People Don’t Usually Save Up For These 27 Things And Face Financial Shock When They Occur
You know, in an economics course, students are told about many economic laws, and it would be worth adding a few more - the so-called “Murphy's Law.” For example, the eighth law, which says: “If everything seems to be going well, you have obviously overlooked something.” It’s incredible how many bad things could have been avoided if people had listened to these laws...
But today we’re not going to talk about that entirely. Even if our financial condition looks great today, in fact, no one can guarantee us that this will continue for a long time. And in human life, there are many expenses, both regular and unexpected, that can punch a big hole in even the most powerful family budget. You can read about everything related in this selection of ours, based on this viral thread in the AskReddit community.
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Almost all the random expenses that come with home ownership. New hvac. New roof. Sewer line repair. List goes on
I just paid 2 guys £1350 for 3 hours work to patch a leak in my roof.
I just gave my buddy a stiff drink and he patched mine free 😂..... Sooooooo grateful for good friends with skills
Load More Replies...AND....property taxes. I've been in my home for 27 years and every year my property taxes go up. House value increases every few years and levies constantly pass. Good for my equity and good city schools and services but my property taxes are higher than my mortgage combined with my homeowners insurance. I'm retired now and not sure I'll be able to keep my home. I'm really trying though.
House insurance jumped up 30% this year, in one year. Normally it "only" increases by 15% per year.
Garden cost. If you don't have a garden you need money for plants. If you do have a garden you need money for pruning and garden waste disposal.
Just paid £500 to get my boiler fixed, to replace the tiniest little fan.
These are things homeowners need to budget, and possibly refinance for.
Anything teeth related
I’m sure you could look up the history but it’s probably bundled under “the rich don’t see the poor as human.”
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Having a baby with absolutely any health problems.
Folks are starting to understand just having a kid is expensive (birth, day care, cost of the car seat, etc.), but having a diabetic toddler or a child who needs heart surgery is just off the charts.
My friends from college had a baby with vision and hearing impairments. It's absolutely upended them financially. It changes who can babysit, who can/will go to doctors visits, and pretty much every part of their house has had to change. She's not even school aged yet.
My sister has OI and my family live in the US so my parents had the option to stick her in a wheelchair and just have that be her life or spend tons of money on "non essential" therapies and surgeries so she could at least walk like other kids in her school. The financial stress was almost insurmountable even with decent insurance but the emotional toll can't be put into a monetary amount. My heart goes out to anyone raising a child with any disability. If that is you just know people who lived through it see you and I don't speak for everyone but most of us are here to help if you need it.
IDK if you're religious.... But I am and I'll pray for y'all!
Load More Replies...Health care - medicine, visits to the doctor, hospital - is free for all under 16s where I live, and diabetics get free medicine for life. Having a toddler with heart problems is a worry, but not a financial problem. I gather it's different in the US, but 96% of people live elsewhere.
I live in the UK, my nephew was born with a heart defect, this was sorted before his 1st birthday and didn't cost a penny. When are Americans going to start voting for people who are not subsidised by businesses and are standing to make a difference?
Say you're American without... etc. That said you can easily go bankrupt through kids/partners disease in every other country, but NOT through "absolutely any".
The art of managing personal finances in the turbulent contemporary world is not an easy task. It’s not for nothing that today you can find literally hundreds and thousands of master classes on this issue - and hardly a few percent of them will be truly wholesome and effective. In fact, it is unrealistic to calculate what unexpected problems may affect our financial condition, but it is quite possible to minimize their negative effect.
Getting old, your body doesn't work like it used to. Ageism in the work place. Medical cost
thankfully medical cost isn't an issue here, at least.. not yet. Though if the tories get their way by the time my generation is old it may well be.
Vet bills. My dog has had 3 surgeries in the past 3 years.
Edit: no pet insurance. All cash unfortunately.
But that’s what money is for and you plan ahead for these things. If my dog wasn’t on his last few years I might do Insurance. I don’t know much about it.
Edit: pet insurance it is. 👏
Unconditional. Spent $10k (AUD) on our dog last year, bowel cancer. Still with us :)
Awww, that's wonderful! I know it was worth it. We lost our pooch to an aggressive cancer- if there was any way it could have been treated, we would have done it, gladly.
Load More Replies...Don't have pet insurance either. In my experience, most costs come in the last 1/2 years of the life of a dog and with the costs of vaccination, just paying directly makes more sense. However, I do understand people who prefer insurance especially if they can't be reasonably sure they will be able to foot vet bills.
Vets shouldn't be as expensive as they are, but they're able to manipulate and prey on your emotions, so they get away with charging a fortune because they know its likely you'll pay up
One 13 year old cat costs me the same per year as my houses buildings and contents insurance. I have 2 of them (cats not houses).
When I got my dog at 12 weeks old he was ok but then a month later he developed a skin condition which was caused by an allergic reaction. We treated it with the vet and then were told that pet insurance would never cover ANY skin condition and would also be 3X more expensive than our original quote. Almost £1000 per year. Since then he has only been to the vet for shots and to have his claws clipped as they are black so we can’t clip them ourselves. He’s 14 in April and still running around like a puppy!
I used to work at a vet clinic. I always recommend Healthy Paws to anyone with a pup or kitten. They are the cheapest and so far no complaints with my coverage.
They’ve done economic surveys; most Americans couldn’t afford an unexpected $1000 expense.
So… just about friggin’ anything.
I wish it was a $1000 problem. I have to save ahead of time to go to the doctor because on top of the co-pay we get these surprise bills months later because the insurance "only" paid part of the bill from the doctor and they send you the remainder...this is from a typical office visit at a "primary care" facility.
most Americans are working for c**p wages & barely getting by. So, no, we can't save for anyhting
“Economics is actually a pretty simple science - especially when we talk about personal finance,” says Olga Kopylova, Ph.D., associate professor of economics at Odessa National Maritime University, with whom Bored Panda got in touch for a comment here. "By and large, we are talking here about the ability to balance income and expenses, as well as proper timing for some really big expenses."
“You know, this kind of monetary logistics is to understand at what point you can afford to go into the red and when not. The ability to connect cash flows in space and time. And, of course, a clear understanding of what expenses we can afford, and which ones we can't. True, this will require not only certain knowledge, but also rational thinking, not overestimating one’s strengths and capabilities - but this is not always achievable, unfortunately," Olga summarizes.
Extremely low wages for “entry level” positions that require a degree and ten years of experience.
Hey, I remember saying the same thing in the 1970s, the more things change, the more they stay the same.
Things aren't the same as they were in the 1970s. They are much worse now. People like you refusing to accept cold hard data is the reason things won't get better for the younger generations.
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Job loss.
Near instant doom spiral.
Granted, losing your job sucks, but if you have worked for four years straight, you at least get 2 year's worth of unemployment benefits, which is about 80% of your wages. You are required to find a job in the meantime, of course, but at least you have some sort of income. If you have worked less than 4 year's straight, you are eligible for social benefits, which is lower than unemployment, but it can be supplemented
Yes well, only if you live in a real country and not this disaster of a country. (US)
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One I saw too often was when the husband dies, the pension stopped. It sucked helping older women find jobs, especially when they had no experience in any job. We had to provide training in soft skills, too, like showing up at an exact time.
. . . which is why when I retire in a few years I will likely choose the option with lower monthly checks, but it continues if I die before my wife (or make sure I have enough life insurance that she will be okay).
This is what my husband did for me. He is 10 years older than I am and tho I work full time I don't really make a living wage. He wanted to be sure I was taken care of. <3
Load More Replies...And, of course, we always need to take into account the possibility of so-called “black swans” - events that always come unexpectedly, have significant consequences, and then, in retrospect, rational explanations can be found for each - but only in hindsight. The concept, introduced by the writer and financier Nassim Taleb, of course, relates mainly to the macroeconomic level - of states and large corporations, but it can be extrapolated to the personal level as well.
For example, a sudden illness that will require long-term and expensive treatment also occurs suddenly, has really serious consequences, and then we'll definitely provide quite a logical basis for it - for example, “I should have quit smoking earlier!” Thus, the impact of “black swans” on our personal finances cannot be calculated, but it is possible to create a certain financial “safety cushion” to avoid the main consequences.
Car insurance. Don't get a ticket.
Where I'm from, insurance has nothing to do with tickets. A ticket you pay yourself: insurance is for when you cause an accident or are a victim of one and the guilty party doesn't have insurance. It's illegal to drive without insurance, by the way. The longer you drive without making use of this insurance, the lower your insurance rate will be.
The OP said "don't get a ticket" because, at least in some places, insurance companies will take that as an indication that you aren't a safe driver and raise your rates.
Load More Replies...As a man in his 50s with no tickets, no accidents, I changed auto insurance companies because of the exorbitant rise in costs to maintain my my policy. Feels like they were sticking me for all those "not using your car during Covid" discounts in past years. >:-[
Nah, it's a loyalty penalty. Each time your insurance needs renewing - any insurance: house, motor, anything - shop around. The internet makes it easy. If you stick with your current insurance provider, they'll just raise your rate exorbitantly. Or at least, that's what they do where I live.
Load More Replies...Just a ticket? Where I live, the police can impound your car if you don't have valid insurance, and they've got automatic number plate recognition cameras on some police cars.
I might be wrong, but I thought this meant that if you DO get a ticket for a moving violation, the insurance goes up even more.
Load More Replies...Just follow the rules of the road and don't get a ticket regardless of the insurance issue.
The best advice for all motorists. Now then, how to persuade us all to do so, all the time? That problem remains unsolved.
Load More Replies...Where do you have to report tickets to your insurance company? I got tons as an idiot in high school (1998-2002 FL, US) and they never knew, nor cared, unless I filed a claim!
At least where I am they check electronically with the dmv
Load More Replies...I don't know how the insurance company finds out but where I live if you get a speeding ticket your insurance goes up.
Family members with poor financial management who have emergencies and no one else to go to.
No response IS a response. You were not their last resort… You were there most convenient…
Not every "emergency" is a real one. I have two stepdaughters. My oldest pleaded for money to cover groceries but used it for ink. I'm not opposed to body art - it was the dishonesty that bothered me. She stopped asking for help when I gave her a grocery store gift card the second time. My youngest begged for assistance with a car repair. I thought something was up with the amount so I called the shop. It cost 4x less than what she asked for but hubby had already sent her the money. She spent the extra on getting high. I've fought my own battles with addiction and won’t fund her self-destruction. Watching her spin in is heartbreaking. I hope she hits her bottom before she suffers as much as I did, before the sickness pushes her to try to end it all. I’ll be there when she wants to get clean but I can’t do a thing until she’s ready.
I've got an uncle in his 70s who works part time cleaning offices to pay his rent. He doesn't have good money management skills (never did, frankly) and I feel bad for him when he has to reach out to me and/or my siblings for help--financial or otherwise. We are the only family he has left and it is a struggle. I feel bad for him when he has to reach out for help.
Daycare.
What? That's outrageous! So some people work to pay just daycare?
Load More Replies...How much doed it cost in the US? Around 300€ per month in Finland, i think...
It can easily cost $1000 USD or more per child, per month in the US. Sometimes in 'Murica you can't afford to work for various reasons. It is just as bizarre to live this as it is to say it out-loud.
Load More Replies...My eyes are drawn to those bunk beds and thinking how cramped it must be for those gorgeous kids. Then I noticed the wheels. Phew.
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Hospital bill.
I've been to the hospital twice in the last 5 years. The first time was a long weekend in the ICU. The second was checking myself into the ER.
Bill for the former? $40,0000. The latter? $17,000.
Fortunately I had "good" insurance and only paid (checks notes) about 5 grand for both.
Most people don't have "good" insurance or 5 grand they can drop when the guano hits the air conditioner, and I got off light.
My son was rushed to hospital on Friday. Cost to us on the day was £0. Please sort this one out America. You deserve better.
Hospital bill? What are hospital bills? America, you are the world's richest, most powerful, and most technologically advanced nation. Why can't you do healthcare sensibly?
Too many people are making unimaginable amounts of money in the for-profit health care world. Especially now that private equity firms are "investing" in health care as a profit generator.
Load More Replies...I was at hospital yesterday, at the doctors again today. My mother was in overnight last week. Total cost for any of this was nothing. America, please sort your healthcare out. It's not right and whilst we "joke" about it, we truly wish better for you.
https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2023/01/23/uk/uk-nhs-crisis-falling-apart-gbr-intl/index.html
Long Term Care costs.
If you can't take care of yourself, you should budget about $50K-$100K a year. So many planned inheritances go up in smoke because the money they wanted to give their kids goes to their long term care.
Long term care insurance is important folks. Make sure your parents have it.
I don't even make $50K a year. How in the hell am I supposed to budget that or more if I don't even have that to live on before something like that happens?
We don't really have solutions to stuff like that but we DO have another insurance product you can buy for it!
Load More Replies...Not a panacea as most long term insurers are underfunded and many have gone bankrupt. When they go bankrupt it’s a double hit as folks are out the very expensive premiums and there’re no benefits
When you have zero family and friends you see that s**t hits the fan all the time. And it’s costly. You don’t realize just how often until you’re 100% on your own.
Even worse when you live paycheck to paycheck. It’s nearly impossible to prepare for these kinds of things. And don’t even try to rely on anyone, it just adds bumps in the road.
All you can do is save save save. Every penny counts.
Most of us are a paycheck away from the s**t missing the fan and hitting the ceiling. I'm so lucky to have a decent safety net saved up from when I lived at home.
I commend you for saving up when you lived at home. Too many people don't.
Load More Replies...I'm fortunate enough to have had a good job, which enables me to give my son a leg-up. He has a friend with zero family and it's so hard for him. Say what you want, but if you can afford to dress well, that makes all the difference in a job interview. It makes all the difference to your mental health if you know that, when confronted with unexpected costs, there is someone willing to help you out. We tell him that we're there for him, but he's had to rely on just himself for so long that he finds it difficult to accept help or even to understand that there are people willing to help him without being related to him.
You have to plan for the worst and hope for the best...very hard when on a low income. .
Social Security overpayments. Hello! This is the SSA, and we overpaid you $20,000 over the course of your disability. Please, pay it back in full in 30 days.
All I can think is, you can't get blood from a stone. bill me for it, I lived broke for the two years it took you to agree I am too broken to work anymore, I'll just live broke again until you have your money back. I will have nothing worth taking.
I just got a notice that I had been underpaid by SS. So I was sent an extra payment of $64 to make up for 8 months of underpayment. Thing is, the earnings they underpaid on were the same earnings they used to figure out my SSDI and they didn't say jack about repaying me the extra for my SSDI that goes back to 2014. I'm going in to the SS building tomorrow to let them know the error of their ways and tell them how they can redeem themselves.
Needing a heart stent in their 40s even though they are a runner in very good shape.....and their insurance has a 10K max out of pocket.
Completely hypothetical and happening on Monday.
Most developed nations don't have problems like that. Even Cuba does this better than the US.
Divorce
What really snuck up on me was the cost of basically starting over with household things. Starting with next to nothing and having to setup a functioning house for two young kids to live in is difficult and expensive. Maybe my fault I didn't ask for the basics at all. I focused on a few big ticket furniture items that wouldn't have a significant impact on her.
Not planning for retirement.
Social security isn't as much money as you think, and if you don't have IRA or 401k you're planning for poverty
For real. Quit lecturing the poor and start helping out those who are trying to reduce poverty.
Load More Replies...SS will be gone as the corrupt US government has never done what it supposed to with it - benefit people in retirement...
5 years to go and just found out that our State Teacher's Retirement system will not be solvent. They lost 32 Mil on the SVB collapse a year or so ago while having paid nearly a billion in bonuses to the upper echelon for their "good work". State govt is covering up for them in the coursts.
No problem. I'll just quit paying rent, utilities, food, and car insurance and gas so I can save a dime here or there. /s
For the first time in my life I'm living comfortably so all my spare money is going into my mortgage and pensions.
Unexpected car repair.
Why is cars EW constantly being referred to at the moment? Most new cars come with 5 and up to 10 years anyway as a selling point in Australia.
Load More Replies...Unexpected new car when old one has a crash. Will set you back twice as much now as it would have even five years ago.
Getting sick.
This. I have been sick too many times to count. High volume retail can kill you.
Family funeral.
I want to be cremated in a cardboard box then my ashes shoved in a firework to be set off over Hong Kong Harbour. (Fireworks are illegal in Australia and I love HK). Though with the current China situation, maybe it would be easier to leave me in the bush for the animals to eat. Certainly cheaper though I’m sure, highly illegal.
Cremated my brother in June in Phllippines where he lived. Barbaric. Crematorium was just a nondescript building with a chimney. 1 hour to view the body (we're not religious but his wife is) then they took the casket through some double doors. Next part we did NOT expect. A window opened up and we saw them put his body (not the casket) on the gurney and pushed into the oven. Mum almost collapsed.2.5 hour wait for his ashes. He was still warm in the urn on the way back. So what happens to the caskets after a cremation I wonder......recycled I bet. Complete rort.
That IS indeed barbaric. Every crematorium I have been to, the casket either lowers into the floor, or disappears down a conveyor belt into the oven room. You will NEVER see the casket or body actually enter the oven. There is even always an option for a curtain to go down as the casket is lowered/going down the conveyor.
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The difference in registration and insurance when you get rid of the Buick your parents bought you in high school and the new SUV you just bought.
I live just north of Atlanta, Ga. When I moved here, it cost me over $800 to register my car.
You'll never own your car, or your house...you're taxed to death...until death in the US!!
Family member committing a serious crime.
If it's you spouse and you lose the income and are liable for shared depts. Especially when there are kids
Load More Replies...Former colleague's adult son hit and killed a pedestrian last year and left the scene of the crime but was found out later. Was all over the local news. My heart breaks for my colleague who now has to deal with the consequences of her son's foolish actions, financial and otherwise.
Mortgage renewal interest rates
Not always. Especially not at the current astronomically high rates in the US.
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Escrow shortage.
Geez. Not going to name names but WF is notorious for this. We stash a little away every month in anticipation of their annual miscalculation.
Not really a miscalculation - more like an increase in the insurance and taxes it is supposed to cover. I did the same as you tho, saved a bit more in anticipation of a shortage so it didn't hurt so much.
Load More Replies...Unfortunately a bunch of places got in trouble some years back for collecting interest on huge overages on escrows, at least in the US, so they aren't even allowed to collect what they think they will need, only what they have historically needed. I try to always overpay (and have it go to principal) then, when the inevitable increase comes, it's sometimes already covered, other times a lesser ding.
Electing an idiot who wrecks the economy causing record inflation while claiming to be building back better.
You aware that a lot of your readers aren't American and most of this doesn't apply to them?
Yeah, BP is fully aware of that, except when it posts c**p specifically to be insulting and offensive to Americans, which it regularly does.
Load More Replies...Electing an idiot who wrecks the economy causing record inflation while claiming to be building back better.
You aware that a lot of your readers aren't American and most of this doesn't apply to them?
Yeah, BP is fully aware of that, except when it posts c**p specifically to be insulting and offensive to Americans, which it regularly does.
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