First off, let’s start with a big round of applause for our mother-in-laws, and dad-in-laws, for that matter, who continually give fresh perspectives on our marriages. They’re a gift, usually unasked, that keeps on giving. And having in mind what a controversial image in the cultural folklore they often carry, it’s only fair to say how much happiness it brings if we truly get along. (Clapping continues.)

But in some not-so-fortunate instances, mother-in-laws can become somewhat of a burden. With all the respect to our precious husbands and wives, some moms are just too much. Call it a mere coincidence, a cursed destiny, or pure evil manifesting itself in the form of this lady you’d much rather avoid if it wasn’t for your significant other, but some particular cases scream family drama big time.

So let’s see what people had to say about their shaky relationship with their MILs, and be sure not to jump to conclusions, since nobody really knows the full picture.

#1

Mil Stole My Chemo

Mil Stole My Chemo

Right now I have a lot of problems going on with my MIL on top of them. I’m fighting cancer for the second time in my life. I was first diagnosed when I was 14, fought it and won. I lived a happy and peaceful life until recently when I had my health checked for job necessities and surprise! – I’m 30 years old and I’ve cancer again. This is secondary cancer, different organ, nothing to do with the first one. Fortunately, stage 2 only, however my oncologist warned that it’s aggressive, grows and spreads fast and I could be stage 3 or more in a short period of time so we had to act fast. Hearing that you have cancer is always devastating but to me, it feels like something wants me dead very much. I was distraught that I’ll have to go through this again. It’s a very hard fight, both physically and mentally, any current or former cancer patient will agree on that.

I had a surgery and now it’s time for chemotherapy. The doctors decided on oral chemo that I can take at home and only have to go to a hospital to do blood tests and scans every few weeks, which is very good, I wouldn’t have the strength to go there every day. I’m on a sick leave from work now and because of the treatment, I’m quite weak, I’ve lost a lot of weight. Before that my wife and I, we both had an equal share of household chores. Some days I feel better than others, however directly after every receive of chemo even the simplest chores are often a physical impossibility for me. I try to do as much as I can but my wife has been amazing, she doesn’t care at all that I don’t help around the house as much as I did. She’s like “Your only obligation now is not to die.”

The other day MIL came over to visit (she knows about my diagnosis). I was on the couch reading and my wife was doing something around the house. MIL walked over to me and was like ”Look at that! Lying on that couch as if you’re on the beach! Aren’t you ashamed of yourself – a grown man and lying down in the middle of a day while your poor wife is working as a slave!”

I said, “I just had chemo, I have a headache, I’m nauseous, I don’t feel good.”

She was like “A young man like you and cannot beat some silly cancer! You cannot cure yourself with those chemicals! Nature products only!”

Later that day MIL was talking to my wife in the kitchen. I didn’t mean to listen, but I heard their conversation anyway. MIL was like “You really shouldn’t let him take that poison he’s taking or he will die. It’s poison otherwise he wouldn’t feel so bad. Doctors nowadays are totally stupid, you should seek herbal treatments instead!” As all of that came from someone without any medical education and tries to be smarter than she actually is, my wife shut her up quickly and told her to stay away from things she understands nothing about.

The next day I was going to take my chemo, as I’m scheduled. I’ve to take it once a day and I prefer to do it in the morning because then I feel better in the evening and I can sleep better. But, as I walked into the bathroom and opened the cabinet, there was no trace of my chemo bottles. They were gone, completely. I asked my wife if she moved them by any chance and she said no. We looked around but realized it’s pointless because they couldn’t fall out of the cabinet and there’s also no need to hide the chemo, we don’t have children or pets who could accidentally swallow it. Then my wife remembered that just before leaving the day before, MIL asked to use the bathroom. She could have easily taken the bottles with her, considering her words about the toxicity of chemo.

My wife turned into a dragon. She was literally almost spitting fire as she got dressed and stormed out to go to MIL’s house, I had never seen her so mad before. She came back a half an hour later or so and told me that she demanded my medication from MIL and MIL admitted she took my chemo indeed and when she left our house, she threw it out. Obviously, it’s gone, we cannot search through every garbage bin the city but just the fact that she did it, blew my mind. My wife and MIL had a huge argument and MIL really thinks she did me a favor. She was like “Don’t you see he’s dying, don’t you see how fragile he’s become? It’s not cancer that’s killing him, it’s those pills! I got rid of them, I saved your husband and that’s how you thank me, by insulting me? Better go and buy him some herbal teas!”

Because of MIL, I missed a dose of chemo which is very bad and I had to see my oncologist immediately. When I told him I need more chemo, he was surprised and said “What happened to the chemo I gave you a short time ago? You couldn’t have used it all already.” and I was like “ Well, you see, doctor, my MIL stole my chemo”. He looked totally baffled as if the fact that someone would steal someone’s else chemo is ridiculously stupid.

He prescribed me new bottles of chemo and a new schedule on how I’m supposed to take it and now I keep it in a cabinet with a lock. Even though my wife swore to me MIL will never set her foot in our house again.

FredDaniel , Marcelo Leal Report

Nash Nopper
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2 months ago

WOW! Just WOW!

Ian Koch
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2 months ago

WTF! WE GOT AN ULTRA MEGA KAREN ALERT.

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Ryan-James O'Driscoll
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2 months ago

I'd have got the police involved.

Niall Mac Iomera
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2 months ago

Right? Surely this counts as attempted assault or GBH or something.

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Delboy
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2 months ago

I would have called the police immediately and had her arrested, she took life saving medication, that is possibly attempted murder...

Nadine Debard
Community Member
2 months ago

I am speechless. How could someone interfere in smbdy's medication. She's so stupid. I hope you're well.

DogMom
Community Member
2 months ago

Please sue her for the cost of the replacement meds. What an absolute piece of human garbage.

Marcellus the Third
Community Member
2 months ago

No, because that says value of loss = value of product = a minor inconvenience. This is reckless endangerment, this forced him off regular schedule as well as causing stress and a trip to the doctor when he should have been lying down conserving his energy. It's police time, not small claims court.

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Aaricia
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2 months ago

With that mindset she will one day die of a treatable disease. I use herbal medicine too, but for cancer!? Hell no.

Monika Rhodes
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2 months ago

Excuse me but that warrants some time in jail. Wtf?

River Webb
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2 months ago

I have never despised someone so much in all my life, I hope you get better soon

Raine Soo
Community Member
2 months ago

Your mother-in-law is a malignant tumour that needs to be removed.

Vicky Zar
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2 months ago

I hope he lives in a country where he does not have to pay for those meds out of pocket or it'll be doubly bad what his MIL did

Rei
Community Member
2 months ago

No matter what you think of Chemo, doing something like that is a no go and absolutely overstepping healthy boundaries!

danielw
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2 months ago

not to mention, probably, a felony.

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LivingTheDream
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2 months ago

Stage 3 cancer survivor here, chemo is no joke. I had my share of people who gave me their "Psuedo-science" advice. One lady, who was less than 6 months in school to be some kind of nurse, advised me that all I needed to do was cut out all sugar and the cancer would starve....

Samantha PandaNotBored
Community Member
2 months ago

I’m sorry but she should be arrested. No way should she get away with this. She should not be allowed near you either, so that calls for a warrant . Honestly you should be thinking of yourself and to do that you need protecting from her .

Kathleen Clark
Community Member
2 months ago

She should be arrested!! It's called assault!!

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Just me
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2 months ago

Tinfoilhats are the worst, they try to put that hat on everybody else.

Rod Egret
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2 months ago

Good luck buddy!! It looks like the MIL is a harder challenge than cancer....

𝙸'𝚖𝚊𝚗𝚘𝚘𝚋!
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2 months ago

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Silre
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2 months ago

Same

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Carmen Honacker
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2 months ago

I've got absolutely nothing. Words escape...

Artime Silk
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2 months ago

what the actual F. I really hope this dude survives despite the MIL's best efforts

Vicky Z
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2 months ago

I'm sick and tired of all these people that think they know better than doctors!

I like dogs and birds
Community Member
2 months ago

I hope she gets this ¨silly cancer¨ and dies of it after rejecting Chemo and using lavender oil to heal it.

Kelli from Fitness Blender
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2 months ago

I agree the MIL was being awful, but I wouldn't wish death on her...

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Dave P
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2 months ago

this is where criminal charges against the MIL and getting her a nice 6x6 cell would be best for everyone

A
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2 months ago

I would have called the police. The woman is a criminal.

Terilee Bruyere
Community Member
2 months ago

How someone that stupid survives to adulthood baffles me, let alone the fact that she is the mother of your wonderful wife.

Roos Dillema
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2 months ago

This is probably the most horrific story I have ever read in my entire life. What... how.... Unbelievable.

I am not an addict
Community Member
2 months ago

As truly awful as this story is, I'm so glad his wife is 100% on his side.

Jan Smith
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2 months ago

there are no words to describe this evil being!!!!!!

rosadobber arizona
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2 months ago

So glad your wife has your back. Trudge on, you'll beat this.

G&L Goodyear
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2 months ago

Some of those treatments can cost $10K... I'd file charges.

Tracy Sellars
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2 months ago

Surely this MIL can be charged with something.

*me*
Community Member
2 months ago

She has no education in medicine...karen

Hans
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2 months ago

This is a reason to cut down any contact immediately, and likely permanently.

TrickQuestion
Community Member
2 months ago

Welcome to ignorant pride. "We know better than anyone else" and they're proud that they think they know everything. It's sick and dangerous but becoming more and more widespread. It's the "Internet research" which amounts to a few youtube videos and a few articles from quack websites. It's literally killing people, a lot of them kids. Disgusting.

Sam
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2 months ago

I mean... she wanted to help him but was too aggressive and impulsive

QueerTheory
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2 months ago

Attempted murder!!!!

Miranda Senden
Community Member
2 months ago

Delete toxic people, not toxic medication!

Paizleypie
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2 months ago

Good wife you have there.

Rannveig Ess
Community Member
2 months ago

Your MIL is a sociopath and I'd not only ban her from the house, but from my married life. I'd be terrified at what other crap she'd pull on you or a child. I also would have called the police on her. This is scary!

Christy Smith
Community Member
2 months ago

Holy hell, you guys should cut this w/that c**t. I doubt there's many positives when it comes to her being in your lives, and it's a safe bet life will be more pleasant w/o her existence.

RadiatorAnkleSpider
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2 months ago

I’d normally say boundaries, but what you need is a restraining order.

Noemie Houtekie-N'Da
Community Member
2 months ago

Look, I don't know you, but I want you MIL's number like that I can murder her with my words. She is literal evil. For you on the other hand, I pray that you get better and I wish you happiness and freedom from cancer forever.

tmw
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2 months ago

I;m glad your wife went to bat for you. i'm glad you are supported.

Lorrie Rothstein
Community Member
2 months ago

Crap that woman is a monster

Lucy Shupe
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2 months ago

This women isn’t toxic, she’s a very sick person. She would never be allowed in my home, EVER.

Linda Wanless Knittle
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2 months ago

Oh my Gish, I’m absolutely shocked that a MIL or anyone would do this. She needs to be banned from your lives.

Flávia Aguiar
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2 months ago

I'm speechless. This is just so absurd...

David Albro
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2 months ago

What, exactly, was the argument between the wife and husband? There is no argument. That type of behavior from the MIL is an automatic one year suspension.

Nyneva Kyte
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2 months ago

suddenly have suspicions how all the special -70 vaccine fridge keep 'failing' to close properly

jonnotheGOAT
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2 months ago

...what

Batgirl Kitty
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2 months ago

Good thing she’s gone

Stille20
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2 months ago

I would press charges

Eliška Hůlková
Community Member
2 months ago

Interesting fact: Multiple types of chemotherapy used today actually come from nature. It blew my mind when I learned it in school.

Kno
Community Member
2 months ago

Thst person has a problem and maybe she should answer to the police anout this. She put your life in danger, aware of what she was doing. I am so angry on your behalf. I really do hope you get better, and wish you all the best things in the world.

Chewie Baron
Community Member
2 months ago

That is seriously f****d up.

Dippin Dot
Community Member
2 months ago

My former MIL believed her (3rd) husband with pancreatic cancer would be cured by taking supplements and eating rotisserie chicken from Costco. No lie. If supplements and the healing power of Costco chicken work so well, why did #2 die from cancer?

Lorelei
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2 months ago

I’m astonished and baffled and angry.

Kristal
Community Member
2 months ago

Holy crap, this is unbelievable. Well, found someone I abhor more than Umbridge

Raven Sheridan
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2 months ago

Unbelievable!

Susan Green
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2 months ago

What the hell??

Marvin HeartofGold
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2 months ago

That is f****d up. I just don't understand people like that.

Lynne Stankard
Community Member
2 months ago

OMG!! Your MIL needs locking up .........soon. She's dangerous.

Nikki Hilton
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2 months ago

He should file charges against her.

Adam Farish
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2 months ago

Reading this makes me super mad.

Debbie Lavender
Community Member
2 months ago

Shoot her and save the world.

Janelle Collard
Community Member
2 months ago (edited)

Sorry to say, you win the "Worst MIL EVER!!!" award. She's evil.

Katinka Min
Community Member
2 months ago

And chemo is unbelievably expensive, too.. O.o

AroAcePanda
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2 months ago

i just cannot belive that people are this dumb, oml...

Everydayhuman83
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2 months ago

Definite Karen Situation

Victoria Lenny
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2 months ago

so sorry oyu have to deal with that terrible woman. I'm glad your wife is being supportive of you, Sending you love and healing <3

Ivana
Community Member
2 months ago

Man, I am not sure I would have been able not to call the cops if my mother did this to my husband. Like, I don't believe in calling the cops unless there is another option, but it might honestly be safer for her to be in jail because I would be in a pretty murderous rage.

David de Fortier
Community Member
2 months ago

Sounds just like my MIL with religion

LesAnimaux
Community Member
2 months ago

Holy s**t, your MIL is a literal MONSTER in law.

Katrina Pinkston
Community Member
2 months ago

What a horrid woman! It’s baffling how unbelievably selfish she is.

Paul Mitchell
Community Member
2 months ago

Some women are just plain evil.

Jan Doggen
Community Member
2 months ago

And now what - does she get away with this? She needs a HARD slap on the wrist. I'm not sure how yet, and you may not want to spend time/energy on this, but it's worth considering a follow up...

Dispatcherqueen
Community Member
2 months ago

Best wishes to you for a healthy recovery and very long life ahead!

Lynne Harbison
Community Member
2 months ago

Ban her from the house. You and your wife have each other. Stay strong and fight. Xx

Cheri Aline Sydney
Community Member
2 months ago

Wishing you recovery and many more year wirh your wife... Keep your mil as far away as poss, she may not stop with just taking you meds.... the way she talked to you, without empathy or compassion is also a BIG RED FLAG. Stay safe. Wishing you Heaven's blessings.

Jennifer Szabo
Community Member
2 months ago

What a bitch!!

deanna woods
Community Member
2 months ago

Sounds like your mother in law is the one trying to kill you. That is just the lowest thing that anyone can do.

Kanishka Patel
Community Member
2 months ago

karen alert

Ben Moss
Community Member
2 months ago

Kill the bitch. No jury in the world would convict him

Jessany Trotter
Community Member
3 weeks ago

This MONSTER in lawlessness needs to die a nasty, suffering death. Hope karma deals her a doozie. She deserves NOTHING LESS

Sam Cook
Community Member
1 month ago

If I’d been the wife, I would have beaten the mother-in-law for that.

Robert Miller
Community Member
2 months ago

Wow ...stupid and proud of it !

Joanna Możdżyńska
Community Member
2 months ago

I hope you are fine and wealthy now! Your wife is a real star!

Mae Mosse
Community Member
2 months ago

Some people are bible basher and other are natural remedy basher who read all kinds of rubbish on the internet and think they know everything. When I had cancer I had so many people telling me what I should and shouldn’t do, it literally drove me crazy. I stopped talking to everyone and stayed in my bedroom. With my other medical conditions people are always giving me articles they cut out of magazines and newspapers about the latest natural remedy. But some of these things can kill people!

Lisa Chambers
Community Member
2 months ago

I am so very sorry you have to endure cancer, chemo, and all that comes with that on top of a MIL who needs to be in jail for what she did. You deserved so much better and I pray that it did not alter your diagnosis in a profoundly negative way.

Arenite
Community Member
2 months ago

I think an order of protection is required here.

Maureen Peters
Community Member
2 months ago

Lots of strength with your recovery. Forget your MIL. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't know your worth.

M Kate McCulloch
Community Member
2 months ago

I love your wife. I would have banned any friend or relative who pulled that s**t in my house as well.

Shelley DuVal
Community Member
2 months ago

MIL should be charged with attempted murder!

CharliAnn Olney
Community Member
2 months ago

And I thought my in-laws were bad for stealing my husbands ashes!

Lynn Morello
Community Member
2 months ago

That is one Hell of a Dangerous MIL.

John Baker
Community Member
2 months ago

MIL is a complete and utter moron.

BananaJo
Community Member
2 months ago

stupid woman

Iva Kazalova
Community Member
2 months ago

Oh my days 😱😱😱😱

G
Community Member
2 months ago

I swear that woman should be tried for attempted murder.

Jihan Kim
Community Member
2 months ago (edited)

is this what we call a passive murder attempt?

CatWoman312
Community Member
2 months ago

Can you not call the police for theft?

A Random Panda
Community Member
2 months ago

That's terrible. You could have died!

Amanita muscaria
Community Member
2 months ago

Steal her chemo if she gets cancer, (that is if she has any) but don't throw it away; just hide and wait till she says sorry, then give it back.Yeeesss

JonaLou2U
Community Member
2 months ago

Heartbreaking. I am so sorry this happened to you. Sending you strength and good stuff for a full recovery

Callista pierce
Community Member
2 months ago

uh what does MIL stand for?

Rannveig Ess
Community Member
2 months ago

Mother In Law

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• Lemønchu •
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2 months ago (edited)

This is so 4ucking disgusting, as someone who's known two people who have died from cancer (one died before I was born and the other I only met once) all I can say is that I hope she gets a taste of her medicine. Some people are so repulsive and messed up I don't know what to say except how mad I am. I hope she goes to hell, depriving someone of their meds they NEED to take or they'll die is so 4ucked up. I don't know how messed up you need to be to something like this. (sorry for cussing btw

Aurelia!
Community Member
2 months ago

This is horrid

Kad
Community Member
2 months ago

Yeah I'd have cut her off immediately go no contact and request a restraining order so just in case they left and she broke into the house to do this again alongside surveillance cameras if it can be afforded.

New Prometheus
Community Member
2 months ago

Where is the MIL from, not understanding chemo? I would sue, and in my country she would get a sentence.

Helyn Hughes
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2 months ago

I don’t believe this. Surely chemo is carried out intravenously in a clinic? Not a bunch of pills you take at home? Or am I mistaken?

Tara Ray
Community Member
2 months ago

I would have punched her in the face.

Alexis
Community Member
2 months ago

So MIL basically tried to kill him... Unbelievable... Glad the wife stood up for him and hope he will get better soon! So people can be so stupid.

Jan Doggen
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2 months ago

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Caroline
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2 months ago

Just 2 points: you cannot have secondary and be stage 2 at the same time. Secondary means it spreads and is terminal, while stage 2 is still curable. Two, I was glad to see that the wife took the side of her husband against her mother, because some would have been too coward to do it. So well done, this is a real loving marriage!

Kailyn Waters
Community Member
2 months ago (edited)

Was her name Karen? Wife might want to make sure shes gotten vaccinated.

Kailyn Waters
Community Member
2 months ago

Was her name Karen?

May
Community Member
2 months ago

This can't be a true story, can it? First it's "You're basically fine and should be helping with the housework" and then it's "the chemo is killing him". And the 'then everybody clapped' type ending. I'm finding it hard to believe this one.

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#2

Mil Burned Down Our House And Got Arrested

Mil Burned Down Our House And Got Arrested

I’m posting for the second time now. I didn’t see that coming. We made a big mistake when we didn’t take MIL’s threats seriously enough. We thought that she’s like a dog that barks but doesn’t bite. Speaking of dogs, the only hero in this story is actually our dog, heavens bless our dog. It happened at night. My husband and me, we’re heavy sleepers, we were dreaming sweet dreams and didn’t notice anything. If our dog hadn’t jumped on our bed and barked, waking us up, we would probably both be dead now. I’m a firefighter myself and I realized that the fire was too big already, we couldn’t put it out by ourselves. We escaped through the window, fortunately unharmed. Somebody had called the firefighters who happened to be my colleagues, which was a weird situation, it was the first time they had to work on their buddy’s house. They tried to work as fast and as efficiently as they could but our house is damaged beyond repair, we can’t live in it anymore.

MIL got caught and basically dug her own grave because she herself said that she was hoping till the last minute that her son would come to his senses, break up with me and start to date women but he didn’t and she felt ashamed that she has created such a deformed human being, so she decided that it is better to have no son than gay son. She basically said she wanted to kill him. So even though at first what happened was classified as ”arson with the intent to damage the property” which would mean softer sentence, after those words it became ”arson with the intend to endanger life” and that means much more severe punishment, even up to life imprisonment. Our lawyer said that most likely she will not receive the maximum sentence because no one has died but she will receive at least a couple years behind bars. And there’s not much her lawyer can help her because she confessed.

And she said such a stupid thing ”Well but my son’s faggot husband is a firefighter, why didn’t he save his house?”

In the middle of the night, just awoken, no gear, no tools, no equipment, caught completely unaware by the fire. Are you serious, MIL? You think that just because I’m a firefighter means I can put the fire out with my bare hands? Many people think that housefire is like they see in the movies – flames and light but actually it is a complete darkness. The smoke makes the room so dark within minutes that you can’t even see your own hands. Housefire is always like a dark night.

Now we’re living with our friends while we find another place to live. Our clothing, our documents, passports, marriage certificate, everything is gone but of course, those are just things, we can buy them again. We’re alive, that’s the most important thing. My husband is done with her. He's so very upset that his own mother wished him dead just because he's gay. If before this he still hoped that their relationship could be fixed, now he doesn’t want to hear a single word about her no more. Her homophobic hate almost killed us. And it is our own fault as well because we didn't give her actions and words the seriousness they deserved. We know some gay people who also have homophobic parents but they have never tried actually killing their children. I guess that's why we didn't think that it might happen to us.

Zimbotedd , Daniel Tausis Report

Premislaus de Colo
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2 months ago

OMG

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#3

My Mil Just Threw Out All Of My Groceries. Grocery Stores Are Out Of Stock And I'm Losing My Mind

My Mil Just Threw Out All Of My Groceries. Grocery Stores Are Out Of Stock And I'm Losing My Mind

Due to reasons, my MIL had to move in with my husband and I for a while. I'm South Asian, my husband is white.

Indian food is what I was raised eating and I love it to this day. Due to stay at home orders I suddenly have a lot more time to cook than I did before. I stocked my kitchen with rice, different spices and whatever else I would need to make what I wanted.

My husband doesn't mind and enjoys the food. My MIL on the other hand, does not. She's never liked me. Some stuff she says include "what kind of people use their hands to eat? Just use a knife and spoon like normal people". My husband has stuck up for me on all those occasions before, but having to live with her 24/7 is wearing him down.

After she moved in, she immediately started complaining. "Why does that smell so strong? It'll cling to the walls. Stop that." or "God, are you really feeding my son that crap? Just eat normal American food."

I know quarantine is taking its toll on everyone, so I decided to stay quiet. My husband did try to talk to her once, but that fell on deaf ears. Like always.

I woke up yesterday morning, go downstairs. Chat with husband and MIL for a while. Go into the kitchen, open my pantry, and there. is. nothing. My rice, spices, flour everything has been cleaned out. I had a rice dispensing machine that I got a few years back and that was missing too.

I go to the fridge, and besides milk, bread, butter, jam and eggs there was nothing. I get my husband and ask him what happened to the food. He looks in confusion until MIL pipes up and says that she threw everything out. When asked why, she simply says "My child isn't used to eating your types of food. Just make him what Americans eat" And heck did that piss me off. She has this insane thing about not acknowledging that I am American, or when she does she tells people that I got my citizenship through marriage.

Wrong on all accounts. I was born here and so were the last 4 generations of my family. I go grocery shopping and they were out of stock on basically everything. I come home and she still has the audacity to ask why I'm not cooking like I usually do.

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Sum Guy
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2 months ago

Oh s**t... your husband needs to solve that s**t quick.

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To find out more about navigating through the complex dynamics of a relationship with your mother-in-law, Bored Panda talked to Jane Parker, a Strategic Intervention Advanced Relationship Coach who coaches clients to have successful, fulfilling, and healthy relationships.

Jane told us that “There are often issues with mother-in-laws because women are used to having a say in how things are done and how children are raised. They are accustomed to influencing their 'child' and now someone else is doing that. This can be hard for some mothers.”

#4

How Do I Politely Tell My Future Mother In Law That I Don't Appreciate Her Comments About My Weight? Picture Of My Size 16 Self Looking Flawless In My Wedding Dress

How Do I Politely Tell My Future Mother In Law That I Don't Appreciate Her Comments About My Weight? Picture Of My Size 16 Self Looking Flawless In My Wedding Dress

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Kitty Luna Darrow
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2 months ago

you indeed look gorgeous!

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#5

My Mil Everybody...

My Mil Everybody...

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Carmen Honacker
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2 months ago

Hahaha! The stupid, it burns :D

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#6

Brides Mother-In-Law Wearing A Wedding Dress To The Wedding...yikes

Brides Mother-In-Law Wearing A Wedding Dress To The Wedding...yikes

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Premislaus de Colo
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2 months ago

That's just cruel...

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Moreover, “Women love to contribute and sometimes it is hard not to say your opinion, especially if the subject means so much to you. Hence why MILs have a bad reputation for interfering or criticizing,” the relationship coach explained.

Another reason why the problems with MILs arise often has to do with the fact that since they “love their children very much, it is hard to let go of that instinct to influence them.” Plus, “they love to spend time with their ‘child’ and it can be hurtful to them when this fades due to their marriage or relationship.”

#7

My Mil To My Spouse

My Mil To My Spouse

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Sum Guy
Community Member
2 months ago

That escalated quickly

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#8

Mother In Law

Mother In Law

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Amy Pattie
Community Member
2 months ago

Charge her by the hour, it will pay for all your children’s educations.

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My Paranoid MIL

My Paranoid MIL

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River Webb
Community Member
2 months ago

"yeah all that 5g really gives me restless nights"

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It turns out that “the relationship with your mother-in-law can drastically affect your relationship, especially if your spouse does not understand or empathize with your feelings on the matter.” Jane explained that in some severe cases, “the effect can be so intense that it can change the way we feel about our spouse.”

In case you find yourself struggling with similar feelings, Jane suggests “Expressing to your spouse that your marriage is your absolute priority and that you want to make sure that you are a team at all times, even when dealing with their mother.”

#10

My Mother-In-Law Is Why You Can't Find Paper Goods. This Is Only One Of Four Rooms

My Mother-In-Law Is Why You Can't Find Paper Goods. This Is Only One Of Four Rooms

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Sum Guy
Community Member
2 months ago

What was this obsession with toilet paper? Are you shitting that much during lockdown? and is toilet paper really the most important thing you could buy? I'll give you all an African tip, if you rub a newspaper together for a minute, it becomes soft enough to use. (incase of emergency)

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#11

My [19] Girlfriend's [20] Mother [48] Is In Love/Obsessed With Me

My [19] Girlfriend's [20] Mother [48] Is In Love/Obsessed With Me

So, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now. Around 1 year and a half ago, she introduced me to her mother, I went to her house, and tried my best to give a good introduction. Talked to her a lot, acted friendly, etc etc, I wanted good first impressions.

However, my girlfriend gave her my number for something, and since then, she messages me every 2-3 days wanting to talk to me, sends lots of x's, sometimes love hearts. I told my girlfriend I was uncomfortable with it but she said it is her mum just being friendly and I should have a conversation back. (She genuinely thought this at the time, that everything was okay and normal)

Okay, this is where it gets messed up. One time her mum said to me "I want to tell you something although I don't think you'll like it maybe", she won't tell me at first, my girlfriend is with me at this point reading the chat with me, eventually, her mum admits she is in love with me, and wants to know if I feel the same, my girlfriend feels physically sick at this point and I feel beyond uncomfortable.

I tell her I love her daughter and it can never happen, and she flips the f*ck out, saying she hates me, I am a bastard, everything. She thinks her daughter has no clue of the situation. Later that night, her daughter comes home, and her mother tells her "I spoke to [me] earlier, I can't say what about, I just want to say that he is creepy as [hell], you shouldn't go near him, he seems like those predators you find on tv" what, the, [hell]

My girlfriend and I lose our sh*t, but she cannot admit to her mother she knows that she loves me because literally, her mum will throw her out into the streets the second she does with nowhere to go.

Anyway, ever since then up until this point. Her mum buys be gifts every week which is usually tobacco (since I smoke a lot) and gives me free money every week. I tell her I do not want it, but if I say no, she blames my girlfriend for me not taking it and goes crazy at her. If I say anything she doesn't like, she takes it out on my girlfriend.

She has tried to kiss me before, said shes thinking about me in bed, sent me texts saying she loves me, thinks I should be with her instead of her daughter, she will not take no for an answer. If I tell her no, she makes her daughter choose between me, or her, because if she can't have me, her daughter can't either. She seriously wants me and my girlfriend to break up and choose her instead.

Seriously reddit, the [hell] do I do here?

Extra Information: She hides her texts from her daughter so her daughter cannot find her texting me with these kinds of texts. She wants her daughter to break up with me, she has made up lies before about me to force her too. She will kick her out if she stands up to her.

More information: One time, my girlfriend came home smelling of sex (We had sex 10-15 minutes beforehand and had no time to washup, the plan was to go home and quickly shower) her mum saw her before she did, realized, and threw her out and didn't give her a reason, just screamed at her to leave. Then asked her to come home 2 days later.

UPDATE: I found out literally 5 minutes ago, my girlfriend checked her mums search history and found

"How to steal boy from girl"

"How to make him love you"

"How to turn a guy on"

04:40 UPDATE: CHAT LOGS : Back story, I was at her house seeing my girlfriend, I wanted to leave because mum made me uncomfortable, she realized, snapped at my girlfriend, I told her she is staying with me for a couple days for things to calm down. Also, the replies on my end are my girlfriend typing in my place. I would have been much worse back. https://imgur.com/a/KiGJu This is more on the worse side of issues that has happened with her, I could show AT LEAST 30+ chat logs of disturbing content from her. Also, I am not sure why the log jumps from 4th of August to the 13th. This is all 100% the same night.

07:13 UPDATE: She just texted me while my girlfriend is sleeping saying "I think you are a very nice man and that's what I think of you, among other things but I can't share all of my secrets" basically wanting me to reply asking what they are, no doubt they are sexual comments.

TL:DR, girlfriends mum is in love/obsessed with me, wont leave me alone, if I tell her I don't feel the same or reject her, she takes it out on my girlfriend and I don't want that, help

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Michelle M
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2 months ago

Gàther here if you read every word

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#12

My Drunk Mil Ate All Of The Skin And A Leg Off Of The Fried Turkey Before It Was Served

My Drunk Mil Ate All Of The Skin And A Leg Off Of The Fried Turkey Before It Was Served

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Tara Brooks
Community Member
2 months ago

She was hungry!

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#13

Bride Shares Pic Of Her Mother-In-Law Barging In And Interrupting Her First Dance With Husband

Bride Shares Pic Of Her Mother-In-Law Barging In And Interrupting Her First Dance With Husband

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Susan Green
Community Member
2 months ago

I would have burned that pic.

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#14

Mother-In-Law Just Served Me This Piece Of Cake...

Mother-In-Law Just Served Me This Piece Of Cake...

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Sum Guy
Community Member
2 months ago (edited)

Not so subtle, she's good

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#15

My Mother In Law..

My Mother In Law..

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Sum Guy
Community Member
2 months ago

Hahaha... Mexican cannibas? because if you want to scare Americans, you just add the word Mexican

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#16

Mother-In-Law "Put Away" The Cookies We Left Out To Cool

Mother-In-Law "Put Away" The Cookies We Left Out To Cool

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troufaki13
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2 months ago

Your countertop looks like a giant cookie!!

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#17

My Mother-In-Law Was Complaining That She Couldn't Get The Coffee Grinder To Work. This Is A Pencil Sharpener

My Mother-In-Law Was Complaining That She Couldn't Get The Coffee Grinder To Work. This Is A Pencil Sharpener

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Susan Green
Community Member
2 months ago

Haha damn!

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#18

How My Mil Loaded My Dishwasher. How Does Someone Like This Even Function As An Adult?

How My Mil Loaded My Dishwasher. How Does Someone Like This Even Function As An Adult?

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Susan Green
Community Member
2 months ago

This would drive me crazy

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#19

My Mother In Law Eats One Bite Of A New Banana Every Morning And Leaves The Rest On The Counter "In Case Anyone Wants One"

My Mother In Law Eats One Bite Of A New Banana Every Morning And Leaves The Rest On The Counter "In Case Anyone Wants One"

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Nadine Debard
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2 months ago

Savage

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#20

Well, My Mother-In-Law Put The Rice Cooker In The Oven. And Didn't Tell Anyone. Pre-Heated To 450

Well, My Mother-In-Law Put The Rice Cooker In The Oven. And Didn't Tell Anyone. Pre-Heated To 450

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Amy Pattie
Community Member
2 months ago

This is a deep sin. Rip rice cooker, the matriarch of all the kitchen accessories.

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#21

Mother In Law From Hell!

Mother In Law From Hell!

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River Webb
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2 months ago

need some context here...

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#22

How Mil Communicates My Profession In Her Annual Holiday Letter

How Mil Communicates My Profession In Her Annual Holiday Letter

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WilvanderHeijden
Community Member
2 months ago

Reply with "Happy to read that you're still the same useless conniving witch you have been for ages. "

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#23

My Mother-In-Law Has Visited...

My Mother-In-Law Has Visited...

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Amy Pattie
Community Member
2 months ago

Not as vicious but it’s a good comic relief in this thread 😂

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#24

The Way My Mother In Law Cut The Cake

The Way My Mother In Law Cut The Cake

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Tara Brooks
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2 months ago

She’s ahead of her time

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#25

My Mother In Law Drives Me Crazy Eats The Crust Off Every Pizza That’s Comes To The House Doesn’t Touch The Actual Part With Toppings... Curse You Soulless Demons That Do This

My Mother In Law Drives Me Crazy Eats The Crust Off Every Pizza That’s Comes To The House Doesn’t Touch The Actual Part With Toppings... Curse You Soulless Demons That Do This

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Anne
Community Member
2 months ago

She took a bit most people don't want though?

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#26

My Mother-In-Law Tried To Bake Some Round Sugar Cookies While Drunk

My Mother-In-Law Tried To Bake Some Round Sugar Cookies While Drunk

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Tara Brooks
Community Member
2 months ago

“While drunk...” 😂

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#27

My Mother In Law Stopped By And Fed The Dog

My Mother In Law Stopped By And Fed The Dog

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Alex the awful German
Community Member
2 months ago

I can't stop laughing about this one. I imagine the dog is still inside the bag, finishing it off.

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#28

How My Mother-In-Law Takes Butter From The Tray

How My Mother-In-Law Takes Butter From The Tray

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Kirsten Kerkhof
Community Member
2 months ago

Compared to a good few of the others, this is harmless. A little annoying maybe, but nothing worse.

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#29

My Mother-In-Law Is Staying With Us For A Couple Weeks. This Is How She Cuts Brownies

My Mother-In-Law Is Staying With Us For A Couple Weeks. This Is How She Cuts Brownies

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SunofSpringtime
Community Member
2 months ago

Why did she leave the edge? That's the best part! I would gladly share brownies with her. 😂

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