14 Life-Saving Tips You Might Not Know But Definitely Should, Shared By This Private Investigator
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Personal safety is something to take seriously. It’s important to take the right precautions. A recent Ipsos poll revealed that 84% of interviewed Americans are concerned about their online safety. Yet only 63% take time to regularly check their accounts to ensure it. Taking action to establish online security is as important as looking after yourself out in the open. In addition to that, it is essential to properly protect your home, too. The Pew Research Center uncovered that property crime is the most common type of felony in the US. There is no need for the kind of preparation you saw on Home Alone, however, some safety measures are definitely worth following.
TikTok user @jadeesavv is a private investigator who covers two of her interests—makeup and solving crime. In a few of her latest uploads, she shares tips on personal safety, from using reliable door stops and carrying self-defense equipment to proper handling of one’s social media accounts. Jade uses the platform to spread awareness about safety among her followers. Nearly 95k people follow her account on TikTok. Scroll down to find her insights and make sure you pay attention—you might learn something useful!
Bored Panda has reached out to Jade. She was kind enough to answer a few of our questions. Scroll down for our interview with her.
This private investigator discusses tips and precautionary measures to ensure your safety
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It is a door wedge. These are perfect for if you're traveling, especially if you're a female traveling alone. It has an alarm on it. So, you wedge it in the door. If somebody opens the door, the pedal goes down and sets an alarm off. You're alarmed that somebody is trying to enter the hotel room or the Airbnb that you're in, or your home. And these are absolutely great, you can buy these in packs of like 2, 4, or whatever. Here's a little photo of what that looks like in the door in case anybody needs the visual.
When asked how she decided to become a personal investigator, Jade shared: “I became a PI 6 years ago because my mom, dad, and brother are all PIs… Being the youngest in my family, naturally, it was my turn!”
In her videos, Jade emphasizes several simple yet crucial things to do around the house for safety reasons. These include locking the windows and the garage doors and closing the blinds. On TikTok, she also expands on using social networks without leaving a footprint that might potentially harm you.
“A nightly safety check should be turning on all exterior and porch lights, locking all doors and windows, and setting the alarm. I strongly advise everyone to have some sort of security camera system even as simple as a ring camera and make sure it's connected and running well before bed,” Jade advised Bored Panda readers.
I hope the moms don't come for me for this one, but stop posting your kids' school online. Just in general, it's not safe. But piggybacking off of what I just said, if I've gone to your work and you're not there, and I know that you pick up your kid from school and I know where your kid goes to school, my next stop is your kid's school. You're quite literally leaving a footprint, a pattern on the internet for people to find you and your kids.
And please don't personalise children's backpacks. Not safe in my opinion. I am a mam with 3 children.2 grown, and a toddler
Stop tagging yourself in places when you're still there. Save the photo or the video, post it after you've left. I can't explain how many times I've been sitting outside of somebody's house. I can't figure out why they're not there. Where are they at? Go to Instagram. They've tagged themselves at the café across the street, and sure enough, there they are. It's not safe to do. When you are out, stop leaving a footprint of where people can find you. Piggybacking off of that, don't tag places that you frequent. Don't tag your gym, don't tag the coffee shop that you go to every Tuesday at 2:00 PM. People can start understanding your patterns and your habits, and that's not good. You don't want people who don't know you to start to know you.
There's an easier way, however more hardcore to some - don't post on Instagram at all.
During the interview, Jade emphasized the three rules she lives by: “Rule 1. Never letting anyone know when you're home alone or out of town on vacation. Rule 2. Never posting my location in real time… I'll post the photo once I've left and if I want to tag the location, I'll do that then as well. Rule 3. Never be distracted or looking down at your phone when walking through a parking lot or parking garage. Always be aware of your surroundings.”
Jade’s videos about personal safety have been watched by millions of people already. TikTok allows users to upload content of up to 10 minutes long, which might not seem like a lot. However, this private investigator and other TikTokers manage to squeeze in plenty of information in just a few minutes. And some of it might be very helpful in times of danger!
Did you find Jade's tips useful? Maybe you have your own tips you’d like to share? Let our readers know in the comments!
If you're walking through a parking lot, please don't be looking down at your phone. Please, please, please make sure that you're aware of your surroundings. That's so, so important, especially when you're in big parking lots like a mall or Target or something like that. Always make sure that you have both hands free and just don't be distracted when you're in a parking lot. If you ever feel like someone is following you, drive straight to the police station. Don't go near your neighborhood. Don't go to your mom's house. Go straight to the police station. It'll spook whoever's following you, and if not, at least you're at the police.
My insurance company sent sound advice: Park where there's light. Before going to your car, have your keys ready. Have a quick look at the backseat nobody is there. Lock the doors as soon as you get into the car.
When you're going outta town for a week, don't post about it on social media. Don't tell the internet that your house is gonna be unsupervised for seven whole days while you're on vacation. It's very much giving Home Alone. It's very much giving McCauley Culkin. You're giving people an invitation to break into your home.
Here the police says it is a urban myth and that they havent seen any burglary connected to social media post. Cant rule it out, if anyone have a reliable source.
It may sound silly to some, but please lock your garage door. Please, it's another entrance into your home. Please make sure your garage door is locked.
Having one of these birdy alarms is great. You can attach it to your key chain. If you feel like you're in danger and you're in a public place, you hit the alarm. It makes a scene, everybody's looking, and it really can save your life.
Stop posting where you work on Facebook. Your aunt doesn't need to know you just got hired at the bank. Just call her and tell her that. If you're out at the bar and somebody thinks you're really cute, they find out your name, they find your social media, they don't know your address, but they know where you work. Now they can sit outside of your work and wait for you to come out. They can lurk in the distance and they can follow you home. And now they do know where you live.
I learned this the hard way in college, when FB was just beginning. Posted I worked at Subway, made a comment about working at the mall. Also had posted my phone number. Weird guy had a crush, kept calling me at 1am then showed up at my work. He waited over 30min while I was slammed with customers. Told me he got my info off of FB and he wanted to date. Super creepy vibes, turned him down and luckily he didn't go psycho. Took everything offline after that
I feel like I shouldn't have to say this but, unfortunately, I do. Stop leaving your blinds open. Close your blinds. When I go out on surveillance, I can see everything inside of your house. And I zoom in on my little camera and I can see what you're watching on TV. I can see everything. It's like a gold mine. Stop leaving your blinds open.
Yeah, but there must be some balance between safety and living in a dungeon.
Don't forget to lock your windows. We have a tendency to open our windows and then we'll close them and walk away. We forget to lock them. This leaves yourself really vulnerable for if people are walking around trying to look for open windows.
... Get some decend windows which lock automatically by simply closing it (search for Velux) . These sliding windows are designed to keep animal from breaking in, there are so many options to open them, it's insane you still use them.
I saw some comments saying, "I don't have a lock on my garage door" or "I'm a college student, what do you suggest for safety?"
A tool like this is great. Essentially it's a door stopper. You put it underneath the doorknob, and if somebody tries to open the door, it stops the door and doesn't allow anybody in. This is great even if you have a lock on your door. I love to use these on my front door as well, because you can never be too careful in this world. Here's a little diagram on how it works. You can see it has a stopper and it's sitting underneath the doorknob so nobody can open the door.
For my girlies, anything that looks inconspicuous but can be used as a weapon, I absolutely love.
This looks like a glittery lipstick tube, but it actually has a flashlight and a little zapper. It's multipurpose and it's great because it's inconspicuous and nobody would really know you had it on you. And I know that not everybody in every state is allowed to have these, but if you are, these are great to have.
Sadly zapping people will get you arrested in the UK, even if they are the perpetrators.
A tactical pen is always a good idea. It's quite literally a pen you can write with, but it also has multipurpose. It has a sharp end that can break glass. It has a flashlight and other uses as well.
This is another great option, especially if you're traveling. It's very compact, yet very effective. And it's again, just a kind of another variation of a door stopper.
Jade's TikTok followers appreciated the advice and shared their personal experiences
They also shared their own safety tips with their fellow TikTok users
For everyone saying move to a safer neighborhood or country, please understand it’s not a problem that’s exclusive to a geographical location, but an aberration in the human species. There are human predators everywhere, even in places deemed nice and safe. If someone is going to burglarize a house, they can steal better stuff in a high dollar neighborhood. If someone is going to attack someone, they look for the weaker members of the herd to prey on, like lions surrounding and isolating the slowest and weakest zebra from the rest of their herd. Hell, people are victimized by family members in their own homes, and are either not believed or it’s all hushed up and never prosecuted. What the article is saying is just don’t make a predator’s job easier.
No, just no. There ARE places, in rich AND poor/average countries where all this is completely crazy. Don’t make your broken society a global issue.
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Some of the personal safety measures seem ok but having a whole post about making your home a garrison seems like inducing irrational fear. Sure it's ok if you have a _reason_ to be more private but should everyone be afraid of someone watching you from windows with a camera? Also how about getting proper locks instead of gizmos trying to cover lack of them? Most of these could be covered with a little common sense.
Sometimes people are assaulted or attacked in their own homes by strangers though. It definitely happens.
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This person has never completed a private investigation in her life, unless you include stalking her best friend's new boyfriend online to see if he's legit. Looking at all her profiles and linktree links etc. shows absolutely no mention of anything PI related, except for her saying it in her bio. She sells a bunch of c**p online though. Just be careful who you listen to on the internet.
I'd estimate the number of genuine private investigators keen to post photos of themselves across social media and have everyone know what they look like at somewhere between none and zero - rather obvious given the nature of their work. I'd guess she's more an 'influencer' paid by various security firms to sell their gewgaws, as pictured above.
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For everyone saying move to a safer neighborhood or country, please understand it’s not a problem that’s exclusive to a geographical location, but an aberration in the human species. There are human predators everywhere, even in places deemed nice and safe. If someone is going to burglarize a house, they can steal better stuff in a high dollar neighborhood. If someone is going to attack someone, they look for the weaker members of the herd to prey on, like lions surrounding and isolating the slowest and weakest zebra from the rest of their herd. Hell, people are victimized by family members in their own homes, and are either not believed or it’s all hushed up and never prosecuted. What the article is saying is just don’t make a predator’s job easier.
No, just no. There ARE places, in rich AND poor/average countries where all this is completely crazy. Don’t make your broken society a global issue.
Load More Replies... Some of the personal safety measures seem ok but having a whole post about making your home a garrison seems like inducing irrational fear. Sure it's ok if you have a _reason_ to be more private but should everyone be afraid of someone watching you from windows with a camera? Also how about getting proper locks instead of gizmos trying to cover lack of them? Most of these could be covered with a little common sense.
Sometimes people are assaulted or attacked in their own homes by strangers though. It definitely happens.
Load More Replies... This person has never completed a private investigation in her life, unless you include stalking her best friend's new boyfriend online to see if he's legit. Looking at all her profiles and linktree links etc. shows absolutely no mention of anything PI related, except for her saying it in her bio. She sells a bunch of c**p online though. Just be careful who you listen to on the internet.
I'd estimate the number of genuine private investigators keen to post photos of themselves across social media and have everyone know what they look like at somewhere between none and zero - rather obvious given the nature of their work. I'd guess she's more an 'influencer' paid by various security firms to sell their gewgaws, as pictured above.
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