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40 Nasty Things Folks Did That Left Their Partners Shocked, Grossed Out, And Even Traumatized
There's no denying that we, as people, are kind of gross. Let's ditch the 'kind of' -- we're actually gross. Of course, not 100% of the time, but at some points for sure. The level of it depends on the person and their context, as always.
Here, today, you will find a plethora of stories of people getting grossed out by a person they are involved with. The disgust was so major in these cases that these relationships are in the past right now. Did we pique your interest? Let's jump in to satisfy it!
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#1
I opened the door while he was taking a bath. he was pooping in the water, scooping it out of the tub water and into the toilet
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#2
He refused to brush his teeth for a week and kept trying to kiss me bc he read online that the pheremones of his stank breath would hypnotize me into sleeping with him (we broke up very quickly after)
mria alternativa 3 months ago
So he "does his own research" and thinks he needs to hypnotize his gf into sleeping with him? Yeah, breakup sounds reasonable.
#3
oh i think i win this... my ex would take my feminine hygiene products out of the trash when i left, came back they were stuck to and hanging from his walls so he could "smell them"
Nicole Weymann 3 months ago
A somewhat niche definition of "win", but who am I to kiII your buzz 🤷 Congratulations, I guess! 🥳🏆😄
Apatheist Account2 3 months ago
Unusual, but not unique - people do have a thing about the female smell that turns them on. Just another kink, but like all of them - best done in the open rather than hidden. If they can't handle it then move on.
We all have something that grosses us out, that makes us feel disgust. What differs is the things that trigger it in us – they can depend on the person’s character, the contexts of how they grew up, and how they are now, or even biology. You know, the same general thought about us being different and such.
You might wonder – what’s the point of this emotion? Why are we wired to feel like this – does it even benefit us anyhow? Well, of course it does! Turns out, disgust is an evolutionary product meant to save us, to keep our bodies in prime condition.
#4
Caught my ex at a circuit party locked inside a dog cage, cuffed up and everything. He had used the bathroom on himself more than once… I tried to help him out, but he insisted on staying in there. I had to walk away after that, I couldn't unsee it. Still haunts me 😭💀
Ellinor she/they/elle 3 months ago
I understand why she left him (and I kinda agree with her but it's my personal dislikes) but let's not kinkshame. I mean he was obviously consenting and he's a grown up, but maybe he should have warned her.
Marnie 3 months ago
If it was a kink (which it obviously seems like it was) and he was engaging in this with other people participating, it was cheating of a sort. So, "gross" aside, this isn't a case of her "warning" her, but discussing having an open relationship from the get-go.
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Apatheist Account2 3 months ago
These days the sensible approach is to meet people on the appropriate website, not meet someone vanilla and hope they're okay with your kink.
Gen X Feral 3 months ago
Or do this crapp behind your vanilla partners back. People who cheat should be lit on fire and pushed off a cliff.
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Bored Sailor 3 months ago
Serious question, how did they end up at the circuit party if not into that? I have no idea really what it is so could be different levels of it. Maybe a friend brought them with the intention of seeing it for themselves.
Marnie 3 months ago
It could have been any number of reasons. For all we know, maybe she suspected him of something, found out he was going to this (and she wasn't planning on it), found it where it was and she got in and found him in this scenario.
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Ace 3 months ago
I had to look it up, mostly seems to be a gay s*x party sort of thig, so yeah, I guess..
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Marnie 3 months ago
I'm an American and this is the first I've heard of a "circuit party".
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#5
My first born child’s Father cheated on me with my twin sister, while I was 8 months pregnant. He told me he “thought it was me”. Mind you, my twin sister was NOT 8 months pregnant like me so he knew
Lily bloom 3 months ago
It's ok though, she thought she was her twin sister too. /s
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#6
Stealing my clothes, and dressing up as me - wig and all.. and soliciting himself to transsexuals using MY name.. I had no idea. We were married for a decade. We’re no longer married.
Mel in Georgia 3 months ago
My friend got engaged to a great guy. As they were planning their wedding, he confessed he liked to dress up as a woman - would that be ok with her? It was not what she signed up for, so she ended the engagement. Glad he mentioned it before they got married, but that's the kind of thing to hash out way before engagement!
Vinnie 3 months ago
Plus it's not always a deal breaker. There are women who have no issue with that. Not many, but they are out there. I probably would have had fun with it, as long as I knew early on. And likely insisted he pay for me to get myself a tailored suit.
Load More Replies...Our feeling the need to wash our hands is a perfect example of how disgust ends up saving us. By doing this action, we clean the possible bacteria, avoiding infections, diseases, and everything similar, which helps keep us healthy and safe.
As we said before, anything can gross out a person, even something that doesn’t seem like a big deal to someone else. Other people are no exception – they can be a trigger just as much as anything else.
#7
When I went through his phone and found out he was flirting with my mom 😁(she entertained it and never told me )
#8
His room smelled really bad and he had holes in his walls his brother told me he was peeing in his walls because he was too lazy to walk to the bathroom😭😭
Bored Sailor 3 months ago
As a boy with two brothers and many boy friends growing up I do not know a single person who ever even thought about peeing in a wall.
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Spannidandoolar 3 months ago
This is disgusting but also the damage it would do and the cost to repair it makes it even worse!
#9
my ex cheated on me with his sister
In today’s article, we prepared plenty of examples of such happenings. From a dude flirting with his partner’s mom to another dude peeing in the holes in his place (yes, you read that right) – people can be gross in a variety of ways.
Some might dub all of these as the red flags or icks, which wouldn’t be so far from the truth. Not that long ago, we wrote about things that gave women icks from their boyfriends, and well, today’s piece can be an addition to that. Or that previous one to this one – it works both ways.
#10
(Mines a diff kind of gross) walked in on him using my razor to shave patches out of his hair bc he told me he had cancer for about 8 months & the chemo was making his hair fall out in chunks. He didn’t have cancer.
Vinnie 3 months ago
That's pretty deceitful. I hope no one has kids with him - I'd be worried about Munchausen-by-Proxy.
Plentyofoomph 3 months ago
Thats not Munchausen by proxy, it's just Munchausen
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He gave me a list of things to get him for Christmas and when I asked where my gifts were, he said he was Jehovah's Witness and he doesn’t celebrate Christmas so he didn’t buy me anything 🧍🏽♀️then he cheated on me…
SCP 4666 3 months ago
What does a Jehovas witness do when they die? Knock knock knocking on heavens door🎶
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LongFang 3 months ago
AND JWs can only sleep together when married... I have an over 50 single friend, we tease him lightly about it
mria alternativa 3 months ago
No, they aren't SUPPOSED to sleep together before marriage. They still do.
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Serena Myers 3 months ago (edited)
I can't recall the last time we had JW's annoying us. Too many folks (which word will offend BP censor bot the least) coloured? Muslim? Sikh? Russian? All of them, anyway, are neighbours, and JW's don't like coloureds because they are not white, and white is closer to "God" apparently, so we don't get mithered much these days, and we have lovely decent kind neighbours and nobody gives a f**k about colour or creed or race, so this cult can go off elsewhere.
Jay Scales 3 months ago
Absolute rubbish! I know 2 families of JWs who are black.
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#12
Asked for a divorce while I was in active labor in the hospital bed because I couldn’t find daycare for our other two young kids (he was home with them) he then threatened to drop my two young toddlers off at the hospital with me and leave (while I was birthing our third)
Nicole Weymann 3 months ago
With ones like this I'm always perplexed as to what kind and amount of qualities the partner in question had to offer before it all went downhill. How did this POS manage to convince her that he's the guy to (ideally) spend her life with, even get three children?
Tommy DePaul 2 months ago
So he was the perfect husband until the end of your third pregnancy? No? So why have 3 kids with this t*urd? Are you stupid or just a masochist?
Essentially, sometimes getting grossed out by a person you’re seeing can be a silver lining – this way, you dodge a bullet by seeing their worst side before committing to them more. Or, if you’re already committed, it may be time to break it off for your own well-being – as we discussed at the beginning – disgust’s function is to save us.
At the same time, disgust can also be detrimental for some folks when taken too far. For example, when a person feels grossed out by the things that are not dangerous to them, but are even beneficial. Like probiotic-rich fermented foods.
These can include food items and dishes like yogurt, kefir, kimchi, sauerkraut, pickles, and many others. They usually include live microorganisms that are good for gut health, immunity, and digestion.
#13
He slept with his MALE best friend after bashing gay people the whole time we were together 😭
GalPalAl 3 months ago
Those who protest the loudest are usually the ones who are guilty of said behavior
Jaya 3 months ago
Obviously what he did is not okay. But the real problem here is society, making him sooooo incredibly afraid that he felt like gaybashing was the only way he could keep himself safe. Most straight people have no idea how incredibly scary and unsafe it is to grow up gay in a homophobic world. Imagine if he grew up in a good place where he actually was allowed to be who he is, without fear, and could have just dated his male friend.
#14
Her dog peed in the house & she was using our dish scrub to clean it up… then proceeded to put it back in the sink to use. I couldn’t believe my eyes ..
#15
He was too lazy to throw away his daily contact lenses if he was already in bed, so he ATE them
Zig Zag Wanderer 3 months ago
Probably not toxic, because they're made to sit in your eyes. Gross though.
Yet, some folks tend to get grossed out by the fact that they have live microorganisms and cannot put any of it in their mouths. Or they might not be triggered by microorganisms, but be repulsed by the taste, which stops them from getting all the benefits.
So, disgust can be like a double-edged sword – it can save us from the bad, but also from the good things. Even when it comes to people, getting an ick from someone you’re seeing might be a good thing in one case, but in other cases, it might ruin a good relationship.
We’re leaving you to decide whether today’s list items are cases of disgust saving or hurting their receivers – make sure to express your opinion with upvotes and in the comments!
#16
He did a sniff test on his jeans, we’ve all been there running late and forgot to do laundry, BUT he gagged and still wore them 😭
Apatheist Account2 3 months ago
Do laundry (and any other chores) regularly - same day every week or whatever - then one doesn't have to think about it.
Lee Gilliland 3 months ago
He smelled his own clothes and gagged on the smell then put them on anyway.
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wore diapers to be able to sit and play the game longer
Earonn - 3 months ago
If doing any activity is more important than going for a p**s, the diaper isn't the issue, the a*******n is.
Celtic Pirate Queen 3 months ago
That's actually pretty common in High Stakes Poker games. Disgusting.
#18
I was SOBBING over something he did and he hugged me and i thought he was gonna comfort me but no he goes “yknow you crying really turns me on you should do it more often” THEN proceeded to try and DO IT WITH ME WHILE I WAS SOBBING
Gen X Feral 3 months ago
Oh I would have kicked him in the nuts so hard he'd be chasing them down the street. Rapey basturd
#19
Found a jar of nail clippings in his nightstand. He said he was going to gift them to his mom for Christmas because she “liked to play with them” 😩
LooseSeal's $10 Banana 3 months ago
A guy takes the time to give a thoughtful gift to his mom and he gets thrown away like old nail clippings.
#20
He told me he threw my mom’s expensive pots and pans out, we found them in a plastic tote in the back yard moldy with food, he just didn’t want to wash them.
Mel in Georgia 3 months ago
That's a crime! We still use my husband's grandmother's Revere Ware!
Shelley Dawson 3 months ago
One of the things I learned was to invest in good quality (expensive) stainless pots and pans. Never buy non-stick!.
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IYAAYAS64 3 months ago
My ex husband did this when I was in the hospital having an emergency c section. I honestly thought he was joking until I finally got home
Gen X Feral 3 months ago (edited)
Ex being the key word. I'm so sorry you accidentally procreated with a hairless baboon.
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My ex roomate reused the same travel size mouthwash everyday. Like swished and spit it back into the container DAILY. (Not a $ issue either)
#22
She had bed bugs, silver fish in her bed, I don’t mind a messy room but I was stepping in pizza sauce…
Sally Moen 3 months ago
Bed bugs make you itch, leave little brown dots on your bedsheets/pillow that is bl00d, whereas silverfish have a kind of bite that shocks you. It tingles in a bad way. I can't imagine sleeping with them
Spencer's slave no longer 3 months ago
Silverfish don't bite though, they can't pierce/penetrate human skin but they can cause allergies because they shed scales and droppings.
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The day of my dad’s death anni i found out he was cheating. Confronted him and he told me to go talk to my dad and cry about it 🤪 lol he’s in jail rn
Big Chungus 3 months ago
She found out her bf was cheating the day her dad died. Confronted the bf and he told her to go talk to her dad and cry about it.
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Not really gross but weird, I went to his apartment and there were framed pictures of Anne Frank on the walls in every room.
#25
I found a cup in the bathroom where he kept all the skin he peeled off from sunburns and scabs
#26
slept on the phone.. He starts pretending to sleep& then he growled and pretended he knew how to speak latin. he then told me the next day he was half demon&ive never laughed so hard in my entire life.
Fluffy Cat Sleeps 3 months ago
How old was this person because that sounds like a high school or middle school thing.
#27
Another one- he had scabies and didn’t get proper treatment and he described how he could see them crawling on his body and how he had to squish them
Sally Moen 3 months ago
HIGHLY infectious! In the hospital, a person admitted who is then found to also have scabies is isolated, their clothes discarded, they get a special shower/bed bath, and the nurses all get to wear one-time use scrubs to enter their hospital room. No visitors, no roommates, until it clears up
Spencer's slave no longer 3 months ago
They aren't visible to the naked eye being only 0•45mm ( 1/56th of an inch ) long and they burrow under the top layer of skin to lay eggs.
Maren Villadsen 3 months ago
You can't see scabies mite with the naket eye!!! They are microscopic. And they don't crawl on the body, they live under your skin. This one is bull s hit
Becky Samuel 3 months ago
Hmm. This doesn't sound right because scabies mites aren't visible to the naked eye. It's more likely to have been a psychological issue. Unfortunately this sort of belief is much harder to treat than any real skin condition because the sufferer will resist help.
GalPalAl 3 months ago
Like lice for the skin. Got them once from a person I dated who was not hygeinic.
Maren Villadsen 3 months ago
Hygein dosent matter with scrapies. You can't wash them of.it like saying only unhygeinic people get lice
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#28
p00ped in Walmart bags and threw in the woods behind my house?!? I HAD A WORKING BATHROOM
#29
Where do I start.. he had psoriasis which isn’t his fault, but he’d sit at the table and just pick at his scalp, letting the dead skin and scabs get all over himself and the table and wouldn’t wipe it up
Upstaged75 3 months ago
I had a college roommate like that. She constantly picked at her head and left flakes around our room. I vacuumed a LOT!
#30
The weirdest thing is too gross to discuss but he would go on and on about how his mom looked like Winona Ryder and in the same breath would say that she’s his biggest celebrity crush
Robert Beveridge 3 months ago
"The weirdest thing is too gross to discuss" we're all over here thinking dude is dropping acid and f*****g weasels and she probably means he's backwashing in the Mountain Dew or something.
#31
He bought me an engagement ring (never proposed) and then proposed to his next gf with the same ring. It didn’t fit her so she wore it on her pinky😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 dodged a BULLET.
Lily bloom 3 months ago
Guy repurposed a ring, you think he's got resizing money?
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#32
He would purposely catch spiders and release them in my car
Learner Panda 3 months ago
Funnily enough this would not bother me at all. My hubby is a different story. If there's one in the house, I'm the one who has to relocate it outside.
Mel in Georgia 3 months ago
Me too! But I'm not sure I'd love having a spider suddenly drop on my face if I was driving!
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That is so not funny - especially if you have a phobia! Huge red flag!!
Vinnie 3 months ago
I worked with someone who has arachnophobia. When another colleague wanted to give him a scare, I took the spider outside.
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#33
not gross but hella embarrassing, he rubs oil on himself to make it look like he was "working on his car" 😭
#34
My ex shared a loofah with his whole family
Becky Samuel 3 months ago
The Romans used a sponge on a stick to wipe their aśses. It was a communal sponge.
KatSaidWhat 3 months ago
Me as a kid not thinking that bathing in water my mother and sister had already used was gross. We were not that poor, the money was spent on vodka - adult me only realised this recently when looking at why I have no money at the end of the month.
#35
never cleaned. i walked into his bathroom at night once and felt crunching under my bare feet. turned the light on to see the entire bathroom floor covered in trash and ants. 🐜
HeavyMetalHeart 3 months ago
I never turn the light on when I get up to pee at night, it wakes me up too much.
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#36
Caught him cheating on Grindr and he said it was an invasion of privacy
Robert Beveridge 3 months ago
Well, there were definitely invasions involved, but I'm not sure privacy was one of them
#37
The father of my child would buy new sheets to put on top of the dirty ones instead of just washing the old ones
#38
Found a drawer full of ponytails. Like every haircut he’s ever had in a drawer.
Gerry Higgins 3 months ago
Or a serial killer who took pony tails from his victims as trophies.
Skogsrået 3 months ago
It could be but i remember reading somewhere that people used to keep hair of their loved ones and their own during the Victorian era.
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He is saving them up for when he goes bald - then he'll get them turned into a wig. When people question him whether he's wearing a toupee, he can say honestly that it's his own hair :)
PandaPadi 3 months ago
Not the weirdest one considering its his own hair. Growing up, my sibling and I would always grow long hair until the hips. When it came time to cutting, it was kind of a big thing for us and represented change and transformation, sometimes it can be emotionally charged because we wore long hair for so long. So as a souvenir, my mum would keep the ponytail. I did not do same when I became an adult because I figured out that there could be a better second life for my hair than in my drawer.
#39
he had a hidden photo album dedicated to iggy azalea. I’m talking about hundreds of different pictures of her.. if you know what kind..
#40
He was breathing funny one night and when I checked on him I realized for the first time his top teeth were dentures and were moving in and out of place, no judgment on the dentures but I never saw him clean them once
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Multa Nocte 3 months ago
So this will save me money on not having to eat dinner tonight because I am now sick to my stomach.
Ellinor she/they/elle 3 months ago
People, please talk about your kinks BEFORE entering a relationship !! Not that there is anything to be ashamed of (in most cases) but it's really something your parter SHOULD know !
Mel in Georgia 3 months ago
I'm sure all of us can be a little gross at times, especially in private, but I can't believe how un-self aware some of these people are!
KatSaidWhat 3 months ago
I'll be honest, I don't usually get very grossed out but I didn't make it through this entire article because it felt like self punishment.
Celtic Pirate Queen 3 months ago
While most of these are disturbing at the very least, kinks aside, many of these behaviors are actually mental health issues. The comment on Munchausen's was right on.
Multa Nocte 3 months ago
So this will save me money on not having to eat dinner tonight because I am now sick to my stomach.
Ellinor she/they/elle 3 months ago
People, please talk about your kinks BEFORE entering a relationship !! Not that there is anything to be ashamed of (in most cases) but it's really something your parter SHOULD know !
Mel in Georgia 3 months ago
I'm sure all of us can be a little gross at times, especially in private, but I can't believe how un-self aware some of these people are!
KatSaidWhat 3 months ago
I'll be honest, I don't usually get very grossed out but I didn't make it through this entire article because it felt like self punishment.
Celtic Pirate Queen 3 months ago
While most of these are disturbing at the very least, kinks aside, many of these behaviors are actually mental health issues. The comment on Munchausen's was right on.
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