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While different cultures celebrate the holidays in different ways, many have one thing in common. Presents! Covered in pretty paper, maybe even tied up with a bow or ribbon, it's usually not the surprise inside but the thought that matters. Yes, material possessions are nice but another person thinking of you and trying to make you smile? That's a whole lot better. To most.

Because some kids still haven't figured it out and all they care about is how expensive or how cool their gift is. Don't get me wrong, I understand that it's normal for children to occasionally feel like the world revolves around them but getting a new car and dreading it because of its color? That's just plain entitlement.

So, to remind you to remain humble and thankful, Bored Panda compiled a list of boys and girls who didn't.

#1

Does This Count? Stop Buying Consoles For Yourselves. My Kids Need Them For Xmas

Does This Count? Stop Buying Consoles For Yourselves. My Kids Need Them For Xmas

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Kanuli
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got the Accessory set for the gameboy color which I bought myself, for Christmas back then. And it was perfect...

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To learn more about this type of behavior, we contacted Talya Stone, media maven who now runs digital magazines Motherhood: The Real Deal and 40 Now What.

"Sadly, I believe that gratitude and humility don't come naturally to children these days because we worship at the altar of consumerism, and children in the western world are used to having pretty much everything they want, and a lot of the time it's on-demand," Stone told Bored Panda.

"Moreover, when parents want their children to enjoy the luxuries and perhaps every comfort and opportunity they didn't have as a child without any kind of struggle or wanting for anything in the mix, unfortunately, this can be a breeding ground for ingratitude and insolence. So yes, parents these days actually need to work even harder to instill gratitude and humility in their children simply because children in this modern world have it too good."

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    #2

    Just Get Them What They Ask For

    Just Get Them What They Ask For

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    C. Wade
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't overthink it, return them, get her a pair of bootleg cabled Apple earphones, the $1.50 kind. See how she likes them lol

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    #3

    Strangers Won't Give My Kid AirPods Or Money? Thanks For Ruining His Christmas

    Strangers Won't Give My Kid AirPods Or Money? Thanks For Ruining His Christmas

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    A B C
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh, Pandas, if y'all don't give me 20 bucks, you're selfish and ruin my Christmas! You don't know me, but that doesn't matter. Send money. /s 🤦‍♀️

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    #4

    Girl Asks For New 4k TV Because The One Her Parents Got Her Wasn't Good Enough

    Girl Asks For New 4k TV Because The One Her Parents Got Her Wasn't Good Enough

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    Philly Bob Squires
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd break her phone and laptop and tell her to buy her own s**t!

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    Stone touched upon something very important. Overindulgence. The consequences of spoiling your kids aren't pretty. Research shows that it leads to self-centeredness, greed, and unwillingness to be held accountable for actions, to name just a few of the unpleasant traits seen in children and adults who got too much, too often. And the fact that we are more affluent than previous generations has a lot to do with it!

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    "It's important for parents to teach [their kids] basic principles that can help to counteract the overindulgence as well as trying not to overindulge them in the first place," Stone highlighted.

    "Children these days are so used to getting what they want without having to work for it. So get them to do some chores and pull their weight around the house from an early age (not for money though!), teach them gratitude and how to say thank you, ensure they have boundaries for behavior and discipline when it's called for, teach them manners, educate them about those in the world who have less or nothing, and be sure that you raise them to understand the value of money."

    #5

    This

    This

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's the bet dad doesn't replace it, like ever.

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    #6

    Basically This Kid Asked If He Was An A-Hole For Breaking His Switch Because His Mom Wanted To Treat Herself; 20/10 That Kid's An A-Hole

    Basically This Kid Asked If He Was An A-Hole For Breaking His Switch Because His Mom Wanted To Treat Herself; 20/10 That Kid's An A-Hole

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    #7

    Seriously?

    Seriously?

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    Vorknkx
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh no, the poor kid won't be allowed onto the playground due to outdated hardware :D

    Id row
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reason #499 why I prefer cats to kids.

    Navindu Wijewardena
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me here reading this on my secondhand iPhone 6s

    Jjjane20
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me reading this on 4 or 5 years old definitely not IPhone with broken screen.

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    Mazer
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When your ego is permanently linked to material stuff

    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would tell them you'll get the even newer model! The 25!! When you grow up and buy it yourself!

    Lynn Morello
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh No, kid would be in a situation where he/she had NO Mobile Phone.

    im.bored.person
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    im 14 and i have an iPhone 6S. my parents offered to get me a new phone but i said no since it still works great.

    Vicky Zar
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, I get being disappointed but insulting your family because of it? Is that cool now?

    HorrorEyeArcade
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i did fine with a 6 for years. you can deal with an 11

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The word you were looking for was "thank you." I'm constantly amazed at the crap kids get away with now. If I talked like that to my parents I'd probably still be grounded 20 years later.

    Tobias the Tiger
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes I'm really shocked with the ways folks my age talk to adults (most notably parents and teachers). The way some people at my school talk back to teachers, and have even bragged about giving another teacher an outright mental breakdown are really horrible.

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    Arctic Fox Lover
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    K they're both literally the same phone

    Sofia Murat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of one child I know, only she actually gets everything she wants, but she isn't mean, I helped her with her homework, she got it all pretty quickly though.

    ViFi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    imagine having a phone! my mom didn't let me have one till age 16!!

    Josurf
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "...cause we are living in a material world....." 🎵🎶

    Terry Tobias
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm on a Samsung Galaxy S7 Edge right now that I bought from Ebay a few years ago. I like it and it works great. I won't upgrade until the OS is obsolete. I can't afford the S22 that's coming out or even one newer than mine. I'd like to have a new phone but it's not going to happen, so in the meantime I'm thankful for what I've got!

    Honey Slime
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guess it's time to call adoptive services.

    Hi, I'm Mars!
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And here I am with my 5 year old phone that needs replacing but it still works so....

    Miss Frankfurter
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gonna miss every single monthly new version until they can buy an iPhone themselves. In the meantime, tough it out😢

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    Psychotherapist Amy Morin said that while it's important to address a child's ungrateful behavior, parents also have to keep in mind that it's normal for the little ones to be a bit egocentric at times. However, over time, these moments should become less frequent, not more.

    Talya Stone also provided a few examples of how to achieve it:

    • Limit the number of presents they receive in the first instance;
    • Donate some presents to charity or disadvantaged children or better yet take them round to give food and drinks to the homeless;
    • Put some of their toys/gifts away then give it back to them so that they learn to appreciate them;
    • Educate them about saying please and thank you and why it's important to be grateful;
    • Instill a daily gratitude practice to help cultivate an attitude of gratitude;
    • Demand an appropriate level of respect in your family and ensure you are modeling this too;
    • Have them write thank you letters/make thank you videos for every present they receive.
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    Let's hope that next Christmas will be easier than this one!

    #8

    Oh My God, What A Spoiled Brat

    Oh My God, What A Spoiled Brat

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    R. U. Sirius
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This parent lack of knowing how messed up their kid is in terms of expectations/reality/gratitude/etc. is alarming af. And they think someone is just gonna hand them over a new/nearly newcar b/c of how messed up their kid expectations are? Smh... Why do people as dumb as this parent have kids... It should be a crime or something... :/

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    #9

    Bumblebee Didn’t Want To Be In Their Possession

    Bumblebee Didn’t Want To Be In Their Possession

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    #10

    Some Kids Are The Worst Kind Of Choosing Beggars

    Some Kids Are The Worst Kind Of Choosing Beggars

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    C. Wade
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll happily take them off your silly spoiled hands :)

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    #11

    Spoiled Brat Wrecks Car Because It Wasn’t The One He Wanted

    Spoiled Brat Wrecks Car Because It Wasn’t The One He Wanted

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    #12

    So I Just Let Malique Open Up One Christmas Gift An He Had The Audacity To Tell Me To Take These Back. Oh Okay I'll Take It All Back

    So I Just Let Malique Open Up One Christmas Gift An He Had The Audacity To Tell Me To Take These Back. Oh Okay I'll Take It All Back

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    #13

    Entitled Kid Jealous Of His Mom Getting A Car

    Entitled Kid Jealous Of His Mom Getting A Car

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    GenericPanda09
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah...... parents can do that when they work and earn the money...... tough life huh.

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    #14

    I Have No Words

    I Have No Words

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    BAN CAPITAL LETTERS
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that depends on her age... has the warranty on your daughter expired?

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    #15

    "My Son Must Have A £25k Car As A Present, It's An Emergency"

    "My Son Must Have A £25k Car As A Present, It's An Emergency"

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    #16

    Entitled Rich Kid Asks For Birthday Money

    Entitled Rich Kid Asks For Birthday Money

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    C. Wade
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a one way ticket to station You Ain't Getting Sh*t And I'm Never Talking To You Again. Please mind the gap.

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    #17

    Spoiled Nowadays Kids

    Spoiled Nowadays Kids

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    Allen Lavine
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a word out there it's called "no" use it

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    #18

    When You Want Only One Present In The World

    When You Want Only One Present In The World

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    Luther von Wolfen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My kid literally just wants their grandparents to use their correct pronouns. They didn't even make a list of stuff they wanted for Christmas.

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    #19

    Sorry Mom

    Sorry Mom

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    Philly Bob Squires
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go live in an orphanage... maybe you'll get some peanuts in your stocking...

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    #20

    That's That Christmas Spirit

    That's That Christmas Spirit

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    Jihana
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The term "Christmas haul" alone makes me angry...

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    #21

    He Only Got 6 Gifts

    He Only Got 6 Gifts

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    A B C
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I were involved, this entitled douche would get exactly five pieces of coal next year.

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    #22

    Entitled Girl Is Mad That Her Parents Are Taking Her To Disneyland Instead Of Taking Her To The Mall To Buy More X-Mas Presents

    Entitled Girl Is Mad That Her Parents Are Taking Her To Disneyland Instead Of Taking Her To The Mall To Buy More X-Mas Presents

    By the way,  she already bought some and is now demanding more, even though she’s getting a ton on the 25th too.

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    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even though i hate her attitude, i don't understand why a parent would force Disneyland to their child if they don't want to go

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    #23

    Everything Wrong With This Generation

    Everything Wrong With This Generation

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    #24

    No iPhone For You

    No iPhone For You

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    Philly Bob Squires
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You get Nokia brick... and you like... or else! LOL

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    #25

    It's So Difficult To Feel Christmas Spirit

    It's So Difficult To Feel Christmas Spirit

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    A B C
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because we all know Christmas is only about getting cars. THAT is the true Christmas spirit. /s

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    #26

    Better Gave Him An iPad

    Better Gave Him An iPad

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    Annie Bieber
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably the most grateful kid on here...and THAT ain't sayin much...

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    #27

    This 10-Year-Old's Christmas List

    This 10-Year-Old's Christmas List

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    #28

    The World Of Presents Can Be Very Unfair

    The World Of Presents Can Be Very Unfair

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    A B C
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh no, ONLY diamond earrings it is. F*cking hell.

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    #29

    This Girl I Used To Know From Middle School Hasn't Aged Well

    This Girl I Used To Know From Middle School Hasn't Aged Well

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    Mica Silvia
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no idea what this girl wants..What is/are "balancies" ?

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    #30

    Santa Needs Help

    Santa Needs Help

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    #31

    Arthur's Jumper Is Finished And He Hates It

    Arthur's Jumper Is Finished And He Hates It

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    Kirsten Kerkhof
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure I'd call him a brat. It's a pity about the hard work and the yarn that went into it, but he is not a Weasley. Kids don't have to love all the clothes that are put on them.

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    #32

    On USPS Adopt A Santa Letter. Because Clearly, This Child Wants A Tattoo Gift Certificate

    On USPS Adopt A Santa Letter. Because Clearly, This Child Wants A Tattoo Gift Certificate

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    snipergun
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do assume that parent wrote that part... Hampster cage... Yeah. Not sure who is really the one to blame here.

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    #33

    Casual Christmas Excuse

    Casual Christmas Excuse

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    #34

    Just Painted My 3 Year - Old Brothers Jeep Red Cause He Only Wants To Drive It If Its Red, Now He's Crying Cause He Wants It White Again

    Just Painted My 3 Year - Old Brothers Jeep Red Cause He Only Wants To Drive It If Its Red, Now He's Crying Cause He Wants It White Again

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    Shelli PL
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly not sure he’s a brat but rather a youngling that would cry because water is wet ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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    #35

    Worst Present Ever, Mama

    Worst Present Ever, Mama

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    Luther von Wolfen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think a 5yo is in the same category as a 20yo who didn't like the color of the car they got. The mom is right - meet 'em where they're at.

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