Guy Complains About GF Online, Comes Back 10 Years Later With An Unexpected Update
Time can really add perspective when it comes to your past relationship mistakes. In the moment, we often say or do the thing we believe is right. But when we look back ten years down the line, we realize we were the problem.
A guy has surprised people by popping up online a decade after complaining bitterly that his girlfriend dresses like a princess. At the time, the then 24-year-old spoke of how he’d asked his SO to tone down her over-the-top fashion choices, admitting that it made him “uncomfortable” when people stared. She later blind-sided him with an unexpected break-up. Fast forward to today, and the now-married man has had a change of heart.
She loved dressing like a princess but it left her boyfriend feeling “uncomfortable”
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He reached out to strangers for advice, but little did he know she was already plotting her royal exit
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The guy gave more info when people pointed out that the problem may lie with him and not his GF
“Take it or leave it”: many advised the boyfriend to accept the woman for who she is
In an unexpected turn of events, he revealed his girlfriend had broken up with him
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Suddenly, the princess syndrome concerns took a backseat as he tried to mend his broken heart
The guy surprised many people by appearing with an update 10 years later
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People praised him for his personal growth
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"She said something about me being controlling too, but I don't think that's the case at all".....says the controlling guy who declares that he loves her the way she is but wants her to change how she dresses for him....yeah this boy isn't right in the head. Glad she dumped him.
"I have told her several times that I lover her just the way she is" and gave her a list of things she should change about herself to suit me.
I think the issue may have been "She is married to another woman now". If that's not a typo, then how she dressed wasn't really the problem.
He loves her just the way she is, if she could stop being the way she is.
"I love you, but..." *Any* sentence that starts out like that? It's not going to go well + you might as well break up + get it over with. OP *saw* how GF dressed when he met her + he was ok with it + then he wasn't. Sounds like a "him" problem. Karma's gonna get him now that he has a daughter! Esp. if she's into the Disney princesses.
I have disagree with you here. Everyone says or does something stupid or unkind at some point. My wife and I try to help each other understand when this happens, so we sometimes start a conversation with "I love you, but". If it is coming from a place of love and in the best interest of the person listening, then "I love you, but" can be really useful to help people understand their mistakes and grow. It should always be because you want to change you, never because I want to change you. I hope that difference makes sense.
Load More Replies...Seems she was intelligent enough to ditch someone who was trying to change and control her. Good for her.
I have no personal experience to relate since I don't date, but I did write about a character whose girlfriend asks him what does he think of her outfit. He tells her it's very nice but she will always look beautiful to him no matter what and he cares more about her, the person, than what she's wearing. This was one of the ways I showed that he is a good boyfriend.
That made me laugh. Telling a woman that what she's wearing is very nice but she's beautiful in anything really says you don't like what she's wearing.
Load More Replies..."She said something about me being controlling too, but I don't think that's the case at all".....says the controlling guy who declares that he loves her the way she is but wants her to change how she dresses for him....yeah this boy isn't right in the head. Glad she dumped him.
"I have told her several times that I lover her just the way she is" and gave her a list of things she should change about herself to suit me.
I think the issue may have been "She is married to another woman now". If that's not a typo, then how she dressed wasn't really the problem.
He loves her just the way she is, if she could stop being the way she is.
"I love you, but..." *Any* sentence that starts out like that? It's not going to go well + you might as well break up + get it over with. OP *saw* how GF dressed when he met her + he was ok with it + then he wasn't. Sounds like a "him" problem. Karma's gonna get him now that he has a daughter! Esp. if she's into the Disney princesses.
I have disagree with you here. Everyone says or does something stupid or unkind at some point. My wife and I try to help each other understand when this happens, so we sometimes start a conversation with "I love you, but". If it is coming from a place of love and in the best interest of the person listening, then "I love you, but" can be really useful to help people understand their mistakes and grow. It should always be because you want to change you, never because I want to change you. I hope that difference makes sense.
Load More Replies...Seems she was intelligent enough to ditch someone who was trying to change and control her. Good for her.
I have no personal experience to relate since I don't date, but I did write about a character whose girlfriend asks him what does he think of her outfit. He tells her it's very nice but she will always look beautiful to him no matter what and he cares more about her, the person, than what she's wearing. This was one of the ways I showed that he is a good boyfriend.
That made me laugh. Telling a woman that what she's wearing is very nice but she's beautiful in anything really says you don't like what she's wearing.
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