“Makes Me Physically Cringe”: 30 People List Beauty Standards That Need To Retire
Interview With ExpertIf an alien from another planet took a scroll through Instagram, they might assume that nearly all humans have the same facial features and body type. Tiny noses, slim waists, large lips and hollow cheeks seem to be on trend at the moment. But we all know that there are billions of us on this planet, representing billions of different ways to be beautiful.
Reddit users have recently been calling out current beauty standards that they can’t seem to wrap their minds around, so we’ve gathered some of their thoughts below. Enjoy scrolling through this list that will remind you just how arbitrary these standards are, and keep reading to find an interview with Valerie Monroe of How Not to F*ck Up Your Face!
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Those long fake nails.
I dont know a single dude that thinks its attractive.
I understand painting your nails, or leaving them to be a little longer, but those talons that people walk around with just make me feel yucky.
Spoiler alert: not everything women do is to attract "a single dude."
I was going to say...who cares if men find it attractive? If I like it I can do it.
Load More Replies...I take one look at talons like these and my mind drifts towards toilet-related challenges
Giant eyelashes that will make you take flight if you flutter them fast enough.
Striving_Hermit:
My husband hates the long fake eyelash look, and he asked me why women wear them when men don't particularly like them.
I thought it would be funny, so I told him it's not about impressing men but about asserting one's dominance on another woman.
He believed me and now tells all his friends that it's an 'alpha-female' thing, hahaha.
ANY fake eyelashes! I do not like them at all! Gives me a sort of "plastic doll" vibe...
That 'why women wear it when men don't like it" logic is rather annoying.
TBH, I might be reading into this, but if a grown man genuinely believed women do things for men, id leave him.
oh no! i am old and i JUST started getting in to having these professionally applied and i LOVE it! i save time every day on my makeup and it lasts 4-6 weeks!!!
I don't feel dominance when l meet one of those fan like lashes owner. If anything, a soft breeze.
I noticed when I retired as a stripper in 2015 all our make up became ‘everyday wear’ for everyone, it was so weird, I’m kinda used to it now, but it was like wtf for a few years, and even still when I see a 14-16 yr old in the drive through with talons and fillers and the lashes, I feel bad they have such full on beauty standard for everyday living, this used to be a look we wore from 6pm and took off at 5am. Now you see it all times everywhere
When these young girls hit their 20s and there skin looks 40, there will be tears and regrets. I want to tell them ho easy on the makeup and get a good care routine.
Load More Replies...An alpha female thing! While funny, it is silly and wasteful of both resources and women's money. Anyone notice the correlation of the rise of ridiculous beauty standards with the erosion of women's rights? Keeps y'all very busy so you won't notice when have fewer rights.
What people do to their lips is wild to me.
Εspecially because it's not customized and everyone looks exactly the same as the next person
This is FACTS. I mean, if it really makes you feel better about being you, then great! But where does it stop? Will you just continue to get infections forever?
Load More Replies...Natural lips always >>>>>>>> injected lips. I'll take normal, thin, barely there lips over duck lips and obviously fake plumped lips. It's always noticeable and always looks worse than natural.
I look like that when my allergies are bugging and I get hives. Why anyone would want to look like that on purpose I can't understand. Guess I should take an Instagram photo when my lips swell up? Lol
Load More Replies...Women are way too hard on themselves, for I know from experience. Be grateful for who you are, accept who you are, and that is including the way you look. If we all looked the same this world would be absolutely boring! Going and getting cosmetic surgery doesn’t fix anything, at times it may make things worse. So, instead of wasting your money on that, take that money and go on a nice vacation ☺️!
Some of them go really overboard and they look like someone smacked them in the mouth with a baseball bat. It's really quite ugly to look at, those swollen lips.
SAVE YOUR MONEY. Just shove your lips into the Hoover Vacuum Cleaner. Repeat daily
Always makes me think of Men in Black. It makes you appear alien/inhuman. Like yay, I've always fantasized about ET or the ninja turtles...
I take mine off when I get home and put them in small bowl of lotions and essential oils. I then am able to use the power wash nozzle I use on the deck furniture and really clean out the gunk in my back teeth.
This is the WORST!!! I have seen way too many beautiful women absolutely wreck their looks doing this
To gain more insight on this topic, we reached out to Valerie Monroe. Valerie was formerly a beauty director at O, The Oprah Magazine, for nearly 16 years, and has since created the newsletter How Not to F*ck Up Your Face, which provides "philosophical and practical advice for anyone who’s ever looked into a mirror." She was also kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda about beauty standards and where they came from in the first place.
"Actually, there are lots of kinds of beauty standards, which vary depending on the culture that produced them," Valerie noted. "What we see in the West is mostly a Eurocentric beauty standard, which, for women prizes light, clear skin, long hair, light, wide-set eyes, a small nose and chin and a small, full mouth. It's biased against variations of that standard and presents an impossible ideal for most women. Interestingly, it also mimics the features of a baby."
Butt implants. Just looks nasty as hell.
Can't figure why women want a bigger butt, why men would like them and trying to imagine what they will look like in 30 years
There are a couple wearers at the pool l go to. And apparently they chose the biggest size. They're hypnotic but not in a good way.
I thought it was weirdly shaped boobs at first???
Load More Replies...Butt implants help short women. They can finally see over the dashboard when driving.
The doctors on botched won't do them and try like crazy to talk people out of them. And have removed many
Excessive makeup. When people put so much c**p on they look like they are wearing a mask, not a face.
My wife always said the best makeup job is one where men cannot tell you have on any makeup.
We're allowed to not wear makeup. Maybe I think some of these fads are silly but we can do what we want.
Load More Replies...The photo above is filtered. So many women use heavy filters in their photos for whatever reason, they don't even look like themselves. I watched a comedian once say that you women need to use a natural photo once in a while, cuz you ever go missing, no one could find you cuz they wouldn't recognize you.
That is for illustration only to accompany the statement.
Load More Replies...More like what men say they like in women and then go back on 😭
Load More Replies...Hey bored panda, I hate these excessively judgy threads. She's wearing make up for a photoshoot.
I've had co-workers who wear more makeup than this...no photoshoot involved..
Load More Replies...Just squeeze the left earlobe and the whole face pops out on hinges
Stupid eyebrows that look like perfectly angled stencils is a shade way too dark for their complexion. Like blond girls with 2 black geometric boomerangs on her forehead.
RelevantLie-2297:
Thick eyebrows, like caterpillars crawling across your forehead.
I like my thick brows. I have naturally thick ones and I have always been insecure of them but I like the thick brown trend.
I love mine too (heavy east euro romani genes) but I also used to photoshop my brows to be thin like my friends when we went clubbing 😆 it’s so stupid I did that, but it was the times and I didn’t want to ruin my brows even for fashion but I wanted to blend in more with my blonde friends 😂
Load More Replies...The tattooed ones!! I try not to stare. I still see your old eyebrows ma'am, and I can tell you have face tattoos of eyebrows. Just....wow.
Well don't be too judgey, they may be a cancer survivor
Load More Replies...Mihe are naturally thick and I love them. They fit my face perfectly.
here I was, thinking I'd manage to escape this sort of post because I don't use makeup... only to have my eyebrows called caterpillars
Natural eyebrows are nice, thick, thin or otherwise 😌
Load More Replies...For years I plucked and trimmed my eyebrows to avoid the whole caterpillars crawling across your forehead thing. Now my fuzzy brows are 'in'. Why do women think they should all look alike?
Send me all don't remember what it looked like when people pluck their eyebrows to all f****** hell... Having meat organized eyebrows are not a bad thing and again it's not your body
We were also curious about how beauty standards change over time. "There are variations in the Eurocentric beauty standards mentioned above, but they're minor," Valerie noted. "For example, Coco Chanel introduced the acceptability of tanning the skin, as opposed to maintaining a pale complexion, which had been a sign of wealth and privilege."
"After she accidentally became tanned on the Riviera, tanning became a sign of wealth and privilege," she went on to explain. "Around the same time, women began cutting off their long hair into boyish bobs, which became standard for a certain class. But I believe the impossible Eurocentric ideal has persisted in spite of recent efforts to include more cultural variation."
The fact that a huge portion of the world's population has successfully brainwashed itself into thinking that the Kardashians/Jenners are the epitome of beauty to the point that many are willing to imitate whatever moronic thing they do to their bodies is just wild to me.
InsomniacYogi:
It’s called the 'Instagram face' and it’s a legit phenomenon that is being studied by psychologists. It’s doing so much harm to people’s self-esteem and self-concept. We aren’t all supposed to look the same.
I saw a YouTube vid by a plastic surgeon who showed examples of what happens to young girls getting fillers. (AT SIXTEEN?! WTF FOR?!) I was shocked to see how OLD every single one of ‘em looks! There was a point when Kylie Jenner was traffic-stoppingly beautiful (albeit waaay old), but she’s apparently zoomed past that and straight into “desperate divorce trying to look young.” And she’s just 26! She looked 46 in the photos. I wish these poor things could get a grip. 😞
This is probably a stupid question.. but do you mean she looked older after the fillers?
Load More Replies...100% agree. Duck lips or sticking out your tongue is such attention seeking behavior.
Load More Replies...Aren't their "15 minutes" over yet??? sorry. I'm not a hater, I just am over it.
I thought the same thing about people wearing their pants below their buttons but here we are 20 some odd year later and they are now down around their knees
Load More Replies...I bet psychologists are interested in why average women are driven to look like prostitutes in Holland.
I can't stand them...I wish mass media would stop making stupid and trashy people famous.
Any plastic surgery that makes random women look like they're all related. At one point we'll all start to think thin lips and big noses are hot solely because they'll stand out in a sea of copy/paste people.
I think this is why I have trouble identifying current female actors/celebrities. Too many look so similar.
Probably often done by the same surgeons aswell ;D
Load More Replies...I don't like those noses all female celebs seem to have with the pointed tip and small, slanted nostrils. You probably can't get much air breathing thru the nose.
Lmao i have a tiny nose by nature 😂 my glasses always just slide off!! But it doesn't look fake at least
Load More Replies...Lol, then they have a child and nobody knows who it looks like because everyone has had so much work done.
Reminds me of the book series Uglies. Everyone has to get plastic surgery at 16 or else they'll be shunned by society.
Even though I did go blonde; I call og's post the cookie cutter blonde
Men that have soo much muscle. Obviously it’s very attractive to be in shape but I’m just not attracted to men that have arms the size of two watermelons with the fattest veins ever popping out of their arm. And I also feel like men with a lot of muscle tend to look shorter.
I think men that still have like some abs and some muscle but aren’t looking like the Incredible Hulk are the most attractive.
My partner can get that big without them, but he’s rocking a dad bod at the moment, which I like better weirdly 😆 but when he works out, he can get one bicep wider than a watermelon, just with good food etc, it’s kinda how we met, I bet this random guy he could pick me up with one hand (I’m 4foot 10 and 40kgs) and he did and yeah 😂
Load More Replies...The veins don't pop like that without the body buildr first severely dehydrating themselves. On a regular day the veins won't be out like that, but on a modeling or body-building day it's been long expected these people won't drink a single thing until after. Arnold Schwarzenegger spent a great deal of his working days as an actor and body builder SEVERELY dehydrated to maintain that vein-popping look. It's unattractive because they're actively endangering their lives and longterm health for an outrageous industry standard.
They spend a loooong time staring at their reflection at the gym. Only that makes them instantly unattractive to me, let alone the croissant shape.
Any one whose muscles stay pumped up hours after their workout probably have high blood pressure and need to do some stretches or Yoga.
I once heard "If he's got abs, he's got no time for you." It'd be funny as hell if those gym bros didn't have an honest to God body dismorphia issue.
As far as the best way to fight these arbitrary beauty standards, Valerie says "not complying with or falling for the beauty marketing that preys on our yearning and our desire to compete for an ideal that's unattainable for most of us anyway—in other words, ignoring the constant messaging we get that we're not pretty enough, thin enough, young enough, etc." can help. "The best way to combat limiting beauty standards is to ignore them," she added.
My wife works at a tanning salon. She has a few customers that literally get a tan every day. One of them has already gone through cancer treatment, that didn't stop her from continuing. I'm convinced a few of them are dealing with mental health issues.
Their skin looks like old leather. "That's what Botox is for" oh hon Botox ain't gonna fix that, also skin cancer, ffs.
My grandad spent nearly everyday working outdoors or in the garden and is the only lucky sod I've ever met to get benign tumours (a concern but not deadly if treated swiftly) in the places that meant he got a face-lift on the NHS. He then drilled the importance of sunscreen into the rest of the family. Unfortunately, cancer still got him but he made darn well sure that it wasn't skin cancer
Load More Replies...If you really want to look like a 70 year old retiree who spends a lot of time frying on a Florida beach, I suppose tanning machines are a cheaper option
Take it from the pastiest pale face south of the Mason-Dixon Line - melanoma isn't always caused by sun damage, but it increases your risk by a LOT when you do the UV thing (even for your fingernails, it increases your risk). Also, from experience, melanoma is f*****g scary and if not caught early enough, it can be the hardest battle of your literal life.
My sister would tan at a salon constantly. She was also a very heavy smoker and drinker. She had an aneurysm 3 years ago with 6 brain bleeds that triggered paranoid schizophrenia. It wouldn’t surprise me to find that she ends up with skin cancer as well later.
There was a woman that worked at the PO in San Diego. She was basically the color of mahogany and looked like she was 60 y/o. She was 35.
The older women you see in public in places like LA Jolla or Palm Springs.
Load More Replies...It does actually help with seasonal depression, but like everything; moderation is the key
I went to a tanning booth 2 times.. no change in color. I realized that God wanted me to stay the color I came into this world with... I just like standing next to people who are whiter than me so I can feel like I have a tan!!!!!
I’m from Stockholm. A lot of girls, particularly from rich areas, like to use so much fake tan that they are orange, and bleach their hair from what was usually dark blonde to platinum blonde. Then they style it to make it voluminous (which is easy to do because their hair is dead from all the dyeing) and apply lots of make-up, which typically includes black mascara or fake lashes. So, a lot of girls here bear a striking resemblance to Miss Piggy. There’s nothing wrong with looking like this, I just don’t understand it.
This sounds like a former president of a country somewhere in the world.
From America. We had a president that does this, and yes, its *that guy*
Overlined lips. Stop. We can see where you're lip really is. It just looks really unfortunate.
Omg it looks so bad. Like a little kid putting on lipstick all over their face.
My lip color goes beyond what looks like the edge of my bottom lip, so I guess I'm just screwed.
Load More Replies...uh oh. i must be in trouble cuz i thought her lips looked pretty. UGH! I AM THE ONE!
Nope. they are overdrawn, but the lipstick is understated and the shape of her mouth is good. This example actually looks pretty decent, they could have picked worse ones. TBH, I rather see this than filled lips.
Load More Replies...especially when it obliterates the Cupid's bow it looks absolutely ridiculous.
When girls really exaggerate their lip line, it looks super silly. They overline the top part of their lip, then then shorten the length of the lip line, it looks so silly and obvious.
My uncle always says it looks like the person was suckin a dirty ... eggplant
There's Ling to emphasize shape and color, and there's lining to make a brand new lip. The former is okay, the latter is ridiculous.
Well, some of us are not so fortunate to have lushy lips. In fact, some of us have soo thin lips that it looks like they are always angry/aggressive or very strict schoolteachers, or granny lips. Not the most inviting face. So yeah, lipliner makes the face look a bit more approachable/softer, instead of that harsh appearance.
Valerie also urges readers to resist becoming consumed with trying to meet these unattainable standards. "Beauty standards are especially pernicious because they're inextricably tied to the images we see on social media, WHICH AREN'T REAL," she told Bored Panda.
"That means that meeting today's standards of beauty is impossible. It's much more productive and healthier to learn how to see yourself without objectification, which will allow you to see yourself the way you see other people, without constantly scanning your face for flaws," Valerie says. "Then beauty standards will lose their meaning for you... And life will take on more."
If you'd like to hear more wise words from Valerie on this topic, as well as many others, be sure to check out her newsletter How Not to F*ck Up Your Face!
Dentist: So what shade of veneer would you like?
Veneer patient: I'd like refrigerator white please.
As a girl thatvhas had some serious teeth problems after an accident when I was a kid, I'll tell you that a touch of yellow will make you look way better that blinding white. It's like bright white versus warm white light bulbs.
I had chipped and stained front teeth (all 6), had a composite restoration on them. They look so natural, you couldn't tell they're not real teeth. The dentist matched the shape and color perfectly, half a year and they're still the same color and didn't chip even a bit. Besides looking good and natural, it's also healthier for the teeth. It was pricey af though.
Oh, God...don't get me started on the "Turkey teeth" so inexplicably popular in Britain. Why anyone would go abroad to get cheap, unrealistic veneers at the risk of destroying their own teeth is a mystery to me.
Oh this is my favorite. Your teeth aren't supposed to be perfectly white. They should be an off-white, like eggshell with the slightest yellow tinge, to match the rest of your skeleton. Bones aren't white!
The tissue test! It's on a commercial. Like something's wrong if your teeth aren't that white. 🤪
Yeah, the "I thought my teeth were white until I decided to shame myself by comparing human teeth to the results of induatrial processing" commercial.
Load More Replies...In case people dont know, teeth are naturally a little yellow. Toothpaste has peroxides that whiten and blue dyes to basically collor correct the yellow to white, same reason bleach at a salon is blue tinted
Those grossly buff guys on all dating shows. They all look like Gaston from beauty and the beast and I hate it so much I don’t even watch those shows but the lack of variety is appalling.
I like my guys squishier, for cuddles! Like it is good to take of your body, but there's a balance.
Hmm so that's why my wife prefers my dad bod over the bod I had when we were dating. It's my slight beer gut isn't it!?
Load More Replies...the glare on that stock picture makes it look like the guy is lifting with no pants on and his crotch is blurred out.
There does seem to be a double standard. To believe this post women do all sorts of things for themselves and men do all sorts of things for women. So how are women so powerless when the whole world is literally working to impress them? See how stupid it sounds?
Load More Replies...How long are we going to keen paying those Jersey Shore idiots? None have grown up one ounce in the last 20 years.
Fake breasts. Especially the super large ones.
I do have fake breasts. They look and feel fake. But they are a reconstruction after losing mine to cancer. Please use care and consideration before placing judgement on human beings you do not know.
This whole thing is on beauty trends, not replacing lost body parts.
Load More Replies...Maybe this has been heard before, I still think it brave and funny though. My friend had a double mastectomy and wore a t shirt that said “sure they are fake, the real ones tried to kill me”.
I don't even have big boobs, but I hate them. like bro, they get in the way, and it hurts when someone accidentally punches you in the boobs
I have large breasts and a small everything else , and do not understand why people would purposely do this to themselves. Clothes don't fit, everything needs to be tailored, and you cannot find a fitting bra (or for that matter a bra that looks nice) for love or money. Things have gotten better thanks to Amazon, is all I can say- before, I would go to 5 stores and come home with nothing that would work.
If I could take mine off and give them to someone else, I would. I wouldn't say they're "super large" but I definitely can't go without a bra without it looking completely noticeable. When someone explained a "bralette" to me, I laughed. No, honey, no, I need industrial strength.
Saaaaaame. A bralette is nothing but an escape room for my boobs, because sooner or later they are coming right out of those half cups 😂
Load More Replies...so I have these massive honkers right, all natural, literally an I cup like the word "eye" and I was out there, looking for some discount bras in my size only to find a review written by someone that augmented to the same size I wear saying "anime boobs achieved" LIKE SWEETHEART WE'RE REAL PLEASE DON'T CALL US THAT
They make me recoil while brazing my small natural breasts because the idea of going under surgery there is too painful for me.
Don’t do it. Nothing like buying a XL to fit your chest and then the sleeves reaching your finger tips. Women’s tops tend to be too small in the chest for those over size C.
Load More Replies...I wonder sometimes if a lot of women who get quite large implants end up regretting it. Except they would probably not want to admit it. But I am close enough to several women who have naturally large breasts and at one point or another all of them have complained about back aches and creeps hitting on them over their figure. And for most, issues with trying to find good bras that fit well and do the job. Unless your "thing" is wanting strangers to objectify you I just don't see the point in having large ones "installed"
Contouring noses until they look like a line and a dot. Will never make sense to me.
The exclamation point nose!! I'll never get it. I can see that thick a*s contour around your nose and it looks bad, sorry.
Anything that is temporary like make up is not a big deal. The body altering stuff is unhealthy.
Contouring is great for controlled conditions: photo shoots, stage makeup etc. In real life it just looks like your face is dirty. Highlighting can be successfully used in moderation for day wear. Darker skins can pull off contouring. As long as it's done tastefully, I don't see a problem. It can add dimension to your face, like creating artwork.
It is 100% definitely that RIDICULOUS looking highlight at the tip of the nose!!! Every time I see it I think they look like Rudolph! I don't understand how they look at themselves and think "yes, this is the look I am going for". ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I mean, you guys don't want us to surgically manipulate it but now you don't want us to use makeup either...pick one or keep your nose in your own business (pun intended).
When women here were criticising male body builders, that was ok, but gods forbid men chime in on fads that women get into. The hypocrisy.
Load More Replies...i honestly hate and i still dont know how to contour lol, looks like I chocolate on my face!!
That's just extreme contour, I like it but it's not exactly attractive
The overly sculpted beard trend. You known when the beard is trimmed and looks like it was outlined in concealer? Neatening up is nice but a sudden pale line as a border around your stubble... looks like it was airbrushed on and not touched up.
And the hair on their head is done the same way, so they end up looking like a Ken doll...
Personally I prefer a well trimmed beard over a "mountain man" beard. Though I do not want either on my face. I saw a mountain man beard Saturday coming out of Costco. it was so big at first glance I wasn't sure if it was left over halloween costume or something. It actually looked sort of cool in its way but not my thing. Think Hagrid in Harry Potter and you are on the right track.
So my husband went for the untrimmed natural look for a bit, until he noticed that people at the store were giving him wide berth. 🤣 That's when he started grooming it and eventually got rid of it - which was a good thing. Give me any "I took care of this facial hair" look please..
I used to meet a man whose beard was so sculpted, it looked like it was drawn by a Sharpie.
I may be alone, but I see this as "I can appreciate how much time women are expected to take on their daily appearance." I do not understand why he wpuld choose to spend his time this way, but it is his time.
There are men that ise make up every day to make their beard look better. Their own hair is thin and use make up to make it look really thick and than go overboard. Hersh lines and way to dark an thick.
Ski slope/button nose. they are cute but not everyone’s face is meant to have that type of nose and it doesn’t look good on everyone and it sucks seeing so many young girls on tiktok get nose jobs and all have the exact same nose.
Here’s another one. I had the tip of my nose modified when I was 29, and I dearly wish the surgeon had warned me that as my nose continues to grow, it’ll not look good at some point. Nowadays, when you look straight at me, you can see up my nostrils. Argh. I hate it. 😰 I’m gonna leave it, though, as I don’t wanna be one of those having multiple surgeries trying to fix the horror created by the previous surgery. Anyway, back to the topic: they’re gonna regret their nose work at some point.
fwiw from some random dude on the internet, (if thats you in the picture) you look just fine. and not in a "thank dog you're not hideous" way but in a "you are very pretty and pleasant to look at" way.
Load More Replies...For a long time, I hated my nose so much. But then as I got older, I realized it's my dad's nose and one day, I'm going to be thankful to see it when I can no longer see him (Hopefully not for a LONG time!). I do sometimes use contouring to try to "slim" it, but I'm happy to keep it.
Oh, same, my nose was the main thing people made fun of me over in middle and high school, but a) I grew into it and b) it is my dad's and he's gone so it's a gift. Plus, if someone wants to hate on me for the way my nose looks, that's on then and not my problem at all. Enjoy your time with your Dad, I miss mine all the time, lost him in 2016. Cheers to our noses!
Load More Replies...I actually agree with this one. Beauty standards for things that are genetic give me the heebie geeugenics
I have a ski slope nose naturally but I hate it. I used to want it done to get rid of it years ago. Now I have a deviated septum and I can get it done, but I have had so many surgeries for medical issues that I’m not in the mood for another one so I don’t care about my nose anymore.
THANK YOU when i was younger I was extremely ashamed of my nose. extremly. I was judgy of everything that wasn't a button nose, including myself. I learned that this is my body this is my face and that bump is beautiful yk?
If I could afford it, I'd have a nose job done in a nansecond. People who can afford plastic surgery don't know how lucky they are.
Until you get older and the tissue starts twisting out of shape or collapses altogether, leaving you unable to breathe. One cut can lead to more down the road.
Load More Replies...Your nose and ears continuously grow throughout life. Good luck with the look after 40!
Jennifer Grey {Dirty Dancing} had her nose fixed, and I think it affected her career. It made a huge difference in her looks, making her face less interesting.
Yeah it completely changed after that. I remember when I saw her in one episode of Friends and I honestly didn't recognize her.
Load More Replies...My girlfriend has this type of nose naturally. It's cute, but she would look fine with a big nose like mine.
I naturally have this type of nose too and my boyfriend loves pinching it between his fingers and wiggling it (his nose doesn't stick out as far so he's very entertained by it)
Load More Replies...Well, I used to have a very large, crooked nose, kind of like a Barbra Streisand nose. And I just HATED it! So much so, that at age 36, I took the plunge and got. a rhinoplasty. My nose is now straight and angled like, yes, a ski slope! But I love it and have never regretted having that surgery.
Super skinny My favourite part of my wife, (besides the obvious) is the small push out of baby fat on her waistline just under her belly button. She’s had two kids and that little piece there to me is absolutely dynamite.
I’ve always had one. Bigger after I had my son 19 yrs ago. I always think about pulp fiction, when woman says, “I wish I had a pot.” Talking about her belly. “If I had a pot, I’d wear shirts two sizes too small to accentuate it.”
I have super skinny friends, and super curvy friends so I don’t particularly think this fits here in this day and age for fashion trends, some people can’t help being super skinny and shouldn’t be shamed for it. Not everyone starves themselves, I was the ‘fat friend’ growing up and my bff was and is still 90s model thin, the horrid comments she used to get when we were kids were worse than my fat insults
Thank you! I got called so many nasty things when I was super skinny. I’m still slim but I grew some very mild curves and suddenly the disgusting comments stopped.
Load More Replies...Why tf did you get downvoted?! Here's one from me, my husband too😊
Load More Replies...I'm pretty underweight and even I have a little bit of chubbiness below my bellybutton. I'll just say it drives me (bi) absolutely wild when I see women in form fitting dresses that show off that little bit of chubbiness because 🥵🥵🥵 like girl, please don't hide it away with shapewear, it's super attractive
Newsflash! That bit of fat is there FOR A REASON. It's a protective layer for a women's abdomen and any child she may carry. To get rid of it can be dangerous for pregnancies.
Having some meat that is toned on a woman's midriff is very sexy. Anorexia is not.
This really freaks me out. I’ve been trying to hide that little bump for years and twice in a week I’ve heard guys say it’s hot. I thought it was something gross and shameful. I’m still struggling to believe it. Mind blown
Idk if I’d call this a standard but the hair style of “shaved all around with like six inches in a small patch on top” has never looked good to me on men or women. It’s not a hair style I really understand.
Next to my work we have a barber who does all that kind of hair. Believe most people who go there are a dumb as they look. Some go twice a week. I (m55) have long hair, way past my shoulders normally in a pony tail I love the looks of disgust I get from the guys queuing up.
Donna Peluda - I, personally, hate seeing long hair on men. However, this is MY preference and I don't expect others to feel the same. I don't feel like it's my place to decide how others should do their hair. Maybe if more people made the decision to let others wear/not wear what they want/like, we'd be a much happier people.
Load More Replies...Hair is subjective ; and temporary. Some folks just have this style as one option among many.
It is funny that straight men keep the hairstyle they had in high school their whole life (unless they go bald). Lesbians do the same. Straight women and gay men keep up with hair "styles." (Think Katie Couric.)
Load More Replies...I o my own hair and got pretty good at it. I had long hair when I joined the army because my father was bald and he lived his hair fantasies through his kid's hair. Then I joined the military (compulsory at the time) and got my first close haircut. FREEDOM! I never went back. Now I use a buzzer with A 3 for the back and sides, 6 or 5 for the top. Looks boring but I prefer to call it "Officer Chic". When I served officer always pushed the boundaries a bit and I was an officer, so basically I still have the same haircut.
Something similar to this is done to upper caste Hindu boys after they turn 5
Moustaches on men are popular now, I think they're ugly especially on young men.
Loved my guy's 'stache. He hated the upkeep and was delighted when one of the side effects of his cancer treatment (chemo/radiation) was the loss of his facial hair. Made us both laugh when the meds left his body a few years later and his 'stache started to grow again. But, only on the right side, lol! Took a few months before he was finally back to "normal" when he passed earlier this year. Never underestimate the power of a good 'stache.
I carry a beard, mustache, the whole thing. I shaved it all just to see what I look like because its been 15ish years since I did. The look of horror on my daughter's face when she saw me (she's never seen me clean shaven) was priceless. I shall never do it again :)
When my father came to pick me up when I was little he had done the same thing. I didn't recognize him.
Load More Replies...All I see when I look at a man with a moustache is a1970-80 porn star
I love that retro pornstar look myself. It looks dirrrrty lol
Load More Replies...A kiss without a mustache is like an egg without salt. (Don't know who said that.)
I like my moustache, not gonna shave them away — sorry op ;)
Love love love my hubbys moustache and wonderful full length beard!
People in India will choose an unattractive fair skinned girl over a darker skinned girl who’s objective beautiful. This is why they get better treatment in Hollywood than Bollywood. Fair skin is a MASSIVELY inflated beauty standard and people ruin their perfectly good skin over it.
There are some things that are objectively beautiful based on studies: Teeth, Specific Facial Features, Leanness, etc. There isn’t much evidence to support that fairer skin is more beautiful.
Back in my parents’ time, people didn’t drink tea because it would make them dark skinned. We have an entire market dedicated to whitening the skin with cream
And there's also an entire market dedicated to make your skin tanned. People just yearn to look different and stand out from what is common in their society as a sign of beauty.
Load More Replies...I noticed that visiting India with my girlfriend. Blue eyes, fair skin, freckles. During a bus ride, a stunning 8 YO girl coming back from school spent 30mn trip backwards her eyes wide opened gaping at her repeating "You... so beautiful !" Made my girlfriend a bit uncomfortable and sad because the kid was genuinely a very pretty little girl but very self conscious about her skin (for no reason in our opinions) Just to clear the doubts, she never had that kind of attention in Europe
Next time compliment too. On my last trip in China, I just met a random little girland her mother just chilling out in a city park. The little girl was in awe with my blue eyes, white skin anddark-blond hair.Her mother told me, she thought, I was some princess from her fairy-books. I thanked, and told her mother to tell her, that her bright brown eyes, gorgeous hair make her the most perfect princess I ever met. I'll never forget that huge joyful smile on her littl, cute face.
Load More Replies...Meanwhile, pale skinned people go to tanning salons. Beauty standarts are weird.
True. Like people with curls wanting straight hair and people with straight hair often want curls..
Load More Replies...African women (including my ex) spend a ton of money on skin lightener, despite them being incredibly bad for their skin. Because even in Africa, people will lighter skin have higher status than people with darker skin. It used to be that darker skin signified people that worked outside in the hot sun, i.e. peasants. That might be a holdover in many cultures.
It's true for other cultures, too. I'm Scandinavian/Slovakian, and I inherited olive skin from my Slovakian mom. My very fair cousins in Denmark had thought I got my skin colour from 'working outside'—no, it just looks like that!
Load More Replies...You should come to Nigeria and see the lengths women go through to get lighter skin. Its disturbing to say the least.
Do they use the face creams that contain mercury? Tremors, headaches, impaired cognition, kidney failure, but looking a bit paler as they slowly die and/or go insane.
Load More Replies...We always think that only white people discriminate others with darker skin, but thats not at all true. In India and other darker skinned countrys, discrimination on darker skinned people is maybe even harder. The fairer, the better
You do know white skin is not a race? Many races have white skin, Asians for example. Caucasians who come in a wide range of colors.
Load More Replies...Why on earth…? I’m white as something that grew under a house, it’s mostly a bother - if by crazy coincidence the sun happens to touch it at some point, it behaves like it’s getting microwaved. White/nosferatu. ”The sun! The sun!”
It's not just India though. It's most of Asia. China, Korea, japan. They all value fair skin. Just different beauty standards. Finding a specific general feature attractive is ok. It's when people start going overboard with bleaching skin and negatively judging, stereotyping, etc, that is just too much.
Clearly photoshopped pictures and weird posing angles.
What will future people see looking back on us? Will they see a genuine reflection of individuals expressing themselves or a whole lot of untreated mental health issues and self esteem deficiency?
I was thinking the other day with all the nonsense and untruths posted online, how will people in the future know what was real and what wasn't? Hell, how do we?.
Load More Replies...All the face filters. Especially all the ones with effects like butterflies or dog ears. All of these on your dating app isn’t helping. Looks just like a catfish.
So many filters people don't know themselves in the mirror. Filters are for foldgers folks
So many women are desperate for attention, so it is the never ending selfies with the heavy, heavy filters. Can't forget the duck face with the peace sign with the back arched, and the one foot on tiptoes.
Buccal fat removal.
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Ugh, this one makes me physically cringe.
Like, you are literally removing a baseline later of fat that is supposed to be there, and AFAIK it's f**king permanent.
I understand being overweight and wanting to get rid of excess fat, but a little roundness around the cheeks is generally considered attractive and makes you look youthful.
I’ve always had VERY sharp cheekbones. A b****y hairdresser, hearing someone compliment them, said “You’ll look like a skeleton when you’re old.” He didn’t get a tip, but he was right: I look like a Biafra victim. I’d LOVE to have some fat injected into my buccal area now. Wait til these girls start to age and random strangers offer ‘em money and say “Here; get yourself a sandwich.” It’s not glamorous when you’re old (though granted, you can’t tell young people anything. I know, because I was one of those who wouldn’t listen to someone who’d been through it.) (If any of us ever listened to old folks, we’d never have sunbathed or started smoking.)
That hairdresser should get a high-five. In the face. With a chair.
Load More Replies...I had the cutest chubby cheeks as a child! I did lose them at one point due to an eating disorder, but when my life returned to normal they did too. Now in my 60s, they're turning into jowels and I would love to have a (healthy) slimmer face.
Do they still take fat from the butt and put it in the lips? Or was that a myth? Frankenstein beauty surgery.
People who wear clothes that are too small. Just wear clothes that fit. You'll look a lot better.
I'm not so hard on this because it can be people gaining weight without the means to renew their wardrobe.
Yup...I can attest to this..... All of my clothes are either spandex from when I was thin or my extra large hubbys cast offs lol
Load More Replies...this sounds weird, but I choose to wear revealing clothes because I work so hard on staying skinny (or borderline underweight because I just hate it when I have ANY excess fat), and I want to show off about it...
Jay, you are more than your body-mass-index and low body fat. 🙋🏽
Load More Replies...Especially young women are obsessed with the size of the garment. They want to be a size 0 or petite or XS or whatever. Two things they don't realize. First, there is no standard to sizing anymore. It varies by manufacturer and country of origin. I have clothes that range from S to 4X (the latter from a shop in China). All of them fit. Second, clothes that are too small make you look fatter and more out of shape. A larger size that fits always looks better, is slimming, and is even sexier.
People that think you should wear anything uou like, even if it doesn't flatter you in any way. Well, pleas do, but don't look at me, if in a few years , you look at pictures and think: what the hell was i thinking there. Every roll of fat hanging out there. No
What if they've gained weight and can't afford to update their wardrobe? What if their concern is not looking a 'lot better' but they are just trying to make it day-to-day?
Get smart and buy strategically. I was approaching 310 pounds but knew I would have bariatric surgery. I bought 4x Ralph Lauren Polo shirts, pants, and shorts on eBay. After the surgery and I began to lose a lot of weight, I sold my 4x's and bought 2xl. Later I sold those and bought size Large. I actually made money and always had a beautiful wardrobe.
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Liked in my case, but foot binding in china. Insane amounts of lifelong pain inflicted on children from a young age, just to have the hope of marrying into a better family.
this is from long ago, the Chinese version of corsets. we don't do that now. its abuse and illegal if you try doing that to your daughter. and actually, we all think its pretty gross, like ew wtf
A properly fitted corset can be quite comfortable, and supports both the back and breasts. It's only when they are improperly fitted or overly tightlaced that you run into problems. As far as I am aware, there is no way to safely or comfortably bind feet.
Load More Replies...They don't even make "lotus shoes" in China anymore, but there's a company that will do special orders for older women who still have bound feet.
Had to google it. Oh my. Had no idea that's how the lotus foot or the lotus shoe looked like. Absolutely awful.
Load More Replies...The last footbinding shoewear factory was shut down in the 90s, but they can still be found if you know where to look.
Laminated, combed-up, thick a*s eyebrows. Why.
KrustyKohn:
Yes! This is the one I was going to say. It is such a strange beauty trend to me that I've noticed in the past couple years. Granted, I do come from a time where eyebrows were plucked into a high arch. I think people should just leave their eyebrows be for the most part. I can understand plucking, waxing, or trimming very bushy eyebrows or a uni-brow, but combing the hairs straight up and plastering them to your forehead just doesn't look good.
Why are so many women obsessed with eyebrows and lashes right now!? It’ll be nice when that trend goes away. They all have the same Groucho Marx brows and Vegas showgirls lashes…yuck!
Because you are not good enough the way you are and companies spend millions to keep you convinced of that lie. Over the decades I see a gradual rotation of which thing is going to 'fix' you. It is sad really. I would rather date an average looking woman who is comfortable in her own skin than something that looks like it escaped from a wax museum. TLDR: I feel sorry for the pressure put on women to conform to (whatever is the current 'thing')
Load More Replies...Eyebrow trends have been a thing forever. I definitely like the thick look better than the over plucked thin look from the early 2000's but I don't understand people who think eyebrow trends (or fake lashes) are new. Some of the current fake lashes trends go back to Twiggy in the 1960's.
ok i get why you hated the first laminations but the latest are more realistic and i am sorry, i save SO much time with my fake lashes and laminated eye brows getting ready! and none of it's permanent!
This made me laugh as I save so much time (and money) doing nothing to mine. Nothing against you doing yours of course!
Load More Replies...Bruh. Equally bad are the ones that are plucked to near invisibility
i have dark brown hair and my eyebrows are almost an invisable blonde, and people ask if i shave my eyebrows, or tell me to get them darkened to match! i hate my eyebrows because of this.
I’m 73 years old and barely have any brow hairs. I would like a trend of no brows. I think I look fine!
I would must love to have straighter brow hairs, to be frank. Not because I’m in love with the current style, but because my hair is curly so my brow hairs curl slightly too. Combined with some growing in thicker than others, it means 1, my brows always look sloppy, and 2, I’ll have a single hair that feels irritating because the thickness or curl is causing it to sit at an odd angle.
Overly perfect veneers.
HeathenHumanist:
One of my Facebook friends already has good teeth but then she went and got veneers. Now her teeth are just...too big and too BRIGHT.
Noticing anything different..? "Your teeth? Yeah I saw them from outside.."
Load More Replies...Almost everyone in Hollywood has those super ultra impossibly white and straight teeth that you can clearly see are fake. I don't get it. It's not supposed to be obvious you have fake teeth. That porcelain shiny white color of teeth just doesn't exist in nature and it looks weird.
Have you ever seen Caesar Milan? His teeth are blinding!
Load More Replies...When I saw the pic I almost fell out of my chair scary.*looks at pic again falls out of chair*
It's the bigness for me whereby you lips can't close around your own teeth
The entire face filled drastically to eliminate all wrinkles, making a person's face look like it belongs to a body that weighs 50 pounds more.
Ohhh. For medical reason i've been there. Botox in the forehead and neck etc. works against migraines... SH!!T it hurts- i don't miss the 31 neddles...
I tried this for migraines too but unfortunately it caused me to break out in sores everywhere they injected me. I have dermatitis and eczema so that probably played into why I broke out in sores. It helped the migraine though.
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Circumcision…….a gross and unethical thing that needs so stop
And this should count because in the U.S. most are done purely for cosmetic and not religious reasons….. not that either excuse should be considered reasonable
Don’t forget, back in the day most women were told that it was healthier for their children to them circumcised and easier for them to clean themselves when they get older. That there were germs and other things under the hood that would be difficult to get to. We now know that it’s not true. It’s not that difficult to clean, it’s not healthier to be circumcised. There’s no health benefit. And there are men who wish they had not been circumcised and are now using a technique to make it look like they have a hood now.
well I am circumcised (for medical not religious reasons) and I really much like it the way how it is - I often question why other people dont get rid of their ugly looking and often sweat or dirt collecting (I had one I know what I am talking about) little piece of skin in a comperably easy and harmless procedere.....
Bear in mind, there ARE real medical reasons for circumcision, but those medical reasons are NOT common enough that every parent should be given the option so casually.
as someone with female anatomy, I can't even imagine how excruciating it would be to remove the clitoral hood. that is a form of FGM, so why isn't circumcision seen similarly?
I think that once a couple generations have died off (like mine), then folks can do away with circumcisions. Some of us grew up with ‘em being a beauty standard and find uncut men odd-looking (not to mention we don’t know what to do with an uncut one. When I was in the military, 18-year-olds were getting circumcised! 😱 (My best guesses: Either they got with a woman who saw it and reacted badly, or else they looked around in the shower and wanted to fit in.) Society just hasta wait for those of us who like ‘em pretty and cut to go away.
Current peer-reviewed clinical reseach indicates that the benefits outweigh the risks, especially for the reduction of the transmission of HIV, HPV and other sexually transmitted diseases. For this reason, WHO and both the American and Australian Associations of Pediatrics recommend male circumcision for infants. See, e.g., https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22926175/ ; https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20639909/ ; https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31496128/
As a male, and argue me if you insist. I was given it for medical reasons ill admit. It was to avoid issues for me.
There's an even worse practice in African countries and even European ones called FGM Female Genital mutilation, under one fktge excuses to keep them form being promiscuous. It's revolting and risks girls physical and mental health along with a higher risk pregnancy complications. https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/female-genital-mutilation
Some of you confuse beauty trends for beauty standards. I find the requirement of being lean, as in, low body fat, to be stupid. Body fat is so demonized at this point, some lower back fat is now considered gross. Having some fat on your body means you actually consume enough food, so your organs can function properly. The obsession with <10% body fat is unhealthy. And whoever once got that lean knows how your bodily functions just drop after you do. Nothing is attractive about low energy, hormonal disregulation and sexual apathy.
Thank you for that! If someone is naturally thin, that’s one thing but to always struggle and punish oneself to try to look like that person is ridiculous and I say this as someone who has spent my entire life (67 years) obsessed with that goal. I’m tired of it, I’m just going to be me…. A little chubby (by society’s standards) and happy.
I was so horrible to my body in my teens and 20s.... narcissist father projected his insecurities onto me and made me believe I was fat (and that being fat was the worst thing I could be). I starved myself for years, both literally and by excessive working out trying so hard to get rid of what I thought was a big belly. Now in my 30s I have not 1, but 2 thyroid disorders and all kinds of foot/leg conditions from distance running without proper stretching/training/etc.
Mostly overweight people who complain about slender people being considered more attractive. Sour grapes?
Overweight people who are tired of being treated like dogshit for being overweight. I just want to be treated with the same dignity and respect as non-overweight people, but instead it's a constant battle against @ssholes deliberately misinterpreting it to mean promoting being overweight as healthy.
Load More Replies...I exercise to keep the lower back lean. I'm well over that 10% elsewhere, lol, but l like that spot to look that way, sorry not sorry.
OK I agree with the sentiment but the healthiest I've ever been was when I was that slender with little body fat. It was not because I was slender, its because that body shape corresponded to a time of good eating, emotional health, being active, a good age, good Healthcare, and my genes functioning optimally. I was not pursuing the shape I was, I was naturally that shape and did not have the listed issues. But I can definitely understand how unhealthy some of the practices to get that slender can be. Also body fat is natural and people need to shush about other people's weight.
Grinding canine teeth flat. A dentist once took me aside and told me that he could grind mine down, flat, make it a really good smile. I said "no, thanks" but was thinking "why in the _f**k_ would I do that‽"
I grind my teeth due to anxiety, and did a lot of damage before finding out and getting a good mouthguard. In my opinion, canine teeth that have been ground down flat create a smile that is no nicer than one with naturally pointy canines. If anything, I've always felt self-conscious about how my teeth looked and used to smile with a closed mouth all the time. Now, after many years of necessary orthodontic work I don't care quite so much.
I had one canine ground down because it kept poking holes in my tongue.
I was born without canine teeth. I had to have 2 teeth removed on my lower jaw so that my mouth could be even.
High heels. They f**k your feet/ankles up.
I love the way they make me look but they're not compatible with normal activity, so l wear my trainers then change into heels arriving at destination (thanks Working Girl for teaching me the trick 30 years ago)
They're attractive as long as they fit well and you can wear them with ease. They're not meant for 24 hour wear. Some people with high arches are more comfortable with high heels. Aesthetically, heels suit some feet better.
I much prefer heels. Can't wear anything without arch support. Running in heels is much easier for me. I know, that sounds weird, but true.
Load More Replies...And with hypermobility it's hardly doable to walk in them without falling over (ir is that just me 🙈)
it's definitely not just you... I can't walk around in heels without my ankles or knees slipping out of place (hEDS 🦓)
Load More Replies...It depends on what kind. Platforms are fine as long as their the same length in the front and back. but yeah if the tilt your feet up like a Barbie ur feet are gonna be f****d forever.
I'm far too practical to wear them. I can't help wondering what if there's a fire, an earthquake, a zombie apocalypse or any kind of emergency? I will be the first down wearing heels. But on sneakers... I actually have a chance ;)
Not just feet/ankles, but calves, knees, hips, and back. Humans are not designed to spend all day on their toes.
I’m not sure of the name for it, but the style of makeup that was really popular in the late 2010s and still kinda is. The one with the cakey foundation, overdrawn nude lips, eyebrows way too thick and dark, clearly trying to emulate the Kardashians. I’m sorry but I have never seen that look good on anyone. I also really hate the 70s/80s haircuts that Gen Z is into, especially those mullets and “wolf cuts.” Going to a hair salon nowadays is a nightmare because stylists can’t fathom that not everyone wants layers or bangs or tons of volume.
Depends on the hairdresser. A good hairdresser won't just go by trends.
I dunno. I like a lot of those 80s haircuts more now than I did in the 80s. Just preference I guess.
Both wolf cut and mullet can look really good when styled properly - 80's/90's style mullets... none of them looked good. None. But the updated version is way better! I'm not actually sure what's wrong with the wolf cut? My personal dislike is the center part. Not every face is complimented by a center part, especially when the face is a bit more asymmetrical.
That's the problem with hair stylists. They want to try the new styles. I want you to actually style my hair to MY face.
You’re kidding. I’ve been searching high and low for someone to put layers in my hair.
That thing where girls glue strands of hair to their foreheads.
I think this is referring to baby hairs, but BP provided a photo of someone getting a weave. no gluing the baby hairs in patterns isn’t attractive, but then I’m not the intended audience, so what I think matters as much as a fart in a tornado.
Upvote for the fart in a tornado image. I'm still laughing
Load More Replies...If it's natural, it's pretty. It's a phenomenon in certain Hispanic, Black and Indian cultures - although, not so much East Indian. I'm a black woman who has very, very light, very short baby hair, meaning I don't have it at all, so I don't gel up hairs to brush some on. But some women do (I've gone to school in the Caribbean with girls with baby hair ) and it looks fabulous. I also remember as a child envying the girls with fine, dark hair on their arms and legs. Come to find out, here - bare arms and legs (without needing to shave) are to be envied. Hahahaha
I'm white and I have quite prominent baby hairs... ON ONLY ONE SIDE. I literally don't know what to do with them other than hide them behind bangs because these little things don't want to budge
Load More Replies...it's not glued...people are just arranging the baby hairs...often with vaseline and a toothbrush...it is an inexpensive way to style/rein in unruly hair...reminds me of styles from the 1920s...it's not my thing, but it looks like the person took the time to style...it's usually done with "ethnic" hair...as an owner of ethnic hair, i like seeing people make the most of their beauty... :)
Umm, these woman are not "gluing" their hair. Please read the following: According to Crowned researchers, laying edges was a way for Black people to present their afro-textured hair, which was otherwise considered unruly, as neat. At the same time, laid edges grew popular in Mexican and Afro-Latinx communities during the rise of the Chola subculture that grew popular in the 90s. (Byrdie.com)
I am not a fan of very defined abs. I get that it’s REALLY impressive and a lot of hard work and I certainly admire that, but aesthetically I personally find them lumpy and off-putting.
Doesn't super defined abs (often, but not always) usually indicate unhealthily low body fat or dehydration? (Male actors with shirtless scenes have talked about being *dangerously* dehydrated so they'd look as 'ripped' as possible)
You bet! Gimme a lean swimmer’s body any day! You can have the lumps.
I’ve never understood the appeal of nose piercings. This is just my personal thing but it just looks distracting and painful (obviously in my head I know it’d not actually painful, but subconsciously I see this metal thing going through someones nose and it makes me wince.) But hey, some people are into it so more power to them. 🤷♂️
I don't mind a tiny stud on the side of the nose, but the one that hangs from the center bottom of the nose just looks like a shiny booger to me.
Yeh, the "pig ring" look nope...tiny stud on the side, someprople it suits, others...
Load More Replies...It’s a cultural thing here. My friend had her nose pierced when she was very young
In East Indian culture, a nose piercing on the side is meaningful. And, looks attractive on many.
Nose piercing can be an important part of someone's culture so who are we to judge?
It always looks like snot coming out of the nose for me. I can't see how you deal with a runny nose in the cold or a real cold.
i have septum piercing and we deal with it...literally the same as anyone else. Currently at home with a nasty cold and my piercing does not bother me at all.
Load More Replies...I want a nose piercing in the future and I personally think they are very attractive
Something tells me OP wouldn't say the same thing about ear rings though...
I hate the long beard, lumberjack look.
They fit some men! Like man buns - on some men, they look good! It all depends.
I grow my beard for function, not looks. Cropped close in the sweaty months, longer in the frosty months. I think shaving is unnatural. You are welcome to find me unattractive. I don't have a rat's a*s here, so I can't give one.
I recently moved to a rural North Carolina town. It appears the hillbilly unshaven look is the standard here. It matches the unwashed clothes look and the never bathe odor.
I do not understand why people think tattoos are attractive.
It's not for everyone. At the same time, I don't think people who get a tattoo think about their attractiveness to someone else. Personally speaking, I get a tattoo for me, not for someone else.
For the same reason you like a music genre and I like another one... It's a form of art, and it's not supposed to be liked by everyone! Just like every type of art there is.
None of my tattoos came from a desire to look attractive to other people. All of them have some kind of meaning for me. Other people liking them didn't even make the list of priorities when selecting them.
Tattoos are not made to be attractive to others. they're made to show struggles, be funny, or just because.
Having worked with a lot of older people (70 plus) and seeing how tattoos age and blur I wouldn’t get one in my 20s! Maybe when I hit 70…..
Thigh gaps..like why is that specifically a thing.
I have them naturally and it goes to show that bullying happens with any size of body. I think we all receive a ton of c**p from body standards.
Same. Got called chicken legs all the time when I was younger, and now they're 'in'? Jeez
Load More Replies...Thigh gaps as a fad started as a prank on Tumblr/Reddit or something like that. Look into it if you wish.
Depending on your weight, they're easy to fake for photos. I'm a good 50+ pounds overweight, and can achieve a thigh gap by stance: stand with your feet flat on the ground, shoulder-width apart; turn your knees inward as far as you can without moving your feet; then arch your lower back (swayback) by tipping your pelvis (top goes forward, bottom goes back). Gives me about a 1" gap. The first time I did that in front of my partner, he was amazed: "HOW DID YOU DO THAT???"
Of course it depends on weight but there’s thin people who don’t have it because it’s genetic.
I find blonde to be the least attractive or most boring hair color. Yellow blonde being the worst.
I think they mean colored hair. Few people on this earth look good with blond hair that went naturally blond. I’ll never understand the obsession. Yes, any shade of natural hair is beautiful but people don’t always take there complexions into consideration when they choose to color hair.
Load More Replies...Well, screw you loser. I can't help my genes. I find losers who comment on other people's bodies the least attractive thing.
So if someone has natural blonde hair, to fit your standard they should dye it? F**k off.
Growing up in a Mediterranean country in the 80s where blonde was the epitome of beauty made me embrace my chocolate brown for life. No jealousy at all, just tired of ridiculous standards that have fortunately faded since.
Load More Replies...All natural hair colors are beautiful. Fake blonde looks so funny if the rest of your features don't match with it. Especially when somebody dyes the hair on their head very blonde, but forgets about their eyebrows - natural blondes have thin (compared to brown/black, natural red is also thin) hair already, and you can barely see their eyebrows. Light blonde with black eyebrows looks clownish!
Any natural hair colour is better than dyed. Unfortunately, a lot of people choose to bleach their hair to blonde and it rarely looks good.
as a blond, i feel like you just have to find a hairstyle n color shades that work for blond hair. but if the hair is white-a*s platinum blond yeah no color combo is gonna help u
As someone born with naturally blonde hair I'm sorry that people find my hair so unattractive and "boring." It isn't nice to comment on other people's natural features.
Load More Replies...Tattooed oops, micro bladed eyebrows.
I over plucked my brows in the 90's and they never grew back in properly so I had them done (Powder brows). They look really natural and the fact that I don't have to draw them in every day is everything! I had them done in May and I still look in the mirror every day and think "Wow. I have eyebrows!!!!" So, not all tattoo'd/mircobladed brows are bad ;)
I just don’t like how so many women have the exact same shaped big eyebrows. I know it’s none of my business and I understand why someone like you would get it done. I have a friend who lost her eyebrows in her youth and she’d drawn the worst little line over half her eye. I was actually glad when she got hers done and she found someone who did a more natural shape that was most likely what hers were originally like.
Load More Replies...I have naturally non visible eyebrows. And if I wear bangs, they actually make my eyes pop out better. If my hair is done away from my face, then I need to darken them to define my features. I love that about me. I've never, ever plucked, nor shaved my brows. However...considering articles that now say very heavy brows are a sign of Sociopath/Narcissism, I feel extra blessed!
If we’ll made, no problem with it. Two of my friends have have them done, one looks great and natural the other not so much.
Bright concealer under the eyes. Makes people look insane.
Makes the person look like Donald Trump, way too much brightener, way too much.
Men who shave or wax everywhere, especially the chest, arms or legs. Like to me there is nothing more attractive than a hairy chest. Hairless body, veneers, sleeve tattoos, orange tan and Gucci bumbag is the uniform of a f**k boy.
I also used to be grossed out by chest hair, (my dad walked around without a shirt on a lot and he's as hairy as an ape). My husband has some though and it is so hot. Like, he has the perfect amount of chest hair. To each their own though!
I love silky chest hair...But - there are some men on whom body hair just doesn't look good. This is why it's important to do what makes you feel good - no matter what anyone else feels - or thinks.
Load More Replies...nothing makes me more upset then f*****g gucci. like, why you spending 300,000,000,00 dollars on a bag??? also, the designs and colors are not a slay. like who tf decided on that hideous combo of vibrant red and green???? also just buy a damn faux leather bag that looks real at a small business or some s**t.
Gucci always screams new rich for me. Even if l had the money, l'd never.
Load More Replies...I'd never wax! I love my hairy body. I can pass for Bigfoot on Halloween!
As someone who’s squicked out by body hair (thanks a lot, Dad), you’d think I’d love men who wax their bodies, but nope! Because I’m a huge MMA fan, I see what it looks like when it grows out. It’s like the hair on our legs but much coarser, and the ingrown hairs make it look as if there’s also acne involved. I’m gonna stick with my smooooth Asian men! 😍
Sounds like the OP isn't into Asians - who tend to have very little body hair. One of my HS teachers had a really hairy chest. Not sure of his genes but the internet tells me his last name (Serfozo) is Hungarian in origin. He was also a bit of a kidder. So he would purposely leave his top shirt button undone and pull a bit of his chest hair so it stuck out. He was not vain (AFAIK), he just liked teasing some of the girls that were - "Ew! chest hair!" the guy was actually pretty cool as I recall. He just had a ton of chest hair and I think he chose to have fun with it rather than feel hurt over some folks who didn't like it.
you just reminded me of how often me and my partner tease each other about body hair. I'm italian and don't shave that often and he's Asian and barely grows any body hair at all. he's like "FINALLY, I'M CATCHING UP TO YOU" and it's like three little strands of hair meanwhile I'm growing like three hairs per follicle
Load More Replies...I trim my body hair on occasion, but it's more for hygiene and comfort than for vanity. I tend to sweat a lot and the smell becomes more pronounced the thicker my hairs are. I can also become really itchy if it gets too long. If I go a month without trimming, I'll have a full forest on my chest and a thick bush in my nether regions.
Being totally hairless.
There should be a disclaimer there. There are some people who have a condition and can't grow hair on their head.
AND, may I add, some people look fantastic bald.
Load More Replies...Ok, I see where this is going with the dumb standard that girls have to have no body hair, but some people can’t actually help it because they have alopecia/ cancer/ some other problem
cut OP some slack...may mean body hair(less) or even completely bald...any bald person will tell you that it's tough out there
Wow, what a disgusting article BoredPanda. What the hell is up with this site anymore? How about we stop objectifying people's bodies?
I thought the premise of this article was noting objectifying trends that are otherwise pointless?
Load More Replies...it's kinda weird how comments against women are a lot higher ranked than comments against men. the first comment I saw about men in this post genuinely surprised me because I wasn't expecting to see any directly against men, only things like "silly women and their silly makeup" and gender neutral things
I always thought bored panda was a safe space because people were mostly kind to each other and non judgemental. Until I read that article. It's vile.
BoredPanda hasn't been a safe spot for over three years. Ever since the pandemic this site has turned into a really toxic place. BoredPanda used to pride itself on being a family-friend site, now they censor all of their users yet still have some of the worst trolls I've ever seen on a site. They also no longer write their own content and copy-and-paste listicles (without editing) from Reddit. It's pretty sad. What's even sadder as articles like this bring in the trolls.
Load More Replies...This was really toxic. Those person's fake lips hurting me? No? None of my business. That person bulked up beyond understanding; Is that hurting me, or hindering me from living my own best life? No? Then I have zero say. I can silently judge and make all the assumptions I want on why they made those choices, but at the end if the day? I still won't know what to make for supper, and the laundry keeps piling up.
Well I think that the issue is that if nobody speaks up, you can get these kinds of selfsustaining feed back loops, where a lot of people do some horrible things to their body, because they think that other people will then find it more attractive, when in fact it not like that at all. If you want to modify your body because it makes you feel better that is one thing, but if a girl get some big fake boobs, and gets all the trouble (back pain, difficulty in finding clothes that fit, them bouncing around and tugging on her body when she runs etc.) and the large pricetag that comes with them, only to be disapointed that she still cannot find a partner who like a living plastic-fantastic-barbie-doll, then I think that she would be better of if someone had corrected her by telling her their honest opinion about what they find attractive and what they are not so fond of. ...and the same goes for the girls who starve themselves to death, due to a misguided ideal that the skinnier they get, the more attractive they will become, when infact most men like some curves, and don't find the walking skeleton look particularly sexy.
Load More Replies...I mean, all of these sound more like personal preferences. Because what one person may find criinge, someone else might find pretty.
Wow, what a disgusting article BoredPanda. What the hell is up with this site anymore? How about we stop objectifying people's bodies?
I thought the premise of this article was noting objectifying trends that are otherwise pointless?
Load More Replies...it's kinda weird how comments against women are a lot higher ranked than comments against men. the first comment I saw about men in this post genuinely surprised me because I wasn't expecting to see any directly against men, only things like "silly women and their silly makeup" and gender neutral things
I always thought bored panda was a safe space because people were mostly kind to each other and non judgemental. Until I read that article. It's vile.
BoredPanda hasn't been a safe spot for over three years. Ever since the pandemic this site has turned into a really toxic place. BoredPanda used to pride itself on being a family-friend site, now they censor all of their users yet still have some of the worst trolls I've ever seen on a site. They also no longer write their own content and copy-and-paste listicles (without editing) from Reddit. It's pretty sad. What's even sadder as articles like this bring in the trolls.
Load More Replies...This was really toxic. Those person's fake lips hurting me? No? None of my business. That person bulked up beyond understanding; Is that hurting me, or hindering me from living my own best life? No? Then I have zero say. I can silently judge and make all the assumptions I want on why they made those choices, but at the end if the day? I still won't know what to make for supper, and the laundry keeps piling up.
Well I think that the issue is that if nobody speaks up, you can get these kinds of selfsustaining feed back loops, where a lot of people do some horrible things to their body, because they think that other people will then find it more attractive, when in fact it not like that at all. If you want to modify your body because it makes you feel better that is one thing, but if a girl get some big fake boobs, and gets all the trouble (back pain, difficulty in finding clothes that fit, them bouncing around and tugging on her body when she runs etc.) and the large pricetag that comes with them, only to be disapointed that she still cannot find a partner who like a living plastic-fantastic-barbie-doll, then I think that she would be better of if someone had corrected her by telling her their honest opinion about what they find attractive and what they are not so fond of. ...and the same goes for the girls who starve themselves to death, due to a misguided ideal that the skinnier they get, the more attractive they will become, when infact most men like some curves, and don't find the walking skeleton look particularly sexy.
Load More Replies...I mean, all of these sound more like personal preferences. Because what one person may find criinge, someone else might find pretty.
