Being a mom is a hard job. It takes a lot of mental and physical energy to constantly be there for someone who relies on you 24/7.
In partnerships, moms are usually the ones that take on the brunt of childcare and housekeeping duties—and there are a lot of them. Single mothers are often under even more pressure. They not only have to take care of their child and keep their house in order, but they’re also the only bread-winners in the family.
All that is to say that we should appreciate mothers as they do work very hard.
However, some of them can sometimes be a little too pushy when insisting on gratitude. After all, being a mother doesn’t make you more deserving of the good things in life. And one should not expect to be treated with exceptional kindness and generosity simply because of their familial status.
The list below has some of the most infuriating examples of entitled mothers ever. If you decide to scroll down and see it, be prepared to get angry.
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I Teach Swimming To Kids For Free Even Though I Was Offered Money. Mombie Demands That I Have To Teach Her Son Exclusively. And To Give Her The Money Offered As I Don't Need It
While you might think that entitlement is a completely negative personality trait, it is actually not all bad. In fact, we all have a sense of entitlement and it’s actually good for us.
Healthy or normal entitlement is learned when we’re still babies. By giving us warmth and responding to our needs, our caretakers teach us what sort of treatment to expect from others. This usually teaches us boundaries and the concept of “giving and receiving” in relationships.
Mom Thinks Her Son Needs My Service Dog, Not Just Any Service Dog
“I’m A Single Mom. Let Me Buy This For 15% Of Your Asking Price!”
Other types of healthy entitlement can be transactional. For example, when you work, you expect for your employer to pay for your job. When you pay for something, you expect to be delivered a service or a product. Same applies when there is any sort of rules that people need to follow; you expect everyone to abide by them. You expect the doctors to treat you, and the laws to protect you. All of these are normal.
When we are describing someone who is entitled, we are talking about a person who has excessive entitlement. Those are the ones that expect special treatment from everyone around them.
This Was On One Of My Mom Pages, I Couldn't Believe It Was Local And That These Kind Of People Actually Exist, It Makes Me Sick To Think About
It's Ok, I'm A Single Mom
If money was actually tight you wouldn't be wasting it on a Nintendo in the first place
Mom Asked For 'Old Phone' As Temp For Uncle, Offered Old Phone, Can't Be Too Old Has To Be iPhone 6 Or Above
There’s no clear answer for why people start feeling excessively entitled. One of the theories is that it is related to a person’s attachment style. Scientists propose that an anxious attachment style that manifests in clinginess and fear of rejection is associated with the feeling that you deserve better. Usually, these people have exaggerated needs and fears and demand them to be met.
Beggar Mom Is Insulted That Her Daughter's Party Guests Won’t Pay For The Party
They need a laugh button on here lolololol. Wow some of these moms are totally out of touch with reality lololol
Strangers Wont Give My Kid AirPods Or Money?! Thanks For Ruining His Christmas!
Someone Has To Pay To Watch Her Kid
Where's the slave supposed to come up with the rent money?
This relates to a theory which claims that people who were wronged in their lives demonstrate an exaggerated sense of entitlement. Children that weren’t given enough emotional support try to meet their needs outside of their familial relations. This type of behavior shows in the patterns of entitled moms.
Choosing Mother Tries To Trick Good Guy Neighbor Into Paying Child Support
I would love to see how plays out in court. I'm sure judges don't get too many belly laughs
My Buddy Is A Tattoo Artist. He’s Also My Personal Hero
Wasting money on tattoos? Probably begging other people to "adopt" her kids for Christmas too.
Entitled Mom Demands A Refund And Tells Me To Repent!
Angeldust, Socks, and Bill Cypher (Hazbin Hotel, Welcome to Hell, Gravity Falls)
Single mothers have to sacrifice a lot to give their children a good life. They often don’t receive much gratitude from people in their family, so they seek it in the world around them. Their need to feel appreciated takes priority over consideration of others. So, they go on the Facebook market and push the sellers to give them free stuff or scream at service workers, demanding the respect they crave.
Shared My Netflix Years Ago With My Mom And Sister, Then Had An Issue Last Night So I Checked The Recent Devices
Found out there were tons of people with my password, PLUS someone upped my plan. Reset my password and told my sister I wasn’t going to share my password anymore. CHAOS.
This Mom Looking To Ditch Her New Baby For The Holidays
It’s baby’s first Christmas! Why would you want to spend that away from her?!
Not Mine But Op’s Mom Is Freaking Out Her Because She Switched Jobs And Doesn’t Have A Cell Discount Anymore
Excessive entitlement can lead to criminal behavior. Studies have shown that believing that you deserve special treatment can lead men to abusing women in relationships. This can be physical or sexual violence. Those are the type of guys who think that women are indebted to them because they were treating them nicely or bought them a drink or dinner. When they don’t get it, they feel betrayed and could even take what they think they are entitled to by force.
The School District I Live In Has Been Giving Free Breakfasts And Lunches To Children Since The Pandemic Started. Entitled Mom Complaining On The Town Facebook Page
Single Mom, Unique Baby Name, Won’t Screw You Over, Cash On Hand!
Homeless Single Mom Looking For Love, Must Make Good Money Though And Have Your Own Place!
Entitlement is also associated with infidelity. In those cases, people might think they are entitled to a certain kind of attention or even sex. If those people don’t get it from their partner, they believe it is only fair to get it somewhere else. They often don’t exhibit much remorse about their actions because they feel they were justified.
Mom Calling Her Kid’s School And Tries To Have The School Nurse Diagnose And Treat Her Lady Parts Over The Phone
Just be glad she didn't come in and hop up on the table for an exam!
Mom Upset That Son Won't Spend Money On Her
My dad used to take all of my money to buy beer :/ Edit: Most of y'all probably won't see this, but I genuinely appreciate at the kind replies! I've been away from my father for months now, and everything is going well
My Little Sister Is Raising Money For Her Dance Troupe And Her Mom Sent Me A Link Telling Me To Donate Whatever I Can Afford. I Can’t Donate Less Than $20
Damn, looks like I can't make a donation.....ah well.
In the worst cases, entitlement can even lead to a person taking another person’s life. In a paper published in 2002, researchers analyzed how entitlement led to a student attacking his teacher. The teen perpetrator’s mother showed excessive adoration for her child, believing he was very smart and destined for something great. The scientists believe that the constant praise made him feel like he was better than others and deserved special treatment from everybody around him. Once he didn’t get it, he resorted to gratuitous violence.
She Blocked Me For Pointing Out $4 An Hour Is Not Enough For A Full Time Babysitter Lmao
Single Mom Wants A 6'3" Tall Meal Ticket
Setting aside the actual legitimate arguments about this - Do these women realise how tall 6'3" actually is? I'm a 5'8" woman and I'm at least a half-head taller than most women in lifts - that's without heals.
Mother Demands You Only Buy Specific Gifts For Birthday And Holiday. For Context, The Child Is Like 4 Years Old
I used to do similar when my daughter was younger but I was a lot more relaxed with it. If someone asked me what she wanted I would suggest two things but neither was more than £15. I never sent a list out in advance though and if we ended up with duplicates oh well! Most presents were crafty things so it didn't matter if everyone bought the same thing.
All in all, it is safe to say that taken to the extremes, entitlement can have really serious consequences. And while the mothers on this list are not physically harming anyone, their ignorance to the needs of others is definitely unpleasant. In other words, they really know how to ruin someone’s mood. We do hope these stories didn’t ruin your mood, but, instead, are going to inspire you to stand up to excessive entitlement when the situation arises.
Facebook Mom Looking For Baby Sitter For $50 A Week
This is probably the craziest one I've ever read (so far).
Choosy Beggar Moms On Facebook
6 Months Pregnant Single Mom Of 1 Looking For A Good Man To Settle Down With
🚩🚩Pregnant girls are fun🚩🚩 I want to bed treated like a queen🚩🚩Wow.
Mom On Facebook Begs For Free Gaming System, Then Becomes Rude & Picky With Offers
Does anyone have a vehicle to give away, for free? I am in desperate need of an Aston Martin DBR1, but I don't want to pay for it 🤑 thanks
This Ungrateful Mom
“Would You Consider Gifting Your 14,500 Dollar Car For Sale To A Single Mom In Need? Would Be An Answer To So Many Prayers”
I'm surprised she didn't add the 'Jesus is watching you' line :) :)
Local Mom Complaining About The Free Breakfast And Lunch Schools Are Giving Away Because Of Covid19. Says That She’s Going To Email The School And Complain
Lady Wants Babysitter To Watch Her Three Young Kids Including A 1 Month Old For $160 A Week From 7am-6pm Monday-Friday. Oh And They Need To Be Picked Up And Dropped Off As Well
This whole list gets sadder as I read. We want and need to work. But nowhere for the children to be cared for. Idk why anyone can still say America is a great country. I guess it is for the rich.
My BF’s Mom Is Coming To Visit Us, And She Suggested We Buy A Mattress, When We Were Offering To Pay For A Hotel For Her And She Could Just Bring An Air Mattress That She Already Owns
Local Fb Group Mom Wants To Pay $100 A Week For Babysitting Overnight And Getting Child To School
Local Restaurant Is Offering Free Meals For Children While School Is Closed. Choosing Beggar Mom Mad That It Isn't Extended To Nursing Mothers As Well
Two types of people; those offering to help the small business helping the kids and those wanting more 'Free stuff'
Mom Goes Off On Build A Bear For Ending Their Promotion And Having The Audacity To Send Her A Voucher For A Discount After The Fact (Yes She Was Completely Serious)
Why does no one use commas and normal sentences anymore? Edit: punctuation for the really ‘realistic’ ones
Apparently Being A Sahm Means You Should Give Away Free Childcare
My Neighbour. Oh And By "Sit In Her House" She Means Babysit Her Two Very High Needs Children
Ehhhh.... I might take someone up on this if they were in the neighborhood
I Wish Someone Would Help Take Care Of Our 3 Kids.. But It Has To Be More Than 2 Hours
A 2 hour nap is more valuable than gold if you're sleep deprived.
Single Mom Would Like To Pay Less Than 2$ An Hour For Childcare
Move to Sweden. We pay at most 1-3 % of our salary and the first 15 hours a week is free.
Single Mom, “Hiring A Sugar Daddy”
Pay the bills, but don't touch the merchandise.
Mom Wants An Absolutely Perfect Suv... For $2k
Anyone Else Have Vietnamese Moms Who Are Choosy Beggars?
Ungrateful Pregnant Mom Rants About Receiving New Baby Clothes Instead Of Things On Her Baby Registry
I kind of get this one, there is so much needed in preparation for a baby having a hundred outfits aged 0-3 months and no help with anything else is not great.
Come On Kayla You Totally Forgot To Tell Me You’re Also A Single Mom
You can get a cheap new smart phone for that here in the UK... with a £5/mo basic phone plan (unlimited texts and calls and 5G data)
Cb Mom Wants To Be Paid For Her Daughter’s Play Dates
Mom In My Hometown Wants Someone To Babysit Her Kid For $30/Day, But Must Be Available 14 Hours A Day
Single Mom (Blue) Was Looking For A Babysitter In My Neighborhood Facebook Group
Give Me Something Free... To A Whole New Level
I don't see how this one is really entitled. I mean they're a little dumb for thinking people would give them their dog but not like "GIVE ME YOUR DOG YOU *******".
Why Is It Always The Moms Looking For Nanny’s?
What am I missing on this one - sounds like a typical au-pair agreement, no?
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It’s a pity that the people who need to see these kinds of posts probably don’t read them, or why this kind of behavior is beyond unacceptable and absolutely abusive , if they do read it.
'I'm a single mom so I must be treated really special' is all I have been reading here :(. Thankfully, I'm sure it is only a small percentage of single moms that go on these 'entitled pleas'. I do feel sad for some that don't have family to help them though.
Me too. Like, the posts to look for a babysitter offering a very low pay. If it's really what they can afford, this is a social problem. It means they have no family net to rely on, need to work, have nobody to look after the children. A real welfare state would take care of some of these issues.
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Overly entitled dad's exist too. People like to act like it's only the moms who are a problem even though dad's can be as well.
Why are only 'dad's' possessive in your world and not 'moms'?!
Load More Replies... It’s a pity that the people who need to see these kinds of posts probably don’t read them, or why this kind of behavior is beyond unacceptable and absolutely abusive , if they do read it.
'I'm a single mom so I must be treated really special' is all I have been reading here :(. Thankfully, I'm sure it is only a small percentage of single moms that go on these 'entitled pleas'. I do feel sad for some that don't have family to help them though.
Me too. Like, the posts to look for a babysitter offering a very low pay. If it's really what they can afford, this is a social problem. It means they have no family net to rely on, need to work, have nobody to look after the children. A real welfare state would take care of some of these issues.
Load More Replies... Overly entitled dad's exist too. People like to act like it's only the moms who are a problem even though dad's can be as well.
Why are only 'dad's' possessive in your world and not 'moms'?!
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