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Humans evolved to be compassionate and understand other people’s pain, unfortunate circumstances or irrational behavior. It might be because they have gone through it themselves, they can imagine how it might feel or just believe the person when they share how hard it is for them.

Even though we are compassionate, we can’t help but be judgemental as well. There are things that annoy us and we can’t find an excuse or meaning behind certain behaviors, although we often keep it to ourselves.

People were given the opportunity to vent about it on Reddit when nosovietspyhere asked, “What is something you silently judge people for?” In a week, more than 15k people joined the thread and over 19k people upvoted it confessing what behaviors they simply don’t understand and make them dislike the people conducting them.

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#1

30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It People who keep their dogs on chains outside 24/7.

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Amy Taylor
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS!! Poor pups!! Dogs are a part of the family!!

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According to Emma Seppälä, a Yale lecturer and a best-selling author, “Science shows that we are actually wired for compassion, not self-interest.” Dacher Keltner at the University of California, Berkeley also suggests that we don’t learn compassion, but it’s an innate instinct.

But that doesn’t stop us from judging other people. Bored Panda reached out to motivational speaker, mindset expert and co-founder of Super Connector Media Jen Gottlieb and she revealed that even the most compassionate people can be quick to judge.

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    #2

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Supporting Trump.

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes I judge people for this. Same way I would judge someone who bullies and lies constantly then tries to claim a moral high ground for doing so. Trump is a liar, a bully and most of all an absolutely transparent con artist, how does anyone support that?

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    #3

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Throwing trash out the window of their car.

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    Jen Gottlieb explained the reasons behind such feelings: “It’s usually because [people] feel threatened, insecure or competitive towards the person they are judging. People also tend to make negative judgments towards others when someone does something that reflects an aspect about themselves that they don't like.”

    Turns out, it’s a form of projecting which allows judgemental people to feel like they are above others: “Instead of looking inward, they use judgment to deflect those insecurities. Judging someone gives people a false sense of hierarchy or superiority so insecure people often skip over compassion and move straight into judgment to make themselves feel better.”

    #4

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Watching videos at full volume in public. I don’t understand this.

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    G M
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Talking on speaker phone in public

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    #5

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Being obliviously in the way. Like getting to the end of an escalator and just standing there. Or standing with a group of people in a doorway or aisle. Or stopping to stare at your phone in the middle of the sidewalk. Just move out of the way like 2 steps and everyones life is easier.

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    Lsai Aeon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The elevator thing. LET ME OFF BEFORE YOU BARGE IN!!!!!!

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    Dawn Woolley
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was an instance here a few years ago where a woman got to the bottom of the DOWN escalator and stopped to decide where to head to. The people behind her had nowhere to go and all fell over her. One lady had a badly broken ankle and sued her for damages. And won!

    Powercat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see people doing this all the time and honestly, wtf

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    MoZ
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People leaving their shopping carts in the middle of the aisle in the grocery store!

    Thee8thsense
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, who just stop in the middle of an aisle, oblivious and zombie like, and actually give me a dirty look if I politely say "excuse me". Wtf and who tf raised these beings?

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    Solidhog
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Standing right in the front of lift doors as they open and looking surprised when 10 people want get out before they can get in.

    S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who grab a cart, walk in to the grocery store, and then stop in the doorway to look at their list to see where to begin. Are you kidding? MOVE TO THE SIDE. I've purposefully rammed into the back of someone's heels with my cart before and said, "oh dear, I'm so sorry, I had no idea you were planning to stop in the doorway like that! Silly me."

    Lola Atkinson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    EVEN worse when, in a store or on the pavement, they see you but still refuse to move and continue to talk to their equally arrogant family/ friends.

    Liz Carroll
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just started walking through them, they move pretty quick then

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    Hill Branda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They don't have any concept of other people--that they exist, have feelings, and might need to move around them. It's a true sign of a narcissist---or an idiot.

    Whitefox
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES!! groups of them will just stop in the middle of the walkway and start discussing what they wanna do next, meanwhile everyone behind them is slamming into each other...

    Robert T
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As I always say "Excusez moi si vous plait, move your a**e, it's in the way!"

    Kira 7
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ppl acting like the centre of the grocery aisle is the Church Social

    Lkmarr
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a huge pet peeve of mine. People leaving a store or restaurant stop just outside the door and stand there while they look at their purchases or put their card back in their wallet.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are a lot of inconsiderate people out there

    Gábor Molnár
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or when someone walks so slowly (elderly, disabled, injuried of course are an exception) you can'r walk faster than a snail and they position themselves in such a way that you can't pass them.

    AMaureen Dance
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I asked someone to move out of a doorway, and she snapped, "I was holding the door for you!" Lady, if you wren't blocking the door, I'd have been perfectly capable of holding it myself.

    Josh Tall
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    just walk through them....they'll get the point

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who block the way when they're on their phone confuse me. Since they obviously believe that they're the one and only person on the planet, who do they think they're talking to?

    Daniel O'Neal
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two families of five completely blocking an aisle in the grocery store while they catch up.

    TheAquarius1978
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You and me both, some Times i really really want to frikking ram them Over by " accident ".

    zak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just do it, that's what I do. "SORRY, I DIDN'T EXPECT SOMEONE TO BE STANDING WHERE THEY CLEARLY SHOULDN'T, LIKE THEY HAVE NO AWARENESS OF SOCIETAL NORMS OR BASIC HUMAN DECENCY! HAVE A GREAT DAY!" 🙃

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    Maggie Dinzler Shaw
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will add one. People who at the train Starion walk swiftly by the train between the danger line and the train. They tell me to mind the gap and I am carefully trying to exit the train when someone comes by and almost knocks me into the gap.

    Mattewis88
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Keep left, pass right (or whichever way your highways work) same thing for foot traffic.

    JayWantsACat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pick one side so the rest of us can walk up or down. If you stand side by side with someone, please stop. Thanks!

    RandomPanda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And dare say you actually bump into them, you end up with a stranger screaming at you to watch where you're going.

    Queen Jackson.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *cough* high school students when I have to get in the other building on campus *cough*

    Liz Carroll
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG I hate this! Also when they enter the supermarket, and then stand there looking around while I'm stuck behind them waiting for them to move. Like I don't care if they need to get their bearings, just move away from the damn gate!

    Brivid
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about crowding around an elevator, not letting people out of the elevator when it opens and even trying to get in before the passengers get out?

    Creature Cargeaux
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or being at the store & blocking an entire aisle while looking for something or texting & having no self awareness when people are trying to get thru. The real kicker is when they get annoyed after you say "excuse me" 3x but then get bitchy on the last one... like... I asked nicely 2x when you should just fucken know you're being a d**k anyway! Or people who walk ina line blocking paths & aisles instead of walking in front & back of eachother when they're on public sidewalks or populated areas. Again, I live in New Orleans & I get so annoyed with I'm in the quarter & you've got a group of drunk tourists all looking at their phones, stopping in the middle of the sidewalk with beards of people behind them to take photos. Or walking in a line so that nobody can get around them. Like, don't do that. Also, you're the people that would be robbers target cause it's clear you're Not from here. So just know that you're being an a*****e actually Makes you a target

    Amanda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ll come up behind them with the most condescending EXCUSE ME and let them get embarrassed.

    YinzerGhost
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the whole "I'm the only person on earth" mentality. Filed in same folder as people who walk side-by-side on busy sidewalks crowding curb to curb.

    M.J.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a unwritten rule for escalators in my country: walk left - stand right

    Nobody
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ugh, groups of people who step out of a lift, stop and have a loud conversation

    Jessica Blankenship
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This happens all the time @ my local grocery. I'm like damn people MOVE, I need to get food. Y'all take that circle jerk s**t somewhere else-- move out of the way if you're gonna be there a min. Geez

    rahb1
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh, the entitlement thing? Same with people on the road. Just move left or speed up, OK?

    Powercat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who get out of the bus and just stop right there, while there are other people trying to get out… wtf is wrong with you??

    Tim Douglass
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find I do this occasionally, but it's not intentional. I have balance issues and sometimes if I don't just stop for a second I will fall over. Sorry about that, but that's how it is. I prefer stairs to escalators for that reason. Being moved messes with my balance, but moving myself doesn't (as much).

    Maggie Dinzler Shaw
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't realize that people didn't just use the moving staircase as a moving staircase and had to push ahead of the line. I learned. It can be hard on someone with mobility issues in a crowd.

    Marc Lauzon
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like people with carts on the left and standing on the right of the aisle. That said, you do need space to properly see the damn shelves looking for something specific, but stay aware of your surrounding.

    DannX68
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, people always stop at the NARROWEST place they can find.

    censorshipsucks
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In our country there's very few people who want to run up an escalator, most people just stand, so don't be surprised by this. (SA)

    Say What
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's stopping them from standing on one side so others can pass?

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    Rensheta
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop to think and forget to start up.

    Kp
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or maybe just say ‘excuse me?’.. I suppose getting annoyed and moaning is a much easier method.

    Say What
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No it's not. It's just as annoying as saying nothing. Why don't you stop blocking people for no reason so people don't have to say excuse me 50 times a day. Stop feeling so self important that you get to slow people down and stop them from getting where they're going.

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    #6

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It I hate when ppl leave their paper coffee cup on a random shelf in Walmart when they're done with it. That's so gross and entitled. Throw away your own garbage.

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    Amy Taylor
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That drives me insane. Especially when I worked retail...I'd find dirty diapers in the fitting rooms too.

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    Even though the person who is judging others might feel like they are superior, Jen Gottlieb believes that such behavior reveals that they might not be very happy with themselves and their lives.

    The mindset expert goes into more detail about how a happy and unhappy person thinks, which influences their different views: “I would say that unhappy people are quicker to judge others and happy people are quicker to have an open mind and give people the benefit of the doubt. Unhappy people often use judgment as a tool to attempt to feel more secure within themselves. Happy people don’t need to do that because they tend to come from an abundant/collaborative mindset instead of a competitive one. Happy people also tend to look at people with a more positive lens and see the good. My fiance Chris always says ‘hurt people hurt people.’”

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    #7

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Fat people who I see running. I judge them in a good way. I always root for them.

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    Nathaniel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was about ready to hate on you then......

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    #8

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It PEOPLE WHO DONT THROW AWAY THEIR TRASH AT FAST FOOD PLACES! Nothing screams disgusting to me more than someone who leaves all their c**p at their table and leaves

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    Amy Taylor
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get annoyed when people do this in movie theaters. There's bins at every exit. Pick up your trash!! And no, it's not you "giving them job security".

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    #9

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Not being able to accept other viewpoints and not ever admitting that their wrong on any point.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Narcissists are just.... impossible to communicate with.

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    The action of judging is always seen as negative and as it turns out, is a personality trait that is more common for unhappy people. Truth to be told, Jen Gottlieb doesn’t see any benefits coming from it. “Being judgemental can definitely hold you back from becoming successful because you are subconsciously (or sometimes consciously) blocking opportunities and relationships before you know what they can do for you!”

    The motivational speaker reveals that in her own experience, she may not have formed some of the most powerful relationships with her friends if she had been too judgemental and wouldn’t have given them a chance.

    #10

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It If you are decked out in American Flag attire, I am concluding some things about you. Just the way it is.

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    asexualotl (she/her)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i live in the usa and i judge people for this as well

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    #11

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Hyping themselves up too much. Saying s**t like “that wouldn’t fly with me, everyone knows not to mess with me” or “people look up to me” or “I’ll have your back until you cross me” like bro this isn’t a movie, relax. I don’t think these people understand that the more you have to hype yourself up, the less people actually think that of you.

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    But critical thinking and evaluation of your actions are still very important. “There is a difference between being judgmental and thoughtful. It is important to be thoughtful and intentional with your interactions and choices, but the second you find yourself making negative preconceived notions about something or someone, you should pause and ask yourself why you are making the judgment. Did that person activate something in you that made you feel less than? It always starts and ends with the hidden ‘why’ behind the judgment.”

    Do you feel like you tend to judge others more when you are feeling unhappy? Do you think there are things you would judge others for even if you are in a good mood? Do you think a little bit of judging might be beneficial? Let us know your thoughts in the comments!

    #12

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It loud a*s (tweaked) motor cycles in an urban area. am not alone there though, as apparent by everybody angrily turning in the same direction when those idiots drive by.

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    TheAquarius1978
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude have no idea of how many Times i wished i had an RPG7, not even kidding every single f*****g night there was a massive c...t with a quad that would wake up everyone with his s**t fart machine.

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    #13

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Having multiple children they clearly weren't ready for lol

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    Kookamunga
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, one of my sisters had four kids and she bitched all the time about them. You would've thought the government allocated the kids to her. You had choices, suck it up!

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    #14

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It The only time I feel I judge people like this is when I'm driving. Speed up, pay attention to the road, use your signals, and don't be an idiot. It's not that hard.

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    Kookamunga
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Put your gd phone down. Don't tailgate. Get out of the fast lane, slowpoke. Let other people get in during a merge.

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    #15

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It People who act victimized when in reality they’ve never been a victim of anything in their lives. May or may not have some family members that do this and it drives me f*****g insane

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    JMil
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the opposite is true. I admire people that don't let adversity or disadvantages get in their way.

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    #16

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It When a parent gives a child a "unique" name that's obviously not specific to their culture, but a mispelled or made up name like "Spenser" or "Alivia" or "Mayson".

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    Nathaniel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am going to name my first born You'niqwe

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    #17

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Parents swearing at their kids in public

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    Jo Davies
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only in public? They shouldn't be swearing at their kids at all

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    #18

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It littering, chewing with their mouth open, drunkenly touching people.

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    S
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or soberly touching people. Don't touch people.

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    #19

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It I understand being in a toxic or s**tty relationship and that some people can't leave. I understand that. But I've met some girls who are balls deep obsessed with their s***ty a*s boyfriends and think that they can change them or think they're in love when the guys an a*****e and a bum. My neighbor for example cares more about her druggy boyfriend than her own child. Stuff like that I will judge you for.

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    Laika-Mutton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think there are some cases, but a co-worker in a very abusive relationship had been brainwashed to think it was her fault. She refused to hear any criticism of her spouse. I ended up giving her a book on self-esteem, nothing derogatory about abusive SOs'. Ran into her months later in another job, free of that POS. She told me she'd read the book in the bathroom (hiding) and slowly realized she was worth more than him. I was thrilled for her. I'll never forget that.

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    #20

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It When I hear people s**t talking someone due to their appearance/ clothes. So f*****g shallow but its not worth calling people like that out.

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    #21

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Kinda niche but... I silently judge people who do extremely hard hikes/dangerous hikes woefully unprepared or wearing sandals/sneakers/inappropriate footwear. I live in Colorado and too often we get headlines related to these kinds of people. There is no excuse with all the resources available to research the hike you're doing. Ultimately, S&R is going to have to use THEIR resources to save your a*s from something that was of your own doing. But I judge silently because I believe that sometimes, you do need to learn the hard way.

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    foofoofloofy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last spring, a mother & daughter went hiking on a local trail at 5 PM. Guess what? They ended up stranded at the top of a mountain in pitch darkness and below-freezing temperatures. Research the trail before you hike it, people!

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    #22

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Being s**t parents.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like some parents have bad days, slip up, make mistakes or perhaps got some bad/skewed advice. It's the ones that aren't even trying that I smdh at.

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    #23

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Gossiping, like people who only gossip. Because you know that if they gossip to you about everyone else theyre gossiping about you to other people too.

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    Cecily Holland
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In-laws gossiped about my dying mother speculating whether it was cancer or AIDS. All over Facebook. And they wonder why I don’t talk to them

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    #24

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Pushing their insecurities onto other people

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    #25

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It If they're disagreeable and never grateful for anything or anyone.

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    Hill Branda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um...not really the right picture for this.

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    #26

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It When people type “loose” instead of “lose”

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    $cagsy
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know exactly how you feel and I felt exactly the same. Until one particularly wise panda suggested that there may be an alternative reason than pure ignorance. Perhaps the person writes English as a second language, or maybe they have trouble with words, maybe even dyslexia. I thought that was a good point and these days I just let those mistakes pass and give the author the benefit of the doubt. After all, they are contributing to the discussion and I would hate to scare someone off because of less than perfect English.

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    #27

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Lack of self awareness.

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    #28

    30 Behaviors That People In This Online Group Find Hard To Tolerate So They Judge Others For It Parents who's kids have pacifiers while being 4 years and older

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    LaurA Struthers
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to feel this 100% but have come to realise, a lot of children with developmental issues or on autism spectrum, need these as soothing aids and a lot of them take a lot longer to give up these items

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