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“Looked At Me Puzzled”: Parents Balk After Babysitter Confesses To Having Two Slices Of Pizza
Young woman babysitter holding and eating a slice of pepperoni pizza, enjoying a casual moment indoors.

“Looked At Me Puzzled”: Parents Balk After Babysitter Confesses To Having Two Slices Of Pizza

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Working as a babysitter means that you have to be flexible and adaptable. Your job is sensitive, as you’re entering someone else’s home to look after their children. However, not all the rules that your clients set out make sense. It’s even worse when they have bizarre regulations that they never mention but expect you to abide by. And we all know that nobody can read minds.

That’s what happened to one hungry babysitter who was berated by her clients for eating some of the food that was ordered in for the kids. She turned to the AITA online community to find out if she overstepped any boundaries by eating a couple of slices of pizza while working. Scroll down for the full story and to see how the internet reacted.

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    The key to success for any babysitter is their ability to communicate well with both the kids and the parents

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    However, no matter how good you are at your job, miscommunications are bound to occur from time to time. This is exactly what happened in the following story

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    There should have been clearer communication between the parents and the babysitter

    It is completely reasonable for the parents to not want their babysitters rummaging through their fridge or pantry. If they feel like their food is off limits, it is their own personal boundary to draw.

    However, in this situation, the parents should have communicated that. After all, they knew the babysitter was staying at their place for more than a couple hours, so it was fair to believe she was going to get hungry eventually.

    On the other hand, assuming you could eat the food can also come off as rude. So, if they didn’t clarify the rules, the next thing the sitter needs to do is to check in with the parents about their preferences.

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    Communicating your expectations and being kind is always the way to go

    If the family food is not to be touched, parents might want to provide some babysitter-only food. That could be snacks, pre-made meals they can heat up, or extra cash to order something in. They can also ask the sitter to bring their own food—that is not an uncommon ask, and there’s nothing wrong with it.

    Whatever the preference, just like with any other rule of the house, communicate it and follow it. And if there is something that’s unclear, do not assume what might be the way to go. It is always better to ask instead.

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    Many internet users showed support for the babysitter’s actions

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    Others thought she had crossed the line

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    Jonas Grinevičius

    Jonas Grinevičius

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    Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real.At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design.In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle.I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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    Jonas Grinevičius

    Jonas Grinevičius

    Writer, Senior Writer

    Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real.At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design.In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle.I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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    Child of the Stars
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The YTA's are as weird as the parents! Feeding the babysitter has been the social norm since before I was born, afaik.

    amy lee
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah making the help stand there watching their betters eat is so lady millennium

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    Kit Black
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All those YTA's are a part of the Reddit self-centered me, me, me, community - and they do not work or play well with others. They are absolutely a symptom of how sick our culture has become

    Trashy Panda
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They sound to me like American MAGA culture that places the employer above the employee.

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    W*F up with calling her a thief?

    Ms.GB
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She should order a pizza and leave 2 slices in their mailbox

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    Child of the Stars
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The YTA's are as weird as the parents! Feeding the babysitter has been the social norm since before I was born, afaik.

    amy lee
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah making the help stand there watching their betters eat is so lady millennium

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    Kit Black
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All those YTA's are a part of the Reddit self-centered me, me, me, community - and they do not work or play well with others. They are absolutely a symptom of how sick our culture has become

    Trashy Panda
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They sound to me like American MAGA culture that places the employer above the employee.

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    W*F up with calling her a thief?

    Ms.GB
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She should order a pizza and leave 2 slices in their mailbox

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