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Americans Share 30 Things They Didn’t Realize Were American Until They Went Abroad
It's always interesting to travel around the world and experience different cultures and traditions that may differ from what you believe to be the "norm". And even though most of the time these cultural differences spark nothing more but a delightful surprise, there are some characteristics that are difficult for people to wrap their heads around.
Have you ever thought that there are things that only your country does but seems that everybody else doesn't really understand it at all? Well, according to this askredit thread, those living in America definitely have this problem. After getting asked "What is something you didn't realize was typical American stereotype until you went abroad?", people flooded the post with an endless list of customs that only in America are considered to be normal. From garbage disposals and free public bathrooms to extreme portion sizes, there are some strictly American things.
Scroll down to read these answers and funny stereotypes, and don't forget to share your delightful cultural differences in the comments!
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The prices abroad don't add tax after the fact. You pay what the price shows. No need to figure the tax. Dumb that we do that here.
Being "friendly" to an extent. I checked in at a hostel and walked into the lounge area where people from all over the world were just chilling. I kinda introduced myself to the whole room, and someone goes, "you're from the states, yeah?" And I'm like, "yeah howd you know?" They said, "only an American will walk into a room of strangers and introduce themselves to everybody."
When I went to Australia I found out very quickly that no one down there "roots" for a team - they "go for" a team. So when I said I root for the Red Sox I got a lot of weird looks
(Rooting means fucking in Australian)
Sugar. When I visited Japan, even some of their sweetest desserts pale in comparison to how much sugar is in American food.
I absolutely hate how sweet things are here. EVERYTHING could do with at least 50% less.
How fat we are. Like, I know we are when compared to the rest of the world. But it made me realize what I think is fat in the US, is grossly obese in Europe. And what's not-fit, but not-fat in the US, is fat is Europe.
There are some hamhogs over there but my god, returning home was an eye opener.
At least we don't smoke as much, I guess.
It was strange to see some American documentaries where people use mobility scooters just because they are fat. Here in Finland only people that I have seen using mobility scooters are elderly or disabled people. Fat people just walk.
Most of us are very disgusted by people that use scooters because they are too fat to move. It's like that movie WALL-E
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This is the truth. My Aunt was here from Holland and we all went out to eat. When we received our food, she very loudly exclaimed "OMG no wonder everyone in America is fat, look at all this food"!! Now I always take home a to-go box when I go out to eat and I get TWO extra meals out of it so she's absolutely right that our portions are disgusting and quite a few people eat it all
What a peach your aunt sounds like... portions are ridiculous in America. But the upside for me is more meals.
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Too easy access to cheap calories, and city layouts/zoning that discourage walking and biking :(
What seemed even stranger to me the first time i visited US: you don't have what we'd call average-sized people. Everyone is either super fit and slim or just fat (or what we call fat here).
What is "average size"? How do you know there arent any here?
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Honestly, the Americans I met in Korea were all either skinny or good looking. But a friend (from Mongolia), who graduated high school in the USA, told me that she was roommates with these really obese stereotypes. And she said all they ate was frozen pizza and stuff like that.
True, but I think we can credit the fact that Europe, and the rest of the world, doesn't put so many additives, preservatives and plain junk in their food. Their food is far superior to the c**p we're forced to purchase and eat.
@Karin Morris: People eat a lot of junk food in Europe, too, and yet aren't as fat. My boyfriend once spent some time in the US and reported back that they put a LOT of fat and sugar into everything over there. As in, bread is sweet (it's not over here, there's NO sugar in bread), pizza is sweet (not here, there's just a bit of sugar in tomato sauce to make it less sour), fried stuff is really greasy. I've come to wonder if obese US Americans might be able to lose weight simply by eating European fast food.
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I think most western countries are getting fatter in all honestly but with you guys its the amount of food you eat, when i was in the states and went out for a bite to eat, when they put the plate in front of me it was ridiculous, i would never eat that much food and i'm 6'3 and around 210 pounds, far too much for me, silly portions.
I have also noticed this. My hubs is from the UK and people really are so much slimmer there. They walk more than we do and eat smaller portions. I feel really big there even though I am pretty average by US standards. His whole family is naturally slim and in mine the women all gain weight as we age.
It is always a normal comment when someone comes back from visiting US: "I have never seen so many grossly obese people together. And they even seem not to care!!"
Trust me. They do care. They have gone on diets and lost weight, then gained it back.
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I am a healthy weight, but by no means skinny, and I felt so out-of-place in Paris (probably not representative of all of Europe bc Parisians are fat-snobs), but I visited London and breathed a sigh of relief. I felt so much more comfortable there. (Although they are the fattest country in Europe; definitely America’s father.)
Actually, smoking combats weight loss. A lot of smokers gain weight after they quit.
America declared obesity a disability. So fat people are free to keep getting fat. If you get so fat that you cannot move, then you get a government payout. You can use that money to buy more food and get even more fat. There is no consequence.
Do you think the fatness levels in the US are linked to the amount of driving they do? I mean in the UK it's often easier to walk to the shops as parking and traffic is such a hassle.
Oh I live in Europe at the moment. There is literally no difference in the obesity rates, when figuring in the rate of population. Without a chart I can tell there are just as many unhealthy people here as in back home. What is eye opening about the states is how many medical care establishments there are. Do not see that here in the land of socialized medicine either.
Other countries don't allow their foods to contain hormone and endocrine disrupters, either. These 2 things alone contribute to the obesity problem of the US.
I went to Costa Rica (my first of two overseas trips) and didn't notice it until we got back to the airport. And then it was just incredibly in-your-face obvious how overweight most of the people were. I'm sure not all were from the US, but probably a good majority were. Not just overweight, but also bad postures and just a general look of unhealthiness. It was very sad to see.
No offence but a lot of it comes from political correctness towards words like fat, overweight, obese etc.
See the comment about how much sugar is in all our American food....it's NOT the smoking, it's the carbs.
This is why people are thinner over here, they smoke a lot. Instead of eating something, they take a smoke.
And, it really varies in the US from State to State, although the Western States are catching up to the South.
ironic that they smoke like chimneys but are so horrified at fat people
The only exception is Britain where there are plenty of obese people, but maybe that's why they're leaving the EU :)
considering Marilyn Monroe's "size 14" is actually today's size 6, is evidence of the delusional vanity sizing in the US. And yet, there is an outcry for "more plus size clothes". Today's US size 14, *IS* "plus size".
Yeah, you are mistaken. Marilyn Monroe would not wear a size 6 today. She was the "ideal" weight back then, and that is considered plus size today.
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The stereotype about us being loud is true. I never thought of myself as being loud until I went abroad and would hang up the phone after speaking in what I thought was appropriate volume to find everyone around me was staring at me, and realized how much more quiet they were lol whoops
Everything is relative. Come to Spain and you will start to think that, in comparison, you are as quiet as a mouse. It doesn't matter how loud you are, the average Spaniard is even louder. The level of tolerance to noise here is unbelievable.
Measuring walking/driving distance in blocks.
It's the unit of measure I use most frequently when giving directions - the restaurant is 3 blocks away, go south one block and then two blocks west, I live six blocks from the grocery store...
It wasn't until I studied abroad in England and got a complete blank look when I asked someone how many blocks away the library was that I realized using "block" as a measurement only makes sense in cities that were largely pre-planned and built on grid system. AKA: not many places outside the US.
You have to remember that many town in Europe are actually quite ancient, far older than the USA.
Red plastic cups for parties. So much so that people outside US use them as an accessory to American themed parties.
I would be so uncomfortable at an "American-Themed" party. I'm American, but I have absolutely no idea what the expectations would be.
Ok, so, this one is probably pretty obvious, and looking back on it it’s really embarrassing. My family took a European vacation when I was 17. For some reason, we decided to get KFC in the UK. (Because ‘Murica.)
My friend who came with us went with me to order and pick up our order. We ordered a family size bucket of chicken, and they asked us what kinds of side dishes we wanted. We said “Biscuits.” And the employees looked at us with the strangest look.
UK KFC: “You want . . . biscuits with your chicken?” Me: “Yes. Biscuits.” UK KFC: “We don’t sell those.” Me: “What do you mean you don’t sell biscuits. What are your sides?” UK KFC: “Chips?” Me: “You mean French fries? Ok fine. That’ll do.”
I was worldly enough to know that “chips” meant “French fries”, but “biscuits” in the UK are cookies. My fat ass tried to order fried chicken and cookies. I am positive someone over in the UK is still telling this story at parties as an example of how disgusting Americans are.
Also on this same trip my father asked why our waitress kept saying “cheese”, when she was saying “cheers”. We really left a good impression across the pond.
Haha! This reminds me of a time when my family was visiting relatives in Japan and because we were from America, my great-aunt decided to take us to an "American restaurant." I loved it because their interpretation of American food was about equivalent in accuracy to our interpretation of Japanese and Chinese cuisine.
Small avocados.
Went to puerto rico. Was like, ‘yo ill have like 6 of those stuffed avocados’. Buddy was like, ‘yo gringo, i think you underestimate the size of our avocados here. Just have one and ill being you more if you want after’.
I had half of one. It was like a football.
Here in the States, pregnancy announcements/reveals/baby showers are mainstream but it's generally a BIG no-no to bring it up in Kenya. My mom found out the hard way. Essentially, asking someone when the baby is due is the equivalent of asking the person "when did you and your husband fuck?" which is considered EXTREMELY rude. The lady my mom asked was gracious about it but said "If we were not such good friends I would have slapped you!"
A guy from Pakistan I had just met asked me why I wasn't married. I told him in the US that's a rude question. His immediate response was to ask me again!
Garbage disposals in sinks.
When I moved to the UK, my flatmates asked how in movies people would stick their hands in the sink drain and it be ripped apart. I told them about garbage disposals and they were very weirded out.
In most parts of Germany they are forbidden. The reason is that the scraps would feed the rat population under ground
Having your drink constantly refilled at restaurants. I just wanna drink a ton of water alright?
Here in Sweden many restaurants let customers get a bottle of water to the table. Then we can chose ourselves when we want to refill.
Buying stuff and the cashier putting your items in a plastic or paper bag. Went to Germany, and found it strange they don't bag your items. Everyone just brings their own bag or dumps their stuff in a back pack.
That's because we're trying to save the planet, one unused plastic bag at a time. Having to pay 10p for plastic bags in supermarkets cut bag use by 80% in Wales in one year.
Root beer is apparently disgusting and an offense to most of the worlds palate.
I moved to England from Texas about six years ago. One of the major things that I noticed was that smiling and being friendly towards strangers was considered bizarre. This is a bit true in any metropolitan area, but especially in the UK. In Texas I was used to smiling at people, asking for directions if I needed them, and being friendly towards strangers. I learned very quickly that smiling at someone on the tube, or asking someone for directions on the street immediately makes someone think you’re trying to scam/rob them or you’re crazy.
Smiles and friendly talk is one thing Americans should share with others.
Ranch flavor Doritos in the Netherlands are called "Cool American" flavor.
Keeping AC on 100% of the time in the summer.
Visited Madrid for about a month to see the exchange student we housed, and found that they typically only turn on AC at Night to sleep or when it reaches a damned 105 deg F.
Massively wide roads/lanes. The whole of Ireland made me feel claustrophobic, but when I got back home the roads felt like way too much wasted space.
Going out to a restaurant. In America, you are seated ASAP, and then they bring you drinks, appetizers, entree, desert and then check as quick as they possibly can (if it's good service) for a total time of 45 minutes to an hour and a halfish. Staying past this time is seen as a bit rude. In Europe, going out to eat seemed to be more of an event that you slowly enjoyed for a longer period of time. First, they you bring you drinks and an appetizer for the first hour. Then the second hour is the entree and desert. Then it's more drinks for another half hour or so. I don't know if it's because we were American but it seemed like the wait staff everywhere we went was annoyed that we were rushing them, when we just thought it was bad service and didn't understand the routine.
Sorry, but Europe is not a country. There are 50 countries if you include the ones that are partly in Europe, partly in Asia so talking about the customs of eating out in Europe mean nothing at all unless you include where you actually were. Different countries, different languages, different cuisines, different cultures and different customs.
Road trips...at least just jumping in the car and driving a few hours without giving it much thought. I live in a large western state and it seems at least every other weekend my family and I were in the car traveling for a few hours to see some site, go into Mexico or another state.
I have relatives in Switzerland and they were going to drive us to the Frankfurt airport and I was blown away how big of a deal it was to them. My uncle had the car inspected, shopped around for gas, and printed off travel and weather reports. All for a trip my dad would have said "hey lets do this this weekend, in the car kids!"
In the US, 100 years is a long time. In Europe, 100 miles is a long distance.
Having plenty of *FREE* bathrooms around for the public to use.
Oh good lord yes. If a county council tries to close one, there is a heck of a protest. We demand plenty of public loos.
I doubt this is restricted to America in any way, but when I studied abroad in the UK, the lack of public drinking laws was a bit of a culture shock. Being able to walk outside with a bottle of beer was very freeing
If anyone visits Finland the alcohol laws here are very confusing - also for us Finns. You can visit a store that is open 24hours but you can't buy alcohol drinks between 9 pm and 9 am. If you want alcohol drinks that have over 5,5% volume of alcohol (like vodka that often has 40%) then you have to buy them from a separate store called Alko that is not open 24/7 and is often closed on sundays and holidays. It is also not a good idea to drink alcohol on a public place because police may confiscate your drinks. Also alcohol is really expensive here so many Finnish people buy alcohol from Estonia or Russia. But at least you can buy alcohol and visit bars when you are 18 years old.
I was struck by the extent to which nobody talks to strangers in northern Europe ... Even in big cities in the US, people will talk to each other sometimes in line, on the subway, etc. Not deep conversations, but it isn't weird to make casual conversation.
How large grocery stores are here. My wife is not american and we lived in China and were in HK all the time... they had large international stores that were great and she didnt really grasp the size of american grocery stores till our first week in the USA and there's 150 feet of cereals on one aisle
You could house, clothe and feed a small village in some American superstores.
S’mores. I was in New Zealand having a bonfire on the beach and someone went and grabbed a bag of marshmallows and then everyone just ate them??! By themselves?! And someone from Sweden asked me if s’mores were a real thing or only on tv. I was flabbergasted.
My British friend makes fun of me for how much cheese I use in my cooking.
Doesn't stop her from inhaling my potato casseroles, but there you go.
My husband would be in heaven. He always says "the more cheese the better."
I am not American but visit the U.S alot and I tell you,almost all Americans has this habit of giving the 'half smile look' to anyone,that is not just normal anywhere else
Not sure what this means? Half smile look when confronting someone as they walk past you, to be nice?
24 hour stores.
It's weird not being able to buy random sh*t at 4am...
The amount of people calling the entire rest of the world "over there" made me roll my eyes.
As if Chinese food outside China was Chinese. lol Or any other food. It's hilarious what some people consider to be German food. On the other hand, most of us Germans don't know Americans eat their popcorn salted. Because in 95% of all cases we have sweet popcorn. So if we see a movie starring people eating popcorn, we always consider it to be sweet. :o)
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Many of these are due to ignorant people not taking the time to at research at least the basics of a culture before visting. I mean, every place has their own customs and traditions, you should be polite and respect these as much as possible. Especially when going to a place with a different language, at least ATTEMPTING to learn the basis of the language is pretty much a given to me. Like guys, please be considerate and polite. It can make a WORLD of a difference, especially in other countries.
I dont think not knowing this stuff offended anyone or their culture, I think most/all of these are just observations as oppose to causing any real inconvenience.
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It is this country - and a homogenous "rest of the world", "abroad". This is a shortsighted and ignorant phallacy that exists wherever one goes in the human world. "We" do it like this, and "they" (everybody else) do it like that. This is what allows prejudice and racism to take root as it totally disregards variation, individuality, and plurality. "The rest of the world" is a multifaceted, wonderfully interesting multitude of places, faces, customs, traditions and, yes, sometimes even simple, everyday actions, like doing the dishes, are done differently.
as a Canadian these lists are always so disappointing in that all of these things are considered "American" when they pretty well all apply to Canadians... this should be "North Americans" not simply Americans.
Some of them, but not all of them. As a Canadian, it still seems like the U.S. Americans are louder and "friendlier".
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It's funny how people are going on and on about how "rude" American's are while they are mocking us. Classy.
IKR! Like...pointing a finger only leaves four pointing right back at you!!
Load More Replies... America is far from perfect, but a lot of these I'm thankful for.
Why has this simple question been downvoted? In Greece, for example, friends of all ages and of both sexes kiss each other on both cheeks when they meet. The Greeks are among the least violent people you could possibly find. It has given me immense satisfaction to see gangs of loudmouth 'looking-for-trouble' looking teenage guys meet up with hugs and kisses. This also brings respect for women since boys learn from a very young age how to properly behave around women.
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Then Americans and Indonesians are the same when it comes to smiling, nodding, or make a small talk to strangers. It's totally ok to me, except when people take small talk to a new level when they go too far: asking too much questions especially about personal life. I will leave them ASAP.
I moved to England for a few years .. one day I accidentally bumped into a woman in front of me while i was standing in line. Being from the South, I said "excuse me ma'am". She turned around and in a very sarcastic and loud voice said "well EXCUSE ME MA'AM". I was stunned I had some how insulted her and didn't know how. Later I found out the only person you say "ma'am' to is the Queen.
To be honest most people wouldn't react that badly! You were unlucky. Generally speaking you hear the American accent and know why it's being said, that it's a cultural thing. I suppose some people hate being called 'madam' and ma'am is short for that - it makes them feel old. Doesn't excuse being rude.
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You have forgotten the one where America is the only developed country that still uses feet, inches and Fahrenheit
Im just impressed Americans bothered to get a passport and travel past Hwy 50. If you think the ones that travel are bonkers.. you should meet the ones that have never left the country... YIKES>.
I think this short clip will show what (many) people think about 1 particular highly annoying thing, they do when visiting abroad ;-) https://www.dumpert.nl/mediabase/7646233/45c813a8/het_is_st_patrick_s_day_.html
These are all valid things. My BIGGEST problem being overseas was that you couldn't get ice in your drink or you got 1 cube! Even when I asked for a glass full of ice, I got only 3 cubes. It drove me crazy!!
Depending on the country getting ice is a bad idea because it’s just frozen tap water. In Mexico we avoided ice.
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I'm seconding Jo Smith - Brits do not put ice in wine.
Load More Replies... The amount of people calling the entire rest of the world "over there" made me roll my eyes.
As if Chinese food outside China was Chinese. lol Or any other food. It's hilarious what some people consider to be German food. On the other hand, most of us Germans don't know Americans eat their popcorn salted. Because in 95% of all cases we have sweet popcorn. So if we see a movie starring people eating popcorn, we always consider it to be sweet. :o)
Load More Replies... Many of these are due to ignorant people not taking the time to at research at least the basics of a culture before visting. I mean, every place has their own customs and traditions, you should be polite and respect these as much as possible. Especially when going to a place with a different language, at least ATTEMPTING to learn the basis of the language is pretty much a given to me. Like guys, please be considerate and polite. It can make a WORLD of a difference, especially in other countries.
I dont think not knowing this stuff offended anyone or their culture, I think most/all of these are just observations as oppose to causing any real inconvenience.
Load More Replies... It is this country - and a homogenous "rest of the world", "abroad". This is a shortsighted and ignorant phallacy that exists wherever one goes in the human world. "We" do it like this, and "they" (everybody else) do it like that. This is what allows prejudice and racism to take root as it totally disregards variation, individuality, and plurality. "The rest of the world" is a multifaceted, wonderfully interesting multitude of places, faces, customs, traditions and, yes, sometimes even simple, everyday actions, like doing the dishes, are done differently.
as a Canadian these lists are always so disappointing in that all of these things are considered "American" when they pretty well all apply to Canadians... this should be "North Americans" not simply Americans.
Some of them, but not all of them. As a Canadian, it still seems like the U.S. Americans are louder and "friendlier".
Load More Replies... It's funny how people are going on and on about how "rude" American's are while they are mocking us. Classy.
IKR! Like...pointing a finger only leaves four pointing right back at you!!
Load More Replies... America is far from perfect, but a lot of these I'm thankful for.
Why has this simple question been downvoted? In Greece, for example, friends of all ages and of both sexes kiss each other on both cheeks when they meet. The Greeks are among the least violent people you could possibly find. It has given me immense satisfaction to see gangs of loudmouth 'looking-for-trouble' looking teenage guys meet up with hugs and kisses. This also brings respect for women since boys learn from a very young age how to properly behave around women.
Load More Replies... Then Americans and Indonesians are the same when it comes to smiling, nodding, or make a small talk to strangers. It's totally ok to me, except when people take small talk to a new level when they go too far: asking too much questions especially about personal life. I will leave them ASAP.
I moved to England for a few years .. one day I accidentally bumped into a woman in front of me while i was standing in line. Being from the South, I said "excuse me ma'am". She turned around and in a very sarcastic and loud voice said "well EXCUSE ME MA'AM". I was stunned I had some how insulted her and didn't know how. Later I found out the only person you say "ma'am' to is the Queen.
To be honest most people wouldn't react that badly! You were unlucky. Generally speaking you hear the American accent and know why it's being said, that it's a cultural thing. I suppose some people hate being called 'madam' and ma'am is short for that - it makes them feel old. Doesn't excuse being rude.
Load More Replies... You have forgotten the one where America is the only developed country that still uses feet, inches and Fahrenheit
Im just impressed Americans bothered to get a passport and travel past Hwy 50. If you think the ones that travel are bonkers.. you should meet the ones that have never left the country... YIKES>.
I think this short clip will show what (many) people think about 1 particular highly annoying thing, they do when visiting abroad ;-) https://www.dumpert.nl/mediabase/7646233/45c813a8/het_is_st_patrick_s_day_.html
These are all valid things. My BIGGEST problem being overseas was that you couldn't get ice in your drink or you got 1 cube! Even when I asked for a glass full of ice, I got only 3 cubes. It drove me crazy!!
Depending on the country getting ice is a bad idea because it’s just frozen tap water. In Mexico we avoided ice.
Load More Replies... my Aunty Evelyn got a nearly new blue Hyundai Accent Hatchback just by working online with a laptop. hop over to this site- ►►►►►► www.moneyurban.com
I'm seconding Jo Smith - Brits do not put ice in wine.
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