Welcome, brave reader, to the most perilous gift-giving safari of them all: the hunt for the perfect present for a 12-year-old. This is the age of the great divide, the awkward, beautiful, and utterly confusing chasm between childhood and the teenage years. They are too cool for toys, but not quite ready for a sensible sweater.

They live in a world of inside jokes you don't understand and TikTok trends that change every four seconds. Asking them what they want is a fool's errand. But fear not. We've cracked the code, deciphered the memes, and emerged from the glittery, slightly sticky trenches with a list of things that will actually earn you a genuine, non-ironic smile.

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#1

Because Running Around The House Yelling 'Pew Pew' Is Way More Epic When It's Part Of An Actual Laser Tag Set

Two tweens playing with glowing laser tag guns and vests, ideal gifts that get genuine thank yous from kids.

Review: "Ok seriously this game is fun. I was chasing my children (better at night because it lights up) and we started off with 15 lives...well we all know who won....MOM...I started with 15 lives and ended the game with 15 lives...the kids totally cannot beat me hahahaha...the vest and the guns light up and have a little flashlight on the guns. The guns and vest vibrates, also they talk...HOW COOL!!! you can actually go up to 99 lives but that it too many for me...I am trying to lose weight but gosh not playing that many lives...LOL" - Dimples Gehman

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    Let Them Capture All Those Goofy Bestie Moments And Turn Them Into Real-Life Stickers With A Heat Printing Instant Camera Because Phone Pics Are Cool But Stickers Are Forever

    Green instant print camera held in hand, a unique gift idea that avoids the typical tween side-eye reaction.

    Review: "This camera offers an instant print feature that brings my daughter’s creativity to life in seconds, allowing her to quickly print black and white photos while saving the color versions on the included 32GB SD card. She loves the dual-lens for selfies and regular shots, and the photos are clear and vibrant. The thermal printing technology is safe and easy to use, with no need for toner. The 2.4-inch screen is perfect for viewing and editing photos, and she loves using the cute frames and filters to personalize her pictures." - Eileen Miller

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    Miniature greenhouse gift with plants and garden tools, perfect for unique gifts that get genuine thank yous from tweens.

    Review: "One of my favorite DIY project by far! Very tedious but rewarding. Took me a few weeks to complete but that’s only because I worked on it for an hour or two every few days. Totally recommend!" - Stephanie Snyder

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    Colorful Hello Kitty lip glosses with character toppers, ideal gift ideas to get genuine thanks from tweens.

    Review: "I bought these for my teens birthday party. I put them in the goodie bags and they were a hit!! All the girls loved them. The quality was great! They were small, but still a good size. These are great for any age!" - M. G

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    Close-up of colorful glittery lip gloss tubes being opened, ideal gifts that get genuine thank yous from tweens.

    Review: "Their beautifully smooth and are a perfect and put the Kira in rich.the Japanese zebra brand has never disappointed me and I am truly grateful." - Junkie4fitness

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    #6

    That Empty Spot On Their Desk Is Practically Begging For A Cool, Slightly Mischievous Toy Like A Labubu To Live There

    Hand holding a small blue fuzzy toy creature with big eyes and a playful expression, a unique gift idea for tweens.

    Review: "Authentic Labubu. Code was new(unscratched) and verified authentic on the Pop Mart site!box came nicely packaged and the Labubu box was perfect and unopened." - Brandi Janca-Ramos

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    Is your shopping cart starting to look like the aftermath of a glitter bomb in a candy store? Excellent. You are on the right path. Each item on this list is a tiny, perfect Trojan horse, a way to sneak your affection past the heavily guarded fortress of tween apathy. You're almost successfully speaking their language without having to learn a single TikTok dance.

    #8

    Illuminate Their Bedroom With A Galactic Glow With The Moon Lamp, A Cosmic And Dreamy Gift That's Out Of This World

    Hand holding a glowing moon lamp in warm white and cool blue light, a unique gift idea for tweens.

    Review: "I love this Moon. I have one for the Bedroom, and I gifted (4) of these to friends with young children- and they love it as much as I do. Colors are great. The four different Brightness Levels come in handy, and the different Pulsing Settings take it to the next level. The Price is great for what you get with this product, and as far as I can tell, this one offers the most colors and settings out of all that I’ve seen on Amazon. If you’ve ever stared up at the Moon and wished you could get a Very Close look at it, well, now you can hold it in the palm of your hand." — Michael J. Faradie

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    #11

    Unleash Their Creativity And Encourage Self-Expression With The Inspiring Wreck This Journal, A Unique And Playful Way To Explore Art, Writing, And Imagination

    Colorful pages from a creative journal showing DIY gift ideas that inspire genuine thank yous from tweens.

    Review: "I bought a copy of this for my 11 year old daughter, and myself. We have had SO much fun with these books, and I really had no idea that it was going to help me release feelings. I already ordered us both a second one, as well as a bunch of other Keri Smith books! So worth the money!!!!" — SB518

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    #12

    Let Their Bike Go From 'Just A Ride' To 'Rolling Rave Party' With Some Bike Wheel Lights Lighting Up The Block

    Mountain bike with colorful LED wheel lights indoors, a popular gift idea that will get you a genuine thank you from tweens.

    Review: "I love this product! My son also has these same lights on his bike. They are very bright, and they can blink or stay still. They are very easy to install--a bit time consuming--but very easy. The battery life on these are amazing as well.. I have had them for 6 months now, used regularly, and haven't needed to change out the batteries yet. We love them! Definitely recommend." - Sarah

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    #13

    The Only Thing That Can Make That Five-Paragraph Essay On The Water Cycle Even Remotely Bearable Is A Set Of Colorful Kitty Pens

    Cute cat-themed pens arranged in a row, perfect unique gifts that will get you a genuine thank you from tweens.

    Review: "Very cute designs and they write well and thin." - Becca

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    Hand holding a colorful card game box and playful animal-themed game cards on a soft surface, ideal tween gifts idea.

    Review: "This game is SO much fun!! My family had a blast playing it when it came in yesterday. We played for HOURS, and did not want to stop! My kids (12 & 14) are now begging to play it with their friends. The only issue is that your hands might be sore from all the slapping afterwards, but it’s so worth it. Tons of laughs!" — Audra

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    Remember the ultimate goal here: to witness a reaction that is not the slow, soul-crushing, 180-degree eye-roll. That's the grand prize. Every single one of these gifts is a carefully calculated move to outsmart their "cringe" radar. You are basically a gift-giving secret agent, and your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to deliver a package of pure, unadulterated "okay, that's actually cool."

    Book titled 642 Tiny Things to Draw beside a colored pencil drawing of a cupcake with sprinkles on a yellow page.

    Review: "My 11 yo daughter likes to draw. I was getting sick of her asking me what to draw, so I gave her this as a valentine. She loves it! Some of the concepts get her thinking outside the box." — S. Dearolf

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    #16

    The Internal, Existential Scream Of Every 12-Year-Old Has Been Perfectly Captured And Bottled In The Form Of The Screaming Goat

    Screaming goat toy and novelty red rubber duck with horns, fun gifts that get genuine thank you reactions from tweens.

    Review: "This little goat is hilarious. The book is pretty small but has some interesting facts." - mdecamp

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    UNO Minecraft card game tin and cards showing characters, a popular gift idea to get a genuine thank you from tweens

    Review: "Easy instructions to follow, played with a group of seven year Olds. They loved the minecraft spin to a classic fun game." - Jessica

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    #18

    Help Them Master The Art Of Eating With The Awesome Star Wars Chopsticks, A Fun And Functional Gift That's Out Of This Galaxy

    Glowing light-up chopsticks in blue, red, and green used for eating sushi and enhancing mealtime fun.

    Review: "Of all the gifts I gave my family this holiday - these were the biggest hit! They may never actually get used as chopsticks - but the family fun and sword fights were a blast and had us laughing all day long. Fun for all ages!" — Sue M.

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    #19

    They Get To Play Mad Scientist And Then Eat The Results, Which Is A Much Tastier Outcome Than Most Chemistry Experiments, All Thanks To An Edible Candy Making Science Kit

    Unicorn-themed science kit with colorful stickers and chemical ingredients for tween gift ideas that get genuine thank you reactions.

    Review: "I feel like the box would have been more "filling" or getting my money's worth even with literal filler. Like rainbow (paper or recycled for environmental) filler. The boxes just feel empty, but my daughter's face when she saw a "unicorn p**p" box that we can bake and create makes it all worth while which is why I give it 5 stars. I read reviews prior to purchasing so I also bought donut pans to ensure I had them and I have additional baking ingredients if needed. I will upload pictures of finished products." - Amanda Lockman

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    Mini Jenga game stacked next to its box, a creative gift idea to get a genuine thank you from tweens.

    Review: "This game is very enjoyable and is able to fit in our pockets. It can also be played while travelling in a car or on a plane since the tower isn’t very vibrant sensitive." - Amazon Customer

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    Small turquoise novelty speaker with a cartoon owl face, a perfect gift that will get a genuine thank you from tweens.

    Review: "My child wanted an Alexa and we loved this one because of its design and color. The truth is that it decorates any space. It is functional and they are entertained with it. It teaches them and answers their questions, playing their favorite songs at bedtime." - Yeny londoño

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    Colorful toy parachutes with small plastic figures on a wooden table, a fun gift idea for tweens.

    Review: "These are so much fun and my children have enjoyed playing with them. Well made and tangle free! Great for imaginative play. Definitely recommend." - Hatem Habbouch

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    Colorful geometric mirror gift box with kaleidoscope effect, ideal unique gift to get a genuine thank you from tweens.

    Review: "I was hesitant about spending $25 for this toy and even more concerned when it showed up and I saw the size, but this got the award for favorite Christmas gift. Both my 9 year old and 12 year old play with it constantly!" — Blair001

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    #24

    Because Sometimes Their Brain Has Too Many Tabs Open, A 12-Sided Fidget Toy Is Like A Little Control-Alt-Delete For Their Fingers

    Hand holding a fidget toy with buttons, switches, and textured surfaces, a popular gift for tween stress relief.

    Review: "I thought it would feel cheaper but it's actually pretty nice! I think I'm purchasing another one!" - Wybie

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    Twister game mat with colorful circles and a spinner, a fun gift idea that avoids the dreaded tween side-eye.

    Review: "This was the only classic board game missing in our family's game collection. Finally got it for my girls this Christmas and it was so much fun to play. The mat does slide around a bit, but still playable." - ByMe.87

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