People Share 40 Basic Things Everyone Should Know How To Do (But Apparently, Many Don’t)
Have you ever met someone who just… couldn’t do the most basic thing? Like boil water. Or read a map. Or properly use a turn signal?
It’s wild how some fundamental life skills—things you’d think everyone would know—aren’t actually that common. Whether it's sewing on a button, managing money, or just being able to listen without interrupting, the gap can be surprisingly wide.
Curious (and maybe a little concerned), I asked the Bored Panda community: What’s one basic skill everyone should have… but many clearly don’t? The answers are eye-opening, hilarious, and a little too relatable.
Got one of your own? Drop it in the comments—I’m all ears!
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Cognitive empathy and critical thinking.
This is more difficult for those with developmental and intellectual disabilities.
I think the question was positioned as more of a blanket 'everyone'. A lot of submissions here are likely to be difficult for some people for myriad reasons, because it developmental, neurological, or physical.
Load More Replies...Thanks for the mansplaining that's both unwelcome and wrong. Cognitive Empathy is a well known psychological term with many articles written about it.
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How to do basic research and to distinguish legitimate sources of information from bad ones. How to sort out facts from propaganda.
I agree, but what with propaganda, AI, groupthink, and media bias, how do we ever get to see all sides of an argument? I never forget the 'scientific' reports from the 50's and 60's that blamed obesity on fats in foods; turns out the reports and research was done by scientists who were paid well ... by the sugar industry. So again, how can we possibly know what sources are legitimate?
That's the problem. Facts don't sell. Even worse is how so many places only get propaganda, not news. It's really hard to think different when all you get is the fox "news" and pals
Load More Replies...That's one of the most useful skill I learned at uni: researching and source criticism. The other one was the ability to leave your own opinions/prejudices/wordviews/emotions outside and see things purely as they are while you were researching.
This is becoming incredibly time consuming. You have to research what are legitimate sources, and then research what fact checkers are unbiased and legitimate, and then research of those are legitimate. It goes on and on. There's too much AI. The best one can do is what various news programs, and news around the world. Interestingly, how one country presents a topic, another country will report it different.
It's so hard nowadays. I just finished my research semester in school and the start of the class was an exam on how to determine credibility of sources.
It´s "you are", for the well-educated. You seem to be very much into correcting others.
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How to budget and save money.
True that. Learned budget making at over 30. Zero debt now, because your money is the one with no extra cost. Yes we needed to go low budget to pay our debts but it's so worth it
Same here, my husband and I have been debt free for over 15 years and the freedom and peace of mind we have is something I would not trade for anything.
Load More Replies...Every one knows how to do it save you have to work 2 jobs just to get by nowadays. You can budget all you like, if there's not enough money that's a useless skill.
I have slowly growing savings. A couple of hundred here, a few hundred there. Granted, I don't socialise or eat out or have any vices other than Mars bars and cheesecake, or have a family to look after - but if it's just you and you either make sacrifices (or are an introvert that prefers to stay home) then you can save even with minimum wage. You don't need to buy the latest sh!t, you don't need to "treat yourself" to some expensive whatever, you don't need to eat out (and that includes fast food, it adds up). Read books, sort out the garden, go for walks in the woods, you don't need to eat meat every day, there are many things that can be done that save money.
Load More Replies...This really ought to be taught in school. It might be argued that some things can be done at home but some things are just too important to hope the parents have the capability to teach.
My mother had two pieces of advice: 1, never ever touch a credit card; and 2, only take out a loan from a bank as a very last option when everything else has fallen through and there is no other choice. She said banks will offer something between half a percent and maybe two percent interest on savings, but they'll happily take between ten and twenty for a loan. The bank makes the rules and the bank always wins. Don't get involved if you can help it.
Load More Replies...How to use a checking account properly, and when to pass on credit cards.
Math class isn't the same as actually learning how to create & maintain a budget. Yes, math is required, but there's more to it than that.
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Seems to be a lost art, and honestly, I can’t remember the last time I did it, but everyone should be able to sew on a button.
I'm 71 and my mum would say you should be able to sew on a button so I learned. More importantly, it was the mid 60's and I was a teenager and my mum would iron my flares flat on the board with the material sticking out sideways. Hence I very quickly learnt how to iron! My mum wasn't stupid.
And cook. And I learned to sew in my 30's, and learned to program in Pascal, BASIC, and MS VBA.
Load More Replies...I can put on one....looks awful when I do it, but I can do it! Thanks Mommom!
The sad thing is that many people just throw away clothing with a little hole or a torn off button. People really don't value things as much as they should.
I repair holes with patching or darning, sew buttons back on, and when things are totally worn out, I salvage any good bits to repair other items. I'm 70, this was just something that was done whatever your income level.
Load More Replies...These days clothing is so cheap that many people would just discard something with a missing button or a minor tear.
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The ability to swim.
As a kid growing up we all learned to swim at the local ymca or local swimming holes. I was amazed that there were people who didn't know how. I realize some may have been excluded by economics or culture but it is never too late, it could save your life.
When my dad was a kid, in a small country town in Australia, everyone learned to swim in the irrigation channel. He was scared of leaches so refused to swim there, and never learned at all. He has avoided it his whole life.
Load More Replies...Australian schools have swimming classes (I think about 12 a year) in primary schools, and my high school also had mandatory ones in year 7 as well. This has helped with drowning statistics. There is also a program called 'Kids Alive' with five things every parent should do; fence any pool (this is mandatory anyway), make sure gate is closed, teach kids to swim, supervise children around water all the time, and learn how to do cpr.
I drowned as a toddler. I freak out putting my head underwater in the bath to rinse my hair. So, nope. I've made it to fifty one without needing to know how to swim and I have exactly zero plans to change that...
Please don't shame me for not knowing how to swim. I try so hard. I love being in the water as long as the water is salty enough, lakes are a no-no for me. At least I know hot to float if I get into trouble and I can even do something with my limbs to move forward a little.
Patience and compassion. For pete's sake, slow down on the road. Stop shoving and respect the queue/line. Wait for someone to be out of your way before you decide to push through. Stop shouting at others for existing. You're likely just as much in the way of someone as someone is in the way of you.
And please don't barge into an elevator without letting the people already inside get out first. Thank you.
The ability to apologize, mean it and amend one's behaviors and words accordingly in the future.
I work really hard getting kids to find ways to react when angry (I'm a teacher) but some really struggle with it. At the moment, I'm bringing in a system where each child has a 'wellbeing toolbox' which is a small bag to put things in to help them calm down as needed, like fidget toys, sensory items and cards with breathing strategies. It's in it's early stages, but I am hopeful it will help.
Load More Replies...I speak some Japanese, but even then I couldn't find a way: The situation was, I came in as a walk-in to a pottery studio and asked if they had times available on the same day for cup making experience. They did not. The owner apologized me way too deep for me not pre booking. I tried to apologize for the bother and for not checking before hand. The apology got worse on the owner side and saying "it's ok" and fleeing the scene was the only thing I could think of
Everyone has the ability. Not everyone earns an apology simply for demanding one, however. NO is still a perfectly valid response.
Rational thought and critical thinking.
Learn to repair simple things. Whether it's clothing or things around the house. Learn to use tools.
A gasket to replace in a toilet tank is maybe $6.00 as oppose to calling a plumber wondering why your toilet won't flush or keeps running.
Here YouTube is your friend. Changed the leaky fridge insulation with an actual help video from the fridge company
Yup. The thermostat on my fridge packed up. I pulled it out and shorted the compressor contacts with a paperclip and hooked the fridge up to a timer to run it for 15m, off for 30m, then I looked on Amazon for all of the parts until I found one that looked the same. I bought it, then installed it when it arrived two days later. So it was a €12 part rather than a €250 replacement fridge (plus extra for delivery).
Load More Replies...I was the only girl on my dorm room floor with a set of basic tools & wd-40. Came in very handy then, and still have and use those tools!
When my siblings and myself moved out of the house where we grew up, my dad gave us each some simple tools - pliers, screwdrivers, wrenches, hammer - and made sure we knew how to use them.
Add troubleshooting skills to this. That's what will determine if you are able to do the repair.
First aid. Those first minutes can save a life!
Unfortunately nothing can quarantee survival in first aid situation, and losing a life is really haunting experience. But still everyone should remember that your actions gave the person a chance to survive, a chance they woundn't have gotten without you.
Load More Replies...Just remember to bash the b@stard. If you aren't risking breaking bones, you aren't doing it right. The heart is huge and pulses greatly as it's literally squeezing blood through you, but you don't see and barely feel any of that on a person's chest because there's so much padding and protection in the way. If you're going to shove the heart yourself, you need to press *HARD*, and *FAST*. I've seen too many times in first aid courses that people that have an idea of what to do do it way to slowly and softly. Look at it like this, if the person screams at you for breaking their ribs, that means they didn't die so you did it right.
I have to do a first aid course regularly for my job. It is a really simple thing to do- no one is shamed for not knowing how to do first aid, they are taught with compassion and understanding. It is frustrating how much courses can cost though- I find community groups/neighbourhood houses are often the best way to get a cheaper one. There are options in Australia to do full basic first aid, CPR, Asthma and Anaphylaxis management etc. You can do online courses, but CPR requires a practical element.
One basic skill everyone should have: knowing the difference between the words "your" and "you're", and between "their", "there", and "they're" and using them correctly when writing, especially when posting on social media. Incorrect usage indicates the poster is at least partially illiterate; credibility comes into question. I'm not a language expert, just an average U.S. person who received average U.S. public schooling, and that was sufficient for me to achieve a mastery of grammar and spelling, without even making a concerted effort to do so. Perhaps it just came as natural to me? I sure don't feel like I'm exceptional.
Some times I will make a mistake with these words. It doesn't mean I don't know the difference, my brain is just working too fast, and I overlook it. I always proof read though, and I usually catch it. I can totally get past this though as long as the person is at least attempting to use punctuation where a paragraph isn't one long sentence.
Typographical errors certainly occur, as do proofreading errors. But that's part of my point: it seems nearly no one bothers with even so much as a cursory proofread of their posts any more; "...must post immediately, must reply immediately, no time to check, SOMEONE IS WRONG ON THIS PLATFORM!!!!!!!" Fear of Missing Out? Or just, and I suspect this more than anything else, simple laziness?
Load More Replies...Oooo lately what's been driving me crazy is the people who write "would of" "should of" etc.. when it's "would've" "should've"... Also people write "ect" a lot 💀
Would have. Should have. This one is very annoying.
Load More Replies...As a person with English (especially the American "version") as a foreign language, what bothers me most is this inflationary use of phrases being abbreviated. Like SAHM, AITA etc.. Is it laziness or the insecurity of spelling out sentences correctly? I don´t know, but I find it doesn´t help improving mutual understanding. And sometimes it feels a bit presumptuous, to assume everyone knows what your talking about.
Here in France, they LOVE initials. This might be because a lot of French things are a real mouthful to say in full: CAF = Caisse d'Allocations Familiales (social services that pays benefits); SAMU = Service d'Aide Médicale Urgente (ambulance); ASSEDIC = Association pour l’emploi dans l’industrie et le commerce (you might pay them for your pension); EHPAD = Établissement d’hébergement pour personnes âgées dépendantes (nursing home); CEDEX = Courrier d’entreprise à distribution exceptionnelle (like a PO Box for big companies); CFDT = Confédération française démocratique du travail (a worker's union); SMIC = salaire minimum interprofessionnel de croissance (minimum wage); etc etc.
Load More Replies...@Al Gebruh: You seem to be a quiet unsympathetic person. Sometimes it´s ok to hold your tongue, if you can´t say something nice, or at least not something to judgemental or offensive. You must have the impression/feeling you stand relatively high above (most) others. That degrades your external impression to a level you might find hard to restore. Or you just don´t want/need social contact. It´s easy to be rude online, isn´t it. I wonder if you act the same in "real life"? If so, you probably are a lonely person.
That is mostly a US thing and a way of thinking. If you however turn it a tad more general e.g. that one should be able to express oneself grammatically correct in the languages they use then I'll agree.
Yes, I thought so. But not everyone on this page is from the US and/or native speaker/fluent in English. There is a world outside... And this page is not even located in the U.S., if I´m right?
Load More Replies...It sometimes amuses me that those who use english as a second, third or fourth language really rarely make these mistakes. I guess that when earning a language from scratch at school you really focus on writing correctly, and mostly these words come in really early in your education. Of course we make mistakes too, but these words are in the basic layer of our English learning that it's hard to mess them.
Ignoring social media, especially the fake world of insta and the absurd platform TikTok. Nothing good will ever come of it, as the last years have shown us. Younger people have lost the ability to be truly social, thinking a filtered and faked platform can somehow replace interaction with real beings.
You can be social online still. So much of my family is still on Facebook, but they're there to talk to relatives and to show holiday photos. Not exciting, but real
You don't need social media for that, but ok. I was referring to younger people and most of them place way too much attention or value in online clout. If you get your validation in life from likes and followers, you're not a human being anymore.
Load More Replies...IRL socializing has to get mixed in with online. People forget how to do it !
Interesting thought. Especially when using a social network platform for expressing it.
Using it sometimes, or in a healthy manner is one thing. What most people are doing is...well, insane tbh. and very unhealthy
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Listening skills.
I’m sorry, but I don’t understand what point you’re trying to make? Is it that you want to highlight the difference between “I heard what you said” vs. “I understand what you said”? As your comment stands, it comes across as disagreeing with, or correcting, someone else, which is confusing because there’s nothing written by anyone else to do.
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Oh and I will add one more 'common sense'......such a lack of it these days.
“Common sense” is a flower that does not grow in everyone’s garden
"...and some fell on stony ground..." Interesting parable.
Load More Replies...Common sense and deodorant have one thing in common. Those who need it most don't use it.
I had to look this up. Turns out you mean RARIFIED sense. It's honestly fascetious to call it in any way common after the last ten years.
How to be kind.
This one is hard. Not because others aren't (which they aren't), but being in your own little mind means you often don't know even how. Everyone like me: Pay attention at choke points, give room, hold doors, etc. Problems are easier to see there.
Just ask, what you can do to help and if it is wanted. That´s pretty easy.
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Basic understanding of money management plus how to cook simple dishes.
It makes absolutely no sense that a teenager, much less a young adult, doesn't even know how to properly fry an egg, bake a cake from a mix, or toss a decent salad.
Yes home-economics should still be required. Teach basic home skills, cook, clean, simple money management, and other skills.
Load More Replies...My daughter is a teen, she loves to cook. However what she tells me about her classmates is that 95% are not thought, uninterested and can't cook. Also sad thing is that the one other girl that wants to learn to cook is not allowed without permanent supervision. I'm seriously thinking that a majority of current parents are raising dysfunctional offspring.
Politeness and an understanding of grammar and spelling...
Basic automotive maintenance:
How to check your fluids, change a tire, etc. ...
This! Boys and girls should have at least a basic understanding of car maintenance. My dad made sure all of his daughters could at least put on a spare to get to a safe place. Sure, strangers are often very kind and helpful, but a young person on the highway at night is just a sitting duck.
Join an auto club. The dues are cheap and even if you use it just once for a tow truck, it has paid its worth.
Load More Replies...Worked at an office and one of the young guys in customer service had a flat tyre. He rang a local garage who wanted £80 to come out and change it for the spare, not a repair just change it! Not one of about ten colleagues had ever changed a tyre. I told him to decline and I would show whoever wanted to watch how to do it after work. I had eight young blokes and four young ladies stand and watch me change it in about ten minutes. They were shocked how easy, apart from a bit of physicality, it was to change. Using a telescopic wrench helps, it was only about £12.
Yup. Mom drove over a nail coming to pick me up from when I finished night shift. So I got her a hot chocolate from the vending machine and had her sit in the car while I jacked it up and changed the wheel in the pouring rain at five in the morning. The hardest part? Getting the bloody thing lined up to sling the damaged tyre back under the car (it was far too wet to just put it in the boot). In the end I cheated and used the jack to raise it up to the right place. It was physical, yes, but not complicated. Just undo the spare, jack up the car (with the car in gear and handbrake on so it wasn't going to move), undo four bolts, roll the old tyre aside, roll the replacement in place, line it up, do the bolts loosely, then spin the wheel and shake it a bit so it sits well, then tighten the bolts, then remove the jack and do something with the old tyre. As long as you have some strength in your arms, it's not any harder than wiring a plug...
Load More Replies...Some of these things are made harder by modern "smart" cars. Like, no spare tire and no tools in the car.
You don't get a spare tyre, but you will get a canister of squirty stuff that will get the flat tyre back up to a sort of functional state so that you can limp to a garage to get it sorted. As for the tools, yeah, I'm with you on that, given that more and more often you need to dismantle things in order to change a lightbulb. That being said, have you seen repair manuals these days? When I was a child they'd tell you how to Blue Peter a gizmo to compress piston rings from a soft drink can. These days they feel the need to warn you not to drink the wiper fluid...
Load More Replies...I learned to change a tire in driving school in 1974. I have done it 3 times always for friends! ( knock on wood)
Yes you can add the "NO Road Rage Rule" and absolutely "NO STREET RACING" Rule too! Only Video games have a pause/restart button, Real Life does not!
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Cooking. Swimming. Basic blade safety and maintenance. Basic first aid.
Half of my family lives in the countryside and many of them hunt elk etc. Firearm safety is absolutely important for everyone, even and especially if you're never going to use a weapon.
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Know when to speak and when to shut up.
Having the freedom of speech does not equate to saying everything. Also, it prevents the government to take legal action against you. But it doesn't protect you from the fist smashing your teeth if you say something stupid to someone else.
Patience. How to wait instead of "getting it all right now." Recognizing that wanting and needing are not the same. Working toward your goals.
Also sometimes you don't understand something straight away (theoretical physics). Give it and yourself time (life)
I worked in Pediatrics and it always amazed me how spoiled a good c***k of the kids were all because of their parents not wanting to parent and deal with the child being upset for even just a minute so they can learn a lesson.
It's so frustrating to see parents, grown adults, scramble to provide everything their offspring ask for, for fear of upsetting them. My generation was told, "If you want it, earn it!" and we did, or waited until we saved up for it or the family could afford it. The waiting made us appreciate getting things even more, and we learned som practical lessons.
Load More Replies...This also may de called "delayed gratification." One of the longest-running psychological experiments involved testing children aged 4–6. They were given a marshmallow which they could eat right away, but if they would wait for a few minutes, they would get a second one. Life result: the kids who were able to wait did better throughout their lives—education, jobs, marriage. The "instant gratification" kids scored higher in disciplinary trouble, crime, college dropout, etc. (Source: The Happiness Hypothesis by Jonathan Haidt.)
The basic skill of respecting other people. Not deferring, or agreeing, or bending the knee, just basic human respect. If you don't like or agree with their choices (like clothing, and religion), or non-choices (like race and sexual orientation/gender identity), then try either shutting up and letting them be, or trying to understand them, or maybe moving on to topics you do agree on? Hmm? Basic respect for other human beings?
If you don't respect people's very basic right to exist, then you broke the respect rule and I won't respect you either. Someone disagrees with my views on anything else? Let's debate like it's the 90s :)
💯 x 💯 You do not have to convince other people that they’re wrong and you’re right.
The ability to see flaws in themselves and be willing to try to change them to become a better person.
I like this one. Do be sure and consider not everyone agrees on what is and is not a flaw, however.
How to use a checking account. When I was a bank teller, I was kinda horrified by the amount of customers who had no idea how basic checking worked. They had no idea how to balance their checkbook. This was especially true of recent high school graduates. We always took the time to educate them. Just wondered why their parents never did. Actually had more than one customer who said, "I can't be out of money. I still have checks left."
Agreed, I am old and remember keeping a checkbook. Now I check my accounts on my apps to verify where my money has gone and it only went where it should have.
Load More Replies...Ok, what the ef is a checkbook in this? No way it's the checks from the 80s. Balancing accounts I could do, btw
Most people don't use cheques. I think it's mainly in the US that they're used nowadays, and probably by older people. I don't even think banks in the UK issue cheque books anymore and haven't done for years.
I tend to get people to write the cheques for me in France, because it's kind of backwards to how British cheques are written, plus writing monetary amounts with correct spelling... I mean, I could learn I suppose, but I've had my chequebook for nearly twenty years and written about five cheques in that time. It's all pay-by-bonk these days.
Computer basics. Even in a smartphone. As in here are your programs: how to make folders, how to delete things. The basics.
Yes! I have met people who only know how to text and use facebook or other social media. I maintain files that I upload to my cloud containing contacts, medication and instructions for my pet or house sitters.
I can't use a smartphone to save my life. But on this desktop PC I use, I do email and Facebook - because I have no desire to use anything else. I have documents in organized files. I have email accounts that are used for different things. I know the basics of the programs I have.
Sewing. So many people are surprised when I say I know how to sew. And that I do my own (minor) car maintenance. Basic spelling and grammar seem to be lost. Can't stand it when people write out "would of" "could of" etc. when it's really "would've" "could've" (would have, could have) also a lot of people write etcetera as "ect"... this all seems like elementary school knowledge, or at least it was when I was a kid.
*I do my own minor car maintenance* -here I go on a rant about grammar and my sleepy typing turns that into "info" 🤣💀
Reading and writing. Yes, you have them, but how's your skill in writing well with minimum mistakes in grammar and spelling? You read but how is your reading comprehension? Can you tell me what you read a day later?
Sometimes I couldn't even tell you what I'm reading as I'm reading it.
How to build, light and control a campfire.
In some circumstances, oddly enough, too much fuel can prevent a fire from starting.
Load More Replies...Raise your hand if you think you can do it on the first try! Not me. With luck maybe, but probably the third campfire would have everything right to work
If you like to hike in the wilderness, yes. In urban areas...why exactly?
Let's just say, emergency preparedness. In a natural disaster, your urban areas will become wilderness. With luck, and good government response, that will be remedied. Meanwhile, you are on your own.
Load More Replies...Definitely not stones from a creek. They may shatter into shrapnel. (Steam explosion)
Load More Replies...Basic math. I know it's a lost art by now with everyone using cards or apps, but knowing math helps when budgeting. Do know what's in your account and what you can spend? If you do use cash, are you sure you're getting the correct change back? Wanna thank my dad for that lesson.
I have dyscalculia so my brain doesn't like to process numbers. I have to use a calculator for what most people consider simple match. It's something I have to work hard at.
Upvote as I have dyscalculia too. I don't use a calculator often though, I just round things up to easier to manage amounts. Like €13,99? Okay, that's fifteen. It doesn't have to be precise, it just has to be good enough.
Load More Replies...Basic manners and politeness, like letting people get out of an elevator first, greeting people, etc.
Grammar, spelling, punctuation, and capitalization.
Especially avoiding 'they, their, them' when the biological s*x of the antecedent is known.
Swimming.
basic "can swim something like 50m" is good "can float" is even better
Really? But a generic "Cooking" is okay? 🤷♀️
Load More Replies...Cooking. Also, "changing:" -Men: changing a diaper; Women: changing a tire.
All three should be on the skill list for everyone regardless of gender
Reading cursive.
Writing cursive. It's not just words on paper. It reflects your personality, your level of security and confidence, and it is uniquely yours. It can be a thing of beauty or it can identify a criminal. It reflects dignity or lack thereof.
I can't remember the last time I needed to read something in cursive. Grew up reading and writing it, and that's a skill I don't think I've needed for 30 years. Personally, I'm looking forward to a time where doctors have not learned cursive, and those rare ones who write a prescription instead of calling it in will actually be legible. Pharmacists shouldn't have to try to puzzle out someone's med.
"Need," maybe not. But I like being able to read Grandpa's letters home to his parents.
Load More Replies...The only cursive I do now is my signature, my cursive was always terrible so when my daughter was in the military in the days before email/texts she asked that I print letters to her as she couldn't read my handwriting.
Not needed. Saying this as someone who writes modified cursive natively.
From Robert A. Heinlein: “A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.” I think *maybe* I can manage about 17 of those. Many of them badly, but still...
Jack of all trades, master of none. In all seriousness, you can master dozen of skills, and still be fully confident that some others are outside your scope. I think with every newer generation people are learning new skills but not for life rather work, whereas previous generations had skills from life utilized for work.
Mmm, not sure I’d follow every bit of advice Robert Heinlein gave. I say, don’t beat yourself up because you’re not good at everything. Don’t keep trying to force yourself to do something you know you’re not good at. Instead, find what you ARE good at, hone that skill like a finely-sharpened knife, and knock it out of the park. It’s much better for your self-confidence.
As I understand the quote, it doesn't say you need to be good at all those things; just be able to accomplish them.
Load More Replies...Heinlein coming for your self made fantasy. 8 at most and that's me being nice to myself
I've tried to con a ship, but they were always too smart for me.
How to Think.
A good second would be how to speak.
No, it's about speaking with courtesy and sincerity, exchanging ideas, and considering the consequences of one's words. This applies in all languages.
Load More Replies...As a shift manager in a factory, I just wish all people had the skill to do their job proactively.
As someone who's been that shift worker - how about enough pay that I have some reason to care. Minimum pay - minimum effort.
That's exactly the problem. Irrespective of salary, it's never enough, and so people don't do their job for the same old argument. You asked for a job, they gave you a job, do the job, and if you think you're better than the job, get a better job, otherwise, just come in and do the job you applied for. Doing it proactively takes no more effort, it just means you divert all the energy you use to keep moaning about your job into doing your job better. Dassit!!!!!!
Load More Replies...I worked as a supervisor in a factory also. There are people who strive to do things right, improve methods, help others and require no direction. Then there are people in all jobs who just show up and do the minimum to collect the paycheck.
So that a manager would be obsolete? I worked as a manager myself, as well as under manager. Guess who worked harder("proactive") and earned less?
That's the concept. You look to people working smarter, not harder as managers.
Load More Replies...Lefty loosey, Righty tighty.
Bad joke. 'Son, you always want to date a right handed woman because righty tighty, lefty loosey. You don't want to throw a hot dog down a hallway'
Even when I'm reaching around the tire to loosen the brake bracket.
Balance a checkbook.
Maybe a better way to put it would be, “Keep track of how much money you’ve spent.”
Does anyone even have a checkbook any more? I've not had one in 20 years.
Accepting that if people warn you for something (wrong boyfriend, spending to much, drinking to much), you will end up loosing those people if you don't change that behavour.
Living of the money you have instead of the money you want.
I made it through having all of the skills named except for two: butchering a hog and balancing a checkbook (because I don't use checks or a checkbook).
Sorry, I thought I was commenting! Here is my actual list addition: The ability to set and keep a boundary.
Being on time for something. Better yet, being *early* for something. I shudder to think how much of my life I've wasted just hanging around somewhere waiting on other people showing up for something.
Being too early can be as bad as being late. If I've asked you to be here at seven o'clock, don't turn up at six-thirty while I'm in the shower or prepping food. EDIT: OK, which absolute Muppet did I upset this time? Kindly take your downvote and insert it where the sun doesn't shine.
Load More Replies...One thing that people are increasingly unable to do is to understand that there is a difference between what one wants to be true and what is actually true.
Some opinions are buried at a place in your brain, where facts will never be able to go.
Load More Replies...Reading through these answers it's incredible to realize how many of these skills were learned and/or honed in the Boy Scouts. Cooking, mechanics, money management, manners.
So many repetutishuns, all sayin the same stuff over an over 'gain - pacifically 'bout spellin' and grammer. ;)
Being on time for something. Better yet, being *early* for something. I shudder to think how much of my life I've wasted just hanging around somewhere waiting on other people showing up for something.
Being too early can be as bad as being late. If I've asked you to be here at seven o'clock, don't turn up at six-thirty while I'm in the shower or prepping food. EDIT: OK, which absolute Muppet did I upset this time? Kindly take your downvote and insert it where the sun doesn't shine.
Load More Replies...One thing that people are increasingly unable to do is to understand that there is a difference between what one wants to be true and what is actually true.
Some opinions are buried at a place in your brain, where facts will never be able to go.
Load More Replies...Reading through these answers it's incredible to realize how many of these skills were learned and/or honed in the Boy Scouts. Cooking, mechanics, money management, manners.
So many repetutishuns, all sayin the same stuff over an over 'gain - pacifically 'bout spellin' and grammer. ;)
