Folks Open Up About 30 Things In Their Homes Which Sounded Great But Ended Up Being 100% Awful
In the old days, people loved to say: “My home is my fortress!” And they were not wrong. Since ancient times, home has been kind of a sacred place where we feel protected and confident. A place of power, if you will.
However, any place of power also has its drawbacks. And we, as rational beings, must admit this. Any home, even the most beloved and cozy one, is not without shortcomings. We’re ready to put up with some of them, while other ones we try to correct to the best of our ability. And it’s precisely these shortcomings of their homes that people are talking about in this viral thread in the AskReddit community.
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Flat roof. We had our house inspected twice before we moved in and the roof passed because it was new. What no one told us is that a flat roof in the winter (we bought in August) is a nightmare in Michigan. After 8 years of living with it, we finally had the roofline rebuilt to a normal slope and never looked back. Twenty years later and never had a leak in that room again. Lesson - never ever buy a house with any type of flat roof.
Yaps, flat roofs are specific mainly to mediterranean countries for a very good reason.
Oh god. Have you never seen an alpine home? Very steep roof angle for a reason. Flat roof = snow accumulation = a LOT of extra weight on the roof (average 20lbs per cubic foot) = sagging & eventually caving in.
Yeah, why would anyone think a flat roof is a good idea anywhere it snows.
Load More Replies...I live in Canada on the top floor. I don't know why flat roofs are thing even with apartments. I'm not sure they get shovelled. Every winter, especially as the temperature fluctuates, we hear what are called "icequakes". Loud banging above that sounds like Thor is hitting the roof with his mallet.
Flat roofs have one big advantage: they are cheaper
Load More Replies...We live in South Africa so a flat roof isn't a problem snow-wise since it never (well... hardy ever...) snows in Johannesburg. But the house is FREEZING in winter and boiling in summer (we do not have such a thing as central heating in this country). I'd say I don't know what the builder was thinking but I do because it was my dad (he was a bricklayer by trade although worked in a white collar job for 35 years). He thought a flat roof with corrugated iron nailed into place would make it hard for criminals to get in through the roof. I miss you, Dad, but it's winter now and I'm cold!
Had a few friends with flat roofs, but this is in Arizona. The roof was slightly angled so the rain flowed to openings that led to a water cistern. Roofs were painted white to reflect the sun. In nice nights we slept up there.
As an architect with 20 years of experience, I will say that a properly installed flat roof is far superior to a pitched roof. A fully-welded continuous membrane is far less prone to leaking than a pitched roof. And, flat roofs are not flat. They always have some slope. Even in Michigan, basically every commercial building has a flat roof, some that span for acres, and they last decades without leaks, and the effect on snow-loading is a small percentage increase of structure. The only reason we still build pitched roofs at all anymore is just because people like the way they look, and most of them are single-family homes. You had a bad roof, and probably a bad roofer.
I had a place with a flat roof in Chicago and not only was it great, but the very few problems that I had were quick, affordable, and easy to fix. In central Illinois in just a few years my pitched roof on a tall house has been a consistent issue.
Load More Replies...When I was in architecture school in Georgia (US), my professors would go on about how the only reason to have a slanted roof was because of clinging to nostalgia. I asked about snow load, and they argued that modern technology made it irrelevant. I hated that program so much. When I brought up the tradition of log homes as a viable modern building technique in some areas, they talked about how having the logs vertical would be truer to the nature of the materials. It all felt like so much BS.
My aunt's house has flat roof. in was built in the early 1980s (flat roofs very in fashion back then) and over the years, house had multiple repairs because of leaking. Also rooms on second floor were always very hot during summer and cold in the winter.
Open concept! I thought I would love it, but now I would kill for a separate kitchen area. It makes our house feel like an apartment.
I've always hated open concept. I'm a big fan of doors.
I don't understand why someone would want to see (and smell) their kitchen from the lounge.
Load More Replies...I love open concept. I do most of the cooking (by choice) and when we had a separated kitchen I just felt so isolated. And when people did come into the kitchen to talk to me they often got in the way. Now I can be part of the conversation, listen to the music or the TV, all while cooking.
Some people like being able to socialize with one's guest while preparing dinner. My wife hates all the kitchen noise and living area TV noise interfering with each others activities.
Love open concept and would never go back. It’s great being in the middle of things instead of in the kitchen while family life happens elsewhere or everyone underfoot. It might be ok if I had a huge kitchen with a sitting area.
Raised a kid in one, 1200 sq ft grate room w open kitchen off to the side. Never agin... The comments below, where there is no where to go, are 100% correct. I am currently holed up in my office (I WFH) as my MIL moved in and there is no where to go out of her site lines. I constantly take calls in the garage and am seriously considering building an office shed just to get the heck out. We have 4 tv's as no one wants to bother anyone with the big TV in the middle of everything, so everyone holes up in their room. Cooking, you can't have any tunes on if anyone is watching TV (too loud) so ya gotta go headphones. Even if you want to watch, YOU ARE COOKING!!! I can go on and on.... No Bueno.
I really wish all my lower kitchen cabinets were pull out drawers! I hate having to get down on the floor to rummage around to find that pan at the back of the cabinet.
Put everything in big plastic tubs so you pull out the whole tub & put it on the bench. It’s much easier
Easier to convert the shelves in those cabinets to pull-out. And add a pull-out tray to the ones that don't have separate shelves. Did it myself on one particular set of cabinets about a decade ago and it's awesome.
Load More Replies...Agree, you can get aftermarket sliders that essentially turn cupboards into drawers.
They make baskets that slide out on glides like drawers, one of the best things I ever bought.
This is why I put up one of those pot/pan bars over my sink. My lower cabinets are so narrow and deep. Keeps them from getting scratched too. The biggest pan I have goes in that drawer under the range.
You can easily add drawers in your cabinets they even have ready made ones at home depot
Some of the shortcomings of the houses discussed in these stories, collected by Bored Panda, are discovered only after the purchase of the house - and then, after the transaction has already taken place, the new owners have no choice but to accept it or begin repairs. Even if the real estate agent said that there are simply no flaws in this house. After all, it's their job - to say this, isn't it?
I knew what I was getting into.
But at times, a second bathroom would be really nice.
One bathroom per person. Even half a bathroom with just a toilet and sink would be nice. I live with one other person. Too many times one of us is pleading the other to hurry up because we can't hold it no longer.
Tangent: So, in Pittsburgh, there's occasionally a toilet in the middle of the basement. It's there and there's a sink and such, but no walls. Just, "Oh yeah, there's my toilet in the middle of a basement." It's called a Pittsburgh potty. I'm pretty sure my house growing up had one, because it's a tiny bathroom shoved in a weird spot, and also the laundry chute empties to there which only really makes sense if there isn't a wall between it and the laundry room, but fortunately someone put walls around it at some point.
Ib older homes basement toilets were installed above the sewer line to act as a safety valve, diverting backups away.
Load More Replies...Yeah we’re missing some crucial info here. What were they getting into? Did they buy a place with one bathroom? Renovate one out to be something else?
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A flock of turkeys will encircle my car when I pull in the driveway on a semi regular basis. They are decently aggressive, and the only thing that I found to work is to repeatedly open an umbrella in their faces, and continue to scare them until they jump off the cliff next to my driveway.
This sounds made up, but is my life.
There's turkeys who live in the cemetery near me, I was driving in there one day (going to my grandparents' graves) and I stopped the car and they basically surrounded me and would not leave. Tried slowly driving towards them to scare them (wasn't actually going to run them over) and they were completely unfazed. Those bastards fear no man and no god
An old friend of my mother moved into a giant mansion with a big pond out front, in which several swans lived. The first time friend walked down her very long driveway to go get her mail, she was attacked by all of the swans. For the rest of the years she lived in that house, she had to drive to the mailbox or the swans would chase her back into the house.
Try Canadian cobra chickens (geese) with babies. They bite and will charge you.
Dear God, I still have nightmares 20 yrs later about the time a grey goose attacked me. I needed some Grey Goose after that. I could barely walk for four days and sitting down was awful too--the bed only. I was a full time student with 5 classes and a part time job on campus--that week was brutal. I found out later it had a nest nearby.
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I second not having a pantry. I had no idea how much that would bother me until living with my food in the kitchen cabinets for 8 years.
Would I like a pantry? Yes. Does the house have space to build one? No.
Same. All my food is stuffed in my cabinet that should be for glasses or smaller items. It's only me, so it works some what. I even have stuff like seran wrap, sugar, raisins, etc under my cabinets by the sink (not directly under the sink). I do have a huge closet in my garage, but who wants to go out there every time I need a can of soup or something. Plus, I had a rat out there before, so I got rid of all the food packages that they could easily eat through.
Load More Replies...Most people in my country don't have a pantry to speak of. I'm reading some of the comments and going ??? what do you mean, "food in the kitchen cabinets" isn't that where the food is supposed to live? ETA I have come up with a hypothesis. It might be because my country is small and everything is walkable/cyclable, so people don't need to stock up on food as much as our US counterparts?
Yeah my English self was surprised by this, it's not unheard of to have a pantry here but it's uncommon.
Load More Replies...Maybe this is an add-on to the problems with open concept?
Load More Replies...What does this one mean? I thought the category was things we regret having, but this person seems to miss having a pantry. Why is this here?
I would say nowhere because there is no space. I lived five years in such a small place. Had to go shopping quite often but I am lucky to live somewhere, where the next supermarket is just one or two streets away
Load More Replies...Our pantry as such is small, not a walk in. We use one of the hall cupboards (it’s a 3 door so lots of space) as an overflow pantry and that works well.
A separate category should include various manifestations of the unbridled architectural imagination of the builders or previous owners of the house. Especially when your idea of home comfort is in clear contradiction with the gloomy genius of the architect.
This is how doors appear that prevent each other from opening, extra steps that have no practical meaning (but are a source of constant falls in the dark), or kitchen hoods that exhaust air back into the kitchen. Don't believe me? I didn’t believe it either until I read a couple of similar stories right in this collection!
Hood over the stove that doesn't vent outside, in an otherwise good, functional kitchen. WHY DO PEOPLE TAKE THIS SHORTCUT (especially since in this house, you can see where the old one did vent out)???
Brand new house we built. I lived 400 miles away, so couldn't be on-site to babysit the contractors. During Covid. You would think the hvac guys wouldn't put the lines right through where the vent would go through to the outside. You would be wrong. My poor general contractor had to go through some tricky manuvering to get it through. Screenshot...2d-png.jpg
First, in many places there are regulations that do not allow to vent outside except by using a roof chimney. That's super common in apartment blocks. Second, a venting hood requires routine cleaning of the pipes, that most people don't do until it becomes a safety risk (fire from grease buildup). Third, recirculating hoods are significantly cheaper to install, and are perfectly suitable for the work they are designed to do: is cooling the smoke and letting the grease solidify out of the air and on the metal mesh filter.
Builders do this because it's cheaper. The construction crew doesn't care. They won't live there.
We had one like that in one apartment in our Alpine Chalet. Was (re-)fitted probably in the 1990s, with an extractor fan, the venting tube going upward through the cupboard and then boxed in on top of the units going all the way, about 160cm), to the wall. And then stopping. I was redoing the whole kitchen, needed just one extra venting piece and ten minutes with a hole saw (inner and outer walls made of wood with 30cm insulation between). Why had they gone to all that effort but not done the last little bit to vent into the open air?
This is mostly in rental properties. A hood above a stove, even unvented, lets you charge a little more every month
They're a nightmare to clean. Even more so if unvented.
Load More Replies...during my kitchen reno, the contractor suggested getting rid of the venting to the outside so i could get rid of the soffit and extend the cabinets to the ceiling...didn't take the advice b/c i wanted a vent that worked and i already knew from several apartments that you will never use those cabinets at ceiling height (unless you really want to hang onto vintage appliances and servingware that you never use)
Black. Shower. Tile. and I'm the a*****e who picked it out.
Coffee coloured carpets are great. The look warm and inviting and they don't show coffee spills. :D
Load More Replies...I had a black toilet in my last house. It looks dusty all the time, and there's something unnerving about not being able see your pee. I don't know why and I can't explain it.
We put black granite in one of the bathrooms and I HATE it. Never looks clean, even right after I've just cleaned it. Any drip of water leaves a mark too.
I thought it was a better option than white or cream. I struggle with the dirty that appear.
Load More Replies...I hate hard water. I wish I could afford a whole home water softner setup. I'm forever wiping down my faucets for fear of a stain setting in.
Load More Replies...I hated those small tiles in our shower. They are a pain to clean! I like those big tiles for the showers, less grout to clean and it just looks nicer.
Small tiles can be beneficial - if you have a very uneven wall to tile. Big tiles don't accomodate that so well. I speak from very personal experience. How I've ended up tiling other people's homes as well is a mystery to me!!
Load More Replies...forgive my dumb question, but what's wrong with black tile in the shower?
Oof, yes! I chose walnut colored wood-look porcelain tile for my current place... Shows EVERYTHING! I should have known better, since my first car was black and I had to wash and dry it everyday (even if it was well-waxed) to make it look spotless - all my vehicles since have been white/silver, they almost always look clean! My buddy keeps saying he wishes he bought dark tile... No, it looks beautiful, but unless you like constant cleaning - don't!
A pool. We thought, "awesome, a pool!" Always thought we'd like one but didn't understand what goes into it and in all the excitement of house buying didn't really look into it until we got here. The costs outweigh the benefits for us. So now we have to either pay all the maintenance costs of running it to use it only a few times per week for a few months out of the year (in Ohio), or pay a bunch up front to demolish it. Every time I look outside it stresses me out, just a giant behemoth of a problem to solve.
Turn it into a pond, that's what my grandparents did (plants in weighed down plastic pots, solar powered mini fountain for oxygen, self sustaining population of goldfish and lots of tadpoles etc to eat mosquito larvae). Still some maintenance, but a lot less and also nice to look at.
My aunt used to live in a house with a pool. She wasn't interested in the upkeep at all, so she planted water lilies and other plants in it. Shortly after, a pond nearby was removed, so overnight, it filled with an endless amount of frogs and a single duck that was probably of a non native species and just lived there as a self chosen pet for years until it passed away. The best part is, one could still swim in it. It just wasn't clean at all, and you'd get escaping frogs in your face, or the curious duck.
Load More Replies...Our neighbours had a pool. They eventually had it filled in. Then they moved away, and a family with kids moved in. They dug the pool out. A few months later I heard splashing and children's laughter as they held a pool party for the kids. So cute. :D But yeah, most people I know who own a pool basically never use the damn thing and it just sits there collecting leaves. We've got a lake about five minutes away if you want to go swimming.
Do you find the people who own a pool and never use it are the ones who get really irritated when their guests want to use it?
Load More Replies...That is why when it came time to retire to a small town, it had to have an aquatics center. I swim laps everyday. Total cost: $160 per year.
My friend with a pool refers to it as the giant hole in his backyard that he pours money into. Unless you're very well off, don't buy a house with a pool. They're money pits. Just go to the public pool/pond/lake/beach on weekends in the summer. Or a friend's house that has a pool!
A pool is one of those things ya love or hate. I had one at every house I owned when I lived in Texas, wouldn't have a house without one. Now I live in the north, don't want one.
I had a pool- my gas lighting ex told me I was incapable of taking care of it. After I kicked him out I had to learn how. I got the pool guy to show me. I set up my video camera to record everything and took a lot of notes. Before long I was a pro! It’s very good exercise.
And, of course, the neighbors. There are many tales about this - and countless more stories will be told. In a perfect world, neighbors are those with whom you BBQ together on the weekends and go to watch football with on Sundays. But this world, alas, is far from perfect... There are also a couple of stories dedicated to the neighbors in our selection, so go through the list, you won’t regret it!
The fact that the sun which should hit our house and garden is blocked out entirely from October to end of March by the building behind us. By 1 meter - my upstairs neighbor is in full sun. Now I know why previous owners put this place up in early spring 🤦♀️.
I on the other hand, dread the day when the gigantic tree behind our house (on our neighbors property) may need to come down. It somewhat shades the setting sun from hitting our house.
In anticipation of this, can you start growing your own? A tree that is large but grows well in the current shady situation.
Load More Replies...In my mother's old house, I used to sleep in the basement all summer because the sun hit my bedroom first thing in the morning and turned the room into a furnace. And the central air conditioning sucked, so the room never cooled down.
Yup. North facing Duplex. Four meters away from another duplex... At least I'm in South Africa and it's summer for most of the year, so it's nice and cool
Last time I lived behind an apartment block it was a nightmare. Tenants were nosy. They had balconies. When that building got turned into condos (every one of the tenants were kicked out.) the contractors doing renoes moved in. There was no property manager on site. They had parties spilling out on their balconies, always had friends over and heckled the homeowners out in their yard. When new condo tenants moved in nothing improved. One young adult was given a condo facing our house, her dad bought it for her, according to the new superintendent. She had loud parties, people throwing bottles, some nearly landing in my yard. The super said she had a lot of complaints against her but because she's technically a condo owner she can't be evicted. Absolute nightmare.
Our living room is one step down from the kitchen. Why? Because f**k you, that's why. Can't tell you how many times my kids have tripped up/down that one step.
My house-to-garage door comes in at an angle and with only enough room to open the door. Go left to the kitchen and living room, right to the front door and upstairs, or straight into the bathroom. It's become a huge bottleneck with everybody always running into each other at that intersection. Also makes it hard to bring in furniture.
My Aunt and Uncle had a sunken living room in the 1980s. Multiple older relatives got hurt at their house and their kids probably took a few tumbles too. I visited again in the 2000s and they had remodeled to make the whole house 1 level. They'd also redone their super steep driveway
Sunken living rooms were a big fad in the 70's. I suspect it was a plot by orthopedics and ER doctors! :)
My Grandmother had a sunken living room and one wall had floor to ceiling dark turquoise shag carpeting. The 60's, yah baby.
Let me make all of you laugh.... I live in an old farmhouse. I am currently buying it from my landlord because he knows I love it. There are some things to......well.... it's interesting. The house was built in sections. The living room was the one room house for a while, then they added what is my bedroom. Then they created a long narrow back porch that eventually became a galley kitchen that you have to step down into. Then they added two bedrooms off of that that you must step up into. When I moved in the galley kitchen was now the laundry area/hallway, and a bathroom added at the end, and one of the bedrooms is now the kitchen. I like to call myself the Stairmaster.
Family home growing up also had a sunken living room. It was built on a hill and originally had a large lawn, but it was added to in the eighties, I think it was, and the only way to get stuff to fit was with a step down.
Kind of like a split level. Garage lower level, kitchen on second level. Groceries up the stairs, garbage goes down stairs. Our other house was a ranch style, all one level. Moved to my parents house when my Dad died and all the bedrooms on the second level. My Dad had put in a stair life for my Mom and it's really has come in handy when I started not being able to climb.
We bought this home sight unseen from 2,000 miles away- the first time we saw it was when we pulled into the driveway. My family had toured it for me and helped but a lot of things were a surprise.
Given that, I am remarkably in love with it after living here for 17 years and feel like we did an excellent job choosing it.
BUT there is a side door from the side porch that enters the kitchen and the door/stairway to the basement is right there in such a way that you have to close the exterior door to go down the stairs. You can't walk in the back door and go straight down the stairs to the basement, you have to come in and close the door behind you first even if the door to the stairway is kept open.
It's a small thing that only comes up when we have to move something from outside down the stairs like a mattress. Fortunately it's easy enough to take things around outside and in the basement door.
This home also has what's known as a tuck-under garage.
It is not visible from the front of the house- you have to drive around back and enter it next to the walk-out basement door. The way the patio roof support posts are arranged means there is zero way to ever get a car into it. Which is fine, we likely wouldn't anyway as we use it more for lawn equipment storage.
No one noticed that there was no dishwasher- I don't use one anyway, I just find it funny that no one ever noticed.
And when we moved in we thought the fenced yard was the entire property, but when we had it surveyed later on for fence moving possibilities we discovered that we also owned a huge portion of the woods behind us. We have acreage! It's still untouched but it's wonderful that there can always be woods behind me with no possibility ever of anyone building anything.
It's been interesting.
I think for some places in the US it's against code to have it going the other way.
Load More Replies...Oh wow I would seriously be thrilled if I found out that I accidentally owned a small forest. I love trees!
And still, no matter what the shortcomings in our homes are, this will not stop us from loving them, will it? Because these are homes where we grew up, or which we bought ourselves - and this gives them some certain sentimental value in our eyes. And, in the end, why not tell us some amusing story about your house? By the way, you, too, may well perceive this as a call to action, so please feel free to share your own tales in the comments here!
No door to the backyard. There is one to the driveway, but its not the same
I too do not have a pantry. Very irritating. No real closets at all actually.
Since my house is over 100 years old, the attic that is now my bedroom gets hot in the summer and cold in the winter.
No second bathroom and no place to put one!
Oh goodness, currently dealing with that in our house. Our house (built 1908) was originally one level, with an attic. The attic was converted into two bedrooms, a short hallway with decent closets on one side, and a half bathroom. Oh. My. Goodness. It is so hot up there. Even late at night. We're sleeping downstairs, with the AC 😅 we can't put AC upstairs because of how the windows open. But whatever, now every night after work feels like a fun sleepover!!
The ones that sit on the floor and just have a vent outside are great for this. You can cover the opening any shape and just put the hose in the covering.
Load More Replies...A new 800 square foot mini house is being built on a small plot of land down the street. It has zero closets. And really no interior space for wardrobes. I wonder what the architect was thinking? $350K is the asking price!
Our house had no bathroom so they took over the back porch the whole room has a bit of a lean to it.
I adore wall closets, but these days everyone builds and shoves them anywhere that random space was created by bad home designs. So weird closets under stairs halfway across the house for coats, and cubby holes between the bathrooms for each bedroom (3bed=3 bath).
probably not if the house is over 100 years old, at least not for any reasonable amount
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Our last house... (and many reasons why we moved) had Cathedral Ceilings... love the look, always felt cold! And an open floor plan, there was no way to contain the toys bc everything was open and just out! I realize I like rooms.
Cathedral ceilings are the worst! Heating and cooling the house is a nightmare. The people who built this house had a ceiling fan and light installed in the ceiling - 25 FEET UP! The light doesn't drop down, so to change a light bulb, dust it, or to change the speed or direction of the fan requires a huge ladder!
You might replace the fan with a remote control equipped model. A competent electrical contractor might even find one that drops down for you.
Load More Replies...One thing most people don't realize is open plans mean you hear everything. The noise factor is severely disregarded when clients tell me they want a fully open plan. I warn them to no avail.
I live in the South and high ceilings help us stay cool. A wood burning stove keeps us toasty in the mild winter.
My father in law has worse, a main living room that's open all the way to the second story ceiling. His utility bills are sky high since it totally negates his split HVAC system.
No window in bathrooms.
A huge disadvantage, not having windows in the bathrooms. Those ceiling fans are noisy and do almost nothing to remove odors and humidity.
You need a better fan, then. It should clear out the humidity pretty quickly if it's working
Load More Replies...Purposely built with NO bathroom windows so the window frames would not rot while being kept closed in the midWest winters, after renting a place that had one that did just that. Open the bathroom doors just a crack and leave the exhaust fan on a while even when you’re done in there, and it’s fine.
Smaller Smart houses in Ireland which have no more than two bedrooms have no windows in the main bathroom. The air conditioning is so good you don't need it, the steam and smells disappear straight away.
I don't mind not having windows in bathroom. My bathroom is in the center of the house. I gather all of my cats and stay in there with doors closed when tornados are possible. Where I live, we don't get a lot, but if there is warning, I don't want to be in a room with windows.
We have a Jack and Jill bathroom that connects the kids rooms and I absolutely hate it. They are younger(4 and 8) so they sneak through it at night and don’t sleep and worse part is we don’t even notice until we hear giggling at midnight🤦♀️. Plus if one goes to the bathroom it wakes the other one up because they don’t like to close the doors and the light wakes them. This is way worse when one is sick and in and out of the bathroom. Usually I make them to the spare room when this happens because it’s easier to have only one up not two kids.
Also I hate our open floor plan. We have two story with a finished basement. When the kids go to bed we can’t even hang in the main level because the stairs are open and you can hear everything(I mean it looks nice but god damn there is no privacy). Also bad when the kids wake early since then everyone’s up since it echos so bad . Only place we can go where they can’t hear us is the basement Luckly we added a door to that area otherwise we have the same issue.
I F-ing hate bathrooms that open onto multiple rooms. My SILs house has one and it's such a nightmare to use when we stay there because her parents inevitably stay in the other attached bedroom. Figuring out when the bathroom is in use and when it's okay to go in is obnoxious, and then when they use it at night they inevitably wake us up banging around and flushing. Absolutely hate it.
When I built my retirement home I put in a jack and jill bathroom for the 2 guest rooms, but the toilet, sink, counters, and mirrors are in separate areas and the shower/tub area in the middle. Lockable pocket doors separate the 3 spaces and the shower in the middle reduces the noises from the toilet and sink areas.
I don't understand the open concept thing, my house is a big open concept bungalow (2700 square feet on the main floor, then our basement is one big finished room at about 2500 square feet). We have an open eat in kitchen, family room, dining room, and a second living room all open concept with a long hallway with our 3 bedrooms off the hallway. My daughters bedroom wall is the inside of the family room wall, where our TV and soundbar are on her wall, and she never hears anything in her room. Also, in the basement we can have multiple activities going on with nobody really disturbing each other. Maybe y'all just need to learn how to use inside voices lol.
Jack and Jill bathrooms were great in our house when the kids were growing up. Wouldn't want one of the main, but for kids and guests they're very practical.
I dated a guy whose family had a J&J bath with THREE doors (his bedroom, sister's bedroom, main hallway). I was always convinced that I'd forget to lock one of them (despite double checking) and get walked-in on mid-pee. Hated it so so so much. Also hate open floor plans, so that house in the post sounds like a nightmare.
I live alone, with cats. I like having a bathroom with two doors. I can enter through whatever ever door is closest, and I don't cĺose either door.
Having a crawlspace with a dirt floor. My next house will have a basement (I already bought it) and I am so glad I will no longer have the dark mystery under the house. Every major issue I’ve had with this house has been crawlspace related and because it’s dark, scary, and difficult to access, the issues go on longer than they would if they were somewhere you could notice them.
Years ago a friend's family moved into an old house with a crawlspace. About a year later, she and her older brother went down there to check on a leaking pipe or something (don't remember the details). The brother stumbled across a human skeleton. There was a lot of screaming and the police were called ....and it turned out the skeleton was fake. Probably someone's discarded Halloween decor, but my friend liked to think that a previous owner left it there on purpose just to potentially cause some mayhem.
As someone with a 3-5 foot crawlspace in a house from 1895 (tore down to studs, but the basement has that *original charm*), I've basically found it useless. Humid, stuff rusts, lots of spider webs, can't even really use it for storage.
Load More Replies...I prefer an actual basement to a crawlspace, but I'll say the crawlspace is incredibly convenient to access plumbing, electrical, and such. Made wiring up that part of the house with fiber networking REALLY easy.
I come from a country where crawlspaces don't exist, and I always wondered how do you guys prevent mice and rats and other vermin biting through wires since they are in the open?
Load More Replies...If I ever live in a house with a basement I would want a completed basement. Every basement that's unfinished is ridden with sow bugs and my worst phobia. I lived in a bungalow with just a crawl space, no basement, and any of those bugs that would have just kept to the basement were making there way into the main house. Like, have the hidden crawl space. It's all yours, you creepy devils. I couldn't take it anymore. I know live in the top floor of an apartment. Not completely bug free, of course, but a lot more manageable and I don't see my phobia. Sprinkling borax has solved any bug problem. It's just the mice that have been a problem.
Get a cat. I live across from a giant field and in 12 years I’ve seen two mice. Both dead because the cat got to them first
Load More Replies...Snakes. Snakes and spiders. Try servicing anything while making sure you don't become an impromptu bed for a cold critter.
In my house there is no wall in the basement to the front steps outside. My cats were going through the insulation to get in the space under the steps. When I got someone to put up something solid to prevent my cats from entering that space again, the guy told me that a snake had molted in that space.
Load More Replies...Here in Arizona, that's a great condo space for black widows, scorpions, maybe even a rattlesnake if your far out of the city enough. Oh don't forget the dust and thorny weeds.
Lots of crawl spaces in this region, and a whole list of contractors who dig them deeper, seal off the dirt floor, ventilate and insulate the space.
Our first house had been added on piecemeal. The living room was the oldest part, nonexistent insulation, one year it was so cold there was frost on the light switch. But the heat/A/C wasn't hooked up in the bathroom and there some kind of opening in the AC/Heat room and we were always getting slugs in the house. I would put a 1-2" line of salt across the door.
We bought a 1952 built house in West Virginia in 2020. The door from the house to the garage was a normal looking door, but 2/3 sized. It made exiting from the house to the garage (where clothes washer and dryer were installed) a challenge with a laundry basket in your hands. Why 2/3 sized? Never could figure out why. When we remodeled the kitchen in 2021, we had the contractor replace it with a regular, human sized door.
Edited to add: also, the clothes dryer had no vent to the outside. Vented into a 5 gallon bucket with 4" of water in it. The garage is made of concrete block clad with vinyl siding. Took me most of a day to drill a 4 1/8" hole through the concrete block and install a vent to the outside. How had no one thought of doing that in the prior 70 years of the house's existence?
The question wasn't "why didn't they put one in 70 years ago?" but rather "Sometime during the last 70 years, why didn't someone install a vent?" I don't know when vented dryers became a thing, but I do know the home my parents bought in 1972 had a vent in the wall of the garage specifically for the dryer so yeah. Why didn't someone in the past 52 years (or more) bother to put one in?
Load More Replies...Buy a dryer with condensation reservoir. They were invented for these situations
Yep. I have an ASKO that does that. It allowed me to move the washer and dryer out of the garage and into a hallway closet.
Load More Replies...Most of the day to drill a hole a little over 4 inches? We're you using a f*****g spoon?
Most of West Virginia is very nice. About 30% of West Virginians are also very nice.
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Our house is nearly perfect, but for a couple of things:
The outside HVAC units (two of them, the 4 ton main one and a smaller unit for the upstairs room over the garage) are both just outside the master bedroom windows. Noise, noise, noise. Who thought that was a good idea?
The other thing is the house is on a hill, so the front yard is very sloped and harder to mow, and has drainage issues due to underground water. This also makes our driveway steep and curved. I didn't realize how much of a pain all of this would be. Box trucks can't get into the driveway for deliveries or repairs, smaller trucks come in the driveway and then can't back out properly without trashing the turf on either side of the driveway. I feel like I spend my life fixing the lawn.
Get rid of the lawn, put in gravel, rocks, and succulents suitable for your climate. Practically zero maintenance.
Not my current home, but I moved in somewhere that only had one drawer in the kitchen. I didn't realise when viewing, because who counts drawers? Anyway it was super inconvenient, and since then when looking at our current home we checked the number of drawers!
Current home: smoke detector is a foot away from the oven.
My old apartment had that same smoke detector issue. Plus no vent hood. I set off the smoke detector almost every time I cooked there. Thankfully the upstairs neighbor (it was a double and we lived in the lower) was almost never home and moved out 7 months before we did (we never got new neighbors upstairs either)
one rental i stayed in had no drawers in the kitchen. i don't think y'all heard me. the kitchen had NO DRAWERS.😐🙄😒
In my old house, one of the smoke detectors was directly outside the upstairs bathroom. EVERY. SINGLE TIME. someone had a shower, the smoke alarm would go off the second you opened the bathroom door.
So move the smoke detector? It's not like it's complicated wiring. If it's an interconnected system (one goes off, they all go off) then trace the line back and install it somewhere else along the line or run a new line from there to where you want it. If it's not interconnected, just cap it or convert it to a light, then put it up somewhere else & tap into some other permanent on line.
Our first rental after we got married had one drawer and it was in the vintage stove. Ugh.
Yup, one drawer. And the developer thought that fridges were 5" deep based on where he put the plug point
My first house had plaster walls. Like the old school plaster on wood lath. Even the ceilings. Sure it looks good...but it freaking SUCKS if you need to cut a hole or even just hang a friggin' picture. When our bathroom fan died, I bought a replacement that was 1/8" wider than the original. When I tried cutting the opening larger for the new fan, huge chunks of plaster broke off and the hole ended up being all jagged and ugly. When we had the bathroom redone, we told them to take out ALL of the plaster and replace with drywall. I will never buy another house with plaster walls.
It's infuriating to watch videos that say, it's super easy to hang this, just find the stud and do x, y. z. What if you have plaster? It's not so easy
Everything begins with a drill. I lived in a house built around 1805 that replaced a house built even earlier. The place was all wet plaster (except the 2nd floor bathroom) and was so old it went from being lit with kerosene lamps to gas jets (THAT was a trip with all the plumbing in nearly every wall) and finally electricity. K**b and tube wires that were for the most part replaced with romex. Hanging a picture was a real issue, almost as bad as fixing the 6x7' pocket doors. Plaster looks great, but DAMN it's a challenge.
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I wouldn't give up my plaster walls for anything. Sheet rock is easily damaged, and over time it's inevitable the screws and tape lines start to show, not mention a slight wave. No thank you.
Plaster has its downsides, but I love ours. Helps reduce sound travel from room to room, doesn't break easy if you run into it with a piece of furniture, etc. You have to use screws to hang things well unless you're using a good size nail.
I'm with you, I love my plaster walls. They add thermal mass and make the house feel very solid and quiet.
Load More Replies...My house is plaster on top of some sort of concrete blocks. Impossible to hang anything without a drill. Insulation sucks. I hate it.
In South Africa, we have these things called masonry nails, and masonry drill bits
My friend's old house had lath and plaster. I helped the husband convert a bedroom into an office. Part of that was installing a window in the wall between the living room / bedroom. As described above, it was nasty to work with. We just cutout the entire wall (not load bearing) and rebuilt it it with studs and modern sheetrock. Actually, we may have left some of the original studs except for where we had to build the frame for the window - but you get the idea - lath and plaster gone.
Spiral staircase.
Getting big or heavy loads up and down the stairs, even suitcases would be a pain. Mattresses and furnishings? Pivot, pivot, pivot, pivot and even then...
Load More Replies...One house for sale had a spiral staircase to the second floor. Obviously not much in the way of furniture made it up that staircase. That second floor was used only as a toy play room for their kids because no bed or chairs could be taken up the stairs.
Hard pass for me too. OMG a spiral staircase is a total deal breaker.
Aren't these usually secondary staircases that are on the other side of the house? Isn't there usually a normal, main staircase?
Not always. And Philadelphia has a ton of old houses with narrow spiral staircases. They're a b***h on my knees
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Load More Replies...PIVOT! Easier to defend if you're a right handed swordsman!
Had a place with a sunroom. Such a nice feature. Except that it was horribly cold 3/4 of the year and stifling hot the other 1/4. It attracted carpenter ants that nested in the beams, so part of the summer would be spent killing hundreds of large flying ants (the males) while the females made sawdust out of the main supports. The upper glass windows became permanently dirty from the sunlight, snow load, and crud from the trees and it was a pain to get up there to caulk them, leading to infiltration that I couldn’t prevent, manage, or afford to fix because of having little kids. Tearing it down cost a ton but it was such a relief.
Carpenter ants nest in moist wood so you had more than one problem there.
I live in FL and I have an enclosed porch off the back. It's all windows all the way around. They aren't floor to ceiling, but they might as well be. It is also west facing, so when the sun starts going down, it really gets unbearable out there. It does save me some money as I don't have to use my dryer as much for about six months out of the year.
Both male and female ants sprout wings at mating times so they can fly off and start a new colony.
Yeah they freak me out. My daughter (bless her little cotton socks) hoovered them up one year, so thanks debs 💜💜
Load More Replies...My sunroom is a nice storage space until I can spare the money for special insulation windows. Cold in winter, unbearably hot in summer
We had a sunroom as well. It was nice for like 75% of the year, with winter being the one time we dind't really use it. My parents changed it to a full time room, with windows all around. (we still have ants, tho. We got them bahmbed & have ant traps, but they still like to drop their dead on us.)
My house doesn't have many windows that face the front. We have a bay window in the master bedroom, and small windows on our front door. But other than that we have little visibility to our front yard. It's actually not possible to see my whole driveway from inside. We have tons that face the back so natural light is no problem. But it's simply annoying that I can't tell when someone pulls into my driveway.
It is. It's the Martin House in Buffalo, New York. It's now a museum.
Load More Replies...Some cleverly placed cameras would resolve the visibility/security issue...
The front of my house doesn't have many windows either. Glass cubes at the top of some walls to let in some light. But the back of my house has many. I basically turned my back on the road and highlighted my lush backyard.
Parents’ old house: wooden stairs. They had slightly rounded edges and no nonslip stuff. Apparently my brain turns various kinds of stairs into slides because I slipped down those stairs at least 20+ times while living there. It’s something about the wood grain, I think: the pattern + the lack of texture = woop!
(And later as an adult about 8 times over the course of 3 years in an apartment with carpeted stairs but those were horribly worn and loose in spots.).
Went down the basement stairs carrying my full hamper, my socks betrayed me at the top. Broken tailbones take forever to heal.
Load More Replies...I am a klutz and have fallen both up and down stairs more than a few times.
We remodeled our kitchen years ago and installed a fancy Delta touch faucet. Great idea, we thought! Ability to turn faucet on with your chin or with the back of your raw chicken-handling hand seemed like it would be a luxury.
It's not. It works about 95% of the time, which sounds like a lot but means every 10 times you use the sink (to turn either on or off) it doesn't work and you have to touch it again. Not quite as bad as the hands free faucets in public bathrooms, but not that much better.
But the worst part about it is that it looks like a normal faucet... so it confuses the hell out of guests who try to use it. Touch the handle and push it forward to turn on the water... and the faucet turns on and immediately turns off. So they try again, and again, and wonder what the f**k is wrong with our faucet.
95% means it fails one in 20 times, not 1 in 10 (which would be 90% successful).
I was irritated at first too, but maybe what the author meant was when you use it 10 times, you have to touch it 20 times (once for on, once more for off) and of these 20 touches, one won't work...?
Load More Replies...This is an easy fix though that can probably be done by the homeowner.
My parents got one of those faucets and replaced it after only a few months. Dumbest invention ever.
My cats would go nuts for this feature and my water bill would skyrocket!
If you have a cat who likes water, expect a larger water bill. Amy will figure out that sink very quickly.
Load More Replies...We bought a new kitchen faucet with a motion sensor. You don’t have to touch it, just wave your hand within about an inch of the sensor. It too acts up occasionally, but I don’t consider it a big deal.
Not in, but outside. We have 1/2 acre in a city - no fence. The neighbor’s dogs run like wildebeests around the neighborhood and poop everywhere. My other neighbor said he’s been taking the poop and putting it back on their front porch 💩 and it still doesn’t deter them. Fences for our yard have been quoted from 15-30k.
Answer: Cattle Fencing. It's cheap and can do it yourself for 1/20th of that quote. Everyone out here where I live has it with the cheap green metal posts from feed stores. Can order online. Couple rolls, the posts and a post digger and you're golden.
And it might be sufficient to have only every 5th dug in. The others an be pushed in. Horse owner here, even the independent pony lady understands this type of fence.
Load More Replies...I’m not sure where you live but most cities/states have a leash law. Call animal Control the next time it happens
And then there's the maintenance, on top of the original fence cost.
Load More Replies...quick growing bushes work too...they will also provide privacy and screen noise
A large lot lot in a city should be fenced, asking for trouble if left open.
Get a "no dig" fence. They are really affordable and easy to install. They work great for keeping pets and kids in and unwanted animals out. And they look great! They come in all different styles, colors and material.
Windows that extend nearly to the floor. Can't put any furniture against that wall without blocking the windows and making them hard to open and close.
Oh I did not complain about this in my old home, just let furniture float a bit, who jams stuff up against the window?
If you're butting all your furniture against walls, the floor to ceiling windows isn't the issue.
I never understood the hype about down-to-the-floor windows, aka. glass houses. It's a pain in the asss cleaning them. But living in 1 bedroom places, I quickly learnt something. If you don't pull all your furniture sticking to the wall, it will show your space more larger optically, than it is.
That would be very hard if you have a small space. My windows aren't to the floor but they are kinda long which is fine but all of them are smack dab in the middle of all my walls. And my house is super tiny so i dont have the option of putting furniture in the middle of my rooms. I can't stand living in a small home. I can't put anything anywhere. Theres no space!
A corner lot.
It's a pain in the a*s with the shoveling and mowing with no benefit to me (garden in front yard isn't doable).
Why isn't a garden in the front yard doable? raised beds, row of flowers in the front, carrots, bush beans, raddishes, tomatoes behind. Very easy to do
We were on a cul-de-sac corner lot, and our lot was pie shaped. Huge backyard, front "yard" was pretty much just a path leading up to the front door.
Load More Replies...I live on a corner lot. There is about 200 feet (60m) of sidewalk to be shoveled. Luckily it doesn't snow very much around here.
This is YMMV. Depends on the lot and depends on the traffic on the road next to the lot. In the 70s we had a corner lot in a housing development. It was a positive. The road by our house had little traffic so wasn't a noise problem. Our lot was bigger than the 'not corner lots' so we had more yard / garden space. So for us, corner lot was a win.
the only advantages, usually, are that corner lots are larger and at least two sides of the house can have "good light"...
I love my corner lot, even with the double shoveling. And I pay my neighbor to mow.
Galley kitchen. Tiny, dark, and closed off. Cannot be enlarged or opened up without doing a home addition or relocating the kitchen into another part of the house ($$$$$). I knew that I didn’t like it but I didn’t anticipate just how much I would grow to hate it.
Frankly I thought this would be our starter home and we would only be here a few years. Ha! At least we are in a pretty great neighborhood. .
Our home is a walkout from the basement, so built into a hill. It's nice to be able to walk out to a patio but a pain in the a*s to mow. I didn't think it would be a big deal but on hot summer days it really sucks.
Also, we back up to a wildlife area. Very pretty and we feel fortunate to have the view. However, that means lots of field mice to fend off.
Other than that the inside of our homeis great. This is our first new/modern home so not much to nitpick there.
Cats, get cats. Except my cat that will bring them in from the screened porch and play with them until they are unconscious, not dead, unconscious. Imagine the freaking out thinking you're picking up a dead mouse and it wakes up.
Lol then the cat just brings the mice into the house. I've had many, many cats over the years, and only one was a good mouser.
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Ok this is a first world problem. I’m 5’11” and my husband is 6’4”. The kitchen sink is huge and sunken in already low countertops. (Standard height for older hothouse). If we want to wash stuff in the sink we have to bend way over. It’s really annoying.
My kitchen is set low too, one of the first big jobs I'm doing on my forever home, my back hurts doing the dishes, and there is very little cabinet space, all have cupboards I easily bump my head on...im 155cm tall
Sometimes it's not just about replacing the counter. The sink also has to be replaced, plumbing refitted, backsplash redone... Many things to consider.
Load More Replies...Sloping driveway with a garage. The garage and basement are on the same level. With a sloping driveway, you have to shovel the snow UP (instead of the side). So if it get slippery, it's a struggle to push it up. Also you have to be diligent because your car can't come out if it's snowed in. So you have to plan ahead and make sure it's cleared out, with no ice, so you can drive out when required.
Our house is like this too. We hire a service in the winter that automatically comes to clear any snow with a truck when it happens. Totally life changing after spending decades of back-breaking snow shoveling!
This one is silly, but we have a massive Palladian window in our foyer. I loved the look when we first toured it. It lets in a ton of light, but puts our upstairs on display at night if we use the hall light. Not a fan of people being able to see so clearly into our house.
You can get that film that you put on the windows, you can see out from the inside but people can see in as it mirrored from the outside
The window in the picture is interesting. It looks like a bay window installed in the wrong direction.
I like the look. I'm calling it a yab window.
Load More Replies...Just get sheer curtains made, in white or ecru. Keeps people from seeing into the house clearly, while still letting in all the natural light. Honestly, after reading some of these I wonder what the people use their actual brains for, as it's clearly not used for thinking.
In a previous house I had a floor to ceiling front window with drapes and sheers. I wanted more light than drapes and a way for the dogs to watch out that windows without destroying another set of sheers. I bought a Shoji screen with a base that lets you set it up straight. I placed it about 1.5 feet from the window and left the drapes and sheers open at all times. Dogs could see. I got light. And people couldn't see in.
I had a ceiling to floor window (just like a sheet of glass) in the front of my kitchen facing the street. Walking in there was like walking into a fishbowl, and it was not like it was an essential part of the unremarkable architecture. I had it replaced with a bay window with a sitting bench/ windowsill. I love large windows and such but it was freaky- I never thought I would opt replacing a large window with a smaller one but it is so much better.
Three words. Vinyl. Window. Film. Easy to install and provides privacy without blocking the light.
My fridge is right up against an exterior wall of my house. Think of my kitchen as having a dead end. I have a french door fridge that has a left side freezer and right side fridge. The right side door is not able to open all the way because the handle hits the side of the wall preventing the drawers from fully opening. Annoying as hell.
1. We have two bathrooms. The upstairs bathroom has a tub, but no shower. I did not realize how much I'd hate showering downstairs.
2. Our backyard only has one major tree. In the summer, the yard is shaded before noon and an arid hellscape after the kids get bored enough to consider playing outside.
The pantry is the one for me. When the house was built they opted to add a third toilet/sink combo right beside the kitchen instead of having a pantry. To combat this they added new cabinetry which is great except for its L shaped and the L stops literally in line with the garage door, meaning you can not bring anything large in and out through the garage door, which was wonderful on move in with the furniture. So now I have no pantry and guests get to do their business inches away from the counter I’m cooking our meal on.
That would not be allowed in UK to have a toilet next to the kitchen.
I recall _loads_ of UK houses where a bathroom and toilet had been built off the kitchen. Might not be allowed, and obviously wouldn't be desired, for a new build, but really very common in older properties, particularly conversions from terrace type properties and those converted from two-floor houses into flats.
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>we have to essentially turn the downstairs into a meat locker to be able to get the upstairs bedrooms comfortable. See if you have baffles coming out of the furnace, or get some installed.
Put an outward facing fan in the upstairs window. It will pull out the hot air and the cooler air will replace it.
They could instll an attic fan, too. When the attic gets above a set temp, say 90 or 95, the thermostat turns the fan on. Helps keep the upstairs cooler.
Load More Replies...Install minisplit heat pumps in the bedrooms. Life changing! You can even DIY if you're handy (there are kits for that purpose).
Shut your downstairs vents; it will force more air into the upstairs.
Not a good solution. Bad for AC, causes it to freeze.
Load More Replies...At the beginning of every AC season I adjust the dampers so most of the cooler air goes upstairs. In winter when the furnace comes on, I readjust the dampers so most of the warm air is on the lower floor and naturally rises to the upper level.
Yardwork.
Half of the Netherlands transforms their green yards into concrete or tiled yards. And then complain about the heat and the water that floods everything after some rain, because the drains and sewage were designed for open surface yards.
And then you wonder why you have the smallest amount of nature per inhabitant of any European country
Load More Replies...No regrets for me. I have 5 acres, most woods, about 1 acre cleared. It IS work to mow the lawns, pick up tree branches that fall in storms and stuff like that. But when maintained my yard looks like a park and I love it. And a lot of nature loves it. I routinely have deer and bunnies in my yard. Every spring a couple of mallard ducks hang out in my pond for a few weeks. Crows, robins, squirrels, occasional egret (or crane?). Sometimes possums or raccoon. Owls live in my woods and sometimes show themselves. Bullfrogs, tree frogs, and I'm probably missing a few. TLDR: Yard work sucks but having my own peaceful paradise is wonderful.
Condo living became an unexpected delight for me. No more back-breaking work in the hot summer weather. The HOA mows the front & common areas, so it's all their problem.
Two bedrooms have light switches on the wall on the side where the door hinges are. Just inconveniently placed, but we can’t switch the doors because of room configuration so we’d have to pay probably hundreds of dollars to have the light switches moved just to satisfy that bit of inconvenience.
Ulti do affordable switches where you replace the main light switch and then have a separate remote button in a convenient location, gets around this exact issue
We had that done for one bedroom. It took the electrician 30 minutes to reroute the wiring and cut the hole for the switch box. But we had a crawlspace above for easy access to the wiring. Cost us about $75.
If you don't want to pay, then, it seems it's not really an inconvenience. You can easily live with it.
What B******t. "If you dont want to pay hundreds of Dollars, it just doesnt annoy you enogh!"
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I have a sky light in my guest bathroom. I love the sunlight, but I hate it when it rains. It is so loud that I have to close the door.
I love it when it rains on my skylight, people buy an app for that kind of white noise.
When I bought my house, the plans called for a skylight in the bedroom. I told the builder they would have to move that to the bathroom. They asked why as most people put them in their bedrooms. I told them, I like to sleep late. They acted like that had never occurred to them.
Because you can get blackout shades for skylights.
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I have a very long driveway. It's 1000 feet from my garage to the street. Trash day is awful cause not only is it a decent walk, but it's uphill too. I stubbornly try to get the trash and recycling up in one trip. But usually both are very heavy. Often I'll end up leaving the heavier one about half way up, then come back for it after I get the lighter one to the curb.
I suggest a flat trolley, as one might use at a DIY store for cement or sand.
We're not quite that far from the road, but it's a very steep drive, couple of 100 metres, so a hand-pulled trolley would be lots of work. I usually use the ride-on lawnmower and trailer if we're not going to use a car at around the right time.
Load More Replies...We have a very long driveway and my husband drives it to the curb. I hate having trash near the inside of my car, but I'm weird and if I don't see it, I can pretend that he disinfects thoroughly....
Someone made a rig they could attach to their car and drive the bins back and forth...something to look into
I have a thousand foot driveway. (give or take. Front neighbor property 660 feet - plus some of mine). I don't use garbage pickup. I store my garbage in cans, then make a dump run with my utility trailer about twice a year. Physically easier AND a lot cheaper. My next door neighbor has pickup. What he usually does is put the recycling boxes int he back of the pickup, then drives slowly to the road pulling the wheelie garbage bin by holding it next to him out the window.
Just how big are these garbage cans? If you only go to the dump twice a year? Doesn't it smell? Even as a single person with a cat, I have at least one bag, and I use the bigger 33 gallon black trash bags, every week. I have had trash pick up, and gone to the dump, both services we had for years, at different times, of course. Now I have a dumpster, that I share with the other 9 units in my building. Which is much easier, since I don't have to have the bins out on a certain day/time, same with the dump, I don't have to work around their operating hours.
Load More Replies...We purchased a home on a beautiful 1.25 acre lot. It looks like our own private park. In practice though, in two years we have spent $8,500 cutting down or trimming trees. Though we got a lot done, there is likely to be no end to the amount of money and attention this will take.
I can see this if a misplaced tree would fall on your house. Or a trim is high up. But the trees I removed on my property I just did myself. I did spend about a thousand on a good Stihl chainsaw and a professional extended pole limb saw. But still a lot cheaper than hiring tree pros
Yes very clever, but the sarcastic comments are not necessary or useful.
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Master bedroom is upstairs instead of downstairs and separate. Drives me absolutely nuts. Granted, it’s nice while the kids are little and wake up in the middle of the night (3 y.o & 6 m.o) but in terms of privacy for.. activities.. is not ideal, and I think about when we’re older going up those stairs.
Also, having the downstairs bathroom very close to the dining room. Also not ideal especially when guests are using it.
Master bedrooms are normally upstairs here in the UK - aren't they elsewhere? Even the most basic houses (2 up, 2 down, as one would have heard in the Herman's Hermits song "No milk today") have bed & bathroom upstairs, kitchen and living room downstairs.
Every place I've lived in the US has all the bedrooms upstairs.
Load More Replies...I never liked the idea of kids edrooms being too far from the master bedroom. Most parents want to be able to hear if something is happening with their kids and kids with night terrors want to know mum and dad can hear them if they scream.
I went to school with a girl whose family lived in a nice two story farm house. There were four kids. All the bedroom were upstairs and the parents was downstairs. The only bathroom in the house was in the parents room. I always thought this was weird, especially with the kids having to go through the parents room in the middle of the night if they had to go to the bathroom. And, what if they were sick? I would want to be closer to the kids if they were sick or something.
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I hate that it's not a single level. .
Having two levels might have been the only choice in their price range.
Load More Replies...Ah Americans with all that space! In Europe a family house is always multi level. Only old folks get bungalows.
I just bought a house in an area with a lot of 1950s bungalows: 90% of them have living rooms with massive windows facing the street, and maybe one door to the backyard through the kitchen. My living room is perpetually dark because I don't want people on the street looking into my house, and the back patio is completely cut off from the rest of the house. I just don't know what the architects were thinking back then. Also the front doors always open directly into the living room with no coat closet - so there's always a big bulky coat stand just as you walk in. (And yes, I know - first world problems...)
A lot of people need introducing to the idea of ‘the wardrobe’ it seems. Are they keeping their clothes on the floor?
I' lived in several houses with either floor-to-ceiling windows/window walls or late 1800's houses with extra tall windows. It's a very good thing that I'm handy, can sew, and knew where to look for inexpensive neutral yardage. The house with the window walls took 60 + yards of 80" wide unbleached muslin to make simple curtains that button-tabbed over the curtain rods I put together out of conduit and painted black.
Even mediocre DIY would be worthwhile for a lot of these, if the owners can't afford pros. A little research can help keep you from doing anything *too* dangerous. People need to be braver about self reliance, especially considering that they'll likely be more competent (or at least more motivated) than many of the "handy people" for hire out there.
My house as a kid had five problems that I noticed/cared about. Problem #1, skylights. They're lovely - don't get me wrong - but oh my god, THE NOISE WHEN IT RAINS. Which, in Pittsburgh, is *pretty often*. Problem #2, there were two large trapezoidal windows back-to-back, up high in the living room. Lovely! Except if you want to replace them or get stuff done, it's expensive, because *trapezoidal windows*, man. And this was a problem because #3, they let in tons of light and made it hard to look at one corner of the room - which often had a person in it, and it turns out it makes conversations awkward. That one got fixed recently with something, I don't know what it's called, on the windows that makes it rainbow! Problem #4, the main floor, which had the kitchen, was the floor with no bathing things. This wasn't a problem until my mom, due to medical issues, found it very painful to climb stairs. She was the one who could cook. Thankfully she's better now. #5, the dishwasher plugged in in a way retired in 2020 and it was so much more expensive. I don't know how much more, I'm not the one in charge of household finances, but it was allegedly quite expensive to fix. But it was mostly a lovely home.
I just bought a house in an area with a lot of 1950s bungalows: 90% of them have living rooms with massive windows facing the street, and maybe one door to the backyard through the kitchen. My living room is perpetually dark because I don't want people on the street looking into my house, and the back patio is completely cut off from the rest of the house. I just don't know what the architects were thinking back then. Also the front doors always open directly into the living room with no coat closet - so there's always a big bulky coat stand just as you walk in. (And yes, I know - first world problems...)
A lot of people need introducing to the idea of ‘the wardrobe’ it seems. Are they keeping their clothes on the floor?
I' lived in several houses with either floor-to-ceiling windows/window walls or late 1800's houses with extra tall windows. It's a very good thing that I'm handy, can sew, and knew where to look for inexpensive neutral yardage. The house with the window walls took 60 + yards of 80" wide unbleached muslin to make simple curtains that button-tabbed over the curtain rods I put together out of conduit and painted black.
Even mediocre DIY would be worthwhile for a lot of these, if the owners can't afford pros. A little research can help keep you from doing anything *too* dangerous. People need to be braver about self reliance, especially considering that they'll likely be more competent (or at least more motivated) than many of the "handy people" for hire out there.
My house as a kid had five problems that I noticed/cared about. Problem #1, skylights. They're lovely - don't get me wrong - but oh my god, THE NOISE WHEN IT RAINS. Which, in Pittsburgh, is *pretty often*. Problem #2, there were two large trapezoidal windows back-to-back, up high in the living room. Lovely! Except if you want to replace them or get stuff done, it's expensive, because *trapezoidal windows*, man. And this was a problem because #3, they let in tons of light and made it hard to look at one corner of the room - which often had a person in it, and it turns out it makes conversations awkward. That one got fixed recently with something, I don't know what it's called, on the windows that makes it rainbow! Problem #4, the main floor, which had the kitchen, was the floor with no bathing things. This wasn't a problem until my mom, due to medical issues, found it very painful to climb stairs. She was the one who could cook. Thankfully she's better now. #5, the dishwasher plugged in in a way retired in 2020 and it was so much more expensive. I don't know how much more, I'm not the one in charge of household finances, but it was allegedly quite expensive to fix. But it was mostly a lovely home.
