There’s no such thing as the ‘perfect’ workplace, but that’s not an excuse not to make life better for your colleagues. And it certainly doesn’t excuse creating a toxic atmosphere that makes employees disillusioned and forces them to burn out and quit.

Life coach Lindsay Hanson asked her followers to share the moment that they realized their workplace was toxic and problematic, and wow, did the responses flood in. These blew our minds with how much they remind us of the Corpo culture in ‘Cyberpunk 2077’ (you’d better believe all of us are living the dystopian nightmare). Upvote the stories that left the biggest impressions on you and share your own workplace moments that left you shocked by how far from ok things were.

Eddy Ng, the James and Elizabeth Freeman Professor of Management at Bucknell University in Lewisburg, Pennsylvania, told Bored Panda that employees might be able to look into workplace health and safety regulations for help if their managers and HR aren't responsive to details about harassment or bullying. "Many jurisdictions are beginning to include mental health under workplace and occupational health regulations." Read on for our full interview with Professor Ng, as well as for our in-depth chat with Lindsay.

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#1

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic When I called to inform my boss that I was unable to come in due to my 4-month-old daughter being kidnapped, they threatened to fire me because it 'sounded dramatic'.

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wandile dludlu
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2 months ago

Okay... that's a horrible experience right there.

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#2

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic I had a manager when I worked at McDonald's who was harassing me over something that was not in my control to the point where a customer told her to stop.

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me
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2 months ago

Wow, the turns have tabled. But to be serious, that's awful

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#3

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic When I was giving birth, I got a call from my boss asking if I was gonna have my report turned in and if I was coming back the following day.

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Hans
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2 months ago

Impressive!

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Lindsay told Bored Panda that she believes that each and every one of us is responsible for setting the boundaries for what we're willing to tolerate. Whether or not you have the support of HR, you still have the option to talk to your superiors about any situations that make you uncomfortable or set your alarm bells ringing.

"If you feel that there's nothing you can do to change the situation and the company or people involved are unwilling to change, then you have to decide whether you're willing to stay in that environment or not," she told Bored Panda. Lindsay added that whether or not you should stay and try to change your organization for the better depends entirely on you. "A good question to ask yourself is, even if this toxic situation were to change, would I still want to work here?"

In Lindsay's opinion, we all have two options: choosing to find happiness (or contentment, at least) in the position you're in now or looking for a way out. And we shouldn't feel imprisoned by the fact that there's a global pandemic going on. "The idea that you can't change your situation due to the pandemic is very limiting. There are still companies hiring. There are still ways to make money on your own. There is always a way to change your current situation—telling yourself you're stuck feels very limiting," she said.

#4

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic I went to leave on time, and I was asked if I was working a half day. My manager's argument was that if I could leave on time, I clearly didn't have enough work, and I should be working late every single night.

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Hans
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2 months ago

Sounds healthy!

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#5

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic My senior at my first assignment required the young female members of staff to give up half their lunch break for BIBLE STUDY so that we could "learn our place".

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Tiffany Marie
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2 months ago

Not sure where you worked or a school, but religion needs to not be in a work place. Also, just eww.

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#6

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic I was pregnant and working at Subway and my coworker had a heat stroke because they wouldn't fix the air conditioning. I had to work around him passed out on the floor with EMTs trying to wake him up because the owner wouldn't close the store. Instead of fixing the air for me to be safe with my unborn child, all the owner did was say, 'Hey, good job getting through that.'

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Aroace tiger
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2 months ago

Thats dangerous. Was the coworker ok?

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"Again, it comes back to what you're willing to tolerate. You can do everything in your power to bring attention to the toxic situation and attempt to change it. And at the end of the day, you always have control over your own mindset, how you're reacting to the situation, and how much you let it affect you."

Meanwhile, Professor Ng from Bucknell University explained that if the problems in the workplace concern derogatory comments (like unwanted or unwelcome jokes), a human rights complaint might be the right course of action. "Employers (managers and HR) can be held responsible for inaction," he told Bored Panda.

"If repeated complaints about the toxic workplace to the manager or HR fall on deaf years, then it is indicative that the employer is not taking the concern seriously and it's the cue that you should switch employers/workplace," Professor Ng pointed out that there comes a limit where an employee should take charge and make major career changes.

#7

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic I went to go tell my boss and said that I had finally planned my wedding and my honeymoon. She told me, 'No, that's not gonna work for us' because it's on a certain date that our magazine gets published — even though I had told her more than six months in advance. I was a salesperson, so my job was done by the time the magazine gets published.

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E Menendez
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2 months ago (edited)

LOL - I don't know why people think saying no at the last minute would work. I had a boss that tried to pull something similar by saying I needed to change my plans because someone else more senior needed the time off. They let me go after I said I would only if they reimbursed me for the airfare and travel expenses I would have lost due to prepayments, etc. But I knew I had to get out because now I was no longer a "team player".

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#8

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic When I worked at a daycare and a one year old was left outside in the cold FORGOTTEN for 30 minutes and his teachers weren't reprimanded at all and the parents weren't notified.

Or maybe when the teacher threw a water bottle at an infant in his crib because he woke up and she wasn't ready to deal with him yet.

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Juan Hernandez
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2 months ago

wtf

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#9

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic I had two bosses. One of them told me to my face during a company outing that I would never get the promotion I wanted unless I slept with one of them because "that's how corporate works" I told him that didn't work for me, and later found out he and my other boss were sleeping with various other coworkers of mine.

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Aayse
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2 months ago

what a twisted deal

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However, you should also look out for signs that the organization is responding to feedback as well. "If management makes an effort for change, then it would be an opportunity to assist with that change. Many organizations are not addressing systemic discrimination and are engaging with employees with this change."

Professor Ng told Bored Panda that choosing to quit is a tough decision that depends on a person's ability to switch employers based on their financial situation, life stage, ability to adapt, and other things. "This is also exacerbated by the pandemic. If the toxic environment becomes a health concern and the employer is not responsive, you can quit and sue the employer for constructive dismissal," he said.

#10

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic We were at a company festival, and my then-boss had taken a bunch of drugs the night before, so I think he was still high the next morning. We were all chilling by the pool, and he shared with me that he was dying of cancer. I had a sister who had passed two years earlier, so being the sympathetic person I am, I started to give him advice. He then turned around and said, 'I'm just f**king with you.' I quit a month later.

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Paizleypie
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2 months ago

What kind of a$$hole . . . ?

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#11

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic When I was trying on a menstrual cup for the first time, and I bled through my pants. I was two hours away from home, so no one could bring me pants. I wasn't allowed to leave, so I had to work a 12-hour shift in bloody pants. It was disgusting.

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MomaBear
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2 months ago

I am appalled, what’s wrong with some people?

blugeagua
Community Member
2 months ago

Why not have some compassion Lily Mae? They may have been told that they didn't need to wear a pad and that everything would be fine. We don't know what they actually did to prepare for that. So don't judge. Instead judge their boss who treated them horribly.

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Tiffany Marie
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2 months ago

The work place right? Because it sounds like the work place is more disgusting then your bloody pants.

Something
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2 months ago

Human beings are not supposed to be denied such basic freedoms.

John Louis
Community Member
2 months ago

This should have been considered a medical emergency.

Black Goat of the Woods
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2 months ago (edited)

Should have shat your pants on top of it, see how they like that.

Callie Ge
Community Member
2 months ago

I would have got up & walked out, you don’t need permission to go clean yourself up.

PattonPawter
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1 month ago

I’m sorry but what is a menstrual cup?

M Kate McCulloch
Community Member
2 months ago

A high school teacher wouldn't let me leave to change a tampon once - only once. He asked me in a panic if I wanted to go to the bathroom when the blood started leaking off the chair and onto the floor. I said I was not about to get up now - why doesn't he go call my dad to bring me new clothes and get me something to cover my backside while I walk to the nurses office... he never ever made another woman wait to change her tampon...

Patty Leaton
Community Member
2 months ago

I would fake faint

Kim Lorton
Community Member
2 months ago

That is abuse it is also abuse to humiliate you, by not letting you get some protection and new pants. After this happened to me, I started keeping a change of clothes in my car.. undies etc. for period accidents or some blood or other body fluids from a patient.. I always kept a container of pads and tampons with me in the car. Just in case me or someone else had a need!

Cathy Carey
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2 months ago

If it was your first time using something like that you should have taken extra clothes.

JD Lee
Community Member
2 months ago

Why is it every last one of these makes me immediately think, “That’s gotta be in the US!”-? I’m in the US, & so many of these could be my own experiences.. do I laugh or cry?

pusheen buttercup
Community Member
2 months ago

They will need to make an exception for something like that, I hope you get to stand up for yourself in the future :) they don't get to have that much control over you and if they want to wrongfully fire you perhaps you can contest it?

Jodie Johnson
Community Member
2 months ago

Too many men in charge.

Melvin Dragvelk
Community Member
2 months ago

Why would you choose to try a new method/product at work? You should have tried this at home prior and kept using your old method at work until you learned how the new device worked for you.

dandelion moon
Community Member
2 months ago

Doesn't always work that way. Maybe she had to work all the days she was on her period and she couldn't wait to try it out. Or maybe she tried the menstrual cup bc she can't afford to keep buying other products all the time. Ya never know someone's situation no matter how much context they give.

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TomiSmith
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2 months ago

I guess you should have tried it at home first to make sure that wouldn’t happen or use a pad as a precaution in case an accident did happen.

KT
Community Member
2 months ago

Okay one, never use something new like that when you're going to be working, and 2, f*****g quit and go get clean pants

Lily Mae Kitty
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2 months ago

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your menstrual issues are your own and not the problem of your boss or job. If it was the 1st time you were trying a new product, you should have been wearing a pad, just in case. Your job has to be done so you would either have to find someone to cover you or suck it up. YOU were not prepared and should have been.

Alexis draskinis
Community Member
2 months ago

Stop acting like pads & tampons dont leak! And sorry BUT most jobs arent so important that a person cant run to a store & grab some damn pants. She doesnt sound like she was performing heart surgery

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Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic I got fired for asking if Iwas going to be paid. I was shorted 15 hours on my last check.

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E Menendez
Community Member
2 months ago (edited)

This is illegal in the U.S. and you can easily sue. Everyone thinks the U.S. is sue happy, but when it is illegal it is the only recourse to ensure fair treatment. Frivolous lawsuits are just that, but slavery is illegal. You must be paid for your time.

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"Generally, it is easier to look for another job while you are still in one, so you don't have to explain gaps in employment or past problems with a prospective employer," the professor stressed that we should think about switching jobs strategically, even if we're in a tough spot emotionally.

Meanwhile, switching careers might call for a break to "take stock, engage in career planning, and exploration and transition to new careers," Professor Ng said about the importance of retooling and adapting if we switch lanes.

Lindsay touches on a variety of different topics in her podcast, so give her a listen if you’re in need of some self-help advice (personally, I’m a fan of shorter podcasts like hers because I have the attention span of a fruit fly). Back in 2018, Lindsay did what a lot of people secretly dream about: she quit her job and went all-in on her passion project.

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Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic When I was in college I worked at a tanning salon. Like most out of state students I flew back home for winter break. So I gave my PTO a month and a half in advance so she knew that I would be gone. It was cool, nothing was ever said. I come back after New Years. I was an opener so I got to the salon, logged onto the computers, and another employee comes in and goes "did they not tell you???". Apparently my manager terminated me while I was back in Ohio and just never informed me. Still had my store keys, alarm codes, safe key. And she just never sat me down to collect them from me.

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Paizleypie
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2 months ago

That's because she would've had to said something TO YOUR FACE.

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#14

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic At my first serious workplace literally every male manager sexually harassed every single female that worked there.

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Zoe Hoesley
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2 months ago (edited)

Oh god, even you hunny? What an evil man I’m so sorry

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#15

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic When I was an au pair, and I got ticket by expired car inspection my 1 month in USA. And the family blame me by using their car in my free time as we agreed before because apparently if I used the car only for professional purposes police would not see the invalide date of inspection.

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Demi Zwaan
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2 months ago

Whut?

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In Lindsay's case, she said ‘goodbye’ to her accounting job and started an online coaching business. “I had no idea how to make it happen, but I knew I was made for more and I was committed to creating a life of freedom doing work I love and serving others,” she writes on her website.

According to her, having your own business gives you a lot of freedom, such as setting your own schedule, being able to work from home, and traveling when you want. In her opinion, she’s impacting the world and won’t have to wonder about not going for her dreams when she’s old and gray.

Now, Lindsay helps other women “overcome the self-doubt, fear of judgment, and money struggles that hold them back from launching their biz.”

#16

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic The GM at my old job pressured me to take a management job. I ended up getting so much better than him that he would continuously stalk me on the cameras and once he got the opportunity, fired me during COVID.

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wandile dludlu
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2 months ago

So many people were fired during Covid because of other reasons but the companies saw a great opportunity to use covid as an excuse

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#17

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic My boss frequently punished people by cutting their hours/shifts. So eventually it was my turn on the game of hours roulette and when the person she gave my hours to no showed to the shift she had the audacity to call and text me multiple times to try and get me to fill in.

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Anne Reid
Community Member
2 months ago

I had a boss do that, he made sure I NEVER got to sign up for overtime. One guy called in sick on a day he was scheduled to do OT, boss was desperate. Called me on my day off. Begged me to come in, promised me more OT, extra comp time, etc. “Nah man, I’m in bar.” CLICK.

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Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic When my daughter got a rash from a medication that could have been deadly and the owner told my office manager to write me up for missing time. After talking to the owner he told me her medical condition didn't seem that serious and probably wasn't a big deal. Even though I told him about her condition in my interview and explained I could miss time.

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brukernavn340
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2 months ago

In Norway, the boss is not entitled to know the reason behind sick leaves.

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Of course, there’s a flip side, too—quitting your job or taking your first steps as an entrepreneur can be stressful, challenging, and might make you feel like you’re in way over your head. Even if you’ve got Lindsay and the entire internet full of self-help advice to help you out.

That’s why the decision to quit or stay at your job is a deeply personal one that makes you ask some of the hardest questions in life. Are you happy and do you feel like your work has Purpose with a capital 'P'? Should you tough it out in your toxic workplace or have you had enough? Is it wise to switch jobs in the middle of a global pandemic? Will you be able to support your loved ones without this job? Do you have what it takes to chase your dreams? What will you do if you crash and burn—what’s your Plan B?

Everybody deserves to feel fulfilled at their jobs. But it can be an uphill struggle, there’s no two ways about it.

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Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic My boss thought it was a 'joke' to call me by my birth name every single day, rather than my chosen name.

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MomaBear
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2 months ago

How nasty - hope you told them to shove it!

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#20

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic One time I heard the owner of the store comment that he prefer hiring women because they did not talk back.

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Truth Monster
Community Member
2 months ago

This man is delusional. All the women I know talk back. and I'm one of them.

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#21

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic The men get paid more without having to fight for the raise.

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E Menendez
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2 months ago (edited)

And when a woman asks for a raise she is being pushy, but a man asking for a raise shows he knows what he is worth! Took a class on negotiating deals and there was a whole lesson on how these strategies work for men, but women cannot utilize them in the same way because of pervasive misogyny - even among other women!

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#22

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic 1. They fired someone via a WhatsApp group chat. 2. I overheard a general worker get yelled at (from across the hall) for asking for a lunch break.

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banana man
Community Member
2 months ago

ridiculous... your employees need to eat because they are human too, not money making robots... smh

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#23

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic When only the females were allowed to be cashiers, and the males were only allowed to bag and push carts.

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Truth Monster
Community Member
2 months ago

While this is sexist, there is probably a form of twisted logic behind it, as males are rarely kidnapped in parking lots, as they are seen as more difficult to target.

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#24

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic My bosses tried to make me feel so guilty about joining the military and that I was a bad mom for leaving my kid. They also would make me feel guilty for calling out while my kid was sick. They were informed I didn't have a backup childcare when I was hired.

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Katie Johnson
Community Member
2 months ago

So many of these posts sound as if they were male bosses just trying to keep women down!!! Let's have an opposite post that shows men understanding mum duties, sexism, working females and periods!

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#25

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic When I asked my senior to come eat lunch, he said he can't because he didn't want people to see him taking a lunch break.

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Aayse
Community Member
2 months ago

I don not want people to think I am a human being !

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#26

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic One time I was talking to customers and my headset fell out and my manager thought I was purposely ignoring her so she storms over, puts headset back on me and said "Do not ever ignore me again" and proceeds to shove me into fitting rooms.

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jamie1707
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2 months ago

The first time a boss shoved me anywhere would be the very last time.

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#27

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic I am a nurse. I had a patient take a pictures of me. I told my unit manager and he said "If you were my nurse I would admire you just as much".

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Laugh or not
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2 months ago

Of all the nurses' photos out there, why choose the one where the nurse doesn't wear her mask properly?

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#28

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic Where to start... 1. Expecting me to pick up everyone else's slack on top of mine. 2. Picking favorites. 3. The manager blantly ignoring me after I told them no to coming in early. 4. Taking someone else's word over mine. I'm sure there's more, but these are the one that bug me most.

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banana man
Community Member
2 months ago

tsk tsk tsk... these "managers" need to be fired ASAP

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#29

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic People asked me for the first month "did they yell at you yet". Also one morning my boss was so mad he couldn't log into his computer he just took his keys and threw them across office and made a mark on his office door.

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Aayse
Community Member
2 months ago

I hate this kind of people. They ruin everyone's day, kill your energy. How do they expect you to keep working after all

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#30

Moment-People-Realized-Their-Workplace-Was-Problematic-Toxic A month in a training for my new job and my manager told me to go and change a halogen light bulb I was not supposed to touch, it burned through my glove, it burned my hand and I had to go to the hospital.

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S
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2 months ago

Just checking, but you turned it off first, right?

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