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Woman Demands Cousin Move Wedding Because It Matches Her Secret Date, He’s Baffled
Do you know what an open secret, or the secret of Polichinelle, is? In ancient French theater, there was a character called Polichinelle who would secretly tell the audience things they knew anyway. Since then, this expression has been used to describe someone’s secrets, supposedly forbidden to tell anyone, but they still become public knowledge.
Well, it’s entirely possible that the cousin of the user u/FaultOne2738, the narrator of our story today, also thought her idea to elope with her fiancé in Vegas at the end of February was an open secret among her relatives. However, it turned out that wasn’t the case—and now the entire family is divided into two warring camps. Here’s how it happened.
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The author of the post has a brother who recently announced his wedding in Vegas for February 28th, nearly causing a fit from their cousin
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The thing is that this lady planned to elope with her partner the same day in the same city, but they kept these plans a secret
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So now this cousin becomes incredibly dramatic, accusing the author’s brother and his fiancée of “stealing her day”
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The author tried to reason with her, but this only made matters worse as the avalanche of accusations covered her as well
So, the original poster (OP) says that, when a couple of days ago, her brother “Leo” and his fiancée “Sarah” announced they were planning a big wedding on February 28th in Vegas and had already booked the venue, everyone in the family, except one person, was thrilled and happy. That one person was the author’s cousin, “Monica.”
It turned out she and her boyfriend were also secretly planning an elopement in Vegas. And guess what date? That’s right, also February 28th. And now Monica is upset with Leo and Sarah for “stealing her day.” The fact that no one else knew about her plans and it was just a coincidence didn’t bother her at all.
Nor does Monica care that her wedding will be without guests, while Leo and Sarah have invited numerous relatives, and the newlyweds-to-be have already made a hefty deposit that can no longer be refunded. For some reason, clear only to herself, the woman decided that February 28th was hers alone and that everyone else should give in.
When the OP tried to reason with her, explaining that it would be easier to reschedule the elopement, she instantly became her personal enemy number one. Furthermore, Monica accused Leo and Sarah of somehow getting wind of her plans and deliberately choosing that day for their wedding to spite her. Now the entire family is deeply divided, and the author decided to vent online, seeking support.
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Yes, coinciding events, although quite rare, do occur in wedding planning practice, as experts note. After all, there are situations where a misunderstanding happens, and two couples choose the same day. But still, this is no reason to cause a major family scandal, as this post at Loverly says. “Just promise them that you’ll make it to their big day, even if you can’t make it to the smaller celebrations,” the source advises.
Statistics indicate that up to 30K couples across the USA may celebrate their weddings on specific, very popular dates. From this perspective, it’s quite strange, by the way, that the author’s cousin chose February 28th—after all, so-called “palindrome weddings” are usually very popular, and February 26, 2026, is precisely that, not February 28.
In any case, experts advise trying to find common ground between the two couples and, even if rescheduling one of the weddings isn’t possible (obviously, rescheduling the elopement is way easier), at least trying to stay on good terms. “A heart-to-heart chat gives you the chance to hear the other person out and clear up misunderstandings,” this article at Glam says wisely.
People in the comments also noted that the author’s cousin doesn’t actually own February 28th, and that since she planned an elopement with zero guests, nothing is actually stopping another couple from having a large family wedding. Coincidences happen, but one must be able to cope with unpleasant life situations, the responders are sure. So what do you, our dear readers, think about this story?
Most commenters claimed that the author’s cousin was just unreasonable and urged her and her brother to just not care about the scandal
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Kate Johnson 1 day ago
I would be super glad to be blocked by the drama queen, and feel no need for any further relationship with her. Mom can work it out, or not, with her toxic sister, but I'd tell bro to just blow them off entirely and have a great wedding.
Tabitha 1 day ago (edited)
If Monica has already paid deposits on travel and accommodations, then she plans to stay in Vegas for a while. Why not just chill at the hotel—-or go to Cousin’s wedding—-then “elope” on March 1st instead? Pretty sure any of the chapels in town have times available the rest of her time in Vegas. Hell, one of the chapels is DRIVE THRU, so you don’t really have to have an appointment with them anyway. I was never one of those little girls who drooled over Brides Magazine and had my wedding planned since I was 12. In fact, at around 12 I decided I liked the idea of eloping. As I got older, and discovered just how much drunk wedding guests like to harass newlyweds, I liked the idea even more. Granted, my husband and I didn’t elope when we got married, but we did keep things simple by going to the courthouse with a couple good friends as witnesses, then out to dinner afterward. Even though we had a date chosen, we could just as easily have changed it if it conflicted with anything else. In our eyes, it’s the MARRIAGE that’s important, not the wedding. Since Monica’s elopement isn’t the complicated and expensive undertaking that the Cousin’s wedding is going to be, PLUS she had wanted to keep the whole thing secret, then she’s opened herself up to being the one to adjust, since it’s easier for her. If you’re going to be that low-key, you imply that you’re also flexible. Hell, if both weddings are in the same town, she and her fiance can just sneak out and tie the knot too, and still keep the whole thing as their secret, since they’re already dressed up!
Kate Johnson 1 day ago
I would be super glad to be blocked by the drama queen, and feel no need for any further relationship with her. Mom can work it out, or not, with her toxic sister, but I'd tell bro to just blow them off entirely and have a great wedding.
Tabitha 1 day ago (edited)
If Monica has already paid deposits on travel and accommodations, then she plans to stay in Vegas for a while. Why not just chill at the hotel—-or go to Cousin’s wedding—-then “elope” on March 1st instead? Pretty sure any of the chapels in town have times available the rest of her time in Vegas. Hell, one of the chapels is DRIVE THRU, so you don’t really have to have an appointment with them anyway. I was never one of those little girls who drooled over Brides Magazine and had my wedding planned since I was 12. In fact, at around 12 I decided I liked the idea of eloping. As I got older, and discovered just how much drunk wedding guests like to harass newlyweds, I liked the idea even more. Granted, my husband and I didn’t elope when we got married, but we did keep things simple by going to the courthouse with a couple good friends as witnesses, then out to dinner afterward. Even though we had a date chosen, we could just as easily have changed it if it conflicted with anything else. In our eyes, it’s the MARRIAGE that’s important, not the wedding. Since Monica’s elopement isn’t the complicated and expensive undertaking that the Cousin’s wedding is going to be, PLUS she had wanted to keep the whole thing secret, then she’s opened herself up to being the one to adjust, since it’s easier for her. If you’re going to be that low-key, you imply that you’re also flexible. Hell, if both weddings are in the same town, she and her fiance can just sneak out and tie the knot too, and still keep the whole thing as their secret, since they’re already dressed up!
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