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40 Times Weddings Were So Bad, They Deserved To Be Shamed On This Facebook Page
Passionate, enduring love, forever and ever. An adventure through life with a partner you trust with your heart and soul. Someone who gets your quirks and loves you for your silly jokes. That’s the happily ever after that many of us Pandas dream of having. And whether or not you plan on getting married yourselves, you can’t deny that weddings are beautiful celebrations of love. Well… sometimes.
Other times, they’re more of a disaster than a fairytale. But there’s always humor to be found, even in the darkest of places. And that’s the silver lining we’ll be focusing on today. The ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ Facebook page documents the most “hilarious bridezilla and tacky wedding stories’ to amuse and entertain the net. We’re featuring some of their best of the worst posts to show you just how bad things can actually get.
Scroll down, upvote the posts that grabbed your attention the most, and be sure to send this list to all of your friends who are planning on getting married this year! If you enjoyed the content, be sure to give ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ a follow. Meanwhile, read on for Bored Panda’s interview with wedding experts Anna and Sarah, team leaders at The Wedding Society, about keeping things running smoothly.
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#1
Props to the photographer, but damn imagine being this petty.
Marette 3 years ago
I confess I wore a white dress to my sisters wedding 25 years ago. I was 22yo & her Bridesmaid. I honestly did not know only the bride is supposed to wear white... I rarely wear dresses & this one happened to look nice so I bought it without a second thought. NOBODY said anything, ever. It only came up years later when I read about what a huge faux pax it is. I was mortified & called my sister to apologise but she said she didn't know about the white dress thing either! Now, everytime I see the photos I think, why didn't someone tell me? 🙄😅
Hiedi H 3 years ago
Unless you showed the dress to someone first, while at the wedding, it's a bit too late 😳 If I saw the bridesmaids wearing white though, I'd figure the bride was okay with it or had arranged it. If the bride is fine with it, you're all good 🙂
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Eb 3 years ago
She didn't just wear white, that's a wedding dress! Seems she doesn't care whether she gets to see her grandchildren.
hello Wendy 3 years ago
I came here to say the same. That's definitely a wedding dress!!
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Katinka Min 3 years ago
What is it with these crazy mothers who deep down want to marry their sons??
Raq Ram 3 years ago
This actually more common than people think. It's passive aggressive behavior and the MIL is making everything about "her" instead of the bride and groom. It's mortifying when it occurs because usually it's the kind of like a "mommy dearest" situation and it seriously makes the MIL appear mentally unstable 😐
Mrs. Jan Glass 3 years ago
It is unbelievable that it has become such a thing for either the MOG or a stepmother to wear not just white, but a full-on wedding gown to their kid's wedding. It's not the "take that" you think it is, you tacky cows. Everyone is laughing at how insecure and pathetic you are.
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#2
Oh hey...your racism is showing
Hagen Radcliffe 3 years ago
Holy mother of god they just won’t stop fighting a LOST war and a LOST election! There’s a word for that kind of a loser. Actually, a whole buncha words. I’m sure you know which ones😛
Matthew Daubenmire 2 years ago
BIGLY WORDS, that trumptards wouldn't understand, or be able to spell anyway!
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Troux 3 years ago
Yeah but "The South shall rise again," which is apparently not an anti-American terrorist slogan for some reason.
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Phyllis Turbin 3 years ago
Probably the whole group of family and friends are all vile racists.
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Narwhal Blast 3 years ago
Golden? Or silver? Or maybe even white? So beautiful...
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chaotic_charlie (they/he) 3 years ago
and the pattern makes your brain look small
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Jessica Julian 3 years ago
I would just like to say that not all Southerners are like this...as far as I am concerned, this flag represents seditionists, and as such, is a symbol of treason (and other horrible things). Enough is enough.
That nerd Zoe ️🇺🇦️ 3 years ago
My dad's friend used to have a Confederate flag bumper sticker that said "you lost get over it" (speaking to people who still fly the Confederate flag)
Mrs. Jan Glass 3 years ago
In 2022, that means that some dipshit in a jacked Dodge 4x4 will try to run you off the road and murder you.
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David Henry 3 years ago
Tell me your brother got you pregnant at prom using just a photograph.
#3
Maxi 3 years ago
What ist the problem if she likes Minions? Does everybody need to like the same things now?
Jay 3 years ago
Why is this shameful?? It's absolutely amazing, great skills! And minions are cute!
Chris Jones 3 years ago
maybe it's shameful because the bride doesn't like minions and she knows it.
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Mrs. Jan Glass 3 years ago
That's the only thing that I can think would be the problem: if they hate minions, or the parents are pushing their own tastes on the couple. Otherwise, so cute!
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Over 21.5k Facebook users follow the ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ page, and they can’t wait for the latest updates and juicy gossip to pop up on their feeds. There’s tea being spilled by the gallon here, and it’s all anonymous to protect everyone’s feelings.
#4
If your new husband can’t be bothered enough to at least wear a button up shirt and slacks...then you may need to throw him back to the trailer park and go fishing for a better catch
Phil Amylon 3 years ago (edited)
Imagine if weddings were a celebration of love, and she happened to love how casual and laid back he is, and he happened to love that she accepted him that way. That'd be neat.
Sabse 3 years ago
Apart from the fact that even in a restaurant you will be thrown out if you come in your undershirt...
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Anna Banana 3 years ago
Imagine thinking you know better than bride and groom what they should be wearing to their own. damn. wedding. And judging their level of love from one photo, which doesn't crrespond to your outdated idea that every wedding should look exactly the same. Yeah, I'd rather be a guest at their wedding than whoever posted that.
Tambot 3 years ago
Wow, level of love!? This has gone too far the other way... he's barely grasping her hand... that's a big fat stretch, we have no idea either way. Come on, it's an important day, she put in a sh*t load of effort he can at least wear a shirt with sleeves.
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Briane Pagel 3 years ago
People who live in trailer Parks do not deserve your scorn. You are stereotyping And demeaning them. I know many fine people who live in manufactured homes and they do so for many reasons, chief among those reasons being that it's the only housing they can afford. So you are equating poverty with rude classless stupid behavior. Is that what you intended?
Zobi123 3 years ago
I HATE when people talk about trailer parks and poor people this way. And it often comes from "woke" people.
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Eb 3 years ago
I'm hoping it was a weird style choice they agreed together and she didn't spend the rest of the day trying not to cry.
Mrs. Jan Glass 3 years ago
Yep. These are the kinds of weddings my family has: she cares, he can't be bothered. She wears a nice dress, begs him to put on a suit, he promises he'll "take care of" planning the honeymoon. Comes the wedding day, and he shows up in a tux t-shirt thinking it's the pinnacle of comedy, and gosh, "forgot" to do all the honeymoon thing, but they'll just go stay at the local Motel 8, that's fine. And she'll make excuses and capitulate because she doesn't want to upset him. It then continues with their marriage and children. Just aim a little bit higher, everyone, maybe?
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#5
One of the most talked about wedding shames we’ve had...redneck mud wedding
Joy 3 years ago
What's your prob? It's their wedding, as long as they are happy they can do whatever they want
Phyllis Turbin 3 years ago
Exactly. They don't have to go into debt for an hour ceremony. You be you.
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Moos 3 years ago
I don't hate it if it's both sides of the couple. They're doing their own thing. Chill.
Megan O'Neill 3 years ago
Agree. Not every one wants to go into debt for a wedding. It certainly isn't everyone's style, but if they like it, good for them. I hope they are happy.
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Oskar vanZandt 3 years ago
If this is what the couple wanted, who are we to judge? Too many people take on the role of mock-morality, and in this case fashion sense, police imho.
Marcus Karlsson 3 years ago
Can't have a wedd'n without my pickup truck. I bet the wedding night was spent on the bed of the truck.
#6
Florida in a picture.
beesechurger elite 3 years ago (edited)
Florida, never change. Edit: I changed my mind. Florida, please change.
Cold Contagious 3 years ago
The only thing that'd make it sweeter, is if he were wearing Crocs.
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Soggy Crumpet 3 years ago
This looks like a Las Vegas wedding, nothing about this says Florida
Hagen Radcliffe 3 years ago
Style. Poise. Grace. A lifetime of love together. Oh, and class. Don’t forget classy!
Tamara Rutenber 3 years ago
We like to call our state Floriduh. In fact, I think there's a petition to do so someplace out there.
Karin Gibson 3 years ago
Her shoes don't go with her classy outfit. They both should have been wearing crocs.
If you have a weird wedding story or some fiery drama to share, you can join the community and get in touch with the founder of the page. You never know, it might be your post that’s amusing everyone next week. Tacky doesn't have to mean unfunny.
#7
Eleanor Green 3 years ago
Okay so, again (so many again-s) , how are we (LGBTQ+) ruining the sanctity???
Mrs. Jan Glass 3 years ago
I've mentioned this to my trashy Conservative family multiple times. Cousin Brianna is on her third husband with five kids, having a Coca-Cola themed wedding in the backyard, where she gives her new hubby a lap dance to "WAP" and then they smash cake all over each other, but that's totally "sanctity of marriage" compared to... a same-sex couple? No way.
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Anna Banana 3 years ago
Thing is, there's nothing to indicate that anybody chose it for their wedding. It looks to me like some cheap novelty store thing.
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#8
Night Owl 3 years ago (edited)
Yeah, my first thought was Monster was the sponsor. If not and they did it only because they liked Monster and didn't get any money or free merchandise or anything from the company for the wedding, it was a wasted opportunity
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David Henry 3 years ago
I just SMELLED all the unwashed Chad. Blaaaaugh I didn't imagine so many bad smells off the threatening toilet article!
Adrienne Mcginley 3 years ago
I could see my ex asking for this.... just one of many reasons he's an ex.
#9
Your Neighborhood Alien 3 years ago
I looked through the FB page and finally found the original post. To those who've been asking what happened next, there's sadly no more information. :(
Craig Reynolds 3 years ago
Alabama? Arkansas? Tennessee? West Vagina perhaps? Yes, I know how I spelled it...
RafCo 3 years ago
Go granny. I had a great aunt, that at 83 was dating a guy in his forties. Would regularly go out clubbing and generally had a great time until the day she died. No, she wasn't a sugar momma, we are not a wealthy family, and she worked as a secretary for a priest at a small Catholic church. She was just knew how to have fun
The fact of the matter is that it’s far from just brides and grooms who cause drama and create situations that everyone will be gossiping about for years and years to come. There are some truly peculiar people out there who end up being invited to celebrations of love, only to try and ruin them. Some folks simply take pleasure in causing chaos wherever they go. Weddings are no exception.
#10
Great idea if you want your wedding to smell like pee.
Ivo H 3 years ago
The hay will be hollow and with toilette on top. Great idea if someone wants their wedding to smell of something more than just a pee.
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rumade 3 years ago
I know a lot of you are disgusted, but these work really well in practice. You need straw rather than hay for best results as straw is hollow and wicks the moisture into the middle. Depending on when you are, it's cheaper and more eco friendly than chemical portoloos, and they stink way less. I've used them on eco festivals before. They save a lot of water compared with flushing toilets so also good for drought stressed areas. For people wondering about solid waste, the option is a more enclosed compost loo with sawdust, or a flushing toilet in the farmhouse.
Anna Banana 3 years ago
I would've imagined for some kind of aesthetic concept, but those incredibly ugly plastic things around it defy that idea.
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This may be one of those things were it's easy to jump to judgment but the idea actually makes sense. Instead of a chemical porta-potty, which is full of, ya know, chemicals, everything here breaks down organically. I mean, livestock probably wouldn't eat it, but it'd probably make a great soil amendment or mulch. And since it's at a wedding where alcohol will flow, it probably won't have a strong urine smell, either. It's easy to think this is a hillbilly solution at a wedding between first cousins, but maybe it's actually smarter and more environmentally friendly.
Zol 3 years ago
and what are you going to do with a big pile of urine soaked hay the next day ? if you think cows or sheep would still eat it , you're stupid
rumade 3 years ago
You let it rot down and it makes fantastic fertiliser. Especially good for growing potatoes
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rumade 3 years ago
Portaloos are an environmental hazard filled with dodgy chemicals, and expensive to hire. Hay or straw bale urinals can be left to rot and used as fertiliser
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#11
Tybalt P. 3 years ago
Ugh, some people have no respect for others. At that point I’d just slink over to the snack bar for some unsee juice
Holly Zelazny 2 years ago
Please—I simply must know more—what is this miraculous unsee juice you speak of??!!?
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David Henry 3 years ago
When your kissing sounds like tentacles slithering across the floor, the last thing you should do is advertise.
ServicePup HoldsMeUp 3 years ago
We don’t want to know what how the groom went about retrieving the garter, do we…? 🫣
#12
The Empty Child 3 years ago
Ikr. This may sound weird but it is amazing for breakfast
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Łukasz Markuszewski 3 years ago
Sounds like a wedding in Poland except there is a plenty of food but also a plenty of moonshine and everyone is hammered by the midnight and half of the guests needs to take a nap in the car, on the table or anywhere they were at the moment :)
Anna and Sarah, team leaders at The Wedding Society spoke to Bored Panda about unruly and rude guests, and how to manage them. In short, it’s important to let go of the idea that weddings can be ‘perfect’: some things will go wrong no matter what. So it’s vital to be able to adapt and not take any minor flaws in the plan personally.
#13
Tamra Stiffler 3 years ago
If I ever behave this way if my son chooses to marry, I would expect someone to give me a sound slap.
L.A. Trefry 3 years ago
If the groom didn't stop his mother, the bride should run for the hills. This is one seriously disturbed mother.
Luke Oakridge 3 years ago
Why blame the groom for the mother's actions. The quote says she "tried" to get in his lap, meaning he didn't let her. He obviously was uncomfortable with the situation.
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#14
Emmydearest 3 years ago
Here in italy it's become pretty common to give money to the spouses, instead of presents. In the past people used to give presents for their new house (pots and pans, crockery, etc) because the norm was that, up to your wedding, you were living with your parents so you needed everything for your new house. And the unwritten rule was: the value of the present needs to be the same amount of money the spouses had probably spent for inviting you to the wedding. So if you're going by yourself it's a smaller amount, if you're a family of four, it's more. Anyway...Nowadays people have been living with their partners for years before they get married so they apparently don't need cutlery and such so they ask to fund their honeymoon trip or they straight ask for cash. Very tacky, in my opinion. If you need cash so desperately then you should skip the traditional big ceremony, get married privately and maybe have a small celebratory dinner with your closest friends and family.
Susan Carlton 2 years ago
Are you too young to have not seen the movie "The godfather"? It was at least 50 years ago. It was set in the 1950's - 70's and the bride got thousands of dollars! It's s very old tradition giving money to couples!
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David Henry 3 years ago
Condoms would be my gift. Lots and lots of condoms. A lifetime supply.
#15
MacKenzie Moore 3 years ago (edited)
you lost me in three words. didnt take much. I'm sending your mom telepathic therapy.
“Some people just want to watch the world burn, and as hosts to an event, it's just something that wedding couples will have to accept,” Anna and Sarah explained to us that the happy couple has to be realistic about the fact that not everyone will be well-behaved and polite on this happy occasion. No matter how much we might want them to.
#16
Herbalife as a wedding theme? If I were invited to this wedding, I would walk out
Jenny Michelle 3 years ago
Off topic slightly ...but that's the weirdest way I've ever seen a couple cut their wedding cake.
censorshipsucks 3 years ago
well, his hand is above hers, so clearly he's the upline and she just signed up, so she has to share 10% of her cake with him, and then she has to sign up new downlines, and they give her some of their cake.
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Meghan Wood 3 years ago
I wonder if they’re trying to claim the wedding as a “business expense” and reduce their tax liabilities….
Who Panda 420 3 years ago
I always thought the Herbalife symbol looks a lot like the top part of a pot leaf
Mokayokok 3 years ago
I didn't even notice it at first and was confused as to what the problem was. It's that a pyramid scheme? Was it a party favor? Or was everyone expected to buy a bottle? I realize none of you guys actually know the answer to the last 2 questions, I'm just wondering aloud.
Aisling Raye 3 years ago
Do they know the d and d people? I feel like those two couples know each other. (Also while scrolling I thought that was a whole different kind of green leaf lol)
Sarah Schumm 3 years ago
OMG I wandered into a "Cannabis Wedding Expo" because I couldn't believe it was real! It was in the mall in San Francisco and I was dying laughing, but it took itself *very* seriously. It was very classy. I think the exhibitors were annoyed I couldn't stop laughing (I went into the mall for something else and stumbled across it) you think they would be used to people laughing uncontrollably, especially when they were advertising "Friends" themed wedding bongs named "Phoebe, Monica, and Rachel" I wish I was making this up, but I'm not that creative!
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Spiral Agent 3 years ago
I wouldn't even lick the frosting off that cake. I'd be running away.
#17
Luke Oakridge 3 years ago
Maybe the best man was in a relationship and didn't want to cheat.
Load More Replies... Victoria G. 3 years ago
I believe so... She refers to him as her husband, not ex-husband
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Romanov 1918 3 years ago
What the hell? Are you sure you don't mean your ex-husband had sex with your bridesmaid?
Vicky Zar 3 years ago
Not sure what's worse. The husband cheating or the bride passing out drunk.
Purgy Jackson 3 years ago
If she was drinking that much at her own wedding, they were already doomed.
#18
Morgan 3 years ago
How can you shame a woman for wanting to be comfortable and enjoy her day. Crocs are amazing. If I went to that wedding I would only be upset if the bride did not give advance heads up that crocs are welcomed at the reception
Catherine Binder 3 years ago
I'm not going to shame them if the dress is floor length. Let's be realistic. It's this or going barefoot half the night.
Sian Edwards 3 years ago
My friend and her bridesmaids wore converse sneakers when she got married. It was a long standing joke between them, and one of the bridesmaids was 7 months pregnant, so my friend was more than happy to accommodate by having everyone wear flat shoes. They still wore proper dresses.
“Not everyone is going to fall in line, especially your anarchist uncle Jerry with the overgrown beard. That said, try to fall back on your vendor support system as leverage,” the experts pointed out that the marrying couple shouldn’t have to do everything themselves. They can’t worry about every tiny detail or mishap. They should turn to the venue’s staff to help them handle all the issues.
#19
Oh baby.
Crouching hippo hidden panda 3 years ago
Yeah but does grandma really need to know about it?
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LittleWombat 3 years ago
Not kink shaming. Same category as any sex stuff on wedding mementos. Like the blow job cake topper in this list. Just kinda, mmm hmm ok.
Sofie Carmine 3 years ago
Oh that's what that cake topper was. My brain wouldn't connect the pieces
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Kyndal T 3 years ago
Shame them for a kink or laugh at them even if it was just a joke? Either way seems sad. I respect safe, sane and consensual sex. ;) Life is short. No reason to snub what you don't get.
Anna Banana 3 years ago
If it's an invite to a kinky ceremony, then sure. If it's a boomer "I'm getting married therefore my life as I know it is over" joke, then no. Thing is, we can't say from just one picture, so I agree with you - too little context to shame it.
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Hazel Sage 3 years ago
If it is a kink thing, I have no problem with it as long as the guests know what they’re in for. If it’s just another version of “marriage is a trap for the man”, then *barf*.
Luke Oakridge 3 years ago
Are you also okay with the blowjob cake topper higher up on the page?
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Pryjmaty 3 years ago
Nothing wrong with kinks, but I really hope there weren't children at the wedding.
Luke Oakridge 3 years ago
If there were no children at the wedding, would you be okay with the blow job cake topper higher up the page?
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Hagen Radcliffe 3 years ago
Actually…embarrassing yes. But, if she was talented & he was proud of her & neither was ashamed & no kids were there Etc. I dunno, it depends on the details.
David Henry 3 years ago
Ehhh...I mean what, strippers don't deserve love or a wedding? I think it's lowkey sweet they've embraced their origins rather than shamefully hiding them. 🤷
Purgy Jackson 3 years ago
It might have been more appropriate for the bedroom, but why are you trying to shame sex work?
#21
David Henry 3 years ago
I'm sad that not enough people in this world melt when you splash water on them.
Regal Kitten 3 years ago
Yes, but my guess is that in this case "Together" meant being married.
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ᶜʰᵃᵒᵗⁱᶜ ˡᵉᵍᵃˡ 3 years ago
5+5=10. Simple maths. (you know, the stonks guy, but with the maths, it won't let me put the image)
Heather Pierce 3 years ago
I have a great example of a wedding gone wrong, or reception at least. My cousin & his bride to be didn't drink alcohol, so they specifically hosted a "dry wedding" meaning that no alcohol was allowed or to be served to guests. During the reception following the ceremony of their marriage, wedding guests (several, including immediate family!) chose to sneak out of the venue and drink their BYOB (bring your own booze) which was definitely not welcome out in the parking lot of the reception hall. I watched in awe & disapproval as my cousin's own brother & his wife along with many others knocked back the alcoholic beverages one right after another before returning inside of the establishment. So disrespectful! If you want to drink, and it's that important to you, drink before or after the wedding! Don't bring alcohol around people who asked that it not be present, especially when it's their special day! So rude, distasteful & utterly tacky.
“Simply saying, ‘The venue has rules’ or, ‘Our caterers have agreed to only..’" is an easy way to take the blame off yourself but still enforce hard rules,” the wedding expert shared how couples can shut down some bad behavior among guests. It’s a way to misdirect some of the havoc-wreakers’ negative emotions elsewhere.
#22
Hagen Radcliffe 3 years ago
That whole garter thing tradition has got to go. My little brother caught mine- so gross.
David Henry 3 years ago
Look, foot fetishes are fine. Forcing other people, ESPECIALLY RELATIVES, to watch you perform it is just absolutely disgusting. Finally, while again foot fetishes are fine, being unsanitary about them is not. Do you have ANY idea what a person's feet go through during their own wedding...? Dill pickle chips ain't as salty as them damn toes prolly were 🤮
Sara Wolfson 3 years ago
The whole thing is disgusting. If it’s not cool to make people watch him suck her toes because it’s intimate and sexual, then making everyone watch him sexually removing her garter is also not okay.
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Lem Johnson 3 years ago
An incredibly tacky and tasteless tradition usually seen at tacky and tasteless American weddings
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Tybalt P. 3 years ago
AAAAAA NO. It’s fine being into feet and all, but NOT at your wedding in front of a bunch of guests INCLUDING close family and friends.
Sara Wolfson 3 years ago
The entire tradition is awkward and uncomfortable. If you’re not cool with watching him suck her toes, but you’re fine with him removing the garter with his teeth, perhaps you should consider that it’s all inappropriate.
Load More Replies... HeatherDPanda 3 years ago
My dauhters sweet husband didn't feel it was appropriate to put his hands up her dress In front of family and friends. One of my wilder cousins was in tears over how sweet that was since he took his wife's off with his teeth!
Nikki Sevven 3 years ago
Honestly, the whole garter thing is cringeworthy even if done as tastefully as possible.
Moezzzz 3 years ago
Eeewwwwwww, no. If this is the reception, then she's been walking around for hours in the same shoes (even if she changes shoes, her feet are probably sweaty), and I don't even want to THINK about how gross this would be. Damn it, too late. I thought about it. And omg, I need the "un-see" juice....
#23
David Henry 3 years ago
Wouldn't it just be great if Puddle of Mudd had been playing right then? (Sentences I never dreamed I'd say...)
Jackie Reed 3 years ago
Oh my god! Disgusting! I don't know why people feel the need to get s***faced drunk on ANY occasion,but at a wedding?? Poor lady!
#24
Marcus Karlsson 3 years ago (edited)
I bet they thought he had a keyboard. Or a big truck and a couple of guys from a moving company
Happi doggi (all pronouns) 3 years ago
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Load More Replies... Lawrencium 3 years ago
I guess I could see where the confusion could come in, but seems to me like that's the kind of event you want to double check that really is the case before you just assume someone's going to be bringing a grand piano somehow for your special day
Rahul Pawa 3 years ago
Yeah, seems like this one could have been avoided if either party asked some basic questions.
Load More Replies... Jenny Michelle 3 years ago
Most musicians bring their own instrument though ...my cousin hired a pianist and they had their piano delivered to the venue the evening before the event.
Zoe Duddle 3 years ago (edited)
Now I feel embarrassed because we hired a pianist and didn’t ask about that. We did meet him at a wedding event at the place we got married though and booked him there and then so we presumed it was either his piano that he brings or it was the venue’s that would still be there on our wedding day. I’m not sure which happened but he was definitely playing a piano during our wedding breakfast!
Phil Vaive 3 years ago
I can see why this happened. If you hire a band for a wedding, they provide their own instruments and gear (like microphones and amps and stuff)
Nightshade1972 3 years ago
Kinda surprised that wasn't explicitly spelled out in the contract. And if it was (venue provides the piano, not the vendor), Vendor can sue for breach of contract.
According to the experts, they stressed that they would be “utilizing the professionals” around them for help if they were ever in a situation where disaster’s looming either during the ceremony or the reception afterward.
#25
Terry Bollea 3 years ago
Was it his fancy robe or the 80s dad robe that was thin and you hoped he was wearing undies because you were scarred enough?
#26
You cannot convince me that a trampoline in someone’s backyard holds that much sentimental value to any couple getting married
Vicky Zar 3 years ago
Maybe they knew each other since childhood and spent a significant amount of time together on it? Maybe that's where they... kissed for the first time? Or, you know... So many possibilities
Elvira Dirge 3 years ago
My husband and I had a significant moment on a trampoline when we had crushes on one another. I wouldn't personally do it, but I get their choice.
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Megan O'Neill 3 years ago (edited)
Maybe they are professional trampoliners! It's an olympic sport! (Well, we can't rule that out as a possibility.)
François Carré 3 years ago
I don't know about sentimental value, but if the three of them start bouncing here and there after the vows, that could become interesting to see and quite memorable.
L.A. Trefry 3 years ago
I want to know how in the world they got off that trampoline (I almost abbreviated that to tramp and then realized that just sounded wrong!) with any sort of dignity (or without crawling and scrabbling to the edge and down the ladder.)
Aisling Raye 3 years ago
They wanted to book the inflatable bouncy house chapel (not sure if it's on this list but that amazing thing does actually exist) but this was the more budget friendly option.
Aisling Raye 3 years ago
https://carnivalsatheart.com/product/wedding-bounce-house-inflatable-jhw19/
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Sarah Schumm 3 years ago
I was really surprised when my friend basically insisted that I bring my dog to his wedding. I'm not the kind of "pet parent" that assumes I can bring a dog to a wedding. Fortunately my dog was super well behaved and only did one "disobedient" thing which was adorable: there was a problem with the wedding cues and it looked like for about 5 minutes my friend may have been left at the alter, my dog, sensing my friend's anxiety, ran up to comfort him. There was a chorus of "aw" and the tension was broken.
David Henry 3 years ago
Nooope, that's too adorable. It's so adorable it shot past a wedding SNAFU and became the best memory from it.
“By now you will have developed a relationship with them [the professionals] and they'll often be more than happy to put the foot down on your behalf—especially venue staff,” they pointed out that the people the wedding couples have hired are there to help in any way that they can.
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beesechurger elite 3 years ago (edited)
I think this one is actually a creative dress design. It’s well made and infused with taco scent.
Read Lead 3 years ago
She looks like the belle of the ball! The... Taco Bell, if you will. I'll see myself out.
Katy McMouse 3 years ago
What's so horrible about this? Everyone says that the day is about the bride and groom, so yeah, this was what they wanted. Plus, I imagine they saved a whole lot of money doing it this way.
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NsG 3 years ago
Nodding off means falling asleep. Not always related to being drunk.
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#30
Giving D&D a whole new meaning! Denim and Diamonds, coming to a Brides magazine near you.
Any 3 years ago (edited)
For a short moment i thought of Dungeons and Dragons (because D&D)... But this would be rather awesome!
Scotira 3 years ago
True! My husband and I did the next best thing: "medieval wedding" 😎😎
Load More Replies... Joy Hunter 3 years ago
And on top of everything else, putting XX number of single-use plastic bottles into the waste stream...
Nandina 3 years ago
What? Why? Bedazzled stuffed toddler jeans for a center piece is what I see. What is coming out the top? Cotton balls? I don't get it.
Sean Simpson 3 years ago
Denim and diamonds? That a main stage theme at a drag show. Those taxidermied toddler jeans make me feel very uncomfortable.
“Have a quiet word with your coordinator or someone else more emotionally removed from the individuals involved and ask them to help you manage,” they shared what you can do if some of your guests start behaving in a way that’s over the line. It’s one thing to cause a bit of chaos accidentally, it’s something else entirely when you’re trying to derail everything because you want all the attention.
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RaroaRaroa 3 years ago
Man was talked into wedding he didn't want and didn't have the balls to say so.
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Vanessa Priest 3 years ago
Separated? Groom has a one year old son and they are only separated? Wow
Jackie Reed 3 years ago
Way to go,groom.Nothing says class more than showing the world you're a cheater at your own wedding.I have a term or two that fits the BFF but given they're very crude,I'm just going to keep them to myself.
#32
Well that's unsettling.
Beowulf Norther 2 years ago
Hahaha wedding at a clown college. Must be, only other clowns think clowns aren't creepy
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Juggalettemaids maybe? Dad in back doesn't look happy and he's wearing a mask.
Phil O'Brien 3 years ago
Is it a wedding or are they getting ready to rob a bank with The Joker?
WillemPenn 3 years ago
OMG reminds me of the episode of Bridezillas where the bride was actually cool but her mother was impossible. Decided to surprise the couple by booking a clown for the reception. The bride said, “Mom!! There is no idea in the land of good ideas that ever includes a clown at a wedding!!” I have to say I agree.
#33
I would say what this looks like, but y'all probably already know.
Tybalt P. 3 years ago
M-maybe the cobweb cake could go well with the monster themed wedding from before?? 😳
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Vicky Zar 3 years ago
You know, for a nation who censors all naughties on TV etc your minds are very dirty. Coming from Germany with naked beaches, naked saunas and naked people on TV during the day, my first thought was cobwebs
Madeleine Flowers 3 years ago
That brings back joyful memories of browsing the dark ends of Google.
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LouLou Bella 3 years ago (edited)
haha I am known to be a bit of a dirty birdie but I actually saw cobwebs first. Maybe there is hope for me yet.
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Agent 8433599 3 years ago
That's sibling speak, it really means "I'm so proud and happy for you, and I love you!"
That'sEndorable 3 years ago
I like your attitude. I think the OP would know if that's what was meant, but I could see your interpretation, too.
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Amaiya Intres 3 years ago
This is basically “you’re my best friend and I love you with all my heart”
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#36
I don’t even know where to start...but y’all should probably get off those train tracks before an actual train wreck happens, instead of the metaphorical one happening with those outfits.
MedusaWasBeautiful 3 years ago
Those train tracks have been abandoned. There is a distinct lack of ballast underneath the rails
M O'Connell 3 years ago
And the rust on the crown of the rails is dull red indicating that its 'old rusty' instead of orange 'fresh rust'
Load More Replies... Nimues Child 3 years ago
No worries on the train. Those weeds tell us that there t'ain't been no train on those tracks for years!
Linnea Jacobson 3 years ago
Was wondering that myself. It's way too long to be a slip. Looks like she sewed a bedsheet to the hem of her dress or something.
Load More Replies... Vicky Zar 3 years ago
To each their own. If that's their style/ what they like, you have no right to mock them
Seabeast 3 years ago
The tall grass sprouting everywhere suggests a barely used branch line or spur, so probably not much chance of a train.
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Your Neighborhood Alien 3 years ago
Sadly no alien facepalm emoji, so I'll have to settle for this: https://images.app.goo.gl/QGNXUJKtNA4VFS2t7
Benita Valdez 3 years ago
I mean someone in the front row FaceTimed the brides brother who was deployed overseas at a wedding I went to but they were seated in a chair and in noones way or in the way of photographer.
Just a ray of f'ing sunshine 3 years ago
This is cool! I mean, if the couple know and approve, and they aren't standing on the alter...
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Yes, this is a cake. No, they didn't drop it on the floor.
George washingmashine 3 years ago
It’s a bit busy, but flowered garnish aren’t bad for wedding cakes.
Cold Contagious 3 years ago
I think it's very pretty. It reminds me of a watercolor painting.
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David Henry 3 years ago
So... is it INTENTIONALLY designed to look like the cake is vomiting up flowers? Or is it supposed to be a "spilling out of the cake like opening a kids closet door"? Bc sorry this looks like tequila happened to that cake.
Serena Brixey Bussell 3 years ago
Or methamphetamine, but it's really a sleeping schnauzer.
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Kiki’sNotLookingBack 3 years ago
Wow! Hate the design but the flowers are beautiful! Imagine how long that took to make!
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Sue Denham 3 years ago
You know what? If they were handmade with love, I say they're fabulous.
Zelda Sterling 3 years ago
I think she probably had so much fun making them and she put a lot of love into them. She is the little girl who made masterpieces with her crayons. I am 100% coming to this wedding. I am 1000% coming over with the girls and a bottle of wine to help make them.
Deson 3 years ago
Call me weird but I kinda like this one. It's unique, festive, and very, very different.
Anna Banana 3 years ago
I don't like them, but I also don't think you're weird. I wouldn't be put off if I saw them, in fact I would expect this wedding to be a fun event thrown by a creative person.
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For my wedding, we saved wine bottles from our engagement trip. I used my glass cutters to cut the tops off and turned them into narrow flower vases. My wife has a lot of knowledge around flowers, and made each one into a custom flower arrangement, with native flowers from the places special to us. One of those at each table at the reception. It was simple, but i thought they looked great. Her flowers were spectacular. We didn't have a huge wedding, only five tables, five bottles of wine. You get it.
Lyone Fein 3 years ago
That looks probably top heavy. So if those candles are lit up, it's a fire hazard.
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Soggy Crumpet 3 years ago
I might not choose to wear these but why do these deserve to be shamed?
Rabbit Carrot 3 years ago (edited)
Clear heels are often associated with strippers. Also feet are rank, nobody needs to see sweaty hooves at a wedding.
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Aidan Pite 3 years ago
Those actually don't look too bad, but they do look indescribably uncomfortable.
Urbangirlatl 3 years ago
Agreed. They are just pumps, nothing ugly. Got a Cinderella vibe. Pretty sure they will be a sweaty, blistery mess by the end of the evening tho.
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Batwench 3 years ago
Cinderella shoes, to feel like a princess on your wedding day. What is wrong with that?
aj B 3 years ago
Depends, is that actually the brides shoes or just a wedding participant/guest. Could be a bridesmaid showing them and that's why the shaming.
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Ana Ferreira 3 years ago
Those are not her size. Tight, plastic, and no "ventilation", she's in for some pain once the sweatting and the swelling and the chaffing get going.
Pat Tamarin 3 years ago
They're okay for the wedding as long as she has some more comfortable shoes to change into for the reception. Those shoes are feet killers.
#41
Not sure if Uncle Jerry sh*t on the cake or it’s rejecting the ganache filling...either way this is a disaster
#42
Imagine a ball of lemons being thrown at you? I think about it and I cackle.
Cold Contagious 3 years ago
It's actually very pretty and out of the ordinary. Besides that, brides don't typically throw their actual bouquet that they used during the ceremony, they usually have a special one to throw. My daughters did.
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Kraneia The Dancing Dryad 2 years ago
I like this, the lemon/lavender smell sounds heavenly. Maybe throw a smaller and simpler one at the reception tho
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UpQuarkDownQuark 3 years ago
“Welcome to my nail salon. What sort of design are you interested in?” “Do you have anything that looks like extruded meat?” “We do!”
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E. Hamilton 3 years ago
Old people are gangster. I have zero hate for old people that act as if they may die at any minute... Keep it real folks.
Rabbit Carrot 3 years ago
Yeah but she was straight up rude. I bet she wasn’t a virgin on her wedding day either. Actually reminds me of my grandmother who used to sit there all stately and act all prissy about things but it turned out her 5 kids all had different dads.
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ChekovsCurlyHair 3 years ago
Fun fact, although there are some states that will let you marry a cousin, Alabama is not one of them.
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Okay, they had to choose that song. Possibly be that clueless
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Sofie Carmine 3 years ago
Wow. Not all vegans are that vegan teacher, guys. Most are decent people, and a sliced tomato?? Really???
Cold Contagious 3 years ago
That's the saddest attempt at nothing, I've seen. How hard is it to have a salad, fruit, or a side dish, that they can eat...
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For all those hating on vegans. The couple clearly informed the caterers to accommodate their friends. Any "caterer"that is incapable of accommodating dietry requirements (ethical, religious medical) at a private event is not a caterer..
Soggy Crumpet 3 years ago
It’s not the couple’s job to cater to your specific diet. If their menu was not vegan because they are not vegan, that’s okay.
Best behave.... 3 years ago (edited)
Were you the caterer dude? Jeez. The couple clearly informed the caterers that the guest was vegan - that caterer then chose to provide a tomato at a dinner for, what, £50 a head? Thank Christ the guest wasn't Jewish or Muslim - probably would have served pulled pork....
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Chelle Jones 3 years ago
If you have food preferences or allergies it best to bring your own food to events. It is not up to the host to accommodate you. Just my opinion.
Sonja 3 years ago
Being the host and inviting people means they can expect to be fed. That's the whole point of being the host. If you don't want to care for your guests, then don't invite them or at least tell them to bring their own food. Everything else is bad form.
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That's BS. We managed it for our friends. We told the caterer that our friends were vegan, and the caterer said "no problem, you're paying us £50 a head for an 80 cover dinner, if we can't provide 2 vegan meals we have no right to call ourselves caterers"
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Rabbit Carrot 3 years ago
And provided plenty of toilets. Hot Cheetos goes straight through some people.
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Hell no.
Vicky Zar 3 years ago
What is that? I can't imagine how this is supposed to look on a human. Is the waist very long or is it skin tight and only the bottom has this skirt thing?
Amy S 3 years ago
I think it's supposed to look like a mermaid style dress.
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Gladys Hayes Southerland 3 years ago
Why did it look like something poopy is coming out from her behind
Carole Reid 3 years ago
Had to do something with all the extra material bought because someone forgot to measure.
#52
In the morning, I'm wearing waffles!
Marcus Karlsson 3 years ago
Could've worked with smaller pattern. Now it looks like an old wallpaper. With waffles.
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#54
Ah yes. The ol' make the bridesmaids wear comforters.
Memere 3 years ago
I actually have drapes in my bedroom that are very similar, just not poofy like these dresses!
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#56
This would take an eye out
Cold Contagious 3 years ago
The piece is unbalanced, heavy and cluttered in half the area and sparce in the other half. The jewels and decor look like good quality items though and are really pretty, if the creator could utilize them in a better design. It's a great concept and has tons of potential. Maybe if they tried a few layouts before they applied them, they'd be much more successful in their arrangement and could possibly use less items per unit as well.
Ent Hugger 3 years ago
totally agree! i've seen brooch bouquets that look amaaazing... but this one needs some major finessing!
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Riley Warrick 3 years ago
I would do the same thing, but with Star Wars characters (mainly Anakin Skywalker)
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Susan Bosse 3 years ago
I've been to a horseback wedding. It was beautiful. The party after was epic. Roasted pig. Lots of booze. Tons of excellent stories and even more that should have required the signing of NDAs. Hahaha
iseefractals 3 years ago
I didn't know you could bale hail. But why would ice balls formed by severe weather make your a*s itch? How did they know it was going to happen so as to be able to plan the baling of said hail for the wedding? Why would they want to get married in that weather? Who would even come? Did they reach out to people on SM to ask for collections of hail they then stored in their freezer in anticipation of the big day? Is there a very niche company that provides this service? Which isle did this take place on, and how did they get a horse there? So many question.
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Memere 3 years ago (edited)
I wouldn't mind this at all, especially if the wedding was going to be on Halloween! And throw a little Steampunk at it too!
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Like a rhinestone cowgirl...
#61
Oh no bb what is you doin
Needmorecowbell 3 years ago
And not everyone can afford expensive center pieces. This mom is super proud of her work for her daughter. No shame in that.
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Sofie Carmine 3 years ago
That's actually kinda cute, and no need to spend a lot on center pieces if you make cute ones from dollar tree
Mouse 3 years ago
Friend had a garden wedding and the aisle was lined with wellies full of flowers. Went with the outdoor garden theme.
Debbie 3 years ago (edited)
But probably new wellies? These look like used boots. Also, an aisle of boots would be fine, but by these are meant to go on the table.
Load More Replies... E. Hamilton 3 years ago
I love it when people say "it's from the dollar store" and look at you and wait for you to have some revelatory reaction. Listen Susan, we know they are from the dollar store, we knoooooow.
Memere 3 years ago
I've seen ads on facebook marketplace for single cowboy boots - they were manufacturer samples that the sales rep takes around to stores so they can see what the various styles are. So they've not been worn at all & would be fine as a centerpiece. These all look new & clean, no problem.
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#62
Little Mermaid garbage pile chic.
MacKenzie Moore 3 years ago
I'm hoping this has a deeper meaning. I can think of two. 1) the pile of trash is to show our planet is dying from pollution, or, 2) this pile of trash is showing how our planet is dying because of lunatics who think this would look good at a wedding
Cold Contagious 3 years ago
Those both sound like good examples to spin for a wedding decor idea on a lower budget. I really like the way you're thinking about the situation.
Load More Replies... Crouching hippo hidden panda 3 years ago
Seashell bouquet, if they had a nautical theme I guess it might go
Cold Contagious 3 years ago
It would accurately describe the photo theme above.
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These folks did not have an eye for it.
Mouse 3 years ago
If the whole wedding was denim themed it may have fit in. Nit my taste but to each their own. Points for handmade denim flowers at least, I'm sure love went into making them.
L.A. Trefry 3 years ago
They kind of look more like denim spiders though.
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#66
I don't think she wants the answer, because to me this looks like an AliExpress Halloween costume, but...hey.
Rachknits 3 years ago
It's pretty plus spending a fortune on a dress you only wear once is way more 'shameful' (I found mine on ebay)
Cold Contagious 3 years ago
That dress looks like something *Poison Ivy* would wear. It would make an awesome Halloween costume done right.
#67
Favorite comment: "Oh look it's a trainwreckasaurous"
Ent Hugger 3 years ago
wait.. i almost love this but the artwork is... questionable. is that a half t-rex, half... manatee??? shoulda gone full dino.
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Amy S 3 years ago
The bride still has her hand free to take a drink etc. I wouldn't do it but I don't hate it
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Nimues Child 3 years ago
Yep. Given some of the stories above, brass knuckles could come in handy!
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Ouching Tiger Limping Dragon 2 years ago
This would actually be great for someone with nerve damage or other difficulties holding things.
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Sofie Carmine 3 years ago
Lol seems like something on AFV or Fail Army. Hope someone caught it on video
#70
Yes, that’s an alligator cake topper...yes, that’s a giant gummy snake...we don’t know why and we kinda don’t wanna know why
Ouching Tiger Limping Dragon 2 years ago
I'm just kinda sad about how small the cake looks on that holder. Pretty, though.
#71
I hope those knickers were new...
Okiedokie 3 years ago
Okay, but they look vintage and they look good for a DIY. Who cares if they were made of knickers?
Lee Gale 3 years ago
Yeah that's a pretty good upcycle. And an easy source of lace which isn't used for a whole lot of other things.
Load More Replies... Marcus Karlsson 3 years ago
I love these. Looks vintage but still affordable. My wife did something similar with her dress. It was her moms old weddingdress but she modified it herself and added lace. It was wonderful, classy and unique.
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Heather Mullen 2 years ago
the buyer is always a different body shape and gets upset because it doesn't match the picture.
Load More Replies... Carmel Field 3 years ago
Pretty much got what you ordered, considering differing body shapes/sizes. Always difficult to foresee the look on self....why I shop in-store.
#74
These folks did not have an eye for it.
Eb 3 years ago
Always makes me cringe when couples dress in different levels of formality. You see it a lot at night in the UK: girls in cocktail dresses and stripper heels, men like toddlers at the playground.
Cold Contagious 3 years ago
Is she lingerie woman? Wonder if they're going to send the kid away with the guy giving the service, before they consumate their vows on the rug???
#75
In case any of you are looking for some rustic #diwhy wedding decor, this gem posted on our Marketplace Monday thread
#76
Wait, Lydia Deetz is that you?
Cold Contagious 3 years ago
The title is fantastic! If it's Lydia and BJ, they'd be renewing their vows, being middle aged now. Hahaha 😁
#77
When the winter formal is Friday and you're getting married Saturday.
That'sEndorable 3 years ago
I'm a wedding traditionalist, so it's not exactly my thing, but it looks better than a lot of modern styles I've seen.
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Ashley Harrold 2 years ago
That's actually one of the most tasteful country wedding outfits I've seen
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Mouse 3 years ago
A hand painted dish, not the greatest artist but I'd treasure it if a friend made it for us.
Memere 3 years ago
That's what I thought it was at first, maybe for a head table centerpiece, but no, it's a CAKE.
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Lakota Wolf 3 years ago
I wish I was in a place financially where I could even consider BUYING A PLANE just to use as a wedding decoration.
#83
John Deere cake topper. Yeehaw?
Lizzie Smith 3 years ago
In the houses of parliament, that could be mistaken for hardcore po*n
#84
Described as an eco-friendly wedding, they used the banana peels and weeds for compost to grow their dinner. Just kidding.
Hagen Radcliffe 3 years ago
Brown, gray & taupe wedding colors. Let’s celebrate our love in bloom
Kar Red Roses 3 years ago
This concept could work if the gowns included a degree of uniformity, some structure to offset the free form textures of the shredded “bouquets” — here it’s looking quite unharmonious . A very unflattering shot, posed and cropped awkwardly. Swing and a miss
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Kathi Schäffer 3 years ago
Yes I think she may have ordered the dress on the right and the picture on the left is what arrived.
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ispeak catanese 3 years ago
It needs to be tailored and needs a petticoat. I don't see the problem
Sheila Stamey 3 years ago
I think it's a what she ordered and what she got kinda thing, but that others dress also has a lot of petticoats.
Kraneia The Dancing Dryad 2 years ago
Unless you have a body like the model in the photo, you're not going to look like the version in the photo
#88
Between the San Andrea's fault on the bodice and the one dress vomiting another, not too sure what's going on here.
SkekVi 3 years ago
yeah I was about to say... I don't like it but to me it just looks like a modern fashion thing. And I don't like modern fashion. I love the bodice and plunge though. Show off them twins queen it's your day do what you want!!
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Because who doesn’t want to get dressed up for a wedding so you can sit on the ground
Aidan Pite 3 years ago
My only concern is for the elderly relatives. Otherwise looks like a great idea.
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E. Hamilton 3 years ago
For a casual wedding this would be dope. Also, get to see my fat uncle turtle and need help up. Win win
Frank Miller 3 years ago
Maybe they weren't supposed to get dressed up. I'm fairly confident that the guests were told what the theme and layout of the wedding was going to be ahead of time.
Zoe's Mom 3 years ago
I don't think they thought this through. This is hard for the elderly as well as for parents who have children at the wedding.
NsG 3 years ago
That's assuming they have either as attendees. If all their guests are the same age as the couple, plus their parents (who could be anywhere between 40 & 60 and still manage to get up from a picnic blanket) this shouldn't be a problem.
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Aidan Pite 3 years ago
What's the issue here? Is this both the same wedding, an one isn't the bride?
Needmorecowbell 3 years ago
I think it’s the same as above—what someone ordered versus what they got.
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OHHHHH FOR ANYONE WHO DOESNT GET IT ITS A "WHAT I ORDERED VS WHAT I GOT"
Kraneia The Dancing Dryad 2 years ago
Again, if you have a different body type than the model in the photo, you won't look as good as the model
Marcus Karlsson 3 years ago
What I ordered vs what I got. Is it the dress or is it a postorder woman?
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Cold Contagious 3 years ago
I think it's gorgeous, except for the bullet...
Load More Replies... Hagen Radcliffe 3 years ago
What is in that thing? I see a few eyeballs and a button from jeans And burlap. What in gods name is the theme of this monsterousity ?
Memere 3 years ago
That's not a jeans button - that's the bottom of a shotgun shell. And there's a couple of bullet casings too.
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Memere 3 years ago
There's more than one! And the big one in the center is a shotgun shell.
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Hagen Radcliffe 3 years ago
“Everything! Just throw everything on it! Yes, all the stuff! Everything”
Sonja 3 years ago
I think lots of these are not wedding shaming but budged shaming. I think it's great when people rather use DIY and accept a bit of tackiness and imperfections than wasting thousands on stuff they will only use once. I wonder how many of those wedding shamers are wedding planners who feel salty that they miss out on commission when people go for good enough instead of all out
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Batwench 3 years ago
I think these may be the Lace Knickers covered shoes that Tiffany made earlier. Better picture of them, they still look great.
iseefractals 3 years ago
They look good in so far as anything traditional wedding related looks "good" Nothing wrong with these at all, looks like something you'd find in a bridal shop (and it's probably not like people are going to get much direct eyeline of the brides shoes)
Hagen Radcliffe 3 years ago
I have no idea what these pictures are! A hat? Gloves? Shoes? Old ugly lace???
#96
At least they match?
Nimues Child 3 years ago
Yeah, some of these just feel like "I wouldn't choose this so I will shame their choices." Punching down is never funny.
Brenda Spagnola-Wilson 3 years ago
Renaissance weddings are very popular and usually expensive
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Memere 3 years ago
Yeah, but I kinda feel bad for the groom - those nails could be tricky in certain sensitive areas on the wedding night, lol
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Francine Govan 3 years ago
Hope the wedding band was able to get past the humongous bow on her ring finger!!
Jenny Michelle 3 years ago
They don't look professionally done but other than that ..I like them.
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Kar Red Roses 3 years ago
What are we supposed to be shaming here? The bouquet is a little odd/lazy but really not worth the trouble of mentioning
Your Neighborhood Alien 3 years ago
What exactly is the problem on this one? The low neckline?
Yoga Kitty 3 years ago
I don't see anything wrong here? But I must admit - I don't in some of the other pics, either. Some things are not my style, but it is not my wedding, either...
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Moos 3 years ago
only it's not, unless they told the guests not to bring presents-cash.
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I would use these shoes for kindling in a fire.
Frank Miller 3 years ago
Man, the bottom of this list sure is full of people desperate to point out what they perceive as flaws in others to make themselves feel Superior. Perhaps we need some mirrors in here...
Yoga Kitty 3 years ago
Exactly. Just because something is not like they would have it it needs to be shamed. Pathetic!
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#101
The suitcases just in case either party wants to book it is a nice touch.
Mouse 3 years ago
Maybe it's symbolic. Like they both are coming to the alter with the baggage they've been carrying through life and once they say I do, they can leave it all there. A fresh start to their married life
Memere 3 years ago
Or it symbolizes their love of travel. Maybe they met while traveling & plan to continue.
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Kyndal T 3 years ago
I had to stop. Some of these are crazy for sure. I'm not arguing that. But some of these people are doing what they can with what they have. They just want to be with the one they love. Bad behavior should've been the focus here. Like the lady wearing white to her son's wedding. That's mean. But the rest? Just let people like stuff. Even those horrifying wedding crocs.
S. Mi 3 years ago
If we called it something else 'quirky wedding choices that aren't for everyone' or something, I'd have enjoyed those parts a lot more, too. Because it is neat to see, just...why shame people for doing what they love?
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Aliquid 3 years ago (edited)
I've said it in previous posts and I will say it in future posts. No, they don't "deserve to be shamed". As long as they are not causing harm, or humiliating people or something like that, let them have their wedding any damn way they want. Live and let live.
Anonymous 3 years ago
Totally agree, most of these were totally fine. (Apart from like, the confederate flag sash) we shouldn't shame people for doing what makes them happy
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Andy Zbinden 3 years ago
some are poor and do the best they can. some have a peculiar taste but hey, it's their day. and some don't know how to behave. the latter deserve to be shamed.
Anna Banana 3 years ago
Exactly, a third of those posts are just shaming any wedding which doesn't have a white & beige theme with colour-coded everything. I'd much rather go to a quirky wedding than a stuffy one. (Disclaimer: I've been to a lot of more traditional weddings which were not stuffy at all, and quite fun. It's about the attitude.)
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Jacqueline Pie Francis 3 years ago
What a snobby post. Not everyone has money to spend on “classy” weddings, and frankly, I’ve been to fancy weddings and they were all boring as h**l. Most of these look a lot more fun.
Phil Vaive 3 years ago
A lot of these were just people not spending tens of thousands of dollars on a one day party. Who cares if someone wears jeans to their wedding? A few of these (like the woman with the confederate flag sash) should rightly be judged, but people having fun with their own wedding and wearing camo, or having funny cake toppers? GTFO of here with your judgement.
deathrose 3 years ago
It wasn't a confederate flag, it was a criss-cross hatch pattern, the fabric is on the floor at her feet. It was an unfortunate accident and she doesn't deserve the harassment she got from this.
Load More Replies... NoDak Pirate 3 years ago
Most of these are the couples taste and style. It's their weddings, let them have it how they want it. This is a very Liberal site and shaming these people for being themselves is very hypocritical and narrow minded. Y'all discuss me!
Sherrie Dawn 3 years ago
Anyone else getting backflashes to the wedding shaming Facebook group where a lot of the things aren't bad but just being shamed for being a non-typical wedding
Memere 3 years ago
I believe all of these are actually from that very same Facebook group. I've tried to look at it & it's a "private group". If this kind of shaming & punching down is how it operates, I'm definitely not 'joining' it.
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Not A Panda 3 years ago
They don't throw the bouquet everywhere. Lots of places the bouquet is preserved and displayed, so those "alternative" shamed bouquets make sense if you think about that.
Will Cross 3 years ago
Stop judging people just so you can be hateful and intentionally trying to be the worst version of yourself. It's really not that hard to be decent to your own kind. This stuff is not ok.
Kyndal T 3 years ago
I had to stop. Some of these are crazy for sure. I'm not arguing that. But some of these people are doing what they can with what they have. They just want to be with the one they love. Bad behavior should've been the focus here. Like the lady wearing white to her son's wedding. That's mean. But the rest? Just let people like stuff. Even those horrifying wedding crocs.
S. Mi 3 years ago
If we called it something else 'quirky wedding choices that aren't for everyone' or something, I'd have enjoyed those parts a lot more, too. Because it is neat to see, just...why shame people for doing what they love?
Load More Replies... Aliquid 3 years ago (edited)
I've said it in previous posts and I will say it in future posts. No, they don't "deserve to be shamed". As long as they are not causing harm, or humiliating people or something like that, let them have their wedding any damn way they want. Live and let live.
Anonymous 3 years ago
Totally agree, most of these were totally fine. (Apart from like, the confederate flag sash) we shouldn't shame people for doing what makes them happy
Load More Replies... Andy Zbinden 3 years ago
some are poor and do the best they can. some have a peculiar taste but hey, it's their day. and some don't know how to behave. the latter deserve to be shamed.
Anna Banana 3 years ago
Exactly, a third of those posts are just shaming any wedding which doesn't have a white & beige theme with colour-coded everything. I'd much rather go to a quirky wedding than a stuffy one. (Disclaimer: I've been to a lot of more traditional weddings which were not stuffy at all, and quite fun. It's about the attitude.)
Load More Replies... Jacqueline Pie Francis 3 years ago
What a snobby post. Not everyone has money to spend on “classy” weddings, and frankly, I’ve been to fancy weddings and they were all boring as h**l. Most of these look a lot more fun.
Phil Vaive 3 years ago
A lot of these were just people not spending tens of thousands of dollars on a one day party. Who cares if someone wears jeans to their wedding? A few of these (like the woman with the confederate flag sash) should rightly be judged, but people having fun with their own wedding and wearing camo, or having funny cake toppers? GTFO of here with your judgement.
deathrose 3 years ago
It wasn't a confederate flag, it was a criss-cross hatch pattern, the fabric is on the floor at her feet. It was an unfortunate accident and she doesn't deserve the harassment she got from this.
Load More Replies... NoDak Pirate 3 years ago
Most of these are the couples taste and style. It's their weddings, let them have it how they want it. This is a very Liberal site and shaming these people for being themselves is very hypocritical and narrow minded. Y'all discuss me!
Sherrie Dawn 3 years ago
Anyone else getting backflashes to the wedding shaming Facebook group where a lot of the things aren't bad but just being shamed for being a non-typical wedding
Memere 3 years ago
I believe all of these are actually from that very same Facebook group. I've tried to look at it & it's a "private group". If this kind of shaming & punching down is how it operates, I'm definitely not 'joining' it.
Load More Replies... Not A Panda 3 years ago
They don't throw the bouquet everywhere. Lots of places the bouquet is preserved and displayed, so those "alternative" shamed bouquets make sense if you think about that.
Will Cross 3 years ago
Stop judging people just so you can be hateful and intentionally trying to be the worst version of yourself. It's really not that hard to be decent to your own kind. This stuff is not ok.
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