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The fact that people share an idealized version of themselves on social media, cherry-picking only the best images, thoughts, and experiences isn't new. But the lengths they go to marketing themselves keep surprising even the ones who think they've seen it all.

I'm talking about r/Instagramreality. It's a subreddit whose members strip down the glamor of make-up, flattering poses, and all kinds of photo editing, and expose the truth behind the facade. It's been around since 2017, and we've written about it numerous times (here, here, and here), but even these folks still get baffled at how absurd some of these manipulations are. Here are a few reasons why.

#1

Must Be Her Sister In The Car

Must Be Her Sister In The Car

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    A Fairly Popular Local Influencer Recently Made An Appearance On TV. A Lot Of Her Fans Apparently Had Trouble Recognizing Her At First

    A Fairly Popular Local Influencer Recently Made An Appearance On TV. A Lot Of Her Fans Apparently Had Trouble Recognizing Her At First

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    Klaatu Verrata (Cough)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yikes. Filler is expensive. Always amazes me how much vain people will pay to turn themselves into literal caricatures of themselves.

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    In an earlier piece on r/InstagramRealityBored Panda spoke to Siobhan Ward, a primary therapist at Life Works, a rehabilitation center that provides treatment for addictions and eating disorders, about the scope of social media addiction in the United Kingdom.

    "If you broke 'social media addiction' down into categories, it would encompass other process or behavioral addictions such as porn and gambling, as well as eating disorders, especially predominant with the likes of Instagram," Ward explained. "It may be that the addiction is not with the social media itself, but the social media has become a tool of other addictions."

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    The therapist thinks people can't stop faking and editing their Instagram photos (even when it's an obvious lie) because of brain chemistry. "Dopamine is the neurotransmitter that comes into play with the addict — it is what tells us that we enjoy something and therefore need to do it again as it gives us pleasure."

    "If the person is taking a lot of selfies that have to be 'perfect', then maybe they are not addicts. Instead, this could be a sign of a possible narcissistic personality disorder. Also, if someone is posting pictures to get as many likes as possible, they may not be getting certain needs met in their life. They may not have the love, support, or even safety that they need now or that they needed when they grew up and therefore have had to find another way to fill that hole," Ward said.

    #3

    A Man, For A Change. Not Sure If Satire Or For Real. Behold, The Wall-Bending Biceps And Butt

    A Man, For A Change. Not Sure If Satire Or For Real. Behold, The Wall-Bending Biceps And Butt

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    Tobias Rieper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    looks like he has balloons in his trousers and shirt

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    #4

    Skipped Leg Day, Forever

    Skipped Leg Day, Forever

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    #5

    This Is Funny And All But It’s Getting Out Of Hand

    This Is Funny And All But It’s Getting Out Of Hand

    stonemilking Report

    Steve Barnett
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm getting the feeling that I'm probably going to make more Slender Man jokes.

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    #6

    Found In The Wild On Instagram

    Found In The Wild On Instagram

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    Interestingly, being reminded that social media is fake can also 'fill' us. In a 2019 study, researchers decided to investigate the effect 'Instagram vs. Reality' pictures (the ones containing side-by-side photographs of the same woman, one an idealized depiction and the other a more natural depiction) have on body image.

    They got together 305 women aged between 18 and 30 years, the largest demographic group of Instagram users. The sample had a mean age of 25.34 years, and their mean body mass index (BMI) was 26.98, indicating a slightly overweight sample. The majority of participants identified as Caucasian (69.2%), followed by Latino/Hispanic (11.8%), African American (10.2%), Asian (6.6%), Native American (0.3%), and 'other' (2.0%). The participants were randomly assigned to view one of three sets of Instagram images over a period of time: 'Instagram vs. reality" images, the 'ideal' side alone, or the 'real' side alone.

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    #7

    Blended The Fence Into Her Face

    Blended The Fence Into Her Face

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    #8

    Be You!

    Be You!

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    #9

    In Reality, Birds Flap Their Wings When They Fly

    In Reality, Birds Flap Their Wings When They Fly

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    Pungent Sauce
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And gulls! They would be savaging your lunch.

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    #10

    Unfortunately Did Not Pass Her Photoshop Class Though

    Unfortunately Did Not Pass Her Photoshop Class Though

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    "[The study found that] viewing the 'Instagram vs. reality' and real images resulted in decreased body dissatisfaction relative to the ideal images," the researchers wrote. "Furthermore, the detrimental effects of appearance comparison were much less marked for the 'Instagram vs. reality' and real images than for the ideal images. It was concluded that 'Instagram vs. reality' and real posts have the potential to bolster women's body satisfaction, but more research is needed to assess their longer-term impact."

    Siobhan Ward said that we need to become aware of what we believe we are getting from the Internet in order to start resisting its temptation. "By understanding why [we] turn to the Internet, [we] can start to think about healthier ways to meet these needs."

    #11

    This Guy Popped Up In My Feed As A Sponsored Story

    This Guy Popped Up In My Feed As A Sponsored Story

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    adiiantryx
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why does everyone here look like characters from the sims

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    #12

    Yes, The Giant Feet Syndrome, More And Coomon These Days

    Yes, The Giant Feet Syndrome, More And Coomon These Days

    Slow-Werewolf Report

    Nugua
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The feet are not the problem here...

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    #13

    We’ve Seen Tiny Heads…now Get Ready For Giant Feet!

    We’ve Seen Tiny Heads…now Get Ready For Giant Feet!

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    #14

    Legs For Dayyyyys

    Legs For Dayyyyys

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    #15

    "The Model Has Achieved This By Chewing On A Plastic-Looking Contraption"

    "The Model Has Achieved This By Chewing On A Plastic-Looking Contraption"

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    #16

    Photoshopped Herself Into Oblivion, Grandpa Can Stay Lookin Old Af

    Photoshopped Herself Into Oblivion, Grandpa Can Stay Lookin Old Af

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    #17

    Organs Are For The Weak!

    Organs Are For The Weak!

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    #18

    From Her Profile vs. Tagged

    From Her Profile vs. Tagged

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    Sarcastic Cow
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you photoshoped yourself hard enough to be Kate Siegel. Good job.

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    #19

    Reminder: This Is Not How These Women Look In Real Life

    Reminder: This Is Not How These Women Look In Real Life

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    #20

    Internal Organs? Never Heard Of Them

    Internal Organs? Never Heard Of Them

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    #21

    Reminds Me Of That Scene In Beetlejuice (Little Head)

    Reminds Me Of That Scene In Beetlejuice (Little Head)

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    #22

    What The Model Posted vs. Photographer

    What The Model Posted vs. Photographer

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    lenka
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they are both hideously unrealistic

    A B C
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The right one at least looks somewhat human still, a little overdone as well, but human. The left one is a Tim-Burton-y doll.

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    Klaatu Verrata (Cough)
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No wonder so many young women across the globe have eating and mood disorders. When supposed "hot chicks" can't even be happy with how they look, what does that tell awkward, pre-, peri-, and post-pubescent girls about themselves? And Zuck always knew.

    Izzy Curer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She airbrushed the crease out of her arm. Very weird thing to be self conscious about.

    S.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everything has to be "smooth" and "flat,"I guess.

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    ravenswood1000
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She using floor wax to polish her face?

    Jayne Kyra
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The left is giving me some Tim Burton vibes.

    Lainie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But Tim's creatures are always looking cool. All of these are somehow distorted and with such a large selection of "out of this world".

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    Dodo
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Monkey see, monkey do. Celebrities post retouched photos, wannabes post retouched photos, wannabes get popular, new wannabes know exactly why: retouched photos. And the cycle starts again.

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    Lord Mysticlaw
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The one on the left literally looks like CGI or something

    Buzz Anderson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WOW, she has serious problems if she thinks she has to change her looks.

    𝕰𝖑𝖑𝖆
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Waaaaaaaaay too much makeup 🤦🏻‍♀️

    Shortstack
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't judge the makeup- I've seen girls who look like straight-up clowns.

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    notfunarts
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The one on the left looks like an uncanny valley illustration.

    Patrick O'Harris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her face looks like a very expensive barbie doll...

    Lol'owl
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this a game of spot the diffences?

    Jag Yu
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    body and brain by mattel

    Henk Goddemaer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    both know how to misuse photoshop :-)

    Jane Jane
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want to see what the photographer captured vs. what he/she/they posted.

    Meif’wa Fan
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why did they photoshop it, she looks fine

    Lisa Tetlow
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trying to decide which looks worse...

    Sheena Leversedge Wood
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the photographer clearly knows what people look like while photoshopping them to the ends of the Earth. model, not so much.

    Gail Nicholson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is extra sad, I can understand why normal looking people try to touch themselves up on photos (I don't think it's good, but I understand) but this woman is already made up to look like a beautiful model, but that photo isn't enough for her, she's got to tweak it on a filter and ruin the whole effect to look like a CGI character...

    Annamarie Dodge
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the one on the right is believable but the one on the left is nothing but a joke

    Cybele Spanjaard
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The photographer's shot still look so fake, her rendition is absurdly so

    Zillyboy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    horizontal shoulders are interesting.

    lonelyobnoxiousonion
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they both look like one of the heaviest makeup looks ive seen in my life

    LJ Robinson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did she run herself thru a cartoon app, like Disney's, and post that? Everything is incredibly flat. Maybe it's her Christmas photo, and she's a cartoon princess or something?

    Candia Lee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I could look that good for the camera IRL, I would be ecstatic and not waste my time tweaking it badly.

    Vicky Zar
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why tough? The right one is already overdone with too much make up and probably photoshop too. Why make the head smaller and stuff?

    Bacony Cakes
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is her face made out of recycled gloves?

    Shane S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet the photographer was infuriated.

    laura lee
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can you label them? Would like to know which was the weirdo

    Tiny Dancer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love how nobody bothered to retouch the shoulder and neck bones sticking out. More bones, I guess, make you look skinnier? Such unrealistic nonsense.

    Zaza
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're both disgusting and both look like ridiculous cartoon characters

    Debbie Burns
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And this is how bad it's gotten kids. Even people who already look "ok" (personally I like a natural look but whatev) feel the need to STILL make changes to themselves. Thank GOD I graduated in 1990. The worst thing I did were slam books and even then you never knew who wrote what

    J.A. Rogers
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I certainly am glad I didn't have to grow up in the age of social media. Between the utter horribleness of people in general over the past five years or so and the constant bombardment of impossible, un-human "beauty" standards like this, I don't know how kids today make it out of their teens unscathed... if they do.

    Davo gifman
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's clutching her stomach; so no one will see that she just ate a skittle.😳

    William Gorman
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is that a Barbie Doll (he said while squinting)

    Loty
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is Instacrap vs Lightroom. Lightroom wins.

    Jenna Hollander
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least the photographer had enough sense to change her Bratz doll filters 😂🙈

    Ozymandias73
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    cartoon filter vs cake up (I mean make up)

    Lp Johnson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People are Never satisfied. Sigh.

    Elsie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sad thing is they are both super edited

    John Smith
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The touched up picture looks like a bratz doll.

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    #23

    She Was On A Popular Reality Show. I'll Never Understand Why They Do This When We've All Seen What They Really Look Like!

    She Was On A Popular Reality Show. I'll Never Understand Why They Do This When We've All Seen What They Really Look Like!

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    Monday
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why accept the reality show invite if you've modified your online image this much is what I don't understand. You KNOW you don't look like your pictures, so why expose yourself? [Why change yourself this much is a question for another day]

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    #24

    One I Found In The Wild

    One I Found In The Wild

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    #25

    Arms So Big They Warp The Plane Seats?

    Arms So Big They Warp The Plane Seats?

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    #26

    This Cannot Be Real! Inhumanly Possible To Look Like This

    This Cannot Be Real! Inhumanly Possible To Look Like This

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    James016
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is the guy from TOWIE (UK reality TV show) and he is dangerously thin at the moment

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    #27

    I Was Startled By This While Scrolling

    I Was Startled By This While Scrolling

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    #28

    Girl I Go To Uni With Always Edits Her Photos Like This.. The Second Pic Is How She Actually Looks

    Girl I Go To Uni With Always Edits Her Photos Like This.. The Second Pic Is How She Actually Looks

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    ElenaK
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And she looks great! These individuals have serious issues!

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    #29

    4 Out Of 5 Dentists Approved

    4 Out Of 5 Dentists Approved

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    #30

    Her Index Finger Seems To Be Melting Down Her Bum

    Her Index Finger Seems To Be Melting Down Her Bum

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    #31

    Her Gravitational Pull Is So Strong It Distorts Everything Around Her Waist

    Her Gravitational Pull Is So Strong It Distorts Everything Around Her Waist

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    Tobias Rieper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this whole page could just have a picture of Thanos after he gets the reality stone with caption now reality can be whatever i want

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    #32

    Two Of Her Fingers Are Thicker Than Her Wrist, Wtf

    Two Of Her Fingers Are Thicker Than Her Wrist, Wtf

    MelanieSenpai Report

    Tobias Rieper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    looks like one of the Strigoi from the Strain Tv show

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    #33

    Repeat Offender. This Girl Has No Shame

    Repeat Offender. This Girl Has No Shame

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    #34

    Even The Poor Headless Mannequin Can't Live Up To Ig Standards

    Even The Poor Headless Mannequin Can't Live Up To Ig Standards

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    #35

    When The Very Thing You Rely On Betrays You Lol

    When The Very Thing You Rely On Betrays You Lol

    Fvcknloner Report

    ElenaK
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is better in reality. Can't she see it?

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    #36

    Copy + Paste Cleavage?

    Copy + Paste Cleavage?

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    #37

    The Face!!! And This Was A Sponsored Post

    The Face!!! And This Was A Sponsored Post

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    Oopsydaisy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When your dead sister turns up in your selfies.

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    #38

    And The Knees?

    And The Knees?

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    #39

    The Coveted Thigh Gap

    The Coveted Thigh Gap

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    #40

    And She Would Have Gotten Away With It Too, If It Weren’t For Those Meddling Straps!

    And She Would Have Gotten Away With It Too, If It Weren’t For Those Meddling Straps!

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    I like cats
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Srsly...You don't need to change your body to be truly appealing.

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    #41

    Subtle.... Her Poor Nose

    Subtle.... Her Poor Nose

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    a_smol_berry
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sure she looked wonderful before photo shop.

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    #42

    I Honestly Don’t Know Where To Start

    I Honestly Don’t Know Where To Start

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    Troux
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The background has the telltale stretch marks of Google Street View. Nice.

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    #43

    I’m Sorry… What?

    I’m Sorry… What?

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    #44

    Reality TV Influencer Edits Her Photos To Change Her Skin Colour

    Reality TV Influencer Edits Her Photos To Change Her Skin Colour

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    Rose Golden
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's gorgeous irl though! Why change that!

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    #45

    Famous Youtube Prankster Editing Girls’ Bodies In Video Previews. Lost Some Respect For Him For Perpetuating Those Harmful Standards

    Famous Youtube Prankster Editing Girls’ Bodies In Video Previews. Lost Some Respect For Him For Perpetuating Those Harmful Standards

    old.reddit.com Report

    A B C
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And he's bad at it, too. What a douche.

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    #46

    Core So Strong It Bends Everything Around It

    Core So Strong It Bends Everything Around It

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    ShriSha Kamboj
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's like the sea waves......on the floor...... with the tiles

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    #47

    So Much Brightness

    So Much Brightness

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    Scagsy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wham! Looking happy because they had yet to give their love away at Christmas.

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    #48

    Found One In The Wild, Totally Natural Looking Face

    Found One In The Wild, Totally Natural Looking Face

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    #49

    Online Shopping And.. I Literally Have No Idea What’s Happening Here

    Online Shopping And.. I Literally Have No Idea What’s Happening Here

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    Troux
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are those legs on backwards?

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    #50

    Seen In Strasbourg. Influencer Pretends To Use A Selfie Stick As Entourage Shoots. They Were There For At Least 30 Minutes. Best Was Seeing Her Smoke After In A Winter Coat ‘Cuz It Was Chilly Af

    Seen In Strasbourg. Influencer Pretends To Use A Selfie Stick As Entourage Shoots. They Were There For At Least 30 Minutes. Best Was Seeing Her Smoke After In A Winter Coat ‘Cuz It Was Chilly Af

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    Scagsy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Somebody had their picture taken, then had a cigarette. The rest of this story shall remain a mystery evermore.

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