Man Stunned By His Neighbor’s Entitlement Who Designated His Home As A Drop-Off For His Deliveries
Neighbors sometimes sure do get up to some weird stuff, don’t they? It’s like some people’s goal is to make starting up the lawnmower at 6AM on a Saturday the least weird thing they can do.
But I firmly believe that what makes their actions even weirder is if they get up to some weirdness and you never talk about it – it’s like you can’t even comprehend what they’re thinking.
This is the backdrop for today’s odd story, when a man tried turning his neighbor’s house into a post office.
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Directing parcels to be delivered to your neighbor if you’re out on business may have unforeseen consequences
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A person took it online to vent about his neighbor who just put up a sign to deliver packages to his door while he was out, without even asking
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The poster decided not to put up with the audacity and just refused the packages from the couriers
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When the neighbor came to get his packages, he was left feeling a bit deflated and promptly removed the sign
You see, it’s just as I said in the intro – this whole thing wouldn’t even be a story if the neighbor had just talked about it with the poster and asked for a favor. But again, it got weird since it’s impossible to even guess what the guy was thinking when he was doing it. Especially when he knew he was going to get at least 3 parcels soon enough.
Even worse, he’s soured the deal for any other neighbors, as the poster had a history of taking in parcels when they weren’t around, but not anymore.
Turns out even the customary British politeness has its limits.
Taking in deliveries for neighbors is a hotly debated issue. An 11-page discussion about a similar situation on Gransnet is a testament to this.
Many railed against it, saying that you shouldn’t ask people for such favors and even more so not take in any packages yourself. Peeps emphasized the fact that once you take possession of the parcel, you’re responsible for it.
Besides any accidents you yourself may have with it, such as dropping or misplacing it, it’s possible for the recipient to blame you for something, ranging from damaging the contents of the package to stealing it outright.
A person by the name of User7777 even said that one of his parcels had been handed to a neighbor with dementia, who then misplaced it for months, it being found by a relative doing some decluttering.
There is also another camp advocating for accepting parcels, no matter what. Their main slogan seems to be along the lines of: “For goodness sake. Give and take!” as said by one of the writers there.
Funnily enough, on the last few pages, that thread deteriorates to some form of delusional ranting by one of the commenters, sparking outrage and infighting. Oh, internet.
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Eurosender talks about this practice in depth. They point out several ways the arrangement can go awry: your neighbor may not give you back the parcel, deny ever having gotten it or even have it stolen from their place, in rare cases.
Another important thing to keep in mind is that when they sign for the delivery, they’re basically agreeing that it was delivered in a good state, which another person may not care as much about as you do. If you’re a fan of opening packages yourself and the damage is only apparent after opening the shipment, that’s one more thing to be wary about.
Of course, all this alarmist talk aside, if you’re pals with your neighbors, you’re most likely totally safe. Even more so if you’ve been neighbors for years and years. Just don’t forget that you should return the favor!
The story collected almost a thousand upvotes, with more than 200 comments to boot. Many people suggested solutions to the problem, such as charging for the parcels per day of safekeeping or posting a sign that says “delivered parcels will be considered as unsolicited gifts.” In all honesty, far more people were appalled at the audacity and rudeness of the neighbor.
UK politeness is a double-edged sword.
What would you even call behavior like this? We’ve got porch pirates for people who steal packages off – you guessed it – porches, so what do we call these people? Freelance mailmen? Post reDirectors? Oh I give up. But you should give your best suggestions and thoughts about the story in the comments down below!
The community were stunned by the neighbor’s audacity and jokingly suggested doing something nefarious with the parcels
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What if they were sending drug parcels to your house or other illegal s**t? I watch shows like "To Catch A Smuggler" and a lot of packages go through the airport are flagged for drugs and then the police follow the packages to the delivery and arrests whoever picks them up. You could get charged as an accessory to drug trafficking. I'm a prophet of doom so I always like to assume the worst to prevent the worst from happening.
One of the people commenting said that they had someone send parcels to their house that later turned out to be part of a credit card fraud/identity theft case, so I believe your point is valid.
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Who the hell that without asking? If they ask and you agree, cool. I would take a package for a neighbor I'm friendly with. But someone I don't know? Nope.
Asking for permission is key. I'd even be willing to do it for a neighbour I didn't know well. But I'd expect them to ask first. I mean for starters they're making a heck of an assumption that you'd even be home to accept the package. Before you get to questions of "do I want to accept it" or "will I steal it".
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Three problems I have with deliveries. First, who's to blame if you sign for an item that's broken. Second, since covid a lot no longer do signatures, they just take a quick picture of you opening the door with the package on the steps, by the time you pick it up they are long gone. And finally I've had neighbour that I have never talked to, get quite upset that I haven't redelivered their item to them because, tied/rain/busy/etc
I do take in parcels for neighbours if I'm well enough to handle human interaction on the day in question, but my neighbours do know they have to come to me to pick it up since I'm disabled. My next door neighbours are also kind enough to bring a parcel to me on the odd occasion they've taken one in for me. That said, it doesn't happen that much any more - the postie seems to have gone off the idea of delivering to a neighbour, and of course Evri don't bother; they just advertise to all and sundry that I'm not home by leaving parcels on the doorstep.
Load More Replies... What if they were sending drug parcels to your house or other illegal s**t? I watch shows like "To Catch A Smuggler" and a lot of packages go through the airport are flagged for drugs and then the police follow the packages to the delivery and arrests whoever picks them up. You could get charged as an accessory to drug trafficking. I'm a prophet of doom so I always like to assume the worst to prevent the worst from happening.
One of the people commenting said that they had someone send parcels to their house that later turned out to be part of a credit card fraud/identity theft case, so I believe your point is valid.
Load More Replies... Who the hell that without asking? If they ask and you agree, cool. I would take a package for a neighbor I'm friendly with. But someone I don't know? Nope.
Asking for permission is key. I'd even be willing to do it for a neighbour I didn't know well. But I'd expect them to ask first. I mean for starters they're making a heck of an assumption that you'd even be home to accept the package. Before you get to questions of "do I want to accept it" or "will I steal it".
Load More Replies... Three problems I have with deliveries. First, who's to blame if you sign for an item that's broken. Second, since covid a lot no longer do signatures, they just take a quick picture of you opening the door with the package on the steps, by the time you pick it up they are long gone. And finally I've had neighbour that I have never talked to, get quite upset that I haven't redelivered their item to them because, tied/rain/busy/etc
I do take in parcels for neighbours if I'm well enough to handle human interaction on the day in question, but my neighbours do know they have to come to me to pick it up since I'm disabled. My next door neighbours are also kind enough to bring a parcel to me on the odd occasion they've taken one in for me. That said, it doesn't happen that much any more - the postie seems to have gone off the idea of delivering to a neighbour, and of course Evri don't bother; they just advertise to all and sundry that I'm not home by leaving parcels on the doorstep.
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