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We tend to have an idea of the various things we should know about, taxes, death, and simple math, but we are burdened with the knowledge that we are supposed to know it by a certain age. Out of embarrassment, we just don’t let on that we aren’t sure about something, as at that point we are too afraid to ask

One internet user wanted to learn what others only realized way too late in life. The lessons ranged from practical to juvenile to poignant, so make sure to upvote your favorites and comment your own experiences as you scroll through. And take notes in case some of these are relevant to your own life.

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#1

50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life Hr is there to protect the company, not you. Hr is not your friend.

Puzzleheaded-Mood689 , Amy Hirschi Report

Tee Rat
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most definitely. HR and management would rather you quit than firing you.

RyanRyanRyan
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2 years ago

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Every time I had HR refuse to fire somebody I got them to quit the next day anyways. Absolutely better for the company. Really better for the employee too... you don't want to be fired.

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Lauren S
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I understand where they’re coming from but I do think HR can support you. I had a really awful situation at work happen and I went under investigation (we had an investigation department) but I hadn’t done anything wrong at all. I went to HR. HR did their own investigation that resulted in the head of the investigation department “deciding to leave”. I think HR is a tool within an organization to keep things in check. Yes, the company is probably their first priority but HR aren’t heartless people.

C.M.
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

HR will support you as long as your interests align with the companies interest. As soon as those interests diverge, you're on your own.

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Terri Allan
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a person in HR this is not true for all HR. We are there to not only mitigate the risk for the business but to also insure the experience of the employee is woven in every decision we make. I know a lot of HR who work for small businesses who advice management to do better and they don’t listen, Not saying all HR is competent but to say we are all bad is like saying all men are… or all women are.. or….

James Wilkerson
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Protecting the company often means protecting your employees at work. It's cheaper to fix problems than fight lawsuits from disgruntled employees. This sentiment comes from people never actually using HR to fix an issue at work and going off people saying HR doesn't care.

rn42
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also these same people think protecting the company is the same as siding with the manager... As if the HR had any reason to treat a random middle manager differently than any other employee

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Liz Clarke
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is more HR managers, I worked as a HR assistant/minion and I did try to help people

Christopher Denney
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are plenty of good people in HR, sometimes the company makes it difficult, sometimes people do. I've met loads of good and bad people in HR positions, the good ones always seem to be the ones that understanding that helping people IS helping the company.

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StrangeOne
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No one at work is your friend. Employers don't care about your off work priorities. In fact, managers/HR will dictate when you can and can't schedule appointments and important events. It's up to you if you want to comply or not, but your decision will determine if you still have a job or not, and employers pay so low on purpose so you're too poor to just quit.

mooshoflove
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless your friend is HR.. >_> ;;;

Doug the Special one
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am HR, CEO, accounts and the workforce I am also self employed thank god.

Justanotherpanda
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10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Europe it will cost three times asmi h to replace someone than to retain. It really depends in law and regulation of the country you are in. This sounds like a US problem.

Caroline Starr
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My daughter was once yelled at by a manager (not hers) I front of a client, and told to leave and never come back, so she left. The next day she was called into HR and told she was fine, the client (and a couple of co-workers) had complained about the manager's behaviour. 3 weeks later at the managers Christmas Party he followed the General Manager upstairs, lifted her skirt and pinched her bottom. He is now blacklisted in the business.

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    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life There's no such thing as "feeling like an adult" I'm 34 and still forget I'm an adult sometimes lol

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    Tee Rat
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eating Cap'n Crunch and watching Looney Toons on YouTube while the grandkids are asleep in the other room. Yep, I'm the adult.

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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I f*****g love Looney Toons, the reboots never had the same magic as the original series did, in my opinion. Long live the legacy of Mel Blanc, “The man of a thousand voices”. 🙏 A Legend

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    AnnaB
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 70 and I still forget, too...

    SkyBlueandBlack
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 43 and I'm wearing socks that look like cats' paws. I have several pairs, in various colors and patterns (calico, gray tabby, etc). Otherwise, I generally pretend to be an adult.

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Often times I do feel like me and my daughter are sisters since she's an adult now. We're watching Sailor Moon right now and discussing our theories on the whole show.

    Kaye Nicole (Nikki)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same, I’m turning 32. I feel like I’m 21 tops 90% of the time!

    R Dennis
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am retired (medically) and still don't know what I want to be when I grow up.

    TonyTee
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My philosophy is you’re never too old to be young at heart 😉

    mcborge1
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 51 still running on 20 somthing software but with a few adult patches added such as worry and stress. :D

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    #3

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life That my height shapes how people perceive what I say. I'm a 6'4 male with a deep voice. I learned it at 40 when I had a boss who was 6'6. I was suddenly aware of my own height and the power position, looking up to him. I realized pretty much everyone is looking up at me, and I began smiling more and asking people questions about themselves to reduce the power implications of my height.

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    Dorothy Stovall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being tall is SUCH AN ASSET. You're always imbued with authority and "power." I'm 5'11" and didn't realize this completely until I was in my mid-30s.

    Alecto76
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It really is. I'm constantly having to tell people I'm not an assistant or paralegal, have been so for 15 years and that I'm 46. Only after all of things are addressed does anyone listen.

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    Collin Lyle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm short, 5'-2". No one listens to me unless I'm wearing ridiculously high heels and then only sporadically.

    SCP 4666
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Somehow that`s how peoples minds work - Tallness equals respect

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    Brett Hughes
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Soooo… watch the people in power of below average height. It wasn’t their height that got them there - they may be brilliant, skilled, innovative, insightful, kind, charismatic (or occasionally conniving) - but they certainly have something a lot above average. These are good people to align with.

    Janet C
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am 5'2" and was rarely taken seriously,. Even when I was in a management position. Even when I owned my own landscape/waterscape company and had a crew of 8.

    Scott Riley
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My boss is close to 5'7". Anyone his height or shorter, he treats like dung. Anyone taller than him, he treats like royalty.

    Gøøse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Idl bro, sounds like a humblebrag to me

    Ilona Z
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats brutally true, thanks for realising! Im pretty short, 155 cm, and Ive never had a lot of authority by my bosses and i've always had to build my authority by my coworkers but nobody admits this discrimination. (And of course Im a woman) Its big advantage to be tall.

    Mike Y
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's just like being beautiful. You don't have to work at anything else.

    Alleman Jennifer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But notice, extraordinarily beautiful people are extraordinarily dull. They ve never had to develop social skills.

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    Zoey Rayne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who is 4'9'', this is part of why I work with young children.

    Crouching hippo hidden panda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m 5’2” and have a “sweet” voice. No one takes me seriously

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    Not knowing something can be embarrassing. Particularly when we know that we are sort of supposed to know it already. Depending on your age, you have perhaps had that feeling of still being a child “faking it” in an adult world, despite being in your mid-twenties. It’s simultaneously relieving and unnerving that most people in the developed world do not actually feel like adults until they are 29. It’s almost like we become adults at 18 and then need a decade testing it to decide if it’s a good fit. 

    So even if all of one's peers still feel like overgrown children, people still suspect that most are just well-adjusted, and competent and know that pickles are just cucumbers. Or that doves are just white pigeons, which is so deeply shocking that those city trash birds and the symbol of peace are one and the same. But the bottom line is that we tend to project competence to others while overestimating it in them. 

    #4

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life That we should shake the CEO's hand with the exact same enthusiasm and firmness as the janitors hand.

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    TonyTee
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The janitor deserves a handshake of any kind more than the CEO does because the janitor actually busts their a*s WORKING compared to a suit sitting behind a desk all day counting money they got up their wazoo

    Edgar
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know, not all CEOs are like in the cartoons you watch.

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    Joroches
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand what you are trying to say but it would make more sense if you reversed the order in which you are saying it.

    Joe Publique
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In many workplaces, the janitor is the real MVP. Who opens doors when you've locked yourself out? Who empties your trash and keeps the place clean and tidy? Who fixes broken stuff? Who knows almost everything that's going on in the building? Yup. Be nice to the janitor.

    Sexual Harassment Panda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always try to thank the help/janitors for all that they do.

    Gg
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My father started as a janitor and worked his way up to executive. No matter where he goes if he sees a janitor he will strike up a conversation.

    N Miller
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see the office cleaners more than I see the CEO, and I don't shake either hands, that's just not a thing I do. I do hold doors for them though.

    Ace
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't get this one at all? Do some folks really change their handshake grip depending on whose hand they're shaking?

    N Miller
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's about power and respect. Some people will give an overly aggressive tight handshake to show they are the dominant party, while others (better, nicer people) will not attempt to turn your knuckles into powder. Does it help to swap out handshake for "we should hold the door open with the same smile for the janitor as we do the CEO". People do change up their behaviour depending on where they see the other person in terms of the social (and economic) heirarchy.

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    Ronnie Cutshall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha, reminds of a suit trying to shake my hand. I use a hammer all day. Guess what my grip like

    Id row
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand this one.

    Harise Poland
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the CEO might be arrogant and rich, but that is the person taking all the risks. if a bad decision causes a lawsuit or a huge money loss, if the firm closes and all including you and the janitor lose their jobs, it's on the CEO.

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    #5

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life That I don't have to become a mother if I don't want to.

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    DarthSadie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I don't have to become a mother if I don't want to" odd choice of picture... So that woman must be going to release her kid into the woods after coming to that conclusion

    Id row
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She gave him a sock, he's free now.

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    Alexia
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I don't have to give birth to a biological child. Choosing to adopt a child doesn't make me less of a mother.

    StitchIsCuteAndFluffy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes definitely! Is that a thing that people actually judge others for?

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    The Idaho Potato
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd be an awful and probably neglectful parent, so it's probably best I don't have kids :)

    Deborah B
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you live in America in a red state.

    TonyTee
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing wrong with opting out of parenthood, it’s doing the unborn a favor actually if you already know you wouldn’t make a good parent to the child, for whatever personal reasons that would be. Said it before and I will say it again a tad different, to each her own.

    Esme Love and Squalor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends what state you live in (in US) 🤦🏻‍♀️

    Admiralu
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Japan, China and South Korea are learning that lesson now. Millions of women in their countries are not having or adopting children.

    Magdalena
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand what you mean. When my 19 yo daughter said "I'm not sure I will have any children" I was like "it's possible?" For me it was only a question "when will I have to have children".

    Pink Princess
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was about to comment that that was obvious and then I remembered

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    #6

    My grandmother had a clock that would break if anyone touched or tried to move it. I always found that curious. Then some time in my 30s my wife and I were talking and it came up. I was wondering how they moved it out of their house after they passed. As I was explaining “… I think it must have had some delicately balanced mechanism or something that would be disrupted if moved…” my wife’s face made me quickly realize it was just a lie told to young me to keep my dirty clumsy hands off of it. Also, I’m an engineer.

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom would not let us use the washer or dryer because "they're hanging by a thread". I'm still amused by her delusion that we were just itching to do laundry.

    SCP 4666
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you move it you cause a fissure in the space-time continuum and as a result you will never have been born

    mysterious
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if you never were born you could never have touched the clock, and never have caused the fissure causing you not to be born, thus causing a paradox.

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    Ellie Hope
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandma got her first indoor bathroom in the late 70s, it was common in East London to have an outside toilet, she told me there was a huge mouse in the new bathroom so I'd be scared to use it, I believed this for years.

    Gabriela
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Before I finished reading, my mind went in a dark direction…the very fragile clock was a representation of the grandmother’s very fragile home life. She could not move or let anyone enter into her life or her home life will break down and everyone will see how broken it really was. I may have issues to deal with.

    Karen Startz Richardson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Husband is an engineer. I ❤️ the similarity.

    Diane Wunder
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You were right, we inherited a semi perpetual motion 365 day Anniversary clock from my husband’s grandfather. They were popular wedding/anniversary gifts in the 50’s. Once it is set if you touch it or try to move it, it messes up the delicate spinning pendulum, thus slowing time and eventually stopping. It actually came with a few specialty pieces to “lock” it for travel. We have it on a high shelf at our house and no one is allowed to touch it (except to wind it once a year)

    Pollymere
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My great-aunt had a clock that stopped working when she died. My Mum got it fixed. It stopped working when she died. When my other great-aunt got rushed into hospital the clock struck thirteen. I've had it mended and cleaned after it wouldn't stop striking one day but now it won't chime more than once for each hour and keeps stopping...

    Isaac Harvey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was told by some of my Norwegian grandparents that there was a way to open their garage door by saying a specific phrase. It took a couple years for me to grow out of it.

    wowbagger
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being the child I was, that would have made me much more tempted to touch the clock and see how much it would take to break it.

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    Many of the examples are simply the age-old issue of hearing a word or phrase before reading it or vice versa. "Piqued my interest," for example, is correct, not "peaked." One would be forgiven for thinking it’s peaked, because in what other circumstances is someone saying piqued? Like many of the annoying parts of the English language, French is to blame. Piqued is simply a rendition of “pique,” meaning irritate or prick in French. From the outside, it seems silly to be judgmental towards a person for confusing a common word for a rare, foreign construction in an idiom.

    #7

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life 1. Everyone is just f*cking winging it. 2. “The rules” do not apply evenly. 3. Everyone around you will always prioritize their needs first, regardless of any verbal assurance to the contrary.

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    9 animals and counting
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have to disagree about number three. Parents put their children's needs first almost 100% of the time.

    Z
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Going by stories I read on this website, on twitter, on facebook, in the news etc, it's not anywhere close to 100%.

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    Katarzyna Drozd
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disagree with number 3, some people that were abused as children will feel and act everybody else needs are more important than their own. Same for a lot women, who were told that needs of family members are more important than their own

    Becky Samuel
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The point is that if someone has no choice but to attend to your needs because of their mental damage, they're not doing it for your sake, they're doing it for theirs. They are defending themselves against pain by acting as if they were selfless. If they have no choice in the matter then there's no free will and they are prioritising their need to feel safe.

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    SCamp
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1. No they aren’t, sorry 2. Yep, agreed 3. No, they won’t, you have the wrong people around you

    DrBronxx
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For number 3, I have come to understand that for other people, but I can’t convince myself to stop putting other people ahead of me. I’m completely exhausted because of it.

    Terran
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would number 3 be true, we would already be extinct.

    Astrius
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In every imaginable way, you will always do the thing you find better for you. In can involve other people, but it is always you who think it is for the better.

    Ralph Watkins
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can agree with the third one from where I used to work. Management would call select people together to work on a major project together. It would be all planned out & then the next order of business they had a bunch of immediate needs. Then they tell you that all of this will be done without any budget, support, & in addition to your already pressing work. Since we already got blamed for everything, we never bothered to any of what they wanted. Yes, we all failed, too effin' bad.

    Stephanie A Mutti
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We all do prioritize our own needs but there are some times we have a need to give selflessly to those we love. It's a pretty nice feeling

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    #8

    That just because two people are in love doesn't mean they should be together

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    Moo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love isn't enough. Trust and respect are equally important

    Doodles1983
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. 110%. I never really believed in "the one"... Until I did. Things have happened that have caused me to lose a lot of respect and trust for them. I still love them, I miss them. I still talk to them and end most conversations frustrated by their obtuseness. My partner now, was sort of a slow burn. I knew him in High School. He got back in touch 3 years ago and been together for two. His attitude and manner, respect and trust in me. Is astounding. Love can absolutely be earned along with those things. And it becomes something stronger than giddy love that runs out.

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    It's_me
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can love someone deeply, but not like them. I had a young man I was engaged to in college that I adored. He made me laugh and we loved to do the same things together. But I didn't like how his friends were so judgemental/verbally abusive. But he CHOSE those friends. He also was not supportive of me taking medication for mental heath. One of the hardest decisions of my life to end our relationship, but well worth it in the end.

    Senjo Krane
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've learned that it's better to be friends first.

    TheSnark
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandpa used to say "all my dreams have to turned to dust. What I thought was love was only lust".

    Red Lotus
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    UPVOTE, UPVOTE, and upvote! There was a really good book that I read that changed my perception about the word "love" forever. A quote from it that always stayed with me was "sometimes the person who accompanies you to the end isn't necessarily the one you love the most, but the one who's most suitable for you."

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    BoredPamda
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And just because they are both awesome individuals, doesn't mean they are compatible.

    Joe Publique
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone who has ever been in a toxic relationship will understand this one...

    Cosmologist wannabe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    character is more important than beauty, or intelligence.

    Pollymere
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being with someone should also make you happy. Time to read some Kierkegaard...

    Blue_Mouse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bro y’all are trying to kill me. I broke up with my bf last night…

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    #9

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life Trying to treat myself as I would others. The ol' reverse golden-rule

    kageroshajima , Christian Battaglia Report

    Cherokee Jimenez
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! I'm so hard on myself, but encouraging to everyone else

    Nayla Kanaan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That reminds me of the time when in fourth grade we got a list of the names of everyone in the class and were told to circle the names of the people we worked well with double circle the names of the people we worked best with and put a jagged circle around the names of the people we did not work well with (this was for the purpose of assigning groups) well a few minutes after I turned mine in the teacher called me over to talk about it since I’d put a jagged circle around my own name… my logic “the person who is the meanest to me and the person who gets in the way of my success the most is myself” the teacher was like “very philosophical but you still have to be in your own group”

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    Nayla Kanaan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This post is so fair like there was a time in my life where if I treated people the way I treated myself I would go around telling people they had no right to exist and then get jailed for assault. (Note I’ve already had therapy and I’m much better thankfully but COVID was a hard time period for me as a nerdy undiagnosed autistic kid who was also dealing with questioning their gender identity in the south of the United States)

    Blue_Mouse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I were to treat everyone how I treat myself I would be in jail

    Sarah Biondo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is good!! I need to remind myself of this often

    Caro Ansaldo
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's my motto, and what I try to teach to my students...

    Verena Abt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. Maybe others want to be treated in a different manner?

    Illustrious G
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A few years ago, I heard a similar version of this: “If you wouldn’t say or think something about your best friend, don’t say or think it about yourself.” This has really changed my outlook and the negative self-talk and my negative body image has changed a LOT! Be a good friend to yourself!!

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    Others shared deeper, more personal experiences. From relationships to self-worth, life is the only effective teacher. Many people end up staying in bad, toxic relationships, whether with a partner or just a bad friend group, for longer than they should, even when they recognize the toxicity of the situation. People only know what they know, which is endlessly circular logic and redundant, but remains ultimately true. If a person doesn’t know any better, they will continue to be around people who are just bad for them, since self-worth isn’t really a class one can take at school. 

    #10

    you know metal? that genre of music that's loud and yelly? it's called metal because it's harder than rock

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    Bobby
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always heard the term came from born to be wild, the line "heavy metal thunder"

    Nonna_SoF
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ironically rocks are often harder than metals. Thus the reason you can use rocks to sharpen metal and not just cut away at the rock. Though it depends on the rock and metal in question.

    R Dennis
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not why it's called metal/heavy metal.

    JL
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Next you'll tell me it's not called pop because too much of it will make you feel sick.

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    Mat Hall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. The exact etymology is uncertain, but it definitely has nothing to do with the relative hardness of metals and rocks.

    Ken Beattie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "loud and yelly"... you need to listen to a wider variety of metal.

    The Original Bruno
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not true. Until the 1990s, one rarely spoke of "metal" without "heavy." It's the weight that's most significant. "Heavy metal" referred to power of steel, as in "heavy metal thunder" from Steppenwolf, which referred to the singer's motorcycle, which in turn yielded a sense of freedom, but also a sense of purpose, as the music appealed also to workers in "heavy" industries who were building the future. For instance, Black Sabbath's Tommi Iomi, whose unique style was attributed to adapting to losing his finger to a hundreds-tons industrial equipment.

    Fish Fingers
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kinda. Tony lost his fingertips in a press, and due to his fake fingertips had to start using banjo strings on his guitar, giving a 'heavier, more metallic sound'. Which is why he's officially credited with inventing Heavy Metal. (Source, he's one of my mates dad's oldest friends).

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    Kaye Nicole (Nikki)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought it was because it was noisy like… banging on metal…

    Z
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it though? I can think of many rocks that are harder than most metals....

    Badulesia
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You'd better read this https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heavy_metal_music#Etymology

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    #11

    That I'm an introvert and shouldn't try to replicate the lives of the extroverts around me. Also, I'm nowhere near as booksmart as I thought I was.

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    James P
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I struggle with that first part too. Not so much the second part as the mistakes I have made in my life have taught me that I'm not that smart.

    Joe Publique
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Come on, man. Think about it. There's something that you can do better than anyone else in the world. What is it?

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    Paul Neff
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being above average is not nearly as great as many might think. First, relating to Dunning Kruger effect, you become aware of how much you DON'T know, which makes you hesitate to speak up when you could. Second, the only people to genuinely understand you are proportionately less frequent to encounter. This leads to the third point, finding a loving life partner means either accepting those who can accept YOU, or simply being lonely. Pets really help.

    Green Eyed Raven
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing wrong with being an introvert

    Ode
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Smartness is more like a pattern, it is fully possible to be smart yet incredibly dum. I once lost an intercontinental flight because I had forgotten to empty my camera's files to the computer, and then left quite late, only realizing on the airport train that I never even checked the time of the flight, just assumed. It was bitter tears when I pulled out my credit card at the airport (had to pay 800 euros from my student budget). Or smartness can be blocked because something's difficult for you. I myself work in a highly educated job yet I have been anxious for years because writing is so hard for me, and only now have I realized that it's because I'm constantly afraid of doing things wrong and therefore feel like I need to make it perfect. This made me almost change career but now I can think about it more healthily (focusing on what the value is in what I do)

    Anna Banana
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You might be neurodivergent. What you're describing is very common among people who are Neurodivergent.

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    Christopher Denney
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lady Named Susan Cain wrote a book called: Quiet subtitled "The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" The title grabbed me, and it changed my outlook on a number of things. Introverts have been getting the short end for ever.

    Thrudd
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Introvert who has learned to fake being social for short periods of time. Then I need to recharge. I am actually more knowledgeable than most. Trivial pursuit? Any edition, I fill all the pieces but the pink on the first question every time - pink is arts and entertainment. Go figure. I also use the phrase - I don't know - scary eh?

    W.D. Callahan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This list was supposed to be about common knowledge that you learned. But this example seems rather specific to you.

    Cheesedick Construcion
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The difference between genius and stupidity is that genius has its limits. A. Einstein

    Lily
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A difficulty is that the extroverts in your life will be expecting you to behave like them and be disappointed with you if you don’t. The extroverts need people and stimulation, extroverts don’t. Nothing harder than having extroverts friends when you’re an introvert.

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    #12

    I learned that other people's opinions of me don't matter. MY opinion of me matters, and since I hold myself to an exceptionally high standard....I'M AWESOME!!

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    similarly
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was over 40 when that realization first started to come to me. I hope more people will realize this at a younger age.

    Moo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My motto is love yourself at exactly where you're at, and if you wanna work to improve, awesome! But as long as you're a good human, you're great just as you are ^^

    Mike Y
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We're all awesome.....wait...

    Alecto76
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely. Everyone is much more awesome than they know.

    Suzette Stroman
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm nearly fifty and have finally come to the realization that I don't need to stand on my head to please any toxic people in my life. It's been liberating!!

    Ken Beattie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd phrase it slightly differently, that certain other people's opinions of me matter less than mine. I think the opinions of significant people obviously DO matter - your parents, spouse, kids etc. But random strangers? Not so much.

    Caro Ansaldo
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the attittude! I always say I'm the best and the most beautiful woman in the world. If others don't think the same, not my problem.

    Verena Abt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I keep having problems with kids who are plain ordinary but consider themselves awesome. *sighs*

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    Similar to the ignorance about pickles or thinking that one has to buy shoes and clothes to grow into as an adult, many people also feel embarrassed to admit that they are in a toxic relationship or friendship. We see our social circle as a reflection of ourselves, so admitting that they might be bad feels like telling everyone how dumb we are. Embarrassment is a particularly bad teacher since studies show that it doesn’t even create a drive to avoid similar behavior in the future. So it’s mostly your brain making you feel bad but refusing to build something useful out of it. The one upside is that embarrassment means you are more or less mentally normal, as a lack of embarrassment is a sign of psychopathy.

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    #13

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life That treating people with respect and being honest are not mutually exclusive

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    Tan Artt
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Those 'brutally honest' people are just plain rude. There's no justifying being an a*****e.

    SkyBlueandBlack
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Granted, but at the same time, the truth does sometimes sting, and lying to cushion someone's feelings can ultimately be more harmful.

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    Sue from England
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lived all over the world from the age of 9 months. Lived among lots of different cultures, learned a lot from a lot of people. As I grew older, I interviewed people in prisons as well as talked to people from the Royal Press Office arranging royal visits. The only difference between all of them was the way they spoke. I didn't care what their background was, what color they were, what religion, how rich, how poor, what gender, what education level, none of it mattered to me. I was brought up to respect everyone and that's how I live my life. If it's taught early enough, it stays with you. Having said that, when someone is mean or evil, then all bets are off.

    Drinking my Covfefe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can be brutally honest but it doesn't always have to be said out loud. If it is something that will help the other person learn from it, yes. But if it is something that is your personal opinion like you don't like their clothes for example then no.

    Moo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True, but it doesn't mean you can't try! You may get hurt, and it does suck, but if you're able to be a light in someone's life, why not? :)

    Ralph Watkins
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a nurse, I found that treating the rottenest patient or their families would most of the time get them to trust you & work with you. Some of the grumpiest, most hostile people warmed up after a while. However, there are those who remain natural born a-holes.

    Marc Booker
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have been a conflict management trainer and I used to teach people to replace "brutal honesty" with what I called "tactful truth". You can speak honestly about even difficult, personal things; just make the effort to leave everyone's dignity intact.

    W.D. Callahan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A truth that's told with bad intent beats all the lies you can invent.

    mutedtempest
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. One of the hardest things for me after being diagnosed autistic is the way a lot of people in online communities tend to be more "brutally honest" than neurotypical people. I realize that can be a part of autism as you may not be able to recognize that something is rude, but I recently saw a discussion where a person claimed that it was better to tell someone that their clothes look horrible than to not do that. When told that there's really no burning reason to share that with someone, and that if the need is truly there it can be done much more gently, the person claimed that saying it directly is more kind and that they'd rather know than not. This aspect of autism has always really bothered me. While I understand that honesty is often more important to neurodivergent people than trying to be kind, and that the way to be kind often isn't obvious, it really does seem sometimes like no effort is being made and that autism is being used as a reason.

    Dolly_of TheCowboy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I try to go the "hmmmm that outfit/part of outfit looks ok but do you have the X handy? That really makes your complexion glow/eyes sparkle. You would look even more amazing in that today"

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    Dawnieangel76
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tact is for people not witty enough to use sarcasm.

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    #14

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life Who I am is more important than how I look.

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    Tan Artt
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's preach body neutrality. It's a vessel to carry who you are as a person. Take care of it, but the way it looks doesn't define you as a person. You shouldn't have to be beautiful to recieve respect and kindness

    That emo Girl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish this was the case with ppl my age :(

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    TonyTee
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A beautiful soul is worth more than a beautiful face.

    Thrudd
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly nobody is capable of looking at one's soul instead of the book jacket.

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    Sussy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Daily reminder everybody who reads this is beautiful

    Thrudd
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahahahaha .... no ..... some of use are just handsome 😉

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    Remington Greer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my college classes was on professional etiquette and the subject of professional dress came up. Basically it went that you need to wear business professional wear and that tattoos were unacceptable blah blah blah. I brought up two people: Bernie Madoff who wore fine suits and clothing and swindled people out of billions of dollars. Then I brought up Matthew Taylor, a NASA engineer who successfully landed a prove on an asteroid. Matt's picture post mission was him in a NASA polo with his tattooed sleeved arms exposed. Matt got more emails and letters about how he should be ashamed of showing his tattooed and how they were unprofessional. In my paper on business etiquette, I compared and contrasted those two people and argued that I'd rather have someone with tattoos "who looked unprofessional" than someone who cares about their appearance more than anything. I even commented that just because they are in a suit doesn't make them good or professional, but it's how you act.

    Ken Beattie
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The thing is, that example proves the professors point. Perception is everything. If you're in a professional environment people expect you to look professional. And if you don't well the assumption is immediately that you're not as skilled, you're a slacker and shouldn't be there etc. The fun thing is this works both directions. If you were at the beach and you see someone sunbathing in a 3 piece business suit you're going to think they're weird too. Or at a casual gathering where everyone is in t-shirts and shorts. The reality is that humans are very good at identifying "the thing that is different" and then we make an (often wrong) assumption that it's bad.

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    Brett Hughes
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t kid yourself, image is something. It’s just not everything. Think that people don’t respond to image and you disadvantage yourself.

    Joe Publique
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% true, but dress how you wish to be perceived ;)

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A gorgeous person with low personable traits and little good personality will only be tolerated for so long until someone with looks AND good character traits comes along. That also depends on the job field or where you are. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Cultural influences plays a part, too. Most people are average looking, as the saying goes, and get by just fine because of how they grow as a person on the inside.

    Giovanni Potage
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This post reminded me of a quote so I thought I'd share. "I am my own person, and I will not set fire to myself to keep you warm." -Elizabeth Gracely

    L. Murphy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As an over 50 female, this statement is just so adorably naive.

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Knowing who you are is also much more useful than knowing how you look. And which one suddenly means nothing when the lights go out?

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    #15

    I got a good one! I grew up and Brooklyn, New York. Believe it or not I never knew j walking was a thing. So when I was in my 20’s I ended up in Hawaii thanks to the military. I was crossing Kalākaua Ave in the middle of the street and two cops started yelling at me. They were yelling at me about j walking and I thought they were messing with me. I started laughing and told them that not real. One of them got real mad and wanted to detain me but his partner was like “ where you from? “ I told them Brooklyn and they both started laughing and explained to me that the rest of the U.S. has this thing called j walking. 😂😂 I felt pretty silly afterwards not knowing a pretty common law.

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    ScarletRos
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to think jaywalking was actually walking in the shape of a J when you crossed the street.

    Nayla Kanaan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was little I thought jaywalking was a version of Ewoks from Star Wars like J-walks and E-walks

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    Janet C
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only the US. In Europe they trust adults to look both ways before crossing the street... wherever they feel like it. Cars are required to stop at zebra-stripe crossings, but anyone can actually cross anywhere. It's not illegal.

    Emie N.
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not just the US. Also it's actually not really enforced throughout the US. Most of us Americans still jwalk.

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    Nolgoth
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    J walking is a remnant of jim crow era laws and was made specifically to harass and arrest minorities similar to vagrancy/loitering laws

    SkyBlueandBlack
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The term "jay" comes from that, yes. Jaywalking is a term automakers came up with so the general public would blame accidents on pedestrians, rather than the cars that hit them.

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    CaptainFluffy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People walking have the right of way in the uk. Definitely a friendlier approach to those in two feet.

    Vix Spiderthrust
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We actually made jaywalking illegal in the early eighties, but since the police recognised that it was a stupid and unenforceable law it's lapsed into desuetude.

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    Claire Bear
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So , in the US you can’t just cross a street? Do you have to look for a crossing?

    cogadh
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not on every street, but major roads in cities/towns usually have crosswalks at every intersection and some places do have laws that technically require you to use them. It's really only a factor in high traffic, mostly urban areas, supposedly for the safety of pedestrians.

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    David Brier
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This EXACT thing happened to me on the same street!!! Or maybe it was Kuhio. Oh. I'm from Brooklyn too!!

    David H
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember it made all the NY Newspapers when several years ago the police ticketed a man for J walking in Brooklyn (it is officially on the books in NYC, but never enforced), the ticket was thrown out. But it literally was a full page article in the NY Post, Daily News, and front page of the Metro section in the NY Times. That is how big the news was

    Kristal
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And this is why common sense does not exist: what's common in one culture/area is not common in another

    Thrudd
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Common sense = what the majority thinks is a good idea.... ..... Good sense = what actually is a good idea .... Don't reach for anything that fell into the deep fryer.

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    Claire B
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jaywalking is how they busted all the teenage drug dealers and users in my town. Caught them for jaywalking, found drugs.

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still dk what that law actually means-

    cogadh
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Essentially not using defined pedestrian crosswalks or walkways and therefore being a risk to yourself and automotive traffic.

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    You can also take heart in the knowledge that, well, knowledge is growing a lot faster than any of us can actually process it. In the English language alone, there are between 500’000 and 1’000’000 books published every year. Even at the lowest estimate, you would need to read 1369.86 books a day to keep up. This equals roughly 57 books an hour. Even the most prolific Goodreads liars are not likely to think that is possible. More importantly, no one around you is reading 57 books an hour, much less just one. And if you want to read what embarrassingly obvious things others learned late in life, check out our other articles here and here.

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    The adults in my life never had it figured out either, they just made it seem like that to a kid.

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    TonyTee
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You could live to be 100 and you’ll still have more to learn, more to experience, and more to figure out. It’s a never ending process. It’s only to help us though, that’s how I see it. 🤷🏻‍♂️

    mooshoflove
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "the moment you stop learning, you start dying,' - Albert Einstein (only quote I can ever remember)

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    Tams21
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that once you've figured out that you'll never figure it all out, you've figured it out. I would get bored if there was nothing left to learn.

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a child, I noticed that adults and children made decisions equally well. The difference was that adults got to make them.

    Robert Trebor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ancora Imparo!, said Michelangelo at 80, I am still learning!

    Joe Reaves
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You will always be hoping a more adult adult is going to be around to help even when you're the oldest adult in the room by decades lol.

    DC
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... if adults were oh-so-ahead of, say, toddlers, then how come adult diapers have four tapes usually, while kids' diapers only need two?

    Magdalena
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Soooo true! Adults are just kids playing a game called "being adult". My parents were more clueless than me my age and it's just freaking scary.

    Liz Mary
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 50 and still haven't figured it out. Just yesterday, when talking to a friend I realised that none of us do. We think others are to sure of themselves but the truth is those we look at and seem to be so happy and self assured have a ton of insecurities. Heck, I have a s**t load of insecuries and she thought I am all fine and dandy.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah. They never seemed to have their sh*t together either.

    M J
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hear ya. Not at all certain what the "it" is, in order to figure it out

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    #17

    Stop expecting things to be fair

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    Da Dragon Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m black had this taught to me when I was little by my parents

    Nikki Sevven
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My first experience with racism occurred when I was a 5yo at a small Catholic school. My best friend, Renée, was black. Some kids called her a word I didn't know, and she started crying. Our dads arrived to pick us up, so I asked my dad about it. He told me they were picking on her because of the color of her skin, which I thought was stupid. When I asked why her skin was brown, my legendary dad said, "Because her parents have brown skin." Made sense to me. I never understood racism. Still don't, and I'm 58yo. (And both our dads spoke with the principal, and there were consequences.)

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    Annymoose
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "You can do everything right and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life."

    Shark Lady
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like parking fines for example, for the rich it's a minimal cost for parking wherever they like, for the poorer it can be the choice of paying the fine or eating for the next month.

    Mia Černá
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm really strugling with this rn. I hate unfairness, I always have. I started to realise (even tho my mom told me long time ago) that life just isn't fair and it never will be. I hate that I can't control it and that the world isn't some beautiful utopia where everyone can be happy.

    over it already
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always explained to my kids that life isn't fair and that we can't control other people or what happens to us. What we can always control, though, is how we react to the world. I say if you're struggling with this, find your agency - get out there and do whatever you can, big or small, to change it. And encourage others to do the same.

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If life was fair, we would not be aware of "fairness" any more than fish are aware of water.

    Shane S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I watched a show on the Kavanaugh senate confirmations just last night that reminded me that “sometimes the bad guy wins”. Trump had a list of 25 potential judge picks and literally just chose one at random. There were lots of other conservative judges to choose from. But we picked the guy that scream-cried at his confirmation just to ‘own the libs’. So messed up that we have terrible people in power across all sectors of government.

    Burnt Bagel
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ESPECIALLY the Supreme Court! What a stacked crock of s**t!

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    Ralph Watkins
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate when people cry & scream "That's not fair!". Seriously? Who raised you into thinking life would be fair. They raised you to be depressed & miserable all of your life then.

    Dawnieangel76
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even ifYOU do everything right, and make all good choices, it's STILL not fair.

    Lisa Johannesson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Idk about this one. If you stop expecting things to be fair, you either develop a chip on your shoulder, or you stop calling people out on their bs and just seethe internally. Developing a chip on your shoulder. You should definitely expect things to be fair - within reason.

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    #18

    If you come from a poor family, you have to work x3 as hard to get ahead.

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    Joseph Grimmett
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the US you have less than a 1% chance to become rich. But for some reason (mostly lies told to the poor by the rich) people think that getting rich is easy.

    Batson Belfrey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your odds greatly increase in your favor if you're willing to put in the time, discipline and effort it takes to become rich. Most are unwilling to do so.

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    Paul Neff
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This assumes life will let you get ahead, all those BS motivational posters aside, we do not create opportunities like that. Social networking is currently the best means to advance, as people may choose to give you an opportunity they control, rather than a stranger they don't know. This really was a bad thing in my case, as my social skills were very poor.

    Roland Marshall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not true, my social skills suck, orphaned at a young age, relied on church meals because we were broke. Fast forward and I worked hard, have bought multiple properties and 2 businesses. Nothing handed to me on a silver platter. Stop acting like a victim and you’ll go far in life.

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    L. Murphy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And sometimes you never do.

    Green Eyed Raven
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh boy is this true, and then being treated as though there was something wrong with you, instead of society.

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    Rosie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More if you're female &/or non-white. Double the total if you're not good looking.

    Bookworm
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Frankly, it doesn't matter how hard you work. There's good evidence that, on average, escaping poverty requires almost 20 years of nothing going seriously wrong - no large medical bills or sudden car replacements or work layoffs. 20 years of almost impossible good luck, and you *might* make it into the middle class.

    Joe Publique
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Add a couple of zeroes to that number and you'll be close...

    Roland Marshall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But very important not to have a victim mentality or you’ll become a broken and angry old person……..

    Amy S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being told your whole life that you need to pull yourself up by your boot straps and if you are poor it's your own fault for not working hard enough makes people into broken and angry too.

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    #19

    That the housework can wait awhile. To sit and enjoy the dinner I just cooked with my family. The dishes will still be there when I get to them, they ain't going anywhere lol

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    Joroches
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hold on, why the hell are you doing the dishes if you cooked the dinner. What kind of 1950s dystopia are you living in?

    Janet C
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or whoever doesn't cook is responsible for the cleanup.

    Claire Bear
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you are cooking then why are you cleaning also? I’m my house those that cook do not do the dishes

    Esme Love and Squalor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better yet- if you spent time and energy prepping the meal, have your kids or partner clean the dishes. That’s what’s fair and teaches a valuable habit to your kids.

    Clearly sunny
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah I like them to gather n irritate me. Laundry is there BFF.

    Kar Red Roses
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clean as you go, you don’t need to leave a huge mess in the kitchen whenever you create a meal.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the pans used. I want to spend time with the people around my table, not at my kitchen sink. Whatever's left can wait an hour or so.

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    #20

    That there are no guarantees, you may never find love, tragedy may befall you, you may not win, you may die alone.

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    Cat Furr
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is sad because I absolutely always have hope.

    XenoMurph
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One does not negate the other, but hope can defeat the despair some people feel from the possibilities in the comment. Keep that optimism, it's precious

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    Laura Rodrigues
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read once, “you could do every damn thing right, every damn time and still fail.” 😓

    Rosie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hope is a demon that keeps you struggling for that miraculous person, job, whatever that will make you magically happy. Find peace & joy in what you have, even if alone, poor & sick. Life still has beautiful moments: a sunset, a pet, a good book, a song that makes your heart soar. Find yours each day.

    Holly Benedict
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Truly. It's up to each of us individually to celebrate the moments we have had, even those moments now painted with loss and longing, and to find purpose in the moments we have remaining. I lost the most important person in my world, it was sudden and without warning. I choose now to live for him, to enjoy all the things we had hoped for in memory of him. I choose to make it my purpose to finish the novel I've been working on, to weave our story into the fabric of fiction so that we may live forever.

    Bright Legend
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand how you feel, i pray you get to achieve those dreams ...

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    Yenu
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a formula to it though 😌

    Agfox
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, while we're on a downer, you may find love but it may not be reciprocated

    Ralph Watkins
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have found love. Been thru many tragedies, each one making me a stronger person, I have won & lost many times, & when I die, I'm really not going to care how I died.

    Dawnieangel76
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 46 & once I finally accepted I was ugly, fat, and sickly it was easier to accept I'd never find love.

    KnightOwl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life doesn't care about your plans!

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    #21

    On a more serious note. I learned way too late that sometimes I was the bad guy. I was raised in a house where everyone was so defensive. Nothing was ever anyone’s fault. I still jump on the defense with my husband now. After some bad decisions and burned bridges I realized that not everyone is willing to overlook you doing something wrong if all you do is say it’s not your fault. You are sometimes the bad guy in someone’s story. I find it really difficult to deal with my family after realizing this. But hey ho.

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    Lauren S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to learn to argue properly in relationships as an adult. I had to switch the mindset from trying to win the argument and make them agree with me to trying to resolve the conflict and move forward together.

    Creepy panda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. At the age of 37 and some counseling it cliqued

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    Joe Publique
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim Order (DARVO). The classic tool of narcissists/sociopaths. Once you start looking out for it, you can never unsee it. It's great you're self-aware enough to notice and that's proof that you haven't inherited the narcissism that seems to be prevalent in your family. Go you!

    Remington Greer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Accepting that I'm the bad guy in someone else's story has helped me realize that not everyone needs to like me. I ended up becoming the villain in my former best friend's story and vice versa.

    Yenu
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm still learning this

    Lyone Fein
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Learning to apologize is important.

    Joe Publique
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And apologizing correctly is critical. Never, repeat, never say "I'm sorry but...". Always just, "I'm sorry".

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    Annymoose
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. I had some a*****e years, for sure. I got my head out of my a*s and I try really hard to be good, though. Do no harm but take no s**t. It's incredibly important to know that people CAN change. I was raised by a racist bigot and some of it rubbed off on me. I refuse to be that way as an adult. No one is perfect.

    Widdershins66
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Congratulations on your insightfulness and ability to make changes. Ut doctrinal (keep learning) 🤗

    Mike Y
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You gotta own it to get past it.

    Janet Weston
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always admit when I’m wrong , my hubby always says it’s not his fault . Different values in life .

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    #22

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life Insurance and credit cards. Trying to figure out basic adult finance stuff without any guidance or help will force you to feel like an idiot for a long time.

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    Shane S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We NEED financial literacy education in schools. How to get a credit card. How to use it. How NOT to use it. What’s a deductible? What’s a copay? What’s in-network? .. And yes, we know our US healthcare system is horrible but it’s governmentally impossible to change it in at least the next two years, so we need to learn to work within the system we’ve got.

    SCamp
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% agree. Never understood why this isn’t a thing

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    Moo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm taking a financial class through my church (actual certified financial advice not weird religious mumbo jumbo) right as I'm set to go to uni, and I'm so grateful the option was presented to me. My dad actually teaches the class, and he's been passionate about finance for a while, so I have felt very very lucky. Not everyone is, and I urge everyone to take a financial class if they haven't, regardless of age! We have people in all walks of life in our class

    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the bank and credit companies LOVE to throw it in your face how dumb we are.

    Tim Geene
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go look up “financial peace university “. Helped my wife and I when we were getting started.

    Paul Neff
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, here's the thing, and I hope not news to everyone. These systems, in SOME cases, are set up to be either confusing or misleading on purpose. Like a trap is. Ever wonder why some countries have an automatic tax system, but the US has one where they KNOW what you owe, but still make you figure it out? Someone is profiting because of that confusion, like tax prep companies. Insurance and credit cards exist partially, because people don't make enough money to pay cash for things they NEED, on demand. Rigged system.

    Batson Belfrey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not rigged. It takes reading, researching and a willingess to learn it. Most people aren't willing to do any of that and want to be treated like a five year old and hand-walked through the system. There are more tax services available today than ever before, these digital services literally do the math and completing the forms for you, they even submit your taxes for you. All you have to do is answer the questions! Seriously? How much more simpler do you want it?

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    Tom De Paul
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Google is your friend. So is Wikipedia.

    Fransesca Newman
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like this type of Stu should be essential for students in high school. It should fall under the classifications of home economics imo.

    Batson Belfrey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mine Craft, Fortnite, Super Smash Bros and other games aren't taught in schools either, but somehow kids figure it out. If you can figure out how to play games on the internet, then you can figure out how a credit card and insurance works. Not being taught in school is no excuse.

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    Kirsten Kerkhof
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bought my first home at age 41. I had an awesome mortgage adviser and I knew I’d get the mortgage no problem, but I still felt like such a noob. At 41 I had a tenure, a good salary, had bought cars, and thought nothing could baffle me anymore. Nope, I was wrong.

    Display_Name
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was never taught about credit scores until a few years aga9.

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    #23

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life That cows had to have had a calf to make milk. They don’t just make milk. I had to be a mom myself and nurse my kid when it dawned on me.

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    Désirée
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes and the calf is taken away from its mother so we can use the mother to take all the milk and the calf typically just gets some formula. It's heartbreaking

    Ace
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A cow will continue to produce milk long after its calf is weaned, just as long as you keep milking it. Also true for humans - milk production can be made to continue for years.

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    Lisa Wittwer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And that calf gets taken away almost instantly after having it.

    Amaryllis
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. As a dairy farmer I am astounded by the amount of misinformation in these comments.

    Justin Rogers
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yuppers, the babies are taken away, the boys go in the veal pen (boys don't make milk) and the girls to the nurse/ feed pen. Unfortunately I live next to a dairy farm and have to see the veal boxes every day

    DC
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's kind of sad, given that it isn't anything hard to understand or some whacky feature of nature. Also, the milk industry being gone wouldn't make me sad, but happy on behalf of the cows that don't have to endure it then. Every human who has an intact mother has access to all the milk it needs.

    Maebe Maeve
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mammals don't need milk at all after infantcy. Humans are the only animals who regularly drink the milk of another species. It is entirely unnatural and gross.

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    lemsip
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But chickens can lay eggs without having sex. Only they are unfertilised eggs with yolks and albumen.

    Thrudd
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Idiots on parade. Go pontificate to the Masai

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    #24

    The hole women pee out of isn’t the same hole they stick the tampon in

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    Kise Miarse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of people (females included) don't figure this out right away. Definite failure in education.

    Samyan Elrod
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well I knew but the mfkn cartoon on the wrapper did not help me figure it out when I was bleeding everywhere :/

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    RenTinTin
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What everyone calls their vagina, the outer parts down there, isn't. Vulva is the correct term for the outer bits.

    Binky Melnik
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So people who thought that babies are jammed up a pee hole: did you think pregnant women don’t pee because a baby is blocking the pee from coming out? 😳 Or did you simply not think it through?

    Kise Miarse
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think more commonly people assume urine comes out the vagina. Similar to how sperm and urine have the same exit in males.

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    Janet Weston
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, women have 3 holes down below !

    Sarel Seerower
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Didn't know that until I was an adult and I have a vagina

    Marilyn Russell
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Geez, apparently we got better sex education in Canada in the early 80’s…

    Yenu
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once said that to my class mates in high school and they denied it, they even confirmed from the biology teacher during the next class and I was ridiculed. I've had a lot of similar experiences. I'm learning to trust myself no matter what now.

    Lakota Wolf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our urethras are separate from our sexual-organs entrance. For men, both kinds of "stuff" come out of the same place XD

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    Jared Robinson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They really should have separate male and female health classes so that differences like this can be discussed with least discomfort.

    Crystal Estes
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My school had separated classes back in 2000; guys and girls were were together during the first part of the class, then separated for the gender specific class. I feel like the separation is good to make it slightly less uncomfortable, but the lesson should be on both sexes, because we should all know how all bodies work. As a woman, I feel like men need to know how my anatomy works if they’re going to be making laws about it.

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    #25

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life 4% of 25 is the same as 25% of 4

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    Tik Tarro
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not joking this just resolved 50 things in my mind

    Kimberly Thomason
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too. Had to really think about it a minute though for real.

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And 75% of 56 is the same as 56% of 75. That doesn't seem to help as much. But since the answer gives you the secret to life, the universe, and everything else, it's worth hauling out the calculator.

    Thrudd
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uhm..... I'll be by this pot of petunias contemplating and being comforted by the unfairness of the universe

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    Moosy Girl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It makes sense because % is just /100, so 4% of 25 is 4/100*25(/1), and 25% of 4 is 25/100*4(/1). If you look at it as multiplying fractions you get 4*25/100(*1) which is the same as 25*4/100.

    Senjo Krane
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see all those numbers and my brain shuts down 😔

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    Joe Publique
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, this is a good one. I was about 30 when I found this out and it changed my life.

    Queen Jackson.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like how 4 x 25 = 25 x 4. the decimal Is the only difference.

    Lady Vader
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen this useful fact on here a few times and I absolutely love it. 😁

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    #26

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life It never made sense to me that we would go under tables during an earthquake, because wouldnt the ground crack open? The table wouldnt do anything then? Wasnt until last year I realised that it was to stop debris from falling on us. Smh

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    Karl Baxter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My old man told me that during WW2 the whole family hid underneath his grandma’s dining table during German air raids for the same reason

    Beruthiel45
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my city, or my part of it anyway, Newcastle upon Tyne, we had an aircraft siren go off at noon for years after the war ended. We kids wouid dive under the kitchen table too. Edited to add, we had atomic bomb training at school as well. Get under your desk. Fat lot of good that would have done. .

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    N Miller
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tables is obvious. Do doorframes provide the same protection/the same reason? (Genuine question, not in an earthquake zone (normally))

    Erica Knapp
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, doorframes help too. You can also stand or kneel next to something tall like a fridge or couch... basically making an angle to keep debris from falling on you.

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    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But has it really prevented kids from dying under the debris?

    Nolgoth
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Oct 17 1989 world series earthquake in CA, i was still at school doing after school stuff. Earthquake hit, me and other students and teacher went under tables until shaking stopped before going outside. Protected us from falling bookshelves, books, potted plants.

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    Lauren S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait until he hears about helmets!

    Khavrinen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the questions we have on our monthly safety quiz that we have to do at work is about what to do in the event of an earthquake, and the answer we're supposed to give is "Duck, cover, and hold." It wasn't until a few years ago that I learned that it doesn't mean "Hold your position until the quaking stops", it means "Hold onto whatever you're sheltering under, so that it doesn't get knocked aside by falling debris."

    Friday Van-Defoe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh…. I always knew that. Yep, yep, I , ALWAYS knew that, nope I didn’t just find that out by reading it a few seconds ago, I ALWAYS knew that!

    Mike Y
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We got under the desks when there was an Atomic Attack drill. What difference would it make?

    Esme Love and Squalor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lived in alaska as a kid and during earthquake drills we had to get under desk or in a doorway. But I wondered the same thing!

    Ralph Watkins
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was well into adulthood when I realized why we had to hide under our desks for nuclear attack drills. I got paddled in the first grade for refusing to get under there. You are telling me a big bomb that can flatten the entire area, that my desk is going to protect me. I now know that it wasn't about protection. During the recovery period, they can look at each little pile of ash that is left, & know who's remains belonged to who. That is where little Ralphie sat, there is Lisa's seat, And there are Suzy's ashes.....

    lemsip
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's because more people are killed by falling debris in earthquakes than by falling through the fissure. The ones I experienced didn''t have a fissure just tremors from underground which did cause some objects to fall such as outside lights.

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    #27

    Life is too short. Take the time to stop and smell the roses. RIP Myles grandpa loves and misses you

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    Lakota Wolf
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh. EDIT: From OP on Reddit: "Watching my grandson die and unable to help. He passed at 29 days from heart issues and had multiple open heart surgeries."

    XenoMurph
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Heart breaking (no pun intended). Can't even imagine the pain.

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    StrangeOne
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It really is. It's too short to complain and dread every day you have to go to work, looking forward to just your days off, anticipating vacations. No matter what undesirable situation I'm in I like to focus on something I enjoy in the moment. Give yourself some credit and some slack.

    DC
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...+ I found useful in order to avoid insanity, do at least ONE fun thing every day. Small, big, that's besides - just do one thing aiming only at your own happiness in the moment. Don't waste a day ONLY for other people, waste some time for your joy, too.

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    Steve Robert
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a great grandpa myself, I feel your pain

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get looks & laughs from all kinds of neighbors because I do just that. I never encroach on someone's property or take flowers without permission. But I DO stop and smell the roses. Whenever I can!

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Learn to separate the smell of the roses from the smell of the fertilizer that helps make the roses so fragrant.

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    #28

    That not everyone has a storyline ongoing inside their heads. I used to be inside my own and would laugh at things happening in my story, and everyone would look at me funny; so glad that I wear a mask now.

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    Stephanie Did It
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm still trying to understand people who say they have no inner dialogue. Do they not realize that ideas, questions, opinions and even worries ARE the inner dialogue? No one's head is empty of thoughts. Or maybe I'm totally wrong.

    jdtimid123
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the inner dialogue is more like the narrator in a movie, you're "talking" in your head. But some people (like my husband) don't have a voice in their head when they think. He says it's more pictures and feelings for him. Which is still weird to grasp, being someone who can't get their inner narrator to shut up for one moment

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    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What? Y'all don't just create stories or conversation in ur heads??

    Janet C
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I learned recently that 50% of the population doesn't have internal thoughts. Sounds creepy to me... all that silence.

    Surfing Panda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always had plenty of stories/scenarios/conversations going on in my head. You need to learn to keep them separated from your real llife. But they can be fun. Just don't think that you can imagine how a conversation with another person will go in real life. But... they are a very good help if you need to write stories, professionally or just for fun.

    Dave Hanel
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think everyone has a storyline going on in their head. Some are better at hiding it

    similarly
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know how people can live without an internal monologue, or a constant battle/debate against themselves. I can't get my inner voice to ever shut up!

    Bookworm
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. Used to mostly narrate myself as a kid. Now I've got a cast of characters I make up stories for.

    Nikki Angulo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just googled it and it seems that an inner monologue is actually *hearing* your voice in your head. So not the same as what this person is describing, which is more picturing a story inside your head. Some people just can’t do it, I was reading a story to some students and one said she couldn’t picture it in her head.

    Dawnieangel76
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have several rotating storylines in my head, depending on my mood. Soundtracks included. Pretty sure that's how I've survived this long with my s****y life.

    Kimberly Wiltshire
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maladaptive daydreaming. Welxome to the club.

    Dawn Messina
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just found out this was a thing,,, pretty sure this is me!

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    #29

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life Why girls in high school often didn't participate during sports class. "You don't feel well? Why don't you go home if your sick?" 10 years later: aaaaaaahhh...

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    Abigail Hill
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In high school sports classes I always felt like I had to work extra hard when I was going through that or I'd be "weak"... for all of you still in that age, don't feel like that. It's not weak to need to rest when you're in pain. It's taking care of yourself. My mindset was not healthy. Please rest when you need to :)

    Mysteria
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My current gym teacher won’t let girls sit out from period cramps because “she’s had them and they’re not bad enough to sit out”

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    WonderWoman
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people take the PE class WAYYYYYYYY too seriously and must win at all costs - rather than learning and enjoying the exercise for what it is. Those people and the PE 'teachers' make the rest of us miserable.

    Clay S.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? It seems like schools put more focus in sports than education

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    PunnyPanda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The advent of the sports bra combined with social acceptance of teens using tampons increased highschool sport participation for girls in the US exponentially.

    Jamie Tingley
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, to any girls who are constantly getting the "exercise will make u feel better" speech by their teachers, this is not correct. Yes, for some it will help, for others though, it can actually make the pain worse. Every body is different and be confident that you know your own body best.

    Carole Reid
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Back in high school in the late 50s. We girls would have to be in uniform (cotton white shirts with cap sleeves and snap buttons and blue shorts, gym shoes) and line up for roll call. If we were "having our period", we would say "regular" and be excused from heavy activities. We also had segregated hygiene classes (boy/girl) for reproductive health. This was California a more progressive state in general. But a lot of information was left out and we didn't dream of the internet.

    Catherine Spencer-Mills
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In high school, I would throw up every 20 minutes. Stopped after the first baby. Thank goodness.

    Pudgy Panda
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was I high school, girls who complained of cramps during PT were given extra exercises to do as the PT teacher said they would help with the cramping. So if you were in pain, it was better to just keep quiet about it.

    lemsip
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to get physically restless during periods so sitting in class for hours was more difficult than swimming or cross country running for half an hour.

    Lindsay Harless
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my male coaches told me to do the running exercise anyway because it would help with the symptoms. I looked at him like he grew two heads and kindly corrected him and said, I’d do it, but I’m not cleaning up the mess it will make. He looked so confused and had me sit. He had a daughter 4 years later and now he gets it. Yes, I still know him lol small town

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    #30

    That my parents are human beings who make mistakes and not perfect divine beings

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    Magdalena
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember how shocked I was at 15 to discover that my parents were less intelligent than I was. I mean they were taking all the decisions!

    Susie Standridge
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was around 10, my dad was putting up a barbed wire fence. I looked at his hands where he got a cut. It was the first time I remember of him ever bleeding. It made me realize he was human and one day he would die.

    Oh Gosh
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Up vote, up vote! It wasn't until I became a parent to a teenager that I realized my parents were just doing the best they could with what they had too!

    Stephanie Did It
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My daughter and I realized together that while children are growing up, they actually watching their parents grow up and maturing at the same time. She's 45 and I'm 19 years older.

    Melissa Leyva
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know so many people who need to learn this!

    lemsip
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I found out later from my grandparents what they were like. My maternal grandmother complained at how lazy my mother was and she needed my mother to help out as my mother's parents were busy running their shop. They lived behind the shop. My mother though could achieve things without much effort. My paternal grandmother who was from West Wales and Welsh speaking didn't want my father marrying a woman of English descent who only knew Welsh as a foreign language learned in school. My father hated swimming and paddling in the sea from an early age.

    StitchIsCuteAndFluffy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yeah. My mom told me this herself once, that she wasn’t perfect and was trying her best. I never hold my parents to an extremely high standard, but I know they’re doing their best!

    Crazy Meerkat Lady
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    S**t, good luck with them now that you know...

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had no problem with this. It was convincing them that took work.

    Nathaniel Heider
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents say that they made a mistake and there honest about it.

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    #31

    That my happiness and feelings matter too. I have always felt that I was there to support others and being the best person I can, and all it lead to was people taking advantage of me or making me feel like I did something wrong if I wasn’t what they wanted. I don’t feel that way anymore. I am not going to apologize to people treating me like c**p anymore. I only put my energy into people that actually deserve it now.

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    XenoMurph
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes it's a brutal realisation. But it became who I am, and I'm happy to help out people who deserve it.

    Jude Laskowski
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a so-called friend for many years. I never noticed that she always wanted me to come to her house (an hour away), but would never want to come to see me. During covid, she called me because she was bored - she couldn't go shopping or to the movies, so she wanted me to drive to her house and she would make lunch. I told her I wasn't going to drive that far, as my car was old. I haven't heard from her since. No problem.

    Florence O'Grady
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It took me awhile to figure out that it was okay to buy nice "stuff" for me and not just other people. And that I didn't have to wait for a special occasion to spend money on myself.

    Bright Legend
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You re so right there,, i was exactly same as you, bt now it feels good...

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    Moo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You feel so much better when you cut harmful people out of your life. I know from experience

    Immortal Jellyfish
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. Took my waaaayyyy too long to figure this out.

    Aknavi Epona
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this one.. I'm about to end a 17 year relationship because I finally have the guts to choose for myself. It's not easy, I'm on the brick of destruction but I have to do it. Otherwise I will be unhappy and living a life for someone else for the rest of my life. I can't do it anymore. I'm so exhausted and done..

    Bright Legend
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know how you feel,, but take it easy, nd think very well before you finally jump on conclusion...

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    Calvin Smelliott
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have, just recently, realized this about myself. I deleted lots of people from my social media and blocked two people from calling or texting. It gives me anxiety thinking about it, but I'm glad I did.

    Simon Rumble
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perfectly said! Big lesson I had to learn as well, actually making better contributions for it, I feel.

    Yenu
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Story of my life, I'm still transiting though

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    #32

    You can't ever rely entirely on any family or friends for life.

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    SCamp
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on your family and friends. You’ve probably been burnt by both. I haven’t .

    Remington Greer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd also stay that just because they are family doesn't necessarily make them taking advantage or abusing you means you HAVE to come to their aid.

    Upstaged75
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a sad sentence. :( I realize that I'm incredibly blessed to have the amazing family I was born in to. I always say I was first in line on the day awesome parents were being assigned.

    Mike Y
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are the only person you will spend every moment with.

    Mountainslady1
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 my oldest bro took me to some random shelter just to please our Stepdad's biological daughter who was taking over the house.

    Matt Harrell
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The family you make will always be stronger than the family you had no choice about.

    Melody Shanahan-Kluth
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will always be there to support my children - always, no matter what, if I can, I will help

    MontanaMariner
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can only rely on my mom and dog, everyone else has shown how little interest they have in my existence.

    LC Greenwood
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Human beings are, by nature, fallible. That is our humanity. No one is 100% reliable including you. That doesn't mean you're not cared for or loved. Unreasonable expectations lead to resentments. That is on you.

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    #33

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life “Queue” is not pronounced like “kwee wee”. I learned this in a meeting at work when I mispronounced it.

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    Robert Trebor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The other letters just fall silently in line.

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    Dorothy Stovall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pro tip: Never use words you're not 100% sure of how to spell or pronounce - Same thing with colloquialisms and expressions.

    Lakota Wolf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. I'm a voracious reader, but socially awkward. The number of words that I know how to spell/know the meaning of but have NO IDEA how to pronounce... it is a lot of words XD

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    Stephanie Did It
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In IT, I used to wince whenever someone referred to clearing their browser's"cash-ay" (cache is pronounced cash, cachet is cash-ay and a totally different word)

    PunnyPanda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol, and paradigm isn't "para-dig-um". Learned that the hard way in front of my western civ class freshman year of college.

    Stacey Thomas
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please can you explain how this is pronounced? I’ve only ever seen it written and I would have pronounced it that way haha

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    SCamp
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You pronounce it Kwee wee? I find that hard to believe

    Ash
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the thing: we don't use this word, so we never hear it said. Just imagine how you might try to pronounce this word if no one had ever said it to you?

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    similarly
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't feel bad. I'm over 50 and only recently learned that quay is actually pronounced "key".

    Ash
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh man I have so much trouble with that one. And only recently realized that "lesion" is "LEEzhun," not "LESS-ion." Like, I'd HEARD the word lesion, but I'd somehow never connected it with that spelling?

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    Crazy Meerkat Lady
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What an unfortunate way to find out! 😂

    Cheesedick Construcion
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And Penelope is not pronounced Pene-lope. I learned that the hardway in the new school I went to.

    Beruthiel45
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was my oh! moment too. Reading Greek myths on my own thinking Pennylope is funny and then in English ws studied the Odyssey and the teacher said Pen ell opee, Odysseus' wife. Oops. There were a couple of girls in my school with that name but everyone called them Penny, like Jennifers were all Jenny, so the penny never dropped. Sorry.😊

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    Upstaged75
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's hysterical! And embarrassing. :)

    KLL
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mandy is this you?! Bringing back strong kway memories from the old job.

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    #34

    That sex is nothing to be ashamed of. I grew up in a strict, repressive household. Became sexually active at 18 but felt a lot of guilt over it which didn't go away for a couple years. Those feelings negatively impacted my relationship at that time.

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    Nayla Kanaan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for saying that so many people don’t realize that it’s normal to not do it or to do it they are both normal and natural just don’t do it in public

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    Rachel Smith
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sex is the most natural thing. I don't like it when anyone is shaming anyone when it comes to sex and the many things it can entail. As long as both or all people are consenting adults, go for whatever you like.

    Holly Benedict
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Used to be embarrassed by it, til I met a guy that showed me it was an opportunity to bond with each other. He showed me it was just as much about trust and respect as it was about lust. The rules were so simple, we both give equally, we talk about what we like and don't like openly, we listen with no judgement, and respect the boundaries the other sets even if they change. I never felt more free or secure than the time I had with him.

    Kim Lorton
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I turned 18, i had an older boyfriend. We set about losing my virginity like we were full of bunny rabbit energy. Except it wasn't like all the romance novels !! That freaking hurt like a mother! Did not enjoy it for a couple of months!

    Paul Richards
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's religion and poor education for ya

    lemsip
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Religion is at the bottom of it all. Religion taught in all schools in the country I was born in and grew up in. Religious parents stopping teachers from teaching about sex adequately through the parent-teacher associations and becoming school governors as they are selected from councillors, teachers and parents of children in school. Some teachers are religious themselves. School education was very much devolved to local authorities when I was at school as there was no national curriculum then. Head teachers had more control over the curriculum then. I filled in the gaps later by reading books about it.

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    Temporary Dork
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, all your childhood shït negatively impacts any romantic relationship you have at 18.

    Ralph Watkins
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Puritans did so much damage to us Americans. Ten & the Jesuits were the ones who came up with the notion of sex being sinful. Go to Europe where sex & nudity are just seen as normal. It's not stigmatized like here. Lay out nude in the sun or have sex in public there it's nothing. Do it here in the US & it's a major crime.

    Dawnieangel76
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was in my early forties when I learned about Asexuality, and was relieved that while I was different, I wasn't broken because of how I was raised.

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    #35

    That there are tons of people out there who engage in sexual intercourse with other people not for the purpose of reproduction, but rather for enjoyment reasons, and that I am a part of a minority group of people called "asexuals". I'm still trying to wrap my head around this, but it has gone a long way to explain why I see so many people in relationships with terrible people who don't want to leave, or why something as unfathomable as cheating to me can seem like something valid to many others.

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    freakingbee (they/them)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    we need more asexual representation everywhere

    Midoribird Aoi
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally misread that as asexual reproduction at first...

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    Paul Neff
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Quoting here, to clarify against misinformation: Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to others, or low or absent interest in or desire for sexual activity. It may be considered a sexual orientation or the lack thereof. It may also be categorized more widely, to include a broad spectrum of asexual sub-identities. (To be specific, they don't WANT to engage in sexual activity)

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually some asexual people do enjoy sexual activities! Sex positive asexuals enjoy sex for reasons other than sexual attraction! There's also sex neutral or, like me, repulsed

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    Ildi Tóth
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm really glad you figured it out eventually, it tends to break the isolation. I hope you've found your inner peace. The exact same thing happened to me. To be fair, at the time of my younger years in Eastern Europe, even the validity of homosexuals was seriously questioned, and no one ever heard of asexuals. It felt so good to learn that there's a perfectly good explanation and I wasn't a solitary freak :)

    zerofoxgiven
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey I know this is one year late, but if you are seeing this. I feel you. I'm asexual, and I'm from Hungary, and for a very very long time I did not know the concept of being asexual, but I knew I was not 'normal'. Now I know and am in peace with myself. (Kár, hogy Magyarországon még erre is csúnyán néznek és nincs kilátás fejlődésre. De legalább én el tudtam fogadni magam.)

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    Ash
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this this this! My open-mindedness grew a lot after I learned I was asexual and not everybody saw the world the way I did. Before, it was just this sort of inexplicable, "But why would you DO something like that??" and now it's, "They're dealing with an urge I'm not dealing with." (It's like talking about somebody having a disability! lol)

    XenoMurph
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is there a letter for people who just want to be single?

    Feathered Dinosaur
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably aromatic. At least that's what I am. Don't want to do romantic stuff, but I'm not asexual. Edit: autocorrect is my enemy, I meant aromantic

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    AuntieDreDre
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true! Thanks for sharing this POV.

    StitchIsCuteAndFluffy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don’t get why people cheat on other people. Like, in my head, shouldn’t you be honest about your feelings and break up first? Also, I didn’t believe that most high school kids were actually sexually active. I still don’t know if they are, or if TV is actually right on this one.

    Re dacted (Ace)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, teen pregnancies are a thing, so at least some of them are. Probably not as rampant as TV would have us believe, though.

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    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? Not every relationship is fueled by sex. Sometimes a great companionship is more than enough.

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    #36

    Actual hygiene. It wasn’t until I was 12 and went to summer camp for the first time that I realized when you shower you’re suppose to wash yourself with soap. I would just wash my hair and hangout for while because I liked the hot water, THANK GOD I DIDN’T SWEAT A LOT.

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    Shane S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men, wash your booty holes! Wash with soap and water. Your butt should be as clean as your face when you come out of the shower.

    CD King
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I kinda think everyone should wash their booty hole.

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    Dorothy Stovall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kind of an oversight in the parenting department.

    Lolly Gagger
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not necessarily. I have shown my kids how to do things on a daily basis until I am blue in the face but it’s not until they have had something explained to them or demonstrated to them by a peer that it has finally clicked.

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    Kaye Nicole (Nikki)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That sucks, tbh. When I was a kid like, toddler age I remember my mom showing me how to wash my body properly

    Sue from England
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember when I first became a bonus mom, one of my bonus children didn't know how to cut their toenails safely (i.e.without tearing them up and making them bleed). I showed him and he thanked me. Said no-one had ever taught him. I guess there are some things you just imagine they will know what to do?

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    Conan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how do you not know to rub soap on yourself when showering

    Ode
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kids don't sweat in the same way so they learned to use soap just in time for their greasy teenage years :)

    Helga Zwemmer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wash and rinse, preferable with soap or bodywash or whatever you want to use. Just keep it clean and when you rinse with clear water there is no need to worry about ph balance or whatever stuff you are worried about. Your body will balance all that out again within 2 hours.

    Nosirrow
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've read we should wash private parts with just water. I would never ditch soap, though.

    Kimberly Thomason
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Girls should use the correct soap on their female areas, regular soap everywhere else especially the booty hole areas. The wrong soap on our female area can cause irritation and infections and it throws off our natural ph balance. Some of us cannot use regular soap as much of it causes allergic reactions.

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    Alleman Jennifer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son just recently learned about shampoo. He thought soaking his hair while taking a shower did the trick. I won’t even tell you how old he is. It’s crazy.

    Natricia Perkins
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm starting to think this is the result of caretakers doing less in fear of molestation by accident, not realizing the important lesson being missed

    AppleInMyHeart
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how many times you take A bath is included too. children i was in the uk. seldom took a proper bath and we would share the hot bath water, teenage years in malaysia, a hot country, bathip

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    #37

    I have ADHD, penny dropped at 43 years old.

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    Poppy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was 47. To be fair, if OP is female, it is harder to diagnose in ladies than men. We mask it more.

    Oh Gosh
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just had to Google what "penny dropped" means. Lol

    Upstaged75
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a kid a "penny drop" meant hanging upside down by your knees on the playground bars, swinging hard, and letting go to land on your feet. :) I usually missed and fell, but some girls were really good at it.

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    Aurora Evans MacDonald
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also diagnosed at 43. Only took major depression, panic disorder, and suicidal ideation to get some gd real answers. I’m female, btw.

    AK to LV
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad you were able to get some answers. I hope your feeling better.

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    similarly
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a kid back in the 1970s, my teachers labeled me, literally, "lazy" and "stupid". It wasn't until I was an adult that I realized I had classic ADHD symptoms, developmental learning disabilities (LD that goes away as you get older) and at least 3 forms of dyslexia, one of which is quite rare ... not to mention that I didn't get glasses until I was in high school and likely needed them long before that, but nobody noticed that eyesight might be the problem. I think my early schooling could have been a lot easier than it was if only people had known what to look for.

    The Original Bruno
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    35. It was quite something to realize that what had always been treated (by including but not limited to myself) as a character defect was in fact a medical condition. In my case, caused by head trauma.

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At 15 I'm starting to think I may be a bit autistic

    Nayla Kanaan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m autistic but I wasn’t diagnosed till around your age so my best advice would be push hard for getting evaluated especially if you are ADHD since it is a very common partner to autism (also remember it’s autism spectrum disorder so you may not have the same traits exactly as another autistic person since you will be at different points on the spectrum)

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    Helen Storer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was 39. I'm female, and have the inattentive type, not the hyperactive type, so i just looked like i was daydreaming a lot, among other things.

    Bookworm
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 25. Just recently starting to suspect that my severe executive function issues in school were actually undiagnosed ADD and/or high-functioning autism. A psychologist actually told my parents at one point that he thought I was on the spectrum; no one ever followed up. Thanks a lot, Mom and Dad 🙄

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    #38

    Boundaries.

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    PunnyPanda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For real. Nobody modeled or taught me that s**t growing up. When I finally got it, it was like a bolt of lightning. Recently realized that most of the challenges in my life are related to poor boundaries and it definitely threw me through a loop.

    Blue_Mouse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously that’s why I had to break up with my boyfriend Last night

    #39

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life I learnt that we're supposed to brush both sides of our teeth . The inner side needs to be brushed as well. I saw all of the commercials just showing them brushing the outer portion so i assumed that this is the way

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    Kise Miarse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a bit of an oversight on the parent/guardian's part I would say

    Joe Publique
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Didn't your parents teach you how to brush?

    Temporary Dork
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you try to brush underneath the gum line, you're doing it right.

    Natricia Perkins
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Strange, we had this lesson repeatedly in February every year in grade school. We got to use the giant dentures and toothbrushes...i believe there was a song

    Nathaniel Heider
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to ask my dentist when i was 12 the. I never stopped because it feels good on my teeth

    Valaun
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see a troll has been at the comments. Upvotes for all. As an addition, flossing is equally important as brushing. Think of brushing as stopping cavities and flossing as preventing gum disease.

    Nolgoth
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also. Dont swish with water just spit the toothpaste out. It is supposed to leave a bit of coating on your teeth for it to work properly (usually has ingredients that bind to teeth with saliva)

    Temporary Dork
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NO DON'T DO THIS. I read this on the internet somewhere twenty years ago, thought it made sense, tried it, had three cavities in six months. If you must, rinse thoroughly and then re-apply toothpaste.

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    Nikki Angulo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even if the parents didn’t teach it, didn’t their dentist tell them? We also had dental people come to our school several times to go over stuff like that.

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    #40

    It was some point in high school, probably around 10th grade, that it was made clear to me that two non-infected gay men engaging in monogamous non-protected intercourse didn’t magically produce the hiv/aids. To be clear I literally thought the simple act of gay sex resulted in hiv/aids.

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    James P
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm really glad it doesn't.

    Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of people thought this. This was before AIDS was better understood, and caused a lot of discrimination of gay folks. Glad we know better now.

    Seabeast
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In most parts of the world, HIV was spread through heterosexual contact, but the hysterical anti-gay crowd refused to believe that they could ever be at risk.

    Tommy DePaul
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Africa it was commonly believed that having sex with a virgin would cure HIV. I wonder how that worked out?

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    Ralph Watkins
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the early 80s when AIDS first hit the fan, there were only 3 ways of getting it. IV drug users, Gay men, & Haitian men. Period. Don't dispute it. A girl in my Army unit in Germany, her 12 year old brother was dying of AIDS. They would not let her come home on emergency leave. It's false unless he is one of those 3 things. He was a hemophiliac & had received many blood transfusions. The Red Cross & the US govt refused for years to believe HIV was in the blood supply. Gay men still can't donate blood no matter how monogamous they are but the lady down the street who has sex with everything with a breath is okay to donate.

    BPisaddictive
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just likes being chinese did not mean you were abruptly spreading Sars-CoV2. Many thought exactly this even if chinese people were born and lived elsewhere. I know of people with chinese resemblance going around with the banner of their country fearing to be mistaken for chinese

    Janet Weston
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just what were you taught at school ?

    Amy S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably nothing. In the UK at least it was illegal to 'promote' homosexuality in schools so teachers didn't talk to kids about people being gay at all. HIV and aids were called the gay disease when I as a kid, and it was thought that only gay men would get it. There really was so much prejudice and misinformation at the time. For context, the police once raided a gay bar in London and wore rubber gloves so they wouldn't catch HIV.

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    S Mi
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for sharing OP. Propaganda got younger you in a previous scary way there

    Psalm Daisy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah it was the "gay cancer" for quite a while

    Valerie G.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    During that time, my gay brother warned me against going in for surgery. The gay people knew way before the rest of the world that HIV could be the result of body fluids including blood transfusions.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, that's how the media/hysteria machine made it sound. No fault on you.

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    #41

    That I belonged to a cult

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    Strings
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That had to be a scary revelation

    Paul Neff
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Practically all religions started as cults, some just got big enough to claim otherwise.

    martymcmatrix
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At first, I was reading "That I belonged to a c l i t" ••• I have to apologize!

    Trash Panda 🦝
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the last sentence of their book, and I really want to go back a few chapters

    Matt Harrell
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too! I grew up in a Mormon family

    W.D. Callahan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was common knowledge that you learned?

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    #42

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life Pickles are brined cucumbers. Only found out a few years ago. I'm about to turn 42.

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    Miliukov Oleksandr
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wait till you see where the chips come from

    Dorothy Stovall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are specific pickle cucumbers that you make pickles out of - not salad cucumbers.

    Pollymere
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the UK pickled veg is categorised by type so pickled onions, beetroot etc. Pickled mini cucumbers are pickled gherkins...

    Chiara1125
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What? I don't understand this one. What else would it be? They still look like cucumbers when they're in a jar. It's not like they change into pink cubes and become unrecognizable.

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a kid I considered a cucumber to be a pickle that never found its true calling.

    Maria
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cucumbers they sell in the UK are like a foot long. I can see how the tiny ones in jars seem like a different vegetable.

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    Christopher Denney
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, my mom canned pickles, and her mom did. I always, always, hated cukes, but I love me some dill pickles. My mom's dad liked sliced raw cukes in water with a bit of vinegar and onion as a snake. Smelled awful.

    Rachel Smith
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah they should be labeled as pickled cucumbers. Cuz technically anything can be pickles

    C.M.
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anything can be pickled, but not anything can be pickles.

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    Dave Hanel
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mentioned to a coworker that I was making pickles and he seriously thought they came from a pickle plant.

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    #43

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life Martha Stewart does not own Martha's Vineyard....

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    Shane S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she now has a wine by that name though. I think I’ve seen it at Walmart. Obviously, the wine came after the city.

    Robert Trebor
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Martha's Vineyard is an Island below Cape Cod in Massachusetts. A lot of NIMBYs live there. Yes to windfarms, but not where I can see them from my deck.

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    Timbob
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe she also has served time in prison. Not a good example setter !

    Shyla Bouche
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The women she was in prison with shared prison cooking recipes with her. Stewart promised that when she wrote her prison cookbook, they would get credit and share in the proceeds. She lied.

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    The Original Bruno
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BWAHAHAHAHA!!!! It certainly IS hard not to associate the two, at least.

    Chris Landrum
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    she went to prison and never snitched

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    #44

    That paprika is just crushed red pepper

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    James P
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There really are a lot of types of paprika. The type of red pepper that is crushed depends on the place it comes from, often times.

    Alex Luiz
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Paprika is not always smoked.also, this comment will confuse a lot of people because 'pepper' can mean 'chilli' to some nationalities.Americans: by 'pepper' the OP means 'bell pepper'.

    Joelle Jansen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fun fact, in some european languages a bell pepper is also called "paprika". So I'm guessing those two are related.

    Janez Usenik
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You guess correctly. Most importantly it's a Hungarian word for Bell Pepper - that's where it was first used as a spice and many languages imported the word to mean the fruit as well. I was actually shocked to find this word is not used in English to describe the fruit, since it is so common in European languages (German, Italian, Slavic languages...)

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    Shane S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But it’s smoked. that’s the difference

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    TotallyNOTaFox
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Easier to pick that up in german, since the actual fruit is called Paprika here

    Lauren S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No way! It’s not really spicy. Is this true? According to google, that is indeed true. But they do make it from very mild red peppers. And the spicier kinds use seeds and such where the nonspicy kinds only use the skin. 🤔

    Alexej Dvorak
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The difference is because the actual paprika fruit (the "bell pepper") contains a lot of water and depending on the type also other ingridients like natural sugars etc. that are no longer present when it is dried and ground into the spice.

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    Ace
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well so is Cayenne, and any other 'chilli' powder. Paprika comes in different varieties though, usually quite mild but can be hot (not normally as hot as cayenne) and sometimes smoked for extra flavour. And a 'normal' paprika in one country may not be the same as in another.

    Tom De Paul
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 63 and didn't know that. But I use chili oil for heat. The flakes get stuck in my teeth.

    Liz Mary
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a friend (operative word being had), who claimed to be allergic to pepper. Except that I only found out when made a stew that had some bigger bits of pepper in it. She made scene. I told her that I had been serving pepper in the food for a long time She never complained but made a drama that now she new why she was always feeling so poorly. We were flatmates so I knew it didn't add up as she never complained. I decided not to tell her what paprika is (we Germans looove paprika). Asked her once "you don't want paprika on your fries, do you?". If course she did. Later asked her if she was OK and if she liked the lunch. Yep, absolutely amazing, lunch was delicious! New she was faking it. I also caught her buying spring rolls that contained peppers. Saw her checking the ingredients. She snuck the empty box out the kitchen super quick not knowing I had checked the ingredients in the store.

    Evelien Stijger Martens
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am sorry, but one is hot and the other is sweet.

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    #45

    That male circumcision is not just a Jewish thing and that I'm circumcised

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    Shane S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s a Jewish, Muslim, and largely American thing. I respect all opinions but mine is that I wish we’d keep boys natural unless medically necessary. But to each their own.

    XenoMurph
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it wasn't done by "acceptable" societies, we'd call it mutilation. We don't allow dogs talis and ear to be cut (in many western countries" but we allow this..... barbaric.

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    Telepathetic
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't even know about circumcision til I saw an uncut one in a locker room (What's wrong with HIS D-ck ? )

    Ashleigh O'Sullivan
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't know a circumcised one till I saw an American cut One ran I mile 🙈🙈

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    The Doom Song
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The foreskin is there for a reason. Leave it be.

    Travelling Stranger
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    circumcision has no medical justification, its only grounds is some religious nonsense

    Annik Perrot
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, maybe it made sense at à time, even if it doesn't now. Remember that the two religions that promoted it originated in countries where waters rare, and sand plentiful.

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    Linda Lee
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was 8 months pregnant a baby boy died from a circumcision. It was all over the news. My son, born in 1988, was not circumcised.

    Geoffrey Scott
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shocked the H*** out of me when in gym, had a dude that had not been cut. Yeah, Yeah, not supposed to look, but DAMN. Freaked me out

    Shane S
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just remember this his is the one that’s “supposed” to look like that.

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    similarly
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A doctor once told me that circumcision prevents complications that affect approximately 1 in 50,000 males. So essentially, back when circumcision was almost universal in the US, we were unnecessarily circumcising 49,000 people just to avoid an easily remedied problem for that 1 in 50,000. He told me that there's basically no real medical reason to do it. I now live in Japan where basically NOBODY does it, and everybody here's fine.

    SadieCat17
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Might want to double check that math you got there lol

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    Rosie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the Caribbean it's traditionally done for hygiene. The Jewish/Muslim population is minimal, but for generations you rarely found a non-circumcised male.

    maniacallysane
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg! Same! I was 34 when i realized. But i am glad im circumsized.

    Array Index Out of Bounds
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, I am pretty happy to be circumcised, thank you very much!

    L. Murphy
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. There's a reason uncut is not the norm in porn.

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    #46

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life Parents have names too, learned at like 9 or 10

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    Francesca Annoni
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i have been teaching my kids their first and last names since they were 2...and my and my husbands names, and i have been teaching them our home address, you never know how important this information is when a child gets lost!

    whaaaaaaaaaa
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. I once got lost (I explored a bit too much, my parents weren't even far but I considered myself lost lol) in the grocery store when I was 5 and I knew exactly what to do. I went to the most secure place from where I can find help, told them the names of my parents, they called for them and they came pick me up. If that didn't work, I was ready to give them a phone number and if that didn't work out, my address. It's really really important to teach your kids these things and also how to be careful with strangers. It amazes me how people don't teach their kids these things as it can LITERALLY save their lives

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    Leekier
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I can see that parents would refer to each other as mammy or daddy when they’re talking to their children but what about everyone else? Everyone but my brother and I called our mam by her name, our dad was dead but if mam spoke about him to anyone else she used his name. I do remember being very disappointed when I was about 5 when my brother told me in have to take my husband’s last name when i married. I planned to get round that by marrying my younger cousin and found out we had different last names anyway; foiled!!

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    cadena kuhn
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my daughter was about 3 I took her to toddler storytime and we went around the room introducing ourselves I said my name was cadena she goes NO! Her name is mommy

    Pink Princess
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How did they only learn at 9 or 10?? I knew that when I was 3

    leetokofi
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    in some cultures it's strictly forbidden to use parents names, my sister is a Dr, older kids didn't know their grandma name

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    Magdalena
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had it a bit the other way around when my daughter asked why I called her "child" instead of using her name, I was like "yyyy... you call me mom"

    Jude Laskowski
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Growing up, we barely knew our parents' first names, and we never called our friends' parents by their first names. When my friend's mom was 99, I realized that I didn't know her first name. She was always Mrs. H.

    Stardust she/her
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I learnt it at 4 and only called my parents by their names until they yelled at me for disrespecting them

    Me
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Didn't your parents talk to euch other using their first names?

    Tucker Cahooter
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mine didn't. Pretty dead marriage by the time I arrived on the scene

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    Clément D.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know a guy, his sons call him "firstname" and not "dad". That would hurt me

    DC
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call my Dad by his first name since ... always did so.

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    Valerie G.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only knew what to go on was from notes they would leave for each other, he called her Bunty and she called him Doc. Imagine my surprise when as an adult I welcomed a new client and said "oh, that's my mom's maiden name, could we be related. Well, hello Uncle Jack. He even said "your mom's name is Bunty and your dad's name is Doc." Their real names were Muriel and Norman.

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    #47

    My whole life is an embarrassment if that counts. I'm in my thirties and I still struggle with basics.

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    Alecto76
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. We all struggle with almost everything. I don't care about your grades, position, blah blah. Everyone is struggling here.

    Carole G.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We all struggle at something, age does not discriminate ; )

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've lived my whole life as a warning to others.

    Sue from England
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's usually someone somewhere who will help. It's just taking the first step.

    Skip62
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some things I don't think I will ever figure out.

    nancthetank@gmail.com
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What are basics? I think everyone is always learning from others!

    MontanaMariner
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm somewhere between complete disappointment and utter failure.

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    #48

    How to say the last name Nguyen.

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    Peter Trico
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just learned right now. I’m 62

    CaptXpendable
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was a long time before I learned that Siobhan, is pronounce "Shi-vahn"

    RedPanda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the same vein, how does one pronounce “Ng” and “Ngai”? Both are eastern Asian last names

    Owen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ng is pronounced somewhere between Eng(with the short e sound) and Ang (With the long a sound)

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    Katy L. Paso
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I learned in 8th grade... Yeah it's Wen or New-en depending on what part of Vietnam you're talking about. Most Vietnamese Americans use 'Wen'.

    rumple slunkskin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had to Google the pronunciation and practice for a moment before calling a Ms Nguyen at work. Everyone else declared "not it" before I came in. She said she was surprised I said it right, thanks google.

    Melody Shanahan-Kluth
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have always said 'nuh guy en' in my head - thank the lord I never spoke to anyone with the name and hideously misspoke it

    Theoretical Empiricist
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went so far as to ask someone with that surname how to pronounce it ("win"). I was 55.

    rodger coghlan
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Use a vague hint of an 'N'; there was a short-lived comic "Billy Nguyen - Private Eye". There were only 5 issues but funny as hell post-apocalyptic Seattle series

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    #49

    How to brush my teeth. I was super neglected as a child so that is something I've always struggled with and even after going to a dentist for 2 years and having exams every 4 months I only learned last month that you need to brush your gums 🤷🏻

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    Sorry
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Product idea: A pill that you put on your tongue ..close your mouth and it fizzes up completely cleaning your teeth..gums..tongue ..spit it out and rinse ..job done.

    Tara MacDonald
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Great concept, but as a dental hygienist, I can confidently share that it is the mechanical action of the toothbrush that removes the plaque and food debris from your teeth. Mouthwash are nice but aren't cleaning anything

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    Temporary Dork
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Brush under the gum line at a 45 degree angle. Also: You need to replace your brush after three months, and it needs to look essentially the same. If the hairs stand out, you're pushing too hard.

    Linden
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Add to this - the right pressure to brush with is 150-200g. I used WAY too much pressure for most of my life.

    Ole Peder Amrud Hagen
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    2 years ago

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    Verena Abt
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't you automatically brush your gums when you brush your teeth? It's hard not to.

    Argie Smith
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And your tongue and roof of mouth

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    #50

    50 Pieces Of Common Knowledge People Admit To Learning Embarrassingly Late In Life Riding a bike at 15

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    The_Nicest_Misanthrope
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a fellow late-to learner (14), I saute you!

    memyselfandI
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I learned at about 11, but not for lack of trying…

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    Alexia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I couldn't ride a bike until very late. First, during childhood, we were too poor to afford it; then I had health problems with my back spine. Worked to earn a living and underwent treatment for my spine for years. Now I'm learning to ride a bike in the park nearby. It's awkward to be so clumsy among all those kids and teenagers, but I don't care. I'm in my early 40s. :)

    Cal the dragon!
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still have no idea how the heck I'm supposed to ride that thing.

    Zenozenobee
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A mother at my kids' school learnt last summer to swim and ride a bike. She never had a bicycle or went to the pool as a kid and decided to take lessons to be able enjoy these activities with her daughter.

    Lee Henderson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was 8 when my best friend taught to ride a bicycle.

    Manda Williams
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I decided to embrace my own absurdity when I learned at 22. You can get away with all kinds of things when you do that. ;-)

    Chris Landrum
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was shocked when a guy at work just got his drivers license at the age of 23, here in Florida. Heck, I go mine as soon as I could

    Joe Publique
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on where you're from. In lots of places driving lessons are prohibitively expensive for some.

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    IndigoViolent
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was a bit on Taskmaster where the contestants had to ride a bike, and Victoria Coren Mitchell goes, "Um..." She was 49 at the time, and she gamely got on the bike and actually did pretty well, considering. So it's never too late.

    Chris O'Quinn
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I taught myself how to ride a bike at 8 years old. I started by riding the bike using my feet on the ground to push along, keeping my balance. Did this for weeks. When I felt confident enough I used the pedals and that was it.

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    #51

    That skunks weren't only a French thing. Pepe le Pew had me thinking all skunks live in France

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    Karen Startz Richardson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This....is seriously a bit of innocence that it is 100% ok to have. Matters not that skunks are scattered across the globe. 🦨

    kathoco
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are no skunks in France, ironically.

    Robert Trebor
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many live in the USA, but too many try to emulate chickens, and try to cross the road.

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    #52

    Teachers lie when they say “there are no such things as stupid questions”. I’ve asked so many stupid questions LOL

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    Nonna_SoF
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are no stupid questions, just a lot of stupid people... but seriously it's better to just admit when you don't know something and ask than act like you already know.

    Alecto76
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree in one situation. I (5'1) at 22 was asked whether I had always been this short.

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    James P
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do think there are stupid questions.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a stupid question if it shows you haven't been listening.

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    Lolly Gagger
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I say that to my patients when they say “can I ask a stupid question?”. The only stupid question is the one not asked.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never ask if I can ask a stupid question. It's already been firmly established that I can.

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    SkyBlueandBlack
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can confirm -- both my parents were teachers, and they freely admit this!

    Mat Hall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to have a couple of Demotivational posters in my office, one of which read "There are no stupid questions, but there are a lot of inquisitive idiots." Sadly HR made me take them all down...

    HoRace
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my favorite sayings: There are no such things as stupid questions, only stupid people who ask questions.

    Joseph Grimmett
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No honest question is stupid. If you're genuinely asking for the sake of learning, there are no stupid questions.

    Suzy Creamcheese
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a teacher in high school who liked to say the only stupid questions are the ones you don't ask. Made me wonder if he was actually listening to the ones that *were* asked. ;-)

    Fat Panda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol that could totally backfire on them

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    #53

    How to dry myself off with a towel, I didn’t have parents who taught me basic things, they had too many kids. I saw in movies they would just wrap themselves in a towel and leave the shower. That’s what I would do and I remember always being told I got water everywhere but never understood why until a few years ago…..I’m 30.

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    Sarel Seerower
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want to know how many kids they had

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    #54

    This "Itsy Bitsy Spider" song is not in fact about a spider in a bathtub. I always though the "water spout" in the song was the water spigot in a tub and the rain washing the spider out was someone turning the tub water on. I was well into my 20s and looking for parts to repair my house when I realized that a "water spout" is actually a rain gutter. So the spider was in a gutter and the rain that washed it out was literally just rain.

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    Karl Baxter
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I learned it as “Incey wincey spider”

    ...
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How did you not realize?

    Display_Name
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess if the house had a hole in the roof then the rain would wash the spider down the tub drain.

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    #55

    Hot showers. I was 31 when I figured them out. I know it sounds stupid but hear me out. I showered with the same temperature water I’d wash my hands with, it was warm-ish but it wasn’t hot. I always thought it was weird they advised against washing face in shower since water was the same temperature. Id use the Vick’s shower tablets when I felt congested only to have to squat to be able to get any of the steam. I laugh back at it now 2 years ago I was having shoulder pain and was told to run hot water on it. I did my usual hot water for a few days and nothing happened then one day I turned the hot water up and bam! I felt something release after a few minutes. I had some of the vicks laying around and threw a tablet down. I had to turn it down because the smell was too strong, didn’t even need to squat. I was 🤯

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    Dorothy Stovall
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know what fixes almost everything? A hot soaking bubble bath. I'm glad I figured that out as a young teen.

    Kise Miarse
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well . . . you saved a lot of energy over the years? Accidentally eco friendly?

    Lynn
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never heard of Vick's shower tablets but they sound awesome

    Benita Valdez
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get it though from a slightly different angle. We have always had an electric water heater and with those, water doesn't get nearly as hot as gas/oil heaters; took me a long time to realize how hot faucet water could actually get and it stays hot too after 20 minuts 🤯

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently both hot and cold showers are good for you in different ways. Not sure about luke warm ones though lol

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    #56

    French toast can be made with other breads besides raisin bread

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    SCamp
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never made it with raisin bread and don’t know anybody who has. This is a thing?

    Majungasaurus
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try it with chocolate chip banana bread :)

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    Nolgoth
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never had french toast made with raisin bread 😲

    Bill Tinsley
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh man if you thought French toast had to have raisins in it your opinion of French toast was unfairly negatively impacted for a very long time. Unless of course for some strange reason you like raisins

    Cecilia Bragg
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Brit. My default is to eat savory French toast. Never could understand putting sugar or fruit on it. 🤢

    Joe Publique
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too. Putting anything sweet on there is revolting.

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    Joseph Grimmett
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Raisin bread is gross, using it for french toast would be f**king awful.

    Immortal Jellyfish
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What? Raisin bread?! Ours was always made with plain white bread, which also doubled as hot dog or hamburger buns

    Kise Miarse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Challah is particularly delicious

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    #57

    I used to say "f**k it I'll be dead by 20 and if not I guess I'll regret this s**t later". Almost 30 and still alive, should have died multiple times, but got lucky and now I do regret a lot of s**t. So basically I learned it's cool to live for the day, but do expect tomorrow just in case.

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    Ace
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And remember that "that which doesn't kill you" does not usually makes you stronger, if makes you suffer the rest of your life from injuries sustained...

    Pineapple
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or in my case just be sitting there as a ticking time bomb

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    Lakota Wolf
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember cheerfully telling my dad when I was 10 or so that I would unalive myself at age 45 because that was "too old" and I'd be "done with life" by then. I'm 41 now and I definitely do not plan on sticking to my original promise XD I have cats that need me! My dad was 50ish when I told him that, and I remember he just looked at me all "😐" when I told him that I thought 45 was "old" XD

    Terry Tobias
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha ha ha! When I was a kid I thought because I'd turn 40 in the year 2000 that I'd be close to death. Now I'd give almost anything to be 40 again!

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    Mat Hall
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Live for today, plan for tomorrow.

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    #59

    Gas stations weren't built over natural refined gas reserves below ground, and that gasoline was shipped to gas stations

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    #60

    I thought people said “Florida ceiling” when referring to floor to ceiling windows til I was like 25 lmaooo made sense to me 🤷🏼‍♀️

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    Deson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a child when a waitress would ask if you wanted "Soup or Salad"? I thought she was asking if you wanted a "Super Salad" and wondered why no one ever ordered it. This went on until my early 20's when it finally dawned on me what was going on.

    Vix Spiderthrust
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A nursing home resident is having his hundredth birthday, so as a treat they hire him a stripper. She comes in, throws off her coat to reveal herself clad only in basque and stockings, and straddles the centenarian's wheelchair. "Hey there," she purrs, "I'm here to give you super sex." The old man focuses his bleary eyes on her. "I'll have the soup," he says.

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    Nosirrow
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me of the person who was perplexed by 'Knowledge is power, France is bacon'.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A "Florida ceiling" is one a hurricane has moved five miles from the rest of the house.

    Khavrinen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For a long time I thought the line in the song "Puff the Magic Dragon" was "Brought him strings and ceiling wax", not "sealing wax".

    T'Mar of Vulcan
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, geez. When the movie "The Amityville Horror" came out, I heard it pronounced a lot, but never saw the word. I would talk about the movie like "The Ama Teeville Horror".

    Kise Miarse
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For some reason I love this. 😂

    #61

    Women can be just as cruel as men.

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    Vix Spiderthrust
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what gets me when people say "If women were in charge there'd be no more war". No; women are very capable of being vindictive, petty and spiteful.

    Sue from England
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And there are very many cases of males being raped or the victims of domestic violence.

    TotallyNOTaFox
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women are human, and we humans are occasionally very horrible. The difference is that women are mostly cruel on a social or psychological level in comparison to the more hands on cruelty of men

    Katarzyna Drozd
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, We are all just flawed people and sex doesn't matter

    XenoMurph
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not if you were brought up "correctly", to be a "gentleman". Seriously, these days we'd call it gaslighting, or manipulation. Back then the man was supposed to take whatever was thrown at him by an abusive woman. Often literally.

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    Nosirrow
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And it hurts more. Women are supposed to be loving, caring, affectionate, so it's shocking when a woman attacks another woman or a child.

    Joe Publique
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes crueler. Asshats are asshats regardless of gender.

    Christy Means-Stephens
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure why you got a downvote, you are absolutely correct. Take my woman’s upvote.

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    #62

    That being a fat guy my whole life was not the best choice.

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    Joseph Grimmett
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For some it's not a choice. There are glandular issues that cause excessive weight gain, and there isn't a lot that can be done.

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    #63

    Didn't know about the arrow that points to the side the gas tank is on until I was about 40.

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    Monte Cheney
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perhaps because this is a relatively new feature on automobiles,like post 2000.

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even the four or five post-2000 cars I've driven don't have this feature so it's definitely not universal. My Mum's car is a 2022 model and it doesn't have it.

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    Christy Means-Stephens
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My car doesn’t have the arrow! I actually read a long thread on this the other day. It was crazy how heated the conversation got 😂. Dunno if it’s all German manufactured cars, but ours do not have the arrows.

    Deeelite
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mine points to the wrong sixe of the gas tank

    Miss Mali
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What arrow??? I have heard about it but have yet to find it!!!

    Joseph Grimmett
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just would like to say to the people saying that their cars don't have it. Its the arrow next to the tiny gas pump by your fuel guage. There are almost no gasoline cars built in the last decade that don't have them

    MichelleDonut
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can afford a car less than 10 years old? Lucky!

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    #64

    How to tie my shoes did not till 19. My parents brother and cousins all tried. I just couldn't understand it when I was 6, so I just stopped trying to learn and tucked my laces in my socks.

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    Kaye Nicole (Nikki)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn’t even learn it from my parents. I was 6, and the recess supervisor taught me.

    freakingbee (they/them)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i've never seen anyone tie shoes the way i do apparently i learned it the "wrong" way

    Strings
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If your shoes stay on, it isn't the "wrong" way

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    Shark Lady
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My gran made me a felt bear that had all different types of fastening on it. It still took me forever to master shoelaces.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They should have brought my wife in. In her kindergarten class she had a student with only one arm, and she taught him to tie his shoes.

    Maria
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BRB, need to go find out how people tie laces with one arm!

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    Vix Spiderthrust
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I am a quitter! I come from a long line of quitters! It's a miracle I'm here at all!" - Bernard Black

    Nosirrow
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My nine-year-old pupil asked me to tie his shoes. Absolutely not. I showed him on my shoes how to tie the laces. I make two loops and tie them together.

    #65

    How to navigate the academic landscape effectively.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mainly stay beneath the surface, but keep your periscope up at all times.

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    #66

    That you don’t have to put your knife *through the tines of the fork to cut stuff

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    freakingbee (they/them)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh thank god the sound makes me want to rip my eardrums out

    Oh Gosh
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So not exactly this but similar. I was taught you switch your knife to your right hand and fork in your left to cut then switch the fork back to your right hand to take a bit. That's just too much work. I just cut food with my left hand.

    Sans Serif
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "There are two basic methods for eating with a knife and fork. The “American” involves having your fork in your left and your knife in your right when cutting your food, then putting the knife down and switching your fork to your right hand to eat, tines facing upwards. (If you’re right-handed, that is.) With the “European” method, the fork remains in the left hand and the knife helps coax your food onto your fork. The tines remain facing downwards."

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    #67

    That bob seger was not singing about a night moose. I never really bothered to listen to the lyrics and that was the only part of the song that stuck out to me.

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    Kise Miarse
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dad grew up thinking "Only the Lonely" was "Phony Baloney" and "I only have eyes for you" was "I only have ICE for you."

    Joe Publique
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks for that. Now I'll never get 'Phoney Baloney' out of my head.

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    Bookworm
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Istanbul (Not Constantinople) by They Might Be Giants. It wasn't 'nobody's business but the jerks.' My dad thought it was hilarious, though. It's probably a good thing we didn't know anyone who was Turkish - I asked for that song a lot.

    Kise Miarse
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is my new favorite misheard song lyric.

    Benita Valdez
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Loser by Beck. That song is mostly a nonsensical jumble of words, and he actually sings "soy un perdador, I'm a loser baby..." and i always thought he said "someone get the door" and it made sense to me since most of the lyrics don't make sense 😂

    Christy Means-Stephens
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Blinded by the Light” has several misinterpreted lines - what I didn’t know until about 5 minutes ago is that it was originally written and recorded by Bruce Sprinsteen, and that the Manfred Mann version is a cover!

    Joseph Grimmett
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is a great song, and an awesome metaphor

    Stephanie Did It
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My little girl heard, "Every time you go away, you take a piece of meat with you" Can't blame her though, I was hearing the Beach Boys sing (Kokomo) "I want to bake like mounds of rotten steak"

    Karen Startz Richardson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Elton John wasn't singing, "hold me closer, Tony Danza"...

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    #68

    How to pronounce "salmon"

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    Bill Tinsley
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people go their entire lives convinced that's a hard "l"

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    #69

    There is no common sense.

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    Nonna_SoF
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Common sense is the things that seem obvious to me. Common knowledge is things I already know. /s

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When someone says "It's just common sense!", they often mean "I have no facts or logic to support my claim, but I'll call anyone who disagrees with me an idiot."

    Kristal
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You would be wrong. This whole article is an example of how common sense isn't common.

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    HammerzToe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Common Sense: so rare it's almost a super power!"

    Joseph Grimmett
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The real problem is that people aren't taught decent reasoning skills

    Joe Publique
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize half of them are stupider than that.” - George Carlin

    Sue from England
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep! There used to be but it died when social media was born.

    Vix Spiderthrust
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah. Previous generations were just as dumb, stubborn and self-centered as today's callow youth. They just couldn't advertise it as widely.

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    #70

    The importance of saving money or buying property early

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    XenoMurph
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How privileged of you to have spare money

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    #71

    I was late to the Santa party. I don't remember how old but old enough to feel like an idiot.

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    Samyan Elrod
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always knew it but I like to believe anyway, I think it's cute that this old man just gives kids free stuff to be nice for no reason ♥

    James P
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not gonna tell people how to be with their kids, but I do not like the Santa myth.

    XenoMurph
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Decided a long time ago never to lie to my kid. We never had Santa or the Easter Bunny or tooth fairy. She had a lot of presents and party days, but nothing from fantasy beings. Even now she believes me whatever I say, because she knows it'll never be a lie. I might not be entirely correct all the time, she's knows I'm fallible, but not untruthful.

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    Display_Name
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I rode that sleigh until I graduated high school.

    Stephanie Did It
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I knew from the very beginning that Santa was a fairy tale, since I watched the gifts being wrapped every year and the tags said "From Grandma" etc. My big shock was learning that most kids actually believed he was real.

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was 10 but I still get presents from Santa and when I had teeth fall out I still got money :)

    Sara Cros
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My oldest son was 11 when he worked it out. He was a bit upset and it was sad to sit with him while a little piece of his childhood passed away.

    Widdershins66
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My daughter was 9 when she stated vehemently that Father Christmas didn't exist. "He doesn't exist! He DOES NOT exist! I know the truth!" etc etc ect. So I finally agreed that she was correct and for her not to tell her younger brother, ok? Well, she sobbed her wee heart out! She'd been testing me. Doh 🤦‍♀️

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    Lauren S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So what is a good age to tell kids about this and how do you do that? Mine is 6 and has no idea. But he’s still little right?

    Shark Lady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He'll probably have maybe two more Christmases still believing in santa. Someone at school with an older sibling will tell him, or he'll figure it out for himself.

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    #72

    Envision a future you can enjoy even if if seems impossible

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    Feathered Dinosaur
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me, doing a regular trip to Mars for vacation that takes only a day or so and Mars having nice livable vacation homes, activities and stuff and of course it's all on a budget. I really would like to safely and cheaply go to space *sigh*

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    #73

    Tibet is *not* pronounced "Ti-bay", as if it were french

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    Kise Miarse
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. But it *is* fancier that way.

    Ace
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On a similar note, I once heard someone in a restaurant in England ordering Turbot, the fish, pronounced "Turbo".

    Lydia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah and in the Netherlands it is pronounced tie-bet. AnybodyTibetan here ? They have the only right answer ;)

    Mat O'Dowd
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, in French it is pronounced "Ti-beh" ;-)

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    #74

    That elephants aren't as big as 2 story buildings :(((. Still very dissapointed about that one

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    #75

    Social skills. Thank you hallucinogens.

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    Lauren S
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How did we get from social skills to hallucinogens?

    Deson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I imagine that usage of hallucinogens caused the op to relax enough to socially interact at parties and develop their skills.

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    #76

    That your parents don't know what's the best for you, only you do

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    XenoMurph
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a particular age to decide this, 3 years old crossing the road is not that age. For many things 25 is not either. But you have to make your own mistakes so... don't let them tell you what to do, but do ask advice.

    Joe Publique
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not true. It depends entirely on the person.

    Widdershins66
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you never made a mistake, you'd never make anything 🧐

    Lydia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not true for young kids. It is not best for you to eat just candy and no vegetables. It is not best for you to go into the water before you learn how to swim etc.... Teens may think they know best -- and they probably do in a lot of cases - but still can't always oversee the consequences of their actions. Should be a good mix of letting them make their own mistakes and healthy parenting.

    Maggie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm, not so sure about that, look at social media with a weird character saying you can change your sex if you want to. I'm talking about pre teens.

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    #77

    I have too many... um when I learned that digimon literally means digital monsters 😳

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    Dave van Es
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same goes for Pokémon. Pocketo monsta (pocket monster)

    Joseph Grimmett
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Japanese ポケットモンスター (Poketto Monsuta)

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    Poppy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I only learned recently that Pokemon means Pocket Monsters

    Skater Chick
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So did I! I chose to do my research project on Pokémon and was delighted to find this out.

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    #78

    Don’t be a naive b***h, sadly I just learned this lesson

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    TotallyNOTaFox
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Questioning everything and thinking for yourself about things is a good way to avoid trouble

    #79

    That you can turn light switches on and off in og half life

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    SCamp
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What does this mean?

    James P
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. Figured that out on my first playthrough, but I'm an a*****e.

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    #80

    Investing is super easy. Wish I would of started when I was 18.

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    XenoMurph
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone with spare money again, who are these people??

    Roland Marshall
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    2 years ago

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    People that don’t waste their money on stupid c**p and know how to budget.

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    Joe Publique
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *would have. And think yourself lucky you have money to invest. The vast majority of people don't.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Investing is super easy. Making money at it is not.

    Sans Serif
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my 70s - saw my sound retirement investments disappear TOO many times, over the years. Sometimes I think I'd have done better in Vegas! Sheesh! 8-(

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    ROSESARERED
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I learn to save money earlier, even if it was only $5 a week, in 20 weeks that's $100. Saving a little bit of money is better than none at all

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