Woman Is Asked To Return $1.2k Refund, She Reminds Them How They Yelled At Her To Keep It
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Sometimes a person’s biggest undoing is that they’re a jerk. Doesn’t matter if they’re at work, at home, out with friends, whatever, them being a jerk is like jamming a stick into their own bicycle wheel and then crying about no one liking them or not being very cooperative.
We’ll be talking about a similar situation today. A clerical error led to a woman receiving $1.2k from a company by mistake. She called them up, attempting to explain the issue, but a rude receptionist wouldn’t listen to her and just pretty much sent her packing.
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Sometimes a person would rather shoot themselves in the foot than be nice to you for a couple of moments
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The poster took it to the malicious compliance community to share her experience with a check refund after a clerical error
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She made a mistake addressing to whom the check would go and cancelled the transfer upon realizing
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The check still reached the incorrect recipient, who thought it was good and decided to refund her for it
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She received the refund, but called up the place, attempting to explain that a mistake had happened, but the person she was talking to was rude and didn’t listen
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As their conversations had been recorded, she just took the refund, getting $1200, to the dismay of the company
Alright, so just in case you didn’t catch that entire exchange on your first go, let me try to simplify it. And no, I didn’t get it either, you’re not alone.
So, the original poster (OP) borrowed $1200 from her dad as she was in a difficult spot. Dad said okay, OP got the money, managed to stabilize her situation, and it was time to send the money back.
As this was almost 10 years ago, online banking and money-transfer apps weren’t as popular, so the simplest and cheapest way to send money was by check. So OP did it, although not via mail, but rather via their bank.
It was at this point that autocorrect had messed up the address on the check, so it went not to the poster’s dad, but rather a medical facility in the same state. So they received the check, but the money being transferred with that check had been pulled by OP, so it was essentially a dud. And since transfers used to (and still do) sometimes take a while to do their magic, they didn’t know it was a dud yet.
By this point, OP had already sent a check by mail to her dad.
The medical facility, assuming that it was the father, who had used their services previously, was attempting to pay up for something, mailed the check back to the sender (OP), and so the poster was up $1200.
So just in case, a small recap. OP sends transfer to wrong “person”, cancels transfer midway, “person” receives their check but not the money, which has been canceled, thus they mail OP a refund, assuming the check will come through.
OP was smart to explicitly ask if the check really was for her, after attempting to explain the situation in vain. When the lady mistakenly confirmed it, while being rude to boot, OP decided that she had tried hard enough to help these stupid people, but they didn’t deserve her being patient with their rudeness.
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Bored Panda even managed to reach out to the poster for a quick comment about the whole situation and she graciously replied to us!
Although all this time has passed, OP still gets a chuckle thinking about the whole thing – imagine messing up so hard at your job and as a person that you’re still a hoot to laugh at, 9 years down the line. Ouch.
She also has no idea why the rude lady tried to brush her off that hard, especially when she was just trying to do the right thing. “Maybe she deals with people who are upset about bills they owe or the amount they got back and she thought I was complaining? I tried several times to explain to her that it wasn’t supposed to be mailed to me, but she just wouldn’t listen.”
If the big question on your mind was what OP had used the money for, it all went to bills and groceries as she had 2 small children at the time, which made that month much easier to get through.
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Now that almost 10 years have passed, OP is pretty safe from any repercussions of anything bad happening because of the incident, if that’s on your mind.
The most interesting part of the post was how many people absolutely couldn’t grasp what was going on in the post. Many called this entire story a portal into a totally different world – America.
In Europe, for example, the old check went extinct sometime around the ‘00s, but in the States, businesses still take checks, despite fraud and easier ways to pay being available.
The best comment describing this thing comes from MuadLib:
“It always amuses me that Americans mail checks like it’s still the paleocene. You guys don’t have internet over there?”
There are many things that are different in America, if you think about it. Insider even has an entire list of the things that frequently confuse travelers.
For example, if you think about it, all the money in the States looks the same, besides some slight design changes on the nominations. Same shade of green, same size, etc.
Also, the dreaded toilet stall gaps. According to Toilet Partitions (which, I assume, is a reputable source for this info, based on the name alone) those gaps are meant to discourage inappropriate behavior, citing that it makes it easier for law enforcement to spot people hiding from them in stalls.
I’m sorry, but I’d rather someone go uncaught, rather than have strangers peer into my stall while I’m doing my business.
There are so many more differences, like sales tax, the healthcare system, ads for prescription medicine, the list goes on… Oh, right, the guns too. They’re kind of rare overseas, depending on where you’re from.
The poster’s story, although dubbed confusing by many, collected over 8.5k upvotes, which just shows how much people enjoyed it as a whole. Share your own thoughts in the comments below!
Many comments complained that they couldn’t understand the sequence in the story, but those who did said they enjoyed the malicious compliance
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The amount of people not reading that YES she paid her dad back, but with a CHECK instead of online payment.... eye's twitching over here..
Oh thank god I was starting to wonder it it was me. I was concerned how that many people could miss it. And other elements too. 🤔🤦♀️
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We had a $3,000 check sent to us from my wife's old job years after she left. We called to see if it was real and why it had been sent to us. At first, we had planned on sending it back since it was an obvious mistake. But they confirmed it was real and ours to keep. We think what happened is my wife had extra vacation time when she left and it was a payout from that time. They probably tried telling her about it in her old email address that she didn't use anymore. She had a major surgery while she worked there and had to be out for over a month to recover. They asked her coworkers to donate PTO, and they must have donated so much PTO that she had $3,000 worth of vacation time left by the time she quit. Was a really huge help to us when finances were tough too.
For the last year, our insurance has been paying us to go to the dentist. We have paid our co-pays, but then the insurance keeps sending us checks for what is still owed to the dentist. I thought maybe they weren't paying the dentist directly, and sending the money to us for when we received a bill. I called the dentist to find out our balance because we hadn't received bills. I was told we were squared up. Zero balance. So, I called insurance. They were rude, spoke to me like a child, could not explain to me why they were giving us this money. She made it sound like we had paid the dentist up front and they were reimbursing us because we filed a claim. I never file claims. My dentist does that. I just pay my copay, nothing more. I tried explaining that, but she acted like I was completely stupid. So, between five check ups, and two of the kids going back for a filling, we've made quite a bit. We've set it aside because we assume someone is going to ask for it eventually.
I feel like in your case (and the one in the story) when you've made a legitimate attempt to return the money and they've refused it should become yours and they lose further claim on it. I don't think it's fair to not try to return money when it's an obvious mistake. But when they flat out refuse to take it back they should lose the right to chase you for it five weeks/months/years down the track.
Load More Replies... The amount of people not reading that YES she paid her dad back, but with a CHECK instead of online payment.... eye's twitching over here..
Oh thank god I was starting to wonder it it was me. I was concerned how that many people could miss it. And other elements too. 🤔🤦♀️
Load More Replies... We had a $3,000 check sent to us from my wife's old job years after she left. We called to see if it was real and why it had been sent to us. At first, we had planned on sending it back since it was an obvious mistake. But they confirmed it was real and ours to keep. We think what happened is my wife had extra vacation time when she left and it was a payout from that time. They probably tried telling her about it in her old email address that she didn't use anymore. She had a major surgery while she worked there and had to be out for over a month to recover. They asked her coworkers to donate PTO, and they must have donated so much PTO that she had $3,000 worth of vacation time left by the time she quit. Was a really huge help to us when finances were tough too.
For the last year, our insurance has been paying us to go to the dentist. We have paid our co-pays, but then the insurance keeps sending us checks for what is still owed to the dentist. I thought maybe they weren't paying the dentist directly, and sending the money to us for when we received a bill. I called the dentist to find out our balance because we hadn't received bills. I was told we were squared up. Zero balance. So, I called insurance. They were rude, spoke to me like a child, could not explain to me why they were giving us this money. She made it sound like we had paid the dentist up front and they were reimbursing us because we filed a claim. I never file claims. My dentist does that. I just pay my copay, nothing more. I tried explaining that, but she acted like I was completely stupid. So, between five check ups, and two of the kids going back for a filling, we've made quite a bit. We've set it aside because we assume someone is going to ask for it eventually.
I feel like in your case (and the one in the story) when you've made a legitimate attempt to return the money and they've refused it should become yours and they lose further claim on it. I don't think it's fair to not try to return money when it's an obvious mistake. But when they flat out refuse to take it back they should lose the right to chase you for it five weeks/months/years down the track.
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