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Body positivity is a term many people are embracing with open arms nowadays. After all, the social movement promotes feelings of acceptance and love, regardless of anyone’s size, shape, or appearance.

In fact, this new mindset is so widely used and known that there are content creators who blow up by simply sharing their journeys of what it’s like to be a plus-size person in a vastly different and constantly changing world.

They aren’t afraid to call others out for ‘fatphobic’ behavior, rooting for inclusivity for everyone. But as many know, sometimes audience members aren’t the big fans of what influencers create. Here are 11 times plus-size customers spoke their mind and shared it on social media — whether it seems reasonable or logical remains up to you!

#1

Discrimination Within Bollywood

Plus-size person in a blue outfit, expressing confidence against societal norms in outdoor urban setting.

Actress Anjali Anand believes it to be unfair that Bollywood has given her the “plus-size” tag when actors such as Govinda and Rishi Kapoor were never labeled as such.

She told Fever FM, “Nobody would call [Govinda] a plus-size actor. Nobody would call Rishi Kapoor a plus size actor. He is an actor. But for a woman, I’m always called Anjali Anand — a plus size actor. I hate talking about it.

“We need to normalize it. People ask me why I don’t promote plus-size representation on the internet, and it’s because I don’t want to.”

She later went on to describe how society treats women in a harsher light than men.

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K
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8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The 7% who said no.. probably men.

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    #2

    Denied Entry From A Party Bus

    Plus-size person in a stylish black top poses confidently, challenging conventional beauty norms.

    Miami Beach in Florida is known for its vibrant nightlife and creative parties, and that’s exactly what 27-year-old body positivity advocate Fallon Melillo wanted to take advantage of.

    Unfortunately, when she and her friends decided to take a party bus to get to a pool party, things took a turn.

    Although the pool party itself said on Eventbrite, “Sorry No Big Girls for this party!” the promoter themselves did not disclose this information to the girl who bought the tickets for the party bus.

    Thinking things would be okay, Fallon decided to go, only to be turned away

    “There’s no law, but it’s just downright awful and rude and humiliating,” the advocate told Bored Panda.

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    Emilu
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Granting or denying someone access to a party based on their size is gross. Be grateful you weren’t allowed to go to that s**t show!

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    #3

    Inclusivity In Target

    TikTok content creator Samyra has always been loud and proud when it comes to showcasing different kinds of bodies. 

    She recorded a video where she attempted to shame Target for only marketing their clothes towards thin people.

    Samyra picked up a women’s jacket with the tip: “Go up a size or two on your purchase for an easy, effortlessly cool vibe.”

    “This is a clear example of how brands center on thinness. How can someone who is 3X of 4X go up a size or two?” she argued.

    But the comments were anything but understanding and forgiving.

    “Very few people are built like you. Market moves corporations, not your feelings,” one person stated.

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    Hippopotamuses
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As one of the commentator pointed out. 'Market moves corporations...'. That's the reality. To achieve economies of scale, they cater for the majority, and the majority has been conditioned to expect smaller sizes.

    Toothless Feline
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thing is, they're not actually catering to the size people really are. They're catering to the size people wish they were, the size Hollywood tells us we "should" be. There's a number of online stores that cater to a broader range of sizes than most brick-and-mortar stores, but they're mostly small businesses, and the selection is usually limited.

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    Archanae
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lose weight or get your clothing elsewhere. I'm also a bit bigger than what 'normal-sized' stores propose and yet you don't see me being all dramatic about it 😂 and I still can dress just fine...

    Bob R
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'M THIN AND ALL CLOTHES i TRY TO BUY ARE FOR SHORT FAT PEOPLE 125 5'10'

    Autumn
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. I was gonna say. Target clothes are short and very wide.

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    Katy Bell
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even when main stream companies size up often the clothes don't fit around the bust, while they assume your waist is massive. As a result baggy across the middle and bottom tight at the top.

    Rathoren
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or worse is they think everyone plus size is short, no b***s and apparently micro thin arms?!? Im tall, biggish b***s and almost half the shirts i like have these tiny arm holes or are ridiculously shooort sleeves?!

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    Floor V
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mainstream fashion brands cater mainstream people, aka 'normal sized' people. I'm plussize and I know I have to shop elsewhere. My problem, not theirs.

    Virgil Blue
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where is the "shouldn't be expected to cater to outliers" option? There is no money in it for them.

    KatSaidWhat
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Orrr, since you could go down several sizes, maybe go down one or two yourself - the health benefits would be outstanding.

    Suby
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They cater to average height, too. There are very few options for tall women. Sleeves are always too short.

    Sparkle
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've found that stores carry more size 6 up pants/skirts. I'm skinny and it is becoming harder to shop at Old Navy in store and be able to find 2/0. Not to mention some stores don't even carry 2/0 in stores. I think it's more of a getting the same amount of clothing in each size.

    Beth Wheeler
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The few times that I've found something at target that fits i have to get a bigger size because their sizes are 1 or 2 sizes smaller than what I wear. Any shorts or pants I've ever ever gotten there are an 18 instead of a 14 or 16.. I love Cato but everything in that store is a size smaller than others.

    kkrq2vk4tm
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clothes do not look best on obese people

    Royal Stray
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean they market to the majority. A majority of people are, or at the very least should be a healthy weight. Making this a huge none issue.

    Lady Eowyn
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a size 12 and I still find that message in some clothes. So frickin what.

    London Paris
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a 60 year old fit and healthy male who works out regularly and whose dimensions have not radically changed in the last 40 years yet I've gone from XL to XXXL when buying. I have several preserved t-shirts ( sci fi show merch) from THIRTY years ago and all are XL and fit me perfectly. What the hell?

    Ruth Watry
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With roughly 1/3 of Americans overweight and 1/3 obese, companies would benefit financially if they catered to all body types

    Maisey Myles
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why can’t 3x + go down a size or two?

    Lola July
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, the average American woman is Not Thin. They are a Plus size 20 or a 16 - 18. If you notice the large plus size women who shop at Walmart then look at the miniscule women's plus dept. A few racks mixed with the pregnant women's clothing and Target does the same. If they carried more selection they would SELL MORE! Sick of boring plain colored t-shirts or ugly floral shirts because fat women love ugly clothes from fabric no one else would be caught dead in.

    Riley Quinn
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Instead of expecting an entire industry to revolve around excessively large people, maybe they should learn how to sew.

    Megalodon Meg
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could say the same for size 0 or 1 folks but we don't, do we?

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    #4

    Handrails In Swimming Pools

    @jaebaeofficial No handrails at pools? That’s not inclusive. Demand accessibility for all. ⁣ •⁣ •⁣ •⁣ #EqualAccess #PlusSize #PlusSizeTravel #PlusSizeTravelBlogger #Fyp ♬ Not my fault sped up - Abby :)

    And Jaelynn Chaney stirs the pot of controversy once more.

    She claims that public swimming pools that don’t feature handrails are “not inclusive” in a video from July 2024, repeatedly stating that “obesity is not a disability.” 

    For the 27-year-old, handrails are a crucial part of helping her stabilize as she gets out of the water. 

    “Accessibility isn’t optional,” she shared. “Make handrails mandatory at all pools for swimmers of every size and ability.”

    Chaney continued, “Without handrails, we’re excluding so many from enjoying pools safely. It’s time to ensure everyone can swim with confidence. Demand mandatory handrails now!”

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has nothing to do with weight exclusively, IMO. Handrails should be a safety feature in most pools?

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    #5

    Quitting A Job After Being Told To “Cover Her Stomach”

    Plus-size woman in a casual outfit expressing frustration in a home setting, addressing uncomfortable spaces.

    Abigayle Canterbury was just doing what she needed to do when she was dress-coded at her job… that did not have a dress code.

    She was indirectly told by her manager that she needed to “dress something nicer and cover the stomach,” to which she responded with “So no crop tops, got it.”

    But after talking to her other co-workers, some who had been there significantly longer than she had, she realized they had never been dress-coded — even though a few were wearing something “inappropriate,” by the manager’s standards.

    After all, what drew Abigayle to this job was the “laid-back environment,” and how the employees could wear whatever they wanted. 

    “That sh–t really not only caught me off guard but kind of hurt my feelings,” she said. 

    Her response? Quitting.

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    Beth Wheeler
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A crop top is not acceptable for work even if it's part of some slutty uniform like at Hooters. I refuse to go there because of the uniform. They can call it a family restaurant all the want to but I call BS on that! If there is a dress code it should apply to everybody!

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    #6

    A Look Of Disgust In An Airplane

    Plus-size customer in two contrasting moments: looking upset indoors and joyful at a theme park wearing Mickey Mouse ears.

    A Brazilian plus-size influencer known as Sidney recorded an emotional video for his social media followers, recounting a particularly unpleasant experience he had while traveling.

    As he was heading to Rio de Janeiro on a plane, he recounted having a difficult time passing through the aircraft aisle and accidentally bumping into a woman.

    “When I passed by her and unintentionally, because of my size, my belly touched her, she looked at her arm, wiped it off, and gave me a disgusted look,” he said. “I felt like the worst human being alive.” 

    The small incident also triggered his anxiety. 

    “I had never gone through something like this, never in my life. I don’t give room for anyone to disrespect me, but this time it was completely different,” he concluded.

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    Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find planes extremely narrow regardless of someone's size, I get anxious every time

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    #7

    Lyft Driver Refuses To Let A Plus-Size Woman In His Car

    Plus-size individual standing confidently between two men in suits, emphasizing inclusive spaces.

    When Dajua Blanding, known as ‘Dank Demoss’ ordered a Lyft ride to the Lions playoff game, she was met with rejection over her weight

    In a video posted on January 19, Dajua captured the whole conversation between her and the driver.

    When he showed up, he allegedly took one look at her and immediately locked the car’s doors, denying her entry into his Mercedes-Benz sedan.

    “I can fit in this car,” Dajua said in the clip. 

    “Believe me, you can’t,” replied the driver. “I’m sorry. I’m going to cancel. You’re not going to be charged,” and added, “I’ve been in this situation before.”

    Shocked, Dajua asked, “So every big person, you turn down because they can’t fit in your car?”

    The driver apologized and then suggested she order herself a bigger vehicle, such as an Uber XL, for easier access. 

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    Upstaged75
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's hardly just plus size. I'm overweight and wear plus sizes, but I still fit in to normal airplane seats and cars. She's super morbid obese.

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    #8

    Bigger Car Seat Size

    Plus-size customer in colorful dress standing by a car, highlighting discomfort with inadequate space.

    “Supercars should be for everyone,” stated Panamanian plus-size influencer Gracie Bon as she posted a video demanding that the luxury sports car McLaren should increase the size of their seats to accommodate her 55-inch hips.

    Unsurprisingly, users online slammed her and suggested she go for bigger cars that have bigger spaces.

    But Gracie has labeled herself a “body positivity advocate,” despite the fact that many people have claimed her body is the result of numerous surgical procedures.

    “It’s not my fault to have an a– this big,” said the 27-year-old in a viral video from last year. 

    One person countered, “There’s no way that’s natural. It’s absolutely your fault.”

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    Lady Eowyn
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    B***h modified her body, that's not natural. She should admit she's a publicity hound.

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    #9

    “Why Do You Need Two Chairs?”

    Once again, Gracie Bon has sparked a viral debate. After posting a video where she demanded two chairs for her body — where most of her weight remains in her lower half — to sit comfortably at a restaurant. 

    In the clip, a person who appeared to be the restaurant owner laughed with her as they helped her arrange the seats.

    Since then, it’s received over 5 million views and 80K comments, with some saying there was no natural way for Gracie to achieve her specific physique. 

    “She isn’t plus-sized; she is surgically altered,” stated one person.

    But Gracie has made it clear that her body is not a product of any cosmetic procedure, writing, “Life changes when you love yourself. I’m happy to have you all witness my evolution, and to those who criticize me: no, I have never done any procedure to my face.”

    She added, “This body is literally what God gave me. And I have to embrace every single part.”

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    Maisey Myles
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poll Question: Should people lie about their a$$es being god given?

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    #10

    Paying Extra To Fly

    @jaebaeofficial 🤬 Want to fight fatphobia with me?⁣ Donate to my GoFundMe and sign the petition to support the Fat Equality Bill of Rights and the Fat Accessibility Act! 💥 Link in bio to donate and sign the petition! ✊⁣ ⁣ Let’s break down these fatphobic “solutions” once and for all: ⁣ ❌ Lose weight⁣ ❌ Upgrade to first class⁣ ❌ Don’t fly⁣ ❌ Flying isn’t a right, it’s a privilege⁣ ❌ I pay extra for luggage, so fat people should too⁣ ⁣ These aren’t solutions, they’re excuses to keep fat people from having equal access and rights. 🚫 It’s time to stop treating fat people like we don’t deserve the same dignity and respect. ✊⁣ ⁣ I’m fighting for fat justice, body equality, and accessibility for all! Let’s make the world more inclusive and stop letting corporations and society get away with fatphobia. 🛑⁣ ⁣ Donate and sign to help push for the change we need to see! 🔥⁣ •⁣ •⁣ •⁣ #FatEquality #FatAccessibilityAct #BodyJustice #FightFatphobia #Donate #EqualityForAll #FearlessFatAdvocacy #FatEqualityBillOfRights #PlusSizeTravel #BodyEqualityInTravel #FlyingWhileFat #FlyingWhilePlusSize #GoFundMe #SignThePetition #PlusSizeTravelBlogger #FatActivist #Fyp ♬ Drake style/HIPHOP beat(1491552) - Burning Man

    Airplanes are known to have uncomfortable, small spaces in order to use the most of the room available. But this wasn’t working for 28-year-old Jaelynn Chaney

    As a plus-size woman, she often took up more space than one seat could hold, and so she demanded airlines give free tickets to customers like her.

    This solution was met with a wave of hate comments saying it wasn’t an airplane’s job to accommodate her size. A few netizens came up with the “suggestion” that she should be “charged by weight” in the way someone pays “extra for luggage.”

    “So my body is being compared to luggage?” she asked. “Charging by weight is fatphobic and dehumanizing,” adding that she wasn’t a suitcase. 

    The influencer closed the debate with, “It’s time to stop treating fat people like we don’t deserve the same dignity and respect.”

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    Marnie
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure what the solution is to this, but one thing that is NOT as solution is to bump someone else off the plane in order to give someone two seats. People have plans. It's NEVER okay to bump someone from the seat they paid for (except for obviously some poor behavior by the person themselves).

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    #11

    Flying Private Is The Solution

    Plus-size woman in black outfit at an airport, highlighting discomfort in 'fatphobic' airline spaces.

    For the third time, Gracie Bon is standing up for what she believes is right.

    After campaigning for bigger seats on aircrafts, the plus-size model said she was now banned from a few select airlines. But to her, this wasn’t a problem as she’s now decided to fly with her own private jet.

    “Some airlines banned me so this is how I have to travel,” Gracie said in a video showcasing her experience flying privately. 

    “Everytime I travel, I used to buy two or three seats. So I started a campaign requesting bigger seats and they didn’t like it. Now flying private is my only solution,” later saying that being banned was the “best thing” to ever happen to her. 

    “Is flying private the solution for big girls like me?” she asked.

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