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“Could Be Triggering For Victims”: Many Are Horrified By Kristen Bell’s Wedding Anniversary Post
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“Could Be Triggering For Victims”: Many Are Horrified By Kristen Bell’s Wedding Anniversary Post

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Kristen Bell recently marked her 12th wedding anniversary with Dax Shepard by sharing an uncanny confession that rubbed the internet the wrong way.

The 45-year-old actress and her 50-year-old actor husband tied the knot in a private ceremony at the Beverly Hills courthouse on October 17, 2013.

While they are no strangers to unusual celebratory posts online, this one seemed “insensitive” and “tone-deaf” to many netizens.

Highlights
  • Kristen Bell marked her 12th wedding anniversary with Dax Shepard by sharing a disturbing confession made by her husband.
  • The actress’ post sparked widespread backlash online, with many citing its implications in light of October being Domestic Violence Awareness Month.
  • Even the official account of the true-crime journalism show Dateline NBC chimed in with a savage comment taking a hit at the couple.

“How can any self-respecting woman stay with a man like that? That would have me leaving so fast your head would spin,” wrote one user.

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    The post, shared with Kristen’s 15.8 million followers, featured a photo of the pair firmly embracing each other while sitting on the edge of a bed.

    Bell appeared to be sitting on Shepard’s lap, whose face was visible to the camera, while Kristen’s was hidden as she looked the other way.

    While the image itself did not raise any alarms, the caption accompanying the post, which has garnered nearly 668K likes and over 3,500 comments, certainly did.

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    Kristen started the message on a positive note, celebrating the couple’s milestone, and then quickly shared something that Dax had “once said” to her. 

    Happy 12th wedding anniversary to the man who once said to me…”

    Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard, who share two children together, marked 12 years of marriage 

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    I would never ki** you. A lot of men have ki**ed their wives at a certain point. Even though I’m heavily incentivized to ki** you, I never would.”

    While the confession was made by the Parenthood star, whether as sarcasm or a joke, netizens were not impressed, calling it an “odd” thing to say to one’s spouse.

    Many also noted the negative implications of the words, particularly as October is observed as Domestic Violence Awareness Month.

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    One user criticized, writing, “Please don’t joke about domestic violence. Please keep in mind that this is something real that lots of people suffer on a daily basis. And the text could be triggering for victims.”

    Another commented, “Kristen there’s no way you posted this during domestic violence awareness month.”

    The 50-year-old actor “once” confided in his wife about a disturbing homicidal thought

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    “Listen, I’m a huge fan of hers but it was a little tone deaf, just my opinion!”

    Adding more fuel to the controversy, the official Instagram account of the popular American investigative reality show Dateline NBC also left a comment, “screenshotted.”

    The show, which has been on air since 1992, covers a wide range of topics, including true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries, and in-depth investigations.

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    Dateline NBC Instagram comment screenshot reacting to Kristen Bell's wedding anniversary post, sparking horror among victims.

    Given the nature of Dax’s message in Bell’s caption, many considered the NBC show’s reply to be “savage.”

    “@datelinenbc whoever you are running this account, you deserve a raise.”

    The couple first began dating in 2007 after connecting at a dinner party, and three years later, they got engaged in 2010.

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    Social media users slammed the celebratory post, pointing out that it was shared during Domestic Violence Awareness Month

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    Together, they share two daughters: Lincoln, born in March 2013, and Delta, born in December 2014.

    The post followed a candid interview Bell gave the day before on the red carpet at the Nobody Wants This Season 2 premiere.

    When asked by an Entertainment Tonight reporter if she remembered the special occasion on October 17, Bell struggled to give an answer.

    After an awkward pause, she finally realized, “Is… the… oh my God, it’s my anniversary! You know I don’t remember that. Oh sh**t, I’m so glad that you told me.”

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    Kristen and Dax are known for sharing eyebrow-raising and often controversial posts about each other online

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    “And no one’s at fault here, right? We’re just not great with dates.”

    Previously, in July this year, Shepard celebrated his wife’s first Emmy nomination for Best Comedy Actress with an explicit Instagram post.

    In the eyebrow-raising picture, The Good Place star was seen doing the downward dog position while basking in the sun without any clothes on, wearing only bright blue socks.

    Kristen Bell doing a handstand outside on brick patio with one leg raised while a small dog looks on nearby.

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    “People might not know everything that happens behind the scenes in order to create an Emmy nominated performance like Kristen’s. This may or may not have been a part of her training, but it felt right. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!” the comedian wrote in the caption.

    “Yikes … sometimes we don’t need to post allll of our thoughts,” expressed one disappointed netizen. 

    “Domestic violence and violence against women aren’t jokes Kristen,” expressed one enraged user online 

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    Andrea Clare
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This post is definately for those people who have followed this couple for a long time. I'm thinking the comment has more to do with their disparate incomes. Dax has frequently talked about how she is the true "draw" to their marriage. As a DV survivor I did not find this remark triggering. I understand where people misintepret this couple's banter and would be offended. But that's their problem not the couple's.

    Lee Gilliland
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "A little tone deaf" is the understatement of the year.

    Rimjabbathehutt
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's hilarious. These whiny little snowflake bi tch babies all need to grow up.

    Angie May
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww poor snowflake upset that people are upset :(

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    Rick Murray
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Even though I’m heavily incentivized to ki** you" - wait, WHAT? 🤦

    harley silva
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i love it the b***h baby snow flackes dont know what married life is like i guess, when your married long enough you will want to m****r your partner from time to time for dumb stuff lol

    Thanos'Fingers
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dumb stuff, like that comment? Technology has grown by leaps and bounds. A spell check is generally freely available to us all. Snow FLAKE.

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    Stephanie Nibert
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A silly comment from a quirky couple. I doubt it will do any harm.

    lolliegag69
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Y’all are completely overreacting. I guarantee when she posted this she had forgotten it was domestic a***e month. People blank all the time. Cut her some slack.

    nancy johnson
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesn’t seem like a joke to overreact to at all. In fact it sounds like a confirmation from her husband likely during a very honest and serious conversation relating to their status and things that happen (frequently) in our world. For him to acknowledge that there would be a gain (financial if she does make more) from an act like that and to also state he would never do that is a good thing. If that’s the kind of conversation this was then I fully support it especially in October. We need to be (and there’s nothing wrong with) talking about harsh topics and affirm our partners about those things.

    SkippityBoppityBoo
    Community Member
    1 month ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't find this funny in the slightest. As a DV Survivor and disabled due to it? It's too close to the bone. I've helped other people leave, get away. Fought for laws to be changed regarding DV. Some people might be able to find the "humour" but when you've almost lost your life? It becomes incredibly less funny, incredibly fast.

    PenguinEmp
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't even know there was a dv month so it didn't make me upset. I can see why it made some, but can't please everyone.

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    Andrea Clare
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This post is definately for those people who have followed this couple for a long time. I'm thinking the comment has more to do with their disparate incomes. Dax has frequently talked about how she is the true "draw" to their marriage. As a DV survivor I did not find this remark triggering. I understand where people misintepret this couple's banter and would be offended. But that's their problem not the couple's.

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "A little tone deaf" is the understatement of the year.

    Rimjabbathehutt
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's hilarious. These whiny little snowflake bi tch babies all need to grow up.

    Angie May
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww poor snowflake upset that people are upset :(

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    Rick Murray
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Even though I’m heavily incentivized to ki** you" - wait, WHAT? 🤦

    harley silva
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i love it the b***h baby snow flackes dont know what married life is like i guess, when your married long enough you will want to m****r your partner from time to time for dumb stuff lol

    Thanos'Fingers
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dumb stuff, like that comment? Technology has grown by leaps and bounds. A spell check is generally freely available to us all. Snow FLAKE.

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    Stephanie Nibert
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A silly comment from a quirky couple. I doubt it will do any harm.

    lolliegag69
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Y’all are completely overreacting. I guarantee when she posted this she had forgotten it was domestic a***e month. People blank all the time. Cut her some slack.

    nancy johnson
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesn’t seem like a joke to overreact to at all. In fact it sounds like a confirmation from her husband likely during a very honest and serious conversation relating to their status and things that happen (frequently) in our world. For him to acknowledge that there would be a gain (financial if she does make more) from an act like that and to also state he would never do that is a good thing. If that’s the kind of conversation this was then I fully support it especially in October. We need to be (and there’s nothing wrong with) talking about harsh topics and affirm our partners about those things.

    SkippityBoppityBoo
    Community Member
    1 month ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't find this funny in the slightest. As a DV Survivor and disabled due to it? It's too close to the bone. I've helped other people leave, get away. Fought for laws to be changed regarding DV. Some people might be able to find the "humour" but when you've almost lost your life? It becomes incredibly less funny, incredibly fast.

    PenguinEmp
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't even know there was a dv month so it didn't make me upset. I can see why it made some, but can't please everyone.

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