Some Rich People Are Quite Clueless About How Regular People Live And Here Are 40 Stories Twitter Users Shared That Prove It
We all live on the same planet, but it is so diverse that it might seem that we are living in a different dimension. It can depend on the nature that surrounds us, what natural disasters occur, our country’s economic state, the government, the education system and other aspects.
But even people living in the same geographical and political space might not share the same reality. Like how rich people and poor people experience a totally different life. What is the most interesting is that one is not aware of how good or how bad the other’s life is.

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One Twitter user might have had her eyes opened to this phenomenon because she asked “You ever watch a rich person's expression change when you ask a question that's too poor?” People had some very amusing and quite concerning stories about the wealthier part of society that are clueless how the majority of the world lives.

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Am I the only who reads this and thinks if you are "bragging" aboutt getting the outfit by thrifting that implies it was a choice not a necessity. I don't brag about feeding my family of five a good dinner for less than $20, I consider it survival.
Not necessarily. I needed to shop at thrifts for years, and was still chuffed when I got a really good deal out of it. Nothing wrong with bragging a bit about skill, in the case of a dinner, or luck and persistence & some ability with mending. I was never ashamed about being poor.
Load More Replies...Fck that pos. Nothing wrong with thrifting, no matter the income level. Plus it's not his business where somebody gets their fn clothes.
True that! My niece is a surgeon and her husband is an actuary and they've thrifted lots of their home goods including their baby twins highchairs.
Load More Replies...I have dressed better in thrift store silk and cashmere than any boss I ever worked for.
The person who asked the question is Akilah Green, a writer-producer, recovering lawyer and an Emmy loser. The tweet got 58k likes and a lot of people joined the conversation. They not only shared the questions they asked the rich that exposed them as being poor, but also various stories of wealthy people not realizing they are living a privileged life that not many experience.
A screenshot of the tweet with Twitter user Grace Kelley’s answer was posted on Reddit a few days ago and it has already been upvoted over 34k times. The viral story was about a time she was proud of her outfit and bragged to her coworker that it was actually thrifted. Her boss heard that and told her to not say such things as it makes him look bad: her thrifting her outfit means he doesn’t pay her enough.
This one is actually kinda cute in a way. Yes they should have realized not everyone can afford to visit Paris but they were really trying to help and imo not offensive unlike a lot of others on this list
It may not sound that bad to you, but to a poor person who's heard this sort of thing all their life, it hurts. Trust me.
Load More Replies...Yep rich people have no idea how some people can't afford to buy fresh organic foods.
Or why people just can't afford food. Fresh and organic is top luxury. Even enough food is luxury
Load More Replies...Paris really isn't the great, it's just full of tourists and very annoyed French people who are sock of the tourists, if you're going to France, there are many nicer cities to visit.
I agree lol. I have been to France a few times before. Went to nice3, Avignon and boredeaux(no idea how to spell it). Haven’t been to Paris though. Too many tourists.
Load More Replies...Thinking Paris is lovely indicates privilege and not leaving the tourist areas.
The state I live in is a huge tourist attraction, one particular city is very popular in the summer. When I recently worked for a retail store it took my all not to roll my eyes at the questions I'd get asked on a daily basis. "Where would you recommend to eat in (rich city name)?" "What stores would you recommend?" "What time of day is busiest?" As I sat there like "it's adorable you think the people that live in this state can actually afford that city, you ignoramus!"
Same here. No place to live, everything is an Air B&B. We work in the restaurants but can't afford to eat in them. Everytime an old farmer dies, developers scoop up his property and another motel sprouts up. All the cool little local hangouts are getting trashed. Tourism has benefits, but- "Pave Paradise, put up a Parking Lot"
Load More Replies...soo, people should assume that everything you haven’t done is because you don’t have the money?
I like when all these "influencers" say, "you must travel, that's the only way to live". Really Tyler/Ashley? Really? because I think the only way for me to live is go to my 7-5pm job so I can barely pay my bills, go to school and make sure my parents are also doing well.
For real. Work at a grocery store. 8 or the 10 managers have unused degrees that are still being paid for. College does not equal great paying job.
They don't tell you that when giving you the student loan though🙄
Load More Replies...And you do not need to go to college to have a high paying job either...
man, don't get me started on this...higher education is a joke right now, specially in the US...there is so much competition after graduation, companies want an absurdly insane amount of experience and they want you to have a PhD and are only going to pay entry level wages...and not only that, you'll be paying off student loan debt for the rest of your life, even if you do manage your finances well, and the government keeps on lying about helping and eliminating student loan debt...if you look and read closely about the programs out there about student loan debt relief, it's just a bank trying to restructure your loans, but they never go away...
It's because its all for money. People don't hire on actual skill or potential any more, it's all about the piece of paper at the exclusion of common sense even. I'm reminded of that one Nasa Engineer who just walked in one day and they gave him a job. He'd never really done code before then. He eventually did code for the moon landing. (Note: his name was Don Eyles and the video 'the Real Story Behind the Apollo 11 Computer Error' by the WSJ on youtube is worth watching). I'm not saying people should hire mathematicians off the street, but there are a lot of people willing to work if only companies would treat them like an asset instead of just wanting on paper experience.
Load More Replies...I remained a cocktail waitress at a sports Bar after becoming a nurse. When "regulars" would ask" where have you been?" And I'd explain I finished school and was in ICU 3 X week..their mouths would hang open. "So why are you HERE?! .." because I leave with $350 cash in my POCKET after few hours ironically jet, the regulars would tip me more. **Education does NOT = WORTH.OR INTELLIGENCE.* Ur Dr graduate last in his class? FIRST? DO U CARE? THEY ARE STILL a DR!!. Go to Harvard or UM or in another country...?. still a DR. plus, .NURSES DONT MAKE THAT much $$ .DUH.
Not everyone has a family business to inherit. Or parents who will give you a management job with a high salary the millisecond you graduate college. Some of us actually have to work our way up the ladder, as we don’t have access to the elevator.
I worked every university holiday on the checkouts of the local supermarket. I never had anyone particularly obnoxious, but there were a few that looked down on the lowly checkout operator and assumed that you were quite dim. They frequently came back specifically to me when they found out I wasn't. LOL.
Go to trade school. Cheap. No debt. Jobs paying $100,000 a year. Or more.
Shock horror, he didn’t pay her enough. We got to know more about the story as the Twitter user saw the Reddit post and commented saying “It was a fashion company that paid $45k/yr in NYC, so I couldn’t afford to get work clothes from anywhere other than a thrift store. The Devil Wears Prada is a documentary lol. Same guy used to pick on me for bringing my lunch from home and go on rants about ‘entitled Millennials’ who wanted too much money.”
What kind of jerk is questioning people about the contents of their fridge to begin with?
"Why do you have Costco bottled water, instead of Perrier?"
Load More Replies...My dad told me to do this. Like, people don't realize you can't JUST buy stocks and bonds. They are high risk investments and you should only invest what you can sleep on if you lose it. You have to really trust the person who's advising you to invest. There are people out there who will con you into making bad investments or even stealing your money. It's not for everyone.
PLUS not everybody has the extra moolah to invest. A lot of people with student loans are struggling just to get by.
Load More Replies...I would have said 😉" we each sold a kidney instead.."🤭 Now please leave , don't come back unless you have COKE PEPSI OR MTN DEW.lol"
If you’ve sold a kidney, you’re going to be drinking lots of water and cranberry juice and not much else…
Load More Replies...Why didn't I think of that??!!? Maybe if I did an economics degree.
Like Mitt Romney recommending that college students just ask their parents for money instead of student loans.
My dad's family had Kennecott stock (copper mines) but sold it for pennies during the Depression. Can't sell it now.
I think the family meant country club, golf course type.
Load More Replies...You’re not alone. I went to a dinner at my boyfriend’s family’s yacht club, where I met his aunt. She was dressed to kill in a full fluted skirt and matching bolero jacket. I complimented her on it saying it looked so Spanish, and wherever did she find it? She looked at me like I was lacking wits and said “In Spain, obviously.”
If you missed the reference, most likely a Country Club (golf and dress codes) as opposed to a Rave or dancing/drinks/drugs kind of club.
I'm taking it the parents don't frequent the Boots n cats and boots n cats clubs often
I think the family meant country club, golf course type.
Load More Replies...Depends on the type of club. My family was members of a very ritzy golf club. We played golf several times a week and my dad had friends there. Great memories of my siblings and I playing Yahtzee while my dad chatted with friends and we all ate lunch. Definitely not something I would do now, even if I could afford it.
Load More Replies...bosses shouldn't rely on workers barley getting a minimum wage (that needs to be raised) to pay for company stuff. the companny needs to use its own money
You do get it back, next payday. When i worked at Roku we used our own cards and I got tons of free miles that way.
Load More Replies..."Just advance it" should never ever be an option. No. Even if people have a 3k a month salary doesn't mean they have money to spare. For some people that literally means being able to eat or not. And I'm not talking fancy restaurants. I'm talking your "it's not that much, we'll pay you back those 5 dollars" means they can't even buy a loaf of bread. If you want your staff to be able to buy you things you need to have petty cash or provide them with a company card they can charge for your purchases
My former boss used to do that. We kept asking for a company credit card when we travel for work, but she kept sticking to the reimbursement system. One trip, I spent more than $800 on my credit card for long a*s taxi rides from/to the airport and for the hotel, which the company booked. Like, screw that.
oh man, here is another one!!! i am working for my brother in law right now as an admin/executive assistant and sometimes he asks me to go run some errands, but he expects me to pay for stuff half the time and doesn't want to reimburse me when i request it, he barely pays me and barely enough, and i'm like "where is all the money that you say you have and that you flaunt all the time, and that you say you have a lot of!!???" he is a penny pincher and never wants to pay for anything and only wants more and more money...
Shock horror, he didn’t pay her enough. We got to know more about the story as the Twitter user saw the Reddit post and commented saying “It was a fashion company that paid $45k/yr in NYC, so I couldn’t afford to get work clothes from anywhere other than a thrift store. The Devil Wears Prada is a documentary lol. Same guy used to pick on me for bringing my lunch from home and go on rants about ‘entitled Millennials’ who wanted too much money.”
I don't think it's a "rich people not understanding" in this case. Sounds like gaslighting. I remember in my first job they wanted to not pay me for the first week of work because it was "nothing" and would make the finances "complicated" because it wasn't at the first of the month and some b.s (of course i said no). A few months later when I asked for a raise for an amount less than a week worth work, it wasn't "nothing" at that time...
If $7 isn't an issue to the landlord then he won't mind taking a $7 decrease in rent each month until it's fixed, just saying. Legally you can refuse rent payment if you document your interaction and your broken toilet. Just keep the rent money saved aside in order to win your case. Or document, fix and sue for reimbursement- there are some lawyers that will take these cases pro bono if your case strong.
Am reminded of one George H.W. Bush, who had no clue how much a quart of milk cost.
You can get a loaf of white at Aldi for 85c by me, but at your average grocery store? Nah.
Depends on the quality of the bread. You can get a no- name, non store brand loaf for like, less than a dollar. The Quality of the bread isn't great, but if you're in a pinch and just want a loaf of bread its. Better than nothing.
Load More Replies...Actually at a store near me you can buy a loaf of bread for 89 cents. Both 100% wheat (supposedly, I have my doubts) and white... Aldi, I love that store
I was going to say this - 85 cents for a loaf of wheat at my Aldi!
Load More Replies...I paid $0.87 last Saturday for a loaf of white sliced bread at Aldi's in central Texas. He wasn't wrong.
Reminds me about a guy at university who told me he tried out working and found it to be very pointless and draining and its not for him. Lol.
I suppose maybe if they had more than one job, that could make sense.
Load More Replies...Who would say I got to go to X place instead of saying I got to go to work. Also how long she been your roommate that she is inviting you places but don't know you work.
It wasn’t the only time the boss showed how cheap he was, but the woman isn’t working there anymore and she says that she is making a lot more money in a different state.
The Twitter thread has many more similar stories and it is quite concerning that rich people are almost like a secluded society, not knowing what goes on in regular people’s lives as according to Statista, 37 million Americans, which is about 11 percent of the whole country’s population, lived under the poverty line in 2020.
That means that a family of 4 was earning less than $26,200 or a single person was earning less than $12,760. And even if you are a little bit over the threshold, it is not a lot at all.
You should tell her that her body is partially made of recycled dead people.
and that a good chunk of her body is not human cells but microbes (IIRC 50ish %?)
Load More Replies...I would never buy a new construction apartment, even if I'd afford it 10 times. Maybe it's country-specific, but generally speaking those are way more shittier in quality, than those build 80-90 years ago.
My house (farm) is over 200 years old and is solid structurally have had minimal repairs for anything. An apartment building built just a few miles away 5 years ago was just condemned for mold and termite infestation. I live in the US.
Load More Replies...She must hold her pee all day when she's out.CAN YOU IMAGINE using a random toilet?!
One day at work in ICU, I was putting a hospital gown on a new admission. THE lady asked me if it was new. I told her ," no, someone probably died in it yesterday..." This is ICU, not Prada.. she dialed it down and laughed.I told her not to ask me what FLAVOR tea or jello we had next...
The apartment building where I live was built in 1984. The basement is practically a bomb shelter...
My apartment building basement IS a bomb shelter! There are signs! 🤣 . I think it's about a hundred years old.
Load More Replies...I hope she didn't have any older siblings that nine months in the tiny one bedroom must have been dreadful
So...she also never travels adn stays at hotels?? Or visits other people? Weird.
Oh, my! She clearly lives on an entirely different plane of existence than the rest of is!
Did he ask why you work two jobs because that's the icing on the cake.
Was lucky enough to get free tickets through my job a few years back and loved PNC Park. We had a suite. Never been able to afford it on my own.
The rich people that understand that not everyone is like them and are kind to those people are cool, but this guy… no.
37 million is the same amount as it was in 2007, just before the economic crisis in 2008. Between the years of 2009 and 2016, the number was always higher than 40 million, however, it has been decreasing ever since 2014. In 2019, just before the pandemic came, almost 34 million people were living in poverty and the number increased in 2020 when a lot of people lost their jobs due to businesses closing as a measure to fight the virus.
Oh you sweet, innocent, entitled little loaf of a child. You are in school but have so much to learn that schools can't teach you.
teaching moment .... show documentary of kids laboring in 3rd world country carrying water 2 miles to wash dishes ....?
If garage not flooded, your street still has several inches of ice you don't want to drive on? Like, you take the corner out of your garage and slide into your opposite neighbour's car?
Or politely educated that their parents' standard of living does not reflect everyone else's reality.
Load More Replies...My ex boyfriend wanted an expensive guitar and when he was asked in the shop if he wants to try it, to play it, he said no, I've seen enough. Because he wanted it as a decoration of his living room. In scenarios like this I think of the appreciative and skilled people who never get to play on those gorgeous instruments and its sad.
You should have said" oh .. yes, like the Bugatti we park outside our house that no one drives"
Oh. That’s so sad. I used to work at a local music store that sold harps, hammered dulcimers and guitars. A woman came in once with some friends, spotted a particular guitar on the wall and asked what kind of wood it was. “Koa,” the guitar guy said. The woman got out her credit card and bought it saying, “It will match my husband’s desk.” This guitar was the shop favorite because of its exquisite sound, and cost around $6000. It went to be a decoration.
They should have played it, since their chance of hearing harp music later is slim.
And if not played/kept tuned, if someone later tightens the strings the soundboard will tear right out, destroying it.
If we go outside the US, the numbers are even scarier. In many African countries, more than half of their populations are living in poverty. The global average was 9.3 percent in 2017, according to the World Bank data. That means almost a tenth of the world’s population don’t earn more than $1.9 a day.
We know things best that occur in our reality, but it is important to be curious and learn about the world and be compassionate to those who are less fortunate. But for now it’s just fun to read about how the wealthy receive a reality check. We also would like to hear your stories, so put them in the comments!
And now EVERYONE is too poor to go to Disneyland. Thanks heaps, Bob Chapek!
And we Florida Residents can't run up for a weekend either! The AP & FL res passes are FOR THE WEALTHY now so sad. Gave up our DVC TOO.
Load More Replies...When I first moved to LA years ago my now wife suggested we go to Disneyland for the day and I was shocked. Disneyland was something you saved for for over a year. Admission, food, hotels, transportation, etc. She was like, No, it's just down the street. Years later we surprised my mother with the same thing and she had the same reaction I did, but this time, I was able to steer her into it more easily. We bought her a 2 day pass. On the second day I had to work and she and my now wife got to spend the whole day together. My mom still talks about how wonderful of a time she had.
My family could probably afford to go, but it's hot, it's busy, and it's REALLY far away.
We had to drive across the country! We went one day but saved for a whole year and a half!
Load More Replies...Aaaand sadly, i have yet to get to Disney World at 51. I'm going darnit! Crowds or not! My youngest is 18 so we will hold hands and skip through the entrance and scream."we finally made it!" And then......Two hours later.....
My kids, my wife, and I have never been to Disneyland either. We go to lots of other places that they actually remember. Ever been to Centralia, Williamsburg, DC, Gettysburg, Erie, The Finger Lakes, Kelly's Island, Cincinnati, The Poconos, State Park x LOTS, camping, Myrtle Beach, Edisto Island, OBX, Biltmore, Niagara Falls, Cape May, Avalon, Stone Harbor, Havre de Grace, Antietam, Cedar Point, Kennywood, Toledo, Findlay, I'm tired of thinking of all of the places we've shown them. They're better for it.
The only reason my family was able to go to Disneyland was because my dad won employee of the year at his work and he won a trip for 2 to LA, so my parents paid to include us two kids. And we went to Disneyworld because my mom won the trip off of the radio. God bless you Mulan 2. (It was a promo contest for Mulan 2)
Our vacation was squatting “camping on crown land (government owns the land) for free all summer.
Wow, hope they got wiser. I was lucky my only friend in primary school was loaded but understood my family was the complete opposite, she was never mean about it, but always tried to help, like I couldn’t afford things at sleepovers the rich kids could, so she would spot me etc.
I had a very similar one with tickets to rocky horror. I told him I could not go because I had £25 and it would cost £30. He was like “can’t you get your mum to give you the rest of it?” For him, financial boundaries were always flexible and he didn’t get it.
… as someone who is friends with an orphan. No not lol.
Load More Replies...Goodness. This reminds me of the time my college friend's parents visited my home and the first question out of their mouths is 'how many square feet is it in here' as though that mattered more than us as humans. The mom proceeded to ask my mother if she had a 10 year plan for me. During my mother's stunned silence, the mom cluelessly proceeded to offer to make one for me if I didn't have one?????
Huh? Why in the world would someone presume to take over raising another's child? Wanted more than one failure right?
Load More Replies...To be fair, I grew up in the country with not a lot of money. A backyard wasn't considered large unless it was several acres.
Thank you for pointing that out. Depending on the location a giant piece of land might be much cheaper than a small apartment.
Load More Replies...How big your yard is, is relative to the size of the mower you own XD
Their boss is asking how big of a backyard they had and the person thought that their 40 x 40 sq ft backyard was big and their boss was like oh because he was talking about acres cause their boss is rich
Load More Replies...You should have said, " oh, I thought ur mind was big & open too"
If I wrote a book of the DANIELLEISMS...anyone who knows me, knows they are true..hilarious, sad, ironic...but true..lol id be a gazillionaire
There's one in my past, called the "Pizza Tire Incident" where I had saved enough for take out pizza for all my kids for the first time in two years. Then I blew a tire going to work. They learned that tired mean more than pizza. We did eventually get a take out pizza like for weeks later, but even now, we don't order it as a group.
Load More Replies...Good reply. The poster should have replied with this. LOL!
Load More Replies...And they probably got a scholarship to boot because their parents could afford the extra curricular activities, and they didn't spend 1/2 of their academic life just trying to survive the toxic culture.
I've said this before in a previous post several months ago, but it seems appropriate here too. I once saw David Beckham on the Graham Norton show. His eldest son Brooklyn - then 18 -was leaving the UK to go to some university in US. (It may have been Harvard, but I can't recall now). David was saying they will really miss him, but are so proud, as he won a Mechanical Engineering scholarship. I was gobsmacked! The Beckhams are - well, maybe not trillionaires, but they can certainly afford to pay for College/University. Scholarships are supposed to be for really smart kids who cannot afford the tuition fees. In my opinion, Brooklyn robbed a really smart kid of the opportunity. And to top it all off, he quit partway through anyway. SMDH
Load More Replies...While she was in college, my future SIL told me her parents never submitted the FAFSA because the thousands of dollars saved in grants, scholarships, etc. wasn't worth the time it took to fill out and file the paperwork. So they paid in CASH! (They are truly wonderful people, BTW, but just live in a different world than me).
That doesn't exist in their vocabulary. They would physically gag if they hear it.
I would have replied "yeah my mum told me the same thing, that's why I asked you".
Those ppl are the reason I've taught my daughters " you don't HAVE to like everyone, but you must be KIND" WE NEVER know who will filter thru our Kaleidescope again. I hope one day you walk in AS HIS DR, LAWYER, PULL HIM OVER , ARE HIS NURSE , ARE HIS KUDS TEACHER.ETC .....LOL...
Not sure who is more vile here, his mother for instilling thoughts like this in his head, or your classmate for taking them, believing in them then repeating them out loud with no consideration for others.
This might not have been an economic class thing, the ex-"friend" might well just be an ass.
Instant Karma's gonna get you/Gonna knock you right on the head/You better get yourself together/Pretty soon you're gonna be dead/What in the world you thinking of/Laughing in the face of love/What on earth you tryin' to do/It's up to you, yeah you. Sorry, but I HAD to, lol!
Wealthy people can be really stingy. Also, even wealthy people can have cash flow issues or tons of liabilities they have to pay each month. My grandmother was wealthy. I grew up wealthy. I am no longer wealthy. Lol
Load More Replies...I’m in the US, and we paid for the bridesmaid dresses and tuxes for the ushers. I’ve never agreed with the notion that someone doing me the honor of being in my wedding should also have to pay to do it.
The bridesmaid thing is such a scam! I think if you're asking me to be in your wedding then why am I expected to pay for it. paying for it? Now I have this ugly dress that I will never wear again. Even though it's black and you thought it could be worn again. It can. But it's not my style to begin with. Plus 4 days hotel and airfare in Hawaii. B******t.
My sister gave me some lovely crushed velvet for Xmas and said "this is for you to make your bridesmaid's dress for my wedding this weekend."
Load More Replies...I'm not rich. My bridesmaids find spend anything -it was part of the budget. I have been bridesmaid 3 times. Never cost me anything
I'venever heard of that. May I ask where you're from? In middle class USA, the bridal party pays for dress, travel, hotel, bachelor party, etc themselves.
Load More Replies...Where I live braidsmaids wear what they want to the wedding. Sure, they might go dress shopping with the bride for the fun of it, but equally as often they will just wear a dress they already own.
That happened for sister’s wedding (back when my parents had money) -nher friend was in law school and couldn’t afford the dress etc. my mother said, don’t worry, we’ll help you (and paid for everything) and please don’t get any gifts.
A loan? Is it normal for bridesmaids to pay for their dresses? I thought the bride's family was traditionally supposed to pay for those sorts of things
A lot of bridesmaids pay for their dresses. Traditionally a believe it was covered by the family of the bride, though.
Load More Replies...That's when u say u don't pay me enough for my own living let alone someone's else! Or two someone else's. Edit yes wrote that like that on purpose
i think we need to be honest with employers in this day and age, specially in the US since they can't seem to comprehend why people are leaving to go somewhere else, NO!!!! YOU DON"T PAY ME ENOUGH, they have the same wages that they had when they started the company and only increase it a pitiful amount each year, if you're lucky enough to get a raise, usually they'll freeze your wages right before you get a raise!!!
Load More Replies...So to put our country (SA) into perspective, we have the world's worst gini coeffcient, meaning we have the greatest inequality. More or less EVERYONE in the middle class has a live-in or regular maid, as well as a gardener. However, about 80% of the population has the gardening/maid/digging gold out the ground/washing cars skillset, and the other 20% are middle or upper class. So obviously, that 20% can't absorb the employment needs of the other 80%. So unsprisingly our unemployment is very high. It's devastating and tragic. The assumption that you "can just" have a maid is really a relic of privilege and colonialism.
These ones make me the angriest. The bosses who pay their staff so little while they live large off the hard labour of their peons is just infuriating. Then they have the nerve to talk their staff like this?
that's when you say you don't believe in contributing to human trafficking ....
Had a boss like thst who didn't understand why I had to do my single self did my own laundry/ cleaning and couldn't afford a cleaning lady like and her husband did. She also couldn't understand why single me didn't always want to work overtime " because uts not like you have kids or other responsibilities "...
And this, my friends, is why you don't jump into problem solving mode. Listen first.
I hope the tone was right, it could go both ways with intention depending on the tone.
Load More Replies...The truth.. We don't want to get up at O' DARK HUNDRED..
Who in their right mind doesn't love a bargain?? Some of the richest people I know are extremely frugal.
"Because i'm not friends with you anymore"
Load More Replies...I'd tell no I'm not gonna figure it out and tell her why! An tell I ant coming I got more important stuff on my plate
You should have said" I have a very similar one from Target..." lol
That's what I thought, too. I can't even afford Anthropologie lol
Load More Replies...My boss's girlfriend hates me because she overheard me comment "what's with the goggles" regarding her Gucci sunglasses.
Designer brands don't always equal class and taste.
Load More Replies...This is funny! My sister used to work in a sewing factory making blouses for various well known stores. She once gave me one she bought at their excess inventory sale for staff, and apologized that the label said "Penney's," as they were out of the ones that said "Neiman-Marcus." Same exact blouse, same fabric, sewn by the same people, just inserted different labels. You can bet your bottom dollar that the retail prices weren't anywhere near the same though.
Some snobby friend-of-a-friend at a party said my blouse was pretty. "Is it [Some haughty-sounding designer I've never heard of]?" I mirrored her pose and said, "Close! It's from Kohl's." I will never forget the look on her face. Delicious.
I always wondered who wore couture. I mean, day to day clothes. Who does that? I don't even shop at Anthropologie. If a T-shirt is more than $20 then I'm not buying it.
From what I've seen on the "runway" lately, couture need to reimagine itself back to things that people can actually wear!
This honestly explains a lot about how big news papers/magazines end up writing completely out of touch editorials.
Rich people often pay to put their opinion pieces in
Load More Replies...Ngl I would absolutely read behind-the-scenes stories on Wal-Mart from an ex-employee.
Just watch SuperStore. Surprisingly accurate. 😂
Load More Replies...You should’ve taken him up on it, written it as an expose of the exploitation of Walmart employees, and pulled no punches when it came to telling hard truths about how bad it is. Not sure if that was what the editor was thinking of, and I’m also not sure he would’ve published it, but he was the one who asked you to write it. Be careful what you ask for, you may surely get it.
"Nickel and Dimed" is excellent. As is Natural Causes.
Load More Replies...Perhaps the editor meant the OP should write a story about his experience working at Walmart.
But it's a private employer, as in, not the government.
Load More Replies...She should have said she would write a story about her experience there IF this out of touch, pretentious, entitled dbag would write one about when he lost his ethics and ability to genuinely want to understand other people.
You know, at least they made an effort. So many people get immediately offended by stuff like this, but sometimes rich people are people too and they can be awkward in some situations same as poor people. If they're not being condescending or malicious, then why should it put a fn chip on somebody's shoulder? Maybe, in turn, relate to the awkwardness and both people could wind up with an enriching and rewarding friendship or, at least, experience.
I notice that in the US, asking people "what they do" is almost a necessity, as if they need to know what they do for a living to gauge how much respect it involves. In many countries in Europe, asking someone "what they do" is considered extremely rude.
Funny. Another branch of the family owns a moving company and used to be agents for Mayflower. My branch of the family does not have a stake in said company.
wow, I'd ignore her calls for about 3 months and see if she took the hint. cow.
And as she gets older, "I only have so many more years to live!" "Well, you better save those up!"
Load More Replies...At what point did we begin to see our own offspring as rivals? Or, what actually happened to the sentence: "our children should have it better than we do".
Somewhere along the time when kids decided to listen more to their friends and start Overly whining about how their parents are so mean and don't care about them......so since like forever just now with social media it's more in our faces....and sometimes parents are just crud....
Load More Replies...Tori Spelling has told a story about just after 90210 she was tens of thousands in debt. She went to her dad in hopes of him helping her out. Because he was not a young man when she was born he gave her $20 and said "I hope that helps." Similar when he died. He was worth hundred of millions but left her like $800,000. Still a TON of money but in perspective it's pennies.
No. That is totally one sided. Everything was bought for her, more and more and more but it was never enough. They finally had enough and cut her off.
Load More Replies...We missed the story of how her mom became a doctor and had money. Maybe there was a lesson here, or maybe she is a b***h, don't know.
Could have been teaching a life lesson on working for what you want.
Load More Replies...What job do you have that only provides $90/week? I assume this is part time or something since it's a student?
Meanwhile, it's pretty clever to have a $100 bill -- that way everybody else ends up paying for you because you're stuck with this outlandish banknote nobody can deal with.
....Cash?? Here if you use cash it is assumed that you are dirt poor or you are mafia. No one uses cash. That being said, carrying a $100 around is super irresponsible. You could get mugged or something.
I'm just so glad I don't live where you live. I nearly always pay cash (and nobody would think I'm mafia) and I've neveer been worried I might get mugged.
Load More Replies...This one isn't entirely accurate. I grew up poor in another country and often had mint jelly...with any meal, really. Yes, that includes free lunches and such. In the country I live now, mint jelly is only found in the foreign food aisle, and mostly purchased by people who think they are high class and 'sophisticated'. It's not about being rich or poor...it's simply where/how the food is marketed.
It's entirely accurate to OP's American experience. We get it, you're British.
Load More Replies...Yup... My grandma's favorite on lamb. I love it too. I love introducing unique foods to people, though, and I'm aware most people haven't tried it.
I grew up, not hop or lower middle class, but right smack dab in the middle of middle class, and we had lamb periodically—-with mint jelly. In fact, when my husband and I were first married and not making much money, we ate lamb once in a while too, also with mint jelly. We haven’t eaten it in a long time now, but only because I do see it in the grocery stores around here anymore.
Not a vegan or vegetarian, however I cannot bring myself to eat baby animals. It just seems too sad. But I eat meat... I am crazy.
no at least you recognise the moral problem and are willing to reduce indiscriminate consumption to reduce your harm. My suggestion would be to gradually try cutting out various meats and see which one you absolutely cannot drop, and then just keep that, and have it say every two or three days. You will make a big difference, saving 3-4 lives per week. Much more effective at anti-animal cruelty evne than working at SPCA
Load More Replies...Combining comments from previous post and this one, I now envision the Jones family fortune being squandered on lamb and mint jelly.
It depends on where you are. Lamb in the southern USA is more than chicken because we have to get it shipped. I don't think there are any sheep herds near me... but my neighbor has chickens
Load More Replies...I'm poor but I refuse to eat commercial mint jelly (too much sugar) and never with lamb. I make my own minty oil & vinegar sauce. Is this "reverse snobbery" ?? LOL
No, it's called "not eating s**t food on lamb" lol
Load More Replies...Oddly enough, that's common for poor people too. My in-laws have always been poor but if they get pork chops or lamb chops, they always have mint jelly. My FIL makes the jelly. I can't stand it, but the family likes it. It think it tastes like eating perfectly good meat with toothpaste on it but that's probably because I'm not used to it. I like my chops with just a pan sauce.
I have definitely bought some of that kids donated clothes. I might be wearing them right now.
Ok, when you have money like that, donating seems nice, but every single item? By force? I imaging it must be so stressful to buy that many new clothes so often. Also I would never find as much stuff that I like in one season. Even when money is not a topic that seems insane.
Wait, so they just do it... just because? I only get rid of clothes if they don't fit anymore or if they're too stanky
My boss has on a different outfit Every. Single. Day...for a year! Maybe a repeat jacket or shoe. My ass is playing mix and match with what I have to get through not even two weeks.
I am quite heavy on clothing and deodorant usually buggers the armpits over the years, so I usually throw out shirts after a couple of years. My jeans last longer, around 6 years, but then the knees have holes. Shoes I destroy, I only have one good pair which have lasted like 20 years (doc martens). The rest die within a year or so.
Buy two pairs of good shoes (doc martens) and alternate them, they will each last about three times as long as having one pair you wear daily.
Load More Replies...I had a friend who made it a thing to buy her winter coat each year (and decent ones are not cheap). I’ve been wearing this secondhand one for over 10…
Yeah I haven't used my passport in like four years. Sad. Totally get it, travel is expensive.
I don't even have one. Aside from expense, I just don't enjoy traveling.
Load More Replies...I think it depends on where you live in Canada maybe ? Almost everyone I know has a passport purely so we could cross the border to buy cheap clothes .. like I live an hour and a half from the border so people who live close to the border usually have passports as American things cost less , even with the exchange , although admittedly things haven’t been quite as cheap the last 7 or so years as our dollar hasn’t been worth much
It's a problem in the UK, if you don't drive (no driving licence) or go on overseas holidays (no passport) employers get really flustered about what you can do for ID and end up asking for 1 from "list A" and 2 from "list B".
Yeah, the last passport I had was when I was a kid. I needed it to move back to the US from Japan. I've never had one since because I can't afford to go anywhere where I would need one anyways.
We have two types of ID here, a passport and an ID card. The card is cheaper and allows travel around most of Europe and some other countries, the passport obviously allows travel everywhere. We can also use a driver's license as ID, but not always. It's not that weird to have a passport as ID alone. I guess this person has an ID card then?
So if you don't have a passport or a driver licence, what do you use? In Italy we have an Identity Card since 3 years old.
Where I live, if you don't drive, you can still get an ID card from the Department of Motor Vehicles. Generally, you'd get that sometime between ages 16-19. Earlier than that, you may have school IDs or if your family is military you may have a military ID, but minors rarely need ID. Only if you're driving or over 18 do you really need one.
Load More Replies...Even if I was rich, I am not going to a foreign country! Well, would love to see Canada!
No judgment! To each their own! But i am sad that i will never visit some countries that i have always wanted to see. I got to visit Mexico a few times in the 80s. It was beautiful, and the people were nice.
Load More Replies...I seriously do not understand the issue with living in an apartment. That's an American thing. In Germany basically everyone lives in an apartment. No one cares about buying a house. It's just not common.
i am american and i dont usually encounter this, its mostly just in the south
Load More Replies...Our house was foreclosed on and we moved to the only apartments in town so we could stay in the same school. My mom's bed was in the living room, but she decorated it well, wallpapered it herself, hung black and white photos she had taken, developed and framed... My friend in high school told me "I wish I lived here!" It was extremely sweet from a girl whose horses lived in her yard across the fence from their swimming pool.
I love how it's your fault that you weren't born into a rich family.
In our country (SA), there are a range of housing types which have different meanings. From top to bottom: Penthouse flat / Loft (richest) ; Mansion / Tuscan-style Manor (very rich) ; house (brick and tile): middle class or lower-middle, depending on suburb; "townhouse" or "cluster house" (small house in a security complex): young and middle class; "Flat" (apartment) in traditional block of flats (lower middle class: poorer). House in township: Old and poor. RDP house (small house with poor finishes, provided by government): Unemployed/poor. Shack: illegal immigrant / very poor. Here, because of apartheid, the suburb tells people your income. Apartheid designated specific areas for specific races and hence a suburb entails a race, to a large extent. If you say "Sandton" or "Camps Bay" it means you are very rich. If you say "Germiston" it means either lower middle class or poor.
Thank you for the explanation. I've always been curious about your country. I suspect i live in a "flat".
Load More Replies...Wtf is she asking you that anyway... Id say, "yes, the apartment is amazing compared to the shelter or the car..."
Kids were looking at their houses on Google Maps at school in about 4th grade. Daughter of a doctor commented on how small our house was. 🙄
In the US, "apartment" also refers to a rental in most areas, whereas an owned apartment is most often called a condo/condominium, so saying you live in an apartment usually means you're not a homeowner, which some people can get judgy about.
I would look a bit baffled, too, if I met someone going to a b&b only for one night.
I wouldn't be shocked about the one night business, just that they planned to go to work that very day. The AM before work is only for gloom and doom in my book.
Load More Replies...The first time I met someone at a B&B who was there for work I learnt a whole new aspect to how the world works too. That doesn't mean I'm rich (I can promise that isn't true).
Oh! The humanity. Dear God how does she find the courage to get dressed each day.
I pay outright by buying within my means. I have old cars.
Load More Replies...Fascinating. Here if you buy a car cash it is automatically assumed you are money laundering and/or are dirt poor (depending on the car). If you buy a fancy car cash, you trigger a financial investigation; if you are buying a lemon, no one blinks. So depends on the model. Normally here even rich people would buy on HP. So let me explain the reasoning. All cars are depreciating assets. If you are rich and want a status symbol, you'll buy on HP because the car depreciates. Say you use it for 1-2 years before replacing. In that time you have paid off maybe 40% of the car. BUT you can probably sell it for 60% of its sale price (ie the residual). So you effectively buy the fancy car for 40% of its price and pass the cost of the residual to the next buyer. More or less just like renting the car for a while. Really rich people won't buy a depreciating asset. Unless they're billionaires and it's not statistically significant in their portfolio, by "rich" here I mean millionaires. In my own case I buy the cheapest I can and write it off (sell for almost nothing) to ditch the responsibility, but only once it reaches about 5 years.
Here in the US, it only triggers an investigation if you buy it with actual cash currency. Any cash transaction over $10K requires a business to fill out a special form for the Internal Revenue Service (the federal agency in charge of collecting our taxes, investigating tax fraud, etc.) If you pay with a bank transfer or check, it doesn't trigger anything. People here often refer to "paying cash" when they simply mean they did not finance it. Not that they walked into the dealership with a stack of hundos.
Load More Replies...Depending on interest rates you might be well ahead to finance. If you are paying 5% on your car loan and earning 8% on your investments then taking out a loan earns you 3%.
Reminds me of that annoying interview question: dO yOu HaVe ReLiAbLe TrAnSpOrTaTiOn??
As reliable as public. Any complaints to the mayor, please
Load More Replies...My lower middle class mom volunteered rolling bandages during WW II. Next to her one evening was the heiress of the Branch’s candy fortune. At one point the woman looked over to my mom and said, “Dear, can you please tell me the time, they forgot to wind my watch this morning.”
If she's a goth I could imagine why she would find a beautiful sunny tropic resort lame. In other news rain is wet.
I went to St Lucia, the island, and I was so lucky to go, tbh it's so amazing and beautiful, I'm so grateful that I went
My bil just got engaged to a rich girl l. She loves all our new furniture and is getting allot of the same stuff for them (not even sure why as she had nice furniture B4 he moved in) thing is she is making him take out a loan to buy all this while mine is all second hand. I find this even more hilarious as her favorite piece is my grey loveseat I got at goodwill for $20
Why is she making him pay for it, when she’s the one who’s loaded?
Load More Replies...spoken from somebody who inherited their money ..... even the Robber Barons respected money and didn't like to lose any ....
Oh my let me tell you. Sadly they all closed in my state but you can still shop online. Charming Charlies was a store front for women that sold clothing, Purses and accessories, everything from jewelry to cute office stuff. Everything was pretty decent priced and quality. The absolute BEST part was everything was color coordinated. So if you needed a shirt or bag for an event and you needed...say green, you could find it in minutes. I friggin LOVED that store.
Load More Replies...one of my coworkers gets those expensive purses and feels like it's a deal when she gets one for $750. girl i bought mine at Target for $25. $750 is more than my mortgage payment!
While living in New York City after the Wall Street Crash, I was financially struggling and my friend got me a gig for a repeat client of his on Long Island.The job was to build a PowerPoint for the clients son for a school experiment. The experiment was this: in his father's office building he set up cameras that video taped the kid dropping $5 bill. His hypothesis was that rich people would give the money back to him and poor people would keep it because they are struggling and therefore less honest. I was supposed to build a PowerPoint that stated his experiment worked and clearly poor people did not return the money. The footage showed nothing of the sort, and was just crap all together. I politely tried to explain. Economic status doesn't translate into honesty, and that his assertions were offensive but he did not care. He was a rich brat and believe poor people were scum. There were so many things wrong with the whole situation.
Ha! How many people didn't recognize that scene from Karate Kid (original)???
Really? Didn't have a real life story and not creative enough to make one up, so you steal the theme of the movie "Karate Kid". Nice vetting @akilahgreen
*Rainier Wolfcastle leaning into the microphone* “That’s the joke.”
Load More Replies...I drive a run-down Fiat and because I can only afford to live in the suburbs 30km away she sometimes breaks down. My colleague who earns 5x my salary (and thinks his s**t don't stink even though we're equally educated) tells me that people who drive old cars shouldn't be allowed on the highway because breakdowns cause traffic jams and keeps important people from their work costing the country money. What an absolute c***.
I've had rich people surprised that I couldn't afford things, such as buying my wife a $600 dress or jetting to Las Vegas for a quick night of gambling. On the other side of the coin, I have little idea of what it's like not having access to potable water or sanitation. So, I guess, everybody has blinders on when it comes to the struggles of poorer people.
Definitely the most sensible comment I've seen so far. Although many are quite funny!
Load More Replies...One time a few people in my class were talking about where they were going on vacation and they said they were going to places like Spain, Greece, Norway etc. They asked me what country I was going to for vacation this year and I said "Um, well we're planning on going to the museum in [very nearby city]..." Then they made a face and started ignoring me.
well at least you know who isn't worth socialising with.
Load More Replies...When people ask, why I don't have a drivers license yet (pretty expensive here in germany, around 2000-3000€)...well, my parents are hardworking but also on almost minimum wage working people and I can't s**t gold either. 🤷🏼♂️ It's not that I don't WANT the drivers licence, finally. But I have to work for it and it will take me some months to get the money together.
Wow, that's a lot. That seems like a great way to prevent poor people from having reliable transportation to work. I know you guys have better public transportation than we do here, but I'm pretty sure our society would just fall apart if we did that in the US.
Load More Replies...Nothing about the US politicians saying "Just buy an electric car" when asked about the increased price of gas.
US politicians can somehow afford multi-million dollar mansions on a $250k annual salary. I'm pretty sure they're getting more money in kickbacks and bribes than their paycheck.
Load More Replies...One of my college roommates is an heiress. She couldn't understand why the other two of us couldn't just go skiing in Colorado one weekend (no notice...she just walked in and asked us if we wanted to go skiing) when we said we couldn't, she became visibly mad at us.
My boss overheard me talking about my three hour round trip commute and asked why I didn’t just move closer to work. The average rent in the area is $1500 a month for a studio and houses are $500k. I was making $15/hr.
I’ve worked for and with some stupidly rich folks, some more stupid than others but my favourite moment was accidentally knocking my Breitling watch on my directors Breitling watch at the bar in the hotel he owned, his words? ‘Jees Gav we MUST be paying you way too much money if you have one of those’, my reply ‘yeah my mate brought it home from Singapore, I think it was about 10 dollars’ he takes his off and compares the two, mine was a halfway decent copy but clearly not as robust or well honed as his, he replies ‘yeah my mate is in the England polo team, they get them FOC ‘cause they are sponsored by Breitling, really good of him to give this to me’. Yeah, that’s not wrong, your mate GIVES you a £7,000 watch for NOTHING, my mate charged me $10 for my knock off 😂😂😂
I struggled for years to try to get a college degree, mostly due to cost, and this was when they were a fraction of the cost they are now. And lost count of the number of people who thought I didn't have a degree because I was "lazy" with absolutely no concept that not everyone just gets their lives handed to them on a platter by their comfortably wealthy parents.
Someone whined to me about being so poor that he had to borrow €60000 from a family member. He genuinely didn't seem to understand that most people don't have relatives who can just hand them that sort of money out of their pockets.
I've had rich people surprised that I couldn't afford things, such as buying my wife a $600 dress or jetting to Las Vegas for a quick night of gambling. On the other side of the coin, I have little idea of what it's like not having access to potable water or sanitation. So, I guess, everybody has blinders on when it comes to the struggles of poorer people.
Definitely the most sensible comment I've seen so far. Although many are quite funny!
Load More Replies...One time a few people in my class were talking about where they were going on vacation and they said they were going to places like Spain, Greece, Norway etc. They asked me what country I was going to for vacation this year and I said "Um, well we're planning on going to the museum in [very nearby city]..." Then they made a face and started ignoring me.
well at least you know who isn't worth socialising with.
Load More Replies...When people ask, why I don't have a drivers license yet (pretty expensive here in germany, around 2000-3000€)...well, my parents are hardworking but also on almost minimum wage working people and I can't s**t gold either. 🤷🏼♂️ It's not that I don't WANT the drivers licence, finally. But I have to work for it and it will take me some months to get the money together.
Wow, that's a lot. That seems like a great way to prevent poor people from having reliable transportation to work. I know you guys have better public transportation than we do here, but I'm pretty sure our society would just fall apart if we did that in the US.
Load More Replies...Nothing about the US politicians saying "Just buy an electric car" when asked about the increased price of gas.
US politicians can somehow afford multi-million dollar mansions on a $250k annual salary. I'm pretty sure they're getting more money in kickbacks and bribes than their paycheck.
Load More Replies...One of my college roommates is an heiress. She couldn't understand why the other two of us couldn't just go skiing in Colorado one weekend (no notice...she just walked in and asked us if we wanted to go skiing) when we said we couldn't, she became visibly mad at us.
My boss overheard me talking about my three hour round trip commute and asked why I didn’t just move closer to work. The average rent in the area is $1500 a month for a studio and houses are $500k. I was making $15/hr.
I’ve worked for and with some stupidly rich folks, some more stupid than others but my favourite moment was accidentally knocking my Breitling watch on my directors Breitling watch at the bar in the hotel he owned, his words? ‘Jees Gav we MUST be paying you way too much money if you have one of those’, my reply ‘yeah my mate brought it home from Singapore, I think it was about 10 dollars’ he takes his off and compares the two, mine was a halfway decent copy but clearly not as robust or well honed as his, he replies ‘yeah my mate is in the England polo team, they get them FOC ‘cause they are sponsored by Breitling, really good of him to give this to me’. Yeah, that’s not wrong, your mate GIVES you a £7,000 watch for NOTHING, my mate charged me $10 for my knock off 😂😂😂
I struggled for years to try to get a college degree, mostly due to cost, and this was when they were a fraction of the cost they are now. And lost count of the number of people who thought I didn't have a degree because I was "lazy" with absolutely no concept that not everyone just gets their lives handed to them on a platter by their comfortably wealthy parents.
Someone whined to me about being so poor that he had to borrow €60000 from a family member. He genuinely didn't seem to understand that most people don't have relatives who can just hand them that sort of money out of their pockets.
