‘I Was Totally Prepared To Douse My Face In Acid:’ Ex-Skinhead Gets His Racist Tattoos Removed After Becoming A Dad
Meet Bryon Widner, a former – in his own words – borderline sociopath who was full of hate and had an insatiable lust for violence.
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He became a skinhead at the age of 14, and he spent 16 years involved with racist organizations in the midwest. He earned the nickname of pit bull, and went on to co-found Vinlanders Social Club, a white power group in Indiana.
Vinlanders soon gained a reputation for excessive violence and racia ldiscrimination, becominf one of the fastest-growing neo-nazi organizations in the US.
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In 2005, Widner married Julie Larsen and a year later, the couple had a son. The responsibilities of fatherhood gave Widner the desire to reform and leave the racist movement, a desire shared by his new wife.
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Widner decided to leave the neo-nazi group, but it took years of death threats and harassment before he felt that he was finally becoming “human again.”
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Widner’s attempts to become part of regular society were understandably made more difficult by his many face tattoos, which were both intimidating and openly racist. His wife Julie was afraid that he would do something extreme to erase his gang tattoos, so depressed and desperate he was becoming.
“I was totally prepared to douse my face in acid,” he said in an interview with the Associated Press.
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Julie eventually contacted Daryle Lamont Jenkins, an anti-racist activist, who put her in contact with the Southern Poverty Law Center.
After several weeks of meetings and evaluation, SPLC representatives decided that Widner was sincere in his desire to fully reintegrate into society and agreed to help him to remove his facial tattoos. They found a plastic surgeon who was willing to perform the tattoo removal, and an anonymous donor provided $35,000 for the procedures.
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The complete removal of Widner’s facial tattoos took around a year and a half, and he had to endure over a dozen individual procedures, all of them were excruciatingly painful.
Dr. Bruce Shack, chair of the Department of Plastic Surgery at Vanderbilt University Medical Center in Nashville, told Widner that the removals “would feel like you have the worst sunburn in the world, your face will swell up like a prizefighter, but it will eventually heal.”
“This is not going to be any fun.”
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It often took days for the burns and oozing blisters to heal, before he was ready for the next round under the laser. But Widner was determined to do the right thing by his new family, and he kept on going back for the agonizing laser tattoo removal procedures until only some scarring remained.
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Widner has since become the subject of a documentary that chronicles his story of redemption, called Erasing Hate. As well as this, a feature film called Skin was recently released and is a dramatized version of his story, starring Billy Elliot actor Jamie Bell as the reformed neo-nazi.
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Having thrown out everything to do with his racist past, Widner has now covered up his remaining racist body tattoos and hopes that his story can inspire others. In a time of increasing hatred and division, if just one angry young teenager on the verge of becoming a skinhead changes his mind after seeing his suffering, that is a victory for Widner.
Speaking to Bored Panda, he offered the following words of advice:
“You do not owe anyone anything, please take a step back, and realize this world will always fight back. Before throwing your life away, quit digging your own grave, and know that hate has consequences.”
It’s never too late to choose love over hate and if Bryon Widner can do it, anyone can!
Here’s what people had to say about Widner’s transformation
If I remember rightly, I saw him on a doco or news source and he pretty much said the pain of having his tattoos removed he deserves because of the pain he has caused others. Some say that people can’t change but people change everyday, so it can be done. I wish him and his family the best and he continues down the better path.
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People can and do change... but it is VERY rare for the change to be anything other than a calcification of their existing ideologies and beliefs. This man and his wife, and a few others, are rare indeed.
Lol Jace you're such a windbag. Like a giant puddle only about one inch deep. You might walk around it at first...before discovering that you can just walk right through and hardly get your shoes wet. It may be the J. Browne-Leading-A-Girl's-Reading-Circle photo that's triggering me. I completely acknowledge that.
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I must admit I did think that the pain caused by the tattoo removal was no more than he deserved and don't feel any sympathy for that. I don't know much about him - will read up and might change my mind - but it sounds like he got off lightly if that's the only 'punishment' he's had. I hope he stays on this journey. God forbid anything bad happening to his family but if it did I should imagine that he'd turn to hate again pretty damn quickly.
Saying he will most likely turn into hate in the events of something tragic happening and it's exactly negativity like that, that makes them do so. God sent him and his gf a blessing that turned their hate into love, that's the ONLY thing that matters here.
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His wife must have seen something good in him from the start. I'm sure his family's support was what motivated him to change, both internally and externally. Good story and happy ending :D
She met him at a white supremist rally. But they now have both changed.
Mr Me, I did make an error, they didn’t meet at a white supremist rally, they met at a white power concert. Maybe have a read up, here is just one website http://www.historyvshollywood.com/reelfaces/skin/
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She has to be a pretty remarkable woman. I would have taken one look at the guy's face and run in another direction. That ink was hard core racist.
I think she has gone through the journey alongside him.
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Nazi birds of a feather flop together.
Whatever the reason may be, it's wonderful to see someone learning a positive lesson, and making a positive change. It will *never* undo past mistakes... but it *can* be a wonderful inspiration for others who are at a fork in the road or whether to chose hate or acceptance. I wish them all the best, and hope that those negatively affected by his past, can take some modicum of solace in the knowledge that he's learned his lesson & is trying to do better. May we all try to do better.
It takes a strong person to say they're sorry and an even stronger person to forgive. No, he cannot change his past mistakes. But he can lock away that past, and sink it to the lowest depths, and start over
If I remember rightly, I saw him on a doco or news source and he pretty much said the pain of having his tattoos removed he deserves because of the pain he has caused others. Some say that people can’t change but people change everyday, so it can be done. I wish him and his family the best and he continues down the better path.
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People can and do change... but it is VERY rare for the change to be anything other than a calcification of their existing ideologies and beliefs. This man and his wife, and a few others, are rare indeed.
Lol Jace you're such a windbag. Like a giant puddle only about one inch deep. You might walk around it at first...before discovering that you can just walk right through and hardly get your shoes wet. It may be the J. Browne-Leading-A-Girl's-Reading-Circle photo that's triggering me. I completely acknowledge that.
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I must admit I did think that the pain caused by the tattoo removal was no more than he deserved and don't feel any sympathy for that. I don't know much about him - will read up and might change my mind - but it sounds like he got off lightly if that's the only 'punishment' he's had. I hope he stays on this journey. God forbid anything bad happening to his family but if it did I should imagine that he'd turn to hate again pretty damn quickly.
Saying he will most likely turn into hate in the events of something tragic happening and it's exactly negativity like that, that makes them do so. God sent him and his gf a blessing that turned their hate into love, that's the ONLY thing that matters here.
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His wife must have seen something good in him from the start. I'm sure his family's support was what motivated him to change, both internally and externally. Good story and happy ending :D
She met him at a white supremist rally. But they now have both changed.
Mr Me, I did make an error, they didn’t meet at a white supremist rally, they met at a white power concert. Maybe have a read up, here is just one website http://www.historyvshollywood.com/reelfaces/skin/
😂
She has to be a pretty remarkable woman. I would have taken one look at the guy's face and run in another direction. That ink was hard core racist.
I think she has gone through the journey alongside him.
This comment is hidden. Click here to view.
Nazi birds of a feather flop together.
Whatever the reason may be, it's wonderful to see someone learning a positive lesson, and making a positive change. It will *never* undo past mistakes... but it *can* be a wonderful inspiration for others who are at a fork in the road or whether to chose hate or acceptance. I wish them all the best, and hope that those negatively affected by his past, can take some modicum of solace in the knowledge that he's learned his lesson & is trying to do better. May we all try to do better.
It takes a strong person to say they're sorry and an even stronger person to forgive. No, he cannot change his past mistakes. But he can lock away that past, and sink it to the lowest depths, and start over