“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

Parental Alienation is child abuse and I hope the fanily courts will soon start watching for it

We lost my husband when our son was 4. I raised him by myself through the grace of God. This last comment infuriates me. Children NEED fathers. I watched my son struggle without one and had to try to make up the difference myself. Thank God for my dad and brothers. Keep your problems separate from the kids, let them have both of you.

Let a man be himself. If a man has emotions and you dont want to see them then leave..

Be careful who you have kids with

The last point is rather sad in general, cause it works both ways. When I decided to divorce and suggested my now ex-husband to share custody 50/50, he just disappeared and neither visit nor talk to our son, I’m not even talking about financial support.

arrogance is not attractive

Be confident in yourself. But don’t be an arrogant prick.

Yeah, not going to chase you, not going to worship you, you are either an interesting person with a real personality or you are a pain.

Or lyrics in general

The word b***h isn't used in most circles as insulting. I, on the other hand, don't like it.

just so you know, most women who go all out on their makeup do it for other women

S**t like this is stupid. It’s a personal choice to wear whatever someone wants. It’s not for men’s enjoyment.

Just a note, if you are going to the eye doctor, leave the fake eye lashes and heavy makeup at home. The eye lashes make it hard for you to open your eye fully, I had a woman with lashes so long I couldn't do any tests because she was complaining that the machines that never touch your eye were pressing on her lashes. Then wanted to wear contacts so she could always wear her lashes but had never worn them before , so wer are teaching her but she couldn't get them in because her massive eye lashes were in the way and she had like inch long nails as well . She was frustrated, I was frustrated, the doctor was frustrated. Everyone had a bad experience.

Tarantula eyes! 🕷️

I actually like those.

Both genders do this, and it is absolutely unfair to the new SO. They haven’t done any of the c**p your old SOs did to you, so why are you making them pay for the others’ bad behavior right off the bat? It’s a good way to chase off some perfectly wonderful people, the kind you really should be with.

My husband once asked why I can't be like a'normal woman' and give him the silent treatment. I was ticked off so I yelled "bad behaviour does not deserve a reward!". Shut him up. Haha

Word. “Testing” of that kind is a nope - I don’t care about the gender. If you can’t get over past occurrences enough to assume your partner is innocent until there’s an actual reason to believe otherwise, don’t go into a relationship - go to therapy. No trust = no relationship.

I read the first sentence and then spent like 20 seconds thinking about how one would test for that, do they mean STDs? positions? schedule? ... And then I read the second sentence and was really disappointed.

Every human being lies. EVery single one.

My favorite is when they go for the duck face with spray tan orange skin and plumped up hotdog lips trifecta 💋 bonus points for Betty crocker frosting pink lipstick

Lipfillers baffle me. I totally against judging people on appearances, but in my opinion I've not seen anyone look better with lip fillers. It makes you look like a plastic inflatable sex doll. So if that is the look you're going for, go for it. Otherwise your lips are just fine as they are.

It's THE dumbest looking thing, I don't understand why women think it's a good look?!!!

Thank the KarJenners for this c**p. At 40+, Kim is still doing it.

And plenty of men do it, too. It's a bad look on EVERYONE!

Yep, repeat after me: honesty without kindness is cruelty...

It's mostly the insane ones that do this

"I'm not like other girls!!! I like to burn down the animal shelter full of cute kittens!!! I'm just QuIrKy"

In my experience, it's usually fragile men that have an issue with a woman being straight-forward, and -they- are the ones calling her a b***h. That is not to say that there are toxic traits, but unless it's openly toxic? I would suggest asking yourself why you're triggered by something she says or does that is not submissive and/or 'demure'.

again.. human ick, not girl ick.

I don't trust anyone who doesn't talk to their pets with a baby voice

I remember a Marx Brothers film where Groucho took a lady out in a row boat and she started doing that. He just said 'Was that you or the duck? If it was you, you'll be joining the duck' - or words to that effect.

For some people, this is their actual voice, and they can’t help it. For the others, it’s b******t and they just need to start talking normally before I reach out and snatch them baldheaded.

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It can be a result of childhood sexual trauma, so even if you think she’s just using it to be manipulative, keep the other possibility in mind