Man Is Confused After Getting A Message From A “Friend Of A Friend” Who Gave Him A Ride Home Asking Him To Pay $2.47 For Gas
Having in mind that society is now faced with various hardcore problems such as rising costs of accommodation, food, gas, and other important things that help us to live comfortably, it’s no wonder that people will try to find ways to cut these costs in order to save some money. It’s good that there are a lot of smart ways to do it, one of them being sharing a ride with someone, this way not only saving some money but also being environmentally conscious. But what if such a good plan becomes a pain when someone asks you to pay a ridiculous amount for their services? Especially when it’s a one-time thing? This TikTok user named @peterpribylpierdinock shared a private conversation with his “friend’s friend” that made his post viral with almost 4M views. What was so intriguing about what the man shared that it received so much attention? It was the woman who gave him a ride request that made thousands of people join the debate online.
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Oftentimes people come up with smart ways to cut unnecessary costs and this way save some money
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Peter started his video by sharing a screenshot of the message he received from Julia, someone who was a “friend of a friend” and who gave him and his roommate a ride. In her message, the woman asked the TikToker what was his and his roommate’s Venmo so she could request $2.47 from each for driving them both home. Perhaps Julia understood that her request was weird because of the small sum she asked for, because she proceeded with a follow-up message explaining why she asked the guy to send this amount. Understandably, the prices of gas are going up, so the woman wanted to get her share back, stating “don’t blame me, blame [B]iden”.
TikTok user decided to share a screenshot of a message he received from a “friend of a friend” who asked him to reimburse her $2.47 for giving him a ride home
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The only comment that the author of the video made was about him “actively rooting for the Yellowstone Supervolcano.” Only an 8-second video started an elaborate discussion online where people shared that they wouldn’t have enough audacity to ask someone to pay this kind of sum even if they really needed the money. For others it was a perfect opportunity to share what they would’ve replied to such a request, sharing some funny comebacks. But this was only one type of opinion, as there were TikTokers who addressed the fact that if someone you don’t know that well offers to give you a ride, the polite thing to do is to offer to pay for the gas for them. Someone also brought up the fact that internet users don’t know the whole story and the woman’s financial situation, so they can’t be making fun of her.
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@peterpribylpierdinockFriends of friends getting way too bold♬ chrissy wake up but its peaceful – Margot
This video soon became viral with 3.8M views, starting a heated debate online
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Having in mind that the times are tough for many people, what are some smart and less restrictive ways to save money? While there is a lot of useful advice on how to save money, some of them might not work for everyone as we all are different, we receive different incomes, and we have different types of monetary responsibilities and spending habits. But what are some of the universal practices that might at least help us to take the first step towards making smarter financial choices? According to Bank of America, there are a few easy ways that people can adapt to their financial situation and save some money.
A lot of TikTok users were surprised that the woman actually asked for that kind of sum to be reimbursed
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First, it’s important to track your spending habits in a way that works best for you in order to see where you spend most of your finances. Perhaps you spend too much money on takeout or subscriptions you don’t use, and never thought about it wasting your money. Once you see some patterns in your spending, it will allow you to make a budget that shouldn’t be exceeded with unnecessary purchases. It might seem tricky to try and cut all unessential purchases, but it does help to save a lot of money if you learn to stop yourself from impulsive buying, do some more digging into finding interesting activities that are free, and spend time cooking yourself rather than going to a restaurant.
While others also raised a question of why the man didn’t offer to pay for a ride in the first place as an act of politeness
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Saving money takes time and willpower. What would work as a great motivation in this case is setting certain saving goals. Thinking of buying a new car? Perhaps remodeling your home? Or want to spend that money on the trip of a lifetime? There could be multiple things that are worth saving for that would work as a booster to not give up. To maintain your progress, find a suitable tool (for example, savings account) to check how you’re doing and how much you have already saved. Do you have any additional tips and tricks that help with saving money? Don’t forget to leave your thoughts in the comments down below!
Despite the video dividing the TikTok community into two groups, the author of the post didn’t comment much on the whole situation
Imagine getting upset because someone gave you a ride and only asked you $2.50. I wish I could get a ride home for that cheap imagine being so f****** entitled you think you can get a ride taking someone's time and gas and not offer them even a couple bucks which is already a p**s poor cheap coverage
Okay, she should have either (a) not offered the ride or (b) made the payment terms clear before said ride. Is it unreasonable to request gas money upfront? No. Is the manner in which money was requested after the fact petty? Yes.
Load More Replies...Him and his roommate, that's nearly $5. Maybe that $5 will buy her some bread and milk for tomorrow or something. I'd assume she really needs it if she's asking for such a small amount. Also, where I'm from, if someone gives you a lift you offer petrol money. If I added up and saved all the 'nah, it's cool's I've done for people over the years I'd be in the money. Maybe she's asked to give lifts a lot and has decided she's too out of pocket. Honestly, the guy who put her on blast is the one in the wrong here.
She shouldn't have offered,or said I can't afford it. People would understand!
Load More Replies...Am I missing something here? Surely $2.50 isn't a lot of money? That's literally pocket change.
The point is being upfront about charging for gas instead of waiting till after. It is petty to blindsided someone with a charge they were not expecting. It is also polite to offer gas money in return for a ride, even between friends.
Load More Replies...Who the hell tries to charge for a service *after* the fact. You've gotta agree to those terms ahead of time, otherwise, don't expect something in return.
Exactly what Judge Judy would have said. Wanting the money doesn't make it a contract. Agree ahead of time.
Load More Replies...1) I would never ask for something so trivial, but we don't know the full situation. 2) I would be hugely embarrassed that she was expecting gas $ and I didn't think to offer it, so I would Venmo her $5 with a thank you and hope that it doesn't come off as passive aggressive while secretly hoping it does come off as passive aggressive
Yes, all of that, and then I would probably never accept a ride home from her again. Out of sheer stress.
Load More Replies..."Blame Biden" shows this lady is a dumbass. I feel like payment should have been discussed before the ride not after. Doesn't matter if they were drunk or not
Yeah, Biden just decided he wants gas to be expensive. Too bad we do not have a SMART president anymore who would just decide to make gas cheaper. /S
The main issue here is communication. If the driver wanted $ for gas, the best way to ask for it is in person, ideally before or while driving. Utilizing text after the fact increases the chance for misunderstandings. One must be brave enough to be assertive in order to communicate most effectively. Otherwise, drop the issue and no use complaining about it.
Pretty sure in most countries giving someone a lift is fine but if you charge for it you can end up in a whole world of problems with your vehicle insurance, driving licence, being an unregistered taxi cab etc etc
Making a polite offer to pay gas money is normal.
Load More Replies...I absolutely effing hate the gullible braindead masses that think presidents set prices on anything. This is why the US is screwed: generations of lead huffing propagandized self-serving bastards
Ahh, punished by the incoherent masses on the Internet after giving someone that is a friend of a friend home, probably because he was drunk. I would personally put the word out that payment for saving him from either killing someone or getting a DD was being raked over the coals publicly on the Internet and watch as his options outside of Lyft, Uber, or a Taxi dry up. Seriously, $2.50 is minuscule and I would have given it to her with a thank you for covering my back. I probably would have upped it to $20. Maybe that is just me... Narcissists are running rampant these days. It is not a good look.
i feel like she should've said, sure i can give you ride but only if you pitch in for gas. not asked for $$ after the fact? or unless they asked her to drive them all around town, using more gas than expected? idk, it just seems weird to ask for it after and then try to use biden as an excuse.... is biden asking you for $2.47?? is that why it's his fault??? so many questions...
I see no where saying she randomly offered the ride, only that she gave the ride which they likely were in need of. She likely did not expect to need to ask as I have never had to be asked to pay my own way...especially when asking a coworker for a ride. This person sounds entitled and will get support of other entitled people to attack this woman, when in reality they should have offered to chip for gas. Yta a major one.
How does anyone have over a thousand text messages? Unread? And this is the one you read? I have so many questions
Imagine getting upset because someone gave you a ride and only asked you $2.50. I wish I could get a ride home for that cheap imagine being so f****** entitled you think you can get a ride taking someone's time and gas and not offer them even a couple bucks which is already a p**s poor cheap coverage
Okay, she should have either (a) not offered the ride or (b) made the payment terms clear before said ride. Is it unreasonable to request gas money upfront? No. Is the manner in which money was requested after the fact petty? Yes.
Load More Replies...Him and his roommate, that's nearly $5. Maybe that $5 will buy her some bread and milk for tomorrow or something. I'd assume she really needs it if she's asking for such a small amount. Also, where I'm from, if someone gives you a lift you offer petrol money. If I added up and saved all the 'nah, it's cool's I've done for people over the years I'd be in the money. Maybe she's asked to give lifts a lot and has decided she's too out of pocket. Honestly, the guy who put her on blast is the one in the wrong here.
She shouldn't have offered,or said I can't afford it. People would understand!
Load More Replies...Am I missing something here? Surely $2.50 isn't a lot of money? That's literally pocket change.
The point is being upfront about charging for gas instead of waiting till after. It is petty to blindsided someone with a charge they were not expecting. It is also polite to offer gas money in return for a ride, even between friends.
Load More Replies...Who the hell tries to charge for a service *after* the fact. You've gotta agree to those terms ahead of time, otherwise, don't expect something in return.
Exactly what Judge Judy would have said. Wanting the money doesn't make it a contract. Agree ahead of time.
Load More Replies...1) I would never ask for something so trivial, but we don't know the full situation. 2) I would be hugely embarrassed that she was expecting gas $ and I didn't think to offer it, so I would Venmo her $5 with a thank you and hope that it doesn't come off as passive aggressive while secretly hoping it does come off as passive aggressive
Yes, all of that, and then I would probably never accept a ride home from her again. Out of sheer stress.
Load More Replies..."Blame Biden" shows this lady is a dumbass. I feel like payment should have been discussed before the ride not after. Doesn't matter if they were drunk or not
Yeah, Biden just decided he wants gas to be expensive. Too bad we do not have a SMART president anymore who would just decide to make gas cheaper. /S
The main issue here is communication. If the driver wanted $ for gas, the best way to ask for it is in person, ideally before or while driving. Utilizing text after the fact increases the chance for misunderstandings. One must be brave enough to be assertive in order to communicate most effectively. Otherwise, drop the issue and no use complaining about it.
Pretty sure in most countries giving someone a lift is fine but if you charge for it you can end up in a whole world of problems with your vehicle insurance, driving licence, being an unregistered taxi cab etc etc
Making a polite offer to pay gas money is normal.
Load More Replies...I absolutely effing hate the gullible braindead masses that think presidents set prices on anything. This is why the US is screwed: generations of lead huffing propagandized self-serving bastards
Ahh, punished by the incoherent masses on the Internet after giving someone that is a friend of a friend home, probably because he was drunk. I would personally put the word out that payment for saving him from either killing someone or getting a DD was being raked over the coals publicly on the Internet and watch as his options outside of Lyft, Uber, or a Taxi dry up. Seriously, $2.50 is minuscule and I would have given it to her with a thank you for covering my back. I probably would have upped it to $20. Maybe that is just me... Narcissists are running rampant these days. It is not a good look.
i feel like she should've said, sure i can give you ride but only if you pitch in for gas. not asked for $$ after the fact? or unless they asked her to drive them all around town, using more gas than expected? idk, it just seems weird to ask for it after and then try to use biden as an excuse.... is biden asking you for $2.47?? is that why it's his fault??? so many questions...
I see no where saying she randomly offered the ride, only that she gave the ride which they likely were in need of. She likely did not expect to need to ask as I have never had to be asked to pay my own way...especially when asking a coworker for a ride. This person sounds entitled and will get support of other entitled people to attack this woman, when in reality they should have offered to chip for gas. Yta a major one.
How does anyone have over a thousand text messages? Unread? And this is the one you read? I have so many questions
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