.
Load More Replies...Oh I got one this year. So just under 2 weeks ago I was at Disney World (a VERY short trip). On my last day I was at one of the parks and browsing FB while eating some food. There is a local Disney group I'm part of and a lady was asking for help to pick up from the parks. I told her I'm at a park and see if they have the item in the gift shop. They did! It was a fairly large plush and I only have a carry on + personal item I'm flying with, so we worked out she would pay price of item & taxes +$10 for me picking it up and it using so much of my luggage space. I was super happy to help someone since my trip was bittersweet. I got home and became sick the next day. A few days later she offered to pick up since I couldn't go out. I disinfected my hands prior to handling the plush and put it in front of my door, she slipped the money under my door. She texted thank you but noticed a spot. I'm like, I did not notice that when picking it out. Hope your kid loves it regardless! She texted ...
... she was sobbing cause it wasn't what she paid for (cause of the spot, which could have easily been spot cleaned) and she wanted a refund. I told her no, I'm not a business, I couldn't afford that. She accused me of not caring and ruining Christmas for them. I explained text isn't great to convey compassion and I'm super sick, so I'm not very eloquent right now. This lady says "I've been sick 1.5 years!" And starts talking about being a single mom that can't afford things and hospital visits. I was like, no. She threatened to report me to the group admin and she has quite a lot of pull in the group. I was like, what the heck? In our discussions I made it clear I wasn't a personal shopper, it never occurred to me to check for spots. So I contacted the group admin, explained what happened and their first response was: "It was nice you offered to pick it up for her". At least the admin wasn't dramatist. I swear, like, I've never encountered that before.
Load More Replies...Starting to feel these people should be named and shamed, maybe it might put a stop towards it and others from even doing it.
We have a "free stuff" page locally on FB. We all know exactly who will be asking for everything they possibly can! I put out a bag of clothes on FB 2 years ago. I had one woman pester me for days to take pictures, when I had already described the items. She wanted to sell them at the flea market! When she saw the pictures, she said no. Not even "no, thanks". People, these were nice clothes and in style, but too small for my fam. Yeah, not gonna do that again.
Well, maybe she has a small dog with a large antler tied to his head.
I received notice that a package I had been waiting for was delivered, along with a photo of the package at my front door. I had to dislodge the cats before I walked across my not-very-large apartment to get it. When I opened the door there was not only no package, but the thief was just leaving. The guy laughed in my face before scampering down the stairs. To his surprise, I laughed at him right back. I have long Covid, and need supplemental oxygen. The nice, big box the thief was carrying contained... 5 flare-tipped cannulas, and 50 feet of green plastic tubing. I wish I could have been there when he opened it up! Merry Christmas, dear Pandas!
Regardless… I’m so sorry that happened to you! And too bad it wasn’t a case full of enemas or glitter poop bomb instead.
Load More Replies...There's a supermarket in the UK called Marks and Spencer. It's higher end, quite a bit more expensive, slightly better quality. On Christmas Eve, they reduce a lot of the prepacked food, to less than half price. Then the predatory behaviour begins. The middle class, middle aged women with their white BMWs and Audis (very able to afford anything they want at full price) begin to gether around the "reduced price" section. They lurk, circling the aisles, waiting to pounce. Then the underpaid supermarket worker appears, the least experienced, the newest member of staff. (the older, more experienced colleagues, bearing the scars of previous years, unwilling to suffer once again) unaware of the carnage about to be visited upon them. They take the slightly better quality products, close to the "use by" date. And start to label them with bright yellow stickers "HALF PRICE". This is the signal, this is the golden beacon of calling, for the middle class, middle aged ladies to attack.
They sharpen their elbows, revv their trolleys, prepare their sneers, and charge. The poor supermarket worker has no idea what they are about to suffer. The first ticket is appied to "pigs in blankets", a dozen grasping, pearl laden arms reach for the flimsy plastic and cellophane package. It hasn't, and never will reached the shelf. The supermarket worker, is shocked, frightened, but determined. She applies another sticker to another package. Surely if she can put a few more stickers on a few more packages of festive sausages and prawns, the mob will be sated. But alas she has underestimated the greed of the middle class, and the lure of the golden ticket of slightly reduced prices. The more she reduces, the faster she works, the greater the crowd. The call of "bargain M&S festive treats" has gone out. More White BMWs and Audis enter the car park, more elbows, more not-quite-designer coats, more determined eyebrows enter the supermarket. Politeness and decorum have been abandoned.
Load More Replies...I didn't keep an exact count, but something like half of these are reruns from last year.
I think these things have a half life of 3 years.,.
Load More Replies...Oh I got one this year. So just under 2 weeks ago I was at Disney World (a VERY short trip). On my last day I was at one of the parks and browsing FB while eating some food. There is a local Disney group I'm part of and a lady was asking for help to pick up from the parks. I told her I'm at a park and see if they have the item in the gift shop. They did! It was a fairly large plush and I only have a carry on + personal item I'm flying with, so we worked out she would pay price of item & taxes +$10 for me picking it up and it using so much of my luggage space. I was super happy to help someone since my trip was bittersweet. I got home and became sick the next day. A few days later she offered to pick up since I couldn't go out. I disinfected my hands prior to handling the plush and put it in front of my door, she slipped the money under my door. She texted thank you but noticed a spot. I'm like, I did not notice that when picking it out. Hope your kid loves it regardless! She texted ...
... she was sobbing cause it wasn't what she paid for (cause of the spot, which could have easily been spot cleaned) and she wanted a refund. I told her no, I'm not a business, I couldn't afford that. She accused me of not caring and ruining Christmas for them. I explained text isn't great to convey compassion and I'm super sick, so I'm not very eloquent right now. This lady says "I've been sick 1.5 years!" And starts talking about being a single mom that can't afford things and hospital visits. I was like, no. She threatened to report me to the group admin and she has quite a lot of pull in the group. I was like, what the heck? In our discussions I made it clear I wasn't a personal shopper, it never occurred to me to check for spots. So I contacted the group admin, explained what happened and their first response was: "It was nice you offered to pick it up for her". At least the admin wasn't dramatist. I swear, like, I've never encountered that before.
Load More Replies...Starting to feel these people should be named and shamed, maybe it might put a stop towards it and others from even doing it.
We have a "free stuff" page locally on FB. We all know exactly who will be asking for everything they possibly can! I put out a bag of clothes on FB 2 years ago. I had one woman pester me for days to take pictures, when I had already described the items. She wanted to sell them at the flea market! When she saw the pictures, she said no. Not even "no, thanks". People, these were nice clothes and in style, but too small for my fam. Yeah, not gonna do that again.
Well, maybe she has a small dog with a large antler tied to his head.
