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There's a subreddit called '[Stuff] Mom Groups Say' and it's dedicated to the drama that unfolds in online parenting communities.

From those who believe that essential oils cure all diseases to big anti-vax showdowns, the subreddit positions itself as a place to critique the "no judge" culture of these groups.

One of the more popular tropes here is what the internet considers the toxic boy mom. The subreddit's members believe some mothers are just too obsessed with their son's gender. More vivid examples include a fascination with their kid's penis and looking at him as the partner they never had.

Continue scrolling to check out the pictures and let us know in the comments if you also think that these are not okay or if you believe the subreddit is reaching a bit too far.

#1

When You #boymom Too Hard On Instagram, And The Internet Calls You Out

When You #boymom Too Hard On Instagram, And The Internet Calls You Out

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Take me to dinner first
Community Member
3 years ago

The font, oh lord, my eyes

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    #2

    Just Boy Mom Things

    Just Boy Mom Things

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    Majungasaurus
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    In the distance, banjoes.

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    #3

    “Boy-Moms”

    “Boy-Moms”

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    Phandom Apostolis
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    That lioness is missing a tooth! I can only imagine the fight!

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    #4

    Mother Of The Groom’s Outfit - I’m Sure The Bride Was Thrilled!

    Mother Of The Groom’s Outfit - I’m Sure The Bride Was Thrilled!

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    Take me to dinner first
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Wow talk about consideration

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    #5

    Oh My God Finally Someone Said It

    Oh My God Finally Someone Said It

    ...or a girl in her early or mid twenties is baffling to me. I don't know what boy mom needs to hear this but your son is not responsible for romantically furlilling your needs. Your son is eventually going to move on. And your son is eventually going to start a family without you. Yes, he's a part of the family that you created. But you're not gonna be a part of his immediate family forever. Your husband or partner is responsible for emotionally fulfilling you. And if you don't have a husband or partner, you are responsible for emotionally fulfilling yourself. Because our kids owe us nothing. And as a matter of fact, we chose to bring them into this world. So our responsibility to fulfill them and expect nothing in return. It's your responsibility to be the bigger person. And stop fighting with his girlfriend or wife

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    Zoni J.
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Furlilling.

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    #6

    More Gross “Boy Mom” Content On A Picture Of Her 6 Year Old By The Pool

    More Gross “Boy Mom” Content On A Picture Of Her 6 Year Old By The Pool

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    Heather Resatz
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Ewww!!

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    #7

    Maybe This Should Have Stayed An Inside Thought

    Maybe This Should Have Stayed An Inside Thought

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    Amy Semenov
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    What.the.hell.

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    #8

    Boymoms Are The Reason For Waifu Entitlement

    Boymoms Are The Reason For Waifu Entitlement

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    HelmGrass
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    mom needs a life

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    #9

    I Physically Cringed Reading All Of This

    I Physically Cringed Reading All Of This

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    Heather Resatz
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This poor boy ..

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    #10

    Why Do "Boy Moms" Say This So Often

    Why Do "Boy Moms" Say This So Often

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    Cintapxl
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    or you're raising them wrong

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    #11

    "Don't Mind Me, Just Enjoying A Good Old Cup Of Boymom Fuel"

    "Don't Mind Me, Just Enjoying A Good Old Cup Of Boymom Fuel"

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    Majungasaurus
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Why does that sound inappropriate

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    #12

    The Boy Moms Are Not Ok Y’all

    The Boy Moms Are Not Ok Y’all

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    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I have an irrational hate towards the word momma

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    #13

    #boymomlife

    #boymomlife

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    Majungasaurus
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Hey! Look at you stepping outside appropriate social boundaries and being gross!

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    #14

    Why Why Why Do “Boy Moms” Focus On This?!

    Why Why Why Do “Boy Moms” Focus On This?!

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    That Emo Demon
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Jesus Christ

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    #15

    Why Can't It Just Say 'Mom' Instead Of 'Boy Mom'?

    Why Can't It Just Say 'Mom' Instead Of 'Boy Mom'?

    What's the big difference? Paul and Morgan always hate on trans people for finding their identity in gender, yet they do the exact same thing all the time, and at such random moments none the less.

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    Helena
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Oooooh those two. Those two are friggin awful

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    #16

    These Boy Moms Are Out Of Control

    These Boy Moms Are Out Of Control

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    Garry Cowan
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Is it just me or are ALL of these a tiny wee bit disconcerting?

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    #17

    Um Weird Flex

    Um Weird Flex

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    That Emo Demon
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Have sex with him?

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    #18

    Boymom

    Boymom

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    Majungasaurus
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    It’s a weird word to describe yourself in relation to your crotch goblins, not a personality trait

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    #19

    [gendered] Only Boy Moms Know About Adjustable Waist Bands

    [gendered] Only Boy Moms Know About Adjustable Waist Bands

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    Heather Resatz
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Right .. because daughters are never tall and thin .. this is just weird

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    #20

    Boymom, You Say?

    Boymom, You Say?

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    Take me to dinner first
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I had absolutely no idea people were so obsessed by being a boymom, I didn't even know this was a thing and now I'm horrified

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    #21

    Poor Kid. I Feel So Bad For Him. This Is In A Boy Moms Group

    Poor Kid. I Feel So Bad For Him. This Is In A Boy Moms Group

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    Sassawrasse
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    My child hit me so I hit him back. I have no idea where he gets it.

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    #22

    We Get It Loren, You’re A Boy Mom. Odds Are You’ll End Up On I Love A Mamas Boy As One Of The Mamas. We. Get. It

    We Get It Loren, You’re A Boy Mom. Odds Are You’ll End Up On I Love A Mamas Boy As One Of The Mamas. We. Get. It

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    Majungasaurus
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Like when he grows up what will her personality become?

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    #23

    Boy Moms Be Like:

    Boy Moms Be Like:

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    That Emo Demon
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    It's only hard when you have mums like this.

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    #24

    Comparing Your Children's Penis Size And Wondering How To Make Them Endowed

    Comparing Your Children's Penis Size And Wondering How To Make Them Endowed

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    Somebodys grandmother
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited)

    This what Pink Floyd warned against in their song: " Mother" from the album The Wall... 50 years ago and people are not smarter today 🙈🤯😥

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    #25

    She's Panicking About Being A Boy Mom Because She Can't Find Cute Clothes!? Also, The Girls Are Sooooo Easy Because You Neglect Them Smeli. Just Neglect The Boy Too And It Will Be Easy

    She's Panicking About Being A Boy Mom Because She Can't Find Cute Clothes!? Also, The Girls Are Sooooo Easy Because You Neglect Them Smeli. Just Neglect The Boy Too And It Will Be Easy

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    Dreaming Spirit
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Okay, please laugh all you want, but when I was pregnant I had a breakdown in the middle of baby clothes aisle precisely for that reason - all girl clothes were so cute, the boy ones, not so much. I blame that one on the hormones, though :)

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